EXACTLY ! Happens all the time. Stay Single and Sane.

Marriage isn't even worth the risk today. These aren't wives out here. They marry just so they aren't bored today.

They marry just for the wedding day. You could be the perfect husband just like the example you brought up, but it's all about their happiness. If you walk away for a no-fault divorce, you deserve nothing! I'm not responsible for someone else happiness, just mine.

A friendly reminder that if you put your wife on a pedestal and treat her like she's the only one, she'll take your entire world with her when she leaves. Don't be afraid to be an a-hole sometimes, women love it and you won't be boring.

WTF!? 😮 My husband is far from perfect, but I damn sure wouldn't LEAVE him if he was - what kind of lunatic is this woman..???

Not if you calmly walk them along the conversation. They shut down the minute you get riled up though.

Referring to andrew? I agree. He has 0 brain.

Main question: "why would you do such a dumb thing?". People like Andrew do that on purpose to show everyone else what it looks like. But in real life if you want keep your brain and nerve cells intact you should never ever start a debate with a person like that

"It is usually futile to try to talk facts and analysis to people who are enjoying a sense of moral superiority in their own ignorance." -- Thomas Sowell

They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience 😂

and that they'd rather live with a 🐻 in the woods.

I do.

"women just don't like men that much" - Aaron Clarey

Women can say the dumbest shit and expect no pushback but once men say truth women hate it.

@@MrFreeman0179hahaha, that’s how you know we are too comfortable. They don’t even realize the bear will try to eat them as soon as they see em

And when they do discover their true self, she's well over 30 and unwanted. They should have stayed in bed.

It means to explore their options as much as possible before cashing out. Hypergamy in a nutshell

They never understand themselves anyway. Most women are the same person they were in high school. I get reminded of that whenever I meet up with my married friends.

Carmen Sandiego is for the streets across the world 💃🏻🌍

And of course "yourself" is trapped within the balls of 100's of strange men lol

Because feelings.

That has never ever been a problem for either feminist, the woke, or leftists in general.

Shame, blame, and the need to be right.

Only a woman

​@@michaelanderson9914 People who have ADHD tend to do this too.

That usually means that he was "too nice". This is objectively viewed as a weakness due to the function of what nice actually is. Nice is good because she can gain benefit from it, but too nice is bad because other people can also gain benefit from what "should be rightfully" hers. What she's basically saying is (please see the translation below) that she liked him as a friend, but they just weren't compatible. *Translated common womanesse phrases:* Fun = $3x Needs = Anything and everything that's necessary for a given particular lifestyle. Support = money, services, and things that solve needs (needs such as hunger, lack of vehicle, broken equipment, homecare work not being accomplished, etc...). *Nice* = A person that's good to use for support (food, rides, repairs, lawn care, etc...), because they prioritize other people's needs over their own needs. Mean = Not Nice "Ambition and drive" = a supportive feature that's developing, that would be nice to have in my life. @55hole = Someone that's interested in having fun, and may even be a bit mean. *Friends* = nice people that help give you support in your current lifestyle. "I am the table" = I am the center of my life. And if I don't place myself at the center of my life, no one will. I don't need to "bring something" in order to justify my own survival. *"We're not compatible"* = I don't see you as a good source for meeting my needs... past, present, or in the future. You're not a good fit for me.

​@@tygon13 Dude, were do you get these??🤣🤣

@@akhilmurali4008 honestly? I've been researching Intersexual Dynamics (related topics) and linguistics for the last 5 years or so. And much like how linguists were able to piece together the reconstructed language family tree known as PIE (Proto-Indo-European), I've been taking notes and piecing together the actual de facto meanings to several words and phrases commonly used. This actually just started as an interesting little side project on top of my research. But, it seems quite useful in conversations like this. What I posted here isn't all of my translations, just a few of them that are necessary for this thread, lol.

@@tygon13 i do think these are some real meaning of their phrases. 👍

@@akhilmurali4008 lol, TY. I'm not actually "done" with the list, so words and phrases can still be changed if I find that they're inaccurate. But, if you're interested, here's my current full list. 😅 *Translated common womanesse phrases* [*Please be aware of the "Elephant and the rider" issue]: life = Intimate partner (My life = My significant other) Lifestyle = One of the many variable environments of which a life creates by the way it behaves. Exciting = New and different Single = No life (claimed as your own). [She has decided that she wants to test out and pursue an exiting lifestyle.] Experiences = lifestyles that create (positive) feelings (and adds to her collection of knowledge). Judgment = a lifestyle that creates negative feelings "It wasn't my fault" = Don't judge me. It was the lifestyle that led to it. Travel = Exciting experiences Fun = S3x Naughty = Exciting fun Boring = Lacking in exciting experiences. "Find myself" = Find a different lifestyle that's exciting, fun, and maybe even a little naughty. "Free Spirit" = A woman finding themselves through exciting behaviors and experiences. Time &/or space = Wanting to find herself because her life is boring. Healing/self improvement (self care) = Taking some time to find yourself and becoming more of a free spirit, so that you can have an improved and better life. Needs = Anything and everything that's necessary for a given particular lifestyle. Support = money, services, and things that solve needs (needs such as hunger, lack of vehicle, broken equipment, homecare work not being accomplished, etc...). Nice = A person that's good to use for support (food, rides, repairs, lawn care, etc...), because they prioritize other people's needs over their own needs. Mean = Not Nice "Ambition and drive" = a supportive feature that's developing, that would be nice to have in my life. @55hole = Someone that's interested in having fun, and may even be a bit mean. Friends = nice people that help give you support in your current lifestyle. "I am the table" = I am the center of my life. And if I don't place myself at the center of my life, no one will. I don't need to "bring something" in order to justify my own survival. "We're not compatible" = I don't see you as a good source for meeting my needs... past, present, or in the future. You're not a good fit for me. "I had no choice" = In order to get/maintain/have my needs met, I had no better option. * [Respect = a display of submission to the will or desires of another. One respects, or pays respect to dominance.] "I don't like drama" = I don't like it when others disagree with me. (IE. I will cause drama and blame you for it, if we hold contrary views or are in disagreement about anything.) Funny/Makes me laugh = Socially Charismatic. Capable of balance, and blending of the relative respect levels of the self and others within a social network. (Good potential for resource acquisition and social stability) Rude = Disagreeable or Contrary language or behavior, without first proving worth to act in a dominant social position. I.E. One is rude if you take a dominant stance, but do not garner respect. Creep/Creepy = a guy that's attempted to put forth his own sexual will and desire, without first proving worth to enact his sexual will upon her. IE. One is creepy if you take a dominant sexual stance, but do not garner respect. "It's not what you say, but how you say it" = You have been found to be rude or creepy, and you must demonstrate your ability to be funny and make people laugh. "Tired of all the FBoys" = Mean @55holes no longer choose me to have fun with. "Looking to settle down/for something serious" = (Consciously) Looking for a nice guy in my life. (Consciously) Looking for someone that is supportive, nice, and respects me. "Know your value/Know your worth" = Believe in and have confidence in, your right to have your needs met to survive, and your ability to evaluate the world to achieve this. Lies/(liar) = (a life or lifestyle who has lied.) Falsehoods that you once believed, before becoming disillusioned. Any sign or symbol that you've interpreted, that you believed meant one thing, but in actuality the reality is different.

The tactic.

I would have a hard time staying calm debating a guy from the 18th century and I say this as a successful man, married for 30 years

She eventually leaves too some women were calling her out on talking too much babble.

True. Typical behavior

"The problem isn't that Johnny can't read. The problem isn't even that Johnny can't think. The problem is that Johnny doesn't know what thinking is. He confuses it with feeling." ~ Thomas Sowell

"It is usually futile to try to talk facts and analysis to people who are enjoying a sense of moral superiority in their own ignorance." -- Thomas Sowell

​@@joshhoodrat451 now replace "Johnny" with "women"

AGREED. Women have very little intellectual and economic value. They need to prove themselves worthy of the ring with exactly those 2 things considered

Well, ignorance is bliss.... religion is not a shield and faith is not a virtue.

exactly

​@@djjukeboxhero6491And rocks don't magically come to life.

Misery loves company

They are!! And all they have to do is repent and submit to God, but they won't do it. That word "submit" is like the word "accountability".

Had to learn this growing up

Not as dumb as her.

Without them I'd be blind like a mole.

No you’re smart enough with that statement

@@kevinmbangue9226 I agree!

This is so sad 😭 kids are abused in divorce

Women love eff men ism more than men. That's the center.

Women love f_menism more than they love men. Easy to see.

It's sad that incels think restricting freedom for women is the right answer

@ryanrogers8211 yup my little boy cries at night sometimes because he misses his mom, who left me for another “man”. Marriage is about fidelity and duty. You should not get to leave because of feelings. You should not deny your partner intimacy, either.

RIP KS

Yes. Yes he did 👍🏻

Yeah, people owe it to their children to try everything to maintain a nuclear family. Many miss this .

⁠@@BobJone-ve7igWOMEN owe it since WOMEN are the ones that file for divorce.

Men sign up for life with marriage...but the laws are against us

Divorce is child abuse? Is OP a bot?

Yes I agree it is awful. It is abuse to a spouse who doesnt want divorce, too. I wanted so badly for my wife to love me back. Love is a decision, not a feeling.

I agree. If anything its the other way around. A woman is suppose to make her husband happy.

It’s called codependency and it’s been pushed through the “happy wife happy life” nonsense. The day I realized that I couldn’t make my wife happy and it wasn’t my responsibility either was when our marriage began to grow.

"you cannot have high level conversations with Women" That is common sense on most parts of the world and was here in the US until the past couple decades.

I've noticed this as well. When a higher level subject us brought up, the women are down in the weeds making the man explain everything. If it's another man, they just understand one another and move on.

@@user-ff8rs7gk6r it is quite literally a waste of time, we dont have anymore time. the men are the adults in the room, you cant waste time trying to explain your finances, or family decisions to little children while you are stuggling to pay your bills. our countries are quite literally in free fall. You have to just DO, and they will have no choice to go along with it. The founders would be sick, seeing the amount of power women we defer to them, they have NO REAL power. we are all suffering because of being "nice"

@@user-ff8rs7gk6r sorry little Mary, I cant buy you the candy from the gas station, because I only have enough for GAS! CRY & SCREAM ALL YOU WANT, but we gotta GET HOME!

I've heard it said "A woman is eager to be a bride but has no concept of what it is to be a wife."

Yeah, they want to be married, but they don't want to be wives.

Not all of us. I'm a fucking awesome wife!

And I couldn't have cared less about my wedding. I mean.. I was excited to marry my husband, of course, but the rest? Gown, cake, flowers, etc. Got the cheapest I could find. Good food. Good family and friends. Lots of alcohol. That's all you need. The rest is bullshit. We've been married 20 years and we're still best friends!

@@ljb8157 That's good news. I'm glad someone is still doing it. I fear that nowadays, girls growing up are not taught what's needed in a marriage, for them to be wives. Then, when they do decide to marry, they too often find they haven't the skills or habits to make a family home.

Very good point sir.

100%

@@user-qx3uu7sq2rantidepressants are chemical poisons

I mean, she was never married in the first place. She doesn't even have a relationship, what makes her think she's experienced enough to argue on that with a person who is in an actual marriage...

The husband treating them well doesn't equate to them still being in love with them. The reality is people change and sometimes fall out of love with one another. There's nuance. We should avoid trying to brush all situations with the same stroke in an effort to demonize women.

@@SergMilli Nobody is demonizing women. Pointing out bad behavior is valid. The point is women leave because of convenience.

Excellent breakdown of that topic. Women assimilate to cultural norms just like how they assimilate easier into a classroom setting & social circles. It’s all connected.

@@XmarkedMySpot Thank you. Marriage has to extend beyond petty romanticism or it's simply doomed to failure

Sailer's law of feminism... It's all self interest. The ones that wouldn't make happy, loyal, fulfilled wives are the ones making those points you mentioned because it seems advantageous to them to change society to fit their dysfunction

Where is this mythical "Christian Community" located?

Feminism was created to destroy Christianity, specifically the Catholic Church. To achieve that goal their goal is to destroy a pillar of Christianity, the family.

I disagree. Adultery should be illegal, and pre-nups should be mandatory

Too many people incapable of managing themselves…

​​@@kevinnorris6157 Why on earth should the government have any say In matters concerning the private lives of individuals? Yes, adultery is wrong but the government should have zero say in the matter. This is a matter between two adults who should handle it privately. I don't understand why people are so desperate to hand over control of their private affairs to the government like the government has ever cared for anything but it's own personal interests.

​@@Dami-dm5sjAdultery should be a capital offense.

@@Dami-dm5sj Thank you. A reasonable man

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Disgusting

I knoooow. Idk how he does it.

He definitely is. I used to smoke cigarettes 2011-2020. The one he smokes after this pod is going to feel like a blunt😂😂

@@CrookedJoeBidenor he has a patch or nic pouch in

Justifying/rationalizing her own decision to take mind-numbing drugs rather than honestly confront her problems.

Exactly, while women are proven to NOT be rational.

💯 no truer words has been spoken.

Can't get here soon enough!

Shes probably already drinking the box wine everyday. :)

guys are too thirsty man. she may not get her dream guy but she will not be alone

No woman on earth is happy.

lol

Shhh can't say that out loud lol

(((THEY))) will NEVER stop. An angry ex-artist was handlin it for us. Perhaps we judged him too soon n too harshly.

@@Namaste19. I'm Asian, so it's okay. :D

I used to have a good friend who started dating a Jewish woman 3 years ago. I hardly see him or have contact with him anymore. She has total control of him.

You just described every debate with a female ever.

Its a womans nature to be evasive, obtuse, and untethered.

That is closer to the hedonistic definition which is unlimited selfishness as opposed to the eudaimonic definition of happiness which is one of holistic well-being based on duty and virtue.

Brian won't and doesn't care as long as his channel gets attention. Luckily Myron is not that tolerant to put up with their behaviour.

She is a "tiny little child" and maybe that's the reason to why she's a pain to the world and beyond.

Treating them "right" is where most men make their first mistake with women. I had to figure it out the hard way but these days young guys have this stuff to help guide them. Its truly a great time to be a man.

Very accurate. Who said this?

@@ElonMuskrat-my8jyIf I say exactly WHO said this YT will remove it, BUT a very famous WOMAN in history, a nurse observed these traits repeatedly in battle fields and hospitals and in public in general. She was disgusted with women.

@@jim-ce5kt Florence Nightingale. Was that really so hard to name her?

She seems more tolerable and chill than the shrill, triggered feminist spewing her insecurities across the table

Even with Andrew the last one with Daisy was unlistenable.

The Christian community also believes its bad to eat shellfish

​@@HughMorristheJokerYou're confusing Jews with Christians.

​@@HughMorristheJoker the old testament is not the new...

WHAT Christian Community???

Congratulations! I agree, it’s no longer about a deep, emotional connection between two people. It’s about ‘what do I get’. It’s very sad that marriage has been so devalued some believe a handbag is worth more… 👍🏻

You're missing out

Congrats, that sounds ideal. I think many people end up deeply regretting letting their innocence be stolen from them in their teenage and young adult years.

​@@HughMorristheJoker Missing out on what exactly? And How so? Wait, let me guess, "The grass is always greener on the other side" innit?

​@@HughMorristheJokerThat's exactly what women say when trying to shame their friends into being promiscuous like them.

You're living the dream. Don't take it for granted. It's getting harder every year for the next generation to find a suitable wife with all this modern messaging wrecking women's attitudes towards men and the world in general.

@@MMAVoodoo I’ve been divorced and lost it all. Once you have gone down that road gratitude isn’t something you forget.

They don't know. It's just one of many slogans they have been programmed to spew out.

Finding out how many sausages can fit in their fronthole.

Finding the "highest value" partner that they can get out of all their options. (Looks,skills in bed status, money etc.)

Wow. Bullseye. Our grandmothers and grandfathers thought that "happiness" was for children on Christmas day. Adults guided their lives by a sense of duty, by serious commitment to each other in "sickness and in health", etc. It wasn't that they lived joylessly, they didn't, but, they prioritized duty to other people. These women are all about themselves and nothing else.

​@@kansashoneybadger7899That is closer to the eudaimonic definition of happiness which is opposed to the common hedonistic definition of happiness which is unlimited selfishness.

You must know my ex-wife

Then they weren't successful

She's jewish.

She’s just trying to avoid discussing that.

Or woman.

"It is usually futile to try to talk facts and analysis to people who are enjoying a sense of moral superiority in their own ignorance." -- Thomas Sowell