Thanks for the kind words. If you’re interested in hearing more of what I have to say, just launched my own channel with content coming every Thursday. Appreciate you all ✨

“What is right is not always popular and what is popular is not always right.”

All these interviews show how crazy human beings are. I never cease to be amazed. Reality is truly stranger than fiction.

I dated a girl like this, it didn’t last long she was incredibly damaged and had an inability to have a normal relationship.

I enjoyed this one, there are a lot of unsure, damaged people in the community that are hard to even have conversations with, she was a breath of fresh air.

I think this is the first person I’ve heard discussing this type of lifestyle and relationship structure that I didn’t think was completely out of touch with themselves. She’s so honest and open. It’s a lifestyle that isn’t for me but I understand her viewpoints and I actually respect her a lot. Great interview.

I can hardly make my own lunch. This life sounds exhausting.

Thanks for taking the time and sharing these documentaries

Your series is the best interview sessions I have ever seen or heard. You dig deep into the background and bring it home. Love it. Thanks

Me being 19 years old and never even held hands with a boy…. This is crazy. We are in two different worlds.

Honesty and acceptance make such a huge difference.

"Sticking it to all the men" by giving them exactly what they want? I don't understand tbis.

Mark, I really appreciate the questions you asked her near the end of the interview, as well as all of your questions. They’re always thoughtful, not slanted one way or another, but they really emphasize the truth, or at least help lead the interviewee to discover their own truth. It’s always interesting to hear people speak on their own deviant/alternative lifestyles, but there is something to be said about how those choices impact them long-term. As someone who is happily married in a traditional family structure with kids, stability, practicing sacrificial love, etc, it can be difficult to imagine a lifestyle like Barbie’s. Thank you for shining a spotlight on these stories.

Really refreshing interview. I can definitely appreciate people that make it a point to be open about topics that many of us are so closed off about that we can’t even share them with our partners. Especially in a culture that‘a so repressed, seeing people that casually talk about their desires for the world to see makes me feel like I can definitely at least begin taking steps to expand my own sex life beyond what I’m comfortable sharing with other people. Great interview. Barbie seems like a really cool girl.

Mark added the best response to this !! When love hits you it’s a miracle and this kind of sex is just mindless after awhile !!! Wow !!! I didn’t expect him to say that but super proud of his maturity and insight !! Best comment- ever !!!

Hi Mark I really like your channel is very informative and give me insight on things that goes on around me because I'm not an outside person but also it helps me to teach my ndchildren about what going on in the world I truly believe what you're doing will bring a great impact for the younger so much has changed from the time I just watched your interview Your interview I was so happy to see you for the first time I love the questions that you asked it was good to hear about your parents did a wonderful job keep up the great work you're doing just know that your labor is you're giving so many people a voice I can meet you have a great I commend you have a great year

In my opinion, I rather find a lifelong relationship to explore my kinks & fantasies together ❤

A key point of this interview happened at the beginning. When she spoke about high school she stated that it’s when she became “confident”… now it is all to often, especially for women that when they gain attention that is based on sexual attraction it gives feelings of validation that they may not have had before. It’s then very common that their brain will mistake the feelings of validation for confidence and self esteem. Now the issue with that is that it is like a drug and can become addictive and you need a constant fix and they end up “chasing that high” which leads to a constant progression that can be self destructive. Now that’s just a quick run down of some basic human development that may or may not apply to her.

Hi Mark. The platform is always interesting. Keep going. Get as many people interviewed as possible❤

Mark must deliver a very cool vibe as the interviewee is delivering their info. He is able to give each participant their platform; and I'm sure one or the other has met his own interests. Very professional as is evidenced by the participant never showing they are "getting a reaction" from the interviewer. It is the gold standard of a great interviewer. Thanks Mark!

Mark did a phenomenal job with the questions, the interpretation of her statements!

“We should embrace whatever feels good always”. If people lived by this advice, they’d die real quick. Smdh

She comes across as so kind and non judgemental.

I am obsessed with her! Probably my favorite interview so far

My dime store psychology: when she said her parents were a ‘power couple’, I got the feeling her parents were out there being that ‘power couple’ and probably didn’t give these girls the attention they needed. She also said at one point about voyeurism…. “I like to be seen”. Yup… she didn’t get enough healthy attention growing up, I bet.

Even with the abilities we gain in adulthood to realize, interpret, and sometimes to act upon our sexual desires, that aspect of our humanity remains so mysterious to most of us (and yes - count me among the baffled). Even in a day and place that is relatively open in this regard, the bravery required to willingly and honestly discuss our sexuality (individually with our partner or in an interview that will by seen by many) is relatively uncommon. Respect to Barbie Jean for sharing and to Mark for another brilliant interview.

You’re a beautiful, kind soul. I’m picking up lack of boundaries at a young age. I’m curious about Kink and BDSM but I also know now exchanging energies can get hairy. It all sounds like a high. Always interesting and more power to your power of choice. Take care of you Barbie. ☺️ ❤️🌹🌈

Excellent interview. Well done Mark. Even though the topic was very sexual, the interview itself was not sexual. You strove to understand her perspective. And you invited and even challenged her to open up and be very candid about the downside of the her lifestyle. And took this from simple fantasy to reality. I was also impressed with her ability to talk so candidly and naturally about things that many people would be at a minimum shy about. She described acts and used so many “naughty” words so naturally like she was describing tying her shoes. This gave her a lot of credibility I thought.

Great interview. Mark is quite the professional. He asked some tough quizative and probing questions. Barbie Jean was so authentic and forthright. She really reflected back honestly. Really refreshing and liked how she has grown from her experiences.

Love how concise her answers were. Not evasive like others where I leave having no clue what they were getting at. I wish I would have explored this side of me prior to marriage.

Idk Mark, I mean, this was a great interview as always, excellent top notch investigative work and also entertaining...a topic so many are too shy, embarrassed, ashamed if not prudish about, to deal with for themselves, in their own life, even just to hear others talking about it especially of course even more so witnessing, living, participating in, and confidently enjoying THE LIFE; meaning and resulting in you, then, having captured at least a little bit magic here in this video recording, however... And maybe it's just ME! But, at least a couple times during the interview, you seemed at least slightly, a teeny wee BIT, over your head! LmMFaO!!! ;) :P :o)

I used to be part of this community before I made some serious life changes. One thing I noticed is almost everyone was a broken person at their core. There was a lot of confusion in all areas of life, and not one wad truly fulfilled or happy. I have since changed my life, sober, on the right track, and found fulfillment in God. Let me repeat i never met one single complete, well rounded, and psychologically healthy person in my old fetishist life. I pray she finds the path I did in a monogamous marriage and family.

Curious to see how she feels about it when she’s 65

This is an amazing interview I must say 🙌

If you always do what "feels good", you may find your destination is a place you don't want to be. Having boundaries will result in a greater happiness. Good luck.....

Incredible interview!!!! The level of humanity you bring to the people you talk to is unreal!! Thank you for what you do. 🙏🏻

It’s never about pleasure, it’s never just sex. This reality needs to sink in at some point.

"It's all about me, and my pleasure." She is a red flag. Run.

Amazing to hear so many stories from people who are so different from me. Really interesting to see a bit of how they think.

Just me still over here happily waving my vanilla flag. The more I learn about what all is out there in this world, the happier I am to stay in the one horse town in which I live with my husband of nearly 40 years. He was my first sexual partner and probably my last. We have a good time with each other… no need for anyone else to join. Even after all this time, he still consumes my thoughts. I don’t disparage anyone else for doing whatever they want, but true happiness for me has been found by loving one man through the good and the bad. Tfs your story Barbie Jean and God bless you.

Another amazing interview Mark I tell people about soft white underbelly all the time I would say get 60% of the people already know your channel and then the other 40% end up getting hooked on this channel because the interviews are amazing

I retired from the kink world nearly a decade ago and this sounds exhausting. I do not miss it. It honestly sounds like she's self soothing, particularly when she spoke about masturbation.

the pole-dancing story with her twin was really, really sad. it sucks she considers that a good story.

Her voice is shaking

Great job Mark.. ..on keeping the AC turned down really low.🤭

What a wonderful person, so confident in her skin and able to talk openly about what makes her happy. Would love to have a friend like this, my friends are so reserved and afraid to say how they really feel.

Fascinating. I went to club in LA called the Torture Garden where lots of BDSM was going on-but you weren't allowed to smoke. This was my 'torture boundary', so I left.

On the surface she tries to seem happy, but you can hear it in the subtle voice cracks/breaks that something is missing in life. The older she gets she may not be so happy. I hope she finds what she's really looking for. Sex isn't life.

I’d like to interview her in 10 years and see how she feels about this lifestyle .

Love this. It takes me back to the good old days. 👍

Just me I guess (Married to the same lady for 54 years) = I feel that there is a train wreck coming here sometime in the future. Hope she has a soft landing.

I could not imagine watching a sibling having sex .

What a unique and phenomal thing for her to find her thing. It need not look ok to anyone else. She's owning it and loving life! ✨ 💜 ✨

You can be the most vanilla human being and her passion can still awaken something in you

The honesty and transparency of this free-spirited woman is uncanny and the interview is just phenomenal. Well done!!

Barbie, i love people too and always find myself absolutely fascinated by others and their interests. I appreciate your time here and in your new channel! Thank you for your time, your love, and your heart. You're truly a light in a dark place.

I feel what she's saying about sadism. That shit fucks me up, and I'm a straight guy, so people have *asked* me to do it. I don't know what it is, but I just can't ever bring myself to slap or abuse someone. Like, I feel like a complete shitbag of a person every time someone asks to be hit. And then when I deny it because it makes ME uncomfortable, they say I can't be dominant or that I'm too submissive of a person. That shit just pisses me off. I don't hit people, because if I'm hitting someone, I want them to suffer. I don't hit someone that I love and respect, I just can not make myself do it. So hearing about her experiences with sadists (especially ones that don't ask permission) being not particularly great, it makes me feel a little bit better as a human knowing that not everyone is seeking physical abuse for sexual stimulation. I can't judeg someone for enjoying something necessarily, but I'm allowed to have my own boundaries too - and being asked to be physically violent is a hard boundary for me. I'm just glad to know that there are some really kinky people out there that have a similar boundary, it makes me feel more desirable and more desired as a person by my partner when we share those kinds of boundaries. Anyway, I'm off my soap box. Hope the best for her, she seems like a kind person.

Mark is, unlike in many interviews of his that I’ve watched, actively listening and genuinely interested 👀

Mark isn’t wrong at all.. They only want you for one thing, that’s facts… it’s not about energy or zodiac signs , WAKE UP!! The story about Her friend stopping a man from penetrating her at a party is the saddest thing I’ve ever heard.. she’s so delusional..

She sure has no problem reminding people that she thinks that she’s attractive.

I love Marks open distain he jokingly replies with

Dear Mark I love how people like to criticise you for "exploiting" people Who wouldn't like to share their life stories and how it has effected their lives and shaped them to be who they are today. It highlights and shines a light on the realities/struggles we all face in life Keep up the great work Sir!

I absolutely respect this work, and i am incredibly impressed of Mark’s humility and interview style, the idea of allowing people to express themselves so freely…this exchange showed me a massive appreciation, and endless respect for Mark, the moment he said “LOVE IS A MIRACLE, THERE IS NOTHING ELSE LIKE IT “.As empathetic as I perceive Mark to be, and non judgemental, to a fault in my opinion…it seemed to me that while refreshing to hear someone speak so candidly speak of this he could not hold back the desire to share the MIRACLE OF LOVE, moreover the attachment to someone at a level unknown to those whom have not yet experienced it. I wish nothing but happiness for this girl, and truly hope she finds LOVE.

Great video!Thank you for you story❤

Very interesting video Mark! You may consider raising your camera higher, at least eye level ,it would make a more flattering video of the subject!

She's approx seven years away from feeling hopeless

‘And we kissed’ that really showed them men haha. So empowering

It amazes me how far off track people can go when you remove judgement from the equation. The lessons that heavy handed reality dolls out tend to not affect the hot ones for much longer than the rest of us mere mortals. Lets hope that the shock she gets in the future isn't too much to bear.

I had a relationship with someone who is into very similar fetish, the problem was she thought it was totally normal to indulge in things i felt was kind of weird , my point is its not for everyone .

She literally said she'd drop all of this instantly if her partner wanted to be monogamous. Pretty telling on what she actually wants.

"When love hits you, it's a miracle".....yes and it can really hurt too!

Confidence with articulation seems to be key in not only self-delusion, but especially in enlisting enablers (i.e., a community to feel "safe" in). Not a condemnation by any means. As a single fella in Los Angeles, I celebrate this modern trend/tendency in the younger generations to delude/convince themselves that promiscuity is empowering. Yes, kids...yes, ladies...it certainly is. By all means, keep it up. I'll see you on the other side.

I actually see this as a sad intimacy disorder. She begins to reveal this at various parts of the interview, especially when talking about adrenaline and essentially the addiction to it. This is a coping mechanism to protecting herself from being hurt in the most intimate areas of a relationship. This isn’t refreshing, this is sad. What about the perfect power couple parents to the sexualized underage twins with early sexualized experiences…that onion was never unpeeled. Good questions asked, Mark. She’s intelligent and it seems she knows something’s wrong about this but denial is holding her back from recognizing and seeking help. She is worth so much more than the lifestyle within which she has chosen to imprison herself.

Damn Mark, if there was ever a true professional-you’re it brother. I wish more people could be as real as her and more people could sit across from said person and keep total composure.

The BDSM community is what opened her up. As soon as she said, "Fetlife," that explained everything. I'm well versed in that life. Sure, people want to be open and free, but they do not because it's not wise. There are risks involved. Not that there aren't protocols to follow to better ensure a desirable outcome, but the unknown is just that. The risk of disease is heightened in that lifestyle as well. I'm glad she was open about the reaction to a polyamorous lifestyle. No one can successfully live that way. People claim they can or do, but it's fiction. It causes chaos. Open relationships are chaotic. It sounds nice in theory, but it causes anxiety and confusion. Even with proper communication and being on the same page, anxiety presents itself. Ultimately, relationships go sour prematurely. I'd like to see an update to this woman's life in 10 years. That's another interesting element to these situations. Women begin losing desirability once they enter their forties. The community categorizes these women differently as well. There were numerous communities within Fetlife in the early to mid 2000s that were inclusive to women ages 35 and below. Now, they may have changed in the last several years due to the cultural demand for all inclusivity, but I don't see a demand being there for bottoms/sub/slaves. The reason for a follow up is to see how she feels about the community once on the other side. Will she feel that she was taken advantage of, used, and where will her self esteem land? It'd be fascinating to know considering she's emotionally healthy and doesn't come from an abused background. She's definitely a good study case. Thanks for sharing your story, Barbie. Be safe out there. Keep God close. Much love to you.

Balance and perspective is important. From one extreme to the other, is not always the best route in life. Either way, this was an interesting interview.

She thinks she found the love of her life who’s sleeping with multiple women? Oh boy…

Of course she has an identical twin sister.

I happy for her looks like she’s happy and comfortable and Bravo to her. But I think while this may work for this individual but that line she spoke essentially “I think you should indulge in whatever feels good as much as you want” this would be a disaster for the majority of people. Knowing what you like and exploring to truly figure out who you are but self discipline and practicing moderation is vital. Discipline=freedom.

Everything. And I do mean everything that’s off center with a person, can be dialed back to childhood

Great Interview. Thank you for your openness. And Marc for asking profound questions. I really enjoyed watching this.

It’s crazy how people will justify sexual deviancy as virtuous somehow

The whole time I'm watching this I can hear the 'Church Lady' in my head saying, "Well isn't that special." 😆

She is wonderful! Have her back!

This is something i'll never understand... i guess that's a good thing. Thanks for the video.

It sounds great, but this type of lifestyle always ends up consuming these people. They will always chase the euphoria but eventually realise that it's just emptiness at the end of the day. There is nothing that can give a person meaning and contentment than a monogamous relationship. It's not just about sex.

She thinks she is free but she's not. She's a slave to her own passions.

I really enjoyed listening to this woman. Very liberating to hear her living her own life, being so in touch with her sensations. Strikes me as as a delicate and open being living this hardcore style of life. I wonder how her lifestyle will evolve as she gets older. Wish her the best.

She sounds like every bar/restaurant worker in a major city lol

Good grief. If I ever heard my daughter say some guy "didn't ask my consent before he slapped me" I would know that I failed as a father.

I live a life similar to her. In the end the only thing it brought me was loneliness

Mark are you from Lombard? Lived not to far away in Lisle. Didn’t know you were from Illinois 😊

I never understood the fascination with wanting to sleep with twins thats literally participating in incest.

She is a sweet woman but you can sense a lot of pain within her. Sadly, so much of that comes with that lifestyle. I hope she finds peace.

I love how all of the psychologists come here and share their evaluations with us.

Best test of safety glasses I've ever seen.

this is fascinating for me because even though I've liked to try all of this stuff out, I also find myself feeling disgusted being with most people because im just not attracted to most ppl

Very informative... sharing with people AND did have this thought being an old dude, "Each generation thinks it invented sex; each generation is totally mistaken. Anything along that line today was commonplace both in Pompeii and in Victorian England; the differences lie only in the degree of coverup - if any." Robert A. Heinlein

Sex and sexuality are not the 'end', and unfortunately for many like Barbie, it seems to be.

She's so refreshingly open and gorgeous too