Finding Balance (and opening up on a personal level)

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Personal message: When it comes to material things, sometimes we realize it’s all too much, and we eventually feel suffocated and overwhelmed and need to purge or downsize. Other times, we’re fully enjoying these material items and yet we inflict guilt and judgment upon ourselves for owning nice things. It’s as if we can’t let ourselves be content either way.
In past videos, I’ve talked about being mindful of shopping habits, about decluttering and letting go, and making smart money choices with saving and investing. I’ve also talked about gratitude and simply enjoying all that we already have versus looking for more, more, more.
But we don’t have to keep swinging from one side of the extreme to the other. Meaning, we don’t need to go full on maximalism and buy everything we see that looks cool, new or trendy. We also don’t need to force ourselves to get rid of items that we’re genuinely using and enjoying.
There is a middle ground, and it’s called BALANCE. That is the focus of this video. I get pretty personal and open up to you guys in a way I haven’t before.
You all have helped me through the years. We don’t just look at pretty eye candy and talk about shopping (although we do that too!), what I value is the way we connect and relate to one another. I believe that most of us are trying to live our best lives - working hard, being responsible and generous towards others, while also figuring out fun ways to treat ourselves.
Thank you all for being here. It’s all silly and frivolous fashion talk, but deep down, it’s more. ❤️
I hope this video will resonate with many of you.
As always, thanks so much for watching~
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@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here and for being such an amazing and supportive community. I hope this video will resonate with many of you. ❤

@kimhoang9635 Жыл бұрын

We are in this Bag Enthusiast community together. Thank you for being so authentic and honest about your bag struggles. I feel your pain so much. I think it’s part of the bag collection journey struggles and like you said finding that balance. Hugs fr Cali ♥️

@helenaheinen4040 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this and being so open with us! As a psychologist I think you really hit the point when you reflected the reasons for your wish to downsize. As you said, your reasons aren’t that you a) need money, b) don’t enjoy the items or c) don’t use them. Buying luxury bags if you can’t afford them or make impulse purchases you regret later on, is definitely unwise or immature. But in your case I would even say that it’s a sign of maturity that you are now able to allow yourself to buy and enjoy the things you can comfortably afford and that bring you joy! You progressed so much from your childhood where you learned to never splurge and be frugal with your needs and wants to allowing yourself to enjoy luxury in a very sensible and discreet way - but there are probably still some underlying beliefs left which cause you to sometimes feel guilty. It could be helpful to ask yourself what you are actually thinking in the moments when you feel like you „should“ declutter. Since this is seemingly causing you to feel a bit anxious or guilty from time to time, I assume you may have unconscious thoughts like „I don’t deserve this“, „I‘m not allowed to spend money on myself when there are so many more sensible things I could spend it on.“ „money is there to bring security, not fun “ Or „why should I have earned this more than anyone else who doesn’t own this bag“. I really love how self-reflective you are and how you share your thoughts and emotions with us. I think this feels common to a lot of us and we can all benefit from this conversation ❤ Love, Helena

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Wow Helena, reading your comment made me emotional. You are quite the psychologist! Thank you.

@gdkarma Жыл бұрын

You are so thoughtful about what you bring into your world, what brings you joy, and what to let go of. And when you do let go, you do that in a way that brings joy to someone else. Please don't question yourself! Whenever that overzealous closet curator inside of you gets riled up, let it know it can have a cocktail and chill out. You got this! Your values seem to me to be in charge and that's beautiful ❤️

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Overzealous closet curator!! 😂 Yes!! Thank you!

@donnaleach8119 Жыл бұрын

Just before you uttered the word, ‘guilt’, I had it in my head. We women are especially prone to feeling guilty about SO many things! As a fellow, ‘handbags-are-my-weakness’ person, I don’t care that much about shoes, cars or a lot of other material goods. I love how you speak about ‘balance’! Enjoy! ❤👜❤

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

It’s interesting, because while I don’t think guilt is an exclusive feeling reserved for women only, I do recognize that we women have a generally harder time reconciling when we treat ourselves. I wonder if it partly has to do with the nurture side of us. We will gladly care for others but pause when it comes to ourselves.

@donnaleach8119 Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity : yes! That’s it! ❤

@Pandalf82 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for opening up. As a German with Chinese background I, too, grew up very frugal. Simultaneously caring and generous to others. It was a hard learning curve for me to enjoy things I love and spoil myself. So I totally get the guilt feeling and I absolutely relate. With that said : I am so glad you keep your collection. It's not only a Monetary thing, it's sentimental. Behind each bag there is a story, and experience, a memory you will always be reminded of when wearing the bag. Keep doing you.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I am a mom of two kids, and I while I’ve become more frugal since having kids in some ways (ie., saving and planning for their futures), Ive also learned how important it is to role model to my kids that it’s perfectly okay and healthy to enjoy life.

@london_to_berlin Жыл бұрын

Yup! I can also resonate with what you're saying! I think we can apply this thinking/metaphor not just on bags, but other material things, and also - our emotional state too - we go from "I don't have enough" to "I have too much", and bounce back and forth between the two. And within each of these two thoughts, many thought branches can come off, like "I need to buy more" branching off to "what colour should I get" etc...or "I need to downsize" to branching off to "which bag should I let go of".. Eventually, we do manage to bring ourselves back to an "overview"/calm state of mind and can reflect on things. It's a bit like the "purse peace" phrase we see often. When I notice I'm too excited/overwhelmed by the same circle of thoughts, I try to busy my mind with other things until I get back to being calm. When I'm in this mindset, I can enjoy my bags more freely, with joy, and gratefulness to own this bag. Thank you for the video today! It's good to see another handbag lover reflect on their collection!

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

I love the way you described it. We swing back and forth until we find out calm spot. I love that you’ll step away and take your mind off what’s occupying you. It’s a great way to avoid becoming overwhelmed. Thanks for sharing!

@jaquelinealvarez173 Жыл бұрын

You deserve this and more! Whatever desires are in your heart come from the Universe! We are spiritual beings living a human experience and therefore also here to enjoy material things 👍

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh! Thank you for this lovely message.

@Amy-hs1qe Жыл бұрын

I've noticed over your many videos that you and I are a lot alike. The difference is you have insight, realization and wisdom way beyond me at your age. It's really only fully hit me recently that I can't make my business the all-consuming focus anymore, I have to quit always being sensible and responsible at the expense of what I actually want, stop always sacrificing myself for others, lighten-up and just enjoy life more - but I'm 62 and too old to just now come out of autopilot!! Time is ticking and let's all try to do more of what makes us happy. Glad you're keeping your very beautiful collection.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

It’s never too late and I love that you’re learning to take better care of yourself and enjoying more. What a beautiful thing.

@elinalall3475 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you are keeping your Chanel bags and the comments help put your mind at ease. With the cost of these bags I think it is normal to second guess ourselves but I understand what you mean about creating space can feel liberating. Very sweet of you to send your bag to your friend. Thanks for sharing. Xx

@altacostura3512 Жыл бұрын

I'll add, as a woman significantly older than you: I've had heirloom pieces that for years I didn't look at and they are now beloved and much used. These are investments not in the "assets" sense of the word, but in terms of wardrobe classics that will be, in a way, a relationship in your life, sometimes closer and sometimes farther, but always there. Hang on to those bags. And if you add a couple, don't worry about it.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Wow great point. Thank you for sharing your perspective!

@Seemstobereal Жыл бұрын

I didn’t watch your previous video but I personally only started buying bags when I was 59. I would only sell bags I am not using .. I’m not a hoarder but also not a minimalist. I also love the bags I have. I think you also love your bags. Your Chanel and other bag collection is beautiful. So enjoy your bags!

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your input! Absolutely, I’m neither here nor there 😂 meaning, I don’t hoard but I’m not a minimalist either. Sometimes I say I’m aspiring to be more minimalist in my wardrobe but I think at the end of the day, it’s about balance. ❤️

@AdaJess Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. Today, I just made my first luxury handbag purcharse and although it is pre-loved and I saved the money for it I don't know why I'm feeling super anxious and kinda stressed out (also mixed feelings of guilt). It is my dream bag and not just some bag I recently found out, been wanting it for almost 2 years. I hope this feeling will pass and that I will be able to enjoy it 😊 your videos are so helpful.

@AlexisBii Жыл бұрын

The feeling will pass! I’m so happy for you that you got your bag. Be gentle with yourself, your feelings are totally natural and valid. What bag was it? 💕

@AdaJess Жыл бұрын

@@AlexisBii Thank you for your sweet comment ☺️ I can't wait to get it ! It's a Lady Dior in the medium size 💓

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aw wow, I hope you’re able to enjoy what you’ve worked hard for. Sometimes it helps to take a real hard look at where the guilt is coming from. While guilt can be a signal that we just made a bad move (which happens and we can work to reverse or remedy it), guilt can also just come from an ingrained habit that no longer serves us.

@thi5407 Жыл бұрын

I understand you. I used to have 45 designer handbags in my 35th. Know i have 10 (43). However i think if you don t Need the Money, keep and enjoy them. Later give it down to your daughter 😍🥰😘. Love your Collection.

@joyvillavicencio3501 Жыл бұрын

I love all the thoughtfulness and mindfulness you share. I really can relate with trying to balance and prioritizing! I hope you keep them all and pass them down to your daughter when she is ready to enjoy these beauties 🥰

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you Joy. You’ve been supportive through all the videos and I really appreciate you being here consistently.

@joyvillavicencio3501 Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity I always appreciate your thoughtful replies as well my fellow NYC gal! ❤️

@wendyliss2008 Жыл бұрын

Thank you do much for your videos. I found your channel when researching my pochette Métis and haven’t missed one since. Many of us in your community have so much in common with you. We get you and you get us! 💗 Growing up with a frugal family and being very driven and sacrificing I can relate to the success (and guilt of success) as I’ve gotten older. Thanks to you and KZfaq I can feel more comfortable researching bags and have made less missteps. I’m working on letting myself enjoy the bags (aka success) and remind myself that many of my bags live on with me for many years longer than any dress, shoes, or car I’ve ever owned.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aw yes, the guilt of success. You summed it up perfectly. I’m so glad to hear that my videos are helping in some way. I hope we can all help each other to live out best lives.

@heather_lux Жыл бұрын

Very relatable! It's hard to just enjoy sometimes because we always feel that little bit of guilt. We totally forget that we deserve nice things and to be happy too! I say keep what makes your heart happy, if it doesn't then sell it and find something that does. There's also no rule on how many bags we need/want...if you are using and enjoying them; they are all worth owning and keeping. Much love to you!

@RaqReviews Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. If there are items or bags that doesn’t spark joy. I think you should let go of it and get something that does spark joy to you. I also used to think to save bags for my kids but they’re taste changes so I can’t depend on that 100%. Everyone is different. These items should be things you enjoy. Whatever makes you happy, you should go for. YOLO. ❤

@joyceli5257 Жыл бұрын

Love this! I feel the same. I am always working and hardly enjoy the little things in life. Especially Hustling in NY. So I started treating myself to Chanel bags. Never really gotten into Chanel’s bags until this year, turned 32. I finally feel I am in a good state to grow my Collection. I really enjoy your channel. You definitely help us make good decisions and provide excellent reliable Stories. I grew up in a Asian low-middle class family. I will be passing my bags to my daughter haha even though she is only 3 now.😂

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

As we have so much in common! Always working and never enjoying, that’s a sad way to be, right? Let’s flip the script. 😉

@moxlie_quinn Жыл бұрын

Glad you are keeping the Chanel bags! It’s a fantastic, curated collection that works for you, and in keeping the lighter coloured bags, you are able to the maintain a bit of diversity in this collection. I’ve really enjoyed content from you and others that discuss the mindful aspect of luxury shopping. I’m just starting to build my collection and am learning how to thoughtfully acquire pieces and also enjoy them.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I’m so glad the videos are resonating with you. ❤

@TOREALTY100 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are always so helpful and thank you again. It makes me clean out some of my items that I don't need in my life and that it would make a better home somewhere else. So, thanks again.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aw lovely.

@sibimarie33 Жыл бұрын

This was really nice! I enjoyed reading the screenshots of the comments. Everyone is so kind and supportive 🥰❤️ Thank you for sharing!

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

This is truly an amazing community. ❤

@jayceeb3142 Жыл бұрын

I downsized a few years ago of most of my bags. Having done this, I do regret some of the ones I let go. I didn’t need the space or the money. It was just my brain. The thing about our brains is that it changes it’s mind all the time. Just wait.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Our brains - so true. Thank you for sharing.

@AlexisBii Жыл бұрын

Thank YOU for choosing to share this side of yourself! It broke my heart a little hearing you be hard on yourself, but that’s because I recognize the feelings all too well myself 💔 You mentioned that you felt like the handbag purging was “being sensible” but it helps me to remember that while it LOOKS sensible, it really isn’t! If it’s based on feelings of guilt and a desire to self-punish, that’s the opposite of sensible and only pushes us further away from balance 😢 The good news is that these tendencies are fixable. Your videos have been a *huge* help in getting me to let go and live a little, and I am so grateful for that. I think a little medicine from your own videos may help you a lot. It’s our first time doing life, remember to be kind to yourself 💕

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Wow Alexis. Your point about self-punishment really hit home.

@nancykim7997 Жыл бұрын

You're so articulate and considered, I enjoy listening to your soothing voice and reasoning. I have one chanel bag, a medium classic flap which I bought on a whim 10 years ago at the Rue cambon store for around 2K euros at the time. I was in my twenties and I felt like vomiting for a few days after spending so much money on a bag for myself. Sometimes I think just having one makes it all the more special and I can understand your desire to downsize. I can also see from an economic standpoint it makes sense to hold on. Either way, we aren't here for long so don't spend too much time *thinking* about what to do, just do what makes you feel good! Honestly with most materialistic things, if it's gone you won't even remember they existed in your life.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Wow and now the price is 4x that, so who’s vomiting now? 😂 You’re absolutely right. No sense in overthinking everything. Thank you!

@Kaitaritz2013 Жыл бұрын

Love your reflections❤

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much.

@m.h.t1286 Жыл бұрын

It’s so nice & generous of you to gift your bags to family, friends & subscribers. I totally agree that you should consider letting other bags go (if you want to downsize), and not your Chanels. I’ve been gifting bags to family as well & sold some online. No regrets, on the contrary, it gave me joy knowing someone else can utilise my bags better than I can. I’m at a stage in life where I want to slow down & ease into early retirement/ casual work, hence looking at ways to simplify my way of living. Our home is never cluttered, however I do aim for a peaceful & abundant mindset heading into my 50’s (aka contentment) Thank you for your videos.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

It’s a pleasure to be able to gift some bags to others. Such as joy, as you say. As for early retirement and simplifying, that is so wonderful. It sounds like this next stage of life for you will be lovely.

@m.h.t1286 Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity Thank you 🙏

@sally3570 Жыл бұрын

I LOVED THIS CONTENT! I so agree that you are happy using them so keep them and enjoy them. ❤ Me: I have felt so guilty about some of my purchases and I haven’t gone overboard. My problem is that I get afraid to use mine. My mother always saved “the good stuff” and used her lesser things. She never got to enjoy those nicer things. It’s so hard to break that thinking process now in me!

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aw thank you!! It’s so interesting how we inherit behaviors from our parents. Your mom saved her good stuff probably for the same reasons why we feel guilty. It’s as if they need to be saved for an occasion that’s “worth it.” But we all know that’s silly. Bring the cost per wear down by using your stuff today!! 😊

@lolipena8051 Жыл бұрын

I to get the itch to downsize as I barely use my bags. Some I haven’t even used once. I don’t go out much and if I do it’s grocery stores, errands or work. When I do go run errands/grocery stores I grab my cardholder and go. My work bag is Kate spade and dang do I mistreat her. So I feel guilty having these expensive beauty’s, but then I step back and think if I do let go and regret. I won’t be able to afford to get them back. So I calm down. Nothing wrong with looking at them. One day I better use them all

@xkikiki Жыл бұрын

Loved this video - it came at a great time for me - as someone who has never downsized their “luxury” handbag collection (but i have for my contemporary) I love watching your downsizing videos just as food for thought… I agree with the commenter though… I think your current handbag collection is already very curated, and if you are in no need to let anything go - than keep them until you are 💯 x 💯 sure!! Agreed about your daughter - I lost my mom a few years ago, and my sister and I inherited her small bag collection… It’s absolutely meaningful for me to hold on to a piece of her that was meaningful to her and also reminds me of her… It’s something i think about a LOT with my own daughter. Thank you for sharing ❤ Kiki

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing about your mom. I’m sorry for your loss. It sounds like you cherish the bags you inherited from her. ❤

@rimankevin Жыл бұрын

Your son might like these too. I'm a guy and a lot of black and gray colored chanel bags are so fashionable for men.

@jerseyjulia Жыл бұрын

I like your chatty videos. Have a great week!

@missyqin Жыл бұрын

Your content was so liberating:) My husband told me I should enjoy life (and my bags =p). We have been responsible, worked & saved hard. Balance is key. Love how u blessed the people around u :) thank u for sharing.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Sounds like our husbands tell us the same things! Time to start listening to them! 😂

@missyqin Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity indeed :) they know us best

@AnUrbanGypsy Жыл бұрын

The point you make about enjoying these things at this time of your life, which you consider to be your prime, is a good one because as you get older and your lifestyle changes, you will naturally start downsizing. Maybe it’s currently not about letting things go, it’s simply about bringing in less. Having other priorities for money that are still nice, such as travel or home improvements, can help keep stuff to a minimum too. No need to be so decisive so quickly.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I figure as I enter different life stages, my decisions will evolve and like you said, no need to rush myself. ❤️

@anniechin2162 Жыл бұрын

Love you Hannah your content is always so spot on to the way I feel also on these luxury bags❤️

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you Annie!

@ilariama82 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video, loved listening to it ☺️

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I’m so glad you enjoyed it.

@theguruEDIT Жыл бұрын

This was great Hanna!! I’m so happy that everyone is being so responsive and supportive. You are truly a breath of fresh air. 🤍

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@chidenisee Жыл бұрын

Keep what you want to keep. You enjoy your bags and you don't need the money so keep them. I sold my entire collection except one because I didn't even like them anymore or they just weren't useful for me. I am starting a new collection that will be the only thing I love and enjoy. I have a son but I do plan on buying items from the men's side as well. I already know the first 5 bags I want to add lol.

@aggiesmiles Жыл бұрын

You should enjoy these bags knowing that you worked hard for them. Wear them as a reminder of your achievements and hopefully that too, will get passed down to your daughter and future daughter-in-law. There’s such a big movement towards minimalism, downsizing and decluttering these days and I think that idea makes us feel like we need to have a certain amount of stuff. But really, you do you and if it makes you happy, keep the bags. ❤

@Happyfitmaree Жыл бұрын

Thank you Hanna for this recap. I am very interested in both luxury and other well made brands so I am curious what you find and your reviews.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your interest! I hope to share some fun videos on new and different brands soon!

@rubiirae Жыл бұрын

I'm all for decluttering, especially now that I've learned to really appreciate quality over quantity. With that said, I'm similar to you, handbags (plus fine jewelry) are my weaknesses, however, I only purchase what I truly love and enjoy. So instead of getting rid of handbags to make space, I've downsized my wardrobe significantly over the years, limiting on clothes and shoes that I wear all the time. I still occasionally let go of a few handbags only because I haven't reached for them for at least 2-3 years. In that case, they're just collecting dust in my closet but could've been loved and used by someone else instead. Agreed with everyone if you don't need the cash or running out of space in your home, try to downsize something else that no longer serve your needs, can even be furniture or other household items/appliances. Keep those beautiful Chanel bags for now unless you don't reach for them for at least a few years, then you'll know it's time to let them go.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I am quite minimal in other areas too and keep a tight home and wardrobe otherwise. You’re right - we can enjoy a few areas that make us happy and be thoughtful about quality over quantity.

@y.a.n.i.q.u.e Жыл бұрын

✨I can totally relate! I recently bought an Alma BB and it took me longer than I would like to admit to finally make the decision. I have all my priorities in order but I still have a hard time purchasing high ticket items without feeling guilty✨

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

“I have all my priorities in order.” End of sentence. 😉

@y.a.n.i.q.u.e Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity You’re so right.

@y.a.n.i.q.u.e Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity You’re so right. I need to stand on that.

@MC-qj7sn Жыл бұрын

I agree with the community here..pls keep your Chanel bags! there are times when you just need to probably store away your bags if you think they are not currently working for you..or if you feel too overwhelmed. there are times when i'd rush into selling an item only to regret it in the future bec i do enjoy the rush of making a sale too! and yes, these are great bags and i do see the differences in each Chanel bag even though there are similarities. but there is also a reason why you're into these Chanel bags. maybe downsize the other non-Chanel items instead bec they do add up on costs (and space) too! ;)

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Oh wow, good point about the rush of making a sale! Something to watch out for. Thank you for sharing!

@LulaWestLuxe Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video. Your experiences and struggles with finding balance were very relatable! It’s easy to say “you’ve earned it - enjoy it!” to others, but somehow hard to actually embrace that motto ourselves. I would love to see what fits in the Ferragamo mini tote if you have time. 😊

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I’m glad to know the video resonated with you. Sometimes we just need to go easy on ourselves, right? As for the Ferragamo bag, I’m going to try to film a quick what fits type of video before sending it off to my mom.

@hinghingg Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this ❤ I find myself feeling guilty over my collection sometimes too. I know my collection is pretty modest, but I still feel like I have too much for my needs. I would lay out all my bags and SLGs out on my bed and tell my husband I think about letting a couple go. He says why? 😅 I worked hard for my collection and we have our finances in order, but I still struggle to find balance 😖

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

When we’re harder on ourselves than anyone else can be 😅

@yulianagonzalez2428 Жыл бұрын

Is hard to let go pieces because the price increases, plus some of bags are so hard to get or being discontinued considering the condition on the bags and prices on the second hand. But at the end of the day are only things, we don’t need we just want. You are a great super smart person only but what you really love and want always thinking smart.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

100% these are wants, not needs! I’m realizing I can just enjoy them without overthinking it too much! Thanks Yuliana!

@JinxPalm2023 Жыл бұрын

At the end of the day, luxury goods are just goods. Unless you have an extreme sentimental attachment, I think you should just let go sooner than later as you don't know how trends and the economy will turn and it's always nice to recoup the most you can for your investment. I speak from the perspective of a watch collector, but I think the idea resonates across most if not all goods in general 💯👍

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your perspective. I agree, they’re just goods and I don’t feel much sentimental attachment. I just enjoy using them, so for now, I’ll keep enjoying. I don’t actually view these as investments. Perhaps watches are different.

@antjeschmidt3488 Жыл бұрын

I knew you would give the ferragamo to your mom 💓... and your Polène Numero neuf is so much cuter!!! great Videos, I also have to learn to enjoy, what I have!

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aw yes, I know my mom will love the Ferragamo bag. Thank you.

@Trssabraham Жыл бұрын

I always enjoy watching your video. Yes yiu should keep your chanel collection, you have beautiful bags💕 hope can buy my first chanel bag even though with the sallary in my country (Indonesia) seems impossible..

@maisy4675 Жыл бұрын

Contentment isn't something you can buy. I think it really depends on the why behind the buys...If the purchases ultimately bring you joy then you are blessed to have these things and then you should keep what brings you joy. No need to forsee what this collection will mean. Appreciate what you have now and enjoy. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.

@MariAna-tf1qc Жыл бұрын

Things no longer serve us. Very Marie Kondo ❤

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

I’m a fan of Marie Kondo and read her books but I’m definitely not at her level. 😆

@beany1101 Жыл бұрын

Hi there! Love your content and perspectives. Did you get rid of your Chanel executive tote? would love to know as I'm interested in this. Thanks! :)

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Hi! Yes, I let go of the executive cerf tote because soon after buying it, I learned I wouldn’t be going into the office anymore. I now work 100% remotely and since I bought that bag as a work tote, I decided I didn’t have a use for it anymore. It was beautiful though.

@ang3lgrl88 Жыл бұрын

can you please do a video dedicated on purse peace?

@janetleesteinman9165 Жыл бұрын

How many bags do you have.

@jesseeec Жыл бұрын

If it’s space issue since you live in nyc apt, then get rid of clothing, cheaper bags, shoes first.

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

For sure, but I think it’s more of a mental thing than a space issue. I still have empty space left in my closets but I don’t necessarily ever want to fill it. 😂

@jesseeec Жыл бұрын

@@hellocatwalkcity ah I c. I got rid of a lot of Chanel bags over the past 3 yrs including jumbo classic in black and medium classic in beige Clair. Only you can determine when your collection is too much. I reached the point where I didn’t care if it’s a holy grail bag or not. I actually don’t miss them at all. Been there done that move on.

@Divinenubian Жыл бұрын

Keep your bags. I just wouldn't waste any more money on luxury because these fashion houses are taking advantage of their loyal customers they are being extremely greedy.

@heavens__door Жыл бұрын

It's the "omg 언니" for me 🩶 I'm also an 언니 to many and I find so much joy in regifting my bags to my little sisters. I'm also very like you in my sometimes aggressive need to optimize and not have more than I absolutely need.... I go through the same with my bags as what you're describing with your Chanel collection! But my husband is always telling me not to sell if I like everything I have, and I'm trying to come to adopt that mindset and live in a bit more abundance than my childhood scarcity-accustomed self is used to. Lovely video as always ❤️

@hellocatwalkcity Жыл бұрын

Aww fellow Korean!! 👋 You’re so right about the abundance mindset vs scarcity mindset. I’ve been working on that for years. It sounds like we can learn from our own husbands! 😂