Finally, people who are actually qualified to talk about marriage and this topic. Not these young men who do not have the life experience or qualifications to give advice. Keep up the great work!

as a sister, Iman Cave is such an amazing series. I would encourage all mothers of sons (and daughters) to watch and learn.

Three generation of marrying outside of our culture makes for the most amazing gatherings and beautiful children.

I wanted to say jazakallahu khair for this series, it’s targeted towards men but as women we can also gain so much understanding of the male mind just by listening to the brothers masha’Allah.

I'm a sister who truly appreciates this series. I always learn a lot. Jazakumullahu khayran kathiran to you all.

“Find out what type of man is looking for your hand” That🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

As a woman, I love this channel!!!

Can't express how much I appreciate and love this format. It truly teaches me so many important aspects in life. I believe so many men have difficulties and thoughts they are not able to express and discuss. We need responsible, decisive and reflective men to heal our Ummah. Thank you so much and may Allah enable us to continue learning from this format for many more years. May Allah bless you.

Alhamdulillah that you guys exist in this Ummah. As a practicing muslimah who is single ,I usually just feel so broken whenever i watch these young muslim men podcasts about marriage. But seeing this gave me hope that we can still find a righteous marriage with all the good intentions and allah will put barakah in it Insha Allah. Barakallahu feekum 🙏

I love my family more than I hate my job…….someone shared that with me one day and it helped me persevere…..alhamdulilah. Jazakallahu kairan Safwad(raheema hullah).

All four factors are real, and as someone pointed out to me which I've always found to be true: the factors you compromise on WILL bite later, so you need to prepare yourself for that test (nobody is perfect so you will be "rating" all the factors, as they say in the video). No factor should be given zero importance, but the religiosity of a person encompasses their substance the most. Life throws things at you which you could never foresee, but if you can feel secure about the core of a person's beliefs, priorities and ethics, you know that inshallah you won't differ very much on how to understand or deal with any trial that comes up. (Sometimes even if the trial is realising you need to divorce and going through with it honourably)

I enjoyed this video immensely. As an educated lady, who has worked odd jobs several times to keep the money flowing, I always assumed that is was SOP to do what's necessary to make money. However, this video brought up a good point that not everyone has that hustle mentality. I never considered the importance of my husband being a hustler as well, to keep the peace in the house. I wouldn't want my husband sitting at home waiting for his dream job, and Target is begging people to come work. That would infuriate me.

Good to see qualified people speaking about marriage instead of hearing conservative and liberal and women are this or that

This one is amazing. You’ve tackled the questions I have for each point of this Hadith perfectly. Wishing for myself to find a spouse that has a healthy mindset on qawama, money, religion, expectations and beauty

i keep pausing the episode, taking it in, playing it, and pausing again. some true gems in this one!!!

This channel is good for women for sure. Any woman looking out for the right spouse, this is very helpful.

I wish more men had a better understanding of what that hadith of the prophet pbuh really meant. I think the three biggest problems are communities putting culture before religion and the fact that this generation can't make a decision to save their life, and the biggest issue which is not having taqwa. And the problem is because of that the window for sisters to be married gets smaller and smaller as she gets older, and more independent. And suddenly you have this large number of girls in their 30s who wanna get married and have children but there are no men considering those women. Like what do I do at this point.

an important and urgent topic for our time, addressed properly with qualified professionals. alhamdulilah. feel like I found a gold mine because this almost never happens.... thank you for your efforts. may God reward you immensely

One of my favourite series on youtube. I look forward to the episodes and hopefully they will continue for very long insha'allah

Knowing your principals while setting boundaries

Jazakallah Khairan! This was so beneficial to listen to as a woman as well. It would be great if Yaqeen could have a similar series aimed at women seeking to get married. I know the issue of widely obedience is widely contested one and often can lead to misinterpretations and tension in premarital + Marital life. Would be great to see that covered in a series.

Salam brothers. Good podcast as usual may Allah increase and reward you guys. Some small suggestions 1. Stay on points a little longer and have more defined direction for episode. Many times good points were made or good topics brought up but then you switch real quick and not continue 2. Talk about/ get into a little more detail of some of the sensitive/taboo things that are prevalent these days especially when it comes to men and women relations and how we view women etc. Because it would be better to hear it from men of religion and experience than random non-Muslims/media. If am not mistaken the Prophet PBUH used to answer all type of questions. So if you don’t address certain topics because of shyness or fear of backlash etc people could could end up seeking it from non-reliable sources.

This was for me ❤ shukran Allah

"knowing when to choose mom and knowing when to-" My parents started great, ended up ripping each other to pieces. They never divorced. Mom passed away 2022. Dad became and still is a broken wreck. No interest in remarrying despite his family wanting him to 3 days after Mom passed away. Mom and Dad's mom obv didn't get along, at all. But now Mom's gone. I used to joke with her is she going to put my wife through her paces when the time comes etc. But now it's non question - still unmarried. Salam laykum.

Love these!!! So many deep subjects were discussed with such wonderful insight. Looking forward to the next part insha Allah

amazing episode tabarakAllah, keep up the good work! may Allah reward you all.

MashaaAllah. Beautiful segment. Useful discussion. Enlightening for those taking the big step forward. May Allah ease.

Dear brothers & sisters! Don’t forget to send your blessings upon the Prophet (ﷺ) “Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammadin wa aali Muhammad” 🤍

Subhanallah I love this. This is so beautiful mashallah tabarakallah! May Allah bless you all. Ameen!

I enjoyed both parts. As a woman I would also like to hear a advise for female. Some of the topics I have also gone through them

@48:40 Allahuakbar this observation was SHARP. I was about to judge and say "oi is she not wearing hijab?" But then I realize it was all in the mans' head. Subhanallah. Man.

That gave me a better understanding for this hadith for sure may allah guide and accept your good deeds and make it pure for his sake

I just want to say JazakAllah khair ❤

What a wholesome conversation. Kudos !!!!

Great podcast!!

may Allah bless you all I can't wait for the next part

Great episode brothers. I 100% agree with brothers needing to take the lead to shut down any feeling development prior to seeking the halal path. It also sets the tone for your selfless leadership capability in the path of Allah for more than her, but for an entire family in the future. Thank you for the emphasis on introspection regarding your relationship with money prior to assessing anyone else. The projection & judgement is real. It’s wrongfully easier to call someone a ‘gold digger’ than to call yourself ‘unnecessarily stingy and fearful’ Continuing with introspection, I would also add on the family component that brothers especially need to have candid conversations with the women in their family to understand their experience of the family unit. I have met several brothers who speak highly of the women in their families enjoying servitude and never requiring the men to help around the home whereas the women in the family had a completely different reality of the lack of support. It’s easy to be fooled by personal bias and perception, and then judge others by their family dynamics that might be more outspoken. Once more on introspection, choosing someone based on what you enjoy and not what you fear others will say/judge you for/etc truly speaks to your confidence, self awareness and leadership. If you enjoy a strong, outspoken or opinionated woman, then so be it. If you like bigger women or a woman that isn’t what societies new beauty standard is, then so be it. If you have insecurities as the brother mentioned about someone being too good looking, then don’t marry her and make the experience miserable. SubhanAllah, the amount of shooting yourself in the foot that takes place from early on due to complete lack of introspection/self awareness is the true cause of divorce, not the person who finally files the papers in the end. Leadership of a home and family begins with self leadership and emotional intelligence. Building the trust in your leadership begins day 1. May Allah make it easy for all of us. Once again, wonderful episode.

Thank you ❤

20:50 the situation will be resentment, women can’t respect/love a lazy man. We want to see you work harder than us outside the house. We can handle the inside if you are doing your part

thank you syeikh for your sharing ..may Allah swt bless us

Great episode

Excellent show!

Thank you brothers for the honest and valuable reflection on this important matter for young Muslims …as you said man should get the women who check most of the boxes “ why he is going to marry” … same for sisters … and not marry the “potential”he or she.

This is very interesting conversation. Jazakumullah. Please make Indonesia subtitle available so that more of my friends can watch this.

Masha ALLAH ALAHUMA BARAKA THIS MAKE MY DAY PLEASE KEEP MAKE VIDEOS LIKE THIS FOR A MOTHER FROM AFRICAN WHO MARRIED ARAB MEN AND 7 kinds ALHAMDULILLAH I WILL SHOW THIS TO MY SONS IN SHAA ALLAH THIS VIDEO MAKE MY DAY WEN HE TALK ABOUT HIJAB THE MEANING OF HIJAB A LOOT OF MEN LOOKS AT WOMEN ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND FORGETS WHAT REAL A WOMEN IS WHAT IS BEAUTY TO A WOMEN AND WEN HE SAY SHE BEAUTIFUL BUT LOOKS A Ugly UGLY 😅❤

When will part 2 be shared? Looking forward to it!

Good video

Is part 2 out yet? And does he have a channel so that I can get notifications when a new episode comes on??

Interesting discussion! A lot of good points to ponder upon. However, I have some philosophical questions and would love to hear the team's thoughts on them. 1) I have always wondered about how people find if someone is compatible before marriage. Given the limited ways in which you can interact with your potential spouse, how can one find out if someone is really compatible with you. Moreover, isn't compatibility something that is achieved by couples who build their marriage and companionship with patience, tawakkul-alAllah, husn-uz-zan, and graciousness. 2) Talking about chosing religiosity over culture, isn't it a part of American culture or western culture to have the liberty to marry someone that is not the same nationalty or culture as you. Islam and its application transcends all countries and cultures but do other people from other countries really have those options given their homogeneous population? 3) I am not someone who is against divorce or anything but I have always wondered that our religion teaches us to become strong men/ women who are an example to other ummahs. With all our chaotic gut feelings, indecisiveness, and disproportionate focus on marriage and partners, are we gonna have sufficient time and energy to ponder and work on other important matters. Isn't it a trick of Shaytan to entangle us into our private lives so much so that we reduce Islam and its message to solving marriage problems and choosing right partners.

This video scary me .... a lot BUT i think we as womens we should become more than muslim,it is not enough but we have to make sacrifice to obtain susbtenable marriage which last forever in sha Allah . Thank you very much for this video May Allah reward you for this present wallahi . It shift my mentality immediately, make Allah make us women who can maintain a healthy dynamic. Allahou Akbar we just have to believe ❤ God is great

I wish people took their time with getting to know someone to see if they are compatible. I feel like it would save a lot of people from choosing the wrong person and breaking up a family, not because it naturally didn’t work out, but because they did not vet the person properly and rushed without assessing red flags.

25:09 As salaamu Alaikum ,can someone tell me what’s is the name of this Hadith he said

Which Hadith did he reference about "you have a right on Allah to help you?" Hadith Thalathdune . Trying to find the reference may Allah have mercy on me

ALLAHU AKBAR

😢 I am 34 old woman I feel very sad and uncomfortable to find a future spouse because I dont have good financial standing... am I wrong in feeling this and how should I approach marriage if I am feeling this way?

What happens to those (men/women) who are unfortunate because they had a dysfunctional family dynamic?

Can you please address the topic of meeting someone in a haram way, is it advisable to try to make it halal by marriage or break it off

WOW

Come on, where’s part 2? 😀😀😀 Edit: Ahh! I already had part 2 downloaded. If you have a multi-part series you should have some consistency in the titles :)

Really great episode with different experiences and perspectives being put on the table. Jazakhallahun khayrun I absolutely agree, after the 20/30 years, you look back and revisit the red flags you should’ve followed at the initial point… although we’re told never to look back. Also Brother yes, some are divorced in their head even though they’re married. 😔

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PS: Zero chance anyone but me and Allah will decide who I marry. I submit only to Allah's qadr, and absolutely no one else's expectations. Period.

Brothers will be very beneficial to talk about marry man. Dating woman for months and trying to dump the first wife and kids. Young woman are not looking for a Muslim brother they looking for money willing to marry a 50 year old for papers and wealth .

The first line-- don’t look at potential. I did- I thought I could change the man. By Allah! I was so wrong. He started praying, he stopped womanizing-- but at his own pace. It was so sign of respect or honor to me. It was for himself. He’s still a miserable father- I guess he’ll find a way to fix that at his own pace as well- my interference only makes him more stubborn to change. It’s been a shitshow.

These conversations are so one sided, they need more perspective on women.