Lmfao

Couldn't read over your big ass head girl lol

J Z I'm embarrassed I didn't think of that one 😂🤣😂

Yes !! I learned my lessons , I lasted months with a person who told me he had love for he’s ex but wasn’t in love with her . Oh , best believe i ran but he end up catching up. With manipulating tactics . So he did everything for me to fall in love and in the end he left after many times of telling him that he needed to heal . He left !!! 😂. Sorry I have to laugh at the most stupidest thing I did . What was I thinking ? Now I’m looking back and everything was a lie , people out here are so quick in jumping into a relationship and then hurting the person after they did everything to help them out . The irony !

Lmfaooooooooooooo sounds like a fucking set up to me 💀💀💀💀

"damn I forgot my wallet"

I’ve never done that..

How do you typically handle when the guy insists on paying tho?, especially if it's the second or third date...

I completely disagree. You don’t invite someone and then expect them to pay for something you invited them for unless you make them aware beforehand. You don’t know other people’s budgets

@@chrisjfox8715 I just tell them in advance that I’ll pay. I usually alternate paying for second and third dates. I pay for one date and he pays for the other.

Such a red herring.

Yup. Even if they ask the vast majority of the time they will still expect men to pay.

I dont get the whole "women need men to pay" or "men only ask women out" cuz I've gotten rejected every time I asked someone out and I'd definitely pay if someone accepted.

@@nikkisumesh ask me ;)

I promise you women ask men out all the time. If that doesnt happen to you then I got some news 😬

Lol

Truth

Same😂😂

Aye same why else would I watch this vid lmao

Puts you at an advantage!

Yeah that's why she said that it's her opinion.duh!

Likely just me, but I'm one who'll pay for everything. The lone time I was in a relationship, eventually my girlfriend was begging me to let her pay for something. I didn't let her. In my opinion, it's the man's responsibility to care for and to treat the lady irrespective of who initiates.

@A cat on his hind legs. yeah but like restaurant dates

@@alexdaunoy9678 thanks grandpa

@@davidvanhorn2493 Decent chance you're older than I am. I'm certainly not old enough to be a grandfather.

@@alexdaunoy9678 keep simping

I know right 🙄, for real 🤷🏽‍♂️... some are 100% of the time! 💯 So while they're out there getting free dates left, right and centre 💁🏽‍♂️... you're gonna end up broke spending all your money on dates that might not work out in the end anyway 😱. Lol! 😅

@@kieronflood1913 right* not rite 💀

That’s how you know she’s a very smart scammer😂

Exactly, not convinient for guys.

Idk why y'all are being rude to her bc I saw a few rude comments, but just stop

Yeah thats the way of saying "the guy always pays" without actually saying it

The guy does usually make the first move, but once you’re in a relationship the girl asks the guy on dates a lot too

Well you could just try to hold out and not ask

@@moodsofkiwi9285 What I've found is that girls who are straightforward and will ask you will ask around the same time you'd ask a girl. Those are the best ones.

@@Aaron-kj8dv Exactly when people say that that’s what I thought go to my head because generally girls are asking guys on dates especially if he’s not a chad

100% agreed. Before the 1st date, there definitely should be a rules & expectation meeting or something like that. I had a girl say to me after we finished eating at some restaurant: "so you're paying right?" I was like: "🙄... for what I ordered yes..." needless to say, it wasn't an ideal situation. The funny part is, I asked her beforehand if she had an preferences, guidelines or anything else I should know about. But she said: just surprise me. I guess we both ended up surprised, lol.

@@talonskye5577 hahaha

especially when both of you have met on Tinder

💯.. now, we're talking!

@Almighty doesn't sound harsh at all. It's true 💯💯

I haven't dated that many women but my policy is "I'm willing to pay for the first date but we split after that." This has never been an issue. I think its the type of woman I attract given my attitude on relationships and money; I want to be with someone where there is mutual attraction, not with someone who thinks I'm "alright and pays for nice things". Also, it is wise to be financially prudent to set one up success if dates turn into a long-term-relationship/marriage. Been dating my girlfriend a little over a year and we take turns paying for eating out, activities, etcetera.

@Almighty so you can only date if you have money? You need to get more imaginative with your dates, you don't have to pay for anything on a date.

Keyword: IF

Okay and her current boyfriend pays for their dates. If you dont like girls that way, and can't afford them, then date who is on your level. Aint tht hard people

@@iknowyou6725 If you’re a girl and can’t afford to split the bill then just don’t date

@@leenguyen6056 stay mad 😂

@@iknowyou6725 you mad cuz you’re broke?

Yeah, when I'm not at work, I'm not doing the dress code. The suit comes off, and it's time to chill. I don't work my butt off just to have to dress up during my social time. Hard Pass, thanks!

For real. If she just decides to dress up and I want to be comfortable don’t blame me.

I believe this fall into communicating where's the date going to be at.

@@snowangel92100 ...or even communicating whether there will BE a date or not. I've got things to do at home. I guess if she comes over and helps me with those things, then she might earn a date. After the work is done

@@jeromewesselman4653 thats what she meant by equal effort though. What you wear depends on the context. If you're going somewhere more formal then *she* (its her opinion not mine) expects more than sweats. If it's something that calls for sweats, more power to ya. Personally since it's a first date I would try to dress to impress anyway.

Dat is precies de reden waarom je het niet moet doen. Ze zijn "sterk" genoeg volgens eigen zeggen, laat ze ook hun eigen lasten of een x die van ons dragen. Jij bent nog "traditioneel" terwijl zij alle hekken van de dam hebben gegooid en nog wel verwachten dat wij alles voor hun blijven doen. Dude, chicks kunnen niet eens meer koken vandaag de dag (buiten airfryer)

That makes sense. Some of these men broke out here so it makes sense if your financially stable you'd offer

Oh finally I found someone saying this, it's definitely her color!

I agree, movies are for people who already know each other. Tenth date maybe

I also agree, Dutch should be the social norm no matter who asks. Both potential partners need to have "skin in the game"-- time and resources invested. I'd go on more dates if it wasn't so normalized for females to go just to get free stuff

Idk, a movie date would be a good idea because it's a conversation starter, specifically for a shy person I think

Well dang i havent done dates in years and just asked some to go to movie im chalked

@@vanessaspecchio6783 imo its fine if you're meeting up and getting food or something before/after, otherwise it's not really a good idea if you're meeting someone for the first time because it leaves no room to actually talk and get to know someone

This makes sense :)

You'll have to be able to use magic to make that happen.

Same, I don't understand that as a first date. You don't really get to know them (unless maybe you go out to eat or smth afterward, then the movie could be a conversation starter)

@@dariadaniellemusic Fully agree with you

No, you sit there and stare at a screen for 2 hours. I could do that with my dog and literally have the same exact experience.

@@Aaron-kj8dv facts 😂

Exactly! You aren't talking, you aren't getting to know eachother. You're sitting silently with a stranger. I always thought it was weird.

Why would you ask to go on a date if you’re going to waste the other person’s money? YOU asked. YOU should pay. You want the person to be happy and prove yourself to be someone who’s not cheap? Pay. It’s really that simple.

Really? The more I watch of her, I get the impression she usually initiates

@@mattholt2451 lol

This sent me 😂😂

and how would you know that trey

@@miamicutie-qh6gk Cmon, because it's reality. Like 2 plus 2 is 4, women never ask.

@@noremac0575 maybe nobody liked you yet. Many women asked me out

Okay and her current boyfriend pays for their dates. If you dont like girls that way, and can't afford them, then date who is on your level. Aint tht hard people

Trigger trae young is underrated

Exactly!! Same

If you ASKED HER you should expect to pay. Same goes for her asking you.

@@dailymadness9129 no

Enjoy being single the rest of your life bro 😂

Um WHAT the link if anyone has it?!

What was the Tv show?

I dont remember I think it was called Trouble or something

Hol up

Totally agree.

I'll likely get fussed at, but bring back men being gentlemen and paying for the belle they are with. I definitely agree with maintain communication though.

@@alexdaunoy9678 I think most men are willing to pay, we just don’t like that it’s an expectation. It just seems weird that men should do things just because we’re men while women should be able to do whatever they want without consequence. It’s like “ok I will always pay. So what do I get in return?” How dare you expect anything from her. She doesn’t owe you anything.

Okay and her current boyfriend pays for their dates. If you dont like girls that way, and can't afford them, then date who is on your level. Aint tht hard people

@@iknowyou6725 the whole truth

Yeah. Switch up on these hos

Yes but not during your first impression of them.

@@TanoookiMario377 of course not

Nobody ignores that. We just choose not to ignore that she’s obnoxious

💯

For real

Literally, why??

@@yashminarannee1927 because if you've been on "so many 1st dates" (which suggests something at least half grown up) that have gone nowhere when you're 18 years old like she is then you have to be extremely picky and judgemental right off the blocks or both.

@@MarkSiosal yeah she’s picky cause she doesn’t want the scraps. Ok

and they dont pay so it works out

and her current boyfriend pays for their dates. If you dont like girls that way, and can't afford them, then date who is on your level. Aint tht hard people

I’m not sure if you think she’s imposing these things on people before she goes on a date. She is just aware of these things to see if she’s actually interested or if it’s gonna be a flop

I dont think she sends her dates a power point. These are just standards and preferences she has. Everyone is entitled to have standards for who and how they want to date.

💯

@@CC-rv4zc don't blame men if we reject unattractive and obese chicks

Ur actually a weirdo. You all ops need a man yourself. The jealousy be radiating this time of year

Not necessarily for example when she says whoever ask for the date pays It’s another way of her saying you’re going to pay because how many girls ask guys out or meet me there if you’re a nine out of 10 dude you don’t even need a date most of the time the day is happening at one of your houses

It’s not equal she’s better . If you want to go for a woman your equal lower your expectations

She’s worse*

Exactly there’s a saying that don’t listen to what a girl says look at what she does and this guy actually do experiment where he ran to the same girl on a dating site with his account and the accounts of a chad/Jock type dude same bio pretty much the only thing that was different was who the guy was she was talking to the guy on his regular tell about how she doesn’t go home on the first date and Shirley wants relationships and when he asked have you ever had casual sex she was so upset about that question she blocked him while with the chad she had no problem telling him she wanted to have some fun no date talking about how attractive he was

I know it’s long but basically it just depends on your attractiveness level you think she would be making dating this hard for a guy like Drake or Michael B Jordan and let’s pretend they’re not even celebrities but a guy who is a regular 5/10 you have to jump through all these hoops

It doesn't work for you with all the girls, silly

Dressing nice to run errands is up to you. Dressing nice for a date should be standard

Girls aren‘t fish waiting to be caught

Rule no 1 of dating ..Don't relate humans to random things. You'll be in trouble. Because the logic is inherently faulty. 1. In reality, women would be the 'fishermen'. But you don't see us going around making such condescending statements about men. 2. A fish looses its life in fishing. It will never tell you where you can find it, ignoring the obvious interspecies language barrier. Talking to a women will help you get to other women. Don't ask men about what to do for the most accurate results lol they are on the same situation as you bro. Its like asking a student what will be in the quiz instead of the teacher. Some men maybe successful but they might have been just lucky. So ask the same gender where possible. 3. Go into dating with a respectable and open approach. It's not about catching a good deal or trapping someone. There is no fisherman nor fish. Just two humans trying to find each other. Don't be THAT weirdo and take dating seriously.

@@blueshoes5145 it was meant to be a joke dude chill out

Lmao fax never listen to women they don’t know what they want

@@ilias_lag_ lol she wrote a whole thesis

Then wait for a girl to ask you 🤷

@@annabowen8276 they don’t

It is fair though. He wanted to go out with her so he pays

@@alsokaitlin I can appreciate that. But wouldn't you also say that she wanted to go out with him? Otherwise, why would she go?

@@richardroland9953 she literally said that in the video If she would ask she would pay

@@hellofriend3216 IF she would ask. Women dont ask 50% of the time. So it's not 50/50.

@@richardroland9953 well men cheat have of the time so it doesn’t matter

Shannon Gwynne you do know she has a boyfriend right??

@@carleenohalloran8975 a simp is more like a eunuch than a man though

Okay and her current boyfriend pays for their dates. If you dont like girls that way, and can't afford them, then date who is on your level. Aint tht hard people

@Clipped stay mad goofy ah

I also am an old fashioned gentleman. I am of the opinion that the man, as the gentleman (or supposed gentleman when referring to many folks in this era), pays for everything. Can it be expensive, yes, but as one of the rules imposed on me as a youth (a rule my dad borrowed from one of my friend's dad): Suck it up buttercup. When I had a girlfriend at age nineteen, I paid for everything and she ultimately was begging me to let her pay for something. I told her that I was going to be the gentlemen and pay for everything and that she didn't have to waste her money on me and could spend it on herself. Even something as cheap as a quarter for duck feed at a duck pond I paid for. But that's my philosophy and I intend to hold by it till my dying day.

I wouldn’t do it. I am happy to pay for my food, but then it’s not a date. That’s just my opinion.

Who asked you for advice tho?

@@EvictionNotice51 Me

Fax

So many just think they need to have sex right away. Sorry but if someone doesn’t want you because you won’t have sex right away, then they aren’t it. Sex complicates things, and it’s a shame sex has turned into just some regular ol physical activity. It’s really a spiritual thing, you are literally bonding and becoming a Union. So if there isn’t already a commitment, then you really shouldn’t be having sex. Not setting rules here, just giving advice for healthier relationships

@@jakeseeley2712 Nobody asked you for any advice once so ever. Being good or bad. Let others be and let them live however the hell they want. It is not only a birth right but God damn human right.

Fine by us. That means we didn’t get used which is much more important than “potentially getting laid”

I agree with this!

That's cute and all, but nobody wants to hear about all of your wonderful romantic escapades with your EX while they're trying to figure out if they want to date you long-term. Nobody

@@thereisnotryv1971 I think kezia meant references in passing, in order to describe past experiences. That's different from spewing unresolved emotional baggage on someone you just met

Is it considered bad mouthing if everything you said about them is true?

@@hankhippopopalous5826 Yea, I mean this is my rule of thumb, but anyone that meant something to me at any point in my life, I will never talk shit about them/will never tell their things they wanted to keep confidential. It also looks like a red flag to a new partner if you talk shit about an ex cause they will think you will do the same to them.

I mean…nobody needs to know that you hate your ex.

U gotta find the right person bro. Women will willingly pay if they actually like u

Nah woman ask men out they just don’t want ask you out

Well i mean if you like her you cant expect her to read your mind and ask you out. I do agree that their should be equal money spending and that we cant expect the guys to pay for everything.

@@wiwi7902 usually the girls wanna pay, but the men insist that they pay

Why do you assume that only the guy asks the girl out?? I’ve asked people out before. It’s not a big deal. Like you said, it is 2021.

@@kaylaberlin5886 Well, I'm glad that you did that. You are the minority of girls however. Most women expect the man to do it, so spreading that "whoever asks pays" is extremely bad for everyone who thinks equality is important when most women expect the guy to ask them out.

@@inquisitortrevelyan2606 yup, and almost every girl that never asks says they do lol

You should get out more.

@@chrisjfox8715 What I'm saying is true though.

So true!