FIRST TIME HEARING TOM MACDONALD “PEOPLE SO STUPID"

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3 жыл бұрын

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@reneeg9406 3 жыл бұрын

Some kids need to learn to lose. Otherwise we end up with adult that can't compromise and they can't cope

@chadwickvon8019 3 жыл бұрын

Could not agree more.

@kevinb8285 3 жыл бұрын

All kids

@MrArgonaut2501 3 жыл бұрын

Losing won't hurt or define you anywhere close to what quitting will.

@556colt 3 жыл бұрын

And some kids need to lose to learn, actually all people. It's well known you learn more from losing than from winning.

@Winged1212 3 жыл бұрын

There is a larger plan in that. Those are future Antifa recruits.

@reneeg9406 3 жыл бұрын

His co anchor is his sister🥰 who else could look that completely annoyed with him and still be willing to work with him

@AsiaandBJ 3 жыл бұрын

Lol!! Wow!! I didn’t know that! I clearly could see it wasn’t Nova.. but then again... I specifically remember wondering who she was. I just didn’t say it... she favors him with the blond hair! ☺️

@SSJCozzette 3 жыл бұрын

Nova lol

@jerrylee32jl 3 жыл бұрын

Sis is Bomb lol..💙 Much love

@LadyMystie 3 жыл бұрын

Yep. His sister's name is Jenna.

@reneeg9406 3 жыл бұрын

@Ffoeg Drahcnalb from what I hear it was cheaper with taxes to give her a job then it was to give her a gift for her wedding. The gift tax would have been higher than the income tax. He wanted to gift her not the IRS

@melissasantiago4056 3 жыл бұрын

A few years ago my 17 year old said she hates the participation trophies because it causes the kids that worked hard to work less because they figure what's the point of working hard if I'm gonna get a trophy no matter what. And she said it doesn't help the kids that lose because then they have less motivation to improve cause they figure they'll get a trophy either way. Now she said this when she was like 13 and was participating in math competitions, she has wanted to earn whatever she got. That thought process right there made me a proud momma.

@Steph_CommiesSuckAZZ 3 жыл бұрын

That's how you know you did it right. Good job, mama!! ❤ I got three gen z'ers and they're surrounded by so much bs, especially in school nowadays, that we have to be that much more vigilant as parents. It's true it takes a village to raise a child though and I wish that village would go back to the days where it was more accommodating in the effort to raise decent, productive citizens but that's not gonna happen anytime soon, I fear. Take care HOGFAM and much love!

@booklover4330 3 жыл бұрын

Over-protective parenting is not a good thing. Can be dangerous to the kids. And the participation trophies are a prime example.

@Steph_CommiesSuckAZZ 3 жыл бұрын

@@booklover4330 Absolutely.

@Winged1212 3 жыл бұрын

Thats one of the problem with communism. No motivation to succeed. Everyone makes the same. Why work hard? Why do extra school to become a doctor?

@Steph_CommiesSuckAZZ 3 жыл бұрын

@@Winged1212 And the fact that EVERYONE doesn't see that, how destructive it is, totally blows my mind. So frustrating.

@nyynews-ruben 3 жыл бұрын

The reason why he calls out the trophies for losing is because it is creating more sensitive kids. They need to understand they need to try harder and not settle for less.

@goji8416 3 жыл бұрын

Especially since participation is mandatory for a lot of the activities anyways, so participation trophies are usually worthless if someone doesn't have any choice but to participate.

@debbieeppsmullins208 3 жыл бұрын

Children need to know that through their lives, you win at times but you lose sometimes. It depends on how they are shown to handle their losses as well as their wins. That's why we as parents are so important.

@88wildcat 3 жыл бұрын

Plus no matter who you are at some time or another life is going to turn around and kick you in the gonads. You need to learn how to bounce back from setbacks.

@ordinarybear7037 Жыл бұрын

socialize skills leading to socialism & communism. kind regards alls

@Frostrazor 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Asia, no one is 'unsubscribing' because you don't agree with one of tom's points on here. His music is designed to generate conversation - as it did between you and your man. Civil discourse is possible and Tom's music inspires that. We know you rock with Tom on most songs, so it's all good. There a few of his that i'm not crazy about. This was my first song my wife and I ever heard from him and we were instantly hooked! We HOGs love you both and love your reactions - we prefer genuine responses and enjoy getting to talk about what people disagree with. The key is "talk" - not scream or shout with an emotional meltdown (which is unfortunately the status quo in todays twitterworld).

@miagain3525 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree not everyone is going to like every single song..but this one had some good points like considering bacteria on Mars life..but not a heart beat on earth! I also like the "call me homophobic because I don't want to date guys" ..doesn't mean we don't want others not to have the right to date the same sex if that is what they want..but yeah if you don't think exactly how they think you're labeled! People are stupid! Lol 🤣

@SavvyWizard 3 жыл бұрын

This right here^^^

@pearl_lisha896 3 жыл бұрын

To add to that if people unsubscribe because they didn’t like a video you did. They were never fans of yours to begin with. ❤️

@grumpyoldbastard0563 3 жыл бұрын

That's why I quit twitter and facebook

@h.s.6269 3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more about this. His music is about creating conversations and getting society back to the point where we can respectfully accept someone else's opinion even if its different.

@jtramelli5464 3 жыл бұрын

"It's hard for them to understand they're not the winner" yeah, that's the point, that's what they need to learn

@ellisargamer9248 3 жыл бұрын

I can see the point of view of not wanting your kid to feel hurt, but it's a bad message, a bad lesson, even though the intentions are good. Life is competitive in many aspects, teaching kids who didn't win that they did, when they didn't, is setting them up for failure as an adult, low expectations, and denying them learning the proper way to cope with failure. You tried, that's great, but you didn't win and that sucks, learn from mistakes, try harder next time, train more, study more, and if you still don't win after giving it 100% then at least you know you gave it everything. Also, you're not going to win at everything every time, but as long as you give it your all when it's important to you, that's what matters. Just my opinion.

@chadwickvon8019 3 жыл бұрын

Participation trophies teach kids that they get rewarded no matter what, that's not how real life works and they should be taught that from a young age. I played baseball as a child and if you didn't get third place or higher then we didn't get a trophy. It's motivation to play and try hard.

@seekersees693 3 жыл бұрын

Asia's expression from the beginning of the video with jaw dropped down is hilarious. Was she thinking WTF? LMAO

@Melody-sc3mp 3 жыл бұрын

I have one of those chubby kids and I would rather he got rewarded for working hard to get it not just because he was there, because fact is after he's out of school he's going to have to work hard to get what he wants and I don't want him thinking he deserves more without putting in the work

@richielehr 2 жыл бұрын

His rewards are the results he sees from his hard work... Not participation trophies

@yellahamma66 3 жыл бұрын

If you participate in a team sport, your participation trophy is your uniform and your name on the roster. Thats a privilege in itself. Just my honest opinion.... great reaction! Love your energy 💯

@USMC-dm3ws 3 жыл бұрын

I’m with you brother! If I didn’t win a trophy I worked harder! Now I have Olympic medals because I worked harder!

@donnatassa2018 3 жыл бұрын

Yessss!!. Losing causes some self reflection, reassessment and practice in honing one's skill. Trying harder often results in pulling out something you never realized you had. It inspires greatness. No one sets records or discovers new frontiers with complacency and mediocrity.

@USMC-dm3ws 3 жыл бұрын

@@donnatassa2018 couldn’t have worded it better! My daughter would refuse to take the trophy and talked her “clique” on the team to do so as well. Those five young ladies were the core of the team that won the SC soccer state championship 5 yrs later because of exactly what you wrote!

@bagbunny 3 жыл бұрын

I was at a tae kwon do competition and got my ass beat. I wouldn't take the participation trophy they offered me, and they looked at me like I was retarded. I didn't earn it, didn't want it. Trained harder, came back, earned my trophy. It meant so much more to me the second time around because I worked damn hard for it.

@booklover4330 3 жыл бұрын

I wish it was like this. The participation trophies are stupid and cause kids to become adults and be unable to lose to anything.

@michaelcrow9371 3 жыл бұрын

This is how it used to be, no trophies for those who lose. That made you work harder to win that trophy which made the victory even more significant because you knew that you earned it.

@MarvRoberts 3 жыл бұрын

LOL! The Gang don't unsub just because you might not care for a certain track by Tom. That just shows us that you guys are keepin' it real...and we like real. Love y'all!

@hzattau3 3 жыл бұрын

🔥❤️🔥HOG ... If you give everyone trophies then no one understands that the hard work is what earns that trophy... and it makes people think they don’t have to work hard to win.... when they always win as a kid they are going to grow up and think that is how life works and then they cannot cope when they realize it doesn’t work that way!

@Frostrazor 3 жыл бұрын

This is true - but not only this, but those who DO win realize it's not as special, so why work so hard? It creates lack of motivation to try.

@hzattau3 3 жыл бұрын

@@Frostrazor 💯

@mrsBurchett22 3 жыл бұрын

Please do I wish. It's so good and a different side to Tom

@Gulicktheemu 3 жыл бұрын

Is everybody ready for some cherry Pie on Friday? #hangovergang forever - For the algorithm 🤘🏿🤘🏽🤘🏼🤘🏻

@Frostrazor 3 жыл бұрын

Hell yah ! That teaser picture for song cover art looks fire AF. So looking forward to it.

@gailshepard-cook6350 3 жыл бұрын

Asia and BJ I think His New one Might be in His Rock/Rap Style?Which I Enjoy.Check Out His Songs"Ashes" & "Way Off" , I'm Pretty are Those Are The Names ... Enjoy You Two Very Much & Thank You #HOG

@lucaschambers8168 3 жыл бұрын

I think there was an accidental release on spotify cause there was a song I never heard loaded up in 2021 and it was crazy

@lesliemcc9631 3 жыл бұрын

If you want to give the winners and losers something equal, fine. But don't the winners deserve something EXTRA to celebrate their talent and hard work? EDIT: love your reactions!

@murphybrandon84 3 жыл бұрын

im a single full time father of 2 and I cant give my kids a participation trophy because im trying to teach them how real life works. I use myself as a example, you cant win all the time or win at all, just work harder for what you want. no hand outs

@iuile 3 жыл бұрын

I got a participation trophy back in the third grade. I hate that thing. It's a constant reminder that I wasn't good enough and the adults in my life back then pitied me. Luckily, it toughened me up. Not in the thing I got the trophy for but I learned not to let people treat me like I need to be coddled and protected from the world.

@ela10c 3 жыл бұрын

Participation trophies don’t give kids a purpose to strive to win. We’re witnessing the first generation of participation trophy getters grown up right now. How well does it feel like it’s going?

@michaelkimball8192 3 жыл бұрын

Y’all need to do no response!

@heidithatswho.2481 3 жыл бұрын

#hangovergang for life 🔥🔥🔥

@JesusFriedChrist 3 жыл бұрын

#HOG

@_ParkerJackson_ 3 жыл бұрын

BJ: “We getting off base” Asia: “NO!” 😂😂

@Steph_CommiesSuckAZZ 3 жыл бұрын

Asia is hot. JS.

@felipephillipo1519 3 жыл бұрын

Marriage in a nutshell....😅😅

@_ParkerJackson_ 3 жыл бұрын

First time I heard this song my reaction was the same as BJ... “Oh my Godddd” 😂 Tom is a national treasure.

@rongolder4597 3 жыл бұрын

Glad y'all don't blindly agree with each other. I see that on reactions all the time. I hate it. Lol

@julieparslow2998 3 жыл бұрын

Please do best rapper ever ❤️🇬🇧

@unapologeticallyamerican307 3 жыл бұрын

My kids were not allowed to have the trophy if they lost.. Accepting loss happens and you have to work hard and win to get trophies is the way i grew up and how i raised my kids. They,now adults, thanked me for it. Mad Respect Unapologetically #HOG Always

@allencrameriii9305 3 жыл бұрын

Ready for Friday!?! I am, we all should be. Thanks for the video.

@derkisdonenow6472 3 жыл бұрын

I told my kids that i coached it was to mark the milestone in their lives they accomplished giving it their best no matter the outcome but we also had a first and second place trophy we also gave medals to most improved we made sure to show the kids hard work pays off and our all star team so it shows that these four were best

@Quoteunquot3 3 жыл бұрын

I agree 100% other than the fact that losing is what makes someone a winner. Plenty of examples of this. It pushed you to be your best. That's why competition matters. If you come up short, accept it and work harder to become the best you can be. Much love.

@xxtruckerdanxx 3 жыл бұрын

You 2 are by far my favorite couple channel. You 2 are amazing, keep up the great work and I look forward to more.

@KatsSouthernCharms 2 жыл бұрын

I love watching these back. I am a mom and I am competitive so I see it too ways. If you have things given to you for nothing then they grow up and expect that in adulthood. They don't understand or learn how to deal with disappointment, make goals and learn to WORK for what you want. If at first you don't succeed try try again. You teach them to cope with disappointment and how to push harder or try different ways to achieve goals! It hurts to lose what happens when they don't get that promotion at work? They flip because it wasn't handed to them? Have to look at life lessons that sports teach too. I was raised with no participation trophies and we learned to help teach our weakest player because they were part of our team. We didn't put them down we helped them because we won as a team and lost as a team. Love watchin yall. :)

@healingspiritspodcast 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you two are cracking me up, the cupcakes and the cake.

@StevenMRA 3 жыл бұрын

I KNEW you two would like this .... love watching you two. You got great chemistry. Hope you both are well. Thanks for making this reaction.

@jeffrohn4248 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 100% with my homie BJ on the participation trophy, you’re teaching children that mediocrity is good enough!

@hatekate54 3 жыл бұрын

Such a dad reaction “you got a trophy for LOSING?!” Hahaha 🤣

@pumpkinproblem 3 жыл бұрын

I honestly believe he meant the trophy thing. I loved sports when I was a kid, if i lost it hurt yes, but it just motivated me to practice more and work harder to achieve my win. Rewarding someone for losing isn't teaching them to understand the feeling of disappointment and can lead to major emotional problems when they are older.

@justinbeard5103 3 жыл бұрын

Watched about 10 of your videos and finally sub'd, good work.

@justinbeard5103 3 жыл бұрын

Hit the sub bell as well =) Thanks for the honest reactions.

@andrewforgie561 3 жыл бұрын

Love the reaction again! Especially when ya’ll pause the video to give your personal perspectives - it’s proof that we can disagree on how things are handled like kids coming in last and getting a participation trophy. I can understand both sides for sure! My initial reaction was like “why give kids a reward for participating”...then I remembered the medals I’ve gotten for participating in a 5k race and remembered that I appreciated the medal for completing it. Sooooo...I have to admit it’s a good thing and this reaction actually changed my opinion on something! 👍🏻

@ChristofferOrrmalmUtsi 3 жыл бұрын

Super chill and WHOLESOME as usual!🙏💜😇 Amazing to see smart people for a change!💪💪🤘😎❤ Stay awesome and safe!🤜🤛👍💛

@nataliegrooman4328 3 жыл бұрын

I Love Tom's video's and lyrics. I also love the way Asia and BJ bring the feed back. BOOM!

@_Knowledge_Is_Power Жыл бұрын

I ABSOLUTELY love you two! I see you are wearing a Texans hat. Houston, TX here. Love you!

@bobdawkins7473 3 жыл бұрын

Happy to see your Subs going up guys :)

@taylor351 3 жыл бұрын

Simon Sinek has a great piece about participation medals. He says it actually devalues the medals actually earned. And, in turn, it makes the kids getting the participation medals feel worse about themselves because they see the other kids getting "better" trophies and know they dont deserve a medal themself. As a PE teacher for younger kids, I teach winning and losing. Kids NEED to know how to accept and deal with failure. It's a part of life and the earlier they know and understand it, the better they can handle it in the future.

@Adam-nv7bq 3 жыл бұрын

Love your reactions guys here from Ireland 🇮🇪 😍

@TheFirstCurse 3 жыл бұрын

Lol... This was great. Watching you two debate on the trophy was a thing too 😆 Great reaction and perspective! #HOG #HangOverGang Thank y'all 💯💯

@jordanmitchell174 3 жыл бұрын

No response is such a good song! It’s like 6 minutes of bars and facts it’s gonna be a hand full of a vid when you do this one!!! Love y’all #HOG

@11bearcub 3 жыл бұрын

Love you guys! Glad you like Tom

@lms4712 3 жыл бұрын

🙋‍♀️ As a mom I completely agree. Some kids get bullied & think they aren't enough. Then get bullied for losing. At a certain age where it's hard for them to understand, I think the winners trophies should be obviously different but yes, children should get something for participating. When they get to an age to understand & decipher the difference is when they know it's a competition & not everyone walks away with something. I remember watching a 6 yr old cry & it was heartbreaking. .

@nathanwatkins8637 3 жыл бұрын

Still loving y'all. HOG FOREVER AND A DAY!! Respecting different opinions and perspective is the point. Keep sharing. I could say more, but y'all and others in the comments have covered my thoughts. But would like to say that this vid came out before the last few political one's and truly was the first big step and moment of Tom really "getting in the face" of the general public. So Glad we're entitled to our own independent thoughts and opinions and glad y'all share yours.. BIG LOVE! #HOG4LIFE.

@brandonpurcell6730 2 жыл бұрын

Y’all participation trophy argument had me dying 😂😂😂 best reaction

@YouWhatMate28 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha the argument you had about the trophies is the same as me and my partner would have. Good video BTW

@jameskeen9112 3 жыл бұрын

He means sometimes we learn, grow and improve when we lose. Kids get stronger and nnwd to learn to lose and if it hurts to grow. I am a father and absolutely believe as I had experienced losing is important and of you want to win you need t practice, improve and change.

@12Squared 3 жыл бұрын

if the point is to say everything possible to upset everyone possible, he hit every note in order until he found at least one trigger for everyone. LMAO :D and I totally agree, his message could certainly help more people than it could hurt. I'm SO glad I found you guys! I'll be catching up on your content for weeks! xoxo

@GrahamWhatmough 3 жыл бұрын

6:20 that back and forth is why it's so important for kids to have a mother and a father around...

@dra6ke 3 жыл бұрын

My son didn’t study enough for a Spelling B in 4th grade and he got knocked out right away. They gave him a ribbon. I snatched that real quick. He was chill, though. He knew he didn’t deserve it.

@teresamcclendon9029 3 жыл бұрын

Asia I agreed with you at one time about the trophies.. Then I realized it makes them try harder the next time if they don’t get one.. much Love ❤️ 💯

@Jamesbout83 3 жыл бұрын

Hope u guys are having a good day fam. Great reaction as always.

@MrRastephen 3 жыл бұрын

Oh shit, Texans hat.. I’m from Houston! Moving back to Dallas from Denver soon though.. I’ll be glad to be back home in Texas!

@marytasho8618 3 жыл бұрын

Ola! HOG in da HOUSE! HOG POR VIDA! You alls REACTIONS to Mr.Tom MACDONALD are entertaining, informative and I love your breakdowns!! Welcome to HOG FAMILIA!!

@rapa6427 3 жыл бұрын

Great reaction! HOG 4 life! ❤️ From🇨🇦

@wesv8743 3 жыл бұрын

That is Tom's exact point it is making our society so sensitive that everybody is butthurt it someone disagrees with them... and they all think they should all get their way because they were brought up that they got a trophy just for showing up

@shanelamoureux293 3 жыл бұрын

Love the reaction guys ❤️

@stasiasmith7186 3 жыл бұрын

This is the song that turned me on to Tom. My daughter played it for me. Asia, love the look on your face from the first 30 seconds of the song. I had to pause to write this comment.

@jasonsammons5345 3 жыл бұрын

I'm with him on the trophy thing. I have seen my own children take a participation trophy and break it and throw it away. Said there was no reason to keep it as a reminder of loosing. I was never so proud in my life. Participation trophies were designed by trophy companies that wanted to increase their #'s. Great reaction guys 👍 HangOverGang4Life 🤘

@melissasokalski7246 3 жыл бұрын

They're sensitive because of adults. I am 43 we worked hard to come in first if we lost we did better next time!!

@maiarosewatts3529 3 жыл бұрын

hey hey, omfg yes....this one hurts me laughing ...this always cheers me up beautiful A and B xx

@AzzekaTheRealOne 3 жыл бұрын

YASSSS Tom/Nova good reaction guys 💓

@martinbasten192 3 жыл бұрын

I remember when I was doing soccer tournaments, we often ended up somewhere among the bottom 5 teams and we would get a participation trophy. I always thought "Why? We're not even in the top 3. Only they get to have trophies". I learned very early on that it is okay to lose, since you're rarely ever the only one, and you have to try a little better next time. I really feel like if kids get participation trophies every single game they play, it would at some point get boring because there is a lot less competition

@ianjackson3346 3 жыл бұрын

I agree BJ, he'd make a good news anchor, and, I bet the ratings would go up.

@jonbalzarini6935 3 жыл бұрын

The girl next to him at the news desk is his sister. Remember his line from “This House”-“I’ll get my mom a house, get my dad a car, make my sister rich, she’ll never work again” She is now employed by Tom. He’s kept to his word.

@wonderwomanmomma4112 3 жыл бұрын

Failure is a great teacher. Learning how to handle it when you are young rather than as an adult when they can cause harm to themselves.

@tomreid5002 3 жыл бұрын

I loved hearing you two talking about the participation trophies. You go BJ!!!!

@chrisgough8372 3 жыл бұрын

Imho, kids need to know the feeling of losing. It’s not a bad thing. As adults, we lose. Maybe we didn’t get the job or promotion we wanted, maybe we got outbid on a sale and lose the business, go to buy a car and it’s already sold, etc, etc, etc. Not everyone is a winner all the time and losing not only builds character, but builds that desire to make yourself better and stronger for the next challenge rather than shy away or give up because you feel entitled to a certain outcome.

@iammwh936 3 жыл бұрын

Love and respect to you guys. Asia be gorgeous...as usual. As to the trophies...trophies for the winners...ribbons for the others.

@realityruinnow4464 3 жыл бұрын

I always told my kids after their team lost that they won by just being there and giving it their all. The only participation award they ever got was Dad taking them out to eat or getting some ice cream. They always suited up to play year after year because they wanted to...

@chadjohns6955 3 жыл бұрын

BJ, you are absolutely correct about the participation trophies. It builds character to lose sometimes, and to get up and continue to fight and pursue the best of yourself. If everyone gets a trophy, no one gets a trophy, it becomes worthless

@itsallasimulation3509 3 жыл бұрын

Hahah she was about to kill you over the trophies topic. Lol 😂 love it

@gsboonedox9883 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry guys but at 4:49 or give or take a few seconds...BJ! I was feeling you bro. That's one of the coolest ladies on KZfaq(Asia, of course) but I got a son and you got it, I read that expression, LMAO right now! Y'all are so awesome and fun. Don't ever stop!

@johnh.7157 3 жыл бұрын

He said give him the cake too!!🤣🤣🤣

@stephaniediaz4935 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@bararobberbaron859 3 жыл бұрын

Over here we figured the participation thing out 30 years ago :P You get a ribbon for participating, a nicer ribbon if you've participated multiple years in a row (other kind of dedication) and medals/trophies for those that actually win.

@quantumwhiterabbit2107 9 ай бұрын

Champions are made from losing and getting better to not want to 'feel' what losing felt like. Participation trophies take away from drive to make yourself and or your team better. It teaches complacency and the just show up attitude that is prevalent in the work force today.

@MrKen11589 3 жыл бұрын

This is my favorite song from Tom.

@tim196868 Жыл бұрын

Thank God I grew up in the 70s. We lost a ball game I hung my head going to the car and Dad would look at me and say y'all got beat today. You guys are going to have to practice harder and maybe you'll get them the next time.

@bravo1495 3 жыл бұрын

This vid always makes me laugh my ass off #HangoverGang #HOG forever

@jk5197 3 жыл бұрын

The problem is, if you award everything to them just for showing up than they expect throughout life. Maybe your kid can't play baseball, but maybe he excels at Band. Try all but get to what they are good at. If they like the sport they always lose at than losing should inspire them to work harder.

@alishahensley9561 Жыл бұрын

Exactly you get out of something what you put into it hard work ,perseverance, probably( not spelled right) are the real pay off in life

@ease4u175 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this reaction! Im waiting on This House by Tom lol #HOG 4 LIFE

@rubensmith1300 3 жыл бұрын

I love that you guys had a serious disagreement that you kept on the reaction and ended up not fighting. This is why he does he what does. Bring out the topic and talk.

@Vrtlancer21 3 жыл бұрын

This reaction was 🔥🔥🔥 like the clothes in Asia’s video “on my own”

@davidr7813 3 жыл бұрын

I'm with BJ on the trophies, I sucked at sports when i was a kid, couldn't run fast, or jump high. If I had got a trophy for sucking I might not have kept on looking for something I was good enough to actually win at. Which eventually I did find something I could compete at and win a trophy for being the best. That feeling of accomplishment cant be replaced with a participation trophy.

@TheTurinturumbar 2 жыл бұрын

It comes down to, do you want to be long term nice or short term nice. Giving participation trophies is short term nice but mean in the long term. Hurting their feelings now is short term mean but long term nice. That's why two parents are needed. One gives that fuzzy warm feeling so the kids believe in themselves and the other gives them a taste of reality so their belief in themselves isn't shattered on the first obstacle.

@zerocool4835 3 жыл бұрын

ps i subbed... you too, listen to the music and speak ur real thoughts mad respect

@tabithabrain5319 3 жыл бұрын

Wanna know you spouses parenting style, introduce the trophy debate! Lol

@greggriffiths8283 3 жыл бұрын

Canadian rapper in you American rappers list . Took some finding . Cool reaction.

@the4thphase 11 ай бұрын

Okay, haha, long time response but I’m with BJ on this. I’m 42, 43 on the 18th and in elementary, we had field day, we didn’t have “participation trophies”. As a child, I knew that I had to work harder. It’s a part of growing up, nothing is handed to you unless you work for it.

@zackstockton3879 3 жыл бұрын

I got your bro. Hard work gets you there

@lisahill9036 3 жыл бұрын

My son was 7 and my daughter 5. They played soccer on different teams. My daughter’s team went undefeated. My son’s team went 1-9. That one win was a forfeit when the other team didn’t show up. Both my kids got trophies. My son didn’t understand about losing and it took away from my daughter’s wins. Kids need to learn disappointment because life is full of it. Loss pushes them to do better the next time.....