Me tooooooo!!!!!

Sammmmmmeee!!!! I love that song!! 🎧

Agreed!

Same

Yes!

Me too

God has all of us just believe

Hell isn't a place with fire anyways. Apparently that was made up by the catholic church, but I do love that line in the song because it just hits home.

​@@JamieeSupernova Well... The entire concept of hell and the devil is completely made up and far more recent then people realise. It was a tactic to control even more what people would do. The entire idea of the looming eternal condemnation makes people easily manipulated. If those that preach about it actually believed in it you wouldn't see them commiting the crimes that will make them go to hell for eternity...

Same and I'm only 18 bruh. This shit exhausting. Literally if good jobs actually hired I feel we'd ALL be doing way better mentally and physically etc.

Yeah, she tuned that thing up real good.

As someone who spent 8 years in music college, sounds like auto-tune to me.

Autotune.

The entire thing is autotune. Nobody sings anymore, except for Billie Eilish.

I could listen to that over and over

You might see this as intruding but I felt like I have to share with you the source of the peace in my heart. It’s simply my religion. So, wherever you are in the world just visit a mosque and ask for a free copy of The Quran or order it online. Try reading it, I’m sure you won’t regret it. Take care!

Your comment gives me ao much hope. Thanks for sharing your story. 💓

As a 21yo woman that's gonna be out of college in just a couple days, has failed or not sent all my exams and doesn't know - has no clue - what the futur holds (which is turning my brain into a anxious/depressed mess) [I sent applications nowhere and haven't searched schools/jobs]... Thank you. I sometimes forget that I want to live a long life. It doesn't need to be happy all the time. Even if it's not next year, one day I'll feel happy and right where I belong, and I won't fear what's coming for me. Hope you live long and well miss. You're amazing. 💙

I hear you. I am 40 and my life feels like there is still something missing somehow although I have a kid (which I love more than anything else) and am married.

That's inspirational 🙏🏼 thanks for sharing ☺️

Thank you so much for sharing! I restarted university last year at 38 and feel a bit alone with that :D (and here, I have to study for 5 years until I finally can fulfill my dream of becoming a teacher)

Thank you

​@nriamond8010 I'm 36 and I feel like I'm restarting life. My chronic illnesses caught up to me right after I graduated with my masters. So I've never gotten to actually work in my intended career. Now all of my credentials are out of date and I'm starting an art career instead of taking those credential exams again.

She’s definitely not alone but no one has all the time in the world.

I'm freshly 43 and that feeling hasn't gone away. 🤗🤗

I never got this thing about caring if others are happier. Well, I care about the people that are my friends, them being happy makes me happy. But the rest is just scenery, right?

My friend, I'm 43 and I'm still behind.

I'm 27 and I used to think this way as well. But then you realize everyone is on their own path at different speeds and that's ok.

The day i turned 25 suddenly hit me. I was fine before but then suddenly exsistencial crisis on max for whole day. At night i had a talk with my (16 years older) husband about what i was feeling and how he went through similar at some point. He helped me see accomplishments i didnt and i geniinly am now happy with where i am❤it seems we all go through this!

40 years here. yeah, I guess it gets better. somewhat.

36 and feeling the same. I feel like I've sobbed my whole life away in just these past few years. I'm starting therapy in 5 days. I wish us both (us all) the best in life. We'll get there eventually.

35 and same here. Feeling like I’m behind everyone else and not having the life I thought I would by this age is hard. Every day I mourn the life I wish I’d had. Gotta try to do the best with my last few years in thirties to change it. Hope we three all find our happy

Turning 34 this year and finding some comfort here that we are not experience this alone. I also have been mourning the life I wish I had since my engagement with my first love ended a couple years back. And seeing friends reach the next milestones in their life while I’m still sad and alone. It’s tough, but may us get through it all together 😌

wish u all the best❤

I'm turning 30 and feel similar. But I found something that helped is. I quit a few years ago my job after I found it not satisfying to just work 7 to 5 for living and collecting money just for myself. So I went into a crisis region to help rebuild after a disaster and if you can't help practical, just being there for the people and listen to them make a huge difference. It gave my life new meaning. Sure it wasn't easy. On the beginning stress hit my stomach and took at least a half year to get some friends on the new place. But I think it was worth it. And found a new family of the local people. But be warned helping isn't always thankfully, but god sees it and if he's your friend too in him he will repay it, latest in heaven. Just ask the locals how you can help they'll know what's missing. More and more it's even scientific approved that helping others helps yourself mentally as well.

❤❤

Indeed. We all continue forward, even if it makes no sense, even if we have no idea which way it is, we continue forward

Wishing you loads of luck!!!❤

I'm 48 and life just keeps happening regardless of my plans. So I feel you and the best advice I can give is just roll with it. I was pleasantly surprised by where I ended up

And Sometimes you don’t realize what you want to do until you’ve had some real life experience too. I’m 39 currently applying for dental hygiene school after being a dental assistant for 16 years. My oldest is taking some college classes now and my youngest gets is in 2nd grade. We all get there eventually even if it isn’t the same road someone else travels by.

lol. That’s me and about 2 weeks.

@@sophiamingnonette1847 Happy Birthday!

I’m even worse, I’m 37 and often think where did life go wrong 😹🙈

Same! 🫂

Same!! Happy 32! 🎉

So true, I’m seeing that 20s is trying to gain traction, 30s building on whatever traction you may have hopefully gained, and 40s plus working on a legacy that will hopefully sustain you the rest of the way 🤞

God I needed to read this ❤

Hang in there! Life doesn’t get easier, but you get stronger and it gets better. I’ll be 59 in a couple weeks; I’m having the best time of my life! I didn’t enjoy my 20s and 30s _nearly_ as much.

🙏🏾

So true, I had to get rid of all the toxic people first to start my life properly. For some people it takes longer to get there, as we don't all start at the same point, but if you keep trying and working you will eventually get to where you want to be.

Hugs

You go Colin!

You got it, Colin! Comparison kills our joy and makes contentment difficult. Gratitude for the things I can control leads to a happier life.

The algorithm must be summoning all 32 year old Colins

My sister's boyfriend's name is Colin. He's like 35 though.

This. Thank you. I don't feel as alone

Me too 🥺

Yeah life is just shit like that. 🤷‍♀️

You are not alone I’m 31 this hit me really hard :/

Im in my mid 50s - still feel the same. Hope you do better than me.

Hey Guillaume. Guillaume…you must be French? Hey I’m so sorry. Your comment stood out to me. I’m praying for you tonight. God sees you and he has a plan for you. Jeremiah 29:11. Keep swimming brother!

@@sarahgowens7652 Thank you, yes I'm french, i suppose my name gave it away I'm not a spiritual person, but i understand the strength and meaning of these words and how they can give you hope. Thank you for this

As a fellow millennial I can say, most of us didn't make it.

Are you a millenial if you where born in the 90es? I always thought i would be a 90es child because I was born 94

​@@guillaume3972 Salut, juste pour te dire que tu n'es pas seul, je sais que socialement la santé mentale des hommes est assez tabou et que par conséquent ça peut être difficile de trouver de l'aide... Bon courage. Je bataille moi même avec une dépression depuis des années mais la thérapie aide vraiment. Si tu veux en parler n'hésite pas à me répondre.

Exactly, so i can put it in all my playlists and listen to it on repeat 🥹

that what they think about themselves, avoiding real progress in live.

good to hear but it can still be rough sometimes. I'm a late bloomer/has to restart because my dream career just wasn't possible anymore. gonna go back to school with my siblings who are 10-14 years younger than me 💀🙃

I wish you luck !😊

I needed this. I’m approaching 30 quickly and I feel so lost and feel like a failure since I haven’t achieved all the greatness I feel like I was supposed to hit before 30

I am going to be 40 next month, and I also discovered my calling a couple of years ago. I am back in school to pursue my dream and will finally go after the life I have always wanted. Its not too late.

@@mansibhagwate5hearing from people like you gives me so much hope and positivity for the future 🥹🩵

@Jaelineswan7340 What a great opportunity to do something new, like check out the Peace Corp or Teach For America, and live in a new state! You will be helping others, which always makes a person feel good! Good luck!❤😊🎉

Stay strong kiddo - when it feels like you're being pushed off the edge of a cliff it's the perfect time to believe you can fly. And you can - metaphorically. Cover every inch of you in self-esteem and fight tooth & nail to come out on top. I know this world can be unfair and maybe it feels cruel to feed the system by doing whatever it takes to survive but believe me - there's room for you in this world. ❤

Im old and widowed your struggle is understandable At you age you feel life is at its critical This day and age a relationship seems not so hospitable But im sure if you look there will be a person in your current life you overlooked There are men out there looking for you Maybe look in a different place thats new Im alone but saying prayers for you😢

Looking back on my life I wish I went to a shelter and started over instead of chosing 2 bad relationships which caused so much severe trauma. If I had to do it over again, I wouldn't. I would go to a shelter and accept their help and guidance to turn my life around. I was too proud back then and I regret it immensely.

When there is life, there is hope

I’m 39. Please tell me this is the end of it 😅

I'm 43...when is it going to end? Will it ever be easier or is this just how my life is going to be?

42.8 here.... now health problems have been added to all the rest 🤣🤣🤣 though i have a loving partner, can't complain there. all the best to everyone who reads this 💕💕💕 you've got this!! one day at a time 💕💕💕

It will never get better. This world is a pointless sesspool. Full of plague walking around on two legs. What's the point to breathing in this shit hole? There isn't one. You are born. You suffer. You die. You are forgotten. If you are remembered you aren't remembered for the life you live but for the life people imagine you lived. Living is pointless and means nothing. So the fact that we are stuck here is bullshit.

Just turned 40....didn't even get my 1st "real" job, one with benefits and good pay, until I was 30 or 31.

Listen to the one made by Colin's POV.

What are they called

​@@-Crystal.X.- I only remember a really gross one from Colin's POV. Was there a non-gross one?

@@mjlim6610 I'm not sure, the only one I heard from Colin's POV was a stalker version.

How could I find these?

Another old millennial. Took my kid and ran from an abusive relationship. Went back to school. Completely starting over and I’ll be 40 in October. Terrified, but I have no other choice. Kiddo starts school in fall.

You have this. Little younger than you guys, little older than OP but I can tell you this your not starting over your just doing it your way. There's only one end to our story and there's nothing after that!

I like this reel cause it hits multiple levels. Like the first song irritates me a little, but the second one I relate to. I really like contrast. If you happened to listen to this when you were in first year of college, listening in 10 years would be very interesting

I would have cried listening to this song 2 years back. Now I'm in a much better place in life and I'm grateful for where i stand. Insecurities and hard ships will go away. Believe in yourself and work hard in what you want. You will be in a better place too ❤

This!

Yea the algorithm do throw us some "feels good" at times or some "feels sad"

If you can relate to a 32 year old woman with Pink Hair who apparently has accomplished NOTHING in her life despite attending college, then YOU ARE DOING LIFE WRONG. Time for a change.

Mee too I admit I'll almost cried Did everyone else succeed

I would have cried listening to this song 2 years back. Now I'm in a much better place in life and I'm grateful for where i stand. Insecurities and hard ships will go away. Believe in yourself and work hard in what you want. You will be in a better place too ❤

What do you want to get better at? The rest of us that are poor own community, so we can learn from each other.

Exactly what I came into the comments section to say 😭

​@@kylegrant6365you sound like you could be my friend Wherever you are and whenever this may reach you, I wish you happiness

Agreed

Freeturtle132 I have a boyfriend named Colin

​@Britishempirewillneverdie who shat in your coffee😂

it gets me because I do want them happier than me

@@booknerdjebbi5037bro woke up british i assume and that explains it tbh

Ya Colin was the nice guy she ignored because he liked dfferent things. Imagine wanting a partner because they like all the same things you do, that's not how love works lol

That's where entitlement comes in

@@FionnCr huh? how did you arrive at this conclusion.

Yeah..yeah:/

I feel ya ❤ 31 and going to start college this fall because I believed I couldn't do it 13 years ago.

You're like 7 no it isn't💀 and you can't even spell💀

So relatable 😢😢😢

I'm 33 and much happier and more confident than in my 20s. I think it goes like that for many people.

❤❤❤ thank you

Turning 41 in a few months. My life gets better every year, but at 30 I would never have believed it. No joke, the most accurate statement I still reflect on was from the sex and the city movie, something about your 20s are for mistakes, your 30s paying for those mistakes, 40s for picking up the tab. My heart breaks for the unique challenges of younger folks, but if anyone ever asked me I would tell them the best thing I've learned this far is to stop competing, delete social media, dump the ___ you only see potential in, get a therapist and travel. I'm stoked as hell for 41...42...

Yes! I’ve got an additional verse in my head that starts “ i’m this far out of college, things finally fell in line, I wish I could tell my former self things are gonna be just fine”

@@manateepottery this I love

This made me cry ❤ I’m 32 as well and couldn’t relate more to this!! Happy birthday to you 🙂

Much love. Us millenials have been hit the hardest. Made to believe we can do anything, hell a lot tried. But it's true, we're just trying to make the best of our situation. Got tears in my eyes. I'm 36.

I'm 32 also, a mother of 3, a wife for 5 years, but in the relationship for 17 years, and somehow I still feel like I should be a kid. I'm not emotionally or financially ready for this world. I need the time to slow down or a restart. I really don't think life should be this freaking hard. But all we can do is keep moving forward. Happy belated birthday and I hope one day it will get easier for all of us and we can stop fighting to live and just live.

@@mistibransford6954 One thing, from a 55yr old male...who has kids half your age......KEEP going.....NEVER blame yourself....ALL of us - EVERYONE, is getting pumped over - Nothing is personal - NEVER EVER Blame yourself - Positive Mental Attitude - PMA. x

Look don't take this the wrong way you are where you are because of your choices just like everybody else apparently on this thread I'm 34 I'm a millennial then make better choices I get there are things that are out of our control but I know a lot of millennials that are in your position aren't focusing on what they can control they focus on everything that doesn't matter between our generation and gen z everybody wants to be an activist instead of just taking care of the responsibilities

It's like an entire generation did as they were told, and everything we were told we'd get isn't there. No affordable living, terrible wages, and the largest percentage of depression. But no one's angry. We're all just too tired.

My mom only got worse, and she passed last month beforeshe could do any of her dreams, and now I just cant help but think of the point of all of this, when everything can be taken, all my hard work just gone before I can put it to use. I like to believe me and my siblings are her achievement in life and I can try to make her proud, but I am 19 and I dont have a job or a car and I cant get hired. She saved up so much money to get a camper so she would have a place to live, and she passed before she could even go inside of it.. I put all my work into becoming an artist these last 8 years, but now ai art is coming out, and 2d is not really valued as much anymore

If it makes you less sad I went to uni, found my wife there, finished my degree and got a fairly good job (bit later than intended due to COVID), bought a house, got married, had a kid and I've not turned 30 yet. Sometimes things do go "as they are supposed to". But I'm also privileged to live in a country where I was helped through all of it.

This should be the top comment fr

Who is she?

Ye she does

The wall has arrived, she's realized that a family should have been a priority and she squandered her prime years riding the c.c. Now its time to think about moving in with other modern women for survival.

Which one??

@@Dade13305 I found her: Aimee

💐💅 Treat yourself, sis

It must be nice to afford therapy 🥲 I can barely afford rent 😰😭😭😭😭

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 yes! Work it out in therapy.

Don't worry. No one is happy. LOL

​@@RocketMomma-ig5ttnot true, my friend. There are those who can laugh at this world's nonsense because, even when life hurts, we don't place our hope in the things of this life. ❤ Jesus loves you, my friend.

I’m 20 years out of college, and my life feels halfway over and I’ve only just barely gotten anything started. There’s so much to do and so little time. I’ve found myself and my place and I’ve begun carving my spot in the world but I’m wondering if I’ll finish before I run out of the time I’m given. I just need more time.

Gen x here: I've never had a problem, and nothing bad ever happened. I got challanges galore, which sometimes turns to growth opportunities , and as much as it may suck, I embrace it and move on. This is why I know for sure: it's all good.

"...there are some many options available..." That is the good problem to have. Pick anyone to do. It literally doesn't matter which. And when you do it you might discover you like it and boom, it's all good. Or you may discover it sucks... and thats fine two because it just helped you narrow down your options and fine tune your search. You got this. Options are good.

"I'm 80 years old and I fought the Nazis in a World War and then got home and got a job and built the modern country like nothing happened."

@@swickens930 airborne Sir.

I'm almost 40 and as a Xillennial, there's a lot I feel so behind on. I feel like I should have more stability and security, but seriously, my 30's were better than my 20's, and I'm WAY more excited about my 40's than I ever was about any decade. None of us really have it together. None of us really know anything. But at 39, I'm feeling cute in my own skin and I'm always open to learning more.

Why would you feel like you’re behind if I may ask? Sometimes, we’re competing against our own shadow

Idk man. I have no college beyond some career specific certs and I made 77k last year. College is a scam.

@@jenerin905genuinely love this for you 😊

Yes 🇦🇺 😊

She did one 😊 - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9ykgpWi3a3Lg3U.htmlsi=o48Sz5gVn5n6a_Od

Gen x for the win...

I can try lol😊

but 🤞🏻 positive

And that’s okay

I too am moving back in with my mom once my lease is up for the same exact reasons you listed. It's nice to know I'm not alone but dealing with the shame associated with it can be so tough.

Never feel ashamed of making smart decisions, especially when those smart decisions help you be happier :)

Lol, I'm 35, was kicked out of an abusive home at 16. Had my first child at 20, got a trade, now run my own business bringing in 6 figures a year. My wife is a stay at home mum looking after our 3 boys, been with her for 16 years, we have a semi traditional relationship, she has helped build me up so I can provide for our family. Dropping out of college to get a trade was the best thing I've ever done. 99% of my friends have office based jobs and are struggling to pay bills. My suggestion to you would be to utilize your time living at your parents the best way by ditching your current career and getting a trade then going self employed and taking in your own jobs.

​@@Pablosplace that's horrible advice...trades are not for everyone you don't know their situation either. Being self-employed is incredibly hard and not stable, being your own boss only sounds good but most people are nowhere close to knowing how to run a business correctly. Plus you just rubbed your successful life in their face not cool. We can't all do the same thing or no one would be doing the jobs we need, you keep doing you but don't make it seem like the only way to be.

@@nerdycurls6253 I've been self employed for 8 years and am absolutely killing it, same as everyone I subby in on my jobs. It's fantastic advice, you just don't have the drive to do it. What do you do for a living?

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In prison maybe

I was probably Colin for a lot of girls. I'm good looking, good personality, hard working, and truly kind. A ton of girls rejected me for some reason. I blame Disney Frozen. All women got paranoid after that movie. If Colin is like me and did well, he will not want any of his exes to see how well he did. People think it will feel good when the person rejected us will regret not choosing us, but it actually a terrible feeling. This actually happened to me. The girl who ghosted me and I think she chose another guy and then try to get with me again after her break up and after she found out the type of guy I was, but it was too late. I got married to someone else. She saw me and my wife at the store. My wife and I were very nice to each other. I can feel how bad the girl who ghosted felt. It was one of the worst feelings. I rather a girl hate me and think I'm a loser, so they can move on than get stuck on me.

​@@alexlilano1931you need to sit down babes🫶

I wonder if we all feel this way. I'm with you right now and I haven't even graduated highschool.

Being 28 I have some unsolicited advice (featuring bonuses from my mother) Fuck everyone else. Much easier said than done, but it took until my 26th birthday for the switch to flip in my head. At this stage, no one else’s opinion matters. They can give advice, sure, but it’s not worth tailoring everything you do to pleasing other people. It’s not easy at all. And also, don’t compare yourself to other people. Everyone is going at their own pace, and too many people are spending too much time looking at everyone else and wondering why they aren’t where that other person is. It is a waste of precious time and energy

Omg I'm 19 too and I feel so behind. Like when I was younger I thought I'd have more going for me at 19 then I do now.

I have more unsolicited advice as a wee old 27 yr old. You always hear the kind of advice that says “make every day count” “life is short” “you only live once” and those kinds of things. The thing is, that advice was made by older people and it puts a lot of pressure on you to always be thinking ahead and pushing on. And yes, that’s good. But it’s also bad. It’s too much pressure. Our society puts too much pressure on younger people. So you have to balance that and take time to fuck around and find out. Take time to lounge all day and do nothing. Take time to do that hobby that people judge you for. Life isn’t short at all as long as you give yourself the time to live it. For old people, yeah, their life be short. Cause they fuckin old. Us? Nah, we have time. They just want us to believe we don’t.

Thats because we all pretend we have our life together. You can only see the outside. Everyone struggles and you are not behind. Go your path and dont forget to take breaks to enjoy the view❤

🥺 You can still find purpose and fulfilment even in retirement it might take some praying and waiting but I know a door will be opened for you! 🙂🙏

I have a friend finally chasing his dreams in retirement ❤

You finally have time to chase your dreams!!! It’s never too late! You did your part. Now it’s your turn, and with everything you’ve learned about yourself it’s a great start. Even if you don’t know where to start you’ll figure it out 😊 I believe you 👍🏽

Life’s not perfect in retirement, but I’m finally in control. Well, mostly. Actually not as much as I’d like, but I still have options. And if you need help, there are options for most people.

It’s easy for people on the outside to say it’s never too late but until you believe it for yourself, you can’t make it come true.

At first I actually thought it was the same person but younger vs older :’D

@@erikoinenuori oh it's not??? lol nvm they don't even look the same

@HonestlyHolistic It is the same person, she says "wonder where Colin ended up" if it was a different person then why would she mention a random person😂

​@@FressNowdo your eyes work OK?

If you are 35 years out of college when you have your first kid, you are a 56-57 year old man (or older).

​@nwnmiria ..... please tell me you are joking. He met his love on the first day of college and got married 12 years later. 3 years after they got married, they had a kid = 15 years after meeting her day 1 in college. He's only been out of college for 20 years.

@@Vantiastar93 He was 20 years when he MET her. 20+12+3+21 (unless he is a genius

Wooow 12 years! When did you guys actually start dating or realized you liked each other?

@nwnmiria interesting idea or the kid is 5 years old now.a

I had people 70+ at my community college when i got my first degree (ASN). Every time someone tells me they are too old to go to college I tell them about this. My dad is 55 and like 2 semesters away from a bachelor's and I'm like if you want to DO IT BRO you're almost there and still young!

I'm a couple of years older than you, and I've become convinced - everyone is winging it. Everyone. No exceptions.

Same.

Damn that's alot of kids

@@brock8993There is a comma, though.

@@carolyndeemer4518it was a funny joke, though

Right I NEED this!!!