For those who are obsessed with self-improvement videos.

For those who are obsessed with self-improvement videos. | Cinematic vlog

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4 ай бұрын

Hi. It's Pair! this is my first-ever cinematic video using iPhone 12 and Sony a5100 from almost 10 years ago. I'm not planning to get a better camera until I hit 10k because your girl is a brokie lol
Hope you like this video and feel free to share feedback :)
Thank you for watching 💌
#selfimprovement #cinematic

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@iliterallylovethis2212 13 күн бұрын

Felt like crying watching this because it's exactly what I need to hear. I know how to lose weight, I know how to start connecting with people, I know how to stand up to my dad, I know how to learn those languages I've been wanting to learn. I just need to do it and actually do the work. Watching theses self-improvement videos makes me feel productive like I'm doing something (that's why I clicked on this video) but in all actuality I know where and how I need to improve myself. So thank you, I needed to hear this. I've subscribed and I'm saving this video so that I return to it every time I need this reminder.

@mouhamedba-di6gm 8 күн бұрын

Knowing how to do something and not doing it is because of your paradigme in your subconscious mind. I advise you to do some research on this.

@CastleHassall 6 күн бұрын

hey be kind to yourself, take things even one small step at a time, and if things don't work out be kind to yourself and recover and then regroup and think about things you could do to gradually improve situation for you just doing the process of goals helps a lot too, and small steps with your dad, maybe think about why is it he is being difficult, is it because he is concerned about you or is he just mean? build your skills and learn things and maybe get a part time job and save up money in a secret online bank account you can use to get your own place one day it might take a while but having small sreps you can do will help take your focus onto the things you can do and dry you results through time i found that just not snacking between meals helps a lot, but if you excercise and get your movement up every day that will help you a lot to feel a lot better as it flushes out all the cortisol (heavy feeling biochemicals) from stress if we walk fast or run on the spot or do burpees for even a short time every day i hope life will be really good for you soon be kind to yourself is key though, and even just doing one small step towards making things closer to how we want them to be and fixing any issues that cause conflict helps a lot too what is it your dad is being difficult about? I'll try to help you with advice if i can, I've been through a lot of similar things so i hope you will be ok, be kind to yourself is key, you are dealing with a lot and there's lots of people telling us how we should be, but you be you, you are Great i bet Happy life to you

@technicalist101 4 күн бұрын

can relate to this in a spiritual level 😰😭🥴

@adoyizao 2 күн бұрын

Sending this comment, just incase you need your reminder again

@BaileytheIllustrator Ай бұрын

Dude… this isn’t a video.. this is a FILM.

@Anshiithisside 4 ай бұрын

Why this is not viral yet😭 it's a masterpiece ❤

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

This made my entire day! ❤

@ofomajadivine Ай бұрын

I know right KZfaq please push out this gem🙏🏽

@francesco5254 Күн бұрын

@@Pairandetc reminder of what made your day 4 months ago :)

@Anvar2308 7 сағат бұрын

I think it's on recommended now

@ichigooo7746 7 күн бұрын

This is the only video that I needed to break out of my laziness cycle. Been doing nothing for a week, but surely watched tons of self-improvement videos already, and nothing happened. IT'S ONLY UP TO MYSELF, NOT ONLY TO THINK ABOUT DOING IT, I SHOULD ACTUALLY DO IT.

@Matt-fo4gg 3 ай бұрын

Agreed, I think a lot of people get caught in those cycles. Same for learning art/software, an endless cycle of tutorials and never actually doing the thing. Since doing the thing is the scary part, what if it's not perfect, what if I can't do it at all etc. Also love all the creative shots you got, this is a great showcase for how underrated the A5100 is and you're showing perfectly how expensive gear doesn't really matter :)

@Lotuaoki 12 күн бұрын

You're so right especially with the fear. And when I end up doing those things, eventually it doesn't feel so scary or hard. It's just bc I'm spending extra time on it, which is completely normal. Smh the human mind sometimes...

@z6ya 3 күн бұрын

this is exactly what i needed: stop blaming myself for putting into the work but starting from authenticity to put my work into the moving

@chulde 4 ай бұрын

cinematography is amazing!

@chichi766 7 күн бұрын

I really hope she gets popular, her cinematography skills are so good

@PlsStandBy 4 күн бұрын

Y E S 🙌

@serenity.in.clouds 3 ай бұрын

relating a bit too much to the beginning of this video 😅 literally just went down a rabbit hole of self improvement videos while not doing any of the ACTUAL changes i've been meaning to do (and putting off) for months now. really appreciated this video: from the meaningful message, to the way it's shot and edited and i also did enjoy the "imperfect" audio by the water, it felt more... idk real? like a friend talking to me, more authentic and easier to connect, if that makes sense. anyway gonna put my phone down now and do some journaling and then go to bed for a reasonable time for once so thank u! 😊

@yourslyfriend 20 күн бұрын

It's nice to see a person go through there own personal version's of self improvement. I'm glad I watched your video and thank you for sharing a snippet of your bigger picture. 🦑

@sactik 6 күн бұрын

Lol i try to quit watching self improvement videos and here i am watching another one 😶‍🌫️

@user-xo5ej7vu1b 14 күн бұрын

SO WELL MADE. The color grading, the perspectives, the writing itself. Just wow.

@LesTutosbyGhita 13 сағат бұрын

You're right these videos often fall under the umbrella of edutainment with the goal of keeping your attention for as long as possible

@janjiratsun 4 сағат бұрын

this was an AMAZINGGGG film. i could 100% relate to the overconsumption of self improvement videos, and you just end up falling into this massive rabbit hole!! so proud of you for making this commitment to yourself, and so excited to see what you create

@hyleore 7 күн бұрын

hi Pair! we're about the same age and i think you're right - by that time, we KNOW what to do. I just watched a couple videos on how to get myself out of a rut, and the tips were exactly what I was already trying to do. it's just HARD. we know what to do, we just like the idea that someone has magically found an easier way. maybe I should just assume they haven't. thank you for this!

@lostinadmiration Күн бұрын

Hi Pair! Great video, keep it up - I am sure your journey will inspire others.

@alicestoneheart5945 Сағат бұрын

This is so cute(how it was filmed). Enjoyable and informative. And, you're right. We know what we need to do.

@just_torrell 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful cinematography and colour! 🔥

@PAG1803 10 күн бұрын

I just wanted to say I really appreciate the effort you put into your videos! Great content! ❤

@hazias9296 2 күн бұрын

The fact you chose rock music at 1:13 made this so much more enticing to watch, you instantly came across as a main character badass and I'm here for it

@hazias9296 2 күн бұрын

the whole video is amazing btw thanx for spreading the message, the truth

@reykuadrat Күн бұрын

this come at the PERFECT time for me tbh. even about distraction is a thing i already know and you just put it into words that i've been struggling to admit, truly. so thank you! it's time for a reality check. and.. you got a new sub! yay

@wereY20 2 күн бұрын

Hey, sis, I like everything you do here, so keep making these videos. And those questions you asked us are so important for us to answer. Are you willing to feel the discomfort that comes with a change? Every time I embark on a task, I am aware that it will be difficult, but when it truly becomes challenging, I tend to feel overwhelmed. At this point, I know that I need to lower my goal and be consistent in doing the things I need to do, but I often see myself getting back on the old track and doing the easy things like watching movies and stuff. If you have an answer for this, please share it with us.

@ismailer777 11 күн бұрын

this a piece of art honestly so glad that ytb recommended this video to me u almost mentioned everything I had on mind, hope everyone enjoys their life and focus on reality and current moment then the world we do have after the screen

@aenva 3 ай бұрын

this was so refreshing! and the light in every shot is just *chef's kiss*

@jakseen 5 сағат бұрын

there problem imo is not in the consumption, rather it’s with what and how much we consume. the most productive and creative people know they have to consume to get inspired and come up with ideas. but there’s a fine line between wasting time and getting to action.

@natashabell7385 Күн бұрын

This was amazing. You came in just at the right time. Thank you for being the change we need in the world!!

@tulsiandmogra Күн бұрын

dude, this is totally you're thing! I love your video artstyle!

@AquariusOcean 9 күн бұрын

just watched all your content & I can just feel you're gonna blow up! The art of people watching was beautifully shot & your colour grading & editing is *chef's kiss*

@MikaelaSainz Ай бұрын

jesus christ i love your filming style !!!!! sending much love to you and your content !!!

@_oopseli 3 күн бұрын

this video is amazing, you are a great cinematographer. also, i want o to express how disturbing is to be obsessed with self improvement because it’s a constant reminder of how you are not good enough and keep comparing to others in order to love yourself. you know what to do, seek answers in yourself 🤍

@halfsliceoflife 14 күн бұрын

Instant subscribe. The first half was so good i stopped everything i am doing, made full screen( i don't watch on full screen usually) and just was soaked into it. so captivating, so cinematic, its a film. the good one. hope to see more of such videos.

@momoisstudying Ай бұрын

Seriously this only has 6.6k views? It should have at least 1 million views. Thank you so much for this video cause I was addicted to so called self improvement video. Need to change myself from now on 💪🏻

@kay-no 5 күн бұрын

I think you got such a cool thing going on here so I hope this feedback is okay with you! Totally ignore this if you already know, but for your audio quality in the outside shot, I have some tips! I'm thinking when you're recording a voice memo with your AirPods connected, it may be using your AirPod microphone. I don't think iPhone has the capability to let you choose your input, but I imagine there are voice recording apps that give you the capability. Or disconnecting your AirPod during time of speaking also works; it will automatically switch back to your iPhone mic, which is much better quality. To take it a step further, under the "Voice Memo" settings, there is an "Audio Quality" option you can change to "Lossless" so you get the uncompressed raw sound. This would take up more space, so that's just an option! Buttt if the sound effect was a deliberate design choice, then everything I said here doesn't matter lol!

@allianne 21 сағат бұрын

that happened so fast that I am not sure what to comment but I do know that this was so beautifully edited 10 out of 10 ASMR and story

@darawyliv2221 Күн бұрын

the zooms of your messy room.. had me looking around omg...

@tubhjbadshbhi 8 күн бұрын

I love the music, the angles and the colors! You are so talented and I really enjoyed this

@amal1askr 3 ай бұрын

I'm in love with your channel!! Keep going, ur amazing.

@ayasiddig9626 15 күн бұрын

The content, the filming and everything on this video is very awesome!!!❤️❤️❤️

@Leafylea 17 күн бұрын

You're doing great! Much love❤

@ThatOtherAkshat Ай бұрын

This is really cool a film and an even more important a message lol. Glad you posted this!

@LavaUrba Күн бұрын

one clear message, one great frame. awesome!

@piamirpuri 9 күн бұрын

this is the motivation i needed! thank you so much! btw love your filming style!! 🫶❤

@lucillepearll Күн бұрын

loved every single thing about this, thank you so much! ❤

@non-suspiciousgrandmother6616 17 күн бұрын

Im glad this popped up on my home page cus...I needed to hear this lol. And the editing is hella nice ! :)

@uisa973 9 күн бұрын

Subscribed! I'm hooked! Can't wait for more of your vids. Seriously, they're so good, it's like premium content for free! Big thanks, seriously, you've helped me out in ways you probably don't even realize.

@CodyX7MAK 23 күн бұрын

This was literally like a fresh breath on yt

@jenninnoli 13 күн бұрын

so incredible! so happy i found this video. thank you

@MaishaMH 8 күн бұрын

Cool cinematography! Nicely done!

@rolymiller4466 Күн бұрын

Great video, loved your art & style of communication. Now to sent it to everyone I know!!

@labibazaman4120 6 күн бұрын

She deserves more subscribers.

@MerridethHawk 11 күн бұрын

beautiful vlog!💕👌 keep up the work, you are certainly talented

@uncharted1597 2 күн бұрын

That was unexpected, and very refreshing. Subscribed.

@user-uu9yb9wb5b 4 күн бұрын

You can do both. I like to watch them for motivation. Like when o was training for a marathon i was putting in the miles but I would also consume content about it to motivate me because it’s gets hard. Maybe I took it wrong but it’s weird that you’re discouraging ppl from watching videos that motivate them. I guess you’re referring to ppl who in my example are watching videos about workout motivation but NEVER working out. I will say watching too much therapy type channels eventually makes it worse because I was just thinking about all the things that’s supposedly wrong with me. Lately I watch a lot about self love and manifesting which I do need constant reminders.

@biancalynn.diaries 2 ай бұрын

Aww, my mom's from Thailand! Wonderful video! Cannot wait to see more!!

@Daisysbasic 9 күн бұрын

Thank you for this film pair and I love your name. it was very inspiring and also it’s funny cause I am staring at the window looking at nature while listening to you talk while also being in nature. ❤

@Shayshambley 11 күн бұрын

Yo the creativity is crazyyyy!! I love it

@imaginemy3268 2 ай бұрын

thank you so much for this video, you have no idea how much it resonated with me... amazing work

@Pairandetc Ай бұрын

so glad to hear that 💓

@LanaMajeed-gh2rb Күн бұрын

I have the same goals as you do, this was a refreshment to watch, keep on creating and thank u for the beautiful video!

@hellosundae101 3 күн бұрын

This really hit home with me thank you for the video :)

@Planeteno 3 ай бұрын

This was a VERY well made video! I'm gonna subscribe just so I can see what you do next! No pressure😂

@Faith_saves7 4 күн бұрын

This deserve more views ❤ thank you for this

@herbievine 4 күн бұрын

you don't need "self-help" videos or books, you just need to be conscious and start small. if you have eat badly, use social media, have a bad sleeping cycle, just acknowledge it and start with the small stuff press pause, close your computer/phone, and read a couple of pages of that book you never opened :)

@ileannacalcano Күн бұрын

this is just a masterpiece

@vitenhosouza2719 Күн бұрын

gz! rlly good cinematics

@HabeebKolawole 4 ай бұрын

This is so different and cool. At the same time delivers a really important message. I am your 160th sub

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the support 🫶🏽 really appreciate it!!

@DollishDes 4 ай бұрын

Well done ! 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼

@beatriooz 8 күн бұрын

This is a work of art.

@akanightfall1001 4 ай бұрын

It’s always ‘Tomorrow’ for me lol 😂 btw love your sunshine smile. ❤

@Inosukefr 4 ай бұрын

Lot better than any other self improvement influencer ❤

@WaffleWarriorsOfficial Күн бұрын

Fantastic video. I’m excited to watch this channel grow! Also, I needed to hear this today - thank you. (The part where you said about your name sounding made up had me howling 🤣)

@EstherJoy999 3 күн бұрын

Love this so much ❤

@xenidiaries 22 күн бұрын

so glad i stumbled upon your account, this is everyttthingg

@allday00 2 сағат бұрын

This is beautiful. You are so clever

@Mmmrie2 4 ай бұрын

Omg this is so nicely made, you r sooo underrated

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

This means a lot! 🥰

@HatakeKakashii 9 күн бұрын

Great video. As they say, to get something you never had, you have to do something you never did. Greetings from Barcelona.

@Jadee2727 4 ай бұрын

OMG! So happy this popped up on my feed today! Cinematography crazy!!

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

Thank youuu❤ I did put a lot of work into it and I’m glad this video found you!

@Jadee2727 4 ай бұрын

@@Pairandetc I really hope you go big one day, you deserve it! 🤍🤍

@JoseAlvarez-ru1wg 4 күн бұрын

Your amazing, keep up the good job🫡

@do-rightjr1 Күн бұрын

This is a fire video and right on time

@simplypaint844 4 күн бұрын

I love the thumbnail so much! It kind of reminds of the poster for the movie Parasite and I don't know why.

@bethm3152 2 күн бұрын

Love this. Thank you.

@KeturahsKorner 19 күн бұрын

Subscribed and I’m so so happy this came into my feed

@lakshaamotiani 11 күн бұрын

this is so well-created

@isabellahilario713 Күн бұрын

so good!

@cara.leo_ 12 күн бұрын

Love this Casey Neistat style video! So analog with beautiful cinematography, great movement and transitions.

@margaretcarpenter-dove6327 19 күн бұрын

Masterpiece !

@growing.flowers 21 күн бұрын

2:55 but the point is we have our OWN worlds, our own lives. and only ourselves know how it truly is for us.

@roundandround6138 7 күн бұрын

Video สวยมากเลยค่าาา จะคอยติดตามพี่แพร์นะคะ 🩷

@shomgerry 5 күн бұрын

This is beautiful

@cdrummerrob 2 күн бұрын

Great video, keep up the good vibes!

@FaithFab639 4 ай бұрын

Just gained a subscriber i love the messsage behind your videos

@dannehemmings4767 4 ай бұрын

loved everything about this video!

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

This makes me so happy! 🫶🏽

@aestheticofperspective 2 күн бұрын

Really great videography and I really like your narrate style! The topic...well I was at the same place for a loooooonnnnnnggggg time. Not really easy to get out of this cycle, but it's worth it😁! I'm also an aspiring videographer and your video has been really inspiring! Thank you :)

@wawa.b9606 4 ай бұрын

shooting editing and coloring 🔥so goooood

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

Appreciate it 🫶🏽🫶🏽

@ollieq3150 2 ай бұрын

Agreeing with everyone saying your cinematography is gorgeous!! Thank you for your perspective. Take care ❤️

@Pairandetc Ай бұрын

you're so kinddd💓

@madeleinewatchesyoutube 4 ай бұрын

I think the question here is to get out of your comfort zone, and you did it by quitting self improvement videos. Good luck with your cinematic vlogging! I liked and subscribed to help support :)

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

I’m just so thankful KZfaq connects me with the sweetest people! 🫶🏽

@madeleinewatchesyoutube 4 ай бұрын

@Pairandetc and I'm thankful KZfaq puts such great videos in my algorithm :)