For those who are obsessed with self-improvement videos.

For those who are obsessed with self-improvement videos. | Cinematic vlog

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4 ай бұрын

Hi. It's Pair! this is my first-ever cinematic video using iPhone 12 and Sony a5100 from almost 10 years ago. I'm not planning to get a better camera until I hit 10k because your girl is a brokie lol
Hope you like this video and feel free to share feedback :)
Thank you for watching 💌
#selfimprovement #cinematic

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@iliterallylovethis2212 20 күн бұрын

Felt like crying watching this because it's exactly what I need to hear. I know how to lose weight, I know how to start connecting with people, I know how to stand up to my dad, I know how to learn those languages I've been wanting to learn. I just need to do it and actually do the work. Watching theses self-improvement videos makes me feel productive like I'm doing something (that's why I clicked on this video) but in all actuality I know where and how I need to improve myself. So thank you, I needed to hear this. I've subscribed and I'm saving this video so that I return to it every time I need this reminder.

@mouhamedba-di6gm 15 күн бұрын

Knowing how to do something and not doing it is because of your paradigme in your subconscious mind. I advise you to do some research on this.

@CastleHassall 13 күн бұрын

hey be kind to yourself, take things even one small step at a time, and if things don't work out be kind to yourself and recover and then regroup and think about things you could do to gradually improve situation for you just doing the process of goals helps a lot too, and small steps with your dad, maybe think about why is it he is being difficult, is it because he is concerned about you or is he just mean? build your skills and learn things and maybe get a part time job and save up money in a secret online bank account you can use to get your own place one day it might take a while but having small sreps you can do will help take your focus onto the things you can do and dry you results through time i found that just not snacking between meals helps a lot, but if you excercise and get your movement up every day that will help you a lot to feel a lot better as it flushes out all the cortisol (heavy feeling biochemicals) from stress if we walk fast or run on the spot or do burpees for even a short time every day i hope life will be really good for you soon be kind to yourself is key though, and even just doing one small step towards making things closer to how we want them to be and fixing any issues that cause conflict helps a lot too what is it your dad is being difficult about? I'll try to help you with advice if i can, I've been through a lot of similar things so i hope you will be ok, be kind to yourself is key, you are dealing with a lot and there's lots of people telling us how we should be, but you be you, you are Great i bet Happy life to you

@technicalist101 11 күн бұрын

can relate to this in a spiritual level 😰😭🥴

@adoyizao 9 күн бұрын

Sending this comment, just incase you need your reminder again

@yifanchen5262 5 күн бұрын

Efectivamente, esto es CINE

@BaileytheIllustrator 2 ай бұрын

Dude… this isn’t a video.. this is a FILM.

@Anshiithisside 4 ай бұрын

Why this is not viral yet😭 it's a masterpiece ❤

@Pairandetc 4 ай бұрын

This made my entire day! ❤

@ofomajadivine Ай бұрын

I know right KZfaq please push out this gem🙏🏽

@francesco5254 8 күн бұрын

@@Pairandetc reminder of what made your day 4 months ago :)

@Anvar2308 7 күн бұрын

I think it's on recommended now

@ichigooo7746 14 күн бұрын

This is the only video that I needed to break out of my laziness cycle. Been doing nothing for a week, but surely watched tons of self-improvement videos already, and nothing happened. IT'S ONLY UP TO MYSELF, NOT ONLY TO THINK ABOUT DOING IT, I SHOULD ACTUALLY DO IT.

@Matt-fo4gg 3 ай бұрын

Agreed, I think a lot of people get caught in those cycles. Same for learning art/software, an endless cycle of tutorials and never actually doing the thing. Since doing the thing is the scary part, what if it's not perfect, what if I can't do it at all etc. Also love all the creative shots you got, this is a great showcase for how underrated the A5100 is and you're showing perfectly how expensive gear doesn't really matter :)

@Lotuaoki 19 күн бұрын

You're so right especially with the fear. And when I end up doing those things, eventually it doesn't feel so scary or hard. It's just bc I'm spending extra time on it, which is completely normal. Smh the human mind sometimes...

@z6ya 10 күн бұрын

this is exactly what i needed: stop blaming myself for putting into the work but starting from authenticity to put my work into the moving

@sactik 13 күн бұрын

Lol i try to quit watching self improvement videos and here i am watching another one 😶‍🌫️

@chulde 4 ай бұрын

cinematography is amazing!

@serenity.in.clouds 4 ай бұрын

relating a bit too much to the beginning of this video 😅 literally just went down a rabbit hole of self improvement videos while not doing any of the ACTUAL changes i've been meaning to do (and putting off) for months now. really appreciated this video: from the meaningful message, to the way it's shot and edited and i also did enjoy the "imperfect" audio by the water, it felt more... idk real? like a friend talking to me, more authentic and easier to connect, if that makes sense. anyway gonna put my phone down now and do some journaling and then go to bed for a reasonable time for once so thank u! 😊

@yourslyfriend 28 күн бұрын

It's nice to see a person go through there own personal version's of self improvement. I'm glad I watched your video and thank you for sharing a snippet of your bigger picture. 🦑

@user-xo5ej7vu1b 21 күн бұрын

SO WELL MADE. The color grading, the perspectives, the writing itself. Just wow.

@raghavendrans5237 6 күн бұрын

Direct to the point that go do the work as planned. But there are times people are so anxious unable to write a plan or even 3 things to do next or simply go out for 15 mins walk but keep binging on online media. We need to not seek perfection but simply start. Success in a small task that matters most will feed into more success and discipline for a complex task. Nice reminder. Let me get started with work.

@hyleore 14 күн бұрын

hi Pair! we're about the same age and i think you're right - by that time, we KNOW what to do. I just watched a couple videos on how to get myself out of a rut, and the tips were exactly what I was already trying to do. it's just HARD. we know what to do, we just like the idea that someone has magically found an easier way. maybe I should just assume they haven't. thank you for this!

@chichi766 14 күн бұрын

I really hope she gets popular, her cinematography skills are so good

@PlsStandBy 12 күн бұрын

Y E S 🙌

@domasz4465 3 күн бұрын

I rarely write comments, but this time I have to. This is a masterpiece. From editing to storytelling it’s great. How do you have less than 5k subs???? Keep up great work 🙌

@allianne 8 күн бұрын

that happened so fast that I am not sure what to comment but I do know that this was so beautifully edited 10 out of 10 ASMR and story

@raihyah Күн бұрын

it's crazy bc this has seemingly motivated me more than any other video bc you're so right. thank you! this is what I needed! ♥

@Puckcherry 13 күн бұрын

I loved this! To everyone struggling I suggest reading the book “How to do the work” by Nicole Lepera. Title says it all! It’s an amazing read with actual useful tips on how to DO the work!

@ismailer777 18 күн бұрын

this a piece of art honestly so glad that ytb recommended this video to me u almost mentioned everything I had on mind, hope everyone enjoys their life and focus on reality and current moment then the world we do have after the screen

@aenva 3 ай бұрын

this was so refreshing! and the light in every shot is just *chef's kiss*

@PAG1803 17 күн бұрын

I just wanted to say I really appreciate the effort you put into your videos! Great content! ❤

@just_torrell 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful cinematography and colour! 🔥

@evolvedbreath Күн бұрын

This is shot so beautifully and the message is even deeper. I love this content AND how your brain operates

@MikaelaSainz Ай бұрын

jesus christ i love your filming style !!!!! sending much love to you and your content !!!

@janjiratsun 7 күн бұрын

this was an AMAZINGGGG film. i could 100% relate to the overconsumption of self improvement videos, and you just end up falling into this massive rabbit hole!! so proud of you for making this commitment to yourself, and so excited to see what you create

@gardenofserenity95 Күн бұрын

Beautiful Pair really enjoyed….. you’ve given me the courage to stop consuming hopefully & begin creating. Your right we know what to do… we just need to stop consuming n do it, 😊

@videobyfran 2 күн бұрын

This was so cute and real! Love the vibes and energies

@natashabell7385 9 күн бұрын

This was amazing. You came in just at the right time. Thank you for being the change we need in the world!!

@yoncreator 3 күн бұрын

Pair, this is such an incredible film! I love your cinematography + typography! I can't imagine how much work it took to get all the different b-rolls and perspective shots! You're an incredible filmmaker and I'm really looking forward to your future work. Subbed!

@Lazy_Kiko Ай бұрын

Seriously this only has 6.6k views? It should have at least 1 million views. Thank you so much for this video cause I was addicted to so called self improvement video. Need to change myself from now on 💪🏻

@halfsliceoflife 21 күн бұрын

Instant subscribe. The first half was so good i stopped everything i am doing, made full screen( i don't watch on full screen usually) and just was soaked into it. so captivating, so cinematic, its a film. the good one. hope to see more of such videos.

@reykuadrat 8 күн бұрын

this come at the PERFECT time for me tbh. even about distraction is a thing i already know and you just put it into words that i've been struggling to admit, truly. so thank you! it's time for a reality check. and.. you got a new sub! yay

@AquariusOcean 16 күн бұрын

just watched all your content & I can just feel you're gonna blow up! The art of people watching was beautifully shot & your colour grading & editing is *chef's kiss*

@zeinaramahi 5 күн бұрын

This is the greatest self improvement reminder ever, Thank you!!

@ileannacalcano 8 күн бұрын

this is just a masterpiece

@Leafylea 24 күн бұрын

You're doing great! Much love❤

@selinsu5790 3 күн бұрын

Yes more of this please ❤

@amal1askr 3 ай бұрын

I'm in love with your channel!! Keep going, ur amazing.

@LesTutosbyGhita 7 күн бұрын

You're right these videos often fall under the umbrella of edutainment with the goal of keeping your attention for as long as possible

@EdwinDileep 4 күн бұрын

This was a really good video so happy i get ppl like you in the feed❤, the only take away would be the sound at the river.

@_oopseli 10 күн бұрын

this video is amazing, you are a great cinematographer. also, i want o to express how disturbing is to be obsessed with self improvement because it’s a constant reminder of how you are not good enough and keep comparing to others in order to love yourself. you know what to do, seek answers in yourself 🤍

@jazminnwilliams Күн бұрын

I didn’t know I needed this

@jenninnoli 20 күн бұрын

so incredible! so happy i found this video. thank you

@tubhjbadshbhi 15 күн бұрын

I love the music, the angles and the colors! You are so talented and I really enjoyed this

@qoriasaf 3 күн бұрын

it is so nice to know that this devil cycle is not only happened to me. thank you for making this video! keep it up💪

@ayasiddig9626 22 күн бұрын

The content, the filming and everything on this video is very awesome!!!❤️❤️❤️

@ThatOtherAkshat Ай бұрын

This is really cool a film and an even more important a message lol. Glad you posted this!

@GoldenKay19 Күн бұрын

Love the aesthetic 💖

@piamirpuri 16 күн бұрын

this is the motivation i needed! thank you so much! btw love your filming style!! 🫶❤

@LanaMajeed-gh2rb 8 күн бұрын

I have the same goals as you do, this was a refreshment to watch, keep on creating and thank u for the beautiful video!

@alicestoneheart5945 7 күн бұрын

This is so cute(how it was filmed). Enjoyable and informative. And, you're right. We know what we need to do.

@4darsh 5 күн бұрын

Thank you for this video, it was much needed.

@bethm3152 9 күн бұрын

Love this. Thank you.

@lucillepearll 8 күн бұрын

loved every single thing about this, thank you so much! ❤

@non-suspiciousgrandmother6616 24 күн бұрын

Im glad this popped up on my home page cus...I needed to hear this lol. And the editing is hella nice ! :)

@CodyX7MAK Ай бұрын

This was literally like a fresh breath on yt

@uisa973 16 күн бұрын

Subscribed! I'm hooked! Can't wait for more of your vids. Seriously, they're so good, it's like premium content for free! Big thanks, seriously, you've helped me out in ways you probably don't even realize.

@lacareisa 4 күн бұрын

I was thinking about how nice was the cinematic, the camera moves, the transitions and narrative even before you said so! You really did the work

@darawyliv2221 8 күн бұрын

the zooms of your messy room.. had me looking around omg...

@Shayshambley 19 күн бұрын

Yo the creativity is crazyyyy!! I love it

@isabellahilario713 8 күн бұрын

so good!

@rubylarenkiyoko Күн бұрын

i enjoyed watching this. it was timely😭🤚

@ceozander 10 күн бұрын

This is sooooo relatable...🔥

@LavaUrba 8 күн бұрын

one clear message, one great frame. awesome!

@DollishDes 4 ай бұрын

Well done ! 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼

@tulsiandmogra 8 күн бұрын

dude, this is totally you're thing! I love your video artstyle!

@lostinadmiration 8 күн бұрын

Hi Pair! Great video, keep it up - I am sure your journey will inspire others.

@longnguyenthanh5815 6 күн бұрын

Tks, love your vibe and vid. Keep going

@trinklingslurpper372 6 күн бұрын

Wow this was a beauty to watch. Didnt even pause for a second

@Jiminsboost 16 күн бұрын

Thank you for this film pair and I love your name. it was very inspiring and also it’s funny cause I am staring at the window looking at nature while listening to you talk while also being in nature. ❤

@ani-yi3ks 12 күн бұрын

Even youtube knows my problem. I am the one who avoiding it :(

@vitenhosouza2719 9 күн бұрын

gz! rlly good cinematics

@allday00 7 күн бұрын

This is beautiful. You are so clever

@MaishaMH 16 күн бұрын

Cool cinematography! Nicely done!

@herbievine 11 күн бұрын

you don't need "self-help" videos or books, you just need to be conscious and start small. if you have eat badly, use social media, have a bad sleeping cycle, just acknowledge it and start with the small stuff press pause, close your computer/phone, and read a couple of pages of that book you never opened :)

@do-rightjr1 8 күн бұрын

This is a fire video and right on time

@margaretcarpenter-dove6327 26 күн бұрын

Masterpiece !

@user-gn5tq4vv4g 2 күн бұрын

masterpiece

@beatriooz 16 күн бұрын

This is a work of art.

@Inosukefr 4 ай бұрын

Lot better than any other self improvement influencer ❤

@MerridethHawk 18 күн бұрын

beautiful vlog!💕👌 keep up the work, you are certainly talented

@Planeteno 4 ай бұрын

This was a VERY well made video! I'm gonna subscribe just so I can see what you do next! No pressure😂

@cdrummerrob 9 күн бұрын

Great video, keep up the good vibes!

@biancalynn.diaries 3 ай бұрын

Aww, my mom's from Thailand! Wonderful video! Cannot wait to see more!!

@akanightfall1001 4 ай бұрын

It’s always ‘Tomorrow’ for me lol 😂 btw love your sunshine smile. ❤

@JJeedy 5 күн бұрын

Hey Pair, great and beautiful video, thank you for that! Also, love your style :)

@wereY20 9 күн бұрын

Hey, sis, I like everything you do here, so keep making these videos. And those questions you asked us are so important for us to answer. Are you willing to feel the discomfort that comes with a change? Every time I embark on a task, I am aware that it will be difficult, but when it truly becomes challenging, I tend to feel overwhelmed. At this point, I know that I need to lower my goal and be consistent in doing the things I need to do, but I often see myself getting back on the old track and doing the easy things like watching movies and stuff. If you have an answer for this, please share it with us.