When you finally realize as a woman that men don’t deserve to see your body except for the one you love and who loves you, the whole perspective of modesty becomes different.

Modesty does not mean a person has to wear black brown and grey all the time. Thank God I'm from India. We love and rejoice in the colours God has created. One can still wear modest clothes and be attractively dressed. One has to maintain a balance between the two. Never go to the extremes of both ends. Keep a balance and one will be fine.

As a Muslim I feel happy for Christian women who wear modest clothes. You are blessed, may the Lord God bless you and your families.

You girls don’t know,In this fallen world how beautiful your outfits are.It’s a beautiful resting place for the eyes.The fashion today is jarring to the eyes and harsh.this was great

This was very affirming to watch! Sometimes it feels very lonely to live this way. I’ve been headcovering and wearing skirts for 4 years. No one else I know does this. I long for a community of like minded sisters

Excellent video! This should go viral. As a youngish woman who could never walk to the shop without make up, dressed immodestly and was conformed to the world in all ways, I have found true freedom in Christ by choosing to embrace that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Dressing modestly and chucking make up and all adornment has set me free from the bondage. Thank you, lovely ladies for sharing this teaching. God bless you.

This is an invaluable video! There is NOTHING like this on youtube. I was SO happy when it popped up! Please make more videos with the women in your church. I'm over here trying to figure it all out. I'd also love to hear more women in the church on the topic of modesty and also these women's testimonies on how they came to know the Lord.

As a father of girls and a youth mentor, I'll say this video is a gem. I was touched by the deep convictions that were communicated here. Thanks for making and sharing this production.

I have been impressed to wear dresses or skirts for several years, instead of pants or shorts. However, as I work outside on chores on our small farm, I have fallen several times when my skirts become wrapped around my ankles. Scary as a woman in my late 60's. So now my skirts are long, but not clear down to my ankles. I also wear leggings under my dresses for modesty sake, plus for warmth. I feel more comfortable in dresses than in pants. When we go to the city for groceries, I am always treated with respect. Thanks for your encouragement and testimonies of being modest.

Now that I watch this, it has confirmed things I believe God has been asking me to change for a long time. I once had the heart to follow in this area, but allowed myself to take the “easier” path out of fear and pride. I am searching for the strength to be able to obey. Please pray for me that my heart would be tender again and that I would obey Him at all costs because of how good and loving He is. Thank you for this video!

I've been headcovering and wearing skirts for 6 months & my life has been RADICALLY transformed. I've been so encouraged in regards to how getting vanity out of the way of God's will in my life has allowed my heart to become more conformed to Christ. And in these 6 months I've noticed many other women in my area following suit. Almost every time I go out now, I see another modest woman! How encouraging

Please post MORE of these videos, people EVERYWHERE are starving for this content. We need it so very much. Thank God for these women and the message behind this forum of speech.

In 8 days this video reached 56k views, making it the number one most viewed video Followers of the Way has ever put on their channel. The previous most watched FOTW video was a formal debate with published scholars, the Just War Debate, which reached 55k views, in 8 years. There's something surprising and beautiful about that. It makes me think of the prophecy about "your sons and daughters will prophesy". I thank God for the encouragement and knowledge I have received from this channel, from the men and, now, the women. It's also telling that, aside from negative comments, there are many Christian women across the country, and the world, who are trying to obey God and the New Covenant closely as they know how, but they feel alone and like an oddball even in their church group regarding certain things like headcovering and modesty. What an encouragement and even a surprise this video has been.

I’m so glad I found this video. I mentioned dressing modestly (beginning with skirts/dresses) and my daughter freaked out (she’s 17) and said she didn’t want me looking like a ‘homeschool’ mom. There are homeschool moms who dress modern/contemporary and the homeschool moms who wear skirts only. We attend a conservative church, but it’s mostly contemporary dress. I’m praying that I can let go of the tight jeans, make up and hair. I’m feeling lead into this area of modesty, but not sure how to begin. I want to glorify God with how I dress, but no one else in my church wears a head covering. Thank you for your testimonies and openness. Hoping my comment made sense, it’s a bit scattered

Beautiful testimonies... When I first got saved in 2019, one of my first convictions was about modesty. I used to wear makeup everyday, wore very immodest clothing, I loved attention from men and competing with other women. But when God saved me, I became aware of my nakedness. Wear crop tops, short skirts, tight clothing to this world may not look immodest because their eyes are blind, they don't see God's standard yet us in Christ do and it can take time to grow in the area of modesty but He will finish the work He began in us. I started headcovering a year ago and have adjusted my dress to draw less attention until I was picked up quite severely by a distant relative, this woman tore me down and that distorted my view lf myself, I became more prideful feeling I had to prove myself. I stopped headcovering and though I didn't go back to my immodest dress, I started to want to show off my hair again and wear more expensive clothes to feel worthy. Until recently God has called me back... I started covering my head again and am now just trying to build up a comfortable wardrobe of modest plain dress... finding clothes is so hard these days, so many skirts are not lined and dresses have plunging neck lines... I making do right now with what I havebut I'd love to learn to sew. God bless these women, and thank you for pursuing what many are afraid to do. I am also that women who covers and dresses "frumpy" when no one else in church does but even so God is with me and working through me and around me. Let's be a witness to the women around us. ✨✝️✨

I would love more videos like this from this group or women like them! It was such an encouragement. They don’t necessarily have to be about modesty, but women’s spirituality.

This video was no coincidence, found it at a time when I am battling not to go back and I’m slowly slipping back. It’s so hard sometimes I want to cry, when ppl tell you how beautiful u used to be😢 it can sting and the insecurity got the best of me. Dear God pls help me obey, help me surrender and help me find my joy again

When I first got saved modestly one of the first things impressed in my heart it took a while to let everything go but I am greatful to God for his love , grace , his mercy and revelation 💗

I’m a Seventh-Day Adventist and our pioneer actually taught all this based on the Bible too, but like we laid aside much of what God has said, the majority of my church has left this modesty gem. And so, here I am. Being encouraged and strengthened by you! THANK YOU!

I use to dress boujee all my life . Always tight and revealing clothing. But Jesus changed that . He told me " you spent most of life wearing tight clothes and now u are gona dress differently " He showed me a new way of dressing 🙏❤️🪻 and I love it so much . I feel so comfortable and lol I get more compliments than I ever did dressing boujee. God is very precious 💖 🪻🪷🩷. His ways are not our ways . But not only did He change the way I dressed He changed the way I think about it. He changed my heart ❤️. Thank u Jesus 💓

I'm a pentecostal and I'm all about modesty,I serve the Lord and love him so much I guard my heart and my body

I grew up homeschool, and felt little to no insecurity about how I dressed or what I looked like. This was partially due to my personality, as a sister of mine still had struggles with body image, but being homeschooled still had a big impact on out how I felt about myself. My mom shopped and thrift stores for clothing that was modest and high quality, not for clothes that were trendy. I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and we also have a modesty standard. I sincerely believe that you can dress modestly and beautifully to glorify God and express your God given internal gifts and creativity! Whenever I meet women who define their worth by their appearance it really hurts my heart. They are daughters of God and worth so much more than what they look like. Their souls are unique and beautiful. I believe it is right to dress to express the inner person--the person God loves and wants to save. That's my little testimony on modesty.

I love the CS Lewis quote about pride. “Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man... It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest. Once the element of competition is gone, pride is gone.” ― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity.

If anyone comments negatively or adversely over this then they obviously didn’t listen to the ladies testimonials. WOW!! What raw, open words from each personal life’s story. I found myself while listening. Not legalistic at all, just pure hearts loving God. REAL words, stories, experiences from different roads. Not self righteous… I appreciate you sharing. Some may look at this and roll their eyes, or swipe by before listening, but this is so good!!! Thank you for sharing… thank you for being vulnerable and sharing personal testimonies. This is so rare it seems “wrong” even among Christian’s 😢 we’ve gone so far. Keep sharing and remain encouraged in our Redeemer Jesus Christ, our beautiful GOD, the only GOD!

What lovely women! Living for Jesus and letting it show in your daily lives. Thankyou for your inspiration.

Beautiful Testimonies Ladies! We need more young ladies to give their testimonies to encourage the younger generations of women! When I rededicated my life to Christ, which was two years ago, I cleaned out my closet. I trashed all of my worldly clothes, jewelry, makeup, etc. Not minding what anyone would say. I felt like I had regained my true identity in Christ. May the Lord God give us the grace to continue in his will in Jesus' name!

Thank you for your courage and honesty. This discussion should go viral.

Smart, educated, modest, and Godly women. Great to see!

Thank you for this. It is reaffirming. I have been dressing modestly for about 12 years. I wore the headcovering for several years and then stopped. After going through loss/grief and needing to be closer to God, I felt pulled to start back wearing a headcovering. It has been very freeing and I feel different when I am covered. It's interesting how it can make you feel alone or alienated by family and even other church members if you attend a church where headcovering is not the norm. Luckily, I go to a church that has a mixture of African, Indian, and other ethnicities who regularly headcover for cultural as well as religious reasons, so I don't feel out of place. *Edited to add the baby is absolutely adorable

Yes, after being baptized for almost 43 years, our church has taught us exactly what these ladies have discussed here. I loved the testimonials given by each one. God bless.

This sister was hilarious. “Do I want to communicate to the world that I am ovulating” 🤣 amazing testimonies 🙌

As an Orthodox Jewish woman, I have always dressed modestly, like all those in my community. It is refreshing to see that other people have the same outlook on women dressing this way.

To me ultra “modesty” as some may call it is a distraction. I’m for not weird. Not too long, not too short. Not too fashion minded, not too dated. Simple, cute, clean.

I would love to see more videos from you ladies! This was so encouraging and that is hard to find these days! It's so good to find other sisters you can relate to!💕

I am revisiting my closet again...there are some clothes that must go!

Amen..this is the first time in my entire life that I have ever heard of women dressing modest because they love their sisters in Christ. I too have this same mind. Praise Your name Father for leading us all to Your truth through Your Spirit.

This is an incredibly helpful conversation which covers a lot of ground, and addresses a large number of common concerns. Glory to God, thank you for uploading this video and sharing it!

This was a blessing to watch ! As i strive to live more modestly as a young Christian woman, your testimonies and the reflections really encouraged me. I have much to pray about and examine my heart in asking whom im trying to please, whether myself, others or the Lord.

I was called to modesty about eight years ago. However, in recent times, I have been compromising because I did not like how I felt wearing a skirt while running. So while I gave up pants, I still wear regular fitness clothing. I started wearing sleeveless tank tops again as well. Long story short, this just popped up, and I think God is telling me to get back on track. Thank you for your testimonies.

I'm being given everything I need, just as I need it these past few weeks, this video is just another exavideo! I came to KZfaq for some Christmas music, this was in my FYP. I've recently decided that modest dressing will be part of my life. Listening to this while online shopping (and crying, and praying). Thank you Ladies for this video!

As a 24 year old man, I believe this video is a gem. Thank you for sharing

This is such a refreshing video! The kinds of conversations I wish I could have in person with older sisters. Not having an in-person example to follow, I really appreciate this, and aspire to someday be that kind of encourager and example to younger sisters!

Thank you for talking on this subject. I think many women secretly want this but make excuses or are afraid to step "out of the norm". Help your daughters my Lord, to please You in all ways.

All the way from 🇿🇦 South Africa. My sisters and I also cover our heads and wear modest clothes. It was hard in the beginning but now we it’s part of who we are .

This was so amazing, these beautiful ladies touched on everything, even the false pride in being frumpy. This process is individual, between you and the Lord, he will NEVER steer you wrong. The heart is the beginning of modesty.♥️

I've been wrestling with this conversation for at least a year...modesty, headcovering...praying 🙏

Thank you!! This is a very important conversation ALL WOMEN NEED TO HAVE BECAUSE IT'S SO IMPORTANT.

So edifying. I also loved how at the root it was brought back to discipleship. We are ambassadors of Christ & our identity is in Him. If we walk by His Spirit we will not fulfill lusts of the flesh. Modesty is a work of grace through the Holy Spirit. Jesus is able to teach us and lead us in what pleases Him as it’s about Him, not man made standards. We can help one another in love but we each have to have our own faith. I love that Erica said we should 1st ask ourselves: “If God says so, will we do it?” Are we willing to die to self In order to please Him? & also love the encouragement by Natasha to press on even if we can be weary of standing out & being different. I’ve been mocked for my covering… I’ve been looked at funny for my style of dress when living in the city.. but, my heart’s posture has been People didn’t die for me, Jesus did. I want to please Him. May God continue the good work He began in yall… in every area and give us grace to endure til the end.

The baby at 47 minutes in😍😍 I am about halfway through, and I have found this video very encouraging! Many years ago I covered my head and only wore dresses, but I found that my heart became prideful and I also struggled with insecurity relating to my husband. I also didnt feel supported by him in that area. I Sometimes wish I would have followed through with my convictions, but when I look at the amazing ways we've been able to see God move over the years, the people we have been able to see go from darkness to light, our 8 children who live and breathe for Jesus, I rest in knowing that the Holy Spirit is at work in many ways and many different circumstances. Still, I love this...and forever will be drawn to this way of seeing the scriptures... Thank you for sharing!!

Thankyou ladies. I am a Christian who has been really seeking how God wants me live. I found your presentation to feel very honest & relates to the experiences of many girls & women today, and most importantly scripture based. Thank you so much. You appear to be women living in this world but not of this world as you seek the kingdom of God.

I absolutely love this video, thank you so much for the honest and real examples that we don't all start at %100 perfect.

This video has been popping up on my feed for a while and I'm so glad I finally clicked on and watched it. What an amazing video. So many wonderful gems of truth. Thank you and love from Uganda 🇺🇬

I like that they didn't just talk about sensuality, which I think is not exclusively what modesty means, but about extravagance!

I respect and appreciate all the sisters that are able to be as modest as shown in this video. May God bless you and keep you close to Him!

This is awesome! Hearing all of the different testimonies hit the nail on the head for me in so many things...it brought so much conviction about a lot of areas that I need to work on. I'm so grateful to have found and heard this. Yah bless you all♡♡♡

I loved that the ladies were honest and shared their stories. I wish Natasha shared in more details her life story. May God bless us grow in faith and knowledge of the Word of God.

thank you so much, ladies, for what you shared. It was such a blessing to me! ~Hannah

I am very thankful this video. Because of it, I have found sermons on your channel for head covering. I attend a Baptist church, my husband and I are 100000% SURE we are saved, and we are the only family that is unashamedly "plain" in our church and community.

Thank you for the great and biblical message! The testimonies are so uplifting and good! May God bless you all my beautiful sisters❤

I'm really glad this popped up. This is an invaluable video. I just finished watching it @ 12:40 am. Thank you.

I am commenting again to say I really want to hear more from these lovely women. I would love to hear more of their wisdom on biblical womanhood. It’s really needed for lots of us Christian woman.

I tend to wear mini dresses over my jeans as a long top. Hats for the cold weather or have my hair tied up. My husband is not into make up & hair extensions so I don’t feel under any pressure to wear makeup or have extensions in my hair. I wear skirts for church. Jeans & trousers for wok as I work in a job I have to be on the floor at times . It’s some times more modest to have trousers on and not be in just a skirt or dress. It’s being strong in your conviction of how you feel God wants you to dress & also standing by it regardless of the negative or positive comments. The older you get the more confident you feel.

The Lord has been tugging on my heart about a head covering. But I’ve been avoiding it due to fear of what others would think. This video, in addition to other ways God was calling me to head covering, helped me have the courage to place an order for my first head covering from Etsy!!!

Wow! Such a wonderful talk, ladies!💜 When I first started wearing a headcovering and being modest, we went to the Dominican Republic. In the US, not there!...I was searched AT EVERY STOP. I asked my priest a while later about preaching about modesty and he said that 'modesty is like a mail order mattress...once you take it out of the box, you cant put it back in.' Well, that wasnt true for me.🤷‍♀️ I really appreciate this talk. I struggle with makeup and nice clothes...this talk helped me. God bless you all!💜🙏🙏🙏

I love these thoughts and experiences. Wonderful reminders, something I need for myself and also as I'm raising my daughter.

Wonderful video. Thanks for sharing such amazing testimonies

Thank you beautiful women of Christ. I’m very new on my christian journey and found your testimonies to be immeasurably useful and made me think about why I dress the way I do and what effects that has. God Bless you all❤️

I relate. As soon as i started dressing modestly and more feminine i got more men opening doors for me, respecting me, instead of wolf whistles etc

I have been blessed as a christian woman. ONE OF THE BEST SHOWS ON U - TUBE

I used to practice living like these sisters. I put it aside when I realized I was not doing it for the right reasons. I embrace living simply but it's a journey and I frequently fall short. I'm glad this video is here and I looking forward to listening to the rest.

Thanks so much Ladies for the transparency to share your personal testimonies. This is such a great testimony with the our world, “Yes we can live Holy because our God is holy”.

I love this! I have listened to it twice and have also shared it ♥️ I do dress modest and live my life the best I can in holiness! I also wear a veil while praying . Thanks so much for sharing!!

Look at all old photos of church ladies, all denominations wore dresses. Little by little the world crept in the church.

Thank you, Followers of the Way ladies! My family has been on this journey (leaving mainstream US Christianity for historic Kingdom Christianity) since we heard a David Bercot talk on head covering around a decade ago and I have often lamented the lack of fellowship of women in my life who are walking this way, but I realize that women living the life God has called us to are so busy living it that there isn't much time to talk about it publicly! (I confess a little envy when Mrs. Baer referenced an app the local ladies connect on!) So, THANK YOU! I hope there will be more of these forums in the future! I'm grateful to your families for making you available to us and for your willingness to put yourselves out there to such a wide audience and encourage us! God's peace and grace to you.

This was very edifying, I would love to hear more from these Ladies

What a blessing to run across this today....thank you sisters for sharing! Beautiful truth on biblical modesty ♥

I really appreciate all the ladies talking about this it’s needs to be talk about so much even men need modest to.

I love the video. We need more personal testimonies, like this, to encourage all women to consider this step for Jesus. I feel especially now in these end times. I love modesty! :)

I'm so excited to watch this. I used to be very revealing and immodest before I accepted Christ. It is a personal conviction for me to be modest and plain now. I had so many piercings, crazy hair styles, makeup, revealing clothes etc... i started being modest and embracing head covering (I felt convicted so I listened) and I feel closer to God. I hope more women embrace their convictions to be more modest in the months and years to come. I was so afraid to start because of fear of judgement. My fellow Christians were more vicious to me about it than the secular world was/is. Some days I am more modest than others, it fluctuates, but I always return to feeling convicted to go back to full modesty. As long as no one is forcing someone to be modest, why would they be ostracized? This whole legalism thing is real but modesty itself is not legalism, I think a lot of people don't take the time to mentally sort that out, they just go off on the Pharisee rant. Corinthians doesn't REQUIRE women to head cover, but it doesn't ban it either. It basically says if she is convicted to cover, then let her cover. But there is no rule against it. And modesty in general can apply to both men and women. 💓 it is such a beautiful thing when it is what a woman chooses to wear of her own free will. Edit: if you want to be more modest, you can start with baby steps. For example, wear a regular t-shirt instead of a spaghetti strap shirt. Wear shorts that cover more of your legs instead of the shorty shorts. Start with wearing a headband instead of a full head scarf. Don't let people discourage you if you truly feel convicted to cover up a little more 💓 May God bless you and keep you

Wow now here are some truly heroic and courageous women!!! I'm inspired and encouraged to examination my own modesty

Amen!!! Yes we as woman as God are called to dress modest. Thank you for putting this up.

Thankyou so much for this. It's absolutely wonderful. Annette. Isle of Skye. Scotland.

I'm so glad this came up in my recommendations, thank you!!

You did a good job with this talk, ladies! ❤️

Hello from South Africa 🇿🇦 this was amazing. I've always been a modest person buy my sister wasn't and gave her life to Jesus I 2020 lockdown. The Lord is leading her to modesty and headcovering. I feel in my spirit that the Lord is doing this for her because of the spirit of Jezebel. I haven't had this conviction because I never had an issue with self love to that degree. I told her it seems like a great idea for her but I will only go if I feel the conviction. God bless you all for your beautiful testimonies

What a great series of discussions, I think this talks about things that go beyond even modesty it talks about women's identity in the modern world, and the struggles women face in the west. I wish more women would get together and have discussions like this, the 3rd wave feminist narrative of sexualization being empowering that's so mainstream in today's society is really harmful for women and even society as a whole, and you can see it in all these women's stories.

My first time seeing this channel on KZfaq. You all glady the hearts. Thank u all for sharing.

Thank you Thank you Thank you!!! I was so blessed by this video!

Most interesting, and illuminating discussion. Thank you, ladies.

It is a blessing to have sisters speaking about it. I believe it is powerful what God can do with the testimony of those whom he bought with his own blood.

I am going through it dressing modestly and headcovering this is so helpful I am on a new walk God bless

most incredible window into another world - these women all have it together, and love how they're easy to understand, my college students always mumbled and didn't sound organized

The young woman in the patterned black makes excellent points with her scripture choices after the visual aides from the book of fashion. May the Lord continue to strengthen her in her walk and encourage her by His Spirit 🕊📖🙏🏼💐

What articulate women! Thank you for your honesty, gratitude expressed to those who mentored/discipled you, for your willingness to share your heart-searching steps and daily surrender, and especially your theology from the Bible. The LORD is glorified and it is apparent this is your desire.

Last night I was looking up videos on prayer shawls and I came across this video. I had never considered wearing head cover, but this was so convicting. It gave me such peace! I love the testimonies!! I didn't leave the house today, but I looked up different ways to wear them, now I just need to buy a scarf.

Thank- you for this deep and meaningful sharing.

I can’t express how much I LOVE this video. Watching for second time. I have covered for over two years and sometimes feel alone. This was very encouraging. Thanks for posting ❤️

Yes, modesty is needed today. This is a great reflection offered and I hope many young girls will find this. Two thoughts come to mind (I'm Catholic).... Our Blessed Mother (Mary) told the little seers at Fatima that, "Fashions would be introduced that would offend Our Lord very much" and what Archbishop Fulton Sheen said, that when exorcists would bring the Blessed Sacrament into the presence of possessed people, they would start to disrobe (to offend Jesus).

This is wonderful. God bless all of you abundantly and your families. May you have great impact on the world around you. The Lord knows we need it.

It’s amazing how God calls to each of us, in a way that awakens us to His presence and Spirit. His particular way to call me may not be the way He knows best to call to another person. Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift.