From Depression & Separation to Multi-Millionaire | Deki Shukla

From Depression & Separation to Multi-Millionaire | Deki Shukla | Mompreneur #84

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4 ай бұрын

As a refugee who embarked on a harrowing journey to escape a troubled past at a tender age, marked by the absence of familial connections for countless years, narratives have become my lifeline. Without the semblance of a permanent address, stories have emerged as my sole asset, composed of dreams, hopes, and ideas-a treasure trove I hold in the highest regard.
My upbringing was steeped in the richness of narratives, acting as the driving force behind my pursuit of continuous growth and self-improvement. This journey has not only solidified my passion for storytelling but has also highlighted the profound impact it has on our scattered global community. This endeavor has served as a vital bridge, fostering mutual understanding among individuals from varying walks of life. It's been instrumental in bridging the generational gap, uniting the wisdom of yesteryears with the vigor of the present through the conduit of stories, experiences, and ideas.
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@Time-heals_everything9 4 ай бұрын

Very inspiring line.... "Mummy i don't want to eat Uber eats... Ask brother to boil rice i will cook broccoli because l want to save my pocket money to sponsor TCV students"... Huge sacrifice by your children at this age. May God bless your children and also protect your children.

@sonamyangchen2990 4 ай бұрын

You are very good heart and compassion and also you are a one of greatest our Tibet women.Also ur children’s thinking and what are they doing….success all of u.❤❤❤

@dolmatsering3872 4 ай бұрын

“ Even if 99% of the world’s population turn against me, I won’t be the one to commit suicide”!!! This hits me like “WOW “🎉🎉🎉😇😇😇🕉️🕉️🕉️

@tibetanrefugee8878 4 ай бұрын

😂

@tashichoedon1227 4 ай бұрын

❤️

@tibet5950 4 ай бұрын

Exactly same here. I loved her spirit. God bless you Dickey Shukla and her family. And hats off to Bhuchung khata la 🙏

@choezom9242 4 ай бұрын

Oh gosh I can not express as per my words ….its really hits me ….

@sherabthomey4418 3 ай бұрын

99 percent of the world didnt torture her, so dont drag the world into her problem. the real culprit is that indian guy and he should be punished by law long time as it bafalled me how he continued the oppresed her for so long and funny thing is why she bear all the torture for so long for what betowed interest.😢

@dorjeedolma2675 4 ай бұрын

“ Even if 99% of the world’s population turn against me, I won’t be the one to commit suicide”!!! This hits me like “WOW “ Amala U r great mother . 💕

@jampheldhondup8689 4 ай бұрын

Salute to Acha Deki la! Truly admirable & this is what Tibetan woman really exemplifies. Kindness, compassion, persistence, and everything!

@sangyalkhar9397 4 ай бұрын

Proud of Tibetan women like you.👍👍👍

@kalsangdolma9312 4 ай бұрын

For me too our community always blame me. 🥲🥲🥲 today I am proud of myself 5 Beautiful kids with me.

@lakshmi9433 4 ай бұрын

That's why Tibetan people are the most unique and compassionate one in this world, ❤

@user-pk5ri5wz8y 3 ай бұрын

I don't see that in the Tibetan community in Sydney. No single Tibetan help me when my Tibetan husband had physical and financial and emotional abuses to me. They all came here as refugees but they are lack of compassion.

@Yurupon 4 ай бұрын

One of the most inspiring interviews I've seen. For a second I was very angry at her husband and wanted to blame his Indianness, his otherness, for his being so lacking in empathy and sense of responsibility. Then I realized Tibetan men are equally capable of being abusive toward their wives. My father, until he gave up alcohol, was same, if not worse. Deki la reminds me of my mother, always putting her children's welfare above all else. Deki la also reminds me of the inherent goodness and resilience in women, barring a few like her ex mother in law. Thank you Deki la and A-haa.

@lassywale 4 ай бұрын

dalai lama quote 1, sometimes not getting what you want is wonderful stroke of luck, 2 your enemy is your greatest teacher, husband gave her chance to increase he patience GB capacity, now any problem doesn't effect her life. wow what a blessing from god, you deserve it deki shukla god bless deki family 🙏🙏🙏 4:30 am now my sleep is gone 😊

@user-pk5ri5wz8y 3 ай бұрын

people are supposed to be good to others. No one likes to live in a society like China which is hostile place. Tibetans should not build a society which is similar to China.

@nam-sel4149 4 ай бұрын

Excited ! We need to air more of hidden voice of Tibetan women.

@nadumsharshonpematsering3738 4 ай бұрын

Please make second part if you could; it’s very interested and we have learn how to challenge real problems come.

@nadumsharshonpematsering3738 4 ай бұрын

Thank u Acha la we really admired and appreciated ur hard work and real hero

@tenzinnawang9574 4 ай бұрын

ངོ་མ་ཁྱེད་བོད་པའི་བུ་ོ་དང་མ་རེད་འདུག

@whitecolour4390 4 ай бұрын

I have a mixed feeling. Some times too good to be true. You married Indian guy. That is the biggest failure. We are Tibetan, we have a struggle, we have responsibility, Well you succeeded personally. Good luck.

@tenzin3335 4 ай бұрын

@@whitecolour4390with due respect your feeling I just want add that marring Indian guy is not failure. In our community also We have lot more worse people than Indian man. But yes I agree that she met with wrong guy. It could be Indian or Tibetan or someone else. You shouldn't be judging people by their nationality.... Remember half of our Tibetan population dependent on other nations as REFUGEES.

@kalsangyangzom5919 4 ай бұрын

This is my one of the best episodes I ever watched. Omg, Diki La is such a strong woman. Such Emotional video ever I have seen. You are so a brave lady. God bless you and bless you wherever you go.👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@tsedupsangmo7437 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏

@Karuna196 4 ай бұрын

Children’s are so fortunate to have a great compassionate mother. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so lucky to born in Tibetan family.

@roselhamo6812 4 ай бұрын

I cried so much when you suffered so badly, but I can see how resilient you have been, through all these hardships. May you always remain blessed. 💐💐💐

@umaylam9397 4 ай бұрын

Acha your story it's very emotional and it makes my eye full of tears and I cried alot a lot ,I'm proud of our Tibetan woman brave and hard work,,love you respect you

@JustchillYolo 3 ай бұрын

You should put Ccp flag on your profile picture. It’s just a suggestion. Don’t mind

@jamchoe525 4 ай бұрын

I can only imagine how difficult things must have been, but it's truly inspiring to see how she managed to overcome them. Your resilience is truly remarkable. Please convey my deepest respect for Acha Deki Lak.

@excuseyou6795 4 ай бұрын

The key lesson here is to never endure an abusive relationship or marriage. Prioritise your own well being, your childrens’ happiness and overall peace. Don’t settle in places where you are not welcomed or valued. Society shamelessly expects women to put everyone above themselves to make their family, their husbands and in- laws happy. Then only do we get compliments like, “such a good woman”, “great mom”, “great wife”, “great daughter”. Sometimes us women even perpetuate these narratives because we are conditioned to think that since childhood and we have internalized it. But all we really need is a wake up call like this. Children needs both parents but not if having them both risks their well-being too. If anything costs your sanity and mental health, it’s not worth it. Don’t just walk away, RUN and never look back. Much love to Acha Deki la 🎉❤

@kalsangchodon1137 4 ай бұрын

By far the best episode of your channel, Not belittling other people’s personal journeys. Dicki’s life story is solely inspiration and courage, despite all the adversity a life can throw on one. Tonight I feel proud to learn of a Tibetan woman who stood up strong and proved the world otherwise. Thank you Diki for being the beautiful and strong mother and a daughter. Your story has touched me deeply

@tenzinlhadon490 4 ай бұрын

I would have given up if faced with 20% of her problems. Bravo! You are such an inspiration!

@wearetenzins4076 3 ай бұрын

THIS BRAVE WOMAN IS A GREAT TIBETAN IDOL ! 🎉

@ritugaun4267 4 ай бұрын

This is the most emotional interview ever which touches so much to me as she’s the real heroine.

@HopeCarpediem 4 ай бұрын

That’s the kind of stories we need instead of useless couple story like before. This kind of stories will really inspire many many others. Bravo

@tenzin4394 4 ай бұрын

I’m not completely against your opinion but I think if it doesn’t make send to you and seems nonsense doesn’t mean it’s same for everyone. Ps. I haven’t watched any videos about couples yet so I’m not saying I like it

@HopeCarpediem 4 ай бұрын

@@tenzin4394 first of all learn to write well to make sense.

@andy_k5153 3 ай бұрын

@@HopeCarpediem I completely understood the person’s comment here though.

@Anncee7 4 ай бұрын

This is truly awe-inspiring story. She is a strong-headed lady, and we, as Tibetans, are immensely proud of her.

@tenzinkundup5544 4 ай бұрын

I feel really sad when I go through ur real story....way of ur thinking is so heart touching n how u handle with 3 kids..m speechless...god bless you with ur kids....

@BhumoAayoeThaayoe-to5cf 4 ай бұрын

Deki la is such a strong woman, her story is the kind that can inspire movies and novels.

@tenzinlhamo5967 4 ай бұрын

Truly inspired ❤😊 Wish her life full of happiness, good health and success !

@tenzindadon6606 4 ай бұрын

Wow heartbreaking story and how Diki la went through all this struggle with 3 kids alone ……a big respect for Diki la and thank u buchung la for this podcast….. I was crying while watching it and feeling the pain and struggle she had ……. Deeply touched and speech less ❤

@tseringtashi5224 4 ай бұрын

She is one of the strongest woman I have heard in Tibetan community.hatsoff to you dicki la.

@lovelyhonest1884 4 ай бұрын

Moral of the her story is never give up. Achak la I felt so proud of you that you are really hardworking women . Tibetan people need to learn of her a lots.👍

@kalchoequsar5066 4 ай бұрын

Tashi Delek ! Dekyi la deeply touch my heart. May the Jetsun Dolma always bless you all.

@kathi9092 4 ай бұрын

Wowww! I was speechless and forgot how came my eyes was full of tear during listening this podcast, Deki la my words will be short, but how you overcome and how successful you are now is A BIG SALUTE 👍🏻👏🏻 TASHI DELEK and thank you du much @ Bhuchung Kata for this wonderful podcast THUKJE CHEY🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Tenny08_ 4 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you Acha … you’ve faced a lot problems yet you stood strong because of your kids, that’s what makes you good mom , you thought only abt your kids and did everything you could to just keep them safe and sound … your story is just so inspirational and overwhelming.I’m so glad we got to hear your story and thank you so much for inspiring a lot of us younger generations 🙏💕

@ngawangnorbu5474 4 ай бұрын

Very emotional story and she is kind, patience and compassionate Tibetan women who have strong courage and confidence with her life...

@tibbhumo6878 4 ай бұрын

I am glad that her life turned out great after struggling with so much pain and suffering from all these years. I cried my heart out while listening her struggle and imagining her being in that battle. I felt her as mother to mother.

@sonamgyaltsen9067 4 ай бұрын

The mindset, the will power to get the child's custody, and having felt the responsibility to pay back the debt to her own community is commendable. Respect❤

@tenzin3335 4 ай бұрын

People shouldn't judge you by your success, judge you by how many times you fell down and got back up again. This time You express everything just to learn someone from your struggle which normally you don't share your problems. Good job. Love you my sister. Bless you. ❤

@tsewongchazotsang2332 4 ай бұрын

This such a success story. I am so glad she had the strength to come out of so much hardship. It’s truly inspiring to listen to Diki la talking about her gratitude to His Holiness and Amala

@kalsangdolma9312 4 ай бұрын

Same here . Our Tibetan women really strong. We can face any challenges. God bless

@taytea8004 4 ай бұрын

My favourite episode so far! Such an inspiring story ! Deki la is such a strong & brave woman . I salute you.

@sonamthargyal4279 4 ай бұрын

Madam u are so brave.God bless you.

@tashidolma3441 24 күн бұрын

Very very proud of you!!! This is the strength of Tibetan women!

@volerfreude8752 4 ай бұрын

You've taken us to the deepest ocean and showed us the way up teaching resilience, determination, gratefulness, Sacrifices and what not. Thanks for sharing your book of life, it'll inspire many. Much love ❤

@urgenpaljor240 4 ай бұрын

I m proud of our tibetan women brave and hard work. Love u n respect for you. God's bless you always. 🙏

@Sunilhjgifjj 4 ай бұрын

Acha lak, your story it's so emotional and it makes me cried , I can't stop tears of my eyes. God bless you and your family.

@rigzandvlogs2398 4 ай бұрын

When u listen to this type of true story u can’t skip. Respect for Deki la u r journey touches many of our Tibetan people hearts. It’s show hard works always payoff. Inspiring women of Tibet ❤

@kyara1959 4 ай бұрын

I admire you for choosing the baby over the money. Sis! Be strong! You have a baby, you have a future. We support you, come on 💪! Having kids makes you rich, really. The good days ahead are yours. We love you.

@loveall1622 4 ай бұрын

Waiting for next episode eagerly..plz don't let us wait..such a strong woman,heads off to you and your three kids.

@kongpopenpa3566 4 ай бұрын

Wow, Deki La , what an amazing & inspirational lady you are. Your hard work, dedication, & so on put you in this wonderful, well deserved and proud Tibetan lady in the well developed foreign country, so proud of you lady!!!👍👍👍

@yeshidhondup3090 4 ай бұрын

One of the best episode. I was kind a shocked how strong achak la omg. In future I never complain with small problem. Big salute 🫡 achak la

@user-eg9hg5jd1s 4 ай бұрын

Didn’t realise it is an hour and half long!! Wow! Truly inspiring!

@Peedee773 4 ай бұрын

Brave women.bless you.

@tenzinchoedon1658 4 ай бұрын

Felt so heavy at heart to listen to story of Acha Deki la but at the same time it gave more courage and strength to face adversities of life. Thanks for sharing your struggle story and success achieved with all the hard work you did.

@classicsikkim 4 ай бұрын

Most watched video of Aha Moment!!!! What an inspirational lady. Lot of things to be learnt from her experiences. Her genuine emotions and expression of gratefulness towards His Holiness the Great Dalai Lama and her school, signifies the true character of Tibetans all over the world. Your kids may not speak Tibetan fluently but the way they have the helping nature towards others speaks loud and clear that they are pure Tibetans by heart. Keep up the great work going!!! You are an inspiration to many!!!!!

@tenzinnorbu3419 4 ай бұрын

Dekyi la, so true it is not really easy to come before and resurfacing all those sad incidents that happened to you. But behind your successful story lies your strong determination, love for your children, great values you learned from our school TCV. Wow ! You are such a strong and real Ama la in true sense. It is something we all are proud of you and Thukjeche for inspiring us. Your story gives me a push to look ahead in my life, not to lose too easily in our life. Keep going and all the very best in your noble job.

@weihu3406 4 ай бұрын

Wow such a Brave smart talented strong lady💖 truly inspiring 💖 never give up true student of Gyalwa Rinpoche🙏 Her head filled with wisdom💖 this is one of best video of yours to show example to other peoples 😊

@Tenny9525 4 ай бұрын

Pls go with Deki la…no more shukla…beautiful soul….praying for your happiness along with three childrens…🙏….I can understand you loved him and when you came to know that he is a bipolar patient then you didn’t hate him but his parents are not bipolar…just remember this pls….sending you loads of love and prayers 🙏

@tseringtsering1686 4 ай бұрын

I agree. Go with Deki. Love and prayers Deki. 🙏

@jigmethinley3665 4 ай бұрын

A woman of authentic Tibetan heritage; I wouldn't be surprised if this podcast breaks the record for the most views. In fact, I hope it becomes the most-viewed video across all Tibetan KZfaq channels. The best 93 minutes on KZfaq.

@user-ek2fg3gf7x 4 ай бұрын

Acha la you are really inspiring Tibetan women as well as great mother.

@norsang11 4 ай бұрын

Yes, this is the type of story that can make a real difference in terms of being a veritable eye-opener to many who know how to listen to. For me, listening to her is like reading a veritable page-turner, with her Tibetanness and humaneness standing out as something much more than a palliative cushion to what she had undergone, once she learned about the complicated case of her husband's mental health. The bliss and wonder being sustained by her three angels, her sensible children, who know their dear mom, who knows her own mom, the sturdy backbone of her life's struggle story so far. Thanks for this learning episode. In essence, I salute to her retentiveness.

@rinzin7345 4 ай бұрын

Hats off to you acha la!! Very inspiring !!! Tadhi delek and God bless you.

@amamalo657 4 ай бұрын

So emotional , sad, positive, strong, kindness, … so proud of you both for this valuable forum… thank you

@tenzinchophel3441 4 ай бұрын

Wow this is one of the best episodes I’ve ever watched. She’s strong woman god bless her.

@lhadontenz4 4 ай бұрын

Proud of woman like her ❤

@pemasommer8843 4 ай бұрын

You deserve a better person! My prayers are with you!

@MrRabgyal 4 ай бұрын

Never underestimate the power of Tibetan mother! What a harrowing journey you had but you emerged stronger each time single-handedly. Not having any grudges and spite against the person shows how spiritual you are. Hats off! Had me in tears. May this happy and successful journey continues for you and May you inspire the new generation to not shy away from facing problem head-on. You did Tibetan proud!

@pemayangzom3412 4 ай бұрын

What an inspirational lady she is .huge respect &love ❤

@TashiLhamo-ge2hs 4 ай бұрын

Best episode ever acha how strong n inspirational you are.. I appreciate you...

@tenzinydonchen429 4 ай бұрын

Deeply touched my heart ❤️👍💪🏻👍👍

@Hyu2586 4 ай бұрын

Such an inspiration for Tibetan women.The story of resilience and not giving up. Her love for children. Her humbleness. Not forgetting her roots and where she came from. As a woman and m awed by her persistency and love for her children.

@tenwozey9309 3 ай бұрын

this brought tears to my eyes. I am going through something too but no where what u have gone through. But for myself its one of the hardest battle. Ur words are very encouraging and has motivated me to continue my fight. I know nothing in life is easy and a day will come when we have to make tough decision when everyone will have to go through the worst. when that happens its I myself that decides and thats when u can make it or break out. Am happy she fought and became a success. This also an example of a Tibetan who has truly followed the teachings his holiness. Bless you!

@kunchoktenzin2389 4 ай бұрын

So proud lady . God bless her n her family ❤

@tenzindolma1827 4 ай бұрын

Such a inspirational 🙏🌹🌸❤️ Deeply touched my heart ❤️

@sonamchoedon5487 4 ай бұрын

Acha la you are most strong woman i have ever seen, i was cry alots, you are most strong mother, may god bless

@tenorbu007 4 ай бұрын

Very strong woman! Will inspire many for sure. Thanks for sharing your life story!

@10zin123 4 ай бұрын

So much of Love and respect to you acha la. One of the best inspiring video I came across ❤. Proud mother, daughter and beyond everything .

@asiffdalpaa9381 4 ай бұрын

It's a heart wrenching story of acha deki la... A big big big salute to acha deki la.... 🙏🙏🙏

@xidup695 4 ай бұрын

This is indeed by far the best episode..very brave and inspirational Tibetan woman..👍👍 Thank you

@Tibet1989 4 ай бұрын

Woww she is my idol now .. brave women

@tintinlol7881 4 ай бұрын

So inspiring. Thank you for sharing your real life experiences. Buddha bless you❤

@tashisinon4190 3 ай бұрын

So inspiring thank you for sharing your real life experience Budda bless you ❤❤❤

@tseringphuntsok756 4 ай бұрын

Thank u for sharing. Very inspiring 🙏

@jetsun685 4 ай бұрын

Omg I cried and cried..so touching. Thank u acha from the bottom of my heart for being such a role model 💖

@lhamothondup8596 4 ай бұрын

Achak la 21st century Dowazangmo.❤❤❤Every Tibetan women must listen to your experience before marrying another culture….must listen..Thank you and bless you .

@dolpoartgallery7024 4 ай бұрын

Wow hats off to Deki la. A warrior. Ur story has so much pain, courage and down to earth feeling. Thanks to ah ha moment for bringing such an ispiring story. Wish you best for the further inspiring stories to bring..

@nurture_urnature 4 ай бұрын

This interview gave immense learning and hope. It's so joyful to see that Deki la had no complaints about her past ,rather she works everyday for a better future..what an inspiration 🙏👏👍❤️

@tseringdolma3335 4 ай бұрын

As soon as my friend shared this video, I immediately showed it to my mom and aunt. They are really inspired. Thanks a million lot to your amazing story.

@user-ew3vn3sm6d 4 ай бұрын

I wanted to express my gratitude for featuring such a heartfelt story on your platform. While Indians might often have movies portraying such narratives, for us Bhuchungla, your platform serves as a unique avenue to immerse ourselves in these experiences. It serves as a poignant reminder to be grateful to our leaders, especially His Holiness, for providing us with a nurturing upbringing. Thank you for creating a space where we can connect with these meaningful stories.

@tenzinjigmey8480 4 ай бұрын

Every right to be successful and a genuine inspiration to others!

@sonamtsering3933 4 ай бұрын

So far, It's my best episode of Aaha moment and it's a very tourching story that created tearfall from eyes. Deki la, our undying brave heart life story is also a source of an inspirition and an incouraging to others. And at the same time you showed a Tibetan women's courage. Tashi Deleg and may god bless you.🙏🙏🙏

@yanglobin 4 ай бұрын

What a woman ! Inspirational woman and a mother. Kudos to her.

@Tendee10 4 ай бұрын

Literally the best episode so far.I salute her bravery, courage, good heart and specially the never ending love for her children. Such an inspiration!!!!

@livemylife2656 4 ай бұрын

This is my one of the best episodes I ever watched. Omg, she is such a strong woman. Such Emotional video ever I have seen.😢😢

@Lifeoftenzind 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for being strong and thank you Acha for inspiring n teaching us one of most important lesson of life.

@lobsangtenzin9594 4 ай бұрын

Wow 😮I salute her resilience, and compassionate heart. Good to see fellow school and home mate. Now she is the Mama Bear!!!

@tseringlhamo6032 3 ай бұрын

So proud of u Dickey la God bless ,hope u have very good health and happiness

@ultraking582 4 ай бұрын

Acha Diki la ur such a brave women so much love and respect much much needed like you Acha la n thank u so much deeply touched my heart ❤️

@damtse5595 4 ай бұрын

What an emotional and inspirational story! She is truly a strong resilient Tibetan woman! She is a great result of His Holiness’ sacrifices for Tibetans! Long live HH The Dalai Lama!

@lobsangchodear6898 4 ай бұрын

A true example of resilience…I am in tears.

@tsewangchoezomgenpotsang2461 4 ай бұрын

Am speechless 🙅‍♀️ wish her a good life ahead 🤞Waiting anxiously 4 part 2🤗

@kalsangkalsang1358 4 ай бұрын

Omg!!!! Am so sorry you had to go through so much!! Been waiting for this Episode so anxiously. Been crying 😢... thanks so staying so strong for children.