From Lazy to Disciplined: Level up & Get Into your Productive Era

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Күн бұрын

Hey girly! Let's learn some discipline and step into our productive girl era and make all those dreams and goals happen in 2024 and beyond💖
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timestamps:
00:00-02:10 From Lazy do Disciplined
02:10-04:45 Change your Definition of Discipline
04:45-07:27 Make Discipline Your Identity
07:27-9:59 Building Resilience - the Art of Catch & Release
9:59-12:41 Clarifying Goals and Breaking Them Down
12:41-17:36 Persist Despite Resistance
17:36-18:30 Make it Happen for You
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@Jules-740 5 ай бұрын

I learned from another video! Something about NOT skipping a workout and i think you can apply it to other tasks or areas also. So basically you cannot rely on motivation since it is so fleeting and most inconsistent. You can make a a LIGHTER/shortened workout on your bad or rough days. That way you STILL show up!

@marleyhartzfeld Ай бұрын

what I always did is still went to the gym, played an upbeat playlist and walked on the treadmill for 10ish minutes. By then, if I still wasn't feeling it, then I would stretch and go home. But most of the time, that walk and just being in the environment go me in the mood to workout

@Jules-740 Ай бұрын

@@marleyhartzfeld Yes that is a good tip! It can get you to do more than you planned also.

@ericaarvizzigno3768 10 күн бұрын

😅😢😂 down and under pressure i am way to fine to be this stressed yeah

@blanchesplace 7 ай бұрын

Good God girl..I’m 60 years old and you just smacked me upside of the head regarding resistance!

@zionroberts6592 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂I’m dying I need this

@JasmineMoonEnergy 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@angelasagenda 5 ай бұрын

Did you know that 60 is the new 45? Congrats! You got this, you have a lot of wisdom, value, and gifts to give!

@sarvaepc 5 ай бұрын

@@angelasagendai appreciate you for this comment. I’m 13 but I do feel as wise as a 60 year old I wanted to take a moment to say how nice this comment was.

@CrystalRae444 4 ай бұрын

@Jules-740 yes please

@aggieunda3354 4 ай бұрын

Self discipline = self love! That phrase simply changed my whole mindset towards it. It made it smoother, softer. Thank you

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

🎉😂❤rigenero e rinforzo

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

❤😊

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

😮😅😅😅😅😅

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Ive got it❤😮😅

@chontellebaker8633 7 ай бұрын

This is one of the best videos about this that I have watched. Such good advice and so well said. I learnt so much about myself and felt so seen at the start when you talked about not being disciplined during school. Thank you❤️

@user-qj5no9vp1e 5 ай бұрын

This is so empowering!!! I'm tired of letting emotions justify everything I do. Thank you so much, Nika, for talking about these things. It's uncomfortable sometimes to hear that you are the key to fixing your own problems, but it's also so encouraging!!!

@raquelracheldcny2452 5 ай бұрын

It’s amazing how young you are but resonate maturity, sound mind and wisdom beyond your years. I forgot to mention the charm and exuberance that really complete a remarkable persona inside and out. Keep at it!

@aliceturnbull2345 4 ай бұрын

Such a powerful message, and so actionable! I strongly agree with the commentary around messages about resistance and emotions- this is someone everyone needs to hear!

@olya.predoliak 6 ай бұрын

oh my goodness, this video is the first where it’s said truly life things and it’s amazing) you know, that is the one I’m needed in right now, thank you so much✨

@ebrose01 7 ай бұрын

Nika, I’ve been watching your videos for years and they’re honestly such a safe space. It feels like sitting down with a girlfriend and chatting about life’s struggles! Much love from the US, keep it up! xx

@NikasInnerBeauty 7 ай бұрын

Awhh that means the world!! Thank you so much! I loove making them✨💖💖

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

❤

@amayramlew 3 ай бұрын

honestly, Nikas videos have 100% CHANGED MY LIFE. this one i listen to weekly😂 it has helped me beyond words can describe.❤Thanks forever, girlie!

@andakos6556 5 ай бұрын

you're such an inspiration

@savannahhaynes5487 7 ай бұрын

thank you for sharing you're words of encouragement. I really needed it.. much love 💗💗

@natashalindner2059 7 ай бұрын

Perfect timing, today my to do list came unstuck, chaos ensued and I gave up. I wasted a bit of time on KZfaq, then I found you. I made notes for my commonplace book and you are the first entry. Reframing discipline as self care is what really resonated with me, so before bed I will now do a few more to do's and start the morning with some self care. Thank you.

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Super proud of you for taking this big step in wanting to improve your life and wellbeing! I also have a self improvement channel, let’s get better together 🙌

@ww-pi5pb 5 ай бұрын

Your videos are so helpful! Thanks for all the journaling prompts

@virtualsandra 7 ай бұрын

Not even halfway thru and this video resonated so so much. As soon as you said to comment if we want a future video about negative core beliefs, I ran to the keyboard. I was thinking this video was older because I’ve been searching for inspirational videos and this one being only 5 days old somehow hits harder. Like for some reason I was meant to see this 😂 Anyway, subscribed! Can’t wait for more videos and hopefully the one about “Negative Core Beliefs”, I never realized that there was actually a word/phrase for it.

@conniechuha3113 7 ай бұрын

Another weekly dose of encouragement. Thank you.

@NikasInnerBeauty 7 ай бұрын

Any time☺️💖

@grudtt2428 5 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤️ This is just what I needed to hear today 🙏

@16demolka 5 ай бұрын

Discipline is self-love - I love that!

@pri-fl8yd 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much . I needed this ❤

@ChristianW0lf 7 ай бұрын

Love this. This is actually really great advice.

@KS-wr4vv 4 ай бұрын

Wow this really resonated with me. I’m so hard on myself bc I fell into addiction for several years. 4 year ago I got sober and have remained sober while simultaneously starting a new art teaching job. II always focus on feeling guilty for all that time in active addiction; Versus being proud of myself for overcoming it, which many never do. I say to myself well everyone works but not everyone works while being a single mom of 2 teenagers struggling w add and depression. Luckily I think my depression is behind me which is why I want to add more to my life ; am routine, consistent exercise and a regular art practice.😢 thank you for your valuable content and for reminding me to love and take pride in what I have accomplished vs what I haven’t. 😂❤

@jazimenstephens5570 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! I needed to hear this ❤❤

@carollaurentino2003 2 ай бұрын

Hey there! I’ve recently discovered your channel and I’m amazed with your content, it’s very clear and actionable, literally binge watching 😅 Would love to see a video on negative core beliefs! ❤

@ishitaparakh75 4 ай бұрын

Loved it! Thank you for this!

@MannyMac 5 ай бұрын

"Your video is truly inspiring, moving from Legacy to discipline and leveling up into your productive era. Your content is excellent, and I want to encourage you to keep creating more impactful videos. I am looking forward to the inspiration you'll continue to share!"

@dina_kazakova 21 күн бұрын

Thank you, dear! It was nice to find new pieces of advice for me

@NicolaWinters 7 ай бұрын

Great tips! Lots of this resonated. Thank you for sharing 😊

@little.devotional 5 ай бұрын

Omg yes yes yes! Thank you for this!!

@amayramlew 7 ай бұрын

NIKA!! thank you so much, soo very helpful and motivational!! you gave me the most immense push to rediscover myself this summer, I cant thank you enough🙏🙏

@NikasInnerBeauty 7 ай бұрын

Awhh I’m so glad! It’s my pleasure 🥰💖

@johnsonjo8454 7 ай бұрын

@@NikasInnerBeautyhi 💋💋💋

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@REBECCAJ.WARBURTON 5 ай бұрын

This is so insightful! Thank you 🥰

@biancaamalta 7 ай бұрын

This video is an absolute masterpiece! Thank you 🙏 💓

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

❤

@danica.filipovic 2 ай бұрын

Easlily one of the best videos out here 👌

@ANelligante 4 ай бұрын

This was very inspiring and helpful. It was honest and to the point. Loved this video. Thank you!

@shalakalahoti 17 күн бұрын

This was really good video..I have always been lazy and knew that I have to be disciplined to get somewhere in life..and this video explains so much of it.. And discipline once you get a hang of it, is so much fun.. Love the video❤

@palakjain9202 7 ай бұрын

Thank You! I really needed this video, specially the persist despite resistance point :)

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@LunaJonesTarot 7 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this info! Very uplifting :D

@ValentinaGulpe 6 ай бұрын

What a fantastic channel to stumble upon ;) from one creator to another amazing work ❤

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@IYAk319 Күн бұрын

Thank you for your vid! ❤

@irenedeng1759 6 ай бұрын

It's the law of attraction！！！Thank u Nika for brining us that!

@DZ-le1zh Ай бұрын

Amazing video!! Thank you!! 😍🙏🏼

@Matt-rw9py 6 ай бұрын

Smart girl, thank you, amazing tips! Lovely

@evabeharkova9926 2 ай бұрын

Super, thats what i ve needed right now

@simona_bee 4 ай бұрын

this video literally changed my life. changing the definition of discipline is so empowering. thank you for everything you're doing on this channel 🤍

@lagirl4648 3 ай бұрын

How have I never seen your KZfaq before? This just popped up in my recommended videos. You're great. new sub.❤

@thatssojayah6886 5 ай бұрын

I love this mindset

@chelseamckinley6745 7 ай бұрын

Love this video , thank you 😊

@elisavigino3169 2 ай бұрын

Really a beautiful video!! ⭐️

@xxmarletjosorixx 5 ай бұрын

Please make a podcast this is so helpful!! Would love to listen on the go

@leticiadosanjos7106 7 ай бұрын

That first tip she gave is so true! Did you know that in portuguese "trust" and "confidence" are the same word?

@StevieBowers91 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video, and dose of blunt reality haha I am interested in a video regarding negative core beliefs🥰

@prettygirlwhispers 3 ай бұрын

Love all your videos

@tanjavantonder4312 6 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this video! Very helpful!

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@efyaasantewaa1002 4 ай бұрын

Click on your channel and the “get in babe ,we’re changing our lives” in the bio made me subscribe ❤

@mydakhan3994 4 ай бұрын

Yesss plzzz make a video on negative mindset and overthinking

@blue_boulevard4429 7 ай бұрын

super helpful video, thanks

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Give it to my self❤❤❤

@lenaramos1250 5 ай бұрын

This video is from 2month ago I wanted to whatch it then but landed in the hospital instead. Nothing bad my water broke and they had to have an eye on the inflamation and waiting for contractions. After she was born (5days after! Within 2hrs) yeah postpartum things but now we have a little routine as a family of four. Now I am ready to achieve some goals and also get fit again (doctor also said I can excercise again but now I'm sick😅) so in the new year 😅 Your advices sound really helpful 🥰

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Gives you back

@Emilysmommy02 4 ай бұрын

Loved your video, great content

4 ай бұрын

“I guess this is uncomfortable it just means I’m not supossed to do it” - love the Reflection.

@nellycandelas4875 Ай бұрын

Good video. What stuck was self love ❤without that there’s nothing

@lilianamoreira-costa9958 6 ай бұрын

Your examples are great!

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Qualified as soon and fast as i can❤

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Keep water and warm

@Pzychonoir 3 ай бұрын

Super interesting info. Thank you very much for producing such content! ;)

@angelasagenda 5 ай бұрын

Hello! I was searching KZfaq for “motivation”, “life improvement”, and “create a new me”. And your channel popped up and has drawn me in.

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

So proud of you for taking this step in wanting to improve yourself and your life! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources! Let’s go on this journey together:)

@xuejiaofeng8277 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. You make perfect sense to me. I think you are gonna helpl me improve my productivity like 5%. That is beneficail.

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Guardare❤❤❤vedi...not going against.......you are doing it😊

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

You are you are you are❤

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

And likely bonding to it❤

@asmahassani4964 5 ай бұрын

I loved the video thanks 🙏🏻

@toziamutambo1883 7 ай бұрын

This message had no fluff😂 called out and helped out 😊thank you

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

For believe in yourself

@user-yu2cd7jr6s 2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@sabrinanicole6640 7 ай бұрын

Amazing advice!

@johnsonjo8454 5 ай бұрын

Hi💋💋💋🤎

@albacuevas6822 3 ай бұрын

Right now, I feeling so much resistance and doubts about my work. I like it but it is challenging right now and I keep asking if I will ever good at it one day. I completely understand the resistance part. It is hard learn to manage it

@mee976 7 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@ThihongngocDu 7 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@eustaquiozambrano2974 6 ай бұрын

Well done girl. Have a great weekend. ❤👍

@katherine.n.martinez 5 ай бұрын

Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

@smilermc1369 7 ай бұрын

Love love love

@NikasInnerBeauty 7 ай бұрын

Thank youu🫶🏼🫶🏼

@angelicarousiaki1316 5 ай бұрын

Girl I'm the most disciplined person I know.And I guarantee you school never taught me how to be so disciplined.I would say it had the opposite effect on me. You should be sooo proud of yourself for turning your life around. You're killing it and you're also helping so many people out there do the same!!I'm a new sub :)

@ina.beauty 4 ай бұрын

This year After my mom got to the hospital and i nearly loose her, i stop all the sugar and exces of coffee that i made!!! Sometimes We need just a huge event to realise that We wont live 100 years and is our duty to take care of our health phisically and mentally! I start doing more youtube video just to improve myself and because i like it!! Life is to short to Life boring lifes ❤

@sarvaepc 5 ай бұрын

Change how you view discipline. View it as self love. What you tell yourself is real. But keep it realistic. Catch and release: Take the informed step forwards. Don’t dwell on it. What can you give to the world after achieving this? Why is it important? What is the biggest thing you can do? This week or day to the conditions?

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Grazie cuore❤

@edithosaye7518 7 ай бұрын

Thank u so much

@johnsmith9330 4 ай бұрын

So pretty

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Per il freto❤❤

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Successs😊😊

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Aiutati ❤❤trova cose stimoli impara a imparare , trasullati nel momento😢😢😢😢😢😊

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Core❤

@azfarsyed7082 7 ай бұрын

Good natures .

@ericaarvizzigno3768 20 күн бұрын

Regarding the difficulty

@areenyousifsamad2060 7 ай бұрын

Would love a video about negative core beliefs ❤

@NikasInnerBeauty 7 ай бұрын

Will definitely be making it soon💖

@johnsonjo8454 7 ай бұрын

@@NikasInnerBeauty love you so much 💋💋💋🤎

@ShoppingwithRina 7 ай бұрын

Amazing

@BAW47 5 ай бұрын

Ya. I think I'm going to need to watch this video about five more times. I think what kills me is the self talk 😢 the words I say to myself, are words that I would NEVER say to another human. Thank you for such a fantastic video.

@deepshikha_garg 5 ай бұрын

Same thing goes with me as well. And this video is definitely going to make my 2024 much better. Thank you so much for creating such a quality content..

@ericaarvizzigno3768 Ай бұрын

Disciplina te stessa❤❤❤