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In this instance, they are playing at being adults. She still feels something for him. They probably don't even know who Maya Angelou is

@@jlf7362 Too funny! 😂😂😂

Agreed!!

Exactly!!! It makes no sense and then you want to berate him but you keep sleeping with him!!!

He's sorry .. probably never even took responsibility over those kids

WHAT A “DIS”GRACE FOR A PERSON, A FATHER AND A MAN!!! He’s too trifling to be considered IGNORANT! JUST PLAIN “IGNANT!!!

She disrespected him by putting him childsupport

@@1cheeseakamulti so your logic, he's not supposed to pay for the kids he help created?🤔🙄

@@1cheeseakamulti troll alert 🚨

Lmao!!! All the way out! I replayed that multiple times! Woooo

True, he don’t look like the type with an address. He is so young with a full bummie life ahead of him. Just sad

And she spread her legs for said scrub... She's just as dumb as him

Not to mention their son someday seeing him deny being his father. 😞

@@NubianP6 I have a feeling that this is a generational repetition of behaviors.

Lol

JM is Preaching the TRUTH!

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OMG too funny 🤣🤣

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@@custer55crip85 lol

Loser*

*loser

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“21 year old in a 8 yr old body” 😂 best comment hands down

Nah he does have a childish figure lol

@@audrelordhammercy612 she's also an air head for making a baby with a 21 year old dude with no job... A dude who threatened to beat and shoot her smh

@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 I know right. It’s all her fault that he’s a psycho. She should’ve known that at birth. She’s completely responsible for him and his actions as a human being. Makes sense to me.

Yes. Yes he did. 🫠

Ignorant is NOT bliss boy you didn't need to see it he read it!!! Like JM said you'll see it when you get served with them child support papers!!

Most dangerous type of person 😥

It's her fault and his 50/50

@@diofiglio1 it's DEFINITELY her fault for choosing a BM when the majority of them are bums. But as long as she chooses to stay away from them, she can be redeemed. Him on the other hand, will be in and out of jail because that's what these BM like. To go to jail/prison looking for boyfriends,a place to lay for free and a meal. That's just the reality of it. Typical ANGRY BM

No accountability, typical black men lol

People really need to consider who they want to involve themselves with. That goes for friends or mates, because they can end up in situations like this where at the end of the day, its the children that will suffer for it. Its sad.

Great job mama 🎉🎊

Great job queen ❤

What if u chose better

@@diofiglio1 What if you go play in traffic

@@birdbuc9542 well brother instead of insulting each other maybe you could just say I disagree.....I'll pose a question the sister made a comment..... yes or no could she have chosen a better father for her child

Cuz the plaintiff was just as lost as the lil boy. 🤦🏽‍♀️😏

@@mzfancy4767 mz fancy🤗. She’s crazy. I worked with this nut. She flipped out on me for absolutely no reason. She’s admittedly bipolar. She told the whole job.

Right? Lol I hate when a joke goes over someone’s head

SOMETHING to counteract what is destroying us. We could do better as a nation, if everyone really wanted everyone to succeed.

you need men for that right ??🤔🤣🤣

@@peacefaith560 I feel bad your dad wasn't able to show you different

Probably not. Those type of people never change.

Exactly! Bums that make threats against u and your child, u gotta move on from. I wouldn't even press getting child support from a nut like that.

That's great and all but that's still their father. Once you make children with them, there's going to be a connection. Support isn't about what you want it's what these kids deserve.

@@whoisdickieschnabel I don’t understand why women won’t get child support for their child.

Exactly

I understand what you're saying. However, our young people need halp and guidance more than condemnation at this point.

She doesn't know what she's dealing with and listens to his logic... Hopefully, she's escaped the situation fully.

She says she thought he’d “changed” and “learned his lesson”. 🙄 Because you know how men that beat you and threaten to kill you and your children are always “changing” for the better? 🤦🏽‍♀️ She’s a sad, delusional young woman. People like that don’t just “change” in a month or two, because it takes a special kinda somebody to even abuse and mistreat someone in the first place.

@@NubianP6 YOU BETTA TELL EM!!

Thats the thing I don't understand.That should be enough to cut all ties and have nothing to do with him. There is no feeling sorry for someone who would say something like that. I don't care if he was young and just saying dumb stuff. Dude threatened her kids.

I wish I could “like” this a thousand times sis! WELL put, and so very true! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I appreciate your comment and agree with you wholeheartedly. This problem in all its facets boils down to a spiritual one. The answer is a spiritual one. I'm aware some (or most) will disagree, but whether we believe and accept, or not; the truth will be made known to us sooner than most think. In the meantime, if we could reach out to the younger generations and babies right now and instill values and morals, we could head off the upcoming generations from recreating the generational trauma. It would take so much concentrated and united effort, but it is worth a try. A I viewed this video and noticed their young ages; I thought that this is still their growth period. Not the time to be having a family and struggling (or neglecting) to raise children. I really prefer for Black men and women to work together and rebuild our communities, but if that is not to be, young Black women take back your power (without looking at Black men or each other as enemies). One way is to forego sexual relationships with anyone who does not show you the honor of loving and cherishing you and MARRYING YOU.

Drop the stinky attitudes first and foremost and understand the world owes you nothing.

@@tom11zz884 well first and foremost, I don’t have a stinky attitude. Secondly, I never believed the world owed me anything. Thirdly, what you’re doing is generalizing. Fourthly, again, I don’t have an attitude I’m just letting you know. If you want to have an adult conversation about this let’s do it but if this is all you’re going to bring to this discussion I would rather to just respectfully agree to disagree and keep moving.

@@sharyageorge ignore the troll sis these people get online just to be hateful

We need a bullhorn and people who would just walk the streets day and night spreading this message.

She saw that and decided to have a 2nd child with him. She’s sorry too

PREACH!

Absolutely!!! You know how bad he was before the babies!! She trying to make him care ,honey the fact that he didn't care about you should have told you everything!!

Yes. Someone told me before a lot things we go through we bring on ourselves and that has definitely stuck with me because it’s so true. A lil daily birth control can save ppl from a lot of bs.

​@@HARRIS4276 Or, IMO, better yet, respect for our bodies and intellect in the form of abstinence until we grow and mature into responsible adults.

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Yes. She and he both need help. Hopefully, more are willing to help than scold and condemn.

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Sis you said a mouthful 💯💯💯...

Just because he acts like a kid doesn’t mean he is a kid. Infantilizing black men is why they act like this now

💯 I like that

@@CS48293 I think most right-thinking people will agree with you to a degree. However, what do you mean by infantilizing in this case? I would think that if we (preferably older mature men) tell this man that he is acting immaturely and work with him to correct his thinking and behavior would be the answer. IN OTHER WORDS, how do you help in this type of situation? How do you call attention to the bad behavior without describing it? Also, how do we rally against the system we live under that promotes the behaviors?

I say this ALL the time. Young people think being an adult is only about having sex and living together so they can have sex. VERY shallow minded. They always get the rudest awakening of their lives!

Exactly what I was thinking! His father wouldn't put up with this type of foolishness...if he has a father in his life!

My question is why aren’t the BM in our community helping to raise these boys without a “male figure”? You all sound the same...delusional

@@scottrogue946 maaan stfu!!!! nobody asked for your reply 🤦🏽‍♂️

Exactly!!

IF only what you said was listened to on a grand scale.

@@sereneamani1713 bingo

It's not an issue of BLAME, It's an issue of how WE CAN STOP THIS MADNESS!

It sure did. And She seemed like she was trying to defend him saying,”he didn’t meet her in jail” over and over. She didn’t get it

Please explain that a bit further.

Give us the tea

No

He needs his ass whooped 😑

Well, don’t forget her because she’s bipolar. I know this because I used to work with her.

@Psalms91 Sure ya did😏. There are thousands of parents who are bipolar and take their necessary medication-that doesn't make them bad parents. That is, if in your unqualified opinion, that she even IS bipolar.

@@jshaianne26 so now you’re going to tell me who I worked with and where I live. Ok - your daddy Adrian needs to have a harsh talk with you.

What input or influence can you use to help the problem?

@@sereneamani1713 Nothing but negativity

No thanks

nah dont know who cyn g is

Ya because women don't slap man at all.

Unfortunately most men in our community don’t check other men about this behavior. This is acceptable behavior for most 🤦🏾‍♂️

@@Greatsharkbite you’re not missing anything. She’s a black woman, who makes videos bashing black men….

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