You compare her wig, to your fraudulent whole life??? False equivalency...flag on the play!

He was reaching and trying to humiliate her with the hair thing. Not cute. I don't understand how she's a fraud because that's not her real hair... Unless she said it was her real hair. He needs to look up the definition so he can stop being one.

Judge Toler was absolutely correct in what she told this young lady. The guy is displaying Narcissistic traits. They go after young women that can be easily manipulated.He's complacent & will never change.

The broke ones always dress in designer.

Sweetie..you are 23! Move on, please!

Unbelievable...a Grown man living off of a 23 Year old, and Don't have No Shame In his game,

Seems like she’s not in love with that man. She’s in love with having a man. And he doesn’t even want to acknowledge the fact that he’s a bum. 🤦🏾‍♀️

I'm glad I found this case. I'm actually in one of these situations. He took me to five star restaurants, drove a Mercedes-Benz, and claimed to have purchased a $ 50,000 engagement ring for his ex. Then two months into it, he told me his bank account was frozen, and asked me to pay his $1600 rent. I did, now the guy still owes me money a month later. I need to put my big girl undies on and run. It's emotionally painful, but this case opens my eyes. 😕

If he will lie about small stuff eventually he will lie about the big stuff ,YOUNG LADY ,PLEASE RUN!!!!

wow.. As a fellow black strong brother holding it down for my people, I am ashamed of these so called "new generation men" who are actually boys that let our adorable queens foot their bills. he has no sense of responsibility, no drive, very comfortable being a regular bum... wow... I remember when I worked 3 jobs just to provide for my siblings so they could go to college and get at least an associate degree. very basic dude and it's painful. I was not born here in the US but I knew my root. Failure is not an option. I worked construction, fast food, car wash just to provide for those I loved. today I drive a 2017 vehicle that I paid cash for, because my hustle was tight, never gave up, kept on hussling.

My girl is so damn slow... Hurry up and tell the story

DUDE IS A BUM FOR REAL. WHAT TYPE OF MAN SITS AT HOME IN HIS 30s AND LET HIS WOMAN TAKE CARE OF HIM. THEN HE TRIFLING TOO.

And I hate the way he keeps watching her the whole time, looks like controlling behavior and scary.

She is pretty and can do much better than him He isn’t even handsome pfff

She must have caught him around tax season... I can never understand why folks act like they are so invested after a short amount of time...

"I am a business man " hahaha when you start to believe your own lies 😂😂😂 this guy is a joke

When he brought up the hair thing everyone was literally like 👀 .. he really thought he was making sense. Everyone looked like “how does that even compare”

He’s a con man .

He definitely took advantage of that young lady, probably used other women's money to pay for his lavish lifestyle...Smh he disgust me.

His pipe game has to be strong because this case makes no sense otherwise.

I would not date a man 10 years older than me a grown ass man in their 30's that has a part time job at Wal-Mart. Not happening.

I love her hair. She's beautiful

I have a lot of respect for Judge Toler and the patience she has doing her job and listening to these pathological liars. I would explooooode.

She's wasting her time with him. He's not a real man. She needs to move on and I think the mother is right.

How was he able to wine and dine her and treat her like that working part time at Walmart?

If I was her father he would not want to be with her no more.

He needs to man up and be the man he presented to me!!! I’m on the floor, hahahahaha

She's calling him out on BS, and then he attacks her hair? GTFOH?

Young women waste their 'best years' on boys like this, believing they can 'love & support & build' him into a man that will love and appreciate them ... in turn they soon realize they are 35+ and having missed out on so much in life

“Image is a false prophet”-Judge Lynn Toler. This is a whole word!!

Anything that starts with a lie will end with a lie. Anyone who lies about small stuff will lie about more important significant stuff. He misrepresented himself to woo her. If your don’t have respect and trust in a relationship you have nothing! This cannot be fixed when the person your dealing with remains in denial about their behavior and doesn’t think they have to change. She should have left him immediately when she found out he lied about all those things he lied about! Also he was living beyond his means to impress her. Spending money he doesn’t have on expensive dinners, expensive gifts and expressive rental cars. He’s over 30 and should have a full time job period. He’s a bum for doing just enough to get by instead of being motivated to get a better paying job.

Judge Lynn: “What do you bring to the table?” Man: “I make her smile” Me:😹😹😹😹😹😹

He gaslighted her, it happened to me too in my first relationship When I was 22. No matter how wise I was before, it all went out the window and I questioned everything. The question “Am I crazy?” Played in my head almost every minute. It lasted 2 months but felt like forever and I still get horrible flashbacks and a punch of regret after 2 years.

I didn't even watch this episode and I'm like🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️. You found all this out a long time ago and yet you're still with this man. All of this is really on you. Nobody is to blame for your heartbreak but you. The lies and infidelities should've made you call the whole relationship not just the engagement. I hate how these woman come on here to whine about how he did her wrong but she still with him

This fool is dead ass serious about how he is a "business man" lmao. Wtf man.

Brother brother brother!!!!! He got to get a trade or something. Go work in a plant ,welder, pipe fitter, truck driver. Wal-Mart ain't gonna get it.

How do you not find out why he was in jail? Girl doing wife stuff for a dude not her husband. All this bull and she stayed and trying to marry him. Girl Bye!

I blame him because he started out with something that wasn't true and then he expects something different.

He has eff boy written all over him.

Gurl, move on. This happened to me. A guy i was dating, in my early 20's lied about his age. Later on, found out he lied about not having kids (he had two, one of which would be considered my peer). These type of men will lie about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING and they have the WORST character. Increase your self esteem and run for you life.

What kind of GROWN DAMN MAN LIE ABOUT HIS AGE ..have to watch guys like that

Girl if you don’t get your stuff, and leave him 😒

I don't even feel bad for some of the women that come on this show anymore all the signs are there and they choose to ignore them....and he is just a mess

This dude scrapes the chalkboard of my soul.

If you knew all these lies. Should have left

I knew judge had something up her sleeves😂😂😂

Damn he could at least be full time..unless he has a good side hustle!

I love watching judge toler just to hear her closing statement.

I think it was wise for her to not introduce him to her family

Girrrrrrllllllll Smdh.... he had a entire girl at his house and asking you to put your hard earned money on his books?!? That alone is enough to 🏃‍♀️, then to top it off you find out he lied about a plethora of stuff come on now.

If you found out months in... why have you been with him for 2 1/2 years? These young girls have got to stop dealing with these old ass men. THey're looking for inexperienced women like you to use it against you. That's the player handbook. Don't be one of those girls that get played.

Hair or money, career, relationship status, car. Where's the comparison. He's a liar, he's capable of lying about anything.

This is a classic case of bait and switch! He baited her with the wining and dining then switched on her!

Damn that hair comment he made was just plain disrespectful.

Brothers, a word of advise, if you're broke and/or financially unstable, a relationship SHOULD NOT be on your list of priorities.

Judge said I need you to be embarrassed 🤣🤣🤣I'm dying 😆

She is gorgeous!! 😍

Finally a woman with some sense!! Glad to see she left him and yes...when someone SHOWS you who they are, BELIEVE them!

Commercial question: Would you continue dating someone who lied about their age?- NO. Your age is one of the first questions I ask about you and if you can't tell me the truth, it shows an insecurity in you. Whether you're older or younger- you're not comfortable with it and you're not comfortable with you, hence, I can't be comfortable with you either.

"I work at a business" omg. Coming out of the gate with a bunch of lies, I'd have trouble trusting anything he's said to me.

This guy was a joke.

I swear the judge better come through with the real talk! Lord she just blessed me!!!!!!

He was such a smooth talker, she needs to be smarter so she can be worthy of a guy who treats her well for real. I am so glad she listened, I was scared she would go back to the narc.

“Never be blind to who you’re dealing with.” 🙏🏾 Amen!!!!!!!!!! Judge Toler always hits the nail right on the head. It always baffles me when either person has no shame in living off of the other like a sponge. If you both agreed to have one be the primary breadwinner or the only one working, then that’s a completely different circumstance. However, if you allegedly have the money to wine, dine and pamper me in the beginning and then have the nerve to live off of my hard earned dollars later on, you need to get the stepping. I need my fellow women to stop acting like y’all are totally in love after only 3 months. Like..........no ma’am. The judge was right, her mother was right, her auntie was probably right, her best friend from elementary was probably right: why are you with a whole bum sis? You are 23 doing things for a grown man that an extra grown woman wouldn’t even waste her time with (a secure in her self, position, power and life grown woman that is). Rant over

The real life definition of "ain't ish". This is sadder than a funeral.

Pretty sure he got arrested for credit card fraud if he was able to treat her so well in the beginning. Considering he works part time at Walmart

This fool was spending his whole Walmart check tryna flex 😂😂😂......he's so funny 😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

The young lady is beautiful & deserves better. Also, the mom’s skin is glowing! He’s a leach for sure.

I had to stop & admire how beautiful this sister is. She's a barbie! Now sweetie you are too young for all this 😶

She is too beautiful and has too much promise to settle for that loser. Run!

That's what's up in this generation looking to someone to depend on. And they use ''Love'' to do this. Very sad.

It seems like before she met him she was used to going to the drive thru and when he swooped in and started to take her to these 5⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ restaurants I have a strong feeling that they did Applebee’s 2 for $20. So that probably did seem like a huge deal to her

I died when #weaveshaming popped up on the screen at 9:29 😂😂😂😂

A 23 year old taking care of a 33 year man. This is a joke.

"I make her smile...." I cannot tell you how far back my eyes rolled

“I work at a business, im a man, aint that a business man?” LMAOOOO where did she find this man

My husband turned like this straight after we got married. Ended up getting so stressed and got stomach uclers. He was 10 years older then me and living off my pocket. Guess what I didn't need anyone to tell me. Booked a ticket to Turkey and asked for a divorce over the phone and never looked back. I really do feel for her because it feels like his using you #girlpower

Be careful dating dudes in Atlanta, most are Down-Low! Heck be careful period.

This dude is a character, big joke

I am shocked at the level of attack I received just because I suggested we as "African Men" should setup our game so the the younger generation growing up can emulate us. Well at the end of the day its one love, I love my people and that's that.

Mom knows best.... She gets the 1,000,000 likes 👍🏾

I totally agree with her on how the initial impressions can hang in there like heroin! I fought for years to get back a man who never truly was a man. Great Advice!

His definition of “businessman” 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

You can tell Judge Lynn was over him and they relationship!!! She was BORED!!!

Sounds like the gold digger was digging in a grave yard.

That was a valuable lesson she learned. "If someone shows u who they are believe them!!"

We women have got to do better !! I was blesssed to have amazing parents who took my sister and i to nice places . So we didn’t have to turn out like that ! He has to do More than just take you to nice places !!!

“ u adorable over there w ur bow tie “ LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO no way I’m dying rn 😭😭

So glad she left him

' I work in a business and I'm a man, therefore I'm a business man." He's corny for that tho ;)))))

I cant date no young girls. I like my wine fine

She's such a beautiful, intelligent young woman. Judge Toler was right, "Walk on my sister!!" And she heeded the judge and mom's advice, good for her!!☺🙏💖

I am aged 61 had 2 husbands the first one passed, I’ve just put the second one out combined marriages of 36 years, been taken for granted, on my own now for 6 months working 3 jobs to pay bills but I am happy, being on your own is a privilege, trust me sistas out there don’t be fooled, don’t be used, hold your heads high and as the judge says, if it doesn’t serve you, walk on. Please take the advice I am asking you. God bless you all ❣️❤️🙏💕♥️

Did she make mistakes? Sure she did, but who can throw stones because at 23 yrs old we all have and some haven't stopped. I am SOOO proud of the fact that she acknowledged her wrong and made steps to correct it! So glad you listened to your mom, because she loves you and ONLY wants the absolute best for her baby girl!! ❤

I was just shaking my head throughout this video...his words and attitude have left me speechless! Don't even get me started on his comment about her hair not being hers, smh he's some special kinda ...man. Kudos to the Judge for what I consider sound advice to her and to her for choosing to move on.

“I work at a business....I’m a man so I’m a business man” 🤦🏿‍♀️

i work at business so i am a business man best quote to the whole episode LMAO👍

I'm a person with low funds😭😭

At first glance, you might think she’s a gold digger. I think she honestly wanted a fairytale, “look at what I got! A man who treats me well, he takes me out, I get flowers and candles and it’s all very romantic”. That’s what she saw, she didn’t leave cuz she probably felt that things would get better and she would look bad. He used all those things to get a naive 21 year old who honestly wanted the good life, then he ended up using her for the basic things. Him equating what he did to her wearing weave shows how mentally limited he is. “Sure, I lied bout my age, my job, my accommodation, my financial stability but you’re lying bout your hair! It’s basically the same thing” 😒

"Don't get stuck with the first..." O Bow tie killa...