[FULL STORY] My dad disowned my sister and now he is dying.. He is still refusing to see my...

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@LaylaM-cf2or 15 күн бұрын

The sister really thought that he was going to be fine walking his daughter down the aisle with the man who ruined everything

@RaffickMeera 15 күн бұрын

Yes thank you

@Amenimun 15 күн бұрын

Yeah, I don't know what she was thinking.

@Tensa_Zangetsu1222 15 күн бұрын

She had it coming ngl

@thenoob331 15 күн бұрын

I still can't believe ppl are actually like that either, she kinda deserved this pain after abandoning her loving dad who felt so heartbroken after she chose the homewrecker that destroyed their marriage over a loving and caring father who still cared for her even after she broke his heart.

@newolympiangod8134 15 күн бұрын

Because females don't care they never do it's all about them. And if you don't play along as a man then they don't want you around. They really think it's all about them and only them. She was able to disrespect him and down play him all this time so why should this be any different.

@soullessmsm 15 күн бұрын

The dad had every right to be mad at his daughter! Imagine looking up to your dad and then having your mom pure pressure you to be a lawyer because she cheated on him with his best friend who is also a lawyer. She’s lucky to at least get money and a trust fund for her kids! I personally don’t think she deserves anything at all! Honestly how in the hell does she not understand why he was mad at her? It’s crazy. My deepest condolences he’s in a better place now. I lost my grandparents when I was 8 I’m currently 13 so I guess you can say I’m in the wrong for saying this stuff but still your father had every right to be mad. Again my condolences for you.

@spelledsidneynotsydney 15 күн бұрын

im currently 14 and i completely agree with you. the sister ditched the father and then got sad when she didnt get as many sentimental things, shouldve seen it coming.

@ironsworddk7013 15 күн бұрын

@@spelledsidneynotsydneysame age and thinking the same thing so, same

@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 14 күн бұрын

My dear you speak wiser than most 30-year-olds. I'm sorry you lost your grandparents at a young age. I was so grateful to be able to treasure mine up until I was 19. I was very close to my grandmother who I took care of until she died when I was 19. Yeah, I literally took care of her including making all her meals giving her her medicine everything. I only got to see my paternal grandparents when we went to visit them. I gave my whole bank account everything I'd earned and saved for 2 years so I could go see my dying grandfather that's what my mom wanted that's what she got. My dad never knew I thought he did until about 3 months before he died at 89. He didn't understand why I never really was that close to him afterwards. I didn't understand why my dad would make me give every $ I saved to go to college to him so that I could go see my dying grandfather. Especially since they were very wealthy. I'd been working supporting myself since I was 15 paying rent by my own clothes any extra food I wanted and all my school and personal care necessities as that was their belief. Now it wasn't until my father was 89 I found out he didn't know that I didn't choose that job I didn't go out looking for a job that my mother had forced me to get that job She took away my right to have a childhood. I had started taking care of the family when I was 11 on my 13th birthday she told me I'm not doing anything anymore I'm too sick She really wasn't but she decided she was. Grandparents are special. Parents are special. Even though mine weren't good I tried very hard to live up to the name. My parents do not have to be ashamed of me. Although they didn't do right by me by they didn't love me as much as they loved their own daughter I was adopted They gave me an education that I will never regret. I have been a much stronger kinder and better person because of it and successful. I chose to take the good out of what I went through and people admire me for that. But the father like you said he has every right to feel hurt and broken by what his daughter did. He doesn't have to give her the right to emotionally abuse him at the end of his life. He knows all she wants to do is assuage her own guilt not make him feel better. He just couldn't feel the ability to forgive her for the betrayal and I really get it. I was able to forgive my parents because I realized they were the ones who were mentally ill not me and that's the way I look at it when someone betrays you They are mentally ill. My father realized too late that his own daughter was the big problem He had already done everything wrong and I knew I wasn't getting anything from this very wealthiest state but he also made sure his daughter got nothing His new wife of 20 years and her children got the estate His wife destroyed the will thus she got everything It was okay. I have all the wonderful memories of my grandparents my sister does not have and I will not be sharing them with her She has cut me off because I'm not blood related to her I will be writing down my memories and providing them to the family members who did not grow up with me The great grandchildren that do not know her I will share all of that and what pictures I do have. I hope they will keep her alive to those great great grandchildren who don't know anything about her.

@Samandjam555 14 күн бұрын

@@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678I’m so sorry for that, I’m currently with my grandparent’s place for vacation so this shows I have to cherish every moment

@Kjabstract 7 күн бұрын

I’m 14 and totally agree I don’t think he should have even given her the photo album at that and my grandparents died when I was 6 the last memory I have of her was her in the hospital bed miserable and I watched her die cause she died when we visited

@plumppassion 15 күн бұрын

Forgiveness is for that person to give. No one is entitled to it just for being family. She was very disrespectful and rude.

@Ez.Modeletsgo 10 күн бұрын

Absolutely true, and her fate is to suffer the regret for the rest of her life, and she can’t do anything about it, she won’t be able to forgive herself cuz she knows her dad never forgave her even till his last breath, it’s honestly doesn’t help her to become a better person, but she’ll take that disrespect and wrong choices for the rest of her life, and she deserves that

@jessicathompson236 15 күн бұрын

The dad had every right to be upset. He was betrayed by THREE of his most important people all at once.

@Tensa_Zangetsu1222 15 күн бұрын

A betrayal never comes from enemies

@sunblobian 15 күн бұрын

thats because you expect it from enemies

@samararg4507 13 күн бұрын

@@sunblobianno, a betrayal comes from someone trusted, you don’t trust enemies 💀

@Sparra.19 10 күн бұрын

@@sunblobianHow would you be betrayed by an enemy 😂

@sunblobian 10 күн бұрын

@@Sparra.19 yeah, you can’t be betrayed by enemies because you expect it, that’s what I’m saying

@sandrasausville9103 15 күн бұрын

She did this to herself, after getting what she could from Dad, she went with her cheating mother and he lost his love for her. She listened to the wrong people and made her life this way.

@mehulmalviya5800 15 күн бұрын

I'm totally with the Dad on this.

@spelledsidneynotsydney 15 күн бұрын

i feel like the sister shouldve expected to not get as many personal things, he spoiled her and then she completely ditched him! if they were that close they probably wouldve lived together. having 2 people walk you down the aisle isnt too common, but the dad had been talking about it for years! if he didnt talk to her for many years, there would be no reason to have her get possessions of his that are sentimental to others in the family.

@adreamofmist3222 15 күн бұрын

The dad is an amazing person. Even though he probably lost his fatherly love for his daughter, he still included her in his will and even her children. Even after disowning her, he made sure he wasn't unfair to her in his will and made sure all his kids had the fair bit of his will to have a comfortable life.

@kuruzsloorig278 15 күн бұрын

Wouldnt have let her even into the funeral, nor given her anything except the minimal stuff legally required in the will. She betrayed him, she have 0 rights to anything.

@cindybubbles 15 күн бұрын

To the dad, it’s just money. It’s the sentimental stuff that counted.

@Shay_Cormak 14 күн бұрын

@@cindybubblesyeah I can see how that gave her a mental breakdown, imagine seeing all your siblings getting thoughtful and Cherishing photos with a story at the back of them from their dead father then when you get You'res it's just photos and nothing more, she probably hates her job her mother pressured her to pursue and the person who used to spoil her is gone forever leaving you as an after thought maybe not even that. She Royal fucked up and now can't make amends with her father.

@l-l-l-l-l-l-l 15 күн бұрын

The sister actually choose the right career for herself as she is insensitive and ungrateful. OP's mom knows right away when she had no problem with her mom cheating as it is not illegal just immoral, which is like every lawyer's 1st amendment.

@gwenrichard7507 15 күн бұрын

Story 1: The less confrontational a person is, the worse they are when they finally snap. The fact she STILL had the step dad walk her down the aile is awful. The correct move would have been to cancel the wedding. I remember my mom telling me a story about when her mom and dad had an argument. Her mom after yelling for an hour burst into her room and said "Well... what is it going to be, do you wanna come with me or stay with your father." My mom quietly left with her mom but then began to sob. "Stop that! Why are you crying?" "Because I hurt dad's feelings. I chose to live with you, and not him." "We aren't splitting up. We are just going to the store and coming right back. Do you want to get ice cream?" "Yes please" "I see why you wanted to leave with me" "Because he might forgive me" "What" "You asked why I would live with you. It's because dad would probably forgive me."

@doomslayer5125 15 күн бұрын

Sister >Enters >Gets spoiled by dad >Chooses cheating mom >Walks step-dad down the aisle with dads wedding money >Stop talking to father >Oh noooo hes dead!

@ogieoglethorpe3788 14 күн бұрын

his daughter is despicable for waiting until the day before to tell him. i guarantee her, her failure as a mother, and his dirt bag former friend waited that long out of fear he would cancel everything his money paid for. how could she be stupid enough to not grasp the man who refused to attend your wedding and refused to see you or your children would want anything to do with you at the end? i will tip my cap at the dad for that hall of fame level petty shot he took before going though......the pics in her photo album had nothing written on the back like the other kids.

@cyllakjaw 15 күн бұрын

I always listen to this story in its entirety. Her having to live with the consequences of her stupid decisions is like listening to a harp sing.

@sammygreen066 15 күн бұрын

What on earth was going through that woman's head to do that to her dad? My heart does feel for her, her guilt knowing she'll never get to make amends, but she did it to herself

@Shay_Cormak 14 күн бұрын

Like imagine having your father's childhood best friend who cheated both his friendship and ruined a marriage walk you down the Isle instead of your own father who at that point still considered you his favorite and fully paid for your wedding, like girl you're fucked in head you're chromosome deficient, your mental breakdown was a data reset because you're brain was hot ca ca, remember folks be a good person and stay Groovy 🕺

@darthbiscuit 15 күн бұрын

Amazes me that people can take such love for granted Dad sounds like he heaped love onto everyone and paid for it dearly

@Cool_guy_5 15 күн бұрын

I'm baffled the sister chose her mom over her dad. I know it was manipulation but thr daughter has to see at some point right. She really did deserve to be disowned for that step father walking her down the aisle. I hope op dad's rests in peace he really did do everything he was a true father but broken.

@lindah3803 14 күн бұрын

Story 1: I've heard this story several times. There's always been something that bugged me. For whatever reason, I couldn't pinpoint it. It Finally dawned on me. Sister dropped the bomb the day before the wedding. OP said that his Dad was the most nonconfrontational person he has ever known. Dad went OFF on sister. Didn't attend the wedding. Don't know if OP or his siblings was present for the blow up. Don't know if they knew before the wedding that Dad wasn't going. If they did know before the wedding about the bomb and that Dad wasn't going. Did they go to the wedding. If so, why? Why would they go to celebrate her after all that she has done. If they found out at the wedding. Why didn't they walk out. Why didn't they cut that B out after all of that.

@Origami_Yoda 15 күн бұрын

0:57 for ppl from the shorts Btw not asking for likes so don’t fucking like this comment I’m just being helpful 😡

@CalmEditss 15 күн бұрын

@PatrickWilliams-sv8gv 12 күн бұрын

Thanks

@Daxalofr 15 күн бұрын

"People you know can hurt you the most" -Ghost

@kelliesharpe1067 15 күн бұрын

First story: being scared to death of being a bad parent is what will make him a good parent. I was an abused kid and my greatest fear in life was by kids being afraid of me, afraid of their dad, and afraid of life because of their dad and me. My husband, my 3 sons, and I were all born and raised in the Smokies. So, we took advantage of the fact and we hiked, fished, kayaked, sat in the woods watching momma bears and their cubs a lot, and we’ve stood on top of a LOT of mountains at sunrise with our boys. We ended up with 3 higher educated, financially successful, nature loving men who are kind, funny, empathetic, and who are best friends and as thick as thieves. Two are married, we’re grandparents now…and our youngest has a long term girlfriend who is just as smart as he is. Fear of being a bad parent can make you a successful parent. My husband and I are living proof and so are our boys.

@claytonthomas1980 15 күн бұрын

Story 1: can't blame the father for being upset with his daughter for what she did but he was better off letting her know that what she did was straight up disrespectful in more ways than one and she was better off letting him walk her down the aisle and be done with it wholeheartedly, but at least he chose to have everyone taken care of and that's a good thing but for story 2: definitely keep the mother in law away for good measure and the OP's husband should respect that in the long run.

@machineplayz1850 14 күн бұрын

First story hit Like a rock

@LazyAhhMfer 15 күн бұрын

Not one day beforw father day😭😭

@user-qe8kl9uv6s 15 күн бұрын

Oh my those mother’s in Law are the worse. Mine is overbearing as well. I’ve been fighting chronic pain for almost 9 months now, a couple of months ago my mother in law decided she was going to come and take care of me even though she knew my mother was here (she lives about 5 min away). My MIL asked my husband to go pick her up about 2-3 hours car ride. Then comes into my house, several times mentions she on vacation while my mom is actually helping w my son and daily cooking and cleaning, my MIL would sit there sipping on her coffee while my mom mopped the floor. At one point when I was in pain she walked into my room at 2am while I was getting out of the shower, goodness I was in pain but that pissed me off. I really wanted her out. On top of that she had the nerve to go through our bills when she stayed in a room that we use as an office. I wanted her gone. She stayed 2 whole weeks to me it was an eternity. Yes, my husband had to drive back to drop her off. I told him never again bring his mother to stay. Maybe a weekend but that’s it.

@codyjones8153 14 күн бұрын

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*

@AgentBobVR 14 күн бұрын

0:57 for people from the short.

@bathalamulejackson8965 9 күн бұрын

Btu i know the feeling...just take it one day at a time 🤦🏿‍♂️😞😞

@_Pan_man 15 күн бұрын

Is nobody gonna talk about the mom and step dad peer pressuring a college student to changing their major

@Shay_Cormak 14 күн бұрын

Yeah what about it, are we not going to talk about how she even got money from his will or that she used his money for her wedding while walking his homewrecker down the Isle instead.

@kaitlingalaviz6835 15 күн бұрын

Story 1: I would like to see the daughters pount of view because i think she was trying to please her mom's side and the dad never let her apologize or try to fix it. So there both in the wrong

@CalmEditss 15 күн бұрын

Dads not in the wrong she made her choice is doesn’t matter ehat the mom wanted for her to even suggest he walked with the same man who ruined his life is stupid and very insensitive. Dad did absolutely nothing wrong. Forgiveness is giving by someone and no one is entitled to it.

@kaitlingalaviz6835 15 күн бұрын

@@CalmEditss Your right no one is entitled to a apology but things could have been done differently. It was wrong for the dad to cut out his grandchildren because of there mother, and honestly if the mom had to audacity to cheat and get married to that person sounds like the dad was better off. And the fact that she was the only daughter means the mom definitely made sure to dig her claws into her as much as she could. And all the dad did was buy her more stuff before the wedding did her even try to get her away from the mom?

@CalmEditss 15 күн бұрын

@@kaitlingalaviz6835 your right but he did much more, he showered her with love and the main thing HE PAID for a big chunk of the wedding. So it’s just disrespectful to want him to walk with the home-wrecker who ruined his family when he paid for most of the wedding

@kaitlingalaviz6835 15 күн бұрын

@@CalmEditss Right. You gave me money and payed for my wedding yay, and you also left me to deal with my mother by my self yay. They both were in the wrong

@CalmEditss 15 күн бұрын

@@kaitlingalaviz6835 bro are you that stupid to think it’s as easy as I want my child. Well no it’s not. Also daughter CHOSE to live with the mother IT WAS HER CHOICE. Also even if she didn’t want to live with her mother it’d not that easy. Courts favor women in almost anything. It’s really easy to get custody of kids if you’re not a female. Also at that age kids CHOOSE who they wanna live with it’s not the parents choice. Tell me you know nothing about courts and the law without telling me 😐