Damn the adoption center is looking real fine right now

Strange behaviour from the daughter. She needs to understand her mother more. Should’ve called the police on the grandparents for intruding or trespassing on property. Or send the daughter off to live with the grandparents to see what he mother had it like, she might understand it more. He had the right to scream at his daughter, but the daughter clearly got manipulated by the grandparents. Daughter understands her actions and the punishment fits the cause. Being 16 and not understanding this is immature behaviour, honestly strange.

Why are these so addicting 😭

The daughter in the first story the daughter triggers my anxiety. I am also suffering from PTSD from childhood trauma, and I don't have a child yet, and my biggest fear is having a child who will betray me in this way.

I wouldn’t have threatened charges. I would have actually pressed charges

As a disabled person myself, that girl is burned out, and I dislike her behavior too, but she was denied a childhood or being a teenager because of the consequences of the actions of her mother, she was a child, and even though she should help, she should not be the caretaker. Let alone the money that was rightfully hers, the mother and the father of the baby are the ones with the responsibility to pay for that daughter, not the child support that was for op, op also mentioned how her mother would take her stuff without asking and sell them. That is not fair at all with her, she also deserves a life and a childhood, not to be responsible for other adults mistakes

You are never entitled to someone else’s pain. Period.

I am 64 yo and also have PTSD from my childhood. I am still in therapy! My therapist and God is helping me a lot. I still have many nightmares and my husband and son hear me screaming and wake me up. I thank God there was no sexual abuse. However, I am shaking just by writing this.

the daughter in the first story is incredibly naive. I hope she learned her lesson.

That’s so messed up. My mom’s dad is a shitty person. My mom has 4 sisters (3 of them triplets and my mom is a twin) and her dad left after they were born. I think he died. But, I know nothing about him. Because it’s so traumatic. I don’t blame her, my dad doesn’t even know and they have been married for almost 20 years. God, I’m glad I have actually good parents

Bro what did the stepfather do to almost die in thanksgiving 💀🙏 bro was NOT thankful

Force the daughter to live with the grandparents for a bit, then she'll understand what the mother went through.

Send your daughter to live with them. She is as horrible as they are.

I have the feeling that the parents in order to protect her ended up sheltering her, that comment of "I didn't think someone related to us could be so bad" sounds like she is too separated from reality, that gives the open for the grandparents to manipulate her

Y’all should’ve jumped the father in law. Bro thinks he’s the shit? Let’s see what he does when he’s getting combo’ed on like Yuji and Todo vs Mahito.

everyone saying "force the daughter to live with the grandparents" are horrible. the daughter made a poor choice, she does not deserve literal abuse as a punishment. that makes zero sense. one of the reasons they kept the kids from the mothers parents was to protect the kids from abuse. the daughter was also clearly manipulated by the grandparents

The facade the FIL and MIL held was immediately disintegrated.

Good afternoon from Mississippi!! Story 1 - you were not to hard on your daughter. Considering the circumstances you should be applauded for standing up for your wife, understanding, being her rock. Your daughter made a bad judgment call she hopefully regrets. Like your wife said, she’ll have to earn trust back. Glad you’re taking it all seriously and getting therapy. God bless. Story 2 - you are young, you may see things different later in your adult life. For now, I’m glad you have people in your life that make you feel loved. Sounds like you have a great dad that loves you. It was wrong that you had to give up your childhood to be a caregiver at such a young age. That in itself is hard for an adult at times. I think you’ll be fine since you’re prob mature for your age and you’ll be surrounded with love and affection. I can’t help but wonder about your mom’s family….that is your family too. Why weren’t they there for you? Regardless of how they felt towards your mom and your sister, it left you by yourself. I’m sorry, but they should be ashamed of themselves as well as your mom, knowing you were just a child yourself with a heavy weight on your shoulders and not helping out. Good luck to you on your new adventure on dad’s side of life. God Bless!

In my country when you are a kid you don’t butt into adult issues. We are to eat food and watch kids show. We weren’t to butt into grown up business or we get whoopass.

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Story 1: daughter isn't spoiled. She is a narcissist with no empathy and a savior complex.

I feel bad for the sister in the second story even though it hurt op

He gonna give it to her 😂😂

Stepfather: I'm a great parent Also stepfather: **pushed his stepdaso she needed a stitches** Yes, you're indeed a great parent💀👍

All I know is that, that ain’t my child no more. She can leave😂🙏🏽 EDIT: Yeah that was kinda rude, but she’s 16 she’s old enough to know right from wrong. Soo..

Rest of the story: So basically the dad brings his daughter into her room and tells her about all of the bad things the moms parents did, like almost killing her during thanksgiving. Then the story jumps up to the moms birthday and the dads parents and the moms sister are there, then there is a knock at the door and the older sister goes to open it. The dad assumes it was just one of her friend until they get into the living room, revealing that it was the evil in-laws. Turns out the older daughter got into contact with them and thought that they sounded like nice people, either way the dad tells them to leave and when they don’t, the dad and other grandpa try to kick him out. Somehow the mom gets pushed into a wall and got taken to the hospital. The dad confronts the daughter and takes away her phone and grounds her until the mom regains her trust. They also filed a police report and restraining order against the evil in-laws.

Family therapy including the aunt is the best for a beginning

I think you handled it VERY WELL! Maybe she should spend 2 weeks to 2 months with your wife’s parents & see what her Mom went through!

There's only so much you can excuse from a teenager. Bringing her evil grandparents in and indirectly causing her mother to get stitches is not one of those things.

Yeah, press charges and get protection orders for you, your wife, and your kids. Those are some INSANE and sick grandparents!

It's really devastating when your child or a child in the family grows up to be a monster

I too have PTSD from the exact same lifestyle your wife had. For yrs I needed no pity because I had enough for myself. I was beaten into submission to the point I kept my mouth shut through it all. I was in my early 40’s and I let go of all that pain and hurt. Well most of it anyway. I still have a wounded little girl inside of me but one thing they couldn’t do is break me to the ground because every time they knocked me down I got right back up. I refused to let their abuse take the goodness I carried away from me. I raised myself from 13 and I brought myself up with respect for myself and others. My family knew the abuse but never did anything about it. I had to run to save myself so I did. Tell your wife there’s always going to be a wounded little girl inside of her too but that it’s ok. That the wounded little girl will get better and she won’t hurt so much anymore. When I look back to those days I choose to look at the good times and let the bad times live where they are and should always remain. In the past…. The absolute best to your wife and the hurt child she carries. One day the burden will be lifted I promise you… You’ll be fine.. ❤

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*aggressive sniff* What’s that I smell? Is it… adoption?

My heart hurts so bad for OP's wife Q_Q

Bellow 1 hour Club 👇

1st Story - Wowowowwww 🥺 I wish teenagers would just LISTEN sometimes .. like that’s your mommy frfr ! she’s been there for you since before you even came into the world and you betrayed her because you LET your *16 y/o* feelings take over .. you broke a bond with your MOM (and dad for that matter) .. also it’s not like only the mom told you .. the mom AND dad told you .. and you can see that your aunt and your cousins do not speak with maternal grandparents either !! just some real bullshit on the daughter’s part. 16 is very much old enough to understand that it’s for your own good .. then not only did you contact but you invited them and LET THEM IN to your MOTHER AND FATHER’s HOME !! so disrespectful , irresponsible , and inconsiderate .. not to mention *again* sooo fkn untrustworthy .. sorry y’all - this one really made me angry .. like I’m so triggered because my daughter better know tf better as a teenager when she gets there than to undermine my decisions about our families’ wellbeing , mental health , safety and security !! 😤💯💯

Shame on daughter but... She is so sheltered that she has no understanding of emotional or physical abuse. It's great to break the cycle and I hope she never finds out. She should have trusted her parents. They have kept her safe this long daughter should recognize it.

The 2nd story is in for a rude awakening! It’s NOT going to be a bed of roses like she thinks! & Daddy just might NOT want to deal with her 24/7 like her Mom has for so many years! Weekend visits are WAY different than 24/7!!

My brothers wife has lived with us longer then she’s lived with her family. It disgusts us that she still wants them over or to go over. When they kicked her out penniless and she’s been under our parents care since she was 17. They weren’t there for the birth of my nephew. They weren’t there for the marriage. My parents helped her get her GED her DL. She’s been apart of my family longer then she’s been in hers. And it disgusts us that she still holds love and locality to people who didn’t care for her like we have

Wait a minute please tell me people didn’t rally around this little shit of a daughter in the second story. First I don’t believe the dad doesn’t say anything negative about the mother, I think he’s passive aggressive when it comes to her. At least from what the story describes. The whole there’s nothing to be done, we just have to wait. If your child was so miserable why not sue for more custody? Why not try getting more weekends, and the whole summer? Because, it suits the father more to revel in this child’s hatred for their mother. Second you’ve been wearing the same clothes at home for three years, what do you wear when you’re out? Do you have new stuff for school, or when you go in public? Third, how exactly if your father suffered from an addiction do you know your parents were great before they divorced? And although cheating is terrible, there was a reason the mother cheated, and decided not to give up your sister. Fourth, how can you say your sister is worthless, it’s not her fault she’s disabled, she also didn’t ruin your childhood, it was your mothers and father who should have seen you get a proper childhood. Where was dad to make sure you had piano lessons or basket ball? Just because he wasn’t involved in the affair baby’s life why didn’t he make sure you had, or is that supposed to be all on mom as well with child support? Lastly even if you are burned out and resentful you wish your mother who sounds like she also takes care of your sister, and your disabled sister becomes homeless? What kind of an asshole wishes that on anyone especially a severely disabled person? Thats like wishing death upon them. I’m not saying mom is innocent, but your father could have been in your life more. The got full custody is an excuse. Plenty of fathers remain fully in their child’s life after a divorce. I think OP’s father and father’s friends are poisoning your mind a bit, but hey go live with dad let’s see now that you’re 18 how long that lasts. Who knows maybe karma will come back and put you in the spot you wished for your disabled sister.

She's is so easy to get involved with this'll awful people.

Story 1: 16yr olds always think they know better than everyone else. She has to live with the pain and damage she’s caused now so she will definitely need therapy. Story 2. I don’t blame the kid for wanting to be happy and live his own life. Mum was so focused on the disabled daughter that she didn’t have time for her other child and used him as a caregiver and robbed him of his childhood. Fly away to college, be with your Dad, live your life and most importantly be happy.

What part of the daughter screams spoiled?

So I just watched this short. And no, you are not the jerk because those those people were abusive that girl does not need that in her life. Tell her why like she deserves to know. But I have any and watch one second to this video I only watch the short and you are not the jerk

The bullshit skip a generation Straight to daughter 😂😒

So far I’m not impressed with the 2nd story! Her sister is here for a reason & is NOT worthless! She’s just too young to understand anything mature, but sounds like a spoiled brat! 🤦‍♀️

Why Tf did the story change midway

I’m craving something from the milk store, be right back (never)

Damn, when did this channel blow up?

Well i guess its not too late for adoption (or the dumpster)

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Story 2) You need to fight for your father when you can. Your father can't tell you to raise hell but you have to.

Am I the only one who’s been watching loads of theses 😂

My thoughts on the first story. I can see where the daughter was coming from (kind of). I think the only way the parents could have done better, and this isn't saying they did the wrong thing, was to teach her about PTSD and how to respect it. And teach her things like if you are unsure who's in the right, always side with the victim. How evil can look like love. What a fake apology looks like and why. Teach her to understand trauma without giving her trauma. But this is a 'hindsight is 20/20' thing and I believe they did the best they knew how. I wasn't taught all that stuff at 16 either. I honestly believe the daughter was behaving out of ignorance, not malicious intent because she didn't understand how trauma actually works. How, even if things had somehow not been as bad as the mom and aunt said, it was close enough that the grandparents don't deserve to share their side. Like i said though, i don't think the parents could have reasonably done better to prevent this but i also think this was not in the daughter's normal behavior pattern if she had truly unstood trauma. But the parents did not mishandle this situation. If anything, i think the parents handled it better than i would have. Cause if someone pushed my wife like that, free trauma for everyone and jail time for me.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To Story#1 & The Updates For Story#2!*

If she wants them so bad;y she should go live with them, how are people so disrespectful to kind and caring parents?

Why did it repeat twice?

Let the daughter live with them she’ll see

« The affair child »

I understand curiosity and the resolve to act on it. But was the mother so bad that she just couldn't trust her completely? If the mother was so good or even just good enough, same question applies.

I only have one set of grandparents for kind of the same reason, my dads mom was mentally insane and my dads dad has been won over by my dad idiotic brother.

Is there a ubdate

Happy ending?

1 hour club

I still got PTSD

If the daughter was Indian she would also be in the hospital

Send the brat to live with them i would've called police had him arrested for assault had i been the husband.

Send her to live with them

I want to say hello in 6'7

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SOMEOND SUMMERISE OT FOR ME

2:34 just call the cops

Bro story changes mid vid😭

I think punishing the daughter was a horrible decision, considering the daughter was going through a rough time as well, imagine getting manipulated by your moms abusive grandparents and have them come over and give you mother ptsd, you wouldn’t be all happy about it, I have a stepmother who has MS (a nerve disorder) and I see her crying all the time, and every wrong thing I do around her makes me feel like I deserve hell, being a teen with a parent that you actually care about having such a terrible time is not something that you can easily go through. It’s terrible

1:01 for the shorts guys

the daughter is definitely in the wrong but I think should have gotten less punishment NOW THAT MAY SEEM LIKE A BID STUPID IDEA but hear meh out her intentions were good and (most likely) had never seen her mom get have a panic attack (or anything to extreme from remembering how her treated her) and social media might seem fair but she cant talck to her frends or anyone except Family when not in school BUT WHAT THEY SHUD HAVE DONE ISSSSS monitoring her when she uses her screen and set specific times for when she can use it try to get the mom's parents in jail for child abuse

I think calling hte daughter spoiled is an exaggeration

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9:53 fortnite???!!?!!?!?

spell a word that rhymes with

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Juvie, the belt and the adoption center are looking hella nice

W story

Its not the daughters fault she was manipulated by the grand parents ok i just heard she contacted first so no she is at fault

NTA, both stories

hi guys 😊

23rd lol

Ai yuk.

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Exchange the teenager for a better model

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I have the first comment and 5th like

Ok so i feel like he definitely went too far, she didn't understand what she was doing was wrong, yea you told her but she's still just a teenager who doesn't understand that she doesn't know everything I don't think screaming really helps anyone, as a teenager when i get screamed at it doesn't help the matter it literally only makes me feel like shit, which as a parent shouldn't be your goal, you should educate and correct your kids not put them down, nobody deserves to be screamed at especially not at a young and impressionable age