I’m ngl the ACCOUNTABILITY everyone in this story took us amazing, although they made mistakes. They kept pushing. I want my life to be like this fr. 💪🏽
@league-of-shadowsАй бұрын
She was so disrespectful of their relationship. I hope he makes her prove she’s changed.
@newolympiangod8134Ай бұрын
Man just leave if they doing once they will do it again. She showed him and told him he meant nothing to her for real. Even turned on him for trying to share his feelings. Who wants to be married to anyone who treats them like that. While he was out working his self to death for them to have better life.
@ihatepeopleyes9492Ай бұрын
Indeed @@newolympiangod8134
@anthomore4269Ай бұрын
I don't know, man. I wouldn't jet my girl/wife be that close to any other man, be gay or not. The fact is that she disrespects you and lashes out when you try to discuss, especially when she canceled your date.
@lindah3803Ай бұрын
Now she's back peddling. Hubby got in on project that will bring big money. She's just trying to save "her" paycheck.
@SexManNordinАй бұрын
You can not have more than one soulmate. The entire point of a soulmate is that it's that one person that was made just for you.
@ZastxxАй бұрын
Fr
@aja3728Ай бұрын
The women who told him that women have multiple '' soulmates '' are just bunch of cheaters
@Lucidly_Dreaming2Ай бұрын
Fr, Reddit needs to get their heads checked
@nuclear_stardustАй бұрын
My understanding is that soulmate isn't the one you're destined to fall in love with, but rather people that are destined to be in your life, like friends. Pretty much anyone you have a deep connection with. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with
@michaelbalog7409Ай бұрын
Idrc it doesn't excuse forgetting about their date, calling him her soulmate (idrc what girls on reddit say, you can't have more than one soulmate that's bull shit)or cuddling with another man, no matter how she felt during it all she still should have been better to her husband she needs to do more than just apologize, he had every right to leave and i can't say that i wouldn't have highly considered it in his shoes
@AnAlbanianMafiaMemberАй бұрын
Idc what anyone says, this wife is an excuse for a lady, not a true woman at all
@nuclear_stardustАй бұрын
Eh, soulmate is a weird thing.. From my understanding, it's not as much the person you're bound to fall in love with romantically as someone that's meant to be in your life. In that case, yes, you can have multiple soulmates. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with? (To clarify, I'm not defending the wife)
@redghost433Ай бұрын
I would have left her. When she said OP wasn't her soul mate, that would be the end of the relationship for me. Idc if she was lashing out because she was worried chuck would be kicked out. There are some things you should never say. Granted, when she called Chuck her soul mate I would've been out then and there as well.
@peytonk7t6i8jАй бұрын
Everyones got their own definition of love but cuddling eith another man, neglecting your boyfriend, disregarding ehat he cares about is NOT LOVE.
@ruruwitchhАй бұрын
not just neglecting her boyfriend, she was neglecting her HUSBAND of 5 years!
@yumechuuАй бұрын
Idk man. I'm sure she was honest about what really happened and how she was just anxious about her friend's well-being, but that doesn't excuse her being terrible to her husband and making her friend a top priority. She's not responsible for him, that's what therapists are for. Kind of felt like she just used her friend to have fun while using her husband for financial stabilith and to live in his house.
@sovietagent9303Ай бұрын
Agreed
@rigoeguzman8758Ай бұрын
U desert much better and why do you blink out gay?
@jalynruggieri7983Ай бұрын
Cause people get offended to easily
@Peppermynt.Ай бұрын
@@jalynruggieri7983who?
@brianarnold8666Ай бұрын
That was awful grammar. Reread what you write before posting
@BloomzzАй бұрын
@@brianarnold8666where’s your period? You can’t comment on others grammar without checking your own.
@brianarnold8666Ай бұрын
@@Bloomzz ohh no! A missing period! The horror! As if a period at the end of a comment means anything. Meanwhile, that comment at the top of the thread is illegible. Nit picky much?
@EDU43215Ай бұрын
This is why communication is so important. Glad they worked it out.
@jewelxxmoonАй бұрын
bro gay isn't a bad word wtf
@Mr_cloudwalkerАй бұрын
KZfaq thinks so
@kilbilv99Ай бұрын
In June? lol 😂😂😂
@jewelxxmoonАй бұрын
@@kilbilv99 frrr
@jazmin9817Ай бұрын
Wtf, if her soulmate is another guy then why are you there?
@Tamara_MiddletonАй бұрын
0:53 from shorts
@mypassion7601Ай бұрын
You dropped this 👑
@-w-ice-w-Ай бұрын
Op dropped a 📌 ask the op to give it to u
@user-od1xj8ic9iАй бұрын
People coming from shorts
@gwenrichard7507Ай бұрын
She continues to put OP second. Why is OP the one setting up dates still. She needs to be single for a week or two. It's also disgusting to expect a man to "stay and fight" when he feels disrespected.
@aja3728Ай бұрын
She will never be single after all she's got the '' gay '' best friend who she love from the start just could not get due to him being gay
@tsandhageАй бұрын
Most mature relationship post I’ve seen. Congratulations and I hope you surpass your previous commitment and love towards each other.
@CitricBurt11 күн бұрын
Soulmate can sometimes mean like a best friend but she’s in the wrong
@scarystories8322 күн бұрын
Wow, thanks for uploading
@angelsantana3355Ай бұрын
As far as I’m concerned if someone thinks they can have more than one soulmate then they haven’t found their soulmate.
@alishaparker315Ай бұрын
Everyone has a friend soulmate
@gtdc4685Ай бұрын
soul mate noun noun: soulmate a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner. Would you look at that, 🤔
@n1rvana_Ай бұрын
It says close friend
@gtdc4685Ай бұрын
@@n1rvana_ I know, that was partially my point.
@nuclear_stardustАй бұрын
Yeah I'm noticing that. What I'm seeing on Google is a soulmate is anyone you have a deep connection with, platonic or romantic
@2shy1151Ай бұрын
I can't believe that some "people " are saying they would divorce the second they heard that being said. Not asking questions or considering having a conversation, or anything? Sure glad I don't have a parter like that!
@nuclear_stardustАй бұрын
@@2shy1151 I blame Tiktok for romanticizing "Soulmate" so much
@Finest_NurseАй бұрын
Op is a doormat.
@Itzme2486Ай бұрын
Cause god forbid he forgives her because she genuinely changed. I swear the word doormat is losing all meaning on this channel. "Op forgives his girlfriend/wife for literally anything? WHAT A DOORMAT, AM I RIGHT FELLAS". Shut up.
@vaxel0068Ай бұрын
@@Itzme2486 no, it's true. Doormat keeps meaning the same thing it always has, a man that lacks all self respect. People should not be forgiven without penance and the OP should be ready to drop her and move on if she ever puts someone else above him, of it was me I would even lose any desire to have children with her, she's going to abandon them.
@Itzme2486Ай бұрын
@@vaxel0068 I see what you mean. But my thing is, if someone wants to give someone another chance, why should that automatically make him a loser doormat. Especially if said someone genuinely wants to change and be better. Sure, it's probably best to just drop someone right then and there, but if you can find it in your heart to give someone a second chance, then good on you. If everyone did what op "should have done", then forgiveness and everything associated with that word would go the way of the dinosaurs. If you can't forgive someone, that's ok, but if you can, that too is also ok.
@vaxel0068Ай бұрын
@@Itzme2486 you can give other people as many chances as you want, but you can't be surprised when they backstab you again nor can you ask for sympathy from others that warned you. Which is why there has to be some kind of penance for any transgression before they can be forgiven, in OP's case I would demand she minimize contact with the friend and to never involve herself into his life, they can be friends but never again can she hang out with him or share their problems, she has shown that she can't handle it.
@Duinurmom247Ай бұрын
I would’ve taken my things and filed for divorce in secret the moment she called someone else her soulmate, The only thing that I would’ve actually told her it’s fine go be with your soulmate, but I need to leave you because if you’re not my soulmate, then I need to go find mine.🙏🏻
@MagicnunАй бұрын
Aren’t soulmates more of a lust at first sight type thing that manage to workout.
@ToadKingsАй бұрын
Haven’t finished the story yet but what the hell is happening, “Girls have more than one soulmate.” That doesn’t make any sense, it is soulMATE there is no s meaning singular which means one. That claim is stupid, she just loves her “Gay” bff. But let’s be honest, he is probably bisexual or at least he is for her. Maybe he like the husband and that is why she gets him out of the house all the time so they aren’t together and why she got so mad when he said that he loves the bff (I know not like that but she might have thought it) and got mad because her bff said the same.
@nuclear_stardustАй бұрын
"In current usage, soulmate usually refers to a romantic or platonic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond. It commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve." Granted, it's from Wikipedia, but every other thing I'm seeing says the same thing, so..
@atomic3325Ай бұрын
Hey a happy-ish ending for once. Statistically speaking relationships that can work through and overcome hardships end up being more resilient and lasting longer.
@athersyed7434Ай бұрын
The good ending
@GabrielBoivinАй бұрын
Why is gay being censored, have we as a society really fallen far enough that a word that originally is a synonym for happy is offensive?
@pse49kayzeryan49Ай бұрын
if my wife doesn't respect me ,so be it, i will leave her.... i don't like the persons who too comfortable to their relationship that has right to disrespectful infront to the OS ...no No No!
@LoganVega-oi8wjАй бұрын
I like when he said EH
@nexgengamer4862Ай бұрын
Break up with her
@AbbyAxenty-rv8vhАй бұрын
But it’s her gay best friend…he’s…gay…
@hyperdiamond6086Ай бұрын
The break up mightve made him bi but idk
@Cocoa.TresbelleАй бұрын
Please 🙄 gay dont mean shit ... plenty of gay do their gay best friends that isn't the sex they are attractive too... plenty of gay girls have kids how did that happen I wonder cuz gay don't mean shit to some
@ChristsForgivnessАй бұрын
“Gay”
@VeljkoJevticАй бұрын
@@hyperdiamond6086 tf is bi
@sammyf0xАй бұрын
Do you mean since he's gay, there's no chance they cheat and OP shouldn't be uncomfortable? It's not about that friend or if he's gay. She can be with anyone she love. The problem is she disrespected OP and put her husband, her most important guy to second place again and again.
@ReddLolzАй бұрын
Remember guys don't be simps, love is nothing without respect
@potatosticks992Ай бұрын
Why is the word "gay" censored?
@nahnvm8493Ай бұрын
Glad they worked it out :) that must’ve been tough
@BI-11y_TheStormTrooperАй бұрын
I'm pretty sure they are screwing.
@newolympiangod8134Ай бұрын
Oh he's a sucker.
@Chopper33493Ай бұрын
Censoring gay during pride month is wild
@SexManNordinАй бұрын
its based it doesnt matter what month it is but sticking it in someones rear will never be normal
@mariobrossupershowisgoatedlolАй бұрын
@@SexManNordinwho gaf
@Chopper33493Ай бұрын
@@SexManNordin Ik, but I was more so joking
@kingofrobbers1751Ай бұрын
Why is gay censored?
@Efwin197Ай бұрын
I’m proud of both of them Although this is not an AITA post, if it were I would say no one in the story is the A hole.
@user-jn7od7ie2cАй бұрын
Wife is the ah. But she own up her mistake. But that doesn’t excuse her behavior
@pasteldragon2825Ай бұрын
Gay is not a bad word, but one to describe one’s sexual orientation. It’s like saying someone is straight. I get that some people may think it’s not a word to say freely (which I don’t agree with) but how is sex/sexual not just as bad? Not to be that person, but people who agree 👇🏼