該不該分手?感情遇到問題的我們要怎麼解決? Should we break up? How to solve the problems we encounter in relationships?

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三人日常 Thruple Daily

2 ай бұрын

這集我們來聊三個問題:
1. 有個相處消極的遠距離男友,我能怎麼做?
2. 三人交往財務要怎麼安排?
3. 回訊息到底是不是必要技能?
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In this episode, we'll discuss three questions:
1. I have a passive long-distance boyfriend. What can I do?
2. How should finances be arranged in a relationship involving three people?
3. Is replying to messages really an essential skill?
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@LusaïlToDoha
@LusaïlToDoha 3 ай бұрын
He works a lot, he says to be tired, but find time to be with his friends though…..If someone really wants to be with you they will manage by any means to call and spend some times with you! Stop entertaining people who do not care about you! You teach people how to treat you! Be someone first before being somebody’s partner. When people don’t want to be with you, let them go because they do not deserve you! Peace
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
Love your words! Totally agree with "love yourself first, then others." (Jeremy
@ruyuwang2148
@ruyuwang2148 3 ай бұрын
再忙也要急著打電話給對方才是真愛把!然而對方也懂的理解,那怕只有一秒也要爭取那種焦急的态度才是真的愛
@liznludo
@liznludo 3 ай бұрын
I think all kinds of relationships can sometimes get harder or more complicated, just because often our society seems to assume that a single person can/should be The One! I totally agree with what you were all saying, that there are friends for different purposes and occasions and that is fine. But a lot of people have an unrealistic expectation that their partner or best friend will be everything to them. Everyone's personalities are so different, it makes more sense to me that every person should be who they are and do what they do best, and that way you will have a friend for every occasion without putting a ton of pressure and expectations on a single person. That pressure can sometimes break the whole relationship, when it didn't need to happen if the expectations were more realistic and less Disney 😅
@LindaEamick
@LindaEamick 2 ай бұрын
Just a quick comment about women expecting more. Although I know your comments are in the right place, please be aware of the women who are the ones who make the money for the household. I understand this may be different on a cultural level. For my family I have a career while my husband stays home and runs the house. I think financials for relationsships are situational. Still will always love your content and am grateful for your insight.
@Larissak.lopess
@Larissak.lopess 3 ай бұрын
About sharing the bill: in the hetero world, many women still think that men should pay the bill, as it is always in the past that the man should be the breadwinner. I see a lot of videos about this, "if you go out with a guy and he asks you to split the bill, pay the whole bill and never go out with him again"...I really don't understand why some women get mad about the fact and split the bill, the only person who pays the full bill when we go out together is my father, With other people, I split the bill (even if it's a date). I really don't understand why many people make splitting the bill a big problem. I love you guys❤️🥺
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, people talk about equality, but they don't always act like it. (Jeremy
@HannaEriksson-ow4do
@HannaEriksson-ow4do 3 ай бұрын
The thing that is a bit funny (or not) is that when we go to a restaurant with my husband or a male friend and ask for the bill it’s usually the man that gets the bill even if it was me asking for it… and actually paying in the end.
@Larissak.lopess
@Larissak.lopess 3 ай бұрын
@@HannaEriksson-ow4do It already occurred to me, when I went out to eat with my brother. They gave him the bill and in the end I was the one who paid!
@ruyuwang2148
@ruyuwang2148 3 ай бұрын
好愛你們!
@lighterelements
@lighterelements 2 ай бұрын
I like the background music at the end. Very calming n peaceful ❤
@user-tnuiop
@user-tnuiop Ай бұрын
好喜歡這集🩷🩷🩷🩷
@HaitianCutie18
@HaitianCutie18 3 ай бұрын
I like the idea of a joint wallet to be used for outings with your significant other. I've heard of a joint account used by married couples but can really be useful when dating as well. 👍🏾👏🏾
@calvindavis2054
@calvindavis2054 2 ай бұрын
Those were very good questions today, and your responses were great. But that person struggling to reply to messages. I would recommend that she do more prioritizing how she make replies. Often, messages may not require a reply. But what if a message is time sensitive and she misses something that might be deemed important? Then an unnecessary friction has been created that could have been prevented. If there are friends that accept the way a person replies to messages, that would be one thing. But there are also friends who get very anxious about someone who doesn’t reply in a reasonable manner. I think Jeremy’s suggestion to prioritize when to reply is better response. Disregarding messages from friends can easily be deemed as disrespectful to someone. You should avoid unnecessary animosities in your life despite how unimportant you find it. Be Kind!!!
@wonderland_dk
@wonderland_dk Ай бұрын
I love your videos! One of the reasons is because I see myself in Adam. A bit quiet but also very likeable and funny. And the way Adam seems very clingy/affectionate. 加油 🩵✨
@HannaEriksson-ow4do
@HannaEriksson-ow4do 3 ай бұрын
Me and my husband have a similar way of splitting cost like you, but for fixed costs we pay a bit different depending who earns most, so I pay a larger part of rent, electricity and such things. But we split cost for expenses like when we go to a restaurant or the movies. Just because that is easier to calculate. A lot of our friends have all their salaries go into one bucket and then they get the same sum for personal stuff. But I have always had a need to have my own money to feel independent so for us is this the best way. We been together for 21 years and married for 17 years, without arguing about money even once.
@veronikasinghbittu7734
@veronikasinghbittu7734 2 ай бұрын
Hi guys 😊, Those topics were good.. i agree with your style regarding finances... Im not expecting that mens should pay more but it should be balanced. I always appreciate your advice because sometimes you guys open more of my perspectives to certain situations to solve problem. I am truly glad that i came a cross of your videos. Thank you guys and wishing you best of everything in your lifes. ❤❤❤❤ Veronika 🙂
@bicigico
@bicigico 2 ай бұрын
好棒棒的你們
@rt_ka
@rt_ka 15 күн бұрын
You guys really did us dirty with the thumbnail and description, Scared the hell out of me LOL. And I really learned new useful things particularly the joint wallet/account. Thankyou boys❤
@helenpinsent7742
@helenpinsent7742 2 ай бұрын
Love is love support you all the way❤❤❤
@geegee9538
@geegee9538 2 ай бұрын
Thank u👏👏👏
@tingchunong4386
@tingchunong4386 2 ай бұрын
每次約會都很珍惜 珍惜時光 不能因為情緒發洩 真的沒錯
@army_carat7
@army_carat7 2 ай бұрын
*Home vlog* request😊
@santelimbu9467
@santelimbu9467 2 ай бұрын
Don't listen other people they don't support you in your problem just listen your heart and live with that person who hold your hand in your bad time❤
@fmb828
@fmb828 2 ай бұрын
And breaking up is just a way out of the problem talk about you three take care and stay safe and God bless you guys love and respect from Frank ❤❤❤
@rogelynvillarama7467
@rogelynvillarama7467 2 ай бұрын
I remember you guys when I watched bros on the plane
@jf_zycnvk
@jf_zycnvk 2 ай бұрын
祝福🧡💛
@user-on4wk2dz9r
@user-on4wk2dz9r 2 ай бұрын
我们小猪今天是粘人包啦,好可爱好可爱,贴贴贴贴
@daveg9474
@daveg9474 2 ай бұрын
Some interesting Qs and equally interesting answers. If you get a message that suggests you should reply, then it's polite to do so quite quickly. In my circle of friends we can often just send a 'Hello, thinking of you today.' type message That doesn't need an instant reply but can leave you with a good feeling of love and friendship. I like your joint account approach and especially as there is 3 of you. Our house with just two is slightly different. Incomes are not the same so a little extra responsibility can be on the one with the better income. The best part though is the surprise treat. 'I like that shirt but ...' So you sneak around and get it for him! Share the love! Hugs to you three from the UK. D xxx
@user-zv3xh5kn9p
@user-zv3xh5kn9p 2 ай бұрын
When will you make a video about the secret routine of three guys? I'll be looking forward to it
@fmb828
@fmb828 2 ай бұрын
Talk about everything more and try to make one day out of the week to discuss problems that you have with each other it's all about compromise and sacrifices love and respect from Frank always ❤❤❤
@John-yc8dh
@John-yc8dh 3 ай бұрын
簡教授好會講喔,分析的很全面很好耶,宙學表達能力越來越厲害了,吳博發言人可以放空了XD,宙學在旁邊抱宇成真的太可愛了❤
@joicemonteiropessanhalima6083
@joicemonteiropessanhalima6083 2 ай бұрын
Acho vocês uns fofos!!
@nilakhirabha5300
@nilakhirabha5300 2 ай бұрын
Adam so cute 🥰
@taniagilsoares2937
@taniagilsoares2937 Ай бұрын
Vcs são adoráveis ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@vimmu-yz1hr
@vimmu-yz1hr 2 ай бұрын
Adam ❤❤❤
@nicoletta257
@nicoletta257 3 ай бұрын
@ruananascimento3767
@ruananascimento3767 2 ай бұрын
Adam❤❤❤
@celiaaoki8298
@celiaaoki8298 Ай бұрын
The hardest part is an Asian with a Western person, completely different culture, it took longer and it worked here 🙏🏻🤗🥰 I love you boys. I love your vídeos 👏👏🤗🥰 
@karenguerreroponce3237
@karenguerreroponce3237 Ай бұрын
This sounded like Adan and Jeremy didn't tell Grayn Let Ivan put on jeans 😂😂😂😂
@stinaxer4452
@stinaxer4452 2 ай бұрын
Hey guys! Love this kind of well-considered and deep conversation on real issues for people. You are all so good about reserving judgement and maintaining a balanced demeanor. Thank you for this.
@dramabllovers
@dramabllovers 3 ай бұрын
Bisexual here, in terms of bills, I usually split it with friends or partner, unless it's a special occasion or I feel like treating them In terms of messaging, I have friends who I message every day who I may not see often, then I have friends who I see often and we barely message, so I suppose for me it's keeping the channels of communication open for the people who are important to me. If I haven't seen or spoken to someone for a while, I will do a check-in call rather than a message to make some time for them, but if life is busy and I can't manage that, a check in message, maybe sharing something with them they might like, like a link for something, just to show it's been ages but I'm still thinking of you
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
Exactly! That's the most comfortable way to interact with friends; we all have different approaches with different people. There are no rules or must-dos. Thanks for sharing!(Jeremy
@veronikasinghbittu7734
@veronikasinghbittu7734 2 ай бұрын
Guys do you have official Facebook page? Because i came a cross on fb your page with your videos... But in here i checked you got Instagram and tiktok..so im bit confused...
@user-mz8tz5yn3h
@user-mz8tz5yn3h 2 ай бұрын
想知道如果你們互相傳訊息時是傳在三人群組裡嗎 還是用兩個聊天室各自聊😮
@SambaTine-uj9lv
@SambaTine-uj9lv Ай бұрын
Grayn dresses very well
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily Ай бұрын
Did I 😝 (Grayn
@eidkejek4488
@eidkejek4488 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@emanboo9178
@emanboo9178 2 ай бұрын
No noooooo guys u scared shit out of me 😢don't even think about it I love to see u together that makes me happy
@cathyhunter9851
@cathyhunter9851 2 ай бұрын
It sounds as if the person submitting the issue is not being prioritized enough in the couple. That person must honestly ask themselves if this ship is worth it. The person far away is not prioritizing the needs of the submitter; it is up to the submitter to ask themselves if it is worth it.
@DewiManis-ih8my
@DewiManis-ih8my Ай бұрын
Seru banget 😘😘😘
@kcong4037
@kcong4037 2 ай бұрын
Thanks。。。。抱歉不懂为什么这个月不能自动过账所以中断了几天成为会员,今天中午才放现到所以马上查看发生什么事,还好今天马上解决了,但请问只是中断几天那今天解决了而我的会员是重新算起还是接下去呢?因没错我好像是5个多月了如重新算起会很心痛咯,所以今天我才能看到这个影片吧了。 我比较不看好远距离的恋情,除非你的远距离是相差200公里以下,不然会很辛苦,像我以前以在一起5年了最后他离开马来西亚到新加坡做工,最后就和平分手了,而他也有新的另一半了,哈!我呢就保持单身到现在,而也懒得再找了,目前也习惯了一个人的生活。至于金钱方面,我觉得你们做得很好,哈!我呢就很失败以前的2任都是我出钱的,不管去玩,旅行或吃好料和买东西都是我一个人出吧了,也许以前真的很笨怕失去他们所以都心肝情愿的付出,但对方呢只是利用我吧了,最后是我提出分手,因他们不只是我一位吧了而是一脚踏几条船。 说得很对好知己不许要太多几位就好了,我很幸运虽然爱情方面是零但友情方面却有很好的收获,我有6位非常好的朋友,可以谈心事,虽然不常见面但反而不会疏远,而且还是远距离他们全部在槟城而我是在kl做工,kl也有3位,新加坡一位。。。。不止可以谈而且还可以玩。。。
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 2 ай бұрын
它應該是累積上去的喔,我想每隊情侶都有獨自要面對的問題(Grayn
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648 2 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you for Thruple’s Corner! Not only great advices but also opportunities to know you guys more 😊😊😊 Thanks again for those efforts for your fans❤❤❤
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Poom for loving us so much ❤️ (Jeremy
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648 2 ай бұрын
@@thrupledaily Every time I watch your videos, You guys always bright me up! Thank you for such a great energy!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@Butterfly-Sky137
@Butterfly-Sky137 Ай бұрын
hey if you guys don't mind me asking, how long did it take you to realize you liked each other/ how long did you guys like each other before the initial confessions
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily Ай бұрын
About half year I think 🤔(Jeremy
@francoisdepeyrac
@francoisdepeyrac Ай бұрын
💙💙💙
@pc110039
@pc110039 3 ай бұрын
感覺家庭的部分好像可以貢獻一題,放在心裡的疙瘩 XD
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 2 ай бұрын
歡迎填寫表格喔(Grayn
@kimberleemartinez8343
@kimberleemartinez8343 2 ай бұрын
I have been married for 28 years and we don't fight over money. We have separate bank accounts. We figure out the bills and each pays their share. We both work, and our kids never do without what they need, but earn their own money too for extra things they want. I don't ask what he does with his extra money because he earned it.
@stinaxer4452
@stinaxer4452 2 ай бұрын
There are traditional relationship styles--but there are also peer relationship styles (even split), Income-based (shared by ability to pay), and egalitarian style (shared by what feels fair to everyone concerned--and how it is planned out as an "us" mentality instead of a "yours & mine" (or yours & yours & mine) mentality. That is what I have--what is best for our future as individuals AND as partners. For example, I paid for 3/4 of the house so we could live in a better place than if we bought what we could afford 50-50. We have a joint account AND we each have our own account. Consider, I am a woman married to a man.
@karsteinntryggvason4735
@karsteinntryggvason4735 2 ай бұрын
😊😊😊❤
@nephywinslormestoire102
@nephywinslormestoire102 2 ай бұрын
Hi guys I'm 17 years old I've known I'm gay since I was little even though I live in the same house as my family I'm not very close to my family the reason is because all my family is homophobic My sister said one day that he would talk more with me if I was gay. I need advice, I tell my family and they reject me or wait until I am an adult to live away from my family. I am a very happy person I don't show my sadness but I really don't feel good in my family. And thank you for all your videos I love you guys❤
@matthewjay660
@matthewjay660 2 ай бұрын
J.A.G., 我真的很喜欢亚当交换日记来了解彼此的想法。这是一种多么美妙的老式*
@veronikasinghbittu7734
@veronikasinghbittu7734 Ай бұрын
Hi Jeremy, Adam and Gryan, Hope you guys doing well just want to ask you if you guys have official Facebook page because I came a cross that Facebook page with your videos and on those videos your little bit more wild than you putting out on here on KZfaq.... So I'm not sure if it's really you or someone stole or hack some videos of yours....
@vanquyvlogcuocsongviet6372
@vanquyvlogcuocsongviet6372 2 ай бұрын
Hello you're handsome dear
@robertsimons806
@robertsimons806 2 ай бұрын
Hi if being in a three some relationship work for all of you guys i say together and talk thing out byrobert
@SK-fd9fl
@SK-fd9fl 2 ай бұрын
Just came back from an outing with friends and saw your video The question about female not wanting to split bill Today itself bill was presented to the males first and it was me (female)who ended up paying as had discount and stuff with me and then we went dutch outside the restaurant, But question remains why are males given the bill first expecting them to pay fully . Mine is typical patriarchal society (India)
@stinaxer4452
@stinaxer4452 2 ай бұрын
In the US, servers are supposed to put the bill down in the center of the table unless someone already is offering the payment.
@kenfraza
@kenfraza 3 ай бұрын
Adam is sitting there in ripped jeans talking about not needing material things. As an older person, I don’t know if he needs new jeans, 👖 or it’s a fashion statement….. 🤔
@Kittlesub
@Kittlesub 3 ай бұрын
It's fashion 😅 his jeans look really good I have a similar pair. It's young peoples fashion
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
Lol, are you the kind of person who sews up the hole? (Jeremy
@kenfraza
@kenfraza 3 ай бұрын
@@thrupledaily I would replace them IMMEDIATELY!
@ruyuwang2148
@ruyuwang2148 3 ай бұрын
大家別想太多,那只是隨時代風潮的一種穿法,我個人倒覺得在某一方面大家別太聚焦穿破洞褲子的這件事,而是用欣賞的角度去看待,其實透过若隱若現的破洞空档能見到一小塊的新鮮嫩肉也是一種樂趣不是嗎?
@xloppylassx
@xloppylassx 2 ай бұрын
Im 34 and i totally agree with you i don't get why people pay money for this i would ask for my money back if i ordered jeans and got this why would you pay money for it 😂 but what a boring world it would it would be if we all were alike ❤
@DewiManis-ih8my
@DewiManis-ih8my Ай бұрын
Kalian bertiga.. namanya siapa2 sih
@2023binbin
@2023binbin 3 ай бұрын
🫰
@user-hg8sd5kh3v
@user-hg8sd5kh3v Ай бұрын
開放式關係有啥問題各玩各的
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily Ай бұрын
當然沒問題呀,但規則就要說清楚(Jeremy
@user-hg8sd5kh3v
@user-hg8sd5kh3v Ай бұрын
這種事也要說清楚是三個不能重複吃嗎
@briancheah5873
@briancheah5873 2 ай бұрын
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