Gabor & Daniel Maté: Relationship Traps for Parents & Adult Children

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The unique relationship between parent and child is incredibly important - but can be challenging well into adulthood. In this excerpt from their workshop, Starting Fresh, Gabor and Daniel explain how we often fall into “prototypes” - pre-set roles or personas we default to when interacting with our parents or adult children. These prototypes get in the way of authentic connection. Watch more of this workshop for free at onecommune.com/startfresh.
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@monabommarito7126 Ай бұрын

Love Gabor.

@elgrannido156 Ай бұрын

This is gold for anyone. Thank you both so much and thank you Commune.

@heathermcclean7408 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. I share these types of conversations with my brothers who each have a lot of anger and sadness towards our parents (and for good reason) -- I worked through most of my trauma years ago... they didn't. Now that they have their own children and are riding the waves of marriage, work, life, etc. and are seeking healing without asking for healing. Conversations like these can be shared and received in non-intrusive, non-presumptuous, and explorative grounds. Again, thank you for posting such content.

@sheilahennessy7440 Ай бұрын

Love the courage of both spirits; Daniel, courage to you on developing your Observer

@lydiafischer9419 Ай бұрын

Love that❤❤❤ we need a book about that topic!!!

@pattyhoge1725 Ай бұрын

I just love the Matés! And also Aaron!

@robynhope219 Ай бұрын

Why do u love them? I'm disappointed in Dan for allowing himself to be exploited..should stay out of this.

@MadonnaGrogan Ай бұрын

Agree with bad feelings, just feel them, n they pass

@JaniceClark-bb4mi Ай бұрын

Our 37 year old daughter is angry with me. My husband is a workaholic and relics in his popularity with her. I become angry and distant with him. He doesn’t understand and doesn’t know how to handle my sadness on the issue

@limitisillusion7 21 күн бұрын

Don't wait around for you husband to understand you. Instead, stop being distant with him and expecting him to figure you out.

@ljkoh20052000able 17 күн бұрын

This is answerable by the session on Working Theory. In this case , husband not understanding etc. is a working theory.

@greentree5448 27 күн бұрын

There is so much hostility between these two. Kudos to them for trying but watching them is soooooo uncomfortable. There is zero warmth between them.

@Kiwiwanderer 11 күн бұрын

Yes and no. This is a trigger topic for both of them. Same sex relationships are complicated. They are both in the same business so even more pressure. They are very very similar. Both black sheep. They don’t look at each other as they speak , because they were talking to the workshop so this makes it look worse. I like them very much. I’m 61yo from traumatised Croatian parents ….I’ve done the same to my 32 yo daughter. They have made me very aware that this will be a daily awareness going forward and there is no quick fix and my daughter will need focus on her healing as well. I can not do it for her.