Yessss! NADT!!! (Not a d@mn thang!!!) The first time you F up my money we got major problems! 🤬

The honeymoom money. 2 honeymoons. Ths sister is trying to hard. It hurts to watch.

That part!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Girlll, he gambled close to 20,000. Plus, once he gambled away the house money I’d have to leave because you don’t give a damn about our children.

Especially the Morgage

He don't give a damn. She should give him the papers.

He is no good 🌟

Words he is. Bad.news

Addiction is real. Help is needed.

As long as he has a party buddy, all is good in their eyes. But party buddies is not a true friendship.

Because they’re young

Because they're young and haven't grown up to be responsible yet!! They think it's fun to go out and gamble away the money - but they're not coming home to notes stuck to the door stating that the mortgage is 2 months behind!! They don't have to worry about paying the light bill and keeping the gas on!!

They're young. They don't understand.

Well said! Wise words!

Buy a dog and die alone

Exactly

For better or worse!

I thought that I was the only one that thought that was a ridiculous reason to consider staying!! Like really?!

Yes. Like what's the plan moving forward to ensure they are moving in the right direction? Inevitably the pattern of behavior will repeat itself without intervention.

My thoughts when she asked for a definite date for a honeymoon------WHAT????😲😲😲😲😲 After 22 years????🙄🙄🙄🙄

This is when I miss judge Lynn the most, she would’ve tore him a new one.

@@MarianaAndrade81 yup...she would have packaged it more directly AND more equitable while recognizing who ad what he is, with her and where she is she legit is dying to be heard and almost at the end. but he is still not where he has to be with dedication and acknowledgment to admit the damage and commit to working on it hell could barely acknowledge to himself, much to her and it's impactnon the relationship

You can hear how immature the sister and brother are smh. No logic.

Jika dibandingkan dengan selingkuh, masih lebih baik berjudi. Kebiasaan buruk berjudi masih bisa dihentikan, uang masih bisa diperoleh lagi dan masalah selesai. Tapi selingkuh, walaupun bisa dihentikan luka itu terus membekas dan pasti akan selalu teringat seumur hidup.

@@samuelchr1st Bull crap! Just because doesn’t cheat, it doesn’t mean they aren’t damaging and disrespecting the marriage - breaking vows. Stop giving him excuses!

Jika judi masih banyak pasangan yang mampu memberikan maaf dan menerimanya kembali tapi selingkuh adalah perbuatan yang sungguh memalukan. Sedikit orang yang sanggup memaafkan pasangannya yang sudah selingkuh dan sungguh orang yang luar biasa yang sanggup menerima pasangan yang sudah selingkuh

The SIL is still young, and doesn't have to come home to find a notice on the door that the mortgage is behind, or worry about flipping the switch and the lights don't go on!! They don't have to worry about the little stuff! SHE DOES!! And he's NOT GOING TO CHANGE!! GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN! Because if she does "untangle" the financial ties, she's going to wind up being responsible for his debts!! And then she'll be bankrupt!!!

It painful watching this. She can do better than abuser. She asking for so little. She about to have a hearr attack. He don't even like her.

if he does the work to change & they work on why there isn't any affection anymore then they can still have a chance... I see these in my clients and they come out happier then ever...it can be done

No honeymoon in 22 years. Y'all about have time to renew them vows. What a honeymoon has to do with anything at this point in time

If stoopidddd, was a person 😮😮🤔🤔🤔🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️

EXACTLY!!! It won’t be so funny and cute then. SMH

Whew!!! You hit all the nails in the head. Yeah he's definitely taking her for granted because she's invested all those years and refuses to leave, since she's staying first thing to do is take his mande off the bank account, and have him give her the money to pay all the bills cuz he obviously can't handle his responsibilities. Hmm. Relationships 🫂

Disgusting is a strong word. 22 years is a long time to be married and he seems to love her and his kids, but he isn't showing her. He needs to do that. He has to be willing to put in the work to maintain a healthy relationship. I think they can make it, if he puts in the work.

Your reaching. Oddddd Her own brother says he’s a good guy. Dude doesn’t cheat on his wife, she admitted to being controlling and stopping her husband from having a social life. She’s been invited but doesn’t want to go out. Y’all are reaching a lot. Dude does have a gambling problem and he needs to do something about it. Dude needs therapy for his gambling not just getting yelled at. It’s an extreme behavior. What part of this mean he doesn’t love his wife? If the man and brother can’t talk to the lady than maybe…. She does have a control/ communication issue.

@@Sixdawg06 I agree!

@@Sixdawg06 You missing some stuff. Weirdddd. This man doesn't care about anybody but himself. He almost had the whole family homeless and kept lying in court saying the bank cancelled his payments. 🙄 Then where's the money? Her brother doesn't have to wonder where he is, so he can think whatever about him. She probably thinks she has to be controlling because he doesn't know how to control himself. She should have left him alone to let him figure out how to survive after he gambled all of his money away. That would fix that habit quick! She's invested way too much of her life in somebody who is barely there... mentality and physically.

She needs to go! 22 years?? Not gonna get better.

Honestly I would encourage her to give him a chance to prove himself. 22 years a alot.

@@andrebarnaby4354 nope. He had 22 years to prove himself. She doesn’t need to give him anymore of her time

@@bsinclair6264 yes she can, what was mostly her biggest problem is the gambling so he can work on himself and rebuilding their relationship come on .we men are not perfect

@@bsinclair6264 but we can fix things if we truly wants something

She needs to boot his azz out and hold on to the assets before he loses that as well. She needs to catch a break, and I'm glad she's trying to save herself.

If she's foolish enough to stick with him, she needs to be wise and put her money where he has no access. He's a selfish, well, theif.

If she likes it, I love it SMFH

I don't understand why it's so hard for many women to leave no good men. Acting like the man is God or something.

@@FromHomeWithLove24 Amen!!!

AGREED!

100%

Look at her! She don't have many options, being she's overweight , not pretty , argumentative , aggressive, combative, masculine and unruly with an A type personality. He's only with her because he's not the best version of himself mentally , emotionally , and financially. If he was on top of those attributes, he wouldn't be with her , and that's facts. Men that don't achieve greatness generally settle for anything. It could be 2, 3 , 400 pound land whales, and it doesn't matter as long the bottom of the barrel female excepts them , because the top tier females wouldn't date him.

@@robertnance7269 OK - LoL!!!

And her savings

Yep, that's all he did

Exactly

🎯I feel she got this one wrong!

I think it can be saved, that's what marriage is about working it out, not running.

Cases like these make me miss Judge Lynn

That’s the 22 years, judge Starr taking into consideration.

@@anonymousreview104922 years of unhappiness isn’t worth it

I am so upset about her not leaving that I don't even want to watch episode...This is crazy 🤪

I agree. He’s a fool.

Yes she gave him an ultinatem and he didn't budge but she's still like one more chance smh She's the husband and the wife.

Some cases are real, & some have actors

She young and simple minded. You don't take a person to a place they are addicted to if you have common sense.

Addiction is one thing but his whole relationship is like he running from her like he don't like her. Sad to see her keep pushing herself upon this disrespectful man.

She don't the fact that her marriage failed. Before it even started.

Some be people will put up with anything for a title. My husband.

She is scared and insecure. She is depressed and does not realize that he does not want to change, Judge made a decision to see if they can work it out, because the women is so naïve. She has some old fashion ways. Lord please take the wheel.

I’m baffled. I love Judge Star but she fumbled this case.

@@Jazzysoulism that was not the outcome I expected. She fumbled big time. Sis, needs to pony up, demand better, or move on.

Yes she is, DO THAT

It depends he probably treat the kids good. He is abusive to his wife. He don't like her.

What relationship,?

I like! You're right.

She doesn't know her value.

May their lives together ❤️ be blessed by God all mighty 🙏.

She's a joke. Har har har.

A lot of men needs to learn to shore affection.

That's so right. 👍

Some man is better than none for some women. That's why she won't leave and still talking about a honeymoon 22 yrs later. He didn't want the marriage that's why he blew the money for a honeymoon unfortunately.

She is though. Cause she reaping the benefits of that money. Why else would he be hanging with them youngers.

For one she was standing too damn close to him and continued to defend him and looked happy to do it!

@@naturallyflawed5472 yes ma'am

Yes and the judge had to tell her to go stand by her boyfriend

Excuse me? Something about her comes off as selfish and controlling? Did we watch the same episode? Don’t you think if that was the case he would have said something?

How is she selfish and controlling when all she asked f0r was quality time? You sound dumb! He took all their money, thousands and GAVE IT AWAY! They have kids, a home and he almost lost it all! Smh 🙄 You must be the guy on the show cuz..😒

Who cares about dating? Get your life🤸‍♀️

The dating market is not great, but I'm sure it will not cost her $8000, a honeymoon, trust, embarrassment, and all his excuses. The dating market is cheaper and may help her live longer. The stress of the marriage could take her out early. She should cut her losses and move on. He is not ready 2 change

So he gambles away 10 grand but yes she's controlling and selfish? Of course it's the woman ♀️👠 who's off 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙄🙄🙄🤔🤔🤔. Yes dating is hard out here however staying in the marriage that's like that is not worth it. 22 years ? Ok and ? It'll be 22 more of the same as that nonsense he's putting her through now.

You right.

He say she nagging because he dont want to hear the truth, at his big age! He wants to be a fool and he wants her to shut up and let him. Honestly, she should've left before she waste another 20 years

Giiiirl, it's a man's reflex when they want to be complacent and unproductive. They use that word because they know it's gonna hurt to the core. That's why they lose good women and make it seem like they're the problem. Not saying that both partners don't contribute to issues within a relationship, but that "nagging" reflex that men have🤦🏾‍♀️ when they don't want to work problems out is annoying as ever!!!

@@lifeincanadawithlivi607 there's the "nagging" excuse and the "she's crazy" excuse...

@@jeanp1323 Yup!!

You right.

Oh ok so it wasn’t just me who saw that!

Let me start begging my husband to hangout with him, 🤨 he knows I got a whole life outside of him, that would be a one time conversation, sometimes we as women get so comfortable in our relationships that the man start thinking we ain't going nowhere and that's when we stop getting what we suppose to and want.

I agree. She was completely one sided on the case with the woman who talked about her husband on the podcast and as soon as he started crying and cutting up, she only focused on the wife and her doing the podcast. I think the case was Williams vs Williams.

@@dijmiller whew. That 1 was tough to watch. U thought it was 1 sided tho??? Imma have to re-watch.

@@ariamarshall5161 ohhh yes it was tough to watch but I did think it was one sided because the wife made some serious accusations about him and the judge didn't even address it. As soon as he started crying and hollering, she immediately took his side and only focused on the wife talking about her husband on the podcast. You should definitely re-watch. The wife didn't even get to talk.