Raising a well-rounded and good-natured individual with enough strength to survive in our increasingly globalized world - should be the general aim of good parenting. Whether a person is competitive by nature, or not - they will have a much easier time integrating into society if they're capable of getting along with different kinds of people - that they will be certain to encounter. Once a person "makes it" in life, they often become complacent. That complacency is the luxury of wealth. I've seen the most prudent and ideologically frugal friends slip, once they had more money than they knew what to do with. Wealth lets you focus on things that you enjoy, and detach from things that are stressful - which unbalances a person's life, since their reference keeps shifting. How can you understand the depth of someone's desperation if you've long forgotten what that feels like? So, I think that ultimately we are all permanently vulnerable to this. The tides of change always carry us around. It's been true for the entirety of recorded history, so it's silly to think that "you" will be any different. And then, we have the mental effects of aging, which will eventually felt by those around us. On the racial topic - the idea of fixating on race as an issue to solve ("equity") is incredibly silly, not least because of the default implications that it asserts. It also invites people with hero complexes to project their idealistic ways of thinking onto everything they do and touch. The road to hell is paved with good intentions and all that. Whether micro or macro, racial pandering is a horrific thing. It's both demotivating and insulting to suggest to people that "it's ok to underperform, because we'll bring the world down to your level instead". Healthy competition is great for humans. An occasional subpar experience for a kid is FINE - they'll learn from it, both about the world as well as their own place in it. The idea that everyone should be saved from everything bad is absurd. Yet - we now have this in the form of limitations on free speech. Both humans and societies have always evolved "against" something. A standard they had to beat, a challenge they had to overcome, a group effort that required cooperation - large or small. That's why in critical situations, such as in the military, there is no TIME to think about these types of social constructs. People are task-oriented, which is great. It's mentally healthy. On parenting, in my biased view, the biggest "sin" that a parent can commit with respect to their child, is to fail to learn about them. After all, they're future individuals with unique personalities, interests, views on issues etc. I think that parents have to try to make an effort to understand their kids, as one would make to try and understand an important new friend - so that you can find common ground and a common language. I think that parents often underestimate how challenging that can really be.

We should be careful on money usage,if you are not spending to earn back,then stop spending.

The view count on this video doesn't represent at all how good this interview was

I really appreciate the humility and concern for others to have this conversation on your channel. Most people in the tech investing world wouldn’t use their platform for patient, deep conversations. Societal innovation through connection and shared healing is an under-addressed subject. Thanks Gary.

Thanks for hosting Rob and being honest in your conversations! Garry, you have a great audience and I hope more people will hear the message and question topics that are frequently on the taboo list.

Every partner in YC is just so articulate

Often, discomfort itself is what helps us improve and build resilience.

Thank you gentlemen, I know of what you speak. I truly value and appreciate and grateful for your combined knowledge and gained wisdom, true as far as I can see and a good way forward into this new epoch we have entered. All blessings, GH P. S. I am enjoying listening to and learning from ‘TROUBLED’ the audiobook, narrated by Mr. Henderson himself, a real treasure!

a wonderful conversation 👍

Great interview, I'm in Australia and we having a mass amount of wealth transferring from public schools to private with devastating uneducated masses results ... business can't get educated people!

I can't believe they think black and brown kids need to wait to 9th grade to do algebra! Wtaf?!?

Great points! There’s a lot of other stuff that’s unequal as well like prison sentences for white collar crimes and other crimes. There’s lots of other hypocrisy as well like capital gains tax rates. It’s too bad that SF doesn’t have the best public school system. It really should. I would say that elite beliefs probably also helped Rob get into Yale because he has a very compelling story. One other thing happening in this country is that some people are so resistant to property tax increases that a lot of schools across the country are woefully underfunded.

Gary great vid thx4 speaking out

I can identify with not fitting in with polite society because of childhood trauma.

Wow, Garry. Great interview. Resonates so much.

Gary, your relentless pursuit of diversity and inclusion in tech is commendable, especially in an industry where elites often compound problems of inequity. Your efforts are not only reshaping the landscape but also challenging the status quo. How can we create a more equitable playing field for all? After much suffering, I believe I hold a solution to this problem, and the solution is ready to be tested for the benefit of our world.

Love this already. Very special content.

Excellent video. I saw you on x and loved your story on tech and your upbringing, very inspiring story. Subscribing. DiBrava

Just bought the book on Audible, looking forward to reading/listening to it!

Oh, why reupload? What happend?

Thanks for sharing this Garry and Rob, such an important topic.

Garry, thank you for all the great insightful content you share with average people like us, much appreciated. It’s like giving back to the society, country that influenced to achieve your goals. I just wish one day you can make Initialized Capital accessible to little people to be able to invest in your portfolio companies. That would be so fantastic to be able to part of it.

Thank you for this.

Why 720p? Nice interview by the way, Thank you

Another energizing post ⚡️

Great interview ♥

If you're worried about these politicians in SF, who do you think is running the whitehouse? THE SAME PEOPLE

So is there a list of these "luxury beliefs"? One might think that maybe the concept of belief might have a more foundational origin? As well as a smidgeon of evolutionary influences? Then there is the fact of the denial of objective truths. That we have an unconstitutional, criminal government may also be relevant.

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First 5 minutes … wow

Commenting for the algo, great stuff so far.

Everything is becoming more elitist

Whom would you prefer to be AGI shadow government USA president? 1:Groc 2:GPT 3: Genesis 4:CoPilot 5:Mistral 6:Devin 7:Other (which) 8: against the idea