Germany Helps Parents in Ways Americans Can only DREAM About! 🇩🇪 Is it Cheaper to Raise Kids Here?

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My Merry Messy German Life

My Merry Messy German Life

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So in which country is it cheaper to raise children - Germany or the USA? Well, we give you 5 different ways Germany rocks in helping families keep their costs down. Is it cheaper than in the USA? Watch our video, and then you decide and let us know in the comments! We talk about everything from parental leave to childcare costs, amusement parks, Kindergeld, healthcare, and the big one - COLLEGE tuition.
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0:00 - Lil Intro (I can't help myself - you have to see our flowers!)
1:19 - Germany offers Guaranteed Paid Parental Leave
08:01 - Childcare Costs Between the USA and Germany (SHOCKING)
18:38 - Kindergeld - the Child Allowance
20:49 - Reduced Priced Tickets for Children and Families
25:50 - Germany has Free College Tuition - NUFF Said
33:06 - Healthcare Costs between the USA & Germany
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www.bundesregierung.de/breg-e...
www.simplegermany.com/kinderg....
www.cnbc.com/2019/11/22/germa...
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money.cnn.com/2017/07/17/pf/c...
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@RCL89
@RCL89 2 жыл бұрын
As a working German citizen without children, I'm happy that my tax money finances things like that. I also profited from them when I was still a child.
@nachnamevorname_the_original
@nachnamevorname_the_original 2 жыл бұрын
Jeder deutsche, der sich das amerikanische System für Deutschland wünscht hat nicht verstanden, wie besonders unser System ist und was füreinander Glück man hat, hier zu leben (im Vergleich zu vielen anderen Ländern - USA mit eingeschlossen - )
@mvbmatheloesungen
@mvbmatheloesungen 2 жыл бұрын
@@nachnamevorname_the_original Ich habe sehr viele Verwandte in den USA und so wäre es für mich leichter möglich, in die USA einzuwandern. Aber das würde mir im Traum nie einfallen. Für mich sind viele US-Amerikaner "arme Schweine", verführt von "American Dream".
@crazyedo9979
@crazyedo9979 2 жыл бұрын
@@nachnamevorname_the_original Ja, stellen Sie sich mal vor, ich könnte mein erarbeitetes Geld behalten und für das Wohl meiner Familie einsetzen. Wo kommen wir denn da hin? 😁
@AleaumeAnders
@AleaumeAnders 2 жыл бұрын
@@crazyedo9979 Und dafür für alles dreimal so viel zahlen. Denn als Einzelkunde hast du nicht ansatzweise die gleiche Verhandlungsmacht wie die Solidarsysteme in Europa. Aber hey, wenn du dafür sicher bist das diese ekligen Armen gar nichts bekommen.... ist das sicher +200% wert.
@crazyedo9979
@crazyedo9979 2 жыл бұрын
@@AleaumeAnders Dazu äußere ich mich jetzt mal nicht. Bei soviel Blödsinn gebe ich auf.😁
@Kelsea-2002
@Kelsea-2002 2 жыл бұрын
Spoken from a child's point of view; I am so grateful to my parents that they went with me to Germany.I was allowed to grow up without fear, is there anything better?But I am also grateful to this country, which relieved my parents of many worries.Since last year I am also a real German, one of my most beautiful gifts.I am absolutely sure that your children will also thank you for this decision.Best regards Kelsea
@peterkesseler9898
@peterkesseler9898 2 жыл бұрын
Hallo Kelsea. Vielen Dank für den Beitrag und die Werbung für unser Land :-)
@Kelsea-2002
@Kelsea-2002 2 жыл бұрын
@@peterkesseler9898 Wir haben zu danken für all das was dieses Land und seine wundervollen Menschen für uns getan haben.Und btw Deutschland braucht sicher keine Werbung.Mit freundlichen Gruß Kelsea
@elisabethw.8662
@elisabethw.8662 2 жыл бұрын
@Kelsea did your parents move to Germany from the US too?
@sisuguillam5109
@sisuguillam5109 2 жыл бұрын
Glückwunsch zur Staatsbürgerschaft (wenn auch etwas spät)!
@Kelsea-2002
@Kelsea-2002 2 жыл бұрын
@@elisabethw.8662 Yes, they are and they still live in Germany.
@ohauss
@ohauss 2 жыл бұрын
Something that really struck me when studying sciences in both Germany and the UK: In Germany, the radiation safety officer of our institute insisted that women talk with him as soon as they knew they were pregnant so that proper precautions could be taken and he could talk with their boss to come up with methods avoiding radioactivity. As he put it "There's no such thing as 'only a bit pregnant'" In the US, I saw a colleague work with radioactivity until two weeks before she was due.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that sounds about right! Pregnancy and bad periods are completely overlooked in the US, like having a small cold. Some women get so nauseous and sick when they are pregnant there is no way they could work. So they have to quit to their jobs and hope they can get some disability payment instead. Lack of guaranteed paid maternity leave in the US is a Women’s rights violation - it’s not okay!
@1flash3571
@1flash3571 Жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Wow......What an ENTITLED whiny Child!!!! Women's RIGHTS Violation??? WTF?? No one is Guaranteed WORK, Or HealthCare. This type of attitude is what is ruining society!!! Only in a 1st world where entitled people like you think that OTHERS OWE YOU SOMETHING when they don't. Get a LIFE.
@grantcivyt
@grantcivyt Жыл бұрын
You mentioned both the UK and US. Not sure which you meant.
@ane-louisestampe7939
@ane-louisestampe7939 Жыл бұрын
in Denmark there's different rules for different jobs concerning leave before birth. You can't be working with x-rays and the likes, and when chemicals are involved eg you have to leave early. Hairdressers e.g. have early leave, I belive.
@missis_jo1017
@missis_jo1017 Жыл бұрын
@@ane-louisestampe7939 It’s the same with most blue collar workers as well. As soon as I was pregnant I wasn’t allowed to continue working as a cabinet maker.
@Henning_Rech
@Henning_Rech 2 жыл бұрын
20:40 Kindergeld until 25 is not for children with disabilities, but, as the paper shows, for children who are still in education (vocational school, university), and until 21 if they are jobless.
@traceymarshall5886
@traceymarshall5886 2 жыл бұрын
Same in ireland
@sonjaenste647
@sonjaenste647 2 жыл бұрын
It's in both cases. Whether your child is still in education, is unemployed or it has a disability, you'll still receive Kindergeld until it's 25.
@colko64
@colko64 Жыл бұрын
If you had a child with severe disabilities, so it couldn't support him or herself, Kindergeld is paid till the longest living parent dies. My mother got Kindergeld for my oldest handicapped brother, until she died with 92 yrs. My brother was than almost 69. He also got an orphanage pension from my fathers side and even a small pension, because he had worked in a "Behindertenwerkstätte". Another "misunderstanding" even for Germans. Kindergeld is not a social benefit but some kind of income tax return. Although you got Kindergeld evennif your not luable to pay taxes at all. And if you're wealthy enough, you won't get Kindergeld but your tax will be reduced with a "Kinderfreibetrag". So the wealthy got even more than the 200+ per child. It's part of your income tax declaration, the Finanzamt has to check, what's better for you, Kindergeld or Kinderfreibetrag. If Kindergeld is better, nothing happens. If Kinderfreibetrag is higher, you got it via a higher tax return. Day care costs varies from state to state, even sometimes from town to town. In North-Rhine-Westphalia, where we live, the last two years are free of cost for half day care. More hours have to be paid. I don't know the situation in Bavaria. The costs are also heavily depending on your income, the more you earn, the more you pay. In our case we had to pay the maximum of about 300€/month. The two free years were introduced, when our youngest left kindergarten for school.
@DieAlteistwiederda
@DieAlteistwiederda Жыл бұрын
@@colko64 it's also often less expensive if you have more than one child in Kindergarten at the same time. My sister had to pay less for my niece because my nephew was in the same Kindergarten for a year until he started school. Then the prize went up for my niece. The more kids you have in Kindergarten the less you pay per child usually.
@gungun248
@gungun248 Жыл бұрын
@@sonjaenste647 blödsin was du da schreibst
@arnesnielsen
@arnesnielsen 2 жыл бұрын
Every American family with children should see this because this is how it is to lived in a civilized part of the world. I can’t understand why Americans can claim that US is the worlds best country….
@jessicaely2521
@jessicaely2521 2 жыл бұрын
Some Americans claim this and it's getting to be fewer and fewer as people travel more. There is no such thing as "the best country in the world." There are pluses and minuses for every country in the world. Some just have pluses in different areas and some have more pluses. My big plus for the US is I can afford a home in most areas without getting a gigantic mortgage and the homes can have a lot of property for kids to run. When I lived in Germany and Switzerland I couldn't stand living in an apartment, I couldn't stand not being able to open the door and say play outside (I had Cree to go out your apartment building ans downstairs), and I couldn't stand not being able to put up a play structure for my kid to play on. Germany and Switzerland weren't as handicapped/stroller friendly as the US either. In the US buildings and areas it's a requirement for them to have wheelchair/stroller access. In Switzerland my daughter had to go to the physical therapist when she was a baby and she had no ramp. Just a small patch big enough for a bike tire fit on (this is way more important 🙄). The therapist would have to come outside and help the parent carry their kid in a wheelchair down and up the stairs. After a shit ton of fighting with the owner of the building she got her wheelchair ramp.
@Odreaded
@Odreaded 2 жыл бұрын
I mean we had a GREAT economy and then we started giving millions, billions, and trillions to other countries. That money could have been reinvested into the US to lower some of the factors in this video but US politicians don’t care about US citizens. Now how many times has another country sent the US money??
@DidierWierdsma6335
@DidierWierdsma6335 2 жыл бұрын
America is not the greatest country in the world far from it and it's definitly not the land of the free. The American dream is nothing more than a nightmare WAKE UP people.
@traceymarshall5886
@traceymarshall5886 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicaely2521 i think there is a huge difference though between a countries government making education and healthcare affordable for every citizen.
@B.A.B.G.
@B.A.B.G. 2 жыл бұрын
It's just arrogance and ideology.
@MrLuddis
@MrLuddis Жыл бұрын
It is kind of interesting (sad? funny?).. that in the 1910's nearly half of my family emigrated to New York to have a better life (and they had) and now we are experiencing Americans coming to Germany to have a better life.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Yes the tables have turned! It’s very interesting. Europe is leading the world in work/life balance, healthcare, safety, and so much more.
@britamagnusson5407
@britamagnusson5407 Жыл бұрын
Strange isn't it!
@Furz35
@Furz35 Жыл бұрын
​@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Isn't that due to the different education systems? Maybe it's because of WW2. After WW2, no one wanted to experience or allow anything like this again. Germany had 6.3 million dead, which may have given rise to an appreciation of life, health and property. The USA has never experienced a war of annihilation and does not know what it means to lose everything. They only know war from television and have no idea what war really means.
@TheAnonJohn
@TheAnonJohn Жыл бұрын
@@Furz35 it is also because of Europe's antagonism with the eastern socialist block from 1945 to 1991. Western european governments pushed by communist/socialist/left parties in their own countries had to provide worker benefits and rights that were a reality in socialist countries. Those parties took inspiration from socialist policies but maintained constitutional democracy principles.
@AnoNymInvestor
@AnoNymInvestor Жыл бұрын
@@TheAnonJohn that is wrong. The german Sozialversicherung is much older than the cold war.
@oddeman3489
@oddeman3489 Жыл бұрын
it gives me a good feeling when our taxes goes to things like this, we are a community and we all have a better life when everyone is taken good care of.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
We completely agree!
@snakeoilaudio
@snakeoilaudio 2 жыл бұрын
when I have conversations with my American friends about these kinds of subjects I always experience that for one, they claim that Germany is basically Communism. They claim that they already pay too many taxes, and they don't really understand the concept of paying into your society because the society pays back. Obviously, a tiny percentage of my tax € supports you guys as a family, but your kid's tax € will support me when I retire, so it is a very good deal for me because you guys are doing all the work. I completely miss this concept in the USA.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Yes exactly. In the US, we could see our tax dollars at work in the underfunded schools (though we loved the school our kids attended). Teachers are underpaid and many are leaving the profession all together. Policemen and firefighters are also underpaid. And roads need to be repaired. And we never saw our money come back to us like we do here in Germany. We did not pay that much more in taxes than in the US, especially because healthcare is part of taxes here in Germany and it’s waaaay cheaper.
@snakeoilaudio
@snakeoilaudio Жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 720Billion for defense compared to 1,2Billion for education, that's why you never see a return.
@tobyk.4911
@tobyk.4911 Жыл бұрын
When I finished university (as a German) and started to work in a full-time job, I knew that the state has invested a lot of money in me until then (... including for example 300 months of Kindergeld, 13 years of school education in public schools which are financed by state government, as well as the University where I studied... and not only didn't I have to pay any tuition because the university is completely financed by the government, but the federal government even supported me during that time financially by "Bafög" support, which was only partially a loan but mostly a "present") ... So I knew that, at least for several years, my taxes are basically just "paying back" for the money that the state has paid for me in the previous years. In my first 25 years, I received a lot from the state ... and now I can contribute with my taxes to the support that today's young generation receives.
@snakeoilaudio
@snakeoilaudio Жыл бұрын
@@tobyk.4911 it is a win/win situation for you and for society as well. I hope your future will be bright.
@thecollector5243
@thecollector5243 Жыл бұрын
Aaaah, yes Communism. The government uses it successfully in the US to make people turn away in fear from normal things that are actually their due. Very clever.
@NomadLife777
@NomadLife777 2 жыл бұрын
I lived in Germany for three years long ago in the early 90’s. The experience changed me and the way I see the U.S. and our politics. I wish almost every day I could live there in Germany or another European country. I’m so depressed to be in the U.S., especially with all of the shootings. They happen more frequently and I’m just in disgust for the children and that nothing is ever done. You can’t go to the grocery store, hospital, anywhere without the threat of guns. I wish I could have asylum somewhere else.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
If we were to move back to the US I would definitely join some of the non-profit political action groups to make change happen in Washington when it comes to gun regulations. Maybe we. Canon even do that here from Germany, now that I think of it! Using our KZfaq channel to get facts and statistics out there, and another perspective, is also a way to help others see a different perspective. If they’ll listen - people who have radical beliefs do not listen to other perspectives.
@unitunitglue5143
@unitunitglue5143 Жыл бұрын
Your being dramatic. There’s been 3 shootings, all politically based. And Germany still has mass killings to this current year. Less drama llama.
@unitunitglue5143
@unitunitglue5143 Жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife please don’t. As an expat, you gave up your right to be involved in US politics. I’m happy that your thriving in your new homeland, but citizens being disarmed has historically been proven to negatively effect the general population. Not criminals. Our country has speech rights Germany doesn’t. In fact Germany has anti speech laws that your not mentioning which is dishonest in a way on your part. I’m also aware that Germany has a growing issue with antisemitism groups attacking Jewish temples and citizens again as of 2018. As well as an antisemitism political party in Germanys government. Also something your not mentioning here. Or possibly not aware of yourself. The US also has gun rights because it believes in self defense. I do wonder how differently ww2 would have gone had the Jews been armed. We don’t need gun control. We need parents to raise their children to be better citizens enriched by the knowledgeable truth found at the family dinner table and to help the mentally Ill of our society to get treatment. I understand you want to grow your channel, profit, and connect with people. But using the tragedy of the country you chose to abandon to do so is terribly selfish and it has an ick factor to it.
@casbee9610
@casbee9610 Жыл бұрын
@@unitunitglue5143 you can be happy w the continued mass shooting at school children and a situation worse than in some war torn countries. You cannot tell other people what they are allowed to talk about. Or do you not like freedom of speech?
@grantcivyt
@grantcivyt Жыл бұрын
Hey Sabrina, I hear where you're coming from, but it's good to remember that the news and social media present a distorted picture of reality. Your chances of being involved in a shooting are very small unless you live in crime-ridden areas. Your children are even safer than that. The media reporting is very sensational about this, but it really should be put into proper perspective. I know this kind of argument doesn't typically calm fears, but I hope it does in your case. ✌🏼
@emmasly123
@emmasly123 Жыл бұрын
I once had a brief discussion with a US lady about university tuition fees and the situation in Germany. She was arguing that she would not be willing to pay for the education of other people's children. It was the parents' duty to do so. And if you have poor parents or no parents at all. Well, that's your problem and your problem alone. She considered the idea of free university education as communistic. She saw no benefit for the society in from offering free education. Very different mindset compared to an average European.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s really kinda crazy because they are okay with taxes paying for everyone to go to school from ages 5-18, but not another 4 more years?! Americans (on the right) love to throw away the word “communism” and socialism when they don’t even understand what they’re opposed to.
@BellyLaugher
@BellyLaugher Жыл бұрын
You could've been in conversation w/my Aunt & 2nd cousin whose parents were born in US in ~ 1915'ish, and who have passed down the same to their children. It makes me wonder if it's b/c of the persistent US hx/high value/cultural ideal of going it alone vs us-ness/we're all in this together that much of Europe came to embrace as a result of WWI & WWII? It seems if one's family had to suffer as immigrants here, then others must, too. Very sad, espec. as so many identify as upstanding, 'Christians.'
@brigs1856
@brigs1856 2 жыл бұрын
We are moving to Germany in October because our daughter has severe, multiple disabilities (Phelan McDermid Syndrome). We are currently in South Africa and look forward to a better life for her and us as a family. She already jas a space in an amazing Kindergarten- I feel for the first time ever that her disabilities is not an inconvenience and that she will be safe even when we arent around anymore. ❤️ Hubby works in IT and I'm a teacher. We look forward paying into a system that works so well and isnt as corrupt as it is here.
@berndschaffmann8522
@berndschaffmann8522 2 жыл бұрын
Youre very welcome🥰
@HansJochenUndermaier12221
@HansJochenUndermaier12221 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you and espacially your daughter all the best. 🙏🙏🙏
@hueffel987
@hueffel987 2 жыл бұрын
I hope that the conditions here in Germany for your daughter are as good as You hope.
@DidierWierdsma6335
@DidierWierdsma6335 2 жыл бұрын
For a better live definitly go to Europe you and you're family are more than welcome here. In America you basicaly treated like a slave America is not the land of the free far from it. Greetings from the Netherlands🇳🇱
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you and your family all of the best. Moving to another country isn't easy at first, but here we are a year later and it's a LOT easier. Everything is up from here.
@ingevonschneider5100
@ingevonschneider5100 2 жыл бұрын
I heard once that the US "solves" its social problems in prisons.
@Be-Es---___
@Be-Es---___ 2 жыл бұрын
And it's cheap labor problems as well.
@ThePixel1983
@ThePixel1983 2 жыл бұрын
​@@Be-Es---___ Sometimes also called Neo-slavery
@Dueruemtarget
@Dueruemtarget 2 жыл бұрын
No, the US use the taxes for military. (This sentence might contain sarcasm)
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha yeah that makes sense. And it's horribly immoral to do it that way when it could be done on the front end to PREVENT problems. America is not into prevention.
@SamuelfisherSC
@SamuelfisherSC Жыл бұрын
I've grown up in Germany, and I've come from a place where my family wasn't very well-off, but I still had a childhood like any other person. And now I'm making a good living where quite a bit is being deducted in taxes, and knowing that it gives everyone around me a better quality of life makes me really happy. Like you said, there is room for improvement, not to mention that it's healthy to never grow complacent about one own country's systems and to give it a constant stream of constructive criticism. But I am overall thankful. After all, anyone could be in need of those social systems tomorrow or even hours from now.
@Bommelmuetze42
@Bommelmuetze42 2 жыл бұрын
Here's my experience: I study in Heidelberg, where the Semesterbeitrag is round about 170 euros, which means I pay 340 euros total in a year to go to university. For rent, I pay 180 euros because I managed to get in the Studentenwohnheim, even though I don't live far from uni and could easily go there by train. Our cafeteria is known as one of the best in Germany, there I pay only 2,30 euros per meal. Aditionally, many cultural activities (for example going to the theatre) are completely free for students or have at least a great discount.
@Bommelmuetze42
@Bommelmuetze42 2 жыл бұрын
+ mostly, all of the required books are available at the library - if not, there's often a free online-version for university members
@tobyk.4911
@tobyk.4911 Жыл бұрын
Only 2,30€ per meal? Wow, that's what I used to pay for a meal in my university's cafeteria (Mensa) as a student about 15 years ago. I would expect that it costs much more now.
@ssm445
@ssm445 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah the theatre. I went there twice a month for free while at university, and I've not even been a theatre maniac before (or after...). That was nice. Free ride to free theatre, for €70 a year 👍
@fridadanke9076
@fridadanke9076 Жыл бұрын
And here is my experience: I study in Frankfurt am Main, Semesterbeitrag is around 360 a semester, with is 720€ a year.. For rent I pay 500€ for a normal sized wg-Zimmer, I could find anything else. Our food in the cafetteira is wuietr the same, 2,80€ a meal.
@TheWuschelMUC
@TheWuschelMUC 4 ай бұрын
@@Bommelmuetze42 ...in theory. In practice hundreds of students look for the same book, and the library has only 20 of them. So you have to buy some of them - like it or not.
@divadivalein1213
@divadivalein1213 2 жыл бұрын
That great social system exists because childless people have to pay more taxes than those having children. And I am one of them (the first ones). BUT I don't mind paying more taxes. I am happy to do this because: CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE! And if I see how happy you are, I feel really, really good. ❤❤❤God bless your children and you!
@brucemc1581
@brucemc1581 2 жыл бұрын
On the flip side the childless people get the benefit of the taxes generated from the children when they grow up.
@divadivalein1213
@divadivalein1213 2 жыл бұрын
@@brucemc1581 you are right that's why I don't mind paying more.
@ThePixel1983
@ThePixel1983 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! (Though I pay taxes in France now)
@smftrsddvjiou6443
@smftrsddvjiou6443 2 жыл бұрын
"childless people have to pay more taxes " This is not true. Urban lie by childless people. The Kindergeld is technicially the tax reduction for childs.
@divadivalein1213
@divadivalein1213 2 жыл бұрын
@@smftrsddvjiou6443 if you don't have any children you are in the taxgroup number 1 - Steuerklasse 1 - the highest taxes.
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
"Free" education for international students actually is a smart move, I think. On YT you can see lots of students from everywhere telling about their experiences in Germany and at some point in time they mention they are learning German and finally integrating in the German workforce - and that includes paying taxes and returning the money the state has "loaned" them. And I dare say, the average foreigner turning German student ist above average compared with the German students (German myself, no insult intended!). So this is an absolute win-win situation for Germany. Suck up smart young people from all over the world and make them stay is good "business" practice
@jessicaely2521
@jessicaely2521 2 жыл бұрын
Yes this is true when you have enough University space. It's difficult for the US because you have to work your butt off and have a little luck to get into your preferred University. In the US not all Universities have a Medical doctor program, Physical Therapy program, teacher program, etc. When I was looking for a physical therapy assistant program in Miami area I only had 2 choices in colleges. One was 60 minute drive south (one way) in a shitty neighborhood and the other was a 60 minute drive (one way) north in a shitty neighborhood. Where I was in Florida you couldn't really go east or west. The east had the ocean and the west had the Everglades. I needed to stay in the house I was in. I was helping my mom take care of my dad.
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicaely2521 Well, they are managing the available space in university in Germany by several different means: First they set aside a certain amount of places for "specials" (soldiers, foreign students, people with medical problems, ...). Next is an admission process that either uses the NC (Numerus clauses, a required level of performance at your prior school, like the GPA?) or they have an outright admission test. But of course that only does you any good if you are free to move to any university. In your case only the "special" rules would have given you a chance. And that would still be a 50-80 Kilometer ride every day because the local university does not offer medicine as a subject
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah totally! I agree.
@RustyDust101
@RustyDust101 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely. The cost may be there for the German tax payer, but the overall cost-to-profit ratio will be outrageously slanted towards long term profit for Germany. I've heard that even if only 10% of all foreign students remain in Germany after finishing their studies here, Germany will break even after an average life time spent living and paying taxes here. Sure, not everyone will remain here a life-time, but then how many of foreign students will actually stay here in Germany? Probably more than 10% Then there are the benefits to our society as a whole. My example for perfect integration are the wife-and-husband couple of Turkish descent that now are leading one of the top 500 medical companies of the world. I am obviously talking about BionTech and the couple Uğur Şahin and Özlem Türeci. These two are the masterminds behind this incredibly successful company that essentially did most of the scientific research behind the BNT-162b vaccine for Covid. Their research was not originally intended to target a specific virus, but they were looking for a vaccine against CANCER. No, not a specific cancer, but ANY cancer. Their goal is to find a way to make our body recognize the damaged cancerous cells and differentiate them from standard healthy cells. With this our bodies would do the job of eliminating the cancer cells, and replace them with healthy tissue. I have high hopes that now, with its incredible financial boost their plans at innovating the field of medicine will go full steam ahead. THAT is what I can be proud of. That Germany has such talented people who are working for the improvement of humanity as a whole, not to make ridiculous amounts of money off the plight of people unable to refuse their offer.
@deniseproxima2601
@deniseproxima2601 2 жыл бұрын
@@RustyDust101 But in the end they will no a only German left.
@hennisketches
@hennisketches Жыл бұрын
The fact that I still get Kindergeld at the age of 23 (my mom sends it to me monthly) because I am still in university is a lifesaver. It‘s a great concept! I mean 200€ more is a lot of money.
@zwiebster63
@zwiebster63 Жыл бұрын
Here in Belgium you have 15 weeks in total when you are pregnant. You can stay at home as from 6 weeks prior to the delivery date. 1 week before the delivery you are obliged to stop working. The amount of weeks you take before and after the birth are counted together and should be 15 in total. When you are getting twins or even more babies, you get a longer postnatal leave.
@michaela114
@michaela114 2 жыл бұрын
You can't get fired from the day you inform your employer you are pregnant! 🤯 AND: during maternal leave (6 weeks before and 8 weeks after) you are not allowed to work! Has nothing to do with how you feel.
@mauertal
@mauertal 2 жыл бұрын
NOPE........There are several cases, when u can get fired even pregnant!...........SO if u are employed in a very small company (Kleinbetriebregelung), if the company crashes (Insolvenzordnung) OR if there was a signed a trial contract (Probezeit-Vertrag), that said "that the contract STRICT ended after 6 months, and a NEW contract is needed afterwards". Those time-contracts ended as the contract says.....doesnt matter, if there was a pregnancy.....
@barbara-xt6cc
@barbara-xt6cc 2 жыл бұрын
Ich durfte meine Gesellenprüfung, also den praktischen Teil, nicht machen, weil ich zu dem Zeitpunkt bereits im Mutterschutz war. Es gab einige Diskussionen mit dem Amt darüber, ob die Aufgaben vielleicht angepasst werden könnten. Ging nicht. Mutterschutz ist Mutterschutz. Also habe ich den paktischen Teil ein Jahr später nachgeholt. Leider fehlte mir dadurch aber ein Jahr Berufspraxis und das Ergebnis war nicht so gut, wie es hätte sein können. Egal, bestanden ist bestanden.
@mauertal
@mauertal 2 жыл бұрын
@@barbara-xt6cc Klar, die Ergebnisse interessiert später keine Sau mehr. Als Arbeitgeber kenne ich die Sorgfaltspflichten. Da MUSS ....und will ich aber auch, "besondere" Umstände berücksichtigen. Das kann eine Schwangerschaft sein, bei der zahlreiche Arbeiten nicht mehr erlaubt sind (wobei die Übergänge fliessend sind) oder entsprechend angepasst werden müssen. Gleiches gilt aber auch für frisch Genesene, Ältere usw.. Das ist bei einem Büroarbeitsplatz idR. kein Problem, sollte die Tätigkeit jedoch körperlich anstrengend oder gar, bei eingeschränkter Beweglichkeit, gefährlich sein (Dachdeckerin, Schornsteinfegerin etc.) MUSS ein Arbeitgeber oder im Falle einer praktischen Gesellenprüfung, die DANN verantwortliche Stelle, handeln.
@jennyh4025
@jennyh4025 2 жыл бұрын
That’s not quite correct, you can choose to work in the six weeks before the expected date, but you are not allowed to work the eight weeks after giving birth.
@missis_jo1017
@missis_jo1017 Жыл бұрын
@@barbara-xt6cc Genau so lief es bei mir mit der Zwischenprüfung. Und ich musste anderthalb Jahre aussetzen. War richtig blöd, weil ich vor der Prüfung nicht einen Arbeitstag hatte. Geplant war das Schuljahr zu beenden, ein halbes Jahr zu Hause zu sein und dann für das letzte halbe Jahr weiter zu machen (hätte verkürzen können). Dass die Gesetzeslage da so eng ist, war mir und meinem Arbeitgeber nicht bewusst. Zur Gesellenprüfung war ich wieder schwanger, das habe ich dann vorsorglich verschwiegen.
@Otonosekai
@Otonosekai 2 жыл бұрын
Wenn ich das alles höre werde ich noch viel froher, ein Deutscher zu sein und bin sehr stolz auf mein Land!
@corinnaschenk9131
@corinnaschenk9131 2 жыл бұрын
Liebe Sara, lieber Kevin, Ich folge euch schon lange auf KZfaq und jetzt ist es wirklich Zeit euch einmal zu loben und zu gratulieren. Eure Videos und Berichte sind so gut! Immer interessant, intelligent, genau und gründlich und auch noch mit viel Herz und Engagement gemacht. So etwas sieht man nur selten im Internet. Ich freue mich jedes Mal sehr über eure Erzählungen und Themen. Es ist so schön, dass ihr nicht oberflächlich, banal und Click-abhängig seid. Macht weiter so! Ich liebe euch!
@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage
@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, das ist ein Kommentar!!!
@lisamirako1073
@lisamirako1073 Жыл бұрын
@ Corinna Schenk I expressly endorse this praise wholeheartedly! And additionally recommend the channel The Black Forest Family
@AmericasGotGermans
@AmericasGotGermans 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for mentioning my channel in your video😍❤️ You are such an inspiration and one of the reasons why I started my channel ❤️❤️❤️ I was surprised to hear that you can't bring food to an amusement park in the US😳 I didn't know that! I learn so much every time I watch one of your videos! ❤️❤️❤️ I also love to see the two of you together! You can tell that you take great care of each other and treat each other very lovingly 😍 PS: What a coincidence that you mention Siegen in your video as it is my husband's hometown 😁 I grew up 30 minutes out of Siegen in a very little town 😊
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
No way!! So cool we have that connection in Siegen! And I was happy to mention your channel - you have some really great videos! I hope it sends some subs and views your way!
@linavanzombie378
@linavanzombie378 2 жыл бұрын
The Mutterschutz, Elterngeld and Elternzeit is great in Germany. With the first child, I was only on maternity leave. My husband took parental leave. With the second child, I took most of the parental leave and my husband was also on parental leave for a short period of time. We are very grateful for all these opportunities
@irishprinsessa
@irishprinsessa 2 жыл бұрын
I'm currently planning our move even though it probably a good year and a half away. We have three girls and the most recent "incident" in Texas has me chomping at the bit to leave. Brushing up on my German and researching.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck in your love! We have many videos about our move that can help. Also, learning German before you come, especially for your kids, is the best au to ease your transition here.
@swanpride
@swanpride 2 жыл бұрын
We currently have a worker shortage in a lot of sectors, so now the chances are pretty high. In one and a half year, well, who knows if a recession hits....
@sisuguillam5109
@sisuguillam5109 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck with your move and Herzlich willkommen!
@muddyfeet69
@muddyfeet69 Жыл бұрын
US Americans are always welcome here in Germany - I think it is a fact that we share the same values. It doesn't matter if you are Eurasian-American, African-American, Chinese-American .... we love u as you are. Only one wish ...leave your guns in the USA.
@twingytwango6971
@twingytwango6971 Жыл бұрын
How will you move? Is there a company in Germany hiring you or your spouse? Remember Germany is not a migration country.
@lisebjerring9197
@lisebjerring9197 Жыл бұрын
As a Dane living in Sweden with similar programs . Our parents started to fight and woted for democracy. We are all heavily taxed which pays for this things, healthcare and education etc. I am happy to hear that you appreciate and as you say, when you travel if only in our tiny continent there are huge differences. For you children learning different languages gives you an idea of different cultures and way of leaving. Wishing you all the best, from stockholm
@kyoko1581
@kyoko1581 Жыл бұрын
As a university student who used to grow up in a family, who would otherwise not be able to support my university dreams, I am so happy about all the support I get from Germany. With the Bafög and the lack of tuition fees I am able to afford my degree. Otherwise (even though my parents saved every extra money for my and my sisters career) I still could do a "Ausbildung", but this would not fit ideal as I am more happy with theoretical work and science. Now I am on my way to my PhD (which is also muuuuuch cheaper in Germany than in the US, and I even get paid during that time, so actually it is already my first "real" job). I think it is clever for Germany to invest in a young age in its children. One of the best resources our country has is people with knowledge and education. If we have many well educated people they pay more taxes and go into other countries, which benefits germany again, because it gets a center of knowledge. So we are nor exporting that many natural resources, but educated people all over the world. You are right there are some flaws in the system, but overall I am so thankful I am born in this country...
@dschoas
@dschoas 2 жыл бұрын
The spending in Norway need to be put in perspective of Norwegion prices, which are higher then in Germany. However, Norway has a strong focus on children, and established its support system, that also single parents can easily raise their children.
@tobyk.4911
@tobyk.4911 Жыл бұрын
I would guess that Norway also has very different financial capabilities than e. g. Germany, because Norway is a country with a small population and large oil and gas exports. The state which has accumulated a government pension fund with more than a trillion $ (more than $200k per Norwegian citizen) from oil expert revenue, can surely also afford to pay an extraordinary large amount for child support.
@spinn4863
@spinn4863 Жыл бұрын
True generally seen everything if a FCK ton more expensive in Norway 😂
@hape3862
@hape3862 2 жыл бұрын
0:20 Finally some cat content!🐈‍⬛
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
🐱🐱🐱
@ginothecatandcocothehamste2655
@ginothecatandcocothehamste2655 2 жыл бұрын
Im a vet student in germany and as a vet you actually cannot work while being pregnant, so the maternity leave goes from the time the pregnancy test is positive up tp until the baby is born XD
@Serenity_yt
@Serenity_yt Жыл бұрын
That applies to all medical Jobs and in general Jobs where there would be a risk to the Baby. During Covid it even applied to teachers for a time, dont know if it still does I finished my Abitur during Covid and we had 1 teacher who had to go on maternity leave for the whole pregnancy, which was new at the time. So you are basically prohibited from working in your Job from the moment your employer knows you are pregnant (which you have to tell them about as soon as you know)
@ramona146
@ramona146 6 ай бұрын
Oh wow, das wusste ich gar nicht. gut dass es das gibt
@rcookie5128
@rcookie5128 2 жыл бұрын
Well I can only say that as a kid from a family with a migration background where only my father worked (my mum was stay-home and raised us) we really depended on that Kindergeld money. I'm super that I had the chance to have my mother at home as a kid, healthy homemade food, always someone at home, someone who can check up your homework, etc.. It really can make or break your childhood. Edit: Also, like other mentioned, studying costs around 300€/semester (so 600€ a year). It depends where and what you study (e.g. often medicine costs more), and if you're an international guest student (cheaper for them) or not. Then again, there is Bafög (up to 800€/month if you're fully eligible) that you get from the government, so that easily covers that and you have some money left. IF you get it that is, depends on how much wealth you yourself have and how much you and your parents earn.
@jolynnpuente347
@jolynnpuente347 Жыл бұрын
I’m American living in America and I was an American Steelworker. When I became pregnant with my 2nd son it was physically unhealthy for me to do the job. Steelworkers have intense, hard jobs. I was given leave in February and my son wasn’t born until May. I worked almost 6 months doing what I would normally do but it just got to be too much. Thank God for the Steelworkers Union.
@alanbarr9327
@alanbarr9327 Жыл бұрын
As a born American, living in Germany, I can only agree with all you described and explained. I'm a retiree now, after 38 years of working in the metal industry. I hope your life, and that of your children will be just as fulfilling. (BTW! I happen to live in Siegen! You're right! It has a very good university!)
@Dahrenhorst
@Dahrenhorst 2 жыл бұрын
I've recently learned, that these education costs aren't exclusive to university education in the USA. You also need to pay for training and licenses for most vocational jobs in the USA, and these also easily can get to a five figure amount for that. Compare that to Germany, where apprentices not only don't have to pay for their training (with very few exceptions), they *_get paid,_* and substantially, usually around 1,000 € per month, give or take few hundred Euros, depending on the job they are trained for.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that is a big difference and good to know!
@kranzandreas3776
@kranzandreas3776 2 жыл бұрын
There,s also (at least here in Baden-Württemberg) duale Hochschule, which works similiar than an Ausbildung, but instead of vocational school you do change between your employer and university and you receive a Bachelor degree afterwards. You also get paid to study. A lot of civil service jobs are like that as well.
@ramona146
@ramona146 2 жыл бұрын
The US citizens have to pay when they want to do an apprentice at a company, did I get that right?
@Dahrenhorst
@Dahrenhorst 2 жыл бұрын
@@ramona146 Yes and no. As far as I understood it, there is no real equivalent to our German apprenticeship "Lehre" in the USA. You learn a trade at specialized school for a particular trade, which is never free and can be quite expensive. You can also work in that trade, if the time table of the school makes room for that, and if you find a company which accepts an unskilled worker and you accept an unskilled worker pay. You may even be trained somewhat by the boss or some of your colleagues, but there is neither regulation nor curriculum for that. For instance, if you want to become a book-keeper in Germany, you get an apprenticeship for 3 years at a company, and in parallel you go to school during that time. You will be trained at the company and in the school. The school is free, the company will pay you a modest salary. In the USA you first need to pay for a quite expensive training at a school and pay for a license, which allows you to work in that field. You won't be allowed to work in the field of book-keeping without that license at all. As an aspiring car mechanic, you actually my find a garage which is willing to employ you and train you themselves and just waive the license, since it is not mandatory, other than in book-keeping. But that is not comparable to a German apprenticeship, you just start as an unskilled worker and learn your trade on the go, somehow.
@ramona146
@ramona146 2 жыл бұрын
@@Dahrenhorst ah ok. Thanks for the information, now I understand it better. These are two completely different systems
@kristinaplatzer2561
@kristinaplatzer2561 2 жыл бұрын
In Germany and also in Austria your job is not only safe in the time of maternity leave. From the moment you tell your company that you are pregnant your job is safe. They can't fire you during your pregnancy, till the 3th birthday of your child!!!
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
That is what my wife's boss thought, too. But it is wrong. My wife told her boss she was pregnant and the next day she received a letter, backdated two days , that she was fired. Did not work out that way, because the German law protects women starting the day the egg is fertilized, not when you tell your boss. Her boss did not know that though, therefore the clumsy attempt to get rid of her in time.
@RealConstructor
@RealConstructor 2 жыл бұрын
@@wora1111 That company/boss should be fined for trying to break the law.
@sandrogattorno4962
@sandrogattorno4962 2 жыл бұрын
@@wora1111 Wait, but she can fire without any reason?
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
@@RealConstructor He got fined in a way. He retracted the letter and several other girls decided to get pregnant shortly afterwards. So he lost some knowledge and had to pay money. BTW: My wife was the first pregnant woman in the company, so they simply did not know the corresponding laws and only tried to be 'smart' and save money.
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
@@sandrogattorno4962 No, they gave an (inacceptable) reason as well. But it did not matter anyway.
@gerdahessel2268
@gerdahessel2268 2 жыл бұрын
My first child was born 1986 and this was the first year to have Elternzeit in Germany. I could stay home one year, then got a place in a Kindergarten and go back to work. I got 600 D-Mark a month which equals about 300 € today. I had to apply for Wohngeld to get along but I could do it. Kindergeld was 50 DM per month at that time. It worked for me because I had some savings and got some money from my employer every month. Things are much better nowadays although there is always room for improvement.
@tnit7554
@tnit7554 2 жыл бұрын
I don't remember there was any elternzeit in germany in 1986. I remember "erziehungsgeld" .
@gerdahessel2268
@gerdahessel2268 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnit7554 Ja. ja danke. Es hieß halt nicht so. Na und?
@Cairistiona44
@Cairistiona44 2 жыл бұрын
Here in Berlin the charges for studying at the Humboldt-University is about 650 Euro per year. The students pay 50 Euro per month and get a “Semester-Ticket” for the whole areas ABC of Berlin to use busses, tram and S-Bahn. Usually only the areas AB costs about 86 Euro per month, if you have a monthly pass. Students of poor familys also can get “Bafög”. The highest rate in 2020 was 861 Euro, when the student does not live with his parents. We don’t know how good we have it here!
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
WOWOWOWOW American college students would love this! This is amazing!
@hansjanko7966
@hansjanko7966 2 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, you always hear complaints about where are things better. Ok, the pension is better in Austria, the child care is (maybe) better in Sweden, the xxx is better in France, but overall we are very good in any part of daily life. So are the Netherlands, so are France, so are Denmark, so are Finland ....... ;-)
@ThePixel1983
@ThePixel1983 2 жыл бұрын
I find it absurd that going to college in the US can mean paying for a huge stadium for a few students to bash their heads in.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Haha what do you mean - to bash their heads in? It’s for football 🏈 games.
@ThePixel1983
@ThePixel1983 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Yes, that's what I meant. Isn't there a huge problem of brain injury among players?
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
@@ThePixel1983 ahhhhh hahaha! Now I get your joke, sorry! Yes footplayers bash their heads A LOT.
@ursuladavis2439
@ursuladavis2439 2 жыл бұрын
I am German and my husband American - he lived in Germany for 15 years and worked at the same place i did. In 1999 we had a baby girl and my husband stayed home 2 years and i worked full time because i made more money . My mother took care of her until Kindergarden. My husband got 600 DM. a month until he went back to work. It was the best thing to do because my husband and child are very close. She is 23 now and remembers every thing they did together and what she learned. Now we live in the USA and i see how babies go to childcare at 6 weeks old - i think that it is bad for the child - the most important time.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
I love this so much! There are probably many dads who would love this in the USA. It's so special that your daughter got to bond with her dad. And that was 15 years ago! America hasn't made only a small amount of progress towards parental leave since then.
@varlmorgaine3700
@varlmorgaine3700 Жыл бұрын
I'm a little late but welcome to germany. Hope you have a happy, healthy, good life here and a fantastic future for your kids.
@tatjanameyer4022
@tatjanameyer4022 Жыл бұрын
In the metropolitan area in Finland (Helsinki, Espoo amd Vantaa) you have the following benefit. You are entitled to free travel when traveling with a child aged between 0 and 6 years in a pram, pushchair or wheelchair. Bicycle trailers for children count as prams on all buses, trams, metro and commuters
@armondangeles7739
@armondangeles7739 2 жыл бұрын
BTW I'm still paying for my grad school from 2013! More reason that my family and I left the States for Deutschland.
@anni1773
@anni1773 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Sara and Kevin. I just want to say thank you for your videos explaining how living is here in Germany. My cousin and his wife want to move from Boston to Germany. They gonna visit us for Christmas and they start planning their moving. Your videos (I sent them a link and since that day they watch every video) help them so much. Virtual hugs from Ostfriesland ❣️
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
So cool your cousin and his wife want to move! Thanks so much for sending them our videos.
@PeTer-xd8nx
@PeTer-xd8nx Жыл бұрын
In church kindergartens, 90% of the costs are paid by the parents, the municipality and the Federal Republic of Germany. Only about 10% are financed by the churches from the church tax.
@brigittestach-wolf1206
@brigittestach-wolf1206 2 жыл бұрын
Love your numbers and overall comprehensiveness
@matt47110815
@matt47110815 2 жыл бұрын
I would say the most progressive US State is Washington (City of Seattle even more),especially with Maternal Leave, Kindergarten and Preschool. We had our first kid in Florida, which was tough, there was little room to stop working. I moved eventually to Washington State, and i noticed how much more similar to Germany it is, in many (small) ways - but now as i am getting older, i encountered Health-/Healthcare issues and i finally decided to move back to Germany, after nearly 25 years in the US. You are still young and seem pretty healthy, but i am sure you already have a good idea about how much better you are off in Germany in regards to Healthcare - not just the costs, but to have Doctors that do not have constantly Insurance and Coverage of their patients in mind, and can focus on the actual Health Issues unhindered. Thank you for sharing your journey. Much Love.
@zwiderwurzn5908
@zwiderwurzn5908 2 жыл бұрын
"but now as i am getting older, i encountered Health-/Healthcare issues and i finally decided to move back to Germany, after nearly 25 years in the US" Das nennt man dann wohl "Rosinenpickerei".
@matt47110815
@matt47110815 2 жыл бұрын
@@zwiderwurzn5908 Ach so. Deiner Meinung nach soll ich in den USA bleiben, und abkratzen, weil ich (auch mit Kramkenversicherung) die Krebsbehandlung nicht bezahlen kann. Richtig? Und nein, ich bin nicht in die USA gegangen, weil ich es dort so toll fand, da war eine Frau dran schuld. ;-)
@tnit7554
@tnit7554 2 жыл бұрын
@zwiderwurzen. 👍
@zwiderwurzn5908
@zwiderwurzn5908 2 жыл бұрын
@@matt47110815 Warum sollte jemand, der zufällig die deutsche Staatsbürgerschaft besitzt, aber seit 25 Jahren im Ausland lebt, eine (für ihn selbst) fast kostenlose medizinische Betreuung in Deutschland erhalten? Warum sollen die Mitglieder der Solidargemeinschaft, die seit Jahren/Jahrzehnten dieses System am Laufen halten, dafür aufkommen? Soll man die Krebskranken der Welt nach Deutschland einfliegen, damit sie eine adäquate medizinische Versorgung erhalten, und 40 Mio. sozialversicherungspflichtig Beschäftigte bezahlen das alles und murren selbstverständlich auch nicht, wenn deswegen die Krankenversicherungsbeiträge erhöht werden? Soll das ein Witz sein? Ich kenne übrigens binationale Paare, die das Ganze geschickter gelöst haben.
@sisuguillam5109
@sisuguillam5109 2 жыл бұрын
@@zwiderwurzn5908 Und?
@DidierWierdsma6335
@DidierWierdsma6335 2 жыл бұрын
Here is another awesome thing when living and raising children Here in Europe there are no school shootings over here Europe is an awesome and safe place to raise you're children. Europe is so much better than the United States or should i say the Divided States of America. Other than that a great video keep it up👍 and greetings from the Netherlands🇳🇱
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah we so agree. In our last video, we have a whole section on not only the school shootings in the USA, but the crime stats and how our kids were regularly doing "active shooter drills." It's INSANE that it's been allowed to get this bad and go this far. Here's the video - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iN2Xn9h4mbmRY4k.html
@merla9743
@merla9743 2 жыл бұрын
This is not true, sorry. In Germany we had school shootings. F. ex in Erfurt 20 years ago (10 killed) and Winnenden in 2009 (16 people killed).
@DidierWierdsma6335
@DidierWierdsma6335 2 жыл бұрын
@@merla9743 Exactly 20 years ago how many school and mass shootings are there now here in Europe? In America the so called United States there are way to many school and mass shootings each year such a waste and a disgrace America should be ashamed of themselves. I said before and I say it again Europe is so much better than America period and we here in Europe are blessed. America is not the land of the free far from it.
@hape3862
@hape3862 2 жыл бұрын
@@merla9743 The US had 20 in this year alone - school shootings mind you! And more than 200 mass shootings in total this year so far. Our two shootings in 20 years pale in comparison, don’t they?
@DidierWierdsma6335
@DidierWierdsma6335 2 жыл бұрын
@@hape3862 Well said👍
@twingytwango6971
@twingytwango6971 Жыл бұрын
Nice!!
@filipegrieb-dunlap5625
@filipegrieb-dunlap5625 2 жыл бұрын
Very excellent points and straight on.
@vbvideo1669
@vbvideo1669 2 жыл бұрын
Great and very interesting video! :)
@mariokah2426
@mariokah2426 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting video. Yes in Germany you dont have to save up money for collage but for the extremly expensive driver‘s licence ;-)
@jessicaely2521
@jessicaely2521 2 жыл бұрын
If you play things right you don't have to save up for college either. I had scholarships, grants, and a work study program pay for my college. My degree should have cost me $100,000, but it didn't. I only had to pay for books which I didn't really pay for. I just rented them from a company off of Amazon. Some people are just to lazy to do the work to get a free ride in college. It definitely was difficult looking for scholarships and grants for myself when I was 17 along with going to high school. I did take out a school loan that didn't gain interest while in school. With this money I was able to buy a car. I also paid it off before I graduated college so it never accrued interest.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that is a good point! The Driver's License is expensive! But I will say it is still much less than American college.
@inka87871
@inka87871 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicaely2521 yep yep that's the right way,better than raising goverment dependend twits!
@lynnm6413
@lynnm6413 Жыл бұрын
Books also aren‘t included in Germany, I studied veterinary medicine and we were obliged to buy all the anatomy books for about 100€ each, there were 5, and that was just for one class, then the white labcoats, wellingtons with steel caps, a stethoscope, ASTA Skripts, Food, Apartment and the Semestercard and the Semesterbeitrag . So it‘s by no means free!
@orangeguy3314
@orangeguy3314 7 ай бұрын
As a american and visiting with people from germany, norway and switzerland. I don't see them telling me. That it's less expensive to live in those countries. In fact they would tell. How high their taxes are and keeps them from owning things like a home.
@philippthaler5843
@philippthaler5843 2 жыл бұрын
LOL."You can get Kindergeld up to 25 if your child has a disablitiy", what you ment to say is, you get it to 21 if your child does not have a job yet and to 25 if your child does any type of further education, from university to vocational training. I would not call those disabilities :P
@melanieschafer315
@melanieschafer315 2 жыл бұрын
@phillip: sarah means: when your Child have a disability, you becam Kindergeld Up to 25 years old ago. The Cost for the living this Child must higher then there income!
@arnodobler1096
@arnodobler1096 2 жыл бұрын
You are so heartwarming 😍
@marti-se7vu
@marti-se7vu Жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Thank you!
@lipoo4425
@lipoo4425 2 жыл бұрын
Hello dear ones - thank you for your channel which took me from a 3 to 1 in speaking, writing...understood anything cause of your clear pronunciation. You helped me a lot watching your yt channel. Let me know if i can help you as compensation. you guys rock - keep on. All the best to you and your family...and the cat....and the hamster...Greetz
@HH-hd7nd
@HH-hd7nd 2 жыл бұрын
29:20 There are administrative fees which are about €300 on average per semsester. However this usually also includes a semesterticket for public transportation in the entire region which means you can use public transportation as often as you like as long as you're a student.
@amyloriley
@amyloriley 2 жыл бұрын
Kindergeld also exists in other countries, not just Germany. Some money comparisons (base pay, not including extras such as school money or aid for lower incomes) below: - The Netherlands: 230-330 euro per quarter - Belgium: 170 euro per month
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s great! We live in Germany so that’s why we are only speaking of Germany in this video. But perhaps we should do a video showing all of the countries that do this!
@dankarubarth7678
@dankarubarth7678 2 жыл бұрын
Good explanation. I haven't known that as in detail.Very interesting.🌞
@mysarathy
@mysarathy Жыл бұрын
Wow! So eye opening
@eLISAbeth0395
@eLISAbeth0395 2 жыл бұрын
I am also shocked, that you have to pay up to 1000 $ for books, I didn`t have to pay anything for books, because I could get them for the entire semester at the university library for free or download the PDF from the university website for free. It is insane, having students to buy this literature.
@stephieo2976
@stephieo2976 2 жыл бұрын
You just showed my old university in the States. Brought me right back. ❤ Apart from that... yeah... tuition was mindblowingly high. About 12.000 USD per semester for graduate school. It definitely was an eye opener for me.
@bkj2508
@bkj2508 Жыл бұрын
Wow! How great!!
@dawnaskey4975
@dawnaskey4975 Жыл бұрын
A lot of research went into making these 2 videos - thank you!
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Yes it was a lot of work - thank you! 😀
@kata7062
@kata7062 2 жыл бұрын
It´s always amzing when there´s a new video of you guys. I just love your way of talking and explaining and finding out what surprised you. :) When I was younger I always dreamed of going to an american college. Because american pop culture is big in Germany, most Ivy League Universities are really good known here. And I did visit Harvard when I was in Boston a couple of years ago. American Universities, especially the private ones, are of really high quality, especially when it comes to research. I also really loved the "spirit" that schools and colleges in the US have and always wished we would have something like this. But I am really greatful that I don´t have to think about money as a University Student in Germany. I actually changed my major two times and didn´t have to think about how much money I lost to something I didn´t graduate in and was able to still see it as a valuable, important and teaching experience. I don´t go to University to get a degree, I mostly go because I´m actually interested in the things I´m learning. I don´t know if I could´ve had the same experience in the US. Probalby not. About college expenses: There is no such thing as tuition in Germany as we don´t pay for the education itself. There is a "Semester Fee" which pays for other things regarding student and University life. At my University it was 310€ for this semester. More than a half of it goes to the "Semesterticket". A ticket for all public transportation in the hole state and some cities in neigboring states and the Netherlands. Another big portion goes to the "Studierendenwerk". It manages and finances effortable housing and food at the many cafeterias, and the "Hochschulsport", the University-Sport. There is also Bafög. Its a student loan from the government for students from low income/middle class families. How much you get depends on how much your parents make. The max is 861€/month right now. It´s a student loan without interest, you only have to pay half of it back and never more than 10.000€. If you don´t have the money to pay it back you can delay the payments. It will not be a burden to you later. The Bafög-Student-Debt of a friends mother actually got canceld after 20 years of delaying it. I don´t want to be super german and direct so it seems unfriendly but I have some corrections :) : Actually you can take 3 years of Elternzeit (Parental Leave) per child within the first 8 years of their life. in those 3 years you can´t get fired. Its the Elterngeld (Paid Parental Leave) that you have to take in the childs first year. There is also Elterngeld Plus, which is the same amount of money but split over the first two years. You don´t have to be a tax paying citizen to get Kindergeld. Everybody who has a child will get Kindergeld until they´re not responsible for the child anymore. Which in germany means, the child is done with their education or not in the education system (University/Traidschool/Apprenticeship) anymore or reached the age of 25.
@robertzander9723
@robertzander9723 2 жыл бұрын
Waking up on Sunday, preparing breakfast and then seeing a new video of you in my notes is just nice, now I know today is going to be a good day and I'm motivated. Thank you very much.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Robert! Thanks as always for your kindness and support. We so appreciate it!
@87ormore
@87ormore Жыл бұрын
Very informative and I appreciate the great audio quality of your videos (noticed over my headphones today).
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you liked the audio quality - I have worked hard to learn how to make it really good!
@ollyo25
@ollyo25 2 жыл бұрын
I worked in a Casino in germany where it´s allowed to smoke during work, if a female co-worker get´s pregnant they have to immediately go in to "Mutterschutz" to protect the unborn child
@RustyDust101
@RustyDust101 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the intro. Again. Beautiful flowers, you are taking such good care of your garden. Awesome. Hehe, I notice other signs of Germanization: you are not actually complaining (yet) but you ARE pointing out where Germany's system could improve. THAT is soooo German. Never rest on your laurels, always look for ways to improve. And don't be shy about pointing it out. Without being forced to see problems we can't notice that there IS a problem. Without acknowledging problems we can't tackle them. So good on you! 👍👍 Another point: yepp, you have been faced with the German Amtsschimmel, the bureaucracy, and you have noticed that Germans CAN'T do ANYTHING without applying for it in triplicate, at least two exceptions to a rule, five mitigating factors, and at least ten add-ons after the fact. That is a direct outgrowth of wanting to constantly improve. When a once fairly simple concept gets tweeked and changed to accomodate new improvements, the added bells and whistles can overburden the system to the point of collapse. Sometimes it gets easier to throw away the original concept and work out a new one; in others, the concept of a 'bureaucratic tree' may be pruned back down to two or three major branches to give it a chance at survival and get it growing again, instead of being covered in strangling vines stifling all growth. Final comment: Sarah's singing voice is exceptionally pure. Have you trained?
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you! Yes I have trained in singing! I’ve performed in musicals and was a soloist in several churches. I love to sing - I need to find somewhere to sing here in Germany - a choir or something.
@hape3862
@hape3862 2 жыл бұрын
Already the Romans knew: Summa ius summa iniuria. Means that laws without exceptions are unjust, because live is complicated and not everything can be measured with the same yardstick. Alle über einen Kamm scheren auf deutsch. From this point of view the complicated German law is also the most human as it accounts for many circumstances.
@LaureninGermany
@LaureninGermany 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely would want to raise my children here, if I had any. The only thing I really get concerned about is that I feel they have a lot of pressure in school. But also alot of people care about their education, so it’s constantly improving. And I pay my college Semesterbeitrag so happily! My husband paid off his Bafög at a reduced rate, all in one go, whereas my student loans from the UK just kept adding interest - but nothing compares to American college debt. I know a college education isn’t necessary, but it’s a wonderful thing and should be possible for everyone. Your children will probably appreciate everything more, because of you and your videos, too. I hope they feel they get the best of both worlds.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Lauren! There is more pressure in school when you're in Gymnasium. And the pressure is higher in Bayern - many Germans say it's much less other states where they don't even have Gymnasium/Realschule/Mittleschule, but instead, one secondary school (Gesamtschule or Haptschule). So if the pressure does get too high for our kids, we won't hesitate to put them in a Realschule. So, at least there are options here. And yes, the trade schools here are amazing! They are known around the world.
@LaureninGermany
@LaureninGermany 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife I love your attitude so much!
@uranus348
@uranus348 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Und Ella wird medizinsche technische Assistentin ( MTA ) ! Dafür braucht man kein Abitur.
@dominikhillebrand7106
@dominikhillebrand7106 Жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife First: Actually I am not familiar with EVERYone if the sixteen education systems but I would say there is Gymnasium in every state, without any exception. Second: be aware that there are MANY opportunities and ways to go through the system. So, if one of your kids attends the Gymnasium in the first two years but gets aware that it doesn't fit into that type of school it can go to another type of schoole, f. ex. a Realschule. But it's way hasn't been paved in an unchangeable way by that. If you or your kid want, it can attend the Gymnasium and do his Abitur after that or even later on after a job education („Ausbildung“). So the German educational system is REALLY EXTREMELY open when it comes to varied possible careers. 🙂
@BellyLaugher
@BellyLaugher Жыл бұрын
@@dominikhillebrand7106 Wow! SIXTEEN EDUCATION SYSTEMS!?! Oh, I just love when systems don't expect/demand that 1-size-fits-all, b/c rarely is it so, & if one doesn't fit, there is usually such suffering, & loss of talents & contributions & joi de vivre.
@eisikater1584
@eisikater1584 2 жыл бұрын
When I went to a Bavarian Gymnasium, theoretically, I would have had to pay nothing for books, but they were used ones, so I persuaded my parents to buy at least the most important ones for me. And of course I wanted some sports gear and a bicycle. Don't underestimate how exxpensive children can be.
@lisajohnson9124
@lisajohnson9124 5 ай бұрын
The €500.00 includes health insurance. This is for students who come without a government program.
@tobyk.4911
@tobyk.4911 Жыл бұрын
When an "international student" wants to study in Germany and therefore applies for a student visa, they need to prove that they can afford to live in Germany, which can be done in one of three ways: 1. A document which proves that the student will have a scholarship which covers his/her living expenses, or 2. A "letter of obligation" from a German resident with sufficient income who guarantees to cover the student's living expenses if necessary, or 3. A "blocked account" with about 10500€, from which the student is allowed to withdraw about 860€ per month for 12 months (which is the 12 month period for which the visa is valid). So,.860€ is the amount that the German state officially expects to be usually sufficient for all living expenses per month(and this is probably a rather cautious, i.e. high, estimate). Compare that to the numbers that have been given in the video for US. College students.
@barvdw
@barvdw Жыл бұрын
yes, there are some important differences between students from Germany (or the EU, they can't discriminate against other EU nationals) and foreign students, the latter clearly have to pay more. Still, it's often less than what they would have to pay for an equivalent education in the US...
@tobyk.4911
@tobyk.4911 Жыл бұрын
@@barvdw what exactly do you mean by "they clearly have to pay more"? For what do they have to pay clearly more than German students?
@barvdw
@barvdw Жыл бұрын
@@tobyk.4911 it depends on the state, but for international students, but there are quite a few universities who do charge more to international students. E.g. Heidelberg charges €1500 per semester to international students from outside the EU or the EEA since 2017, while students from Germany or EU/EEA member states only pay €171.80. EU/EEA nationals can't be discriminated against, so get the same treatment as someone from Germany. I am explicitly calling them international students, as people of foreign extraction, but living in Germany, are exempt.
@franhunne8929
@franhunne8929 2 жыл бұрын
You use the Kindergeld in the way it was meant to - to give your children the best possible start in life!
@maminic8814
@maminic8814 6 ай бұрын
In Mecklenburg-Vorpommern childcare is free, you have to pay only for food (
@martinaberger9689
@martinaberger9689 Жыл бұрын
A few weeks ago I stumbled over your channel and I like it very much. Your positive attitude is so catchy and I love that you embrace the new culture with open arms. Looking forward for new videos. Many greetings from your neighbour-Bundesland Baden-Württemberg 👋
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind comments!
@rasmuswieczorek5142
@rasmuswieczorek5142 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Note: If you are subject to german income tax, cost for childcare of preschool kids is fully deductible, or can be sponsored by the employer tax-free to up to 100%.
@villy27
@villy27 2 жыл бұрын
The costs of day care are different in every Bundesland. Bavaria is even one of the more expemsive states. In Eastern Germany with its longer tradition comcerning Kindergarten and Kinderkrippe day care tends to be cheaper.
@elisabethlemoigne5710
@elisabethlemoigne5710 2 жыл бұрын
But for about the last 10 years Kindergarten has been subsidized and much if it is free. Vorschule is completely free at least. In the countryside it tends to be more affordable than in cities.
@Kroyer102
@Kroyer102 2 жыл бұрын
My German university had a fee of 300€, when I first enrolled it was about 240€, the costs just simply went up over the few years. More than half of the 300€ was for the public transport public ticket valid in the whole state as mentioned in some other comments. So I could use all the public busses, trams, trains (except for IC and ICE) in the whole state. It used to be a paper card but then they changed to chip cards, which the conductor could easily scan, if they were doing passenger checks. Student dorms are affordable but from my experience with my university, they had a long waiting list of over a year so many students just lived in private rented apartments and those can range from 250€ to 500€ for a single bedroom apartment, then the cost of food which can vary depending on your lifestyle.
@magnoliarose3352
@magnoliarose3352 2 жыл бұрын
Hallo Merry Family😀 schönen Sonntag ihr lieben😘
@danilopapais1464
@danilopapais1464 2 жыл бұрын
Especially the part of university/college got me really excited for the future to see what paths your children are going to choose and if all of them go to university/college or one or more are even doing a German "Berufsausbildung", maybe even going a totally different direction. You are right about the lack of children, we have a very low rate being born every year which is especially bad with our kind of healthcare system which depends basically on having enough young people to contribute because the life expectancy has increased over the decades and centuries which leads to a high percentage of senior citizens who no longer contribute in a financial way like people who have jobs. Tbh, I think one of the best outcomes of the current crisis (for Germany) is when a lot of Ukrainian families with multiple children decide to stay in Germany (but I don't know how many people would agree with me).
@cailwi9
@cailwi9 2 жыл бұрын
It is quite amazing when you add it all up, how much more family-friendly Germany is, from a financial perspective. Quite a redistribution of tax funds going on in DE. And families benefit from this. Insightful listing. Food is also way cheaper in DE; housing - well that depends so much on where you live, and that is true both in the US and DE, but maybe that is a bit cheaper in the US on average, but not by much; healthcare - you already mentioned that this difference is huge; travel and commuting is more expensive in US, it just all adds up. Have a good Memorial Day weekend!
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! We didn't even bring up the topic of food, though we did in the last video. We should do a whole other video just on how food is cheaper AND healthier here in Germany. Yes, it just all adds up!
@ohauss
@ohauss Жыл бұрын
Well, with the housing, you also need to take into account what kind of housing. In the US, you have a lot of apartment complexes consisting chiefly of wood and drywall. While such houses do exist in Germany (chiefly as prefab kits for "off the shelf" building), most houses are brick and mortar or outright concrete. I've seen a nice video on different living culture - Germans at least historically tended to be much more local, and as such, if they built a house, it was built to last, the inhabitants expecting to spend most of the rest of their life there. Even with apartments, sticking to the same apartment until the kids move out and then another one for the rest of your life is fairly common. Conversely, even apartment complexes in the US can be rather transitory. The one I lived in for four years in Dallas, TX, 20 years ago doesn't exist anymore. Torn down, ploughed under and a new one built on top. As such, if you expect to be using something for half a century and more, you're willing to pay substantially more for it - and that, in turn, also has consequences for what you charge others for it.
@snowsnake1264
@snowsnake1264 Жыл бұрын
My mom didn’t have to pay anything for daycare. They just had to pay for the food I got and maybe some activity’s we did. ( ice cream, zoo, horseback riding…) One of my most vivid memories in my kindergarten was a sleepover we had. Sleeping overnight there was amazing. That was the first time I had eaten at subway.
@charms2
@charms2 Жыл бұрын
You guys are so adorable... Germany can be happy to have you :)
@francodenobili7654
@francodenobili7654 2 жыл бұрын
I am a german that lived for 18 years in the US and moved back to Germany in 2008 for good. That the US government is so completely disregarding parents, mostly of course parents that are not rich, is the most dumb and short minded thing that there is. These kids are of course the future taxpayers and if you do not help their parents with affordable daycare and education, you (the government) shoot your own foot in terms of future tax revenue if you allow that these children don't get good paying jobs later in life because you ( the government) does not give a rats ass about it. And second, you prevent their parents to go to work full time, both, because the outrageous criminal fees for daycare. That also is so dumb in terms of tax revenue. The US politicians just have not recognized that the money spend on kids and their parents is coming back in multiple times.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Totally agree with you. When a society invests in its children and families, the ENTIRE society benefits.
@francodenobili7654
@francodenobili7654 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife absolutely. And it prevents so many from falling into crime, which you mentioned the prison system, if you help and support the parents to be able to have a good education for their children. But if you (the government) create poverty by not caring for parents with kids then you get the fundamently wrong direction the US is (and has for centuries) going, sadly.
@uranus348
@uranus348 2 жыл бұрын
They will also never want to recognize it because they are part of of the capitalist system. They act in the name of the economy, but not in the name of the normal citizens ( voters ). And how can you change something if both parties are at odds with each other? I do not know if they ever wake up . It`s terrible.
@bjornpagenkemper6622
@bjornpagenkemper6622 2 жыл бұрын
The costs also differ depending on the state you live in. Here in Berlin and Brandenburg, Kita/Kindergarten is completely free - for everyone. The only costs that occur are the 23EUR "flat rate" for food. Thats it.
@rosshart9514
@rosshart9514 Жыл бұрын
Bavaria, Baden-Württemberg and Hesse pay Berlin's "free" Kitas.
@andibuletten6206
@andibuletten6206 Жыл бұрын
This is how a social system should work!
@anca7006
@anca7006 2 жыл бұрын
Hey hey, just wanna say that you guys are a lovely lovely couple, and I love your open mindset (here in Germany people might be lacking it sometimes). Love watching your videos. Alles gute! :-) Andrea, Munich
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@UnseenIncognito
@UnseenIncognito 2 жыл бұрын
Some things to add that have not been mentioned in other comments: The monthly Kindergeld is adjusted almost every year to account for inflation. That money is still considered low, by many because it does by far not account for all the expenses you have to pay for your child - and you should never be penalized for having a child. So there is some talk going on (for a few years already though) to further increase it.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That’s really good.
@BS-xs7jb
@BS-xs7jb 2 жыл бұрын
I had to chuckle when you said ski resorts are cheaper in Austria, because they are considered to be incredibly expensive these days by Austrian standards. However I am familiar with the American prices - truly shocking when I first looked them up. To take an entire family skiing is unfortunately becoming a thing of the privileged here as well, and well, with climate change, who knows how much longer it will be possible anyway. Makes me really sad because in true Austrian fashion, I love skiing 😅 Great video as always :)
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah true - it’s still not cheap in Austria. It is sad with climate change and the expense that it’s mostly for the privileged now.
@silmuffin86
@silmuffin86 2 жыл бұрын
In Italy skiing on the Alps regularly is for wealthy people, or at least upper middle class, but compared to the US it seems so cheap 😅
@missis_jo1017
@missis_jo1017 Жыл бұрын
@@silmuffin86 I‘m originally from Berlin and to us Skiing was also an upper class/rich people thing. I didn’t know anyone who could ski. Then I studied in Munich and I overheard a lot of people planning their weekend skiing trips and I just thought „Gaaaaaawd, them all so rich 😱😭“ until I realized that ski resorts are just an hour away and most people don’t need to rent gear because they still have it from their childhood years 🤯.
@mmartens3
@mmartens3 Жыл бұрын
I live in the US, in Texas. 20 years ago I had my 2 young children on CCMS which was the government program that paid for childcare for single mothers and low income families. It wasn’t easy to get on. I had help through a couple of nonprofit organizations. They helped with the process to get my kids on it. It was very helpful. It covered the daycare costs completely. My children attended daycare 5 days a week from 7:45am to 5:30 pm. I was able to attend college and get a degree. I’m not sure if this funding is still available.
@joepu1727
@joepu1727 11 ай бұрын
Hi, nice to Listen to your stories. And by the way, I studied mechanical engineering at Siegen Uni from 1977 - 1981.
@brittariedel3446
@brittariedel3446 2 жыл бұрын
The childcare costs vary from Bundesland to Bundesland, even from town to town. In our town (NRW) the fee is based upon your family income. So if you have two fulltime working parents you can easily pay 800 Euros per month or even more. Everybody is happy, when the children finally can go to school, because that saves you a lot of money 😉 afternoon childcare in the school after lunch is much cheaper..at least in our town...
@missis_jo1017
@missis_jo1017 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think one reason they don’t pay anything for Ella is because she is in her last year at Kita, if I‘m not mistaken. It’s mandatory so the state of Bavaria gives a discount of 100€ during that year. Also there is currently coming money from the „Gute Kita“-Gesetz. But that terminates end of the year, so cost may rise again for about 100€ 😭 (I have four kids, too and those daycare costs add up way too quickly).
@aglaiacassata8675
@aglaiacassata8675 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Just one small detail: "Krippe" is usually day care for children unter 3 years of age. And the costs for that are considerably higher than for children 3+. In Baden-Württemberg, a Krippenplatz can cost up to 550 Euros per month. BUT: For low income families, the Jugendamt covers these costs.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 2 жыл бұрын
Okay great, thanks for the clarification! And yes, Krippe is the day care.
@HinnerkMusic
@HinnerkMusic 2 жыл бұрын
This also varies a lot in different cities. Also private Kitas can reach US price levels. Which ist sadly what you want, if you dont want to give your kids to public kitas / kindergardens, since those are notoriously understaffed and underfunded.
@aglaiacassata8675
@aglaiacassata8675 2 жыл бұрын
@@HinnerkMusic Yes, private Kitas can reach the US cost level, definitely. But normally, you won't find inexpensive solutions for children under 3 in Germany: the AWO Krippenplätze for instance cost between 400 and 630 Euros per week.
@lisasimpson3762
@lisasimpson3762 2 жыл бұрын
@@aglaiacassata8675 That is not correct. It might be the case in your area but that is exeptionally expensive. It depends on where you live as every community decides how much of the actual costs is paid by the community and how much parents have to pay. Where I live the costs also depend on the parents' salary. So families on a tight budget pay less or nothing, but even in the highest level of income you pay 280 € for the first child and 210 € for siblings. (per month, not week) That includes a full day (8 hours) of Krippe.
@ramona146
@ramona146 6 ай бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife Kindergarten is daycare too
@stefanreiman3527
@stefanreiman3527 Жыл бұрын
Great invention Live and let live Take it easy guys Enjoy life
@jayc1139
@jayc1139 Жыл бұрын
I remember me and my sis going to a private preschool/kindergarten in the 90s in Rhode Island. The cost per week for both of us (per child) was 100$. Despite it being that cheap per child, it was still like a public school with learning to read, write, and do basic math and everything. I think it was 'better' than public school in the sense that...we learned to read and write 1 or 2 years before you would in public school, at about 3 to 5 years old. But it's good that there all children seem to be equal in regard to education and it seems a helluva lot higher in quality.
@elisabethlemoigne5710
@elisabethlemoigne5710 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can reconsider about having a 5th child, because prenatal care, birthing and traditions in Germany would be the subject of a while array of interesting videos. 😅 I had both of mine children in Turkey (private health care) and everything was great, so a fresh perspective on having a baby in Germany would be most welcome. But then I am sure you will find many other interesting topics. Have a great Sunday.
@Henning_Rech
@Henning_Rech 2 жыл бұрын
They should name this child "KZfaq"? ;)
@lphaetaamma291
@lphaetaamma291 2 жыл бұрын
In some jobs you are not even allowed to work if you are pregnant, like if you work with hazardous substances. Obviously in this case you also still get payed
@kessas.489
@kessas.489 2 жыл бұрын
Ehrlich? Bei mir hat es während meiner Risikoschwangerschaft niemanden interessiert! Musste jeden Tag 12 Stunden lang alleibe im überhitzten Büro sitzen!
@lordofnumbers9317
@lordofnumbers9317 Жыл бұрын
You are very, very welcome in Germany. We need more people, more families like you.❤
@zuckerschneuzchen
@zuckerschneuzchen Жыл бұрын
I was hoping for a new baby :D I am always giggeling when I see your kids, because they are so cute. I really enjoy to watch your videos. And how well settled you are now. Really nice to see.
@twingytwango6971
@twingytwango6971 Жыл бұрын
Too up front and personal.
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