Getting Married Young
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Жыл бұрынWelcome to Episode 3! Today’s episode is about getting married young and all that comes with it. Getting married in our early 20’s worked for us BUT we know it’s not for everyone, so in this episode we talk about our experience, some of the common criticisms and our opinions on it all! Let us know in the comments what age you and your significant other got married, we would love to hear about your experience!
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@Ding_Bat Жыл бұрын
My wife and I started dating when we were 14. Got married when we were 24, and we've been married ever since - 22 years and still going strong!
@felicialovesnkotb Жыл бұрын
Very similar to me. I was 14 (almost 15) when I started dating my husband. I'm 43 now and we're still together.
@westonding8953 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the awesome discussion! It makes me think a lot. I am getting old and I am full of regrets already but it’s good to hear your experiences and learn.
@brookemeredith7606 Жыл бұрын
I got married at 22, husband was 23. We had our first baby 3 years later. Now I’m 31, expecting baby #4. Life was good before children, but amazing after. And each child just brings more love and excitement into our family. I actually would’ve started having kids even earlier than we did! God bless and trust him in your decisions 💓
@manicur911 Жыл бұрын
Hubby and I were married at 22 and 23. We met in college and dated 3.5 years. He graduated a year before me so we were apart for a year. That was the hardest thing. I think it was just a natural progression for us to get married. We got married within 6 months of getting engaged. We just celebrated our 20th anniversary a few days ago. I don’t think I could’ve even thought of what our lives had in store for us. It felt like we grew together as adults. We had our first son just under the 3 year mark. I do sometimes wish we waited I little longer but then we wouldn’t have the boys we have.
@user-mx3wq6vb8q Жыл бұрын
I was 21 when I got married, and here I am 41, and still married! Seems like every 7ish years, it gets rough, then mellows back out! Marriage is so circumstantial as far as age! It’s a lot of give and take no matter the age! Now, as far as kids…mine are 20 and almost 17, and I can’t imagine doing this in my 50s-60s! This age they are at now put you through a lot! I wouldn’t change it at all how we did everything!!
@madelineclark Жыл бұрын
The cutting boards as a background 😂 I was married young too and it’s the best!
@nia5128 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I kind of like it and wonder if the black ones could be like a chalkboard and you can write on them
@Christine-bw2wd Жыл бұрын
Happy to see you guys are upfront and honest! Great podcast! Keep it up! I have been married for 22 years and going strong. Please have mellow do some more guest appearances! Crissi from Australia 👍💪
@AmyCH102 Жыл бұрын
In my marriage I'm the saver / financially responsible one and my husband is the spender / financially reckless one. I definitely suggest having a joint account for the shared expenses (mortgage, utilities, groceries, vehicle expenses, repairs, etc.) and then also each having your own accounts for fun money. Treating yourself to whatever would come out of those accounts. Doing that has majorly cut down on financial stress and arguments.
@maireadoleary5102 Жыл бұрын
It's so interesting how local culture & customs can change your perception. I'm mid-30's (in Ireland) & this age is much more common to get married/have kids. Also people regularly are engaged for around 2 years before they marry (big weddings are also typical here :-)
@SonOfAGun1814 Жыл бұрын
in 2022 the norm is now to get married/have kids in your 30s in most places
@stabs31 Жыл бұрын
YES to waiting a little to have kids. Kids are great but are very hard as well. I had to wait a year longer to have kids than I wanted. Now, I'm so grateful for that year! My husband and I travelled and had so much fun together. Kids not only change things but they change things forever. And they don't get easier. The problems change but the difficulty doesn't.
@kathleencabral9199 Жыл бұрын
My husband and i started dating at 17 and got married 2 years later at 19. 3 children and 6 grandchildren later, we will be married 44 years June 23rd of 2023. Marriage is what you make of it. ❤️
@tinkersprout Жыл бұрын
29 and still waiting to meet mr right. Wanted to be married by 25 and finished having kids by 30. Hard not to be jelly of those who have their life sorted so young!
@jeanae16 Жыл бұрын
I’m a young married. We met at the end of his senior year of H.S. and I still had a year left. We dated 2 years and then got engaged when I was 1 month shy of 19. When we got married I was 20 years and 3 months and he was 21. Then I got pregnant 7 months later. We were on a 5 year plan, but God had other plans. We are now celebrating our 20th anniversary next Wed and our son is 18. Out of the 3 couples in our friend group that got married around the same time we did, we are the only ones still together. We both had a personal relationship with God and I believe that had something to do with it. Now we are an exception and I don’t believe this works for everyone.
@emilwandel Жыл бұрын
What does god do in your marriage? Doing happy little threesomes or 1-1 time for each of you?
@nia5128 Жыл бұрын
Before you guys answer to the questions, can you countdown and say, “1, 2, 3” and then answer? I think it will build up tension and make it into a game. I appreciate your videos and you sharing your experiences.
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
It's actually not horrible been alone I'm alone and I love it
@westonding8953 Жыл бұрын
I have to admit, it is really really hard to see farther into future (like beyond 5 years or even beyond 2 years). Yet, the long run is really important in a marriage. It’s a lot to think about. However, I personally gave up on chances in college because I did not want to hurt myself too far in the long run but I ABSOLUTELY REGRET not trying to pursue something in college.
@BlacksGodDaughter Жыл бұрын
I got married at 27. Not for lack of trying to find someone but I also really enjoyed traveling and being single until I met the one. 4 years later and I’m still on the fence about having kids 😂
@BlacksGodDaughter Жыл бұрын
I stopped trying so hard like you said and ended up finding the one a year later (which was fast since I was comfortable being single 😅).
@westonding8953 Жыл бұрын
Hello MyKayla!
@kelseyfay1 Жыл бұрын
This is wild.
@laurosilvestrejr.106 Жыл бұрын
Jonas shouted out "the bay". I'm also from the Bay. Nice.
@huck9750 Жыл бұрын
North Bay represent here! 🙌🏻
@kellimiller485 Жыл бұрын
Nice video
@emievlogs3077 Жыл бұрын
I wish I got married at 24 or 25 ,but my husband and I got married at 29 and my husband was 28 . I turned 30 On my honeymoon ,we have been married 12 years.
@felicityishome8460 Жыл бұрын
Live together first - wish I had
@givipixie Жыл бұрын
I assume people get married young because they're virgins and are ready to do it. That's why it's more common in religious states.
@emilwandel Жыл бұрын
Yes they are horny. Take into account that even masturbation is a sin similar to murder in the mormon belief system.
@blazemccarthy353 Жыл бұрын
Haha MyKayla has been talking kids even training for Tokyo. This is not a new topic for her! She’s been ready to be a mom for years. I think if she was preggo at the olympics she’d still medal and be like boom 💥 goals!
@iamwhoistruedat Жыл бұрын
Halloween Horror Night!
@madelineclark Жыл бұрын
My husband is the one who’s bad with money
@gabriellaporazzi6182 Жыл бұрын
It's great if you find someone as young as 22 and you can get married but some people just don't meet "that person" so young.
@aimeekelly1172 Жыл бұрын
I got married at 27 and wouldn’t have it any other way :)
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
I'm not married I don't need to be I'm quite happy been single women and loven my own company its not lonely cos I have a dog she's my world all you need is friends and family 💜💜💜
@leykimayri Жыл бұрын
Strange how you did not mention pregnancy as reason for getting married young. Definitely a cultural thing, in Europe usually you will see young people getting married when the girl gets pregnant and they don't want to get an abortion.
@peoplethesedaysberetarded Жыл бұрын
Not a cultural thing; this is a moral-human-being thing. You don’t want a child to enter the world with parents who think marriage a larger commitment than a child.
@jamiewasson3150 Жыл бұрын
Halloween Horror Nights at Universal
@nicolesimmons2354 Жыл бұрын
Please remember that not everyone gets to find their partner. To just say don't wait to get married, some of us are still looking for our person. Be gentle
@dunktheball Жыл бұрын
Years go by fast too! Out of nowhere tons of years go by and still not finding the right person. I don't really go anywhere and meet anyone and then if I were to, I'd be really picky. lol.
@nia5128 Жыл бұрын
Yeah almost 40 and still waiting doh!
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
I'm 40 soon and loven single life never be ashamed of it life is 2 sort
@dunktheball Жыл бұрын
@@ainelawlor5755 Not everyone being single is the same, though. Some simply aren't married, but are dating a lot. Then some of us aren't even dating or like that person that commented, want to find the right person.
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
@@dunktheball disagree people can be happy on there own I'm one of them life to bloody sort to be running around looking for someone there so much more to see in the world
@kellyhartley2764 Жыл бұрын
you should do season on jordan and mckay kzfaq.info
@85breeze Жыл бұрын
Was married at 20!!
@roseycheeks34 16 күн бұрын
God she is hard to listen to. I am 28 . I am a woman. I never thought about marriage and I never wanted kids. Obviously everyone can have their own path and thats great that they know theirs. However, I hate when she says " every woman " this and "every woman " that. Please stop generalizing women like that. It is ignorant .
@upsideown Жыл бұрын
So, so selfish! Get married, have kids, have more kids, and enjoy and love them.
@gabriellaporazzi6182 Жыл бұрын
Like when Mykayla said getting married in their 30's is late for Jonas's parents, they probably hadn't met the right person till then, it's better to get married "later" than marry the wrong person young.
@kinsellawasrobbed7515 Жыл бұрын
Love you Mykayla but you seem really naive when it comes to money. Didn't the pandemic teach you anything? Money is not always going to be constant. Jonas has a great job now, but it doesn't mean he always will. You don't need new clothes every week. I saw you with the Louie V bags on tours and was in complete freight. Those are ridiculously priced. No one needs them. There are all kinds of articles about putting away so much money every paycheck so you can have millions when you retire (starting young) and I WISH, someone had even talked about retirement when I was your age. (I'm old) I am never going to be able to retire. It's just not plausible, so please, I just want you to be smart with money. It seems like you have a lot now, but the world is not always this easy. Think about that:)
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
Let her worry about her money problems if she has it she'll spend it every girl does leave her be
@kinsellawasrobbed7515 Жыл бұрын
@@ainelawlor5755 No. I won't. Do you know how many women are left with nothing after 40 years of marriage because of a divorce? The husband finds a younger woman and steals all the money. Mykayla needs to learn to keep track of money. She earns it. I am not saying Jonas will do that but it happens all the time so no, I won't leave her alone. Every woman needs a nest egg and you're an idiot.
@ainelawlor5755 Жыл бұрын
@@kinsellawasrobbed7515 that's your opinion but Mykayla and Joan's are happy married so that will never happen to her don't be jealous just be happy sorry for those women that have nothing but seriously just be happy for these 2 do
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