I'm no good philosopher or have much experience but this is something that with time I realized I needed to have an opinion for, thus just makes the one who love is and the ones we love and ourselves happy. I'm not saying that this is an ideal thing or something but there's no changing to the fact that your world can crash any second without warning, you won't even know it or you might do but if you do then engross every second, okay? Just an unneeded advice from a random stranger.