Be monogamous or not just be honest about your intentions and desires.

Being married does not equal to fidelity. You can ask someone how long they’ve been married and they could be married 40 years but you don’t know what they have gone through.

Tamera looks so young with her straight wig and tube top😍

Monogamy is a choice point blank period

“I be wanting to kill people, but i’m not a murderer” I felt that, Adrienne !😂

I like the way NeNe speaks. Every word is pronounced.

I love how comfortable the ladies are with their sexuality!!!

If you don't want to be monogamous, stay single and just have fun safely. Date around, don't lead anyone on, use protection, especially birth control. Get tested every time you switch partners.

I’m here for monogamy even though it seems like most are drifting away from it but what I will say is that if people would be honest with themselves and deal with their issues of lust, unfaithfulness and whatever other desires they may have before entering relationships and marriages, there would be less divorces and folks feeling like monogamy is unnatural and unrealistic. No one is forcing anyone to be married or in a relationship. If you know you aren’t ready to commit to either, it’s quite simple...Don’t.

We all born naturally naked, but nobody walk around naked!!!

Ain’t nothing wrong with looking... but also keep in mind; why tease yourself with a view you can’t have. Be careful not to get drawn to wrong road.

No IT is not. But that's the reason why if 2 people choose to have a monogamous relationship... it's so valuable to actually be faithful.

I think it’s a blanket statement to say because so many people have a problem with monogamy so it’s unnatural. People have a problem with lying, is telling the truth unnatural. People have a problem with stealing, is it unnatural to keep your hands off things that aren’t yours? Blanket statements are not the best decision. I started typing this before Loni’s comments but I agree completely.

Tamera looks AMAZING!

Loni looks so pretty in this episode. I like this makeup and outfit.

Monogamy is natural. So is not being monogamous. Both exist in other species.

Loni, just because people have been married a long time doesn't mean they've been faithful. Just throwing that out there. 4:27

It's so not good when Jeannie is not around. I miss you girl. But the guest host took it to another level😂😂. Love you guys❤️❤️

Breathing is natural, sleeping is natural but monogamy is a trait of character i would say, that's pretty all.

its easy for me to be faithful to someone that treats me well. if I'm wanting to be with someone else, that means its time to call it quits.

Can we talk about Loni’s glam squad, looking like a snack!

Honestly , whatever works for you , works for you ! I feel like people don’t understand how hard it is especially being in the public eye especially when people are tempting you even when you don’t necessarily intend to cheat... so if you want to have a open relationship or be monogamous or polygamous , then do you, but that’s you ! And not everybody has to agree and that’s ok too ! I know for me I’m not into being with two people... one is enough for me and all I need ! I’m hella loyal and can’t imagine two women sharing me or me and another guy sharing a girl ! So to each it’s own

I love Adrienne with a glossy lip she could literally pass for a teenager in this vid

Monogamy or not all relationships can be difficult for alot of us. It's about finding the strength to put yourself first when things spiral out of control.

More girl chats with Nene please!

Uhm Nene could pass as Megan Thee Stallion's mom🤔

when they were talking about loni's behind I lost it lol!

A lot of people are celibate so monogamy shouldn't be hard.

Some ppl forget that love and relationships are Not a one size fits all!! Just cause manogamy dont feel natural to you doenst mean that theres somn wrong with ur situation

This video is 100% my fave rn😂😂 I mean I think everyone always has a choice. You'll either be faithful to your vows and respect how sacred marriage is... or you're gonna be that person who just didn't give a damn enough to work a little harder to make things work. IMO it all boils down to respect, loyalty and honesty.

There is a certain level of power and wholeness that comes from monogamy. There is something truly special about giving your all to one person and having it reciprocated...it is truly amazing! ♥️

Sometimes the best things in life take the most work, compromise, and sacrifice. Compromise and sacrifice are seen as weak in modern society, I HATE that.

“She always pounding my yams”😂😂😂

A serious relationship should be monogamous. Especially if you are married. If that is not your intention, then don't get married. Period.

Thank you Loni for keeping these girls grounded, and in check

This just turned into gassing loni up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Monogamy [for the most part] is not natural. It is a choice. Ideally, we want to find comfort, security, companionship, etc. with one person. It's convenient & smart, like a business partnership. But it's an idea that doesn't always come true. Not everyone is lucky enough to find that one person you can be emotionally & physically attracted to your whole lives together. That's when the work really comes in.

I love when this conversation gets brought up bc I shut it down when I say what women crave naturally. A lot of men are not well off and women crave security/financial backing. If women acted naturally we wouldn’t date any guy who makes less than 6 figures.

I worry that i am incapable of long-term romance. No matter how hot someone is, after a while i'm over it. Its not whether i am capable of monogamy, its more that i don't think i'm capable of long term relationships. I get that not everybody has that spark after years of being together, but i like having the spark. It feels good. If relationships could forever feel the way they do in the beginning i would be happy but it's never like that for me. So i am a serial dater :( I strongly believe people who do stay together long-term aren't just doing it because they are still madly in love, it's more that there are other more important factors like having a family that take precedence over needing romance. At least that's why i'm still with my husband :p

Idk I love my husband so much, it doesn't mean there aren't days where we argue etc but that's life I cannot imagine life without him and I'm glad we are together, its been very easy to stay together

Monogamy is natural if you want it to be.

I don't like the idea of "not being monogamous =/= not loyal" because people who are polyamorous can still be loyal to their partners/partner. That being said, I do want more discussions on monogamy and polyamory on television with hopefully some polyamorous people there as well.

I think monogamy makes the most sense. Bouncing from one person to another might seem like fun when you’re young, but eventually you’re going to get old and have no one to share your last years with and die alone....while possibly having multiple baby mamas out there and 10 kids to pay child support for.

Tamera is so beautiful chile..takes my breath away. Loni also looked stunning here!!

I think the concept of meeting one person and spending the rest of your life with only that person (from a biblical) standpoint sounds great, but it isn't natural. That is why people who can meet their soulmate or best friend and be committed to them and only them, is so rare and special. What I find so disconcerting about people that can't stay committed and faithful, is the deceit. I just don't understand how someone can profess their love and respect to your face, and then go behind your back just to get their rocks off. It's the lies than are the most egregious. I could never cheat. If I got to a point where I met someone I wanted to be with more than who I was with I would leave. Period.

Its probably not natural but it keeps society inorder….we already have too incomplete homes in America

I am never monogoumos. My partner always knows what I am up to. I think for me, giving up monogoumy is the best thing I ever done.

These girls are beautiful 😘

I wouldn’t share my friends secret with my partner... Only because it’s a secret and they trust ME.... not me and my partner... so if I break that trust by telling ANYBODY it doesn’t matter who it is... then I’m not being a good friend ! If i day I’m not telling anybody... I’m not gonna tell anybody !

How many times is Loni going to say she takes marriage very seriously 😂😂

Nene : “Latesha is a hooker” got me thinking about Marlo 🤔

Lonnie better preach...I'm so glad they didnt throw monogamy under the bus. You CAN be monogamous. I'm also glad she brought up ppl making blanket statements from being hurt. Just because you get hurt doesn't mean that the effort is wrong...You have to exam the motives and be real on whether you saw red flags. Dont discredit something because of hurt feelings.

Just because it takes work doesn't mean it isn't natural.....Success in a lot things takes work..... I want a woman like the lady in the red....

Nene Leaks has not changed from day one

I mean it's like saying that just because some people are homosexual it's not natural to be heterosexual, it depends on individuals and it's a social behaviour. Some people are capable of being the lone wolf- whatever floats your boat as long as you're honest and don't harm anyone

I think it’s for the person and who are we to judge anyone

Adrienne and Tamara do kinda look alike in this video. I can kinda see it now.

Loni is talking to everybody’s husband

Miss Loni..... YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY STUN-NING today!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

thank you adrienne! have they been faithful the whole 30 years ?? , you hear people say all the time they went through hell and back and had infidelity throughout the marriage as well .

I think it depends on the person. To some people monogamy is natural/normal and to some people it isn't. Just like how some people think the opposite isn't natural for them, some prefer only one person and that's normal for them. So it depends 🤷

being monogamous is hard but the majority of people still yearn for it, that proves that it IS natural.

From the gold eye shadow, black top to the golden jewelery and gold streaks in hair. Loni looks absolutely beautiful ❤️

Nene be wilding on Loni

Monogamy is natural for me, Idk about anyone else. Don't tell anyone a "secret" that you wouldn't be okay with them telling someone else...clearly people don't know how to shut their lips.

Men and women hate on each other so much these days. Stop being so jaded and find beauty in the opposite sex and not just in a lustful way. As a woman I appreciate and respect men...their strength, their protective nature, their take charge attitude. That doesn't make me less of a person...I would hope men find my 'womanly' nature just as endearing. That being said I'm in a monogamous relationship. I don't think I would be content in any other type of relationship. I don't want to share my husband's attention, time, resources, etc. with anyone else. And I want to give all of myself to him. I want him to feel special and know he's the most important person to me.

I’m totally monogamous like if I’m with someone I only see them.

Whatever floats your boat in my opinion if you can handle open relationship do it, if you can’t don’t !

For someone who got divorced loni sure has a lot to say about people choosing to divorce lol

These kinds of questions are dumb... is it natural? Yes if it exsists in nature it is natural. Now you can have opinions if humans should or shouldnt practice it but it is very much natural.

adrienne lost weight and im all here for it ,😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Lusting after other people outside of marriage Is still wrong... Yes you should pretend to be blind... Dont even look... Your heart lusting after something you cannot have cause issues...

Is it just me or this is like the first video I came across that’s longer than 5 min

I love y'all I watch y'all everyday

Us Sagittarius are faithful, so reciprocate it back

Tamera looks beautiful. Lol the end of the video

Loni made an awesome point in order for your publicist to make sure you stay relevant you do end up marrying someone and your pressured into it. That is 100 percent correct on that. get married for you not for anyone else unless it's a green card situation lol =) You just trying to help a brotha or sista out lol =). Everyone looks gorgeous on this episode love Tamera's hair =). You guys always do

I love watching The Real Day-Time every-day. You girls are so definitely cool.😘😍❤️❤️😀😍😘

Just because monogamy isn’t natural for one person doesn’t mean it’s not natural for someone else. I believe monogamy or polyamory is part of your sexuality. It’s like saying just because someone is bisexual means that gay/straight people aren’t natural.

I like what Adrienne said that if it’s that hard to be monogamous, maybe you’re with the wrong person.

Loni needs her own show.

I know this is a old but that red look so good on Nene,,,poppin off the screen. Dang girl.

Every relationship is different

Just add Nene to the show, she fits right in. That was a good vibe.

Monogamy isn’t natural. Biologically our species wants to survive and reproduce. However choosing to be monogamous shows how strong a connection 2 people can have. So while it’s not natural it is meaningful.

where is jeannie 😭

Tamera describing Lonnies butt was the funniest thing omg ahahahahaha

Not everything has to be in this box or another. There is an in between and then some. There are a variety of happy committed relationships that don't choose monogamy. Every marriage/relationship is different and subjective.

Loni and Nene should go on the road together, they'd be great together as well as they are individually.

This is sad. Marriage, monogamy is not the problem, it isn't broken. It's the people who are. This world hates to admit it but they don't know it all. They have problems and think I can do this; I can fix it on my own but they can't. You didn't create yourself, GOD did. Man was never made to be without GOD. GOD created, designed & blessed the institution of marriage HIMSELF. With the plan of one man & one woman coming together as one. Genesis 2:24 -Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. The whole design of marriage is not just for romance. No, it's function is to bear children (be fruitful & multiply) and secondly to reflect the unconditional shape love of CHRIST & HIS bride (the church). Without GOD, it can never be how it should be. Whatever that is in life.total Completion can only be found in CHRIST alone. Praise GOD!

Loni was describing Cynthia Bailey situation

I love this episode so much

The last part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👁👁 Yep, me too!

Your Accessories are everything Loni

natural or not, adults can do as they please. that is all that matters. i have asexual tendencies (i prefer to watch porn than to have sex) and i look forward to finding a man that is ok getting pleased elsewhere.

everybody teasing Loni was funny her reaction almost the end saying what the hell? lol. :)

Im with scarlett. Just because couples successfully stay together for decades doesn't mean it's natural. It's a choice.

I guess Scarlett will be headed to divorce #3 if she marries her current fiancé.

This episode was so much fun

My mama always said, you can look at the menu but you better not order off it!