Real fam, if you are married, would you listen to advice from a single friend?
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@samantha_hdez4 жыл бұрын
Single people are somethimes in a better place than married people. So yea
@wordplay0514 жыл бұрын
Key word sometimes. Single people great at giving advice when it comes to being single again. Some of them never knew how to make a relationship work. Some do though.
@samantha_hdez4 жыл бұрын
I agreee!!! Some single people just learned sooo much in the relationship and they become so knowledgeable that they can help some married couples out. But of course not everyone is suitable to give advice.
@mamiloca304 жыл бұрын
Samantha Cons I disagree, there are a lot of married people who are living their greatest life. I know some single bitter people who are not in a good place. People have to be kind when giving advice married or single.
@jodynanci4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes married people settle so they try to make light of certain situations eg, staying in a marriage u know is not working for u
@mamiloca304 жыл бұрын
JodyNanci and non married people who are in a relationship could also be in an unhappy relationships and put up with a lot of crap.
@listeningviayoutube72294 жыл бұрын
Sensible advice is sensible advice regardless of who is giving it.
@yahainHotPink4 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@nobasicshere66464 жыл бұрын
Say that again👏👏
@UrbanDecayLova2474 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I think there’s this narrative that single people’s advice is always “leave em” when that’s not actually true.
@lookhowshegobbledthat4 жыл бұрын
Period.
@_Chev4 жыл бұрын
issamemariheaux I wish I could like this a million times. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nazifabegum28124 жыл бұрын
Camera guy: silently judging Loni at every turn 😂😂😂
@Hope4Life263 жыл бұрын
😂
@Kaykiy Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@uanip13414 жыл бұрын
Jeannie was married, got divorced, is dating again and is probably almost engaged and I'm still here single AF lol
@ambengwa57234 жыл бұрын
Me too
@uanip13414 жыл бұрын
Ambe Ngwa lol girl 😂😂. Our time soon come
@aissatasy30904 жыл бұрын
Me too and I'm 35.
@allylove214 жыл бұрын
Aïssata SY It’s ok be patient.. Jeannie is 40. 😘
@uanip13414 жыл бұрын
Ally Love 💯💯
@1dandlittlemixlove4 жыл бұрын
lonnie "why you put the camera on me?!" I AM DEAD
@Private.Jetson Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭💀
@joyford88827 ай бұрын
I died my stomach was hurting 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@iamproject1004 жыл бұрын
Half the time single people give advice is because the person in a relationship decided to go to THEM and ask questions lol.
@willyblu23 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@rochellesmith84274 жыл бұрын
No one: Loni: HENNESSY 😆
@zero11884 жыл бұрын
just because a person is married dont mean they happy. could be married for 10 years and be miserable for majority of it
@luis7984 жыл бұрын
I didn't have my glasses on and I got mad cuz I thought your profile picture was a stray hair and I couldn't get it off.
@MissAllyjandra4 жыл бұрын
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mariecarmen49214 жыл бұрын
My grandparents have been married for 58 years. 17 years into their marriage my grandmother left my grandfather, she moved from Puerto Rico to New York with her 3 daughters (my mom and 2 aunts) and my grandpa stayed in Puerto Rico. My grandparents haven’t seen each other or spoken to each other in 41 years. They’re still married to this day because they don’t believe in divorce and so they’ve been married 58 years and haven’t spoken for the majority of their marriage, for 41 years.
@niharikaprasai78124 жыл бұрын
@@luis798 same omg
@GrowingwithRome4 жыл бұрын
The audience should get mini size drinks or samples of the drinks
@sparkswolverine4 жыл бұрын
If something happened to the audience, the Real would be held accountable-I would assume.
@BreasImplants1014 жыл бұрын
My aunt worked on the show and I’ve been a guest a few times and there’s no way you can bring drinks or food as an audience member. The audience is WORKING. We have to smile basically the whole time (seriously, your face hurts at the end of the episode). They make you stand, clap, and dance on queue ....and it’s often. It would be too much to have drinks while doing all of that
@melvissimpson37424 жыл бұрын
That may not be wise considering they may not know who has a drinking problem or is in recovery.
@EllePlowPlow4 жыл бұрын
Asia Asia I didn’t know all of that but wouldn’t it make you feel more relaxed to be drinking while doing all of that?
@courtneymackey70124 жыл бұрын
Jeanie at 10:04 and all the ladies trying to flex, has me WEAK! Lol I love them so much.
@Ashowee1004 жыл бұрын
“I must, I must, I must increase my bust”😂😂😂😂😂 I cant with Adrienne
@destineeclay422 жыл бұрын
I love when Tamera says “why y’all laughing 🤨” 😂
@MichelleArielis4 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooo loni getting put on the spot several times by the crew lmao
@alphabetquo4 жыл бұрын
lmao Tamera “Why y’all laughin?” she was so serious.
@jocobyjunious35184 жыл бұрын
Please let Amanda go. These four together by themselves was pure gold. Y’all messed up a good thing.
@ProductiveChi4 жыл бұрын
Are Tamera and Jeannie going to a wedding afterwards? Lol Looking very elegant ladies 🥂
@taiyonatiare79184 жыл бұрын
marriage doesnt make you an expert advice giver. a huge chunk of married people arent even happy in their relationship so i dont think it matters.
@hikkrzminzzy59464 жыл бұрын
taiyona tiare say that louder!
@Nirobiscloset104 жыл бұрын
Okay....👀
@taiyonatiare79184 жыл бұрын
Nirobiscloset 👍
@lizmariequinn4 жыл бұрын
And I know ppl who r judgemental yet unhappy in their own marriage. Leave me n my man alone boo. We good over here🤣🤣🤷🏽♀️
@JenJHayden Жыл бұрын
SAY IT AGAIN!!
@Aria32104 жыл бұрын
Lmao " why yall put the camera on me"!?
@itswhat3v3r4 жыл бұрын
TAMERA saying "okay" so cute after loni says cover up lol
@linm69384 жыл бұрын
Loni catching the camera on her was hilarious!! Omg
@anetragoolsby24364 жыл бұрын
Tamera seems like a genuine loving person.
@ladiired002 жыл бұрын
Tamera is so unintentionally funny cracked me up "no I ain't doin it
@MichelleRom4 жыл бұрын
The way she sang “Fri-yaaay”! Sing it, Adrienne!! ♥️🔥
@cindycadichon89794 жыл бұрын
No one: Loni: Why you put the camera on me 😂😂😂❤️
@sexbykittypride4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It's just advice. It doesn't mean it's the gospel truth. It doesn't mean I have to take it. Its just advice.
@karenacolon55814 жыл бұрын
London Tipton had that mirror first 😂
@VenekaWithDriveIntoGreatCredit4 жыл бұрын
LONI "Why you put the camera on me?!?" 😭 5:15 & 15:00 😭
@MissAllyjandra4 жыл бұрын
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
@tonyboots29584 жыл бұрын
Ally JayyLovee Find your story a hard to believe. Seems like your Aunt is dealing with some personal issues that is the real reason she’s miserable because it doesn’t make sense that she would stay with her husband for 35 years if he has been abusive and she’s been miserable the “WHOLE TIME”.
@fallenroses134 жыл бұрын
She doesn't have the strength to leave him but she has the strength to gossip about him?
@rosell3104 жыл бұрын
😟
@BucckeyTemple4 жыл бұрын
He’s not changing I’ll pray for her strength ♥️
@BucckeyTemple4 жыл бұрын
jo huss if you know someone like this then you would know how real this is. You probably don’t know anyone in the situation
@dawnarxtic4 жыл бұрын
"I must, I must, I must increase my bust!"
@melvissimpson37424 жыл бұрын
Judy Blume, "Are You There God, It's Me Margaret"... that was my favorite book when I was about 12.
@meganpriest6814 жыл бұрын
I loved Judy Blume books when I was a kid!
@kesandrawilliamson24644 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@bodaciousshenanigans71714 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t automatically bring wisdom or common sense!! Better recognize when it needs to be accepted regardless of who it’s coming from!
@wonderwonderful53514 жыл бұрын
Loni is so funny, just love her on the show. Adrianne offer smart answers on life, but Loni and Tamera have a lot of wisdom. Jeannie is very open minded. Look for someone to get advice from let it be someone you can trust, that could be objective. Not family members.
@NOTASCOOLASME4 жыл бұрын
I want to make Adrienne singing “Fri-yaaaaaaay” into a ringtone for my phone!!!
@RonnieStewartJr4 жыл бұрын
Lmao Loni give a Jim Halpert look to the camera and then goes “WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA ON ME” 😂😂😂😂
@Cristina-wt3sr4 жыл бұрын
Single people are what you were before you got married , so their perspective can help bring you back to that time when you thought and lived like a single person. They say things change when you get married and maybe when you’re in it , you don’t realize it . A single person can provide great advice just like a married or divorced person can .
@mercyhlapo47414 жыл бұрын
Yep I can agree with you ,I'm not the same person as I was before marriage, u know one time I needed to see my photos of me before marriage so l can relate , I don't know I guess I felt lost
@kalpitakanwar65654 жыл бұрын
My god..Loni's reaction is the best..! Why you ALL put the camera on me ??? 😂😂
@virginiakaufusi72224 жыл бұрын
Who else loves The Real Show👏🙌🙌
@Panda-qi7qt4 жыл бұрын
Loni: We need someone really flat chested. We need to test this. Me: I volunteer!!!
@rissrod8514 жыл бұрын
“ WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA OH ME” 😂
@madisonknight70744 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Tamera's red dress!!!! So pretty, looks amazing on her!
@diamondandjunior81304 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 “why y’all put the camera on me ! “
@MajesticMyronn4 жыл бұрын
Well Loni & Jeannie have been married so they can spesk from their experiences while also being a support system and be a listening ear when their friends need it... I don’t think someone being single or divorced is a determining factor in whether or not they give great relationship advice... you can learn a thing or two on what not to do so you won’t make the same mistakes they do or did...
@noelia30684 жыл бұрын
Okay but Jeannie’s so cute trying to pick up the mini marshmallow from her cup with her straw at 1:22 *in the left bottom corner* is so me :,)❤️
@MichelleRom4 жыл бұрын
Jeanie was trying to get into a whole different conversation 😂😂
@emonievlogs52564 жыл бұрын
Adrians makeup stay snatched :’) like ok ms.eyeshadow 😍
@theeelevatedsongstress4 жыл бұрын
Well, here’s the thing I feel like God gives people certain gift and sometimes a person could be single but give you great advise for your marriage because God has given them wisdom and the ability guide in that area. For example you can meet someone who has no children at all but had the wisdom on how to deal with children and the ability to be able to get them in line with no problem. I think certain people have a gift to do certain things regardless of their experience. God bless them all who have certain gift in and for certain areas.
@leogage58422 жыл бұрын
I like that distinction she made regarding “perspective” and “advice.” 🙏🙏🙏
@alanaparis64868 ай бұрын
Loni “WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA ON ME?! 😮”😂
@hannyl284 жыл бұрын
I feel like I particularly was watching Jeannie sideways, because i remember particular episodes with tamar when she was more or less like she has been married the longest at the table etc etc and shutting tamera down and giving "advice" and i felt like the length of time had no basis esp since most times her husband was away
@CcBeautiful944 жыл бұрын
I love Loni she is so funny! 😆😂
@tiffanymatsvai19294 жыл бұрын
Someone said the coach doesn’t play the game.
@zuzanna14564 жыл бұрын
That’s a meme😂
@jemimajanvier47064 жыл бұрын
Damn straight.
@VenekaWithDriveIntoGreatCredit4 жыл бұрын
People always saying lil one liners and some make no sense. Coach should have played the game for a while and know the game very well from different standpoints.
@giovanaorozco87052 жыл бұрын
I think single or not it's easier to see the problems in a situation when you're seeing it from a different perspective
@samanthaclyne20114 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is so brave! I love the way these ladies offer support to each other in different ways!
@ethel83354 жыл бұрын
Adrienne’s shirt ❤️❤️❤️ n all her outfits on the show 😍
@crystal252884 жыл бұрын
Loni drunk AF 😂
@babedavis12634 жыл бұрын
Damn can the audience get a drink too🤣💀
@Ms.JanMarie4 жыл бұрын
I was 16 and two friends in their 20s asked me for advice the day before they were getting married, at different times in the day. My advice was that they talk to each other. I was young and single and I think my advice was sound.
@itstokyoo62974 жыл бұрын
Is it me or does loni look skinnier? If she didn't, she still looks 🔥
@theeelevatedsongstress4 жыл бұрын
That’s why you are suppose to let God write your love story! When you wait on God he will send you the best thing that has ever happened to you...the waiting process can seem “slow” but God knows what he’s doing when he puts you or has you in that waiting place.
@zero11884 жыл бұрын
anyone can give good advice.
@X-Zyus4 жыл бұрын
Remember London Tipton's mirror from the suite life of Zack and Cody lol
@kristinwoodard13863 жыл бұрын
Anyone else start crying when Jeannie looked you in the eye and said she was proud? Me either...👀
@jamexicangirl4 жыл бұрын
I like that. “If you always said it with love they’ll receive it” Thanks @Tamara
@irakaye4 жыл бұрын
These ladies are the best. I’ve not found one talk show I’ve been hooked on more than this one. I’m in my early 20’s and no matter what the topic is- even if it’s divorce- I’m soaking it all in. Lol!
@la_real_selena4 жыл бұрын
Single people CAN have great advice especially if they were married for a long time. And vice versa.
@rowenaramsaran65683 жыл бұрын
A single person who Was married is a divorced or separated person.
@jaylonsharp2364 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people are single cause they wanna be, it aggravates me that there are so many people who are so upset cause they’re by temselves. Don’t feel like you you have no worth cause you’re by yourself, don’t feel like somebody can give you some kind of value cause they can’t. You have control over your happiness, over your life. Don’t give control of your life to somebody else
@kiarabrown8294 жыл бұрын
TAMERA IS SO SMART ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tylalynn97264 жыл бұрын
YES THANK YOU FOR THIS SENSIBLY TIMED CLIP
@angeliquerenteria79084 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt that I would want relationship advice from married and divorced people. They both have great insight and sometimes relationship problems are very practical. And having an outside perspective is helpful no matter their relationship status.
@carolinekirkland43553 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how supportive these ladies are of each other
@victoriaduran60024 жыл бұрын
I never give advice on anyone's relationship unless I'm asked, or unless we are VERY close and I see them struggling.
@allcreatedbyonegoodgod.1564 жыл бұрын
Tamera was a *I Love Lucy* moment in this clip... hilarious 😆😆😆
@tarawrr204 жыл бұрын
Ah the good old days! Bring back more of this kind of Girl Chat!
@kyliee.c4 жыл бұрын
i am single and my friends tell me i give one of the best advise. i think it's because i hear their full story and use my knowledge, it's not that i've been through what they are going through but i tell my friends that they sould follow my advise if it makes sense to them. also i am capable to look past my perspective and imagine myself in other people and i try to do and say things that don't hurt people. i think that is a point aswell. and also if you are in a place where you are maybe in a fight or somthing asking a third person is not bad. most of the time a third person can look at it from both sides. while if you are emotional you sometimes can not do that. i am not that old i am only 18. but i aways listen and observe . my parents are actually divorced i've been around happily married people and around people who are not happy together. so i see and observe and i ask a lot that makes me know how you feel and what you want and i will try to come up with solutions for you. if that makes sense.
@halosandhorns83304 жыл бұрын
Go jennie 👏👏 I must I must I must increase my bust. We EARNED these 😂
@michelledyess1382 жыл бұрын
Always loved The Real! This show has evolved so much! There cast of 2021 is soooo right!🥰
@stylinartist24 жыл бұрын
I've been married for 13 years and I don't like it when people ask me for advice. It's hard for me to give advice, when everyone's relationship and personalities are different from my husband and mine. I say to just learn from your mistakes and sometimes going with the flow isn't a bad thing.
@jenn45934 жыл бұрын
That sounds like really good advice :) Thanks :)
@Vic82toire4 жыл бұрын
And just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they're automatically good at it or they have automatically good advice.
@PapaGilbert184 жыл бұрын
Offering a different perspective is always good imo. You don’t have to take my advice but I’m going to put it out there.
@IqraKhan-vc7lo4 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, I'm single and my friends come to me for advice, especially relationship wise because I view both point and am analytical.
@jennyneutron67483 жыл бұрын
This was one of the best segments I have watched in a long time
@JordanMarsh14 жыл бұрын
15:00 The funniest part of the whole video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TFC32344 жыл бұрын
It would be cool if they gave the audience the mocktail version of the drinks. Like in a small cocktail cup!
@Maruzien_Health2 жыл бұрын
I love these ladies! Can't stop watching them, won't stop! Miss Tam she is so sweet. Jeannie I've watched the longest from when she did the 10 years younger or one of them tv shows. Love her voice when she was excited about he bunion Insta account 🤣.
@oluwakemibraimah55454 жыл бұрын
Tamera and Loni look so lovely, the hairstyles suit both of them perfectly well. Wisdom can come from a child even sometimes a drunken person. It’s actually good to listen to different perspectives and you will be able to decipher what you want to do. But ensure it’s coming from an unbias person.
@TITLEWA4 жыл бұрын
Just because someone is single doesn't mean they've never been in a relationship. If they are someone who has been in a serious relationship before, then they have clearly learned something from their experiences and are in a place to share... Now I would personally never take advice from someone who has never been in a serious relationship before. But with all this being said, I do understand why a married person would only feel comfortable receiving advice from other married people.
@nyshawn92264 жыл бұрын
Jeanie didn’t say that at first/it was a running thing about Adrienne not understanding stuff because she wasn’t married...you should always take advice if that person giving it loves you...I think ultimately you decide
@riqifountain41464 жыл бұрын
I love this entire group 😂❤️❤️
@themandinkafamily4 жыл бұрын
How u gonna say cheers to audience and dont make them drinks. Rude
@Kevlar3334 жыл бұрын
I always end any advice I give with iidk yall in love though idk how that work rreally" lol it really helps with the liability
@Username00294 жыл бұрын
That liability is so crucial LO
@RTRRT3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@cece19072 жыл бұрын
I always wonder why my married friends come to me for advice even though I’m single 🤷♀️
@q.cherie15074 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know Loni had been divorced/married 🤔 Interesting. I wonder what her take on marriage is
@Iamniko__4 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is a cup overpouring for us! #grateful
@faiza64594 жыл бұрын
Hi! I love this show and the ladies. is it possible for you to list the shops from which the ladies are wearing their clothes? I would love to shop their wardrobes. Thank you for keeping it REAL!
@charliem69864 жыл бұрын
The fact that Jeanie was talking about a smart mirror that tell you how you look immediately made me think of London on suite life of zack and cody
@LuanaSantos-rl4sb2 жыл бұрын
When you got married you live under different circumstances that single people have no idea. If the person was already married and it's now single, then it's ok.but saying "just break up" it's not really useful for all situations, also single friends have their own interests in mind, being friends just like before, crush, jealousy, loneliness... I love my single friends but they have no idea how much work and dedication goes into a relationship and it's their fault. I wouldn't ask a person without kids how it it's to have kids, so same thing.
@donne327014 жыл бұрын
Hahahhahahhaha the face Loni made at the vibration bra lol . Love you guys . I need one of the bra tho
@justjared20094 жыл бұрын
"You're not about to outdo me, heifer!" - Loni HAHAHA!!!
@breadandbutter55122 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favourite episode of all time. Whatever drink they’re having I want one.
@marcushammond69014 жыл бұрын
It depends. The application of the principle to the specifics of the relationship will vary, but any advice/perspective given based in principles will always be relevant.
@dixical39944 жыл бұрын
I love every women in this panel!
@carshathomas11154 жыл бұрын
Yes, those with godly discerning wisdom. Married or not, single person who has wise discerning wisdom can shed some light on the wrong and or what is seen from outside looking in, in a positive uplifting and godly ways