Changyu has been doing videos like this before with this project and he was always a delight to watch. this time it was particularly entertaining as both women didn't recognise him being one of the actors from the clip. the American was very natural, honest and open while the Thai claimed to watch BL every day but still displayed overexcited behaviour, didn't know what the 'Y' stands for and at 6:16 thinks 'Thai won't care if a guy likes another guy or a girl.' given the general attitude, this is a bold claim - or she lives in a fantasy world. 🤭

@@embreis2257 I think it's reasonable to assume she's right in saying they dont really care if guy or girl in Thailand. The place is almost 100% buddhist, and they accept red light districts and "lady boys" so there's not some deep rooting religion or such that must change in their morality to accept gay relationships (i assume you can still find bad stuff over there though, but comparing it to countries that REALLY hate gays).

@biunique he was in the Hisman first season? I haven't watched it yet so didn't know. I saw him on this channel a few times and he seemed really nice, and like he was a great guy.

@@heykay5610 Buddhism seems the least offended religion by the concept of same-sex relationships but that doesn't change the fact Thai society is very conservative and many elders are strongly opposed to any changes in the law. how else could you explain that despite frequent representations in BL shows there is no legal way of getting married as a same-sex couple in Thailand? Japanese lawmakers are very hostile too. Taiwan is still the only Asian country.

@@honeymilkteahoneymilktea3981 discipline z vampire!

Except Thai BLs are just shallow moneygrab... They don't actually care about the LGBT community. The actors are not even gay, some homophobic even. Korean and Taiwanese BLs are way better in my opinion.

Wait until he watches KinnPorsche !

And only friend 😂

And "The Sign". Its a masterpiece

​@@isabellechevereau7539how about tharntype😅😅

I knowwww eee

Speaking about Thai BL, The Sign is airing right now, want to watch it together 👀

Same here! She honestly just seems so fun to hang out with 😂🩵

me tooooo

I know right I love her reaction

True! I'm so much like her it was so funny and exciting XD

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Not "gender" *sex

​​@@borchsupremacyNo, it's gender, because there are couples of different sexes but the same gender who identify as a gay couple, and those of the same sex but different genders who identify as straight couples. Your sex is just your biology, and doesn't necessarily determine your gender identity or sexual orientation.

@@vagrant_ai It's same sex, that is the definition of the genre. 2 Boys or for GL 2 girl, and they all see themselves as boys falling in love with a boy, or girls falling in love with girls. Not always even identifying as gay, so orientation is not even that much discusted or present. For projects that have body swapping between saxes in asia they catalog it as gender bender... it's a different category, with different characteristics. Also the things you mentioned are more of an American buble thing, because in Asia they kind of have their own way they identify... it's more free, in America things are all forced in little "boxes". Here in Europe depending on country, things are again different.

Not really. Here's the thing. When a child is born it's gender is based on what chromosomes it gets and something like that basically. And boys are born if the baby has XY chromosomes or and girls are born if XX chromosomes are chosen. So in short people call boys Y chromosome and girls X chromosomes. Basically since it's love between boys they call it at series Y

@@uswrxueyang It makes sense, basicly a love between people with "y" chromosome. Are you Thai? Because I want to make sure I learne this info right, on Thai forums when I asked they told me the "yaoi" one, because they said the Japanese industry inspired the Thai industry, also there are some Thai BL taken from mangas. Pls tell me if you know the exact answer. :)

I felt the same way. It's like my younger self, only he's Korean. I wish I could make it easier for him.

Yeah, it seemed like although he had pleasant, friendly interactions with all three women, it was more like meeting a fan with the BL fangirl who kept screaming and likely fetishizes his love life, but making a real friend with the American girl who'd never watched BL before but is used to actually living among gay people, rather than just squealing at fantasies about them on TV. 😅

I was proud of her for that, too, and grateful.

The thing is that I've seen this vampire kdrama and didn't remember him on the dating show.

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As soon as I saw her reaction my first thought was "fellow fujoshi..!"😂😂😂

So they don't bully or judge gay people???

@@makatoshinkaiNot at all. Making fun of others orientation in Thailand is very impolite and shame. And because people feel normal about same-sex couples, bullying or judging other people is wrong and folks around them will not tolerate it.

@@TheEarthMD you are from Thailand???

@@makatoshinkaiI’m. And that why I can confirm that the comment above is right

@@makatoshinkai Of course, not everyone can accept it, but I think it's a very small percentage of people who still can't accept these things in Thai society. In my entire life, 27 years of existence, I have never encountered a gay or lesbian or transgender person who was physically assaulted. Bullied to the point of suicide or murder just because of being lgbtq, at least in the society where I live. which is the northernmost countryside of Thailand I define them as having fun. One thing I notice when these people are there is always fun and joy. For me, I have no questions about them, I just feel that they are people and can choose to live their lives the way they want.

Because he lives in a conservative society, and he's shy. It's hard to find love in the shadows. 😩

what the name of the drama??

Bro I see you everywhere ahshsbs slayyy

Yeah, Grindr is almost entirely just ppl looking to hookup or fantasize in chat, and never meet. You might have better luck with regular dating apps that let you choose to search for same sex dates, but even better is to just put yourself out there in real life activities and events where you could meet people naturally and have conversations that help you figure out if they might be gay/bi and if you like them, at the same time. Wishing you luck and love from USA! 😘

@@vagrant_ai Thank you so much for your advice, friend! I'mma try and see :) figuring out someone gay/bi is so tricky lol 🤣

@@meisterox6733 It can be, especially if you're in the closet, but I would recommend you just try to smile, be friendly, and actively listen (don't just wait for them to stop talking so you can respond, but like pay attention to what they say and ask follow-up questions about what they said) to people you like/are attracted to, and then once you've spent some time with them and gotten to know them a bit, you should be able to pick up a vibe if they're gay or bi. If not, you could just invite them to go do an activity you think they'd enjoy with you sometime. If they react with a smile, and agree to go with just you (not a group thing), there's a decent chance they're into you. Compliment them when you meet, flirt some more while you're together, and pay attention to see how they react and if they flirt back at all. If you somehow still aren't sure by the end of the meetup if they're into you like that, just bring it up during conversation when you're about to say goodbye. Say something like, "I had a really good time with you today! Would you like to get together again sometime?" I really doubt any completely straight guy would get to this point and be so oblivious to all the sudden interest you have in them and flirting you're doing, and agree to a second 1v1 outing/date with you, as it's clear courtship at this point. All that being said, if you get tired of spending all that time pursuing guys you're not sure are even interested, you could take a shortcut and just be straightforward about it early on, and ask if you can take them out on a date. Their response will tell you everything you need to know up front, and it sounds better than someone they just met asking them what their sexual orientation is, lol. After all, they may be too afraid to answer truthfully if they're unsure about your intentions or reasons for asking that. P.S. DISCLAIMER: I'm an American giving advice for American gay dating culture. I don't know if things are done differently in your country. Best wishes!

From the things I've seen, a lot of the younger Koreans are ready for things to change. It gives me a lot of hope that their society will become more accepting soon.

@@evantesseract737 im both hopefully and skeptical but i wanna be realistic as well. Only time will tell but for now the things ive seen also may it be on media or not there is always hope and i think this discussion will not end here. Theyre moving in a right direction no question on it and i for one wanted to keep it that way. But by the way nice input.

Did you watch Gameboys?? Hisman2

i think if she is even a new fan she definitely saw HisMan2, we all did afterall! @@abhinavkumar7443

Wow. So you've seen over 1,000 dramas and films. That's amazing.

@@abhinavkumar7443isnt hisman more of a reality show

So sad...does she know you're pan?

@@vagrant_ai Nope, exactly for this reason lol. She’s very religious and she’s talked about LGBTQ+ in a bad light in the past, mainly because I kept bringing it up, so I can’t come out to her (at least, not yet)

@@arcanesidus_ I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully she eventually changes her mind and supports you after you feel secure enough to come out, and she realizes she needs to do and be better to maintain her relationship with you. Best wishes. 🤞🏼 ❤️ 🫂