You are sure right!!!

I swear only an intelligent person will understand Ebuka

Exactly! That's what I came to the comment section to type and I saw Uv already typed it! He's highly filled with Divine intelligence!! 🔥

​@@MrZoszosExactly, he looks like a guy that would be committed to his wife and I pray he finds the right woman that will give him peace. Also, I pray he will never be like the men who patronize girl talker or cross the path of the other one that's looking for 1 million. Awon, obirin ole jatijati, ti won ni lo wa ise se afi ki won ma da ile ru

@@adedejibabatunde2181I tell you!

are you trying to say someone is a trouble maker

How is she psychologically intelligent?

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rigggghtttt

someone that see can't work a miracle to open the eyes of blind person. talking to a wall

He got tired at some point 🤣🤣🤣.

😆 🤣 😂 😹

He is making no sense. He should review the video with a vegan eye and make changes with his approach.

​@Kupefilms I thought as much. He contradicts himself a lot but wants to sound smart.

❤ hi

You cannot share equal love to two different people…..one must be loved the most

​@Kupefilms only a wise person can comprehend what Ebuka was saying ❤

Ebuka this Ebika that, girl talker is speaking facts.

Is alot of lessons in the things she's saying

But God's love is transactional ....u have to love him and obey his commandments

@@obimc-anthony8140 NO. While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us and even now, he gives a choice to either choose him and live or dont and be damned

@michaelfreesoul5636 how did you know that? Lemme guess because the book told you?

Yes, she's completely broken and needs therapy fast, because she will look back a few years from now only to realize that what she thought will give her happiness is actually destroying her the more

He is indeed

I'm so proud of him too

Not smart... Deep. Circumspective. Wise. Grounded. He possesses the gravitas of a thinker. Kudos to Ebuka! 👍

​@@TadeMakun Very well described..... absolutely! 👍

@@TadeMakunI second you but those qualities make him smart as well

Very wise man I give it to him

I will say He is an economist as well.

Just because someone says what you want to hear doesn't make them wise. The others made valid points as well.

They think e verything should just about them. They don't know the reality about life and they don't want to learn.

That’s the reality unfortunately, humans don’t want positive things, negativity sells and it’s exciting. The ball is in the court of men. It’s up to men to stick to thier wives . But the question is ..can they?

facts

​@@Khadija-fc9dr Don't worry dear. One way or the other, They're soon gonna learn....the hard way. Cos what you sow, you will surely reap!

No it's always being part of us human being just this generation is more open about it

Do you get??!! So much wisdom and intelligence

This Guy is so blessed

he isnt speaking like someone that has a lot of life experiences.....He doesnt understand Love...u can love multiple ppl at the same time.

@@a.k.omanagement6155 He has read lots of irrelevant books, conflicting everything.

Ok😂😂😂

@@a.k.omanagement6155Of course, just as you can divide your cup of water into 20 leaking cups

​@@a.k.omanagement6155Ok you're the smart one. Happy now?

Deep fact but she states truth about life .. then u get to learn from the both side of life

I don't she really meant all those stuff she said

@@obiezukosisochukwu6436 she does

True but ezinne is vital too, and nedu is a very necessary evil that the honest bunch needs too

make una no start.

Don't spoil the team o.. Biko😂😂😂

@@mosesnnamah8564Nedu is a necessary evil I swear!!!😂😂😂 I wished he was around for this episode

As nedu no dey for this episode, I like am oooooo 😂, if you check very well you go see say no distraction every body just dey calm dey answer the question.😊

Ebuka is not intelligent, Is the dumbest trying to defend white man culture. This is reality (Africa) everyone is entitled to is opinion.

How can I like this twice this is my thought exactly you can feel anything for anyone and that’s ebuka’s point as well but that should not be the determining factor of whether you go into a relationship with them because it will not work. Your values should be the determining factor which if they’re faulty will lead you wrong so that’s what people should focus on and seeing who and what aligns with their values. Not the other way round not following feelings for someone and then forcing them to align with your values it won’t work

❤🙏🏿💪

Keep preaching 😂😂you sef u sabi wetin love and relationship means you will just open mouth wa

Married women should listen more to someone who says she's been hurt in the past ,so now she has decided to assist married men in hurting other women?? She's just selfish n wicked bc whatever she wants to have with these men, she can have that lots of single guys out there, and not be a reason for someone's pain. So she is afraid to be the woman inside, so it's better she becomes the tormentor of those who have chosen to be inside.

Exactly! I think she's a very 'real' person in the sense that she was tackling the question from a practical standpoint however the guy was coming from an ideal standpoint.

Right ✅️

@@franchescaasamoah3046the truth is love is a choice and is Intentional, with this you will Know that you can actually love more than one person equally at the same time. Now the problem most people have is if the resources is available for that

They do not understand anything about love.

Ikr, cus what are they saying? Is not equivalent to feelings not to talk of love They just want someone to show them materialistic life

they are lost

Why has no man married her? They use and dump her😂😂😂😂. She has been disappointed so many times. She is a hurt and broken soul.She has nothing to offer

What??? It’s a simp like you will like to marry her and tomorrow you will be all over social media crying and complaining.You see a red flag and you want to enter???

I swear if women were like her marriage for they last and he for they sweet even the way she dey talk I dey feel am

@@starkjunior yet many of your mothers are like that but what did your fathers repay them with

you can never get her at home

I don’t agree with you. You can live as many people as you want and it is love bro.

for ur small mind u dey pray for poverty my brother go hustel

​@@juliuskarmacomedyandcreati7699God bless your soul so you will get peace amen

​@@juliuskarmacomedyandcreati7699God bless your soul so you will get peace in your life

​@@juliuskarmacomedyandcreati7699God bless your soul so you will get peace in your life

AMEN

Unfortunately, even after forgiveness, prices will be paid. She's a nice person, she has let herself to b used the the enemy and she obviously don't want to be advised.

😂😂

But thats her truth and ppl should be allowed to learn from their truth​@ethelyolande

@@jennifernnoli8240 only she's not learning. She didn't come out to say it's something she's doing and learning a better way. She's pointing it out as a right way and is justifying it, that's the issue. When a woman says this or says she does this as a job, other women say it's her truth. But if someone came and said they steal or they kill and it's their truth, they enjoy it, will you keep the same energy. In this life, and in almost all religions, there are things are are wrong. Both morally, spiritually and by law. No body is perfect. It's different when someone can admit to a lifestyle theyvare living to be bad, but they are learning to be better, than when that person is justifying it and using other people's problems to tell u why it's ok. Someonday another will come and say they prefer their own kids, and you will be clapping in the name of its their truth. And I know people will ask what about those husbands. It's even worst behavior from the husband, but we are talking about her cuz she's the person online justifying it. Now let's use u as an example, u are a woman, if that girl can justify it as her truth, it means the husbands can also justify it as their truths. If ur husband came out and told you that's his truth, or if your sisters or friends husband, or if your dad came to say that's their truth, or your married son came out to say the same thing. As in they are enjoy the woman outside and that's how they want to live while being married to you, your friend, sister, mother, daughter, will you keep that same energy?

@@ethelyolande now perfectly said. The truth is far different from Her truth and also different from My truth. I am not her and can never be her. She is coming from a place . And I won't judge her because me gan no be Saint. We strive to be better. For your scenario you painted omo My energy Will be far different because I don't share. Mine is mine. And won't want to even have the idea of sharing smth as personal as a spouse with others, but is it the same with others, obviously not hence polygamy exist. But it's great to have an open mind to issues. Knowing that life isn't just black and white but Grey exist.

Sincerely

Exactly, she believes that the life she's living is love,when it is completely transactional, as she narrated two such transactional occasions in her relationship with men. There's a deep hurt lying somewhere within her and this is her coping mechanism

Exactly my thoughts 👍

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Honestly Ebuka came to show with an arrogant mindset. He was excessively theoretical and exhibited a lot of inexperience. Though he sounded moral, but he was talking a lot of nonsense.

Thought I was the only one who observed this

They have zero values

If she gets to that point

True

But all the things she said are simple life decisions when you are flirting without a heart to love. It’s normal, the only thing that makes one change from such life is God and the choice to make heaven. People like this are ashamed of being heart broken and they expect less from who they chose to be with. They have 50/50 trust or no trust. Only those who are like them will know that they are vulnerable in their invulnerability 😅 They seem tough and strong Always leading Just because they believe it’s hard to control the urge of flirting, so they chose to nourish their wants while satisfying others and being the lead in the game at the same time: and not being caught heart broken. So even when she’s married, she can’t trust her husband 100% There must be room for “ I was expecting it” Who she is, isn’t new or strange. The only solution is God and retirement 😅

@@ndianaabasistephen9756Well said!!!! I totally agree

I wish I could understand her like u do, all I see is a mean n bitter woman who has been hurt, n then decides that oh yes I should make other people feel the same hurt. She wants to have fun and live her life but it has to be with married men, when there are thousands of single n unserious guys outside she can do that with. Her point for going after single men I just don't get

Nah...he makes some good points but made a lot of blunders which reveals his life inexperiences or lack of knowledge!

​@@emexokezie7796Exactly, he's very inexperienced. 😀 😀.

U go just open mouth waah dey cap gibberish, if u watch this from beginning to end u go know say Ebuka was very theoretical and logically, plus very smart too.​@@emexokezie7796

Very intelligent...for those that can relate.

Ebuka is intelligent but landing his points was the shaking part but then u can see where he is coming from ❤

Only women abi?

Pls it's not prayer oh, You have to do the work, Bring out time,do the work and be consistent

What will the man be doing while you putting in all this work and effort?​@@chiomamadu7305

Men should pray for who

​@chiomamadu7305 a woman who has househelps or the one who foots the man's bill,bear him children,works & does the housechores.

Well said

Thank you, God bless you

I dey tell you 💯

Some of them nobody showed them anything, everybody wants to be woke by force.

I was going to say that ​@@cynthiaoparah6176

Transactional love everywhere fr 😂

I think you are now the goat, because He said you can (Not) Love two people at the sametime.

😂😂😂😂... so because as a married woman, other men no dey enter your eye??

This statement isn’t balanced. Both parties in a marriage should be intentional in making it work. It shouldn’t be one person trying so the husband wouldn’t cheat.

A cheat will always be a cheat No matter what you do A man who is discipline will never cheat

What if you have a man that doesn't help you with anything? My dear just live that thing and pray to God, that marriage will not make you lose your purpose on earth

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If you lack self control/discipline that means you done love yourself

So correct my brother

I thought that self discipline is a facet of love

Self control is a facet of love buy you know the same self control in not just an entanglement or in Ebuka's words an expression of love. Self control can be about anger management not necessarily just sex or cheating. Cheating is not a negation of love or it's opposite. Philosophical cheating can be argue as a sign of love or in Ebuka's word an expression of love.

Cheater don drop quote😂

I also saw it on Facebook which I found it interesting. That’s why I came here to watch the full video. I even had to download the full video in case I can’t have the time to watch it now.

Society only creates more confusion in terms of love.

Nedu will ask "how many married men don wipe you"? Na celebrities 😅?

I miss Nedu on this particular episode

​@isuduedokpa7974 I like nedu 😂😂😂

@@isuduedokpa7974😂😂😂😂

This conversation is too mature for nedu

She's broken my dear...

Pesin wey no get her self.. One day she go look back shake her head in regret

"It really says a lot'' Am actually disappointed in my gender(as a female) Am hearing men with positive mindset with good morals while the ladies have not built their moral standard😢 Everyone has had different experience but that doesn't take away moral standard. we have a lot of work to do about our gender.

​@@temitopevictoria4507They are ready to settle for anything in the name of love. It's a shame

Exactly

I respectfully disagree. Ebuka was out of his depth on the conversation.

@@rngwu69 Really? Try have this same conversation with 4 women whose opinion and views contradict yours. You may not do better. Seems you've not had argument with a woman before. I see how they were drifting around the conversation, making it more shallow but the dude was the only fiber holding the discussion straight. W must give Ebuka his credits.

Why won't you like her when she lives for men like you.

if we cant fine a problem in immorality where do we get the audacity to blame our African presidents. lets stop promoting negativity. at this level our children are finished.

Exactly. She ‘s just a good digger, looking to reap where she didn’t sow. She spoke from a place of pain and hurt

Fact

Exactly 💯 she is talking reality

Reality, yes... but nonetheless quite dispiriting. But 'the other woman' is very self aware & lovable. I pray she'll find (rather, that God will give her!) a better deal than she's set out to achieve in love and life.

With age, people will have experiences. I now see why women mature faster than men. There is morality, there is reality. She is very real. As a man, I used to be like Ebuka until I saw life for what the reality was.

She blunt but always contradicting herself which to me makes her dumb just using phonetics to fine tune it

@@kenwilliams9060 my sister people like to deserve themselves,

yes..she is honest and blunt..if u meet her in person..she dont lie..she will be blunt with u..if you like be angry

I concur

@@feliciawilliams4407 like angry that what , lol she sounds lost I feel sorry for her and she has serious esteem issues ohh she is happy that she able to destroy someone home . lol delusional to be honest

God bless you for this...hes way ahead....he defines his analogy from origin making it simple to understand....for the ladies...well lemme reserve my opinion

So true

Just because someone says what you want to hear doesn't make them wise. The others made valid points as well.

@@your-neighbor Respectfully I’m not listening to people that will justify sleeping with another persons husband for what they will get in return. (Not even to marry oooo) just to open legs for money. Where is the dignity, where is the self respect, where is the shame?. You too you have a mother don’t you? Or if one day you have a daughter/ maybe you do now. So if they now decide to be sleeping with another persons husband because they want money. You will be proud Abi? Is this not what ashewos do? So what is the difference between them and those who stand on the street? Pls tell me.

@@imade4951 Firstly, that's not the only talk on the podcast, the personal highlight for me is the argument based on loving multiple people at the same time. On the married men matter the lady is just portraying the reality of today and being true to herself except we want to lie and feign ignorance that it's not happening in our present world. No one is right and no one is wrong, it's all based on perception.

They're in regret bc of people like her who are aiding and indulging their husbands

I am surprised. She's realistic. I don't know her background but she sounds like someone who understands sociology

He sounds so interesting n intelligent

Omoh.. You will have a rethink

@adebusayoobasa1119 you need a rethink. That's a breath of toxic air.

Air can not be a fresh air, if your mental is right

She's the one made me subscribe to the podcast. I'm from Trinidad and Tobago, much love in the house!