Tammy Nelson, a mom of 3, tells the story of why refused to give up her window seat for a middle seat for another mom to sit next to her kids. #travel #moms #gma
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@maxpayne741911 ай бұрын
The fact she was sitting in your seat before she had even asked tells you everything you need to know about her character.
@patricias512211 ай бұрын
And I love the " oh, it's just right here!" middle seat explanation
@vietcongbuondanbannuocphan179111 ай бұрын
She was the seat robber.
@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.--11 ай бұрын
Just sitting there in the first place, the answer is simply NO!
@savethechildren211 ай бұрын
💯
@djkid2211 ай бұрын
yep! she should have found the person before the flight and asked, asked the flight personnel, or simply booked it that way in the reservation!!! She just assumed she would get her way and went ahead and did it without permission. They say "better to ask for forgiveness than permission" but not in this situation!
@yvettetorres782911 ай бұрын
This lady didn't need to explain to us why she wanted the window seat she paid for. The gall and entitlement of people to just do whatever they want these days is incredible.
@francinec904511 ай бұрын
You would be surprised how the media would usually side with a mother regardless of the truth!
@rw830311 ай бұрын
Simply unbelievable the absolute gall to be upset about a spot you didn't pay for Right on for keeping your seat. Hell if it means so much pay in advance for the seat you want. Geez people.
@akhong196911 ай бұрын
agreed
@CrackGolden11 ай бұрын
That was my first thought. She doesn't need to 'need' the seat for a health issue or whatever. It's HER seat.
@redzoom785711 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@user-mh4vk3mk7t12 күн бұрын
She owes no explanation. She is right!!!
@vickiekunau5154Ай бұрын
I had not flown very often, and when my husband and I decided to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon, I booked the tickets. The plane from LA to Hawaii had us separated by the aisle, but we were both on the aisle seats, and were perfectly content to see and talk to each other on the way there. The lovely man seated next to my husband in a window seat found out we were newlyweds and said he would gladly change seats with me so that I could sit with my husband. I told him, oh no, you have a great window seat, that's fine. He insisted and I changed with him. I've never forgotten his kindness. We never once thought about even asking him to change seats with me, sitting an aisle apart we were fine! It isn't the end of the world, lol. This man was so very kind to us.
@catherinesinclair77274 күн бұрын
David Sedaris wrote a great short story about being asked to switch seats. Btw this woman seems a bit smug to me
@IndyandJazmin2 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your honeymoon flight story with us, because I was starting to get a little bit depressed by all the pro-flyer versus pro-mom discussion on here, lol. God bless. :)
@jonjon621Күн бұрын
You were just lucky that day..
@defaultusername114513 сағат бұрын
I think the guy just wanted an aisle seat lol
@ruidias633310 ай бұрын
I was once asked by a guy to swap my prepaid aisle seat with a middle seat so he could sit with his girlfriend. I said “sure…for fifty bucks” which is about what I paid for the pre-selection. He said that was ridiculous and after a little back and forth he called me a sucker for paying it. I just said I’m the sucker sitting next to your girlfriend and you’re the guy who just confirmed it’s not worth fifty bucks.
@daisyadele96710 ай бұрын
That's a good one 😂😂
@angeladyson62110 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@1ACL10 ай бұрын
The best! Way to go!
@AFAskygoddess10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Internet award of the day!!!! 🏆
@justcallmesuzzie10 ай бұрын
That response made me laugh so hard! It also sent his gf a message that sitting next to her was not worth $50. WTH?
@SWog6172 ай бұрын
This woman owes nobody an explanation for why she wanted to sit in the seat she picked and paid for.
@sallyolsen-ug1mzАй бұрын
Amen
@notmebutyou8350Ай бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💯💯💯💯💯
@pstudioz8835Ай бұрын
Exactly
@yourlifeisagreatstoryАй бұрын
True. And maybe ask to take someone’s seat… but why is this a news story to begin with? Must’ve been a slow day.
@yourlifeisagreatstoryАй бұрын
“It was a nonevent after..” seems like it wasn’t an event at all. News line: Woman seating in wrong seat is asked to move.
@carollyntАй бұрын
My last two flights someone was sitting in the seat I paid extra for. One couple asked me if I wanted to switch seats and I firmly said “no, I paid extra for an aisle seat.” It’s unreal how rude passengers have become.
@JackIsNotInTheBox5 күн бұрын
Were you ready to fight them if they refuse to give it up?
@BetterMe9815 күн бұрын
I fly often, several times a month. I've not heard of aisle seats that cost extra. But yes, people are entitled and rude as hell.
@ceej934 күн бұрын
@@JackIsNotInTheBox you don't have to fight lol you call the attendant and if they make a big deal about it they get kicked off the plane. simple. this lady could have done that if the woman kept pushing it.
@ceej934 күн бұрын
and if the person that's trying to steal your seat is dumb enough to threaten you or assault you well then they can enjoy sitting in a cell lol
@ericadriscoll105913 күн бұрын
That woman could have paid to sit with her kids. It’s not your responsibility to give up your selected seat.
@matts934511 ай бұрын
Can say with 100% certainty that the mother's teens were overjoyed not to have to sit next to their mother.
@bkm279711 ай бұрын
Exactly,lol!
@Felice_Enellen11 ай бұрын
Yeah, given that she's lazy enough not to book in advance to select an entire row, and is selfish enough to think she just unilaterally swap a -worst, least expensive- middle seat for the -best, most expensive- window seat, hoping that "it's easier to get forgiveness than permission" would pay off (probably again after many other times), tells me she's not a great person. They were probably totally embarrassed by her shamelessness. Narcissism, whaddya gonna do. If not for the kids I would have shown her face and shamed her publicly.
@californianorma87611 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Baymax-xs6jw11 ай бұрын
Correct!
@louisevanderlinde859011 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@c00mgoblin5 ай бұрын
“Your poor planning does not constitute an emergency for me.” It’s shocking how often people’s jaws fall open.
@Jessicas11114 ай бұрын
Using this... lol
@dla13074 ай бұрын
Same!
@VixenVoice4 ай бұрын
What an airline bumps people or change their seat that’s not planning errors. Airlines are supposed to say families together, especially with underage children which under 16 is still under age. So that was their error not the mothers. But if the kids were being kids, everyone will be asking Where is the mother?
@TheBengalimamba4 ай бұрын
that line is from Family Guy
@lexibryson664 ай бұрын
I don’t think air likes do that because me and my husband planned and paid extra to have our seats together we are going in may of this year with our 2 year old
@lolabear678810 күн бұрын
Good for you for keeping your seat.
@vikingkitesurfacademyschoo805412 күн бұрын
Lack of preparation on her part doesn't constitute an emergency on your part. Good for you sticking up for yourself.
@jackibrown52152 ай бұрын
Stop explaining why you didn’t trade. You paid for the ticket, she was wrong.
@simonsays505025 күн бұрын
Obviously the woman did nothing wrong here. But am I the only one who think this is the most non-story ever?
@russell482423 күн бұрын
It call human disecy You obviously have none
@cosmicwinters23 күн бұрын
She doesn't need a reason to not trade but why does that mean she should stop explaining? It just spreads awareness and empathy. I am the kind of person who would have probably backed down from such an awkward situation but hearing her story would make me more comfortable to stand my ground too.
@staycool16320 күн бұрын
@@russell4824and you obviously can't spell
@-Ace-of-Spades-18 күн бұрын
@@cosmicwinters If you believe that a 4 minute YT video like this one is what it takes to find the confidence to be assertive then there are clearly other 'issues' to address.
@lizmc.103111 ай бұрын
As a single woman I am so sick and tired of people expecting me to sacrifice my well being just because I do not have children or a spouse. I am still important, I still matter! Too bad for the Mum, but it wasn’t the ladies responsibility to abide by the moms wishes! She should have planned better for her trip!
@juliabaum883211 ай бұрын
Yup! Too many people see single women as just larger versions of little girls to be bossed around and talked down to.
@Andytheevien11 ай бұрын
Shout out to the feminist child-free women!
@doxoxo77911 ай бұрын
Some People with kids really think others need to inconvenience themselves to make their parenting easier.
@marisaw515011 ай бұрын
@@juliabaum8832 yep, my experiences are with males who see me solo and think they can dominate me... uh no. Then that really upsets their ego because I am not timid and submit.
@1flash357111 ай бұрын
@@marisaw5150 Ewwww...What a masculine women........I guess ALL males behave this way towards you???? Dominate you???? Reeeeeeeally???? This is why men don't approach people like you. Only those crude men do because of your attitude.
@user-tx8de4jf6sАй бұрын
People are obnoxious! Good for you for not moving!
@bobmusil14588 күн бұрын
Such an interesting story. I can’t believe not every TV station reports about this. Something similar happened to me once: I sat down in my seat and said hi to my neighbour. And he didn’t answer. Can you imagine? It happened five years ago and it still gives me the chills.
@gimmeabreak75316 күн бұрын
Actually, he was likely quite astute and recognised an annoying ahole when he saw one. Ever think of that scenario???
@ceej934 күн бұрын
@@gimmeabreak7531 LMAO
@dianenicholson39375 ай бұрын
Why do people automatically think because they have kids they have some kind of privilege? Good on you girl you deserve your seat I hope you got some rest.
@quickstep24085 ай бұрын
pulling the mom card. everyone has a card
@sunneedaze575 ай бұрын
I would want to travel with my children! Therefore I would book ahead and pay the extra money so I could!
@leejones9825 ай бұрын
Possibly because they don't want to pay a booking extra to pre book being together.It's the complete self interest/selfishness that gets me
@lauraw3pm5 ай бұрын
Entitlement
@ilaser40645 ай бұрын
Most of us don't.... The people that do were selfish and arrogant BEFORE they had children.
@latebloomer71913 ай бұрын
News flash: you don't need a reason to actually use the seat you booked. And, it's just rude to purposely sit in a seat that's not yours.
@marybusch6182Ай бұрын
Spot on. Its just plain RUDE. But these people go right on the offence.
@marcelchagnon4960Ай бұрын
Agree your seat is your
@Thelilliput1Ай бұрын
There's such a thing as being humble and allowing a mother to sit by her children. Rude are you for being so selfish after the mom was trying to ask nicely for a seat.
@SmooveBee1Ай бұрын
or hillbilly ignorant .. or playing dumb. the middle seat is '$0 added" now ... no one wants it... gaming for the better seat when you know the middle seat is the $0USD added seat ... is intentional or ignorant or playing really dumb .. one of those three things; i know people who don't know this, too.
@budisutanto5987Ай бұрын
@@Thelilliput1 * As long as it's a window seat - Oh, it's right here, pointing middle seat A man might trip, fall, break a few bones, after the plane land.
@melissastreeter22Ай бұрын
You never need to apologize for wanting what you paid for.
@barbaraduvall8591Ай бұрын
You did the right thing. She didn’t book the seats together and thought she would just guilt someone into letting her have theirs.
@williamj.dovejr.861311 ай бұрын
She encountered a person who gets her way and she stood up for herself... good for her.
@maymoon885111 ай бұрын
Don't think that was the case airlines suck!
@AMYV311 ай бұрын
What did the mother do. But moved when she was asked too. It’s only this women who said she was unhappy. She didn’t say anything so why is this women even talking about it. I’d offer my seat as a mother. And would have no problem giving up my window seat I love too. Why because normal people want families sitting together. It’s not just about sitting to visit. I’m sorry but I want my daughter or twin sons close to me if there is ever a time for that it’s a plane ride. They can be scary fir children. And adults. Let’s be real. Remember here the mother said nithing and moved. Period
@johnpeters979311 ай бұрын
@@maymoon8851 That was the case....and the airline did nothing wrong.
@rogerhelmkay650711 ай бұрын
@@AMYV3 She paid for a window seat she gets the window seat, The woman is just entitled and should not get her way. I would not of switched
@rondtastic554511 ай бұрын
You guys Got it all wrong. Where I come from we go out of our way to help mothers and children. Blonde lady is an evolving Karen. She isn’t full blown Karen yet, but soon enough she’ll be in a fast food restaurant blowing up the workers bc she has only had “90 minutes of sleep” or is working on a “big presentation”. Her issues supersede everyone else, the definition of a Karen.
@AUDACITY4Uphotographer11 ай бұрын
I’m a flight attendant and you definitely did the right thing for standing up for yourself. The ladies children were definitely old enough not require mom hovering over them. Kudos to you for not allowing her to low key bully you.❤✈️
@georgewagner778711 ай бұрын
I guess they probably have to give you training in that job to deal with these kinds of people. It's nice to travel but I'm not sure that's a job I'd want
@stellangios11 ай бұрын
Ikr? They're old enough to be home alone, they were fine with their mom being a single row behind!!
@nancyneyedly458711 ай бұрын
I agree, but you should not assume a child "looks" old enough to do something. Kids can have unseen issues, like autism, that could affect how they act or need to be treated long beyond how they may look for their age. Clearly that wasn't the case here, just saying, we can't assume someones abilities based on "looks." If that was this womans issue she most certainly would have ensured she was sitting with her kids. The mother in this case was acting entitled assuming she will just figure it all out on the plane, that her poor planning or not wanting to pay for seat priority could be someone elses problem.
@teedee64311 ай бұрын
If the children had special needs the parent can indicate that when booking and there are airline protocols to ensure they are together. It isnt a passengers or flight attendants responsibility. The seat was paid for and the woman had. a right to sit in her seat regardless of the kids.
@malumusera11 ай бұрын
Yes, but you know very well this is the airlines fault, they chargins for everything now.
@Native_loveАй бұрын
I hate people who are too cheap to buy the seats they want and have the NERVE to assume that everyone will immediately do what they want. Have some freakin tact and never assume that anyone owes you anything! Great job lady! You're my HERO!!!
@TarenaD16 сағат бұрын
I'm a mother, and I'm glad this woman stood her ground.
@pamelajohnson781310 ай бұрын
I read a comment once where a man paid for the front seat for the extra leg room. He was asked by the man next to him if he'd switch seats with his wife, who was several rows back. His reasoning was because his wife had their baby with her and needed the extra room. He said, no, I'm tall & paid for this space. If she needs more room to be comfortable, why haven't YOU switched seats with her? He didn't like that answer!😂
@nude_cat_ellie741710 ай бұрын
Bam!
@noinfo32610 ай бұрын
Brilliant! My father always did the same thing. He's 6'3" and no way he could fit in a normal seat other than the first one.
@giao238010 ай бұрын
Or they could have paid for a front seat knowing she needed more room?
@andiidoode10 ай бұрын
But really it's shocking, why didn't he switch with her??
@noinfo32610 ай бұрын
@@andiidoode Do you mean the passenger or the husband? The passenger paid extra so he could be comfortable on the flight. The husband, I'm not sure why he didn't switch seats with her. He should have taken the baby at least.
@jmm41082 ай бұрын
She was totally trying to gaslight you. I’m glad you stood up for yourself.
@jmm4108Ай бұрын
@@Mo-LoveMeForever why do you have to be a smart aleck or as I suspect you had to look up the word?ah
@jmm4108Ай бұрын
@@Mo-LoveMeForever College graduate? You’re a self-important eejit( go look it up).🤪🤪
@Pop-twist.Ай бұрын
@@Mo-LoveMeForeverjust because you graduated from college doesn’t mean you’re smart…as your I’ve just shown us all!! @jmm4108 used the term correctly!!
@ghostofbarkov1383Ай бұрын
@@Mo-LoveMeForever gender studies aint a real degree... you'd have the same odds of getting hired as a blue haired whale
@Planetdaz6829 күн бұрын
@@Mo-LoveMeForever Gaslight means to do something wrong to someone and then attempt to blame or shame the victim into thinking that it was their fault. That is exactly what the woman who stole the seat did to the person who she stole the seat from. @jmm4108 used the term correctly, and you're gaslighting them.
@user-fv1or3sq1nКүн бұрын
You were totally manipulated by this woman. She wanted it her way and you didnt matter. Im glad you were so nice and pleasant, but firm. Well done.
@charleneallison5006 күн бұрын
Why does she feel she needs to justify wanting to sit in her *_own_* seat? It's your seat, woman. You don't have to explain anything.🤷🏾♀️
@SarahAnn3310 ай бұрын
I 100% would refuse to switch too. Sick of entitled people.
@davidwalesby242610 ай бұрын
how was she entitled? she sat with her kids hoping the seat would remain empty and moved with no issue when called on it, the only entittled person here was the woman who made the passive aggressive video to make the woman look bad, you people i swear.
@klamb329310 ай бұрын
@@davidwalesby2426how many seat you ever paid for and gave up you geek.
@randomuserame10 ай бұрын
I would switch if she waited until I got on and then ASKED. But to just take my seat because you think you're someone special... The lessons you never forget are always the hard ones.
@AMPProf10 ай бұрын
Oo mee you single lolz
@HarperBennett-ul9cf10 ай бұрын
@@davidwalesby2426it was her seat she paid for it the entitled one was definitely the mom 😂
@paulawynn977910 ай бұрын
She kept asking the kids if they were fine to further "shame" you. They were probably GLAD to be away from her! Her entitlement is absolutely atrocious!!!
@susanc462210 ай бұрын
The teenage boy was probably absolutely mortified. Parents are embarrassing just for existing when you're that age!
@giraffeNana202310 ай бұрын
@paulawynn9779, And, to try to prevent her from sleeping
@mrb264310 ай бұрын
If I got a window Seat it's my seat ....
@hoteldesigner63922 ай бұрын
Love the son’s response!❤
@PeachGirl46Ай бұрын
She is a mom. People are missing the whole picture. She was panicking some. She was hoping she could get a swap. To me, she should have swapped with the older sibling or just watch a movie or something.
@worldstarmbАй бұрын
never reason with unreasonable people
@lucyandethel1Ай бұрын
I’m glad you stood up for yourself and the woman knew she wanted a different seat but she figured she just wouldn’t pay for it
@CarrieAKouri11 ай бұрын
Good for her! I'm happy to switch seats, but not for anyone who acts entitled about it.
@bkm279711 ай бұрын
Thinking she the mother was trying to manipulate her, glad she stood up for herself.
@mei604411 ай бұрын
Agree!
@leigilmore11 ай бұрын
I’m happy to switch, as long as it’s not a middle seat. 😅
@TheGustyNguyen11 ай бұрын
This Happened To Me Before , A Child Was Sitting In My Seat 😅
@8TheOry11 ай бұрын
Exactly, ask first!
@Chrisoula1711 ай бұрын
She knew where she and her children were sitting when she bought the tickets. Thank you for standing your ground.
@ariw8810 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@italiantraditionalcatholic239010 ай бұрын
No compassion
@heleneboisvert-gravelle808110 ай бұрын
No. She probably didn’t pay for the seats ahead of time. So the airline assigned the seats at check in.
@tellurye10 ай бұрын
@@heleneboisvert-gravelle8081 Yeah, thats what they said. She waited for the last minute and those were the only seats available. Then she has the nerve to blame the airlines. The entitlement! Man, she was much nicer than I wouldve been.
@jannalam686110 ай бұрын
Not really. They usually assign the seats when you check-in right before the flight.
@user-oj1cy9me4x16 күн бұрын
You did the right thing. She knew exactly what she was doing. That situation is on her for not booking the flight enough in advance to get three seats together.
@cmdrablearry3815Ай бұрын
You were 100% right. Well done for remaining so calm and polite throughout and Kudos to the other lady who backed you up. Oh and kudos to the kids who sound like they took the whole thing in their stride.
@iriding642 ай бұрын
I was flying american years back and a lady asked me to switch seats so she could sit next to her daughter I said as long as its an aisle she said of course and pointed to seat directly in front of mine, I got up switched and then another person came up to the seat and said its theirs the woman had of course lied and hers was the middle seat (5.5 hrs from lax to mco) amazingly a flight attendant had watched the whole episode and promptly marched me up to first class!!!!!!!! Win win
@bbraatАй бұрын
If she had lied to me she would have been moved when I discovered it. You still had the ticket to that seat. Fortunately it worked out for you.
@noradinneen1Ай бұрын
Yay!
@notsureiLАй бұрын
I hope see saw it 😅 Karma.
@eddie1975utube27 күн бұрын
Sweet!
@mysticone179822 күн бұрын
Wow, what a low-brow move!!! Do women have any shame any more?? No, I know, just a rhetorical question.
@dollydon854711 ай бұрын
The fact that she assumed it’s all ok to just take your seat is very rude of her. Proud of you for taking your stance on the situation, and doing the right thing to take what’s yours.
@mariaphilomena142211 ай бұрын
Ya the mom should fly southwest then.
@tima.47811 ай бұрын
Yeah, rude AF! I'm a jet mechanic for Delta and people do the weirdest most inconsiderate stuff you can imagine. I see it all day, every time I'm at the gate working and it's still hard to believe!
@cindyfreihofer209311 ай бұрын
I had the same thing happen to me. Two business men were sitting together and when I approached my seat and told the one man he was sitting in my seat he told me that I could take the seat behind mine which was his. He did not even ask me. They continued to engage in conversation, laughing etc. So arrogant.
@marieortiz15811 ай бұрын
@@cindyfreihofer2093I would have made him move.
@browniepoints522711 ай бұрын
Having kids is a choice don’t burden other people with your poor decisions
@linmiller8147Ай бұрын
For that mother to just assume that she could commandeer that woman's assigned seat is ridiculous. Entitled, aren't we? How embarrassed were THOSE kids?
@monicacappetta701729 күн бұрын
The mother was not only aggressive but rude as well. You had every right to deny her request.
@davidjohnston30442 ай бұрын
If sitting together is so vital to you, pay the money to do it. Do not expect other people who paid the money to give up their paid seat.
@lovevioletflowers3442Ай бұрын
Some of us pay good money to sit together. Then, when we get to the airport, our originating flight leaves late or is cancelled, causing us to have to be rebooked for the second leg. Then, nasty people on the second leg say we should have paid to sit together (and we DID) but fail to think about the fact that maybe something the airline did, as opposed to something we did, is why we are trying to see if we can work out a way to remain together. Please think about this before saying something snarky to the person who is trying to make sure their six year old isn't sitting unaccompanied on the flight. Neither the parent nor the six year old bears responsibility for their originating flight leaving late or getting cancelled.
@bennu54729 күн бұрын
I think window seats are usually more expensive. So I think what happened was the mom didn’t want to pay it. So instead she just took the seat expecting whoever is actually supposed to sit there to just be ok with trading seats
@BA-oq1ue17 күн бұрын
@@lovevioletflowers3442that’s a issue u take up w the airline, why should the airlines issues result in someone else being inconvenienced
@Joe_Brown9912 күн бұрын
@@lovevioletflowers3442 That’s not someone else’s problem. That’s YOUR problem
@Joe_Brown9912 күн бұрын
@@bennu547 Yep
@jp44319 ай бұрын
When the kids deal with the situation with more maturity than the mom who's an adult!
@genitagray61267 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@OrangeArdmore5 ай бұрын
The mom acted like her kids were ages 4 and 6. You just know those kids have to deal with their mom being neurotic on a daily basis. Sad. When they become adults the mom is going to wonder why her kids don't visit or call more often.
@nttbwps6.-_4 ай бұрын
@@OrangeArdmorethose kids are still children so Ofcouse the mom would be worried
@OrangeArdmore4 ай бұрын
@@nttbwps6.-_ How do I block you from ever talking to me ever again in life?
@nttbwps6.-_4 ай бұрын
@@OrangeArdmore you’ll live 😊
@Marie-jc7ss5 күн бұрын
Sounds like it was resolved peacefully. Why make a video about this?
@teresahild11 ай бұрын
I had booked my flight 9 months in advance AND paid the extra fee for upgraded seat. When I got to my seat upon boarding a woman was sitting in my aisle seat. She refused to move. I asked for the flight attendant, and guess what? The flight attendant said to me, there is an aisle seat in the back row (next to the restrooms), could you accommodate this woman? I stood my ground, but both the flight attendant and the woman rolled their eyes at me, with the woman saying “You have a problem, I feel sorry for you!” I post this because you cannot depend on the flight attendants to help you obtain the seat you paid for. By the way, I had paid the big bucks for row 6, aisle seat.
@maryohare414111 ай бұрын
You needed to report the flight attendant as soon as you landed. GUARANTEE she would be in trouble for not handling that right!
@tracymw11 ай бұрын
I had the same thing happen to me. A man with a thick eastern European accent stood over me saying over and over that I was sitting next to his wife and I needed to switch my aisle seat for his middle seat a few rows back. Um, no, I don't. I paid extra to pick an aisle seat because I get claustrophobic. It was just a 2 hour flight. Did he really need to sit next to her? The flight attendant was of NO help at all. Finally someone else grew tired of the man's whining and did some switching so they could sit together. It was so irritating to deal with especially since I paid more to reserve that seat.
@ahwell998411 ай бұрын
The only problem you had was the passenger's discourtesy and the flight attendant's failure to back you up. Good for you for not going along with that rudeness.
@elecaire909411 ай бұрын
Why wouldn't that same seat the flight attendant suggested, accommodate the seat stealing woman 😂
@Jendromeda11 ай бұрын
in our society, sadly, women are treated like they are idiots. What's worse is that OTHER women will treat them like idiots, it's not always a man who will do his....it's woman vs. woman. It's very abusive. You had two women beating up on you....real nice of them. Shame on the flight attendant--what was HER problem??
@lkb-il8iy11 ай бұрын
That woman with the 11 and 15-year old kids is the definition of entitlement
@noelgenoway936011 ай бұрын
and a nasty beotch!!!!
@stefanmarchione675711 ай бұрын
There's a name for women like her...they're called "Karens" 😏
@charlottesmith166211 ай бұрын
I am sure the kids were fine but she was only guessing the ages. The girl could have been 8 for all we know.
@lkb-il8iy11 ай бұрын
@@charlottesmith1662 No they were definitely older than that lol
@shawnpreston163911 ай бұрын
@@charlottesmith1662 I don’t care if she was 5! That’s not her problem. If you want to sit with your kids then BOOK with your kids. You have to pay the price instead of relying on a stranger to be “nice” which, btw, the woman was. Being “nice” doesn’t mean giving up what you need for the comfort or needs of others - that’s naivety! That’s foolishness. That’s not having a strong sense of self. My “no” requires no further explanation.
@neckarsulmeАй бұрын
The mom checking on her kids in a seat right in front of her is probably the same one who has no idea where they are during the day at school
@memi4586Ай бұрын
I always prepurchase our seats. Not a chance in hell I would switch. Ever.
@suzyq877711 ай бұрын
I had someone sitting in my seat and asked him to move. He said he didn't want to sit in his assigned seat. I didn't argue with him and instead went to one of the flight attendants and she took care of it. The audacity and entitlement of people who just sit in someone else's seat before asking if it's okay is beyond me!!
@SFelectrolysis11 ай бұрын
You did the right thing.
@lawtraf800811 ай бұрын
LMAO, the audacity. I would have been like " Okay... I don't actually care that you don't want your assigned seat, that's not my business. However this seat that I paid for is so move your ass away tf". I'm happy the flight attendant took care of it for you lol.
@reesewitherfork614211 ай бұрын
I would’ve him “that sounds like a you problem” 😂
@surgigi158211 ай бұрын
good for you
@watchforlife11 ай бұрын
As long as you paid for the seat, with your money and not his,he needs to move his stupid ass to his assigned seat!! Besides, there's always an option to choose the particular seating area,one is comfortable with,so his excuse was bogus and silly.
@InHurleyWeTrust4 ай бұрын
Girl, you don't even need to justify why you want YOUR seat
@kongakau50582 ай бұрын
No wrong on yr side, lady
@lauriella2000Ай бұрын
100% correct
@JackIsNotInTheBox5 күн бұрын
HOW DARE YOU SEPARATE THEIR KIDS WITH THEIR MOM
@KS-kr4okАй бұрын
hell no. Shame on that mother for thinking she could just take a seat she had not reserved.
@petalsjones10 ай бұрын
The entitlement of this mom is outrageous. This woman had a right to what she paid for. The only way I would have given my seat is if an infant or disabled child needed her near them. In this case NO!
@davidwalesby242610 ай бұрын
wtf are you talking about, she sat beside her children and moved when asked, didn't bitch didn't say a word, maybe she was hoping that nobody showed for that seat, nobody here was acting entitled, in fact the only problem i seen here was some snob bitch making a big deal out of it for no reason at all, in fact if she were any kind of decent human she would have forgone her bitch snob attitude much like yours and let a family sit together for a plane ride, jesus christ all we hear is bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch rom people like you, i absolutely would have traded seats its the only decent thing to do in a case like that duh
@PeteMachini673210 ай бұрын
I wouldn't even switch for an infant or a disables child. Not my problem, my seat is my seat
@shelleyinthecity10 ай бұрын
Any infant gets to be in the lap of the mother. That is a none issue and not a realistic scenario. No infant has their own seat.
@jafiadaesther395510 ай бұрын
@@PeteMachini6732let's hope that you don't fall into a situation where a stranger has to help you .God works in mysterious ways.
@PeteMachini673210 ай бұрын
@@jafiadaesther3955 I paid for the damn seat, Im not the one that's selfish. You're probably the mother in this Video
@meshellcountrygal451210 ай бұрын
She handled it perfectly. That Mom wanted it more for herself rather than her kids. Thank you everyone for your likes. Humbly appreciated ❤
@reneecase867810 ай бұрын
Maybe but I had a 14 year old who got nervous when he learned that we were not sitting next to each other and wanted me to switch our seats. We were sitting in aisle seats in the same row. When we got on he said that he had not understood that. Anyway my point is yes she wanted it for herself but had reason to think the children especially the 12 year old would like it better. The 15 year old was totally embarrassed by her presumption and attempt to make it look like she was put out on her children's behave.
@kingsnoob45469 ай бұрын
😢 you poor thing. Your 14 year old sounds so brave. Two generations ago 14-18 year olds went and fought in WW1 and saved the world. Now they can’t fly in an isle seat because mommy is one row away and that’s, terrifying. Truly, you are brave and amazing! Stunning and brave.
@RVPissBoys9 ай бұрын
@@kingsnoob4546forreal, but still, I don’t remember being that much of a pxssy at 14 years of age Must be some suburban mentality
@user-tx5ss9wx5y9 ай бұрын
Yep, she did not want to be stuck in a middle seat with people she didn't know.
@samp97988 ай бұрын
It was your seat. Enough said!
@mhrose687019 күн бұрын
She's not wrong. If your going to impose on someone you might want to ask them FIRST.
@qj5978Ай бұрын
She was right in not switching. Middle seat is the worst of the 3 choices.
@jeffrowisdabest10 ай бұрын
I was already on her side before I watched this video. Now I'm even more grateful seeing her stand up for herself.
@davidwalesby242610 ай бұрын
stand up for herself lol, the woman moved with no issue while the bitch that made the video passively agressively demeaned her
@elizabethtobin689410 ай бұрын
She was right to standup for herself. So many people today have such a sense of entitlement, even when they are in the wrong. More power to you.
@AdventureRex1910 ай бұрын
Same. Stay where you are assigned. Don't alter the arrangement without asking 😊
@JohnSmith-bw6pv10 ай бұрын
honestly this women made up some sob story to excuse her being a karen.. i neeeed the window seat to sleep and look out and get motion sickness what a load of bs
@deidrabrey404310 ай бұрын
She is attractive.
@larryking269710 ай бұрын
I flew a lot for many years. I always booked a window seat. I fully understand what Tammy felt. STAND UP FOR YOUR SEAT!!!
@eaglerider182610 ай бұрын
Didn't she say she was going to sleep the whole flight ?
@mussu485910 ай бұрын
@@eaglerider1826 you sleep best on window seat, you have a place to lean on and no other passengers walk over you.
@yarenileri855510 ай бұрын
i have to say I was really disappointed and sad because I don't fly very often but an elderly woman was sitting in my seat and I really didn't want to insist on making an elderly woman get up
@privatename264810 ай бұрын
@larryking, or SIT DOWN IN YOUR SEAT, rather.
@MikaComments10 ай бұрын
@@yarenileri8555You not insisting on elderly person to give up a seat that "belonged" to you, means you are ANTI AMERICAN beaceuse we are so into our RIGHTEOUSNESS to our INDIVIDUAL FEELINGS.
@catherinewyrobeck53887 күн бұрын
That woman was a self-centered manipulator. She didn't win.
@kirankhare5630Күн бұрын
They’re not kids. And I’m sure they didn’t care. Probably embarrassed by their mom. Gosh. I feel so sorry for those kids. They behave the exact opposite of their parent. It’s a power trip . Looks like she’s a car salesman
@sytycdvigirl11 ай бұрын
As a person who makes sure to pay for seats in advance to get the window seat, I totally co-sign with this traveler.
@kholetAndre10 ай бұрын
Same here!. I've been booking windows seats since 1991in my military days as well. I would not have switched either. I just feel more at ease as I don't really like flying.
@fiogarofalo10 ай бұрын
do you fly often? im asking just because if you do, you would know that if everyone is under the same reservation, they will put you together. Not close, but together. no need to pay.
@wilsonle6110 ай бұрын
Same here but Aisle as I have a bad knee and need to stretch.
@stevenscummy145810 ай бұрын
I've always been a window seat guy but after my last long flight from dubai I'm going aisle for long flights
@omarkhan345810 ай бұрын
@@stevenscummy1458whats a aisle seat?
@shanahaim593510 ай бұрын
I’m a mother and mothers like this give us a bad name. The entitlement of her to think she has a right to take someone else’s seat makes me MAD
@RosieHarp10 ай бұрын
Nobody has the right whether they're male, female, a mother, not a mother. It's entitled arrogance at its worst
@mrb264310 ай бұрын
And the Need of this lady to justify and validate why she didn't want to swap ...no need
@marymagdalene300410 ай бұрын
And, then, just take the seat and assume that it's ok to do that. Then, to gaslight about the available 'window!"
@cansee863710 ай бұрын
Clear case of female entitlement
@RosieHarp10 ай бұрын
@@cansee8637 well you get single dads too, I wonder if they would've tried that on
@stephannielee2182Күн бұрын
That lady absolutely should have stayed out of that seat. After the lady sat down is when to ask. She basically told her seat. Entitlement!! That lady was beyond rude!! I hope you stayed in your seat!!!
@PB-qd6he18 күн бұрын
The woman knew they wouldn’t be sitting together.
@lynetteraab310710 ай бұрын
That happened to me both ways on my last vacation. It's infuriating that these people assume everyone is okay switching with them just because they didn't buy their ticket early enough to get the seat they wanted. You paid for and picked the seat you wanted. Don't let anyone guilt you into changing if you don't want to. Good job standing up for yourself!!
@onengkusumah290510 ай бұрын
this is why you should never ever be kind to others, just stick with your rights and what you've paid for. being kind to human is a useless thing.
@pommiebears10 ай бұрын
Happened to me on my business class flight, with a boyfriend wanting to sit with his girlfriend. I had paid a lot of money to go from London to Sydney, and on the second leg of the flight, I’d booked the pod in the exact orientation I wanted, as some are right next to the aisle and I wanted window, which is more private. I ended up feeling so bad, as the stewards weren’t exactly helpful and I made it obvious I didn’t want to move. I did move, begrudgingly. That flight cost £7000! And, I ended up in a crappy seat. My own fault. I was tired.
@pommiebears10 ай бұрын
@@onengkusumah2905right. I didn’t even want to be kind…. But I was.
@carlgriffith466010 ай бұрын
@@onengkusumah2905 Sarcasm I hope!
@imaninternettroll166010 ай бұрын
No one cares you’re telling your story to the ether
@kristinaflaschner210910 ай бұрын
I admire the fact that you kindly stood up for yourself and persisted in getting your seat by the window. How presumptuous of that mother to take your seat in the first place!
@grahamlucas271210 ай бұрын
You don't pay extra for a window seat. The gall of entitlement of this woman for lack of compassion and not swapping seats so they could sit with their mom.
@bretsbrit10 ай бұрын
@@grahamlucas2712You do pay extra for a window seat and class of travel.
@grahamlucas271210 ай бұрын
@@bretsbrit Wow. And your loss if you give up your seat to a mom and still young children is what? 2 tenths of stuff all in the scheme of things. We are not talking about a different class. we are talking about a different seat. it is likely a domestic flight. Not long haul. People in the USA seem to be the most self entitled and selfish people on the Planet.
@stephaniegonzalezpantaleon879010 ай бұрын
@@grahamlucas2712the mother didn’t even ask if the lady was okay with switching seats. She just assumed the lady was going to agree. I am terrified of closed spaced but I will specifically get a window seat because it helps looking outside a window.
@goyam298110 ай бұрын
I won't care. If I'm tired and the seat is worse no way I will switch.
@bitjockey62656 күн бұрын
A lady asked me to change seats so she could sit with her daughter. I said yes. Turns out the daughter was 16 years old who could function perfectly well without her mom for 6 hrs while in school. They laughed and giggled for 3 hours while I sat in a non-reclining seat, back of the plane, next to the toilet. That lady killed the chances of me ever falling for that lame ploy ever again.
@Eleanorisawake3922 сағат бұрын
The same thing happened to me last week, I had booked the window seat as I always do, for the same reasons as this very nice, sane lady. A mother was completely embedded into my seat and the whole row with her children, reluctantly I informed her that she was in my seat, she said oh it’s ok you can have mine, (middle seat the row behind) she had also taken somebody else’s seat for one of children. She refused to move and caused utter mayhem when she finally did. I normally give in, but her sense of entitlement was overwhelming. :(
@nancygs455511 ай бұрын
A man did this to me years ago. I was on a work trip and had booked a window seat, got to my seat and man was sitting there. I politely told him that he was in my seat, and he said “well you can sit in mine”, which was the middle seat in the next aisle. I again, politely told him that I didn’t want his middle seat, I wanted my window seat. He ignored me, and probably thought I would cave since I was a young 23yr old and he was a grown man. Nope, my parents didn’t raise me without a backbone, I clearly and loudly told him that I would go get the flight attendant so that she could assist him to his assigned seat. He huffed and puffed, called me B, but got out of my seat. People have some nerve.
@surgigi158211 ай бұрын
Seriously? What did he said to you? I would have called him and his mom a "b". The audacity of males acting 24/7 like a B but called that to women.
@shiitake152111 ай бұрын
You should have told the stewardess and if she didn’t report to the airline. They could have tracked him down later, maybe told to customer service. They don’t want unruly passengers using their airline.
@christinaw.462611 ай бұрын
Good for you in standing up for yourself...we TEACH people how to treat us and what we will and will not accept. Just last week I went to the movies...ONE aisle seat left ..in the back (in the wheelchair /companion section) which was perfect. I get there and a woman is in my seat, asks me to verify then acknowledges that someone was in her seat so she sat in mine. Respectfully, asked her if she wanted me to get attendant to assist in getting HER seat (she was older). She accepted my offer but by the time I returned she was already informing the person in her seat (aisle row in front of me; their seat was 5 seats in) It worked out and hopefully showed the original seat takers "folks PICK their seats for a reason" !
@falidisu213911 ай бұрын
Hmmm… this clearly didn’t happen
@navkaur16311 ай бұрын
They should have kicked him off
@lindaeasley560610 ай бұрын
Stand your ground. Don't give in to people who feel entitled to disrespect you
@privatename264810 ай бұрын
Ha, your comment made my mind immediately go to, Stand your ground laws.
@RichM300010 ай бұрын
Definitely. I'll trade for equal or better, but don't poach first and ask later or any swap becomes unlikely at that point. And, definitely don't have conversations with poachers about why. Just a "no thanks" will do.
@davidwalesby242610 ай бұрын
she wasnt felling entitled at all, she took an empty seat beside her children and moved when the person showed up for it, the only entitled person here is the one who made the video and your right she paid for the seat, however she passively aggressively made a video to demean the woman, the woman probably never even said a word except sorry i guess this is your seat and said i just was hoping to sit with my kids, the only stink caused here is the bitch who made the video
@ClearbrookmomАй бұрын
You don't owe anyone an explanation.
@ckp2ator389Ай бұрын
It's useful to see videos like this to see what might be asked of you, and to decide ahead of time what your personal policy will be.
@TheHugisCh7 ай бұрын
As a mom with kids around that age, I fully support you holding your boundary and saying no!
@SelaLucero6 ай бұрын
Even if you were a mom to 6 and 4 year olds she should stand her ground it’s not hers or anyone that ends up in that situations fault… parents should plan better.
@jankepanke58685 ай бұрын
"someone took my plane seat so now i need to go to the press like a fretard"
@TheLaymanCollector5 ай бұрын
@@SelaLucerodefinitely. pay extra when travelling with kids to choose seats and ensure that all are sitting together. Don't try to negotiate with random people on the plane.
@kingbuck4275 ай бұрын
She is absolutely beautiful
@ageofechochambers94694 ай бұрын
Unfortunately ppl are looking at it as a rights issue, this is just about common courtesy. As a guy I deal with entitled females all the time but if a mom wanted me to move to be next to her kid I'd move because it's not about her it's about a scared kid on a plane . FYI as a guy I wouldn't want to sit next to kid anyway .
@bbgant58042 ай бұрын
Years back I flew overseas on a 7 hour flight with my daughter. We could not get seats together. It never occurred to me to ask someone to switch their seat so I could sit with her. It was our problem for booking late. I had the window & she had the aisle in the row behind me & opposite. I told her you’re close by if you need anything. I was surprised when the fellow beside me offered to switch with her. It was a nice gesture & he kept his aisle seat but I never expected him or anyone to switch seats. My thought is when we book late it is our problem. No one should have to sacrifice their seat for our mistakes.
@badouplus1304Ай бұрын
If I was alone in a plane and a situation like that happened to me, I would gladly offer you (or anyone else) to switch seats, especially more if my seat is in the middle one, which is the one I hate the most 😆. I flew once with a colleague, and let's say his hygiene was not top, yeah, my nose felt that. On the last leg, we were not seated side by side and I was quite happy about it. Before takeoff, we chat a bit and the guy next to me ask: "Do you want to switch seats to be next to your colleague?". I told him "No thank you, I will try to sleep anyway." I lied of course🤣
@usaroxx8085Ай бұрын
Same. Did same a couple times. My problem
@CottageCupcake20 күн бұрын
What’s even worse is a plane I was on the steward automatically switched my seat so others could sit together. I didn’t throw a stink. But I wasn’t even asked.
@jillcooks414129 күн бұрын
The lady had the opportunity to book 3 seats together. This happened to me and I gave in and was miserable the whole flight. Never again
@MTknitter2210 күн бұрын
Glad she stood up to the rude woman!!
@suzlo987111 ай бұрын
I had this happen to me on my last flight. I was shocked that the person was mad that I wanted my window seat I had paid for specifically. She cursed to her husband the entire flight. Oh well, to bad, next time do what others do and PAY FOR THE SEAT YOU WANT. So over these people.
@omgyeti204911 ай бұрын
The thing that always gets me is somehow these people always manage to board during pre-boarding even though they don’t have strollers or something that normally qualifies you for pre-boarding. Like they know the f’d up by buying basic economy that doesn’t let them choose a seat, so now their plan is get on board, take whatever they like, and prepare to guilt trip anyone who insists on sitting in their specifically chosen seat which they paid extra for.
@planarian11 ай бұрын
@@omgyeti2049 IIRC there’s usually something on your ticket that says whether you’re qualified for pre-boarding, I don’y think you can just sneak into it. Just like it says (at least w/ the airlines I’ve flown) whether or not you are allowed a carry-on bag.
@redzoom785711 ай бұрын
Right, it’s insane people feel entitled to a seat other than what’s on their boarding pass! If you can’t get a seat switched by the staff, sit in your assigned seat, simple.
@gailhitson734011 ай бұрын
People with small children are offerd the chance to preboard. I believe the woman was holding a baby.
@elabuterin715011 ай бұрын
@@gailhitson7340 Whether you have a child or an impairment doesn’t mean you can sit anywhere. Most airlines have assigned seats. Southwest I believe is the exception? My husband and I pay to PICK our seats due to his disability. No way would we switch. If mom is so concerned about her teenage kids she should have paid to be seated together. Easy fix for an easy problem!
@lockedloaded49424 ай бұрын
Some people's sense of entitlement is astounding. If you want to sit next to your kids, you book seat together in advance. Duh!
@noneofyourbusiness45953 ай бұрын
Some people with children may be flying for medical reasons, to see a Dr. in another state. Those people may not have money to get their own tickets., so they can't choose. It won't be obvious. Assuming peoples intentions and situation is ignorant.
@kimjones20563 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbusiness4595 assuming somebody should give up their seat because you want it is not acceptable either
@-WhizzBang-3 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbusiness4595shut the fuck up, asshole! That is still NO excuse for what she did! She could have politely ASKED that woman if she minded changing seats beforehand, instead of just STEALING it! There is nothing to assume in this situation, this person was blatantly IGNORANT! Period!
@terdferguson17363 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbusiness4595stop it you assuming that any of that matter at all shows how entitled and ignorant you are.. and what is it with this fake ass righteousness?? Does having all these other do nothing virtue signals pat you on the back really make you feel that good? You’re not some actual empath so what is it. And don’t say you are that’s a lie true empath are rarer then Actual sociopaths. It’s just another lie people seeking virtue points tell.. I’m serious why do you think people should be expected to walk around acting like every person they meet is in the middle of a life crisis so you should be giving them whatever they ask.. you don’t live like that do you?! Only in the internet to make yourself sound better. You lefty’s have lost the plot and don’t even know it’s actual you that are the bad people. Virtue signals are truly some of teb worst of our Society. I know If I had an unplanned situation and couldn’t properly plan and ended up in this situation the first think I’d do is offer them money for their seat. Oh not everyone has money to do that.. yup true so sit down you’re not entitled to shit not even on your worst day. Hopefully the person isn’t a virtue signaling lefty like you and this women and gives yo the seat like the actual kind people in this world, you know the group of people who every year donate the most money , you know the people more on the right who actually do kind shit and just don’t posture on the internet trying gain the approval of other weirdo democrat cultist..
@pickletickle51443 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbusiness4595then f*cking talk to the airline rep beforehand. Don’t give me this whole bull about it. You are able-bodied who can talk to the reps. Stop putting responsibilities on others when it’s clearly yours.
@sashamulligan2993Күн бұрын
I think it is so rude of people to ask to change seats. If you don’t like the seat you’re in then maybe you should’ve done a better job at finding all of your seats together. This has become the new rude thing to do and if you don’t go along with it somehow you’re to blame.Nope!
@WizzardofOddsКүн бұрын
This woman was totally right in taking back the seat she paid for and selected. The other woman seems to be overprotective. Maybe her kids appreciated the somewhat limited break.
@melindak.2110 ай бұрын
You did EXACTLY THE RIGHT THING, Ma’am!!
@Chic_Ken10 ай бұрын
@@19Borneo67💯. How embarrassing
@mussu485910 ай бұрын
@@19Borneo67 she did right. many people relate to this situation.
@delandpayne506710 ай бұрын
As a parent. I will always book my tickets with all my children next to me. The extra money it costs, is worth the peace of mind
@xpsxps133910 ай бұрын
That's the whole point! She doesn't want to pay this money; she expects somebody else gives up their seat, so she can save money!
@delandpayne506710 ай бұрын
@@xpsxps1339 and for that behaviour, she's trifling 😪
@gaoxiaen110 ай бұрын
Why does it cost more money?
@bmolitor61510 ай бұрын
@@gaoxiaen1 join the 21st century, kiddo... [seat-selection is extra $$... and why? cuz airlines can]
@theshortgolfer868710 ай бұрын
@@gaoxiaen1 Because airlines realised that people are willing to pay so another way to make a buck...
@pamperry5418Ай бұрын
That happened to me. I wouldn’t switch my seat. I have the window seat in this ladies little boy wanted the window, but she should’ve booked a window seat. I stood my ground.
@francescafaull1253Күн бұрын
If you've been given any seat, paid extra for it or not it's yours and you don't have to switch. End of story.
@lovinglife395411 ай бұрын
You get the seat you paid for. Period. Good for you for standing up for it. At 12 and for sure at 15 my son was thrilled to sit by himself on the plane.
@wintersbattleofbands114410 ай бұрын
No kidding. At 12 I was watching other people's kids, and could travel just fine with a book. Didn't need a controlling parent watching me like a hawk.
@openminds876510 ай бұрын
Amen Helicopter Mom's think they can do anything they want. She should have bought her tickets for her and her kids far enough ahead to get the seats she wanted or paid more - period
@randolphpinkle448210 ай бұрын
This woman really didn't need to justify why she wanted to sit in the seat that she booked. Just say no. Being friendly with strangers has a time and place, but there are times when absolute conviction and determination are called for. This is one of them.
@grahamlucas271210 ай бұрын
The woman b!tching about her entitlement to the seat and not letting the mom and children sitting together is not sensitive or kind. The gall of entitlement of this woman for lack of compassion and not swapping seats so they could sit with their mom.
@cotton_candy487010 ай бұрын
@@grahamlucas2712yes because the mom was soooooo far away. The seat right behind them is soooooo not close to them. And because that lady tooootaly didn’t pay extra to have her window seat. Because that’s not how the American economy works noooooooo. Sure let me give up my seat that I paid 50 to 100 dollars extra for suuuuure. If the lady really cared that much about her kid she would have paid extra.
@jennifersmith513110 ай бұрын
@@grahamlucas2712 Well since the woman who PURCHASED the option to have a window seat PAID the EXTRA she is not insensitive. Maybe mom shouldn't be so CHEAP and learn how to book EARLY. ITs people like you and the woman who had to sit behind her kids that are the entitled ones.
@toddmacadam388810 ай бұрын
@cotton_candy4870 Plus, what do these idiots think is going to happen to their kids? A bear attack? The kids were 11ish and 15ish, and they can't SIT without supervision? These helicopter parents are THE WORST! My sister and I flew to visit relatives without ANY supervision when we were younger than that. It's no wonder kids these days grow up depressed and unable to cope with the slightest inconvenience - they've been coddled too much, for too long! I don't even care whether the woman paid for the seat. If that's her seat, then the Mom moves. If she argues, I'd simply reply, "That sounds like an issue between you and the airline. I suggest you take it up with them, AFTER you vacate my seat."
@grahamlucas271210 ай бұрын
@@toddmacadam3888 Tod as your last name suggests. You are either nuts or the bedrock of a road to nowhere? This self entitled Karen would probably do the same thing if she had kids as this mom to be with her kids.
@baby.nay.12 күн бұрын
As a daughter of a mom who would do this …. Some people are absolutely booking separated seats like this many months in advance to save $ and banking on someone switching seats with them . Literally almost every flight I had with my mom. One time someone refused and I got to sit alone it was so nice lol
@dollienotparton29216 күн бұрын
Don’t feel guilty! You were absolutely right!
@jaylynn44419 күн бұрын
You do not have to explain yourself - you were very polite. What an entitled woman with no manners! It’s not like her kids were 4 & 5 years old. She had no right to make you feel bad/uncomfortable for wanting the seat that you paid for 🤷♀️ Uhhggg! I was a flight attendant for 13 years, and some of the stuff I saw really made me dislike a lot of people - especially some of the entitled male business travelers (it was always men, always).
@DAISYROSE22Ай бұрын
Sick of hearing about these "plane seat switching" dramas. If it's important enough to sit together, then buy your tickets early and pay what's required. Stop expecting other people to treat you differently because, well, you have children and you deserve their seat. Big effing deal! We've all had children.
@EmpowHer238 ай бұрын
I like that she stood for herself. Some people are too nice sometimes and are afraid to stand their grounds. This lady paid for her seat so she deserves to sit in her seat unbothered. 🙌🏻
@A.Girl.Has.No.Name.5 ай бұрын
I'd have said to her (as nicely as possible) that I paid to have a specific seat so I don't get motion sick, and that I don't think the people sitting to the sides of HER assigned seat behind them, would appreciate me yakking all over them during takeoff and/or landing, and that for future trips, now she knows SHE needs to book seats together when traveling if she wants to sit with her kids... but that they seem old enough to yell back one row to their mom if they have any problems. Then I'd laugh so she knew I was being lighthearted, but still without being bullied into switching, because she failed to plan appropriately. As the saying goes: "failure to plan on your part does NOT constitute an emergency on my part!" (of course, I'd only say that last part to her if she continued to push)
@katherinekelly53805 ай бұрын
@@A.Girl.Has.No.Name.you are much nicer than I am, I don’t feel the need to offer a reason for saying want to sit in the seat I paid for, I stick with ‘you’re in my seat’ and if they don’t start moving I ring for the flight attendant
@cherrytraveller59155 ай бұрын
@@katherinekelly5380I am the same. Why should you explain why you want the seat after you paid for it. Rude people aren’t worthy of an explanation
@Cobalt33515 ай бұрын
History repeats itself.
@joannesaltfleet20714 ай бұрын
@@katherinekelly5380years ago someone sat in my allocated seat by accident and I had been polite and said I think you took the wrong seat by accident and they moved and apologised.
@JoycelynnRenee100Ай бұрын
Babygirl you do not have to explain! Take care of you! ❤❤
@AsdfffchGcycvy-sv5pv2 күн бұрын
I WITNESSED WHEN MAN (who PAID EXTRA) TO to secure his seats to be next to his kids at America Airlines flight and he was asked to move, when he mentioned that HE PAID to secure they said we'll give you refund! ARE YOU KIDDING ME.? GUESS WHAT? HE AGREED TO MOVE THEY SAID THANK YOU AND THEN THEY ASKED HIM TO LEAVE THE PLANE. SUCH A SHAME . I DIDN'T SPEAK UP ONLY BECAUSE PLANE WAS DELAYED FOR FOUR HOURS ALREADY. IT WAS 3AM AND IF THEY KICKED THIS GUY WHO WAS NICE THEY WOULD DO IT TO ME EASILY. UNBELIEVABLE.
@sleepysatellite132610 ай бұрын
This happened to me a few years ago. I got upgraded to business with a window seat with no one next to me and I was so looking forward to finally get a good rest when a guy stood up and asked me if I could swap seats with him and let him and his boyfriend seat the both of them as they were seated a few rows behind in separate alley seats. I also really enjoy travelling on a window seat and I said no to their alley seats. The guy got really angry with me and called me a sour bitch! I am glad I kept my seat!!!
@jamesharris636810 ай бұрын
He called you a b**ch? Yet he's the one getting his cheeks clapped by a man😂😂😂
@josephyeo696610 ай бұрын
Good call. Trust your instincts. It is bad luck to switch seats anyhow.
@TraceyMush10 ай бұрын
Good for you and nobody should have to justify why they want the area that they chose and paid for. It's yours and if you want it back or in this case refused just swhich , it's yours.
@mara_q997910 ай бұрын
@@islandgirl8834 oooh yesss I love that
@chokolatebrwn10 ай бұрын
@@islandgirl8834😅
@scherali99411 ай бұрын
I applaud you for standing up to the mother. Good for you!!!
@innocentnemesis351911 ай бұрын
Well, what else are you gonna do? Sit in someone else’s seat and be told to move into yours anyway? I’m surprised this is a news story 😂 nothing really happened
@necrolycus214011 ай бұрын
Why?
@jesusisking31411 ай бұрын
GOD has new plans for you, honestly, just give Him a try, maybe you have seen others represent God in a way that doesn't show Him right, just give GOD a try. GOD has better plans for you ✝️💗 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 NIV “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16 NIV
@theinquisitor719111 ай бұрын
If it were me, "pezzof" :P
@giuliobassi858019 күн бұрын
🌹 I think she is so nice she is trying to explain even if it was not her fault. I really like this woman 🙏🏼 so nice and so gentle
@patrickARMY71Ай бұрын
That mom is gross! She's entitled and self obsorbed! And then she used her kids as a weapon to retaliate and shame the affable woman with the pretty smile. Gross! Mom needs to work on being a better example to her kids and a more polite person and fellow traveler.
@heidyalfonso655610 ай бұрын
Good for you for standing your ground!
@Grrr111___10 ай бұрын
@@19Borneo67 I think heidya here will be pleased with more than an inch brother
@justinjay950110 ай бұрын
such a dramatization when all she needed to say was thats my seat, move!
@stephenulmer378110 ай бұрын
That was her seat. Plain and simple. She paid for it
@Grrr111___10 ай бұрын
@@stephenulmer3781 she could’ve let the mother sit with her kids. So cruel
@mussu485910 ай бұрын
@@Grrr111___ she has grown ass kids, I would understand if they were under 7... And no. And if mother had window seat, she would have switched.
@jessonamission11 ай бұрын
It wasn't like those kids were babies, theyre teenagers! And it was only the row behind them. People are so weird. Good for this woman for standing up for herself
@zoraidacastro270311 ай бұрын
Exactly.... They were older. If she was so concerned she could have paid for all seats to be together.
@theyclosechannelsthatspeak42811 ай бұрын
Manipulative mother.
@bkm279711 ай бұрын
theyclosechannelsthatspeak428, Exactly what I was thinking!
@dharobed332911 ай бұрын
The kids might have been happy Not sitting with cranky mom!! The business women chose the window seat for a reason! I would have ask flight attendant to handle it!
@marybutlin560511 ай бұрын
Who cares if they were older or not. Sit in your own seat.
@christianromero660416 күн бұрын
Well u handled it perfectly, and i must say, you are ...GORGEOUS...
@anjaashdown6940Ай бұрын
Aaand, she had some nerve just plunking herself in the seat, and trying to guilt-trip the rightful patron into switching! What...possession is 9/10's of the law? Nope! Not when you didn't book seats together in the 1st place!