Godly Discipline: Every Parent Needs to Know This

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Many parents wonder if there is a perfect way to discipline and train their children. The answer is not so black-and-white-instead, it signifies a need for divine wisdom.
In this snippet from episode 12 of "At Home with the Beveres", Addison, Juli, and John share how to develop a holy fear of God that leads to wisdom in all areas of life-especially parenting.
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@shaquellaennis 5 ай бұрын

I messed up this morning and lost it on one of my twin girls. The Holy Spirit convicted me a few moments later and made me apologize to her. I was driving to work and something said what if God your Father made you feel the way she probably felt in that moment. I felt so bad. I prayed and ask God to help me parent with love and grace. Not only did I hurt the twin who I yelled at but her sister too. This episode helped me to realize that our Heavenly Father corrects us but then He also opens His arms wide to us letting us know no matter what we did He still loves us 🥹

@tihanioliveira 6 ай бұрын

I have 5 children. 7,5,3,1,4mo. And I’m also leading my household because the man doesn’t know how to.. it’s hard. Please pray for me ♥️

@jimboslice149 6 ай бұрын

yes girl. God is our refuge and strength. His grace is sufficient ❤

@darielhelge 4 ай бұрын

I’m in the same boat. I know how you feel. I also have 5 children ages 8,6,4,2 and 5 months 😭 @tihanioliveira

@kalynnemendoza813 Ай бұрын

Praying😊 I'm in the same position

@DiogoReisBello Ай бұрын

Hey sisters, watch their podcast episode "Protect your Home from Chaos"!! It's on the playlist "Conquering Spiritual Warfare at Home"!

@naomij7800 Ай бұрын

Same boat, 5 children but older, 14-6. x

@0601vid 9 ай бұрын

Watching this as I struggle through every day with my small kids. It’s just a lot sometimes and I don’t know how to handle it without getting into rage. This is such an important topic especially for those of us who grew up with bad role models.

@teresa28ist 6 ай бұрын

What helps me is what I'm thinking about that causes me to yell. We are some where before we get to yelling and angry.

@Amburlynnnie 2 ай бұрын

You have to shift your perspective as being a overwhelmed adult to being a child and thinking “if this was me as a child what would I need in this moment”

@Ooothermother Ай бұрын

This makes me feel less alone I have a little one as well she is learning about behavior control and yelling it can get like and episode of super nanny over here and I feel like a failure

@Dana-mb1hd 29 күн бұрын

@@OoothermotherI’m struggling as well any tips?

@Ooothermother 23 күн бұрын

@@Dana-mb1hd taking moments to yourself when you can has been the only thing that resets my mind so I can come back with less mental stress otherwise most days I feel at a loss haha

@marriagemaniaministry 3 ай бұрын

This is good! We are lead by God's word to raise our children. Great wisdom!

@uljanakistenev1640 Жыл бұрын

I'm new here and bing watching your videos and so deeply touched and going to the word and wanting to grow in my relationship with Jesus so that I can do this right ! The little sweet smile that he gave to Julie when his dad complimented their child rearing was just the sweeeeeetes ! Beautiful beautiful beautiful!

@marylamb6063 5 ай бұрын

One day I got a severe beating by my father because I skipped school for a week. It didn't matter that two bullies were threatening to beat me up and I was trying to avoid them. my parents lacked empathy. I now have issues with lack of empathy. The beatings my parents gave me taught me a lesson: There's no need to worry if someone is being bullied. No person's sufferings matter. I'm not angry on the outside, but I care little about the plight of others.

@KimGuerrero-oh4gb 4 ай бұрын

very easy to fall into that. if no one showed me grace, why should I show others? if my own parents were impatient with me, why does anyone else deserve my patience? the only thing that can resolve that is God's grace towards us. because He has forgiveness the worst of the worse in us, we are commanded to forgive, love, be empathetic, etc. it's no longer tit for tat bc of Jesus, and that grace is absolutely extended to our children. you really have to know, believe, experience, meditate on God's love and truth so that it can take root in your heart and replace the bitterness/hardness of our hearts.

@jayfriday9485 2 ай бұрын

I’m sorry that you went through that 💜

@ElijahBierd Ай бұрын

Hey I'm sorry you're going through that. Maybe try talking to them about it & tell them you feel afraid to go or that you want to avoid people who are threatening to hurt you. Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Try praying about it, ask God for guidance. Im sorry your parents lack empathy and maybe you can find a fav teacher or something too. God will make a way and things will get better. Ask for catch up work to do at home so your parents think and see you being responsible and accountable even though you skipped!! God bless you.

@ElijahBierd Ай бұрын

I re read your comment I think you were talking about past tense. & I thought it was you going through that now. But If that's the case, I would say pray before you speak to certain people, ask God to soften your heart & see whatyou need to change about yourself. We all hurt and pain we carry because ppl hurt us but that doesn't mean we should become like those who hurt us, we are called to better things & we don't have to hold that weight. you have to take care of yourself by being more gentle on yourself and others. You can feel Empathy again. Trust in the Lord

@sallylara1102 4 ай бұрын

🙏🏽♥️

@KR-os6nn Жыл бұрын

Which episode is this from?

@suzanacaetano7390 11 ай бұрын

Episode 12; it's such a good one! ❤

@mjwas3475 3 ай бұрын

Is it okay to tell your 15 year old daughter “If your going to live in this house these are the rules you have to follow “ (then list) please all comment I need help with this.

@sheleania 2 ай бұрын

I think that’s alright, I would also say be led by the spirit/ sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we have to remain calm and patient most times to do that. Your kid is going to mess up the same way we mess up and fall short from the standards of God. It can get frustrating but remember you will not be able to control everything and don’t drive yourself crazy when they are being disobedient

@propertieswithmariaisabel Ай бұрын

Yes, even framing it living in our home means your responsibilities are the following. Decide when to use natural consequences and when to use rewards.

@mjwas3475 Ай бұрын

@@sheleania literally crying thank you for speaking out of ❤️ love!!

@mjwas3475 Ай бұрын

@@propertieswithmariaisabel Thank you 🫶🏼

@kristnajohanna 22 күн бұрын

Ofcourse!!!!