Going Deeper with Chloe Veitch - Perfect Match Drama, Coronation, and Love is Blind Live

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Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to discuss Tom Sandoval’s recent lyric changes, Robert De Niro’s seventh child, and Taylor Swift dating rumors. Then, we are joined by Netflix superstar Chloe Veitch to talk about what actually went down between Georgia and Francesca on Perfect Match, the stresses of hosting the Love is Blind livestream, and her current relationship. Finally, we have a Sweating the Wedding caller who is debating calling off her wedding and breaking up with her fiancé.
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@emilyz3932 Жыл бұрын

i wish you asked chloe more questions about herself and let her speak more

@Anticlubsealsclub Жыл бұрын

Nick is always talking over everyone lol! That’s what you get when the only people starting podcasts are the ones that love hearing themselves talk.

@helloitsmezappa9054 Жыл бұрын

I really think Chloe is one of the best reality stars. She just seems very real and genuine. She still is respectful but does speak her mind, she deserves someone that lets her be her and makes her happy. Shane needs more growing up to do, she is already there.

@HirtopLaura Жыл бұрын

Chloe starts at 31:20 🎉

@Thatchickx03 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing the lords work

@MadisenParks123 Жыл бұрын

Bless your soul

@joannacurteis Жыл бұрын

Thanks!!

@megster5432 Жыл бұрын

These are always the comments I look for, thank you 🙏 lol

@SydneyFrancia Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you!

@BriannaRobinsonMusic Жыл бұрын

Is no one acknowledging the fact that the dog is LAYING with Chloe?!?! The puppy never joins the interviews it’s a testament to her amazing vibe and character!!

@candy07831 Жыл бұрын

She actually lays with almost every guest

@JuneBee9606 Жыл бұрын

Finally a Netflix star that I actually like. Chloe is a shining star among the best.

@graciegirl5435 Жыл бұрын

I am so invested in Zoe calling off her engagement! Please update us when she sends one in!

@lauryn8392 Жыл бұрын

Chloe was great on perfect match, one of the only people not trying to be filtered and perfect, just being herself

@MadisenParks123 Жыл бұрын

I love Chloe personally. She seems so genuine and sweet! I agree she was really good on perfect match! Loved her on too hot as well.

@andreegodbout868 Жыл бұрын

I'm 44 and have been with the love of my life for 20 years. I have not had to fill my gas or make a cup of coffee first thing in the morning in those 20 years.

@mmeshke Жыл бұрын

I’m in my 50’s. Every man I’ve ever been in a relationship with has pumped my gas, even if I paid. It’s so I don’t get cold, don’t get gas on my hands, don’t get my shoes messy. It’s act of service and respect. I did ask my son to get out and pump my gas from age 16. It’s also why men take out the trash. I appreciate the gestures!

@lezzels8998 Жыл бұрын

I can't believe Nick wasted 5 minutes of precious Chloe time talking about pumping gas... I want to hear about her, not your weird pet peeves!

@altynayashimbayeva9879 Жыл бұрын

RIGHT like the more I watch Nick the more I start realizing that he LOVES to talk about himself instead of letting the guests speak!

@mariacontreras6652 Жыл бұрын

He also sounds kinda d*uchier in every video, like the way he speaks

@ryanalexandra1297 Жыл бұрын

Chloe is my favorite reality tv star EVER, I’ll watch any show she is on. She literally is a joy to watch. Edit: I hope the caller leaves her fiancé, that is not a safe man to be with. A good man doesn’t make you doubt yourself. Being free from him will bring her confidence back.

@JayPee575 Жыл бұрын

I am 2 years alcohol free. I stopped drinking when I moved to Las Vegas. Soooo happy to see someone on the road to recovery. There is nothing worse than being in the depths of your addiction. Recovery is possible and beautiful.

@Inspirewithkay Жыл бұрын

Love love love Chloe. She is such a ray of sunshine. And honest.

@Crea05 Жыл бұрын

Love her, she radiates good energy, I can listen to her talk for ever, love her accent. I’m glad she’s sober and hope she finds a good love ❤️

@kikichaterr7 Жыл бұрын

My husband has been pumping my gas since the moment we started dating. Wasn’t even a discussion. First time I got to the gas station, he automatically got out and did it.

@debbiefish5006 Жыл бұрын

To Nick's ego: if no man checked out your fiance while you were walking behind her, then you would also be bothered by the lack of attention she was receiving. Calling men out is so petty on your part. Just be flattered by all the attention she receives and move along.

@juliahubel1920 Жыл бұрын

I hated that, too

@MadisenParks123 Жыл бұрын

My husband in our 10 years of being together has always pumped my gas!

@brookrussell8495 Жыл бұрын

I’m so with Nick. My dad always pumps the glass and my husband does now. It’s such a sign of how they protect and do things for you. Very much appreciated gesture. Im Canadian. All my exes have done that too. Polite and manly. If buddy sat in the car and didn’t make a move I’d question his whole life and how he was raised.

@caeweiland3965 Жыл бұрын

I’m also Canadian but I’ve never heard of that. Unless we’re in a weird place or it’s during the night, if I’m the one driving I’m pumping my own gas lmao. Might be an anglophone Canadian thing.. but like, I don’t get it. If it’s the middle of the day in a safe place, why would I be doing that?

@brookrussell8495 Жыл бұрын

@@caeweiland3965 I see it as a very nice, chivalrous gesture.

@1Road2Success Жыл бұрын

This was one of my favorite episodes! Chloe was great and I’m really happy and excited for the caller! Such great advice!! 👌🏾

@LoriMom1 Жыл бұрын

Did I miss the part where you asked her about Mitchell and/or Shane? Were these off limits?

@AAAToturn17 Жыл бұрын

This episode was great! I feel terrible for the caller. She absolutely deserves better. Your advice was spot on. I wish her the best and look forward to an amazing update (where she's living her best life in another state).

@racheldorsay Жыл бұрын

OH MY GAWD. Why are we will still talking about Paul and the butt touch. It was an accident. Stop trying to make fetch happen Nick 😂😂😂😂

@Freee479 Жыл бұрын

This!!!!! It’s becoming soo irritating to my ears jeeezzz. It’s starting to look like he has a personal vendetta against Paul

@racheldorsay Жыл бұрын

@@Freee479 Naw, I don't think he's taking any of that too seriously 😆 he's just reaching to be right lol

@jemmybarrera5615 Жыл бұрын

Agreed it’s getting really annoying

@10113sarah Жыл бұрын

I love seeing that it’s all women saying the same thing!

@loislois3526 3 ай бұрын

Agree

@dorseydayz5850 Жыл бұрын

I'm with Natalie and Nick! My husband always pumps my gas. Actually, he takes my car to get gas on his own if he knows it's low. I pretty much never pump gas. And I think it's just so incredibly kind of him.

@emilyz3932 Жыл бұрын

going on a tangent about chivalry while being inattentive toward your guest and cutting her off when she speaks

@tourmii Жыл бұрын

"fell pregnant" like it's a cold 😂😂 i love that

@alisondawnsmith Жыл бұрын

Chloe is one of my favourite reality people ever. She's just sooooo incredible

@Appu3 Жыл бұрын

My husband and I don't stick to traditional gender roles. So sometimes I pump the gas sometimes he does depending on who doesn't feel like stepping out that the moment.

@haironthebrain Жыл бұрын

Please no one teach your daughters not to pump their own gas. this convo is melting my brain.

@ladysfirstgaming3802 Жыл бұрын

I really wish the caller the best of luck! It’s clear what she needs to do, but it can be so difficult to make that first big step!

@CrispyFriedPickles 10 ай бұрын

Yeah I’m sure once she heard herself talk over the air, she realized how goofy she sounded and that she deserved better 💯

@lisakillingsworth757 Жыл бұрын

I wish you guys would have asked her why everybody hated Cole so much during the reunion. It seemed like there was something that happened we never saw, beyond what she talked about here. Great episode

@AmbreM93 Жыл бұрын

Really ? Didn’t hear about that ?😂i mean no surprise “poor Cole” showed his true colors 😅

@Lululand_18 Жыл бұрын

Why are we still talking about Georgia and Dom. I wanna hear about Chloe!

@EllDuclos Жыл бұрын

Been with my husband for 12 years and he always pumps my gas for me. He always grabs the door for me too and has me stand on the inside of the sidewalk! 💕

@racheldorsay Жыл бұрын

My heart aches for today's caller. She deserves so much better! You've got this girl! I hope one day you'll be a caller again with a life update telling us all about your amazing new life 🙌🏼🩷

@laurengalioto6074 Жыл бұрын

My grandfather pumped gas for my grandmother their entire 50+ years together. When he passed away a few years ago, my grandmother didn’t remember how to do it for herself 🥺 I think it’s important as well!

@Bananachan289 Жыл бұрын

Nick is so weird with his chivalry he’s such a “nice guy”

@tgrami795 Жыл бұрын

He considers himself a “nice, chivalrous guy” because of the most superficial things…how about not always being condescending, mansplaining, and talking over all women on this show, Nick? I’d much prefer that than someone pumping my gas. 🙄

@AllyMack23 Жыл бұрын

I would like for him to explain why he feels men should pump gas for women and not vice versa. I'm sure it would sound misogynistic.

@kramersolinsky5841 Жыл бұрын

@@AllyMack23 I think he did explain it pretty thoroughly, and it feels more about his own masculinity than anything.

@AllyMack23 Жыл бұрын

@@kramersolinsky5841 I didn't hear him explain it using gender. He said it's a nice to do something for someone, but why should a MAN do it and not a woman? What's the difference? That's what I want to hear explained. If that makes him feel more masculine, fine, but why is it a "red flag" if another man doesn't do it?

@kramersolinsky5841 Жыл бұрын

@@AllyMack23 I don’t recall his exact verbiage but didn’t he suggest he’d be embarrassed or something if his partner did it for him? He also asks every woman in the room if the men in their life do it for them and suggest those guys should be embarrassed if they don’t… I don’t see how it’s NOT a gendered thing from his perspective.

@BurkstonLodgeCEO Жыл бұрын

🙋🏽‍♀️My husband and I equally pump gas. If I am the one driving, I will pump gas, and he’ll sit in the passenger seat and play chess on his phone. If he is the one driving, he will get out and pump gas while I look for a new song to switch to on my Spotify playlist, lol. It’s literally never been an issue.

@jemmybarrera5615 Жыл бұрын

I agree I think making these blanket statements about what someone is supposed to do is weird

@elisapatente5438 Жыл бұрын

Hello Caller, I just want to say that even though I don’t know you, you are beautiful, strong and resilient. I’m so glad you called in! When I was with my ex I had thought about calling in and even had a draft email ready to send in but was so anxious because I knew that Nick would give me the same advice he gave to you and I was t ready for that. I hope you are. I hope you are ready to take their advice and put it into action. You deserve so much more and one day, after A LOOOOOT of self work and many dates and mastering your red flag radar, you will be in a loving, kind and supportive relationship. Give yourself time and grace. You got this! ❤

@samanthapadgett2594 Жыл бұрын

I’m so excited for this!!!!

@br3880 Жыл бұрын

idk who anyone could dislike chloe. love this girl

@diggylloyd4868 Жыл бұрын

Agree with Natalie and and Nick on the gas, sidewalk walking thing. Even when I was dating my now husband, he would always pump my gas. Now, if he borrows my car, he will always top me up on gas, and wash my car before he comes home. I had an early call time for work the other day, and we were in bed, and goes “do you have gas in your car.” I said no, and he got up out of bed, went to fill up my car, so I could get that 20 min extra snooze.

@sweatynachos1422 Жыл бұрын

I love Chloe’s voice and Brit accent lol. Hers is pleasant to hear

@skylerrae_ Жыл бұрын

I love Chloe 😍🙌 such an awesome personality

@secorapickett3358 Жыл бұрын

Not a fan of black/white gender rules. The bottom line is consideration. You and your partner should discuss what rules you want to enforce.

@xmorgancx1 Жыл бұрын

100% agree. My partner hates bugs, I’m the bug catcher. I hate taking out the trash, my partner takes it out. Etc.

@aw-wn6jg Жыл бұрын

I’ve always loved Chloe and she has my trust. If she said Georgia is telling the truth then she’s telling the truth… then she said she didn’t care for Meghan Markle… SAME. Just more affirmation why I love this girl and trust her opinion/take.

@fhay1 Жыл бұрын

I recently left my ex of 3 years (first love). Listening to the caller made me realize I was in the same situation, and how crazy it was. The way he treated me was disgusting. Hearing someone else say the same things I experienced was very eye opening. Damn, that one hit hard. My life has only gotten better since he’s been out of it

@minh2759 Жыл бұрын

I reallly don’t think Paul slapped her butt. It definitely looked like he tapped her waist to say like “excuse me”. Why would he do that in front of all the cameras..?

@10113sarah Жыл бұрын

I wish Nick would listen to the women saying he didn’t do it. And Paul’s persona doesn’t give an ass slapping vibe - did he not watch the show? 😂😂

@shadowpuppet0312 Жыл бұрын

@@10113sarahNick doesn't listen to anyone,😂

@brittneytemple6980 Жыл бұрын

My husband has pumped my gas for me since we first start dating, whether I was the one driving or not. I also remember the first time we were talking down the road and he made me switch sides with him. I didn’t know why and I asked. He said, “so If someone comes up on the curb I could push you out of the way and protect you”. It really is the little things.

@nishamisha13 Жыл бұрын

In my current relationship of almost 3 years, we take turns pumping gas. It’s not really a “thing”. I don’t consider it a nuisance or an inconvenience; it’s just something people need to do. When it comes to chores, we split everything equally because we both take accountability for our home. My bf still plans special trips/dates for us, gets me flowers, etc. I also like doing sweet things for him. Even in heterosexual relationships, gendering certain acts of service seems weird to me because I personally am more comfortable when we’re supporting each other in similar ways.

@gittyrosenberg8470 Жыл бұрын

Love this episode and love her energy❤

@sharmeenjaffry72 Жыл бұрын

I feel like he didn't let Chloe speak at all and she ended up interviewing him lol

@natgarcesxo Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with the gas pump rule but the sidewalk rule is like my ultimate litmus test

@natgarcesxo Жыл бұрын

To clarify, idc about the gas bc most of the time the guys I’ve dated drive and when I’ve driven there’s never been a guy that doesn’t at the very least offer. And you don’t really use that as a litmus test until the situation presents itself. But the sidewalk thing is something I notice earlier into dating so it’s ultimately a better test lol

@miaschumann983 Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@joanne8084 Жыл бұрын

Agree! I just recently had a convo with a young girl in her 20’s ( I’m 40) so I don’t know if it’s an age thing or just her thoughts alone, who thinks it’s awful for a man to do the sidewalk thing or even open a door for you because in her words it’s demeaning to women. I was so caught off guard by her opinion…. It’s not like men do those things because they think we can’t, it just shows that they’re thinking of you & being kind.

@amanitrouant1833 Жыл бұрын

100% agree with Nick about gas !!! My fiancé has always pumped my gas for me and it’s one of my favorite things.

@carlyspoden9437 Жыл бұрын

totally agree with Natalie and Nick about the gas pumping! my boyfriend does it for me every time, never had to ask 👏🏼 same with the sidewalk rule

@juliajohnston9509 Жыл бұрын

Not him still bringing up the Paul thing 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

@Freee479 Жыл бұрын

Honestly he needs to let it go it’s so irritating atp jeez

@ameliaazer5846 Жыл бұрын

My pov in regards to asking "how is your heart?" In many Muslim cultures this is the norm. When you want to ask someone how they’re doing, you ask: in Arabic, Kayf haal-ik? or, in Dari/Persian, Haal-e shomaa chetoreh? How is your "haal"? What is this haal that you inquire about? It is the transient state of one’s heart. In reality, we ask, How is your heart doing at this very moment, at this breath? When I ask, “How are you?” that is really what I want to know.

@CharnyArt Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful group of people in a room 😭🥹💕

@juicie25bt Жыл бұрын

Nick I'm 64yrs old & I guess a little old fashion, but u r absolutely 💯 on 🎯 about a man getting out of the car & pumping my gas. Ur parents raised u right.

@akvanstelle11 Жыл бұрын

My 10 year old son now pumps my gas! If I am driving, he will not let me do it anymore since he was taught. ♥️

@aleksija7782 Жыл бұрын

Chloe is so classy 👏🏻

@tiffanyclifford7536 Жыл бұрын

Pumping the gas yes 🙌 also when it snows bf cleans off car and starts it before I go to work. My dad used to do the same for me. Love it

@valeriemichelle9774 Жыл бұрын

100% agree on the men pumping gas, my husband will also always insist on loading the groceries in the car and putting the cart back while I sit in the car for safety reasons.

@DJoy96 Жыл бұрын

umm, more Chloe please! That was fun!

@WhoWhatWhereNow Жыл бұрын

I love Chloe, think she’s great. Some of this interview felt a little awk. If my gf checked someone out or was checked out by someone to me that doesn’t matter because we all have eyes. Is it an ego issue? A trust issue? I’m not sure but I don’t personally get it but whatever you guys have agreed on is up to you! 😊

@kriseldamareecaraos271 Жыл бұрын

im married and haven’t had to pump my own gas in YEARS. even when we’re not driving together, if he knows my car is low on gas, he will make sure to get gas for me on his own time before i have to use it. the guy SHOULD ALWAYS BE PUMPING THE GAS, ladies!!!

@Freee479 Жыл бұрын

Chloe interview starts at 31:20

@samanthapadgett2594 Жыл бұрын

Omg yes! She needs to host LIB!

@Talbyhere Жыл бұрын

Yep I agree Nick! My husband always pumps our gas.

@xxemaliiexx Жыл бұрын

love this episode with chloe on!

@user-sm7qf8of6m Жыл бұрын

Just starting this episode and talking about the gas topic....I'm in my 40's and have been in several relationships. I DO NOT PUMP MY GAS if my man is in the car. Never. My son is 23 and if he's in my car, there's no question, he jumps out and pumps gas. It's a no brainer.

@abigailsandoval2632 Жыл бұрын

I love Chloe honestly !

@itsjessiedhanoa Жыл бұрын

Definitely agree with Nick about the pumping gas thing

@absolutelynoooooot Жыл бұрын

I'm 25, I've seen WAY too many men perform acts of chivalry for the attention and to be acknowledged for it. They do it only to get credit for it and to present themselves in a very specific manner. The men who actually respect me respect women that are my age don't need to "perform". The "chivalrous" men are red flags to me.

@maddievic2 Жыл бұрын

I went to the comments to say how ridiculous the gas thing was and feel very outnumbered now 👀

@karagarcia9317 Жыл бұрын

Omg same! If a man offered to pump my gas, I’d be so confused wondering if they think I don’t know how to do it myself. 😂 I’d rather someone offer to check my air pressure. I hate doing that!

@maggienuttall6162 Жыл бұрын

Not in a relationship anymore, but when I was my boyfriend always would offer to go out and pump my gas but sometimes when he was driving I wanted to do something nice for him and pump his gas. He always would walk on the outside of the sidewalk, open doors, and fill up my water bottle every night before bed lol, but sometimes I would insist to let him relax and let me do stuff for him. It worked out great because I'm stubborn and loved doing things for him as well, but he always offered.

@AK-nd3zo Жыл бұрын

My husband feels the same way about the gas pump and has always been that way. I also asked his opinion on the Paul butt tap and he had the same opinion as Nick.

@shelbyfoster9597 Жыл бұрын

My husband pumps my gas for me. I think it's such a small way to show you care. If he wasn't feeling well, I would do something like this for him. It's not asking the world for such a small gesture.

@SydneyKong Жыл бұрын

“She should just shut up” 😭💀💀💀😭😭 LMAOOOOO

@pattersonfralix4291 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree with the gas thing!!

@TheMmac04 Жыл бұрын

I’m from Texas, and my bf ALWAYS pumps my gas. I hate gas stations in general as a woman, but even before I expressed that to him, he’s always done it.

@courtneymcalister13 Жыл бұрын

WE DO EXIST NICK! My boyfriend has never pumped my gas however he ALWAYS opens my car door and follows the sidewalk rule. He has also helped me fix things around my apartment and hang things on the walls but I did have to ask. I had never thought twice about him not pumping my gas however I am going to ask him why he doesn’t offer to pump my gas next time we’re at the gas station 😂

@Bananachan289 Жыл бұрын

Need to hear the entire pageant story

@charlottea0157 Жыл бұрын

Being British and living in Paris, I fully comprehend and absolutely agree with you on the chivalry topic, I hate France for this, I personally have not seen or witnessed any chivalry at all in this country and from previous experiences too, a french man would even reply to your statements that it's totally normal that a woman pumps the gas and same for opening the door to a woman.. Anyway thank YOU for these podcasts, love you guys!

@coralee1577 Жыл бұрын

My man pumps gas for me every single time, so yes I agree Nick lol Edit: I've always loved Chloe, she is so genuine, and such a sweetheart. I'm so glad she's doing well. I also love that she's sober, I'm sober as well so I feel you girl 🤗

@tatumward13 Жыл бұрын

Searched the comments for any love for The 1975, didn’t seem to find it. 😂 I have a tattoo for the band, and also Matty Healy is amazing. FYI - he’s British as well 😊 Nick, you’re hands down the best bachelor ever, haven’t commented before, bud long time fan. ❤

@catbrown3773 Жыл бұрын

Why didn’t talk about Cloe and Shane?

@Lulamaification Жыл бұрын

South Africa, we have fuel attendants. Men or women dont get out, love that about us.

@user-lg4dl3hy5s Жыл бұрын

100% agree with Nick on pumping gas!!

@Lenci_the_Nugget Жыл бұрын

There are very few people I've seen on reality tv that I actually think are cool and respectable. Chloe is one of them.

@carolinediaz5058 Жыл бұрын

I’m with Nick! Pumping the gas for a women is such a gentleman thing to do.

@jordans2177 Жыл бұрын

Chloe gives great advice!

@kaylaryan2575 Жыл бұрын

My husband absolutely would never let me pump my own gas

@nadssslaville8090 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 7.5 years and he pumps my gas every week whether im driving or not 🥰

@laurenlamm455 Жыл бұрын

I won’t lie…I have never thought of the pumping gas because if I’m with my husband going somewhere I’m never driving. I actually cannot think of a time where we are going somewhere and I’m driving other than on a long road trip and we’re taking turns but he will still pump gas and I’ll get snacks. My parents were and still are the same. My mom is only driving if she’s doing her own errands but otherwise it’s always my dad driving and that’s how I grew up. I’m a passenger princess LOL!! I can’t say I would give a shit either way but I’ve never had to think about it either cause he will always be driving if we’re together. It was never even a discussion when we were dating, it seemed to have just been a given. Loved this episode and love Chloe!!

@Mia-hf9jk Жыл бұрын

My man has always got off to pump my gas without even asking , I remember I didn’t even ask him the first time he was just telling me stay in the car and he got out it did it 🥰

@lindamoreno16 Жыл бұрын

My boyfriend has not pumped my gas twice, we also had previously stopped for gas once in his moms car (my boyfriend was driving but his mom was in the car) and he didn’t get off to pump her gas. I blatantly asked him, “You’re not going to help your mom?” and he gets off the car, me expecting him to help her. Instead, he goes inside the gas station to buy himself a drink. Ummm I’ve been with this guy for 6 years, it’s been a conversation and I honestly don’t know if I’m making it a bigger red flag/turn off than it should be but I really don’t want to have to “train” a partner to be a gentleman. 🤢 I will say, he does do other things such as cooking food for me regularly, buys me coffee most mornings before I go to work (at the very least makes my coffee for me in the morning), helps me pack my lunch for work, washes my car, etc. So he definitely does not lack in the acts of service category, however I want ALL the chivalry 😭

@sukhmangill Жыл бұрын

I think ur making it a bigger red flag than it is only cause as u said he does other things like coffee, helping with the food etc. it’s literally okay if he doesn’t help pump gas cause if u weren’t with anyone etc u would have to do it urself anyways. Idk it would be nice for him to pump ur gas but it’s not that big of a deal :)

@LadyLionessx2 Жыл бұрын

I picked that up about Bartise as well

@gsoftball05 Жыл бұрын

Nick just so you know you’re not alone!! My man and I have been together for over a year and he has not once ever let me pump my own gas. He would laugh and think I’m being silly I if I were to even try to pump my own gas when he is the car with me. 💯 chivalry still exists and I would never settle for anything less. Plus he always opens the door for me

@jaylashey8313 Жыл бұрын

Ever since i started dating my bf he’s never ever let me pump my own gas and he is the only guy i’ve dated that’s done that. we’ve been together for almost 3 years now. Nick, men like y’all are just a rare breed!