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Got my boyfriend’s brother arrested| I've Been Through the Most |Ncumisa Madikane | Part 1

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Hey Guys,
I've been through the most is a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopefully inspire for the better. Produced by the CentTwinz Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile.
This week on the show, we profile: Ncumisa Madikane
Follow: @ivebeenthroughthemost on Instagram and Facebook I've Been through the most . If you would also like to share your story, please email us. Email: centtwinz@gmail.com
Kind Regards,
Centtwinz Production Team

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@princesstee6483
@princesstee6483 2 жыл бұрын
Rape is an evil spirit, if it happens once, it just follows you everywhere, rebuke it my love and l wish you to heal by the Grace of God, much love ❤
@shataditswai2673
@shataditswai2673 2 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain my angel 😇 💔 I have been there, I was raped 4 times if it's not 5 times different pleases different people ,the last one was gang rape 💔 every time I talk about it the tears just roll down my chicks 😭😭😭I can't say it will pass because you live with it for the rest of your life, even now by 5 o'clock I want to see myself in the house the latest is 6 o'clock even my boss knows that 4h 30 I knokoff so that I can get home earlier and I thank God for giving me the boss who's so understanding. The only thing is to forgive and pray 🙏
@cyliamotsoenengzengele
@cyliamotsoenengzengele 2 жыл бұрын
I am so deeply sad to hear your story.
@shataditswai2673
@shataditswai2673 2 жыл бұрын
@@cyliamotsoenengzengele thanks my angel 😇 I was seeking help ,finally on Saturday I start my first session with my counselor, I have been living with this pain for the last+- 35 years.
@ncumisatshengele6745
@ncumisatshengele6745 2 жыл бұрын
🤗❤
@ncumisatshengele6745
@ncumisatshengele6745 2 жыл бұрын
@@shataditswai2673 ❤Wish you a peaceful recovery Ngwaneso 🤗🙏🏻
@shataditswai2673
@shataditswai2673 2 жыл бұрын
@@ncumisatshengele6745 thanks my angel 😇 💖
@tjipenaurorua8928
@tjipenaurorua8928 5 ай бұрын
May God shower you with strength to prosper and florish in life . .. you really deserve it!
@millymashile
@millymashile 2 жыл бұрын
The way your mom treated you 😢 heartbreaking
@jzl2009
@jzl2009 2 жыл бұрын
I have never wished I could just hug someone through the screen just to tell them that one day it will all make sense like I am right now. I am really sorry sisi that you went through so much, askies.
@millymashile
@millymashile 2 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to Part2, I pray you catch a break, this was hard to watch
@monicachabalala3257
@monicachabalala3257 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. Sis Milly.
@palesas6301
@palesas6301 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman. I pray God heals and restores her❤️❤️❤️ I pray God erases all the pains of her past and gives her unspeakable joy in her life time.
@atimedia6645
@atimedia6645 2 жыл бұрын
jo jo jo this is hectic, I’m m in tears, can’t wait for part 2
@nontokozomadondo8051
@nontokozomadondo8051 2 жыл бұрын
How did momma not ask where the money was coming from 💔💔💔😭 I'm sorry that you had to go through that
@nickymthelebofu
@nickymthelebofu 2 жыл бұрын
We dnt have to judge but I think mommy new, remember she was not working, Maybe and Maybe!!!! She had a deal with the man. My opinion though I'm allowed to be corrected
@Facelesssceneary
@Facelesssceneary 2 жыл бұрын
I’m just gonna assume she was too caught up in her struggles to even ask where n why does she have money
@eumomabo826
@eumomabo826 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh 😢😢😢for the first time I do not know what to say ...how to encourage you or my two cent about your traumas but I will pray for you thats the least I can do
@joycemsiska-chihana9010
@joycemsiska-chihana9010 2 жыл бұрын
Amen..its actually the most you can do..
@morongoaprinangel5472
@morongoaprinangel5472 Жыл бұрын
I hope we one day get to realize that rape is a spirit, once it happens its more like it invites other incidents. Most rape victims dont have one story to tell. We need to pray about it especially after the first incident
@cyliamotsoenengzengele
@cyliamotsoenengzengele 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like your mom had her pain that she was dealing with as well.
@naomiemilani2362
@naomiemilani2362 Жыл бұрын
Just watching this now,May God bless you Ncumisa, been through the same thing 3 times..even made a point of not having kids and moved abroad, Praying that God gives you strenght and healing and many more blessing!!!
@ncumisamadikane326
@ncumisamadikane326 Жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏❤️❤️
@edwinedwin4771
@edwinedwin4771 Жыл бұрын
I'm a MAN and this type of stories really breaks my heart, u decided to leave yr mother land because of this, eish sorry sister to what happened to u and I hope u heal and I also apologise to other women who went throught the same thing eish our country neh, and this really pains me I don't want to lie to u, I hope u don't hate yr country and I pray u find peace where ever u are, GOD be with u,
@elizabethsilas3191
@elizabethsilas3191 2 жыл бұрын
I’m really really sorry to you and every lady going/went through this 💕💕. May this never happen to anyone else
@Bianca-fw7ou
@Bianca-fw7ou 9 ай бұрын
May you find healing my sister….that was way too much . May God continue to give you strength 🙏
@sithembilemthembu943
@sithembilemthembu943 2 жыл бұрын
You have been through a lot. May the Lord continue to heal you sisi.
@HalimaTambuli
@HalimaTambuli 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a mom and I'm not ready to be one but what the mom said shows no love and there is no excuse for anyone to say there is no relationship between the two of them but in general, if you are human , the pain of a child should be attended to no matter what, so for me aii I don't respect parents who become bitter towards their children's pain and fear because they think they know.
@mildredmatjie5652
@mildredmatjie5652 2 жыл бұрын
You have been through so much sesi. Your mother though, the feeling cuts deep for a child you gave birth to no matter what she must have been through. She's heartless
@MichelleFreedomBelle
@MichelleFreedomBelle 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you see this. I am so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve this. I’m grateful you’re still alive and here with us. I believe you and wish I could tell you how strong inspiring and beautiful inside and out you are. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending love and peace your way
@ncumisamadikane326
@ncumisamadikane326 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sis wam 🙏❤️
@lihlemasilela4286
@lihlemasilela4286 Жыл бұрын
Leaving your daughter back home after being through everything you went through....you are very brave
@lesley_lezley
@lesley_lezley Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts but I don’t believe it’s bravery at all, it’s been reckless as a parent. And she doesn’t even say anything about that daughter. How do you leave tour child at the crime scene 😭😭😭
@lorrainemadure2837
@lorrainemadure2837 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔 That was a lot. And to think there's a part 2? More trauma for 1 person. Yooooooooooo, sesi. May God heal you sesi, I hope you are going for counseling as well because it's a lot.
@centtwinz
@centtwinz 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly there's more. She's a very strong woman.
@asandandelu3031
@asandandelu3031 Жыл бұрын
Mmm story similar to mine,but no ones no coz no one will believe me....😭😭
@lesley_lezley
@lesley_lezley Жыл бұрын
Left your daughter with WHO??? 😳😳😳
@nomdakazana09
@nomdakazana09 2 жыл бұрын
Not me going to google to just see your clear pictures😟 you are so beautiful miss mama😟❤ I'm so sorry for what happened babe, you are truly a survivor❤ love and light to u🕯❤❤❤❤
@christinakumalo1260
@christinakumalo1260 2 жыл бұрын
Shem cc. You went through a lot. I pray for the peace that is beyond human understanding 🙏
@tsakanimahungu
@tsakanimahungu 4 ай бұрын
I sorry my sister indeed you were thuogh a lot. Your story it eye opening to all women who are single bcz these are happening and parent's are still fighting the. battle of being left alone
@luckymonau7426
@luckymonau7426 2 жыл бұрын
I can't understand why her mother would not ask her where she got all the money to buy things in the house
@Facelesssceneary
@Facelesssceneary 2 жыл бұрын
She knew she just didn’t think she was being touched I’m assuming he’d always often help the mum with groceries etc
@mmakwenamatlakeng6942
@mmakwenamatlakeng6942 2 жыл бұрын
I pray & hope you find healing and comfort in God, it was too much to take but you did the bravest thing by coming out. This happens to a large number of women yet its hard to talk about!!
@hlonimollo7151
@hlonimollo7151 2 жыл бұрын
Am so sorry for the pain you weny through sisi. I dont know what to think about these men
@user-qj8bt1jp7t
@user-qj8bt1jp7t 2 жыл бұрын
This is too much. I'm very sorry my dear
@koketsokaym234
@koketsokaym234 2 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful there's something about your skin
@thokomasango2294
@thokomasango2294 2 жыл бұрын
I also realized that once a person is raped the first time the incident doesn't stop it continues over and over again
@ndagebs6092
@ndagebs6092 8 ай бұрын
Club,club,club,club, club and club is all that heard😢😢
@mandynossy
@mandynossy 2 жыл бұрын
Your mother 💔
@indiajacquet9195
@indiajacquet9195 9 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry love. I hope God gives you healing ❤️‍🩹
@melomurmursasmr7336
@melomurmursasmr7336 2 жыл бұрын
I dont understand rapists. like what goes on in your mind when you decide you will force yourself on someone
@Nthabiseng-dr7rv
@Nthabiseng-dr7rv 8 ай бұрын
I really love your Spirit❤❤🔥🔥
@ndagebs6092
@ndagebs6092 8 ай бұрын
What spirit?
@JosephinaNobayeni-gj3fy
@JosephinaNobayeni-gj3fy 9 ай бұрын
Iam speechless your strong dear❤
@ncumisatshengele6745
@ncumisatshengele6745 2 жыл бұрын
@Ncumisa Madikane you are beautiful sis.🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤we thank God for your life and that Christ found you. Great decision mntasekhaya. God will heal you one step at a time🫂🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗🤗💗💗💗💗
@Deedee-psalm34-7
@Deedee-psalm34-7 2 жыл бұрын
For international viewers please put subtitles for phrases in local language. Please! What is mum's response at 26:19 onwards?
@Zikhon
@Zikhon 2 жыл бұрын
"serves you right, what were you doing in the street"
@Deedee-psalm34-7
@Deedee-psalm34-7 2 жыл бұрын
@@Zikhon thanks hun
@anniedengura2794
@anniedengura2794 2 жыл бұрын
Im deeply sorry for the pain you have you known. Healing is an ongoing process you are breathing so possibilities are available,,,,
@bab8111
@bab8111 2 жыл бұрын
Church is hope for tomorrow 😘
@nomaswazinyanganduna4435
@nomaswazinyanganduna4435 Жыл бұрын
God is , church is full of disappointing people.
@favoured847
@favoured847 Жыл бұрын
When the old man did the unspeakable to you he opened a rape spiritual door in your life😢
@tumipelo6320
@tumipelo6320 2 жыл бұрын
😭😰😢😥😰😭😭😭😭 this woman went through a lot 😭😰😥😥 I have a lot to comment on yet speechless 😥 this is painful
@child__of_God
@child__of_God 2 жыл бұрын
This world is evil. Please, repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand. Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life. Turn away from your sins and your past today and receive Him as your LORD and Saviour right now. The Bible says that if you confess with your mouth the LORD Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. salvation prayer: Dear Lord Jesus I believe that You are the Son of God I believe that You came to earth and died on the cross for my sins I believe that You shed Your blood for my redemption And I believe that You were buried and that You rose from the dead on the third day, and that You are now seated at the right hand of the throne of God I am a sinner and I need You Lord I ask that You may forgive my sins and wash me with Your blood I repent of my ways, of my sin, and of the world And turn whole to You today I give You my life I surrender all that I am and all that I have to You right now Come into my heart Lord Save my soul Make me whole Fill me with Your Holy Spirit And enable me to live the Christian life victoriously and in its fullness In Jesus name, amen
@nomthandazonzimande4063
@nomthandazonzimande4063 Жыл бұрын
I pray fr yo healing mtase inside and outside may god strenghten u hugs and kisses 💔😭🙏
@leratomonegi3337
@leratomonegi3337 Жыл бұрын
U are so amazing 🙌
@zukiswamkatshwa1415
@zukiswamkatshwa1415 2 жыл бұрын
I wish the music would play at the beginning and end of doccie, struggling to focus on the story
@ntontokana1809
@ntontokana1809 2 жыл бұрын
I have no words for the mother 💔 I'm sorry sisi you had to go through these traumatic events in your life. 💔
@namwinga.6839
@namwinga.6839 2 жыл бұрын
What did her mum say? I don’t understand her language
@ntontokana1809
@ntontokana1809 2 жыл бұрын
@@namwinga.6839 she said "Tshotsho " meaning she deserved to be raped but the boyfriend 's brother.
@namwinga.6839
@namwinga.6839 2 жыл бұрын
@@ntontokana1809 geez. What a woman. I have no words too.
@BabsKilili
@BabsKilili 2 жыл бұрын
@@namwinga.6839 it’s so hurtful it doesn’t deserve a translation. But I pray for the mother as it shows that she’s broken as well inside. May God heal us all🙏
@danielmokopa4574
@danielmokopa4574 2 жыл бұрын
💔😭😭😭it hurts what women go through because of us
@alutampayise1356
@alutampayise1356 2 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful Ncum -Ncum👑❤
@pulanemahase728
@pulanemahase728 2 жыл бұрын
what is chocho bathong??? it's frustrating that there are no subtitles.
@Shamase_Andile
@Shamase_Andile 2 жыл бұрын
You deserve it what were you doing on the streets
@nokwandajobe1021
@nokwandajobe1021 2 жыл бұрын
"serves you right" or "you deserve it" what were you doing in the street at night.
@asandambebe5201
@asandambebe5201 10 ай бұрын
"Tshotsho" means you deserve whatever happened to you. A very bad word that you say to someone who has been abused before💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
@ndagebs6092
@ndagebs6092 8 ай бұрын
What is "bathing"? It is very frustrating 😢😢
@monicachabalala3257
@monicachabalala3257 2 жыл бұрын
She went through a lot.
@vuyokazimtwecu9896
@vuyokazimtwecu9896 2 жыл бұрын
The subtitles are terrible😳
@thando1981
@thando1981 2 жыл бұрын
You are strong sisi
@siphiwenkutha4033
@siphiwenkutha4033 Жыл бұрын
I know this is not enough but askies sisi im very sorry😭
@masixolemakani4327
@masixolemakani4327 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry Sisi💔🥺💔
@hermajesty8903
@hermajesty8903 2 жыл бұрын
Can you please translate coz we all don't understand the other language
@trustingnobody628
@trustingnobody628 2 жыл бұрын
The part where you say you enjoyed the R300 the old man gave you and frequenting his place surprise me. A teacher calling you in the middle of the exam paper is unbelievable.
@TenCentsMusik
@TenCentsMusik 2 жыл бұрын
This here is a person that don't want to take responsibility of her part in the 1st incident with the old man because she was happy for the money, and it helped out at home. That's why she didn't stop going to the old man's house before it escalated. She sugar coats it as the man being respected in that street. Victim mentality all the way.
@TenCentsMusik
@TenCentsMusik 2 жыл бұрын
Even on the 3rd one, how can she walk all the way from the club and the guys's place? A whole person?
@nickymthelebofu
@nickymthelebofu 2 жыл бұрын
Ignorance Neh. I guess UL never understand until u in the situation. Remember she was young. Wats with judgement Donald?
@TenCentsMusik
@TenCentsMusik 2 жыл бұрын
@@nickymthelebofuher age at the time is what she emphasized and for me I think it's for the purpose of us having pity on her, instead of calling her out for enjoying the benefits. Maybe you're right, I will never understand. But I learners over time that there's 3 sides to a story, and that's both sides and the truth. I also learners that women just begin by believing women, no matter what.
@TenCentsMusik
@TenCentsMusik 2 жыл бұрын
@@nickymthelebofu even if I never lived her experiences and it's bad that she's gone through that, we mustn't be afraid to interogate certain things that may not add up for us when listening to a story. And we mustn't be afraid because people like you will call us judgement. What doesn't make sense for me just don't make sense and I will question it. Period!
@cyliamotsoenengzengele
@cyliamotsoenengzengele 2 жыл бұрын
The grooming that went on in this story was bad. Nxa, these old men are filthy.
@judykafusi7338
@judykafusi7338 3 ай бұрын
Very saad.
@womenaftergodsheartsarah5677
@womenaftergodsheartsarah5677 2 жыл бұрын
Hello anyone to please translate to me in English what the mother said to her. I'm from Namibia
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
When she told the mother she was raped she said you deserve it what were you doing in the streets
@angelinahnkosi8882
@angelinahnkosi8882 2 жыл бұрын
She deserves what she got
@saliediditagain
@saliediditagain Жыл бұрын
Cho Cho means she deserves what happened to her
@hildekalola1155
@hildekalola1155 2 жыл бұрын
@centtwinz not everyone watching understand SA languages, translation was need in some parts
@centtwinz
@centtwinz 2 жыл бұрын
noted! thank you
@tiyasplatform9982
@tiyasplatform9982 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly you guys need to translate.
@namhlaokuhlemngxati9163
@namhlaokuhlemngxati9163 2 жыл бұрын
Subtitles not translation . There's nothing wrong for her to speak her language
@Jesussaves-q1c
@Jesussaves-q1c 2 жыл бұрын
The teacher.... no screening 😢... and it's exam time 🤷🏽
@luugi_m3937
@luugi_m3937 2 жыл бұрын
Love and light ❤️❤️❤️
@nontokozomadondo8051
@nontokozomadondo8051 2 жыл бұрын
Your mom💔😩iyoah
@livhuwaninengovhela1684
@livhuwaninengovhela1684 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I’m sorry sesi
@Nthabiseng-dr7rv
@Nthabiseng-dr7rv 8 ай бұрын
@bettynase9555
@bettynase9555 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh I'm numb
@fearlessziwase3416
@fearlessziwase3416 Жыл бұрын
Can someone please translate her mother's response to English??
@guguzintlemgwebi1874
@guguzintlemgwebi1874 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@lihlemasilela4286
@lihlemasilela4286 Жыл бұрын
What if your mom knew, I'm just saying
@petersnell3128
@petersnell3128 Жыл бұрын
Please translate statements made in other languages into English. Thank you.
@sithembilemthembu943
@sithembilemthembu943 2 жыл бұрын
You have been through a lot. May the Lord continue to heal you sisi.
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