I really hate how people who have never been in a situation always tries to tell the victim how they should react

As a victim of SA, I could say this. While it was happening to me my good friend was laying on the same bed, it was a huge bed she was asleep. I didn't make not a sound, I was in complete shock and when I tried to quietly tell him to stop, he covered my mouth. Not only was I in shock, but his friend was the one that drove us there, I was actually there to accompany my friend that liked the driver. (Everything going through my head) if I scream he could hurt me and my friend, I don't have a way home, I don't know where I am, I don't know his real name (ppl use to call him by a nickname) and to top it off, when he was done, he told me he was a police officer and started showing me all types of proof, that he was. I had to stay in that house all night, in the morning when his friend took us home, all I wanted to do was cry, but I held it in because I was scared if I cried... he would kick us out the car. As soon as I got to my location, I broke down, my friend tried so hard to help, she kept saying she was sorry, but there is no words when a person goes through something like that. I could explain the condom question (a thousand things go through your head) Do I have an std, did he finish Inside me, am I pregnant. Staying calm in situations like this, most of the time is your best bet, because you never know what could happen if you start screaming, you could end up dead. The worst part of all is, my sister once saw him and confronted him and he told her, it was consensual and she took his side. I have never been able to get over the fact, that she did that, the friend that was with me that night started screaming at my sister, telling her she was the worse sister in the world, that how dear she even give that man a conversation and my sister didn't even flinch. SA is the most traumatic thing a women could go through, not only do you feel dirty, you also feel like if you tell ppl, they will think it was your fault. SA is not your fault, someone taking advantage of you because you are vulnerable, is a huge violation and no women deserves to go through that. Im sorry this happened to her and if there is any victims in this comment section, im sorry you had to go through that, but pls know it is not your fault. Blessing and much love 💖🙏💝💔

This is heartbreaking. Young ladies please don’t ever go to a party alone .. if you don’t have ONE person looking out for you don’t go ... esp If you know you plan on drinking..

If you have never been in that position of being sexually assualted don't sit up here an say why didn't you do this or why didn't you say that. I remember when I was raped I literally had an outer body experience. It was like I could see what was happening to me but I couldn't speak or move. This is 1 of the most traumatizing things you can go through. I 🙏🏽 she finds peace an if this happen, real justice is served LOVE YOU ZO ❤️ THANK YOU FOR BEING AUTHENTICALLY YOU

I mean, Crystal has been coming at Tae because of the fans for months. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 She can't get mad when Tae FINALLY starts responding.

I understand that Kai should’ve responded better but let’s all be clear that there’s no perfect answers when you’re being accused of setting a rape up & being some type of accessory to a rape that you didn’t even know occurred. It’s HARD. Communication is hard with these things.

The S.H.I.T. 1:49 - Jania 2:59 - NBA YoungBoy & Jazlyn Mychelle 4:10 - Asian Doll 7:14 - Crystal vs. Tae Caldwell 11:03 - Soulja Boy The Mess 14:06 - Kai Cenat vs. Jovi Pena 24:43 - Kayla B. vs. Momo 27:48 - Ebony vs. London on Da Track 30:08 - Gucci Mane & Keyshia Ka'oir vs. Big Scarr You're welcome.

Kai is not to blame. She did a interview where she stated she couldn’t leave because her friend who was with her at the party left her using her Uber that’s when Kai offered her to stay since she was drunk. I feel for her because no one deserves it but y’all putting the focus on the wrong person.

Idc about messy monday I just wanna stop by and say Thank you Zo!!! Thank you for everything you do!! You’ve saved me during the hardest times. You’re a special Angel from God… God please bless Zo with everything he wants and need.

I hope that young lady receives justice!

“And we ain’t get the flowers” but just repeatedly said that he “only” paid for flowers and obituaries… then proceeded to say “ he ain’t help us. Ma’am 😭 He really wasn’t obligated to do anything but he did what he did. It’s giving y’all mad he probably didn’t cover EVERYTHING. If the $20k was nothing then give it back 🤣

I wish ppl stop telling ppl who were abused physically, sexually, mentally etc, what they should have did. You weren’t there nor did it happen to you. Send positivity to that young lady or MYB🤷🏽‍♀️Kai shouldn’t be the one to blame tho & I pray she gets justice

My only problem was Kai’s lack of sympathy in those text messages but honestly I don’t think that Kai did anything wrong because he went the legal way about doing things. However I do understand where Jovi was coming from. She didn’t know that Kai was going the legal way and that he couldn’t say anything so therefore she thought that he was lying to her about knowing the dude but in reality he was just trying to do these legally.

It's not Gucci Mane's responsibility to pay for that man's funeral

As someone who has watched Kai literally grind his ass off. This is Kai’s first serious situation in the media and he honestly doesn’t know what to do. Imagine being in his shoes, he’s scared not only that but he’s caught in the middle. I feel so bad for him because he’s trying to do this right way. We don’t need to attack Kai, we need to attack the guy who did this.

This happens alot in house parties, girls pass out in rooms and some rapist tries her. Almost happened to me but luckily my friends came to check up on me when they realised some guy missing from the party. Only to find him trying to take off my shorts. Ladies be careful these predators are not there to party but attack and take. Sending love and light to all. ❤🌻

I get so sick of Soulja boy ALWAYS having something to say. He needs to grow up!

Tae has been chilling but Crystal kept throwing shade. So now Tae is getting petty back and Crystal doesn't like it. She's very much threatened by Tae.

I feel so bad for Kai cause he lost just like everybody else. He don’t even know what’s goin on and to just wake up and see thousands of people bashing and blaming him like he did it. As he stated multiple times he couldn’t speak on it cause his team told him not to, which indeed his team did reach out to her and also got the police involved. He just got the pass to speak on it AFTER. Same energy people got towards to Kai need to be put towards the person who Actually did it. Damn it really must suck bein famous or havin such a high audience.

I understand that guy is Kai’s friend but just because you’ve known him for a very long time does not mean he couldn’t have assaulted that girl. Not many people are gonna actually come out and say “yeah bro I did that”. As a woman who’s been in a situation like this, it’s very unfortunate for her and I hope she can heal from this soon smh

People are talking more about Kai then the actual dude that did it blows my mine ...anyways justice for JOVI but leave Kai out of it

60,000 for a funeral damn thats alot especially for someone who has life insurance 🤔

If someone said they got assaulted in my home, I'm going to the police. if that person is innocent then it'll get worked out but I'm not about to sit here and play detective and decide who's telling the truth on who's not. 🤨

kai sounds like so many of the guy friends of men who SA’d me in college when i finally brought it up to them. men will never know the full extent of their male friend’s behaviors towards women and i stand on that. all this defensive talk and telling his side and getting to the bottom of it was pointless. this girl deserves justice and i pray she finds peace. that should have been the immediate response instead of all that back and forth. i don’t think people are blaming kai for what happened or thinking he set it up, i think more people are more irate about his response and reaction. it’s not enough to “boys will be boys” this shit away. sorry i ranted but ooooh stuff like this boils my cauldron sometimes…

Kai is young. He handle the messages wrong with her but he’s not wrong for getting all the information before addressing and giving out names and stuff. She’s in no wrong what so ever but I just don’t feel like Kai is at fault. He’s trying to protect his reputation

100% agree on your take on the kai situation; he wouldn't be this deep in it if he had just helped her from the start! the lack of sympathy in those texts was crazy...regardless i'm praying for her and i hope she gets justice

Isn't it weird that Kai says "he's not that kind of guy" like since he hadn't tried to r-word Kai he was incapable of that? Most serial killers friends and family were unsuspecting too... BTK was active in his CHURCH! Kai handled this all wrong and absolutely took the side of the alleged r-wordist.

That man Kai had nothing to do with that ish 😂

We all know zo was the first one to say jania was pregnant he told all USSS🤣🤣🤣

Kai needs to be careful. Cause sometimes you may think you know somebody, but you don’t. Also, in the live you can clearly hear him say that his team already spoke to her before she came to the internet. I don’t think Kai is at fault, he could’ve been more caring. God forbid it was someone close to him.

I’m sorry. Kai was sketchy. The fact that he tried to give her the run around on the strength of “I know him… I know he’s not like that” told me all I need to know. I hope baby girl get her Justice fr. From on surviving victim to another, we know what it sounds like when mfs tryna pull the wool over our eyes. Since you wanna be willingly silent, you are liable too.

Crazy thing is I didn’t know she made the challenge til all the drama came out. So I don’t think everybody knew she made the challenge

Yes sir I'm here for Messy Monday because my day was terrible😖 ASF! I'm ready for all the juicy tea and drama!

Soon as I saw her pregnant 🤰🏽 belly I said OOOP ZOIE called it! 😂😂💀 called YAYA a RINGTESTER 💀😂 i was also waiting on you to talk about Kayla fighting Momo AGAIN🙄 Im sorry but Kayla need to sit for a while 👮🏽‍♀️💀

Needed this messy Monday!! Got my pizza, ice cream, & wine akikikiing my Monday away

Zo kills me everytime he says "word on the curb" lol. He is so funny,

I'm proud of you all for making through the day and the week!!!! I'm here for you to tell you to keep going I know it gets hard sometimes but you can do it!!! 💜💜💜💜 Zoieee I love u and thank you for your videos and encouraging us to keep pushing forward💜❤️💜

So when did his team give him the okay to talk🤔 if she hadn't taken it to social media he'd still be avoiding her....as far as Scarr's siblings do they not know how stupid they sound 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

Kai was literally describing a friend when he was talking bout ole dude. Also, if his legal team didn’t let him tell her anything, why did they allow him to go on twitch speakin on the situation in-depth like he did?

Jovi Pena I'm very sorry you went through this, and I applaud you for speaking out some not other girl get hurt by that dude. Hope they lock him up and he get known as a sex-offender, so other know to be careful of him.

Idc how many times I’ve watched messy Monday I always die laughing at that damn chair punch 😂😂😩💀

Yes Zo I needed this on our daughter's heavenly birthday she would've been 26yrs old God bless dear

“I’m not defending nobody” “he’s not that type of person”

Tae been chilling honestly, crystal delusional 😂

Ahhhhhhhh it’s that time people we back again, always ready to go MESSY MONDAY 🥳🥳

Zo, I’m going through so much and I’m happy you posted Messy Monday 😢👏🏽👏🏽

While Kai may not be to blame, I’m still looking at him with a side eye because 1. If she was drunk and said she wanted to go home at a party YOU invited her too, and go to tell her to go upstairs and lie down she’ll be SAFE…would have been better off getting her an Uber home and check to make sure she made it home safely or have one of her friends come pick her up. 2. For him to constantly lie and say he didn’t know the guy then turn around and say he went to high school with him, went on a few trips with him… he shouldn’t have addressed anything to the public and let his legal team handle it cause he all over the place

LMFAOOOO “atp choose peace” 😭

I read the title and died 😂😂😂Yaya punching the air is crazy😂😂😂

I have never been raped. But I have been in two different situations where someone has tried to rape me. And the first time. Yes I did scream but the second time no I didn’t I actually cried. But I must say with both situations I was not drunk and I was able to fight back.

That family thought they were about to get paid off their brothers death. The life insurance paid for the funeral not them. And they flashing all this money and baby those chains were sold that’s y they say Gucci can’t get them back. I understand they’re somewhat mourning,but their actions show they didn’t give af frfr.

This messy Monday was juicy 🥴 really enjoyed it

nah zo crystal been being shady towards tae and tae don’t even be doing nun

Idk about y’all but messy mondays will always be the thing that brightens up my week! What’s up Zo’Navy!!! 🎉 LOVE YALL TO DEATHHH

Kai said in the texts “ I don’t know everyone at the party” AFTER SHE SENT PICTURES OF HER ABUSER. He was either in denial or trying to protect his friend. Either way, somebody tells u shit like that. You jump on it df

"Strap, fingers & a tongue". I've never ever hollered so loud. 😂

Dude that was giving javi the run around IS trying to protect his homeboy as long as he can as well as keep javi from inserting him in the situation and other words keep her from getting information so he don't go to jail too

Heavy on the jazz still talking to tae 😂😂😂😂😂 I said the same shit !!

For the Tae situation , it all started when toni went on live with crystal sayin stop comparing tae to jazz. And crystal started throwing shade so I’m on tae side cause crystal always throwing shots in KZfaq videos and tae has been silent for a longggg time .

My whole thing with the Kai situation is… if you tell me to go upstairs is safe for me to SLEEP I in some way expect you to check up on me and make sure everything is good. Especially if I was about to leave. The fact that he playing it off like I wasn’t around I wasn’t there like that’s bullshit. I would never do my company like that.

Zos laugh is contagious 😭😂

It was 20k an his own father said that they did reach out an everything his kids saying irrelevant cus they not even paying for nothing 😂

Imagine being told from a "friend" u are safe in a certain room then being raped in said room and the rapist specifically saids he did what he did because you was in his bed. Speaks to the friend and eventho u are not accusing them they are very defensive and lack sympathy. They are then not properly communicating and goes silent. I mean in her state of mind it's not much left for the imagination. HOWEVER the girl keeps blatantly repeating that's she's not trying to accuse him , just how it made her feel but ofc the internet (kai fanbase specifically) is trying to paint that narrative. Kai fault is that fro. The very beginning he was defensive for his friends and when he realized it was indeed one of his friends he didn't communicate that he will proceed into through his lawyers that are also there to help her it could have been that simple. But hey he is still young it's just a lesson in life.

Kai has worked soo damn hard to get to where he's at. This assault case that has NOTHING to do with him has the potential to ruin everything he's grinder for. Kai doesn't deserve this hate.

Ready for this. This the only way I get my tea cause I am not on the shade room that much anymore.

Yesss zo my day started horrible . Been waiting for you to cheer me up 🥺🖤🤗

im screaming at “the word on the curb” lmao whole time its just you zo

the way zoie kept saying “word on the curve” 😂😂😂😂

Hopefully I don’t get fired I got my caller on hold 😂😂

Thats exactly what happened with Gucci...he paid the funeral home and posted receipts..them people wanted cash in hand

My only problem with Kai is the lack of text and response. he could have told her the truth or told his team to talk to her instead. but she constantly told her to wait. and as a SA victim, you don't want to wait. waiting means that person doesn't care, waiting for means the SA victim story is going to be pushed to the back like every other person out there. so I don't hold him responsible or that Kai should go to jail. but I think he owns her the truth. he lied about being friends with the guy and then a few sentences later said that's has been his friend for years.

That girl Yaya is just the ring holder 😂😂

I saw the Kai Cenat situation and said “C’mon now Zoie what YOU got to say” 😅 because I have never disagreed with you Great REASONABLE minds ❤️

I think like Kai said he was trying to figure out how to maneuver the situation from a legal standpoint. Because obviously he has business opportunities who might see him being connected to this and turn the other way

The way u hit the chair 😂😂😂 in the intro gets me everytime that’s me lol

I’m cryinggg it was the strap fingers and a tongue for meeee 😂😂

I love you zoeee ❤ thank you for messy monday

I understand that Kai could have went a different way but just as she was in shocked and immediately texted him his response was also in shocked as well. I think that’s what people are forgetting imagine just getting a text saying your friend got SA how would you expect to respond your mind goes blank and you immediately gonna be like hold wait what trying to figure out what just happened but I mean hey we won’t know what will happen with that situation until it’s bought up again

It's crazy how the amount of men that are charged with rape or accused of rape and every man friend that's been accused and charged never gave that impression of being a predator..

Zoe so silly. He the only reason I make it through boring ass Mondays at work.

Ready for the sugar honey ice tea!!!!!!!!

Kai knew good & well he made that video to protect himself just like he was protecting the guy

Kai clearly stated that his team informed her that he was not able to speak per their advice. So when she went to social media , she knew that he was advised to not speak to her. I really wish as a people , we would listen prior to voicing opinions on the situation. Nevertheless, the circumstances are extremely unfortunate and I pray that young lady receives the justice and healing she deserves.

LMFAOOO the insert of the petty dance took me tf outttttt BYEEE 😭😭😭😭

I love messy Mondays💛

Kai should have identified that man to that girl. I don’t believe for a second that any lawyer would tell him to withhold info that can help the victim identify their alleged r@pist. I’m not buying that. I believe they would tell him not to speak publicly.

Bruh Zo is to fucking funny I just canttttttt lollllllll 😂😂😂😂

Asian Doll part had me flooring 😭🤣🤣😂😂

ONLY REASON I LOVE MONDAYS !!

I be waiting on this zoie since 6😂

As a SA assault victim from childhood ..Some SA victims be in denial or shock . We literally will live with knowing that person did it to us but won’t really say anything until it actually hits you. It’s almost like a grievance.

😂😂the way I hollered when Starrkeshia entered the chat with them ashy knees

THIS POST JUST LIT UP MY DAYYY, I DON'T THINK YOU KNOW HOW HAPPY I AM WHEN I SEE YOUUUUU😭🖤 YOU'VE STAYED CONSISTENT ALWAYS AND I JUST THOUGHT I'D SAY THANK YOUU. You honestly do so much for us and you're just all around an amazing person!💖💖💖💖

Its a wholllleee lot going on 😅

"word on the curb" 😭😭😭

I feel like the “word on the curb” be you 😂😂

You are a fine wine. This show and your looks have just got more refined and defined every year you've continued to do this for us. We appreciate you, truly.

While Kai Cenat didnt sexually violate Jovi, the fact that he gave her the run around & got on stream & said “hes not that kind of guy”, it came across as he was trying to defend his friend rather than just helping Jovi.

Where can I find the clip of the African boy laughing ?? 😂😂 omg it’s to funny

Imagine fighting over jazz lol