If a man doesn't answer you after you contact him, do not contact him again. If he really is into you, he will hit you back no matter how busy he is or what he has going on. Some men enjoy feeling like women are chasing them even if they're not really into them so they play this little game.

Don’t EVER let a man tell you more than once he don’t want you. These men don’t deserve multiple chances in such a short period of time.

I hope Black women (me included) get to a point where we stop feeling like we have to prove ourselves in relationships. Take these men’s actions as our answer and stop hoping and praying and Giving to men who don’t even deserve to breathe in our energetic space! After all the crap he did…for you to end up in his bed is exactly why these crusties out here feeling entitled!! WE must do better.

I would have ghosted the guy as soon as I found out he had two baby mommas. He didn't deserve to see you christmas eve. You deserve so much more. Don't let these men play with you

Jessie, you DID TOO MUCH! He should have been gone with the first red flag..you gave him too many chances.. my advice: if it don’t FIT don’t FORCE it! (54 years old).. don’t try to make something out of nothing.. he IS nothing

I've been telling all my friends that this is Black Womenz Black History Month! 🙌🏾👑💐 We celebrating every day.

"Pregnant with possibilities," that is poetry sis.

Can't keep letting these men treat u like an option. Apply pressure or get lost. Your dress was the bomb. Congratulations on Dish Nation!

I ALSO do not enjoy dating. I have a friend that loves it, but I cannot stand getting dressed up to eat dry food with dry conversation with weirdos....... I'll pass... get somebody else to do it LOL

Jessie! Why did you explain yourself to this old man so many times??? As soon as he didn't kiss it or give you some good D, I would have blocked him. This Cancer would have been done. My feelings are too sensitive to keep explaining to you what you are doing wrong. He is too damn old not to know what he is doing wrong. You are a beautiful young woman with so much going on. The same way you're living your dream workwise. God will send you YOUR MAN when it is time.

He can sense that “wrap it up” spirit or anxiousness around settling down on you, which is why he keeps trying to play on your vulnerability. He’s a narcissist. You’ve got to close that door for good. Eradicate all temptation that could potentially lead back to that situation. Don’t just ignore him. Block him.

The minute he said he had two baby mommas and 45 years old that would’ve been my que to go out of the door 🚪 😂 honestly I love these storytimes because of your transparency and WOMEN we had at some point been in Jessie’s shoes before so let’s give her grace. I too was side eyed as the story was going but who am I too judge

I’ve come to realize that any man that starts telling you in details what they would do to you in bed, ends up being a disappointment 🤷🏽‍♀️💀🤦🏾‍♀️

I'm praying that you find the husband that God wants for you. With the guy from your story it seems like you already saw all the red flags but tried to ignore them in an effort to "wrap it up" as you say. I know it's hard out there Jessie but I hope you don't give up on dating or stay too long in any situation that doesn't serve you!

During this whole video I didn't hear any type of accountability on your part. He showed you a million times what type time he was on and you gave him a million chances. Sometimes we color the red flags pink and we blame the man, when really we know whats going on but we still choose to accept it. I've done it a million times. That after the third situationship....I had to look in the mirror and take accountability and figure out how I really felt about myself to entertain someone of that caliber. I love you Jesse.

David had a girl he really was rocking with and he just wanted to smash. He was saying all the right things to string you along. He was full of it from the jump. He literally had a shorty and when that chick wasn’t giving him attention or tired of his games, he would reach out to you. You made your self way too available for him. Each time he reached out you answered and gave him what he wanted. Attention and validation. When you reached out he didn’t respond. It was a manipulation tactic to control you and have you chase him. He created an argument so he didn’t have to fess up to what he was really doing. Grown Boy. The moment you ain’t give him kewchie when y’all had the movie date at your house and he ain’t smash he was mad. All he wanted to do was have sex. Period.

Jessie……. Jessie!! The FIRST time a man does not contact you for more than 48 hours is the LAST time you speak to him. There are no exceptions to this rule. By ignoring it, you are enabling everything that is to follow. Also, I want women to FREE THEMSELVES from offering friendship in failed romantic pursuits. It will NEVER happen. He was 100% accurate in describing y’all’s relationship as such. Only friends are in situations that y’all were in if that makes sense

Black Women's "Harriet Tubman, You Won't Break My Soul, Haitian Women's, Coretta Scott King, Dish Nation Gave Me a Job" Month

Girl I was gonna blow they shit up until they hired you!! I'm so proud of you sista

With the right guy it won’t be this hard or confusing. You’ll only have to say something once ! And ghosting wouldn’t even happen

Just because a man is older don't mean they're mature😔....

I love Jessie......pure comedy, and one of realest in entertainment. She deserves the world 🌎 ❤️ 💜

Girl, this story irked my soul. Just made me feel so vexed. You deserve so much better than him. You can do so much better than him. This dude is not even in your league, like he is not of the right caliber. All this bullshit at his big old age of 45! I hope you find the love that you deserve, Jessie. An effortless and easy love, that feels right and good from the start with a man that feels like home to your heart and soul.

Jessie, that dress was STUNNING!!❤‍🔥❤‍🔥 👑👑As a Nigerian woman, I love seeing my black sisters celebrate their African heritage! So beautiful! XOXOX!

That impromptu duet with Shania Twain was adorable!! Love that for you! You looked amazing on the red carpet ❣

New term " economic violence "....my bills and kids are economically assaulting me!

“ I just felt pregnant with possibilities” 😂😂I felt that one. Story of my life. This is one is giving cancer man 😂

I’ve dated a lot of cheap men (mind you they all had money) and the excuses they come up with is unbelievable 🤦🏾‍♀️ . Funny thing is I never ask for anything but gave Everything.

If a woman like Jessie can’t find success in dating…I’m doomed for love, romance, courtship and ALLAT! 😫😂😂 I’m laughing but Im serious 🥴

You are the prize but don't remind these ninjas with words you have to do so with actions. Giving 3rd, 4th, 5th chances is not the behavior of a prize. He was unworthy. Thanks for sharing your life with us, you're a great storyteller. Remember that you deserve the best💚.

As a Cancer woman ♋️ in her 30s with no kids on the dating scene I feel like I relate to you sooooo much! I love your story times and it makes me feel like we’re sisters for real and having conversations about these ninjas!!! I love you Jess and pray that real love finds us soon ❤️❤️❤️

😭😭😭 I’m so glad I’m Haitian and I understand the side comments, I’m wfh and screaming 😭

You hit nail on head men 40 plus several kids are THE RED FLAG. Cancers are so patience and caring the very traits men seek to prey on those traits I see it all time with my cancer friends I just smdh you'll really need an emotionally mature man

That dating story had my jaw on the floor because he sounded like a major walking red flag oozing so many toxic traits. I really love how strong and assertive you were with him every time he tried to gaslight or manipulate you, you were very straight up and no nonsense with him so major respect to you Jessie Woo 🥰🥰🥰

I live for these dating stories! The way I yelled at the screen, "Oh hell naw! That's a threat!" 🤣🤦🏿‍♀️ I love that you set boundaries and how mature you are when breaking things off.

If you’re confused, or he’s giving you mixed signals, he is not into you. PERIOD

You have such a beautiful voice. I am so shocked that you haven’t been snatched up by a label. You can out sing a lot of these artist on the radio.

I JUST EXPERIENCED A DAVID 😩😩😂😂😂He was literally the scariest man I ever met with the mind games.

Wow, that dress was ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!!! What a talented designer/seamstress!!😍👏🏽

Baybehhhhh that was too much texting. He would have gotten a "take care" and a smooooth block lol

I love watching your dating experiences you tell us the raw truth.

Congrats girl! You deserve all the blessings that are happening to you. That guy was a total waste of time.

You and Tamar are Truly BIG Talents!! Yall are so funny and smart with amazing singing voices!! Congrats!♥️

Men be so attached to the fantasy version of you, they don’t even know what to do about the real thing past flowering and trying to impress you

mannn jessie is the best at telling stories 😩😭😭

I'm a newer subscriber and I really respect the level of vulnerability and self confidence you possess that you would share your dating life online with all of these judgemental pseudo therapists out here acting like they moonwalk out of relationships at the first partial red flag when they're literally making poor decisions in their love life as they type sanctimonious advice to you. I was with my last boyfriend for a year, and in that time, I took 2 brief breaks to think and officially broke up with him twice. I went back after 3 months to confirm for MYSELF that I made the right decision and I received my confirmation. Now it's done done. Deciding when to walk away is a hard decision to make, and only you can make it if and when you're ready. Thanks for sharing, sis.

At 45 years old hes looking for a caretaker not a wife … NEXT

I love you Jessie, on facebook, since you lived in NYC and I'm proud of you and your achievements. I'm a 46 yr old cancer married woman with 3 kids. My advice is to give these men the same energy they give you. A man who wants you will buy you anything, move time on his calendar, cook for you and make you a priority. Work on your career goals and all things will fall into place. Life is too short to waste your time, it is too precious.

Jessie Gurl… honestly I think most ppl just want to experience others. Just like you I have experienced someone hunting me down or expressing their undying love for me, I give them a chance then they fall off 🙄… I truly believe they only have the free trial available and that’s it, they don’t know what to do after y’all talk about favorite colors and favorite food 🤷🏾‍♀️ Good for you for calling him out but once you know it’s not working just cut ties. ❤️

Your experience with David touched several nerves for me. I went through the same thing‼️ it’s very confusing, traumatizing and frustrating dealing with someone like that. Also, that girl was shitty for doing that. Always tell women the truth when they ask about a guy. That’s weird asf she didn’t say anything.

"I felt pregnant with possibility!" 🤣🤣🤣 We love you, Jessie!!! 🥰🥰🥰

Congratulations on Dish Nation. Also as a 42 year old woman Ive witness handicap D. That why at 40+ your supposed to be married to someone who remember when the D was working not trying to get someone new lol

Thumbnail is EVERYTHING!!! So beautiful and you have been working so hard! Congrats hun!

Congratulations on your new gig at Dish Nation and the dope slot at the Grammys. Even though the dating story was disappointing, you figured it out later on which prevented a worse situation from happening down the road. Also, I get you want to wrap it up in terms of the getting the right man and kids, but don't run into something that looks good for that reason. Research and never settle. Waiting isn't always a bad thing. You are in your prime, and the sky's the limit.

My good sister… you gotta put these behind a pay wall 😂😂😂

Two minutes in and I’m weak. 😭😭 I love this lady 🖤🖤

Your dress was absolutely beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing the back story!!

Please block that man on all platforms, please! He has unresolved issues and was gaslighting you on several instances. It is time to stop being nice, block him. Also, you are a great storyteller. I watched all the way through to the end.

Congratulations I’m so proud of you 👏🏾 ❤️💞 Black Womens History Month !!!!

Idk, I feel like the friend’s description of him was enough to walk away. It gave the vibe of being an aite friend but not so great at being a good partner

His actions spoke so loud. Even when he said crush, spoke so boldly about his tongue game too soon, and ghosted you the first time, he was telling you his truth. He couldn’t give you what you needed or be honest with his reason why.

The dating story time was sooooo interesting to me. I feel like we are living parallel lives smh. Its crazy to me how so many women have the same dating accounts across the country and in different spaces. First about the s3x situation. I think the 40's are hitting these men hard AF! I have dated two guys recently, 38 and 39, and they had issues with being soft. But they wanted to act like they had such high s3x drives but it was like dude you can't even get hard right now. And sometimes men can try to make it seem like its something that you are not doing when that is not the case at allllll this is between you and maybe your doctor. I think that being over weight can play into that too it can mess with a mans labido. Second I agree with the not wanting to address matters straight on, or ignoring statements when they don't support what they are saying. Or just flat out lying or acting like they don't remember what they said 5 sec ago. It's a crying shame. Based on the story you told I really feel like he wanted to ghost you to see if you would run him down. Some men say they want to be the "Alpha" but then they want to be chased at the same time. I def feel like GEN X men are a waste of time the majority of the time. And then I do think sometimes men will meet the woman they want or have been crushing on and they really don't know what to do from there so they act weird and ruin the situation and then blame everything on women. I think that since he admitted he was a late bloomer in life he still could have had a chip on his shoulder about life in general. And when it comes to the way he was talking to you at the end... I think that was a way to try to have some sort of power & control over you and the situation. Even when he was like you do you and I will handle the rest. How? How will you handle the rest and you want me to "trust" that you will do so when you have shown me nothing to rest my faith in (but a few nice dates). Not even from your past as you did not commit to the two women that had your children... make it make sense.

Jessie, you have a lottttt of patience!! I’d be long gone! Kuddos to moving on to better things!! 👏🏽👏🏽

As a fellow Cancer, you hit the hammer on the head about dating. It is such a drag, I do hate it as well. I think I'm a horrible dater too. But I'm trying to find my husband. And I'm so happy you caught those signs early because he was dripping with narcissism. It was oozing from his pores.

That dress is INCREDIBLE. #BlackHistoryWomen's Month, indeed!

Jessie I don’t think y know how much yr Haitian fam love and proud of You. 🇭🇹 ❤

The dress was BOMB and you literally was best dressed!!! Congrats on all the success

Jessie you messed up by taking all those dinner dates after he showed you who he was, taking the free airport ride, going to his house, etc. Like you shouldnt have done any of that.

Everything you said after that 1 hour mark had me on the floor🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

I literally had the same scenario with a man being delusional and a couple similar a few times over the past few months and it’s so dang draining. It is so unfortunate to know I am not alone.

Oooohhh Meeting your idol is so beautiful when they are actually good people. Oh that shit is the best. Fucking tears 😭, so happy for you Jessie!

I am going to be honest with Jessie…I am completely down for hiring a matchmaker…but…please give Kyle a call. He sounded like a really good fit for you.

Congratulations Jessie on everything!!! You are only at the beginning of your career and I am definitely here to support!! This man definitely was trying to suck you into his toxic cycle. I see that you truly tried your best to make things work but he definitely exhibited toxic behaviors. I totally identify with you cause I am 35 and just got into my first stable relationship last year after years of being in this crazy pool. I read this audio book that I HIGHLY recommend for all women- I shared it with my friend group and it really helped. It’s on called Marry Him by Lori Gotlieb. We started reading it as a joke based on the title but it ended up being really good

Jessica I am so proud of you girl!

Congrats on all your success! These dudes are legitimately crazy

Thank you for being so open with us!!! Great storytime , NOT the best situation & im sorry! 😭Some men never know what they have til it’s gone. Hoping you find the love you deserve soon ❤

Congrats, Jessie!!!! 🥳 Being able to be your authentic self at work is EVERYTHING!

Love your Shania T moment! Love that for you and yes you are living out your dreams!!

Screaming a HUGE CONGRATULATIONS 🎉 on Dish Nation! I’ve been following you for years & your commentary & presence is PRICELESS- we are blessed to have your AUTHENTICITY in media!! 🎉💪🏽🙏🏾💕🙏🏾 #MORESUCCESS

Jessie!!!!! My seester!!!! I am. SOOOOO proud of you! You are a blessing to this world and the world will FINALLY see it! Keep shining doll! I am so excited for you! Come thru blessings!!!! 🙏🏿

Congratulations on your new job🎉 You will be an excellent addition to the show🎉

The poetry and love letter you wrote with the New Years text to David was beautiful. Imma have to steal that!

Congratulations Ms Woo, this is a fantastic opportunity and we all wish you nothing but the best!!! From one Island/Canadian chic to another, big up ya whole self!!! Woop woop!!!! 🍾🍾🍾🍾🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Jessie is everything. Friend in my head 😂🫶🏾

Congratulations on your new job Jessie🥂 wishing you many blessings and much success!

Jessie you are a light!! Congrats on the show and the Grammys!! 👏🏾🥰🎉

I'm just so happy that you share your life with us. You are one of the most genuine ppl on YT and in life that just shares so openly and with such a way of sharing your life where it just feels so warm and welcoming. Like we're really following your life journey in a wholesome way❤

The way you effortlessly bust out a beautifully sung line , love it !😂😂👏🏽👏🏽😍😍💕

Yasssssssss sis..congrats on everything..so proud of you during black womens black history month 🎉🥰🙌🏾🙏🏿

Not I was sleep! Awww Jess, I’ve been rooting for you for years! I know you will meet the man God has for you and he will treat you like that Queen that you are! Blessings on all the success coming your way!

No more ‘wrapping things up’ in 2023. Jessie block and delete. Jessie, you’re too busy, beautiful and booked for this.

Yayy Jessie. I was watching Dish Nation with my Mom a few weeks ago, and I said to her they should hire you. You definitely deserve it. Congrats 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽

Congrats, Jessie!!! So happy for you!!!

I live for your dating story times! You could write a book on these crazy dudes!😂

Chileee this dating update was a doozy! 😮‍💨 the amount of times I was yelling at the tv 😂 I’m just happy you are blessed and highly favor. Better thing r to come. Also… u ate in that dress ❤

I hate that you had to go through all these trash men and experiences. Thank you for sharing with us and I can’t wait until you find your person… they’re on their way to you 💜

Well done on the Dish Nation job Jessie well deserved. 💕 👏 👏 👏

Omg that dresss was EVVVEERRRYYTTHHHAAANNGGG😍😍😍😍😍😍. Congratulations on all your wins Jessie 👏 🙌 ❤️ ✨️

You have the "IT" factor. Keep rising to the top. Keep being your authentic self, it will get you far. As you accomplish your dreams, dream even bigger dreams. ❤️✨✨ Congrats on all your accomplishments ✨❤️✨ #TeamJessie.

& also, that dress was FYE AFFFFFF!! Loved it!!! 😍😍😍😍😍