Grandmas can do that...

Real!! She don't like any of the dresses, we don't like her.

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Mine too

"I just don't like anything about that dress." Wow, if you don't like it, Grandma, how about some suggestions about what you *would* like to see your granddaughter wear for her wedding. "I don't like the fabric. It's too shiny. I'd like to see you in a dress with fabric that has more of a matt look." Or, "I don't think that neckline flatters you very well. Maybe a sweetheart neckline would be better than that deep V neck." That gives suggestions for improvement and is helpful.

Yes, I hate that too. I would not bring those kinds of people with me.

I completely disagree. Why would you bring your grandmother, mother and siblings to the appointment? Why would you let your grandmother pay for the dress?

Here’s the thing, most people respect their elders , their community and their family’s opinions. Without them we are all isolated people, obviously, ultimately we should dress to suit ourselves, however, valuing people’s opinions we respect is what makes us social .

I disagree, other people who knows us very well can say it's not her, I can take it or leave it, in my wedding I chose to take these opinions because I was confused and under stress, couldn't decide if I want to look gorgeous or do I want the dress to be gorgeous, do I wish to try something different and surprise people or do I want to be me. I am forever grateful they told me that the dress I originally wanted was not me and talked me out of it because looking back at the pictures now .. damn they were right!

@@sallykins3800 I totally agree.

Damn grandma is all i got to say

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Sorry, but if you want your own way ..then PAY YOUR OWN WAY

@@meman6964I agree and if you want what you want then you need to pay yourself.

​@meman6964 Do you also tell people who they can do with any other gifts you give ? Do Christmas, and birthday gifts come with stipulations?

Completely agree!

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I agree, but I think we’re looking at it through a 2024 lens. We thought the eighties dresses were gorgeous at the time. Now they generally look funny!

The first dress was gorgeous on her, the last one was hideous!!

Me too, looked like those mushroom topper dresses. Luckily she looks good in ANYTHING, but I feel sad she missed that 1st Dress. The Bride was just Gorgeous in it.

I agree and the first one was the best.

Yeah- the one she ended up with was not pretty.

I'm very opinionated and know what I like so other than observing, my family doesn't have a say. I would just say I've been dressing myself and looking amazing for years, I don't need assistance.

Grandma was reveling in her power. The br- ide's needs and wants were secondary.

money has strings. the bride and groom to be, couldn't find any money for the dress?

@@katherenewedic8076 Some people prefer to go the traditional route or their parents/grandparents/in laws refuse to let the bride or groom pay for the dress. Most times it goes well but sometimes we find videos of the person paying being an absolute c u next tuesday bc it's not in their style but in the brides style and they won't buy it unless they approve which is BS

She pulled off all of them.

Except she found her dress and her grandmother even loved it.

Exactly.. I was kind of like after the 2nd dress... "Why doesn't the #Bride Shell out some for her Dress so she doesn't have to do EXACTLY what Grandma says?" I know we're all #TeamBride when we watch these #SYTTD Episodes w/ Parents, Grandparents, whoever Paying.. but Realistically, that's why there's Drama b/c #Money is ALWAYS a form of #Power and #Selfishness-- with the #Wrong People.

I would have told Grandma she wasn't going to bribe me into wearing what she wanted by paying for my dress. That's the problem is everyone bows down to Grandma! And she takes full advantage of it! I'd rent my dream dress, anyway. It'd otherwise just sit, wrapped up in a box in the attic for the rest of my life. It's the pictures that people will be looking at...not wanting me to go dig my dress out of the attic so they could see what we looked like on our wedding day. Also Grandma! It's very rude to go to a bridal appointment chomping away on your gum at everyone throughout. You need to learn some manners.

@@isabellind1292Yea, my sister in law rented hers and now 23 years later, she doesn’t even remember it anymore.

Your mom wanted you to look bad? How loving!

@@codename495 she didn't want me to look bad but at 16 she didn't want me emphasizing my assets.

I LOVE the crumb catcher neckline! No obnoxious cleavage, so elegant, yet leaves room for a gorgeous statement necklace! My dream neckline!!!!@❤😊

Pickups are longer gone too.

She was paying for the dress. So she kind of had to be there. Secondly, the dress she liked was the one the bride liked best. And it was also the one her grandfather would have liked. So just maybe the grandmother helped her find the dress that she loved the most? Perhaps the bride (very beautiful) would have picked any old dress and not have seen the one she fell in love with? You need to see that the grandmother helped the bride with her goal - to find the perfect dress. You don't like her words, fine. But don't forget that, without her, the bride wouldn't have been as happy. Take that for what you will.

??? She loved the dress that the bride loved the most. She loved the dress that the grandfather would have loved the most. Isn't that a win?

Great. And, for this bride, her grandmother helped her find the dress that she loved the most. And THIS bride wanted to find the dress her grandfather would have liked the most. So you do you. Awesome. But let this bride do her.

Some brides actually want the guests to ooh and aah over their dress. If they bring an entourage, they can serve as test guests. So YOU don't care about what anyone else likes. But some brides are different. Who are you to say that they aren't allowed to care what others think? Some brides take all kinds of effort to put on a wedding that guests get wowed over. Besides, the grandmother is paying for the dress. If you don't want someone's opinion, then you pay for your own dress. End of story. The grandmother gets to choose if she will get out her wallet or not. The thing though that I don't understand is that the grandmother doesn't give constructive criticism. She's just "no" instead of 'I think the neckline is too wide" or "the silhouette that you would look good in is ..." But the bride brought her, so she is allowed to have an opinion.

Great. Her lane was purchaser of the dress. The bride put her on that lane. And the grandmother kept the bride trying on dresses until she found the one her grandfather would have liked the most. Otherwise, the bride would have stopped long ago. So the grandmother helped her find the perfect dress. Isn't that a win?

Glad it's not just me who can't take their eyes off of it every time they cut to someone talking to the camera. I bet that beautiful beaded, art deco style dress is very pricey. 😍

@@CleoS-vx5pd So obsessed with the art deco dress! Wish someone would try it on.

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We keep watching them!

Or you can pay to watch the series.

If you want someone to pay something for you, then you give them power. Period. If you don't want them to have that power, pay for your own darn dress.