Lol cheating is not a thing that should ever be normalized

I will never understand how someone could have the courage to show up to thousands of people watching and say they are cheaters 💀

the girl in the black shirt just came on here to tell everyone what happened with her and her ex and hopes that he sees it fr

It blows my mind how indifferent so many people are to cheating. It's one of the worst things you could do to your partner imo

I just don't understand cheaters. I would never cheat. Just break it off or have a consensual polyamorous relationship. But don't cheat, trust, loyalty and honesty are just too important.

“Burnt orange”? 🤣 🤣 🤣 Sebastian kills me

I cheated by skipping through the video to find who the cheater is, *Checkmate*

There is not ever an excuse or mistake when a person cheats. They will always be conscious of it.

Sebastian is the best 😂😂😂

"What do you think about cheating? Like, is it a deal breaker for u?" Bruh 💀💀💀

Can’t believe he actually got someone right from their favorite color 😭

I think if the cheating led to sexual activity (like you slept with somebody then slept with your partner after) then it 100% needs to be admitted to at least for health reasons, like putting aside the betrayal of trust that's also just putting the other person at risk of possible STIs. I can see wanting to just spare somebody's feelings in any other case but tbh I'd rather know than not know. I suspect one of my exes cheated and I wish he'd just been honest about it

i’ve been cheated on multiple times and it was actually traumatic in hindsight. i have severe trust issues, i worry about my partner constantly, the memories flash into my head at random, i can still picture everything vividly, and i breakdown whenever i think about it too much. it can be shattering for the person who was cheated on. i immediately blamed myself, thought i wasn’t good enough, felt i deserved it or could’ve done something to change things, and i lost a friendship from it. please don’t cheat on people. if you feel the need to do something with someone else, express that with your partner and if they’re not comfortable with that, break up.

I think you should tell your partner if you cheated on them because it shows that the reason you’re breaking up with them has nothing to do with their faults, it has to do with your own

imagine this is how one of their partners found out

Im very monogamous, and the people who take cheating as a casual topic is kinda scary to me. Im scared to get into a relationship because everyone of my friends has been cheated on, and I was in high school.

These cheaters really be loud and proud about it. No remorse no matter how much they say it’s wrong.

It's interesting how they are referring to cheating as "being open". Cheating is NOT the same as polyamory. Cheating is the most selfish thing you can do and is only done by insecure people

As a senior girl who goes to a "party school", there has never been one single moment where I considered cheating on my partner. You can go out without them, you can dress scandalously, you can have the full experience WITHOUT breaking the commitment that you made to them. There have been plenty of times that I've gotten a feeling that made me icky, and decided "nope, need to leave the situation because they're getting the wrong idea". You have full autonomy over your choices. This is absolutely NOT including SA, which is no one's fault and should be taken extremely seriously, but if you cheated just because you were drunk and thought it was worth it? Then you should feel ashamed.

Sebastian is genuinely so funny but also very connective and likable, i love when hes on these!

*How can you be so effing proud cheating?*

Both the male guessers are magnetic AF

you should bring in phsycic mediums and get them to guess things about people

There is no way I could cheat and not tell my partner. I would absolutely hate myself every second of the day and for the right reason. The person you've made a committment to has a right to know.

People should just be honest and open. If they are into open relationships be honest about it. Find someone likeminded you can really be your true self

me with cheating trauma : *still watches video*

“There might be one that slipped in there” 💀 AYO

My man had to fist bump himself. 4:31

"Sparing their feelings" by not confessing is most often mainly about sparing their own feelings & not having to go through seeing the damage they caused to unfold. Avoiding the guilt, the shame, the consequences, the tainted public image, all that. Let's not pretend it's some selfless, "caring" act just because it delays the pain. The truth comes out sooner or later anyways. And keeping it a secret robs your partner of the ability to make an informed decision about their future. What kind of partner they have. Risking their health (STD-risk!). Wasting their time. Creating even bigger trust issues - just imagine them finding out one day & looking back on all the years they didn't have a clue & felt happy & trusting while their partner disrespected them left & right by cheating behind their back.

0:29 “have you ever been cheated on? what’d you do?” “joined in“ 😭😭

This had to be the most " Seattle" looking group of ppl on Cut I have ever seen lol

I've missed Sebastian!! Glad to have him back!! 😅

I hope everyone who's cheated can recognize the way that damages the other person. You've voluntarily chosen to traumatize another person, fuck with their ability to trust and that's fucking shameful. If your needs are being met, grow up and communicate that and if that means leaving the relationship, do that. I'm all for consensual poly relationships, it's not cheating if all party's know what's happening and are fine with it.

Tell the person that you cheated on them. The only reason I can figure people don’t is so they don’t feel massive guilt and like a rotten person. They basically want to save their own image.

-"What's your type?" "-Toxic men!!" -Just why?...🤨

Sebastian needs his own show 😂

Oh boy Sebastian is just drop dead GORGEOUSSSS I'm in love with his perfect bone structure and energy 😂😂

0:29 😂 could you imagine!?

Poly isn't cheating... And you can cheat in poly. Cheating isnt sex/romantic relationships with multiple people. Cheating is breaking an agreement that is understood in the relationship.

I really love the persons guessing. I enjoyed this video so much and as usual Sebastian is definitely a vibe.

I love the energy of the black guy that was guessing… they should give him his own segment or something 😂

"I was a serial cheater" Dude that's not something to be proud of 🤷‍♀️

Polyamory means a relationship with multiple people, it's still a relationship, whether open or closed one, depends on the people involved. People, please, don't confuse those

4:31 the feast bump 🥺

Please do a line up for Myers Briggs personality types

People really confuse poly relationships with open relationships..it is different

This was my FAVORITE group of “guessers” ever!! I love that guy that used to be a gang banger. He’s so sweet and humble! I can’t imagine his old ways!

it’s probably just me but this video felt so dry

give the poor guy a fist bump

why everyone in this vid so zesty💀

I kind of disagree with her saying that you shouldn't tell someone that you've cheated on them (I do see where she's coming from though), because of a few things - 1) If they find out by someone else or later on, they'll feel much more betrayed and hurt as opposed to being told directly. 2) If they had doubts and suspicions about their partner cheating, but the partner never admits to it, it'll be low-key gaslighting and the person will not be able to trust their instinct again. 3) This ties into point 2, but if the partner never admits, the person will never learn what the signs are, and might be oblivious next time too, if it were to happen. 4) If there has been cheating, there's a good chance that the other person might be at risk of STDs if they were to engage in activities with the cheater, so it's paramount to know (Amazing point made by the commenter Kay [@K.KZfaq2]) So while yes, it's painful, I think it's very necessary.

"I like tall women and short kings." Saaaaaaame.

I hate when people like the person with the blue hair try to perpetuate that it's weird to not want to be in a poly relationship. There is literally nothing wrong with not wanting your partner to be fucked by somebody else lmfao. As long as you don't expect to fuck other people and the respect goes both ways, that's a healthy relationship. It feels like blue hair was trying to make it sound "weird" ...

Lmao I think we need to normalize shaming again😂 y’all getting too comfortable with what y’all put on the internet and how serious of an offense cheating is in a relationship, like y’all really snitching on y’all self on the internet (which WILL stay on the net literally forever, doesn’t matter if it’s deleted or not) for nothing but a couple laughs and likes that’s kinda crazy

Watching this right after handing out the christmas presents. Perfect time.

Being poly is not synonymous with cheating, wish the guessers wouldn’t conflate the two.

How has cheating become such a norm?

I don't understand cheating, but what I don't understand even more is your best friend sleeping with your partner like what kind of demonic shit is that ☠️☠️☠️

I love the lineup series

I'm sorry but once a cheater, always a cheater idgaf🤷‍♂️

4:32 Homie fist bumped himself 😭

8:20 “I still trust- nobody” ‘Oh NOBODY?? So youre fine, huh…” 😂

I could never cheat on my husband. First of all, I don't want nor need anyone else but him, and second, betraying him would be the same as betraying myself. If one day I started somehow considering someone else, I'd know something is wrong with my marriage, and it's time for a serious conversation or divorce.

I'm not really an expert but aren't they confusing polyamory and open relationships throughout the video?

It is way worse to be cheated on and the person not be respectful enough to tell you that they did that, than to have your feelings temporarily hurt by the person who cheated when they admit what they did. From someone who has had BOTH those situations happen - the former only left me with no closure and a general dislike for that person, lying to preserve their own face. At least the latter had the balls to own up to their mistakes.

Already hilarious. I thought the exact same thing about burnt orange

Honestly Sebastian always kills these Vids!

Sebastian needs his own show/podcast/Ted talk 😂😂😂😂😂

“I joined in” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Do tell your partners you cheated on them. It might 'hurt' but it probably validates their intuition and everyone needs that.

You should definitely tell someone if you cheat...you owe them that truth for them to decide what they want to do next.

4:30 poor guy fist bumps himself 😢

I need a playlist of episodes with Sebastian.

My girl in the black top living her Ross/Rachel fantasy

Lol the classic “we were in a break!”

You should do, Match twin to twin, I think that’d be really fun to watch😊

That girl on some friends shit "We were on a break" 😂

The girl in the black shirt just didn’t need to go into full detail like that

To the guy that walked in on his best friend that actually happened to me, and I punched both of them in the face

Omg !! I loooove Sebastian. Always had such an amazing energy !! And made the episode, super entertaining commentary !!

Just "catching feelings" for someone else isn't the same as emotional cheating as long as you don't flirt with the other person etc. Weird reasoning from that guy, not everyone has sexual fantasies about every crush either

Sebastian is such a performer. This guy lol.

Dropping the cheater video on Xmas eve is very on brand

It absolutely is necessary to admit to cheating so the cheated on partner can get tested and if anything does happen they catch it early??? common decency???

"burnt orange?!?" GOD he's my favorite !!

Sebastian is back !! 😭😂❤️ What an icon

I want to be Sebastian friend IRL he is so funny yo 😂😂😂

"I think you care about the way that you look" Took me out I thought everyone does to an extent

Not them trying to convince us they had good reasons to cheat. There is never a good reason, if ur bored and u want to fuck someone else, break up first and give ur partner their freedom to find someone who will treat them right :)

It’s not okay to cheat but if I catch you please don’t lie about it

I gagged at burnt orange, too!

The serial cheater sounds like Phyllis Smith from the office

The whole line just swaying together for most of the video

That guesser with the glasses... OMG 🤤

this was a delicious watch, more like this

This video should have been titled: cheaters validating cheaters

THE PINK HAIR GIRL’S HUSBAND CHEATING WITH TWO OF HIS BEST FRIENDS’ WIVES??? What in the Wattpad

Idk his name but the guy with the hat and Cali shit guessing the cheaters is amazing! PLEASE bring him back on other videos he's so funny 😂🥰

I never knew serial cheater was a word.

The way those filthy cheaters are PROUD if what they’ve done. They have the courage to show up and be like “i cheated” as if it’s not that serious or bad. Absolutely disgusting cheaters deserve 0 respect or any human decency towards them