what they don't tell you about friendship in your 20s | in my 20s diaries

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Haley Pham

Haley Pham

2 жыл бұрын

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Making & maintaining friendships in your 20s is hard! BUT really fun & epic. Here's some advice & things I didn't know a few years ago. I hope it blesses you!

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@ryan
@ryan 2 жыл бұрын
this video is so well done and pretty
@Beeboi.
@Beeboi. 2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@abdelilahlakhloufi2112
@abdelilahlakhloufi2112 2 жыл бұрын
You too 👁️👄👁️
@oliviaeade517
@oliviaeade517 2 жыл бұрын
@@abdelilahlakhloufi2112 um excuse you he's married to Haley 😐
@TheGingerCatFilms
@TheGingerCatFilms 2 жыл бұрын
I love how he supports his wife like he’s just a random fan on the internet
@Cenkisabi-69
@Cenkisabi-69 2 жыл бұрын
bud, u got an awesome wife
@ryan
@ryan 2 жыл бұрын
why am I built like a trapezoid lmao
@ryan
@ryan 2 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much pooter
@ninadgoldsmith
@ninadgoldsmith 2 жыл бұрын
hi ryan
@addierevak9411
@addierevak9411 2 жыл бұрын
This series is literally more entertaining than a lot of Netflix series! I relate to this series so much and Haley does it in such a fun way!❤️
@dreaplascencia
@dreaplascencia 2 жыл бұрын
Having a solid diverse Christian community friendships has definitely been of one of my prayers, loved watching this! 🤍
@sarzlaw10
@sarzlaw10 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, and diverse definitely! In age, ethnicity, walks of life, disabilities and socioeconomically - it would be wonderful to reflect God's kingdom in your community like that 🤍
@teabubbles4ever
@teabubbles4ever 2 жыл бұрын
🥺
@teabubbles4ever
@teabubbles4ever 2 жыл бұрын
hmu? haha. slim chance we are in the same area but I can drop an email! 🤍🦋
@franziska3525
@franziska3525 2 жыл бұрын
the "notice how you feel after you hanged out with friends and if you feel drained or energetic" hit deep. i was currently stuck in a friendship that made me feel drained constantly! and it's so sad to know that you could use this energy on other friends who give you so much more back! thanks for the reminder that i did nothing wrong:)
@jessica8318
@jessica8318 2 жыл бұрын
i know there are so many comments about it already but i’m loving this series - i’m so glad we have a platform in this day and age to go to and remind ourselves everyone is slowly trying to figure things out in this crazy world and you really have to appreciate what’s right in front of you. ty haley
@EricaCarsonn
@EricaCarsonn 2 жыл бұрын
Being in my 20's (25) I'm definitely finding it difficult to make friends. I've never been one to have a big friend group but it's been a lot harder to keep people around after graduating high school. At this point in my life, like you said, everyone is at different stages of their lives. Some are in school still, some are getting married, moving, so with that it's hard to find time for each other. I hope I get to have my moment like you did where I find a core group of friends who really bring out the best in me and will give me the same feelings that your friend group does. Thank you for another amazing video in this series!
@nikaylal
@nikaylal 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and currently praying for deep Christian friendships ! It seems so unattainable lol but I know it’ll happen one dayyy.
@warmclouds7289
@warmclouds7289 2 жыл бұрын
same here girly
@teabubbles4ever
@teabubbles4ever 2 жыл бұрын
hi! :) we prob don’t live near each other, but I can drop an email and we can link if you’d like!! 🤍
@emilypaigeraper4931
@emilypaigeraper4931 Жыл бұрын
Same I have been struggling so much
@kaylaenglish6414
@kaylaenglish6414 2 жыл бұрын
this one spoke to me. i am 20, turning 21 and am having an extremely difficult time with friendships in my 20s. this is so helpful in realizing that i need to put myself out there! thank you so much!
@briannachance
@briannachance 2 жыл бұрын
I felt thissss
@Lizzy_Garfield
@Lizzy_Garfield 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I’m struggling with currently. But I also don’t put myself out there I’m naturally an introvert and struggle on first impressions because I overthink. I’m a stay at home wife but I’m thankful for my church community where I have solid friendships that are consistent!!
@rodsitamara
@rodsitamara 2 жыл бұрын
im in highschool right now, year 11, and lowkey all this talk about friendship after graduation made me super anxious before. in australia, its not really a common thing to move far away for university but still change is super scary but this video really made me less anxious about the future :)
@Ready13
@Ready13 7 ай бұрын
Same and I am guessing you just graduated year 12 this year because me too (not to bring back that anxiety..)
@nutellanathalie
@nutellanathalie 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus really does get to us in the most miraculous ways. I’ve been feeling like I’ve been in a slump these past few months lately and this series was HEAVEN-SENT!!! Really inspired me to start taking my devotionals seriously, going out of my way to make time for friends, and just changing my love in general. You are a blessing Hailey.
@nataliesoutlet
@nataliesoutlet 2 жыл бұрын
Hayley! 🌈 I love the thumbnail!! it's soooo pretty. I've always loved your use of colors in thumbnails. BEAUTIFUL. Can't wait to watch this later ✨
@chickennuggets4114
@chickennuggets4114 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. 😌😌
@KAyLA_K
@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I would let you know, it’s so nice how you comment on so many channels!! Love seeing the positivity 😊❤️
@Skylarr70
@Skylarr70 2 жыл бұрын
You guys should do a mash up !!!! Two of my favorite KZfaqs!!!
@taliw7736
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
True! Love your videos so much Natalie
@alliemurray2812
@alliemurray2812 2 жыл бұрын
I love this. I'm a christian too and it has been very hard to find a good community of friends who I can do life with! I'm still in that part of life, but I know that it'll happen sometime and I have to trust God to bring the right people into my life! This episode was awesome Haley, thank you.
@reesedubose9107
@reesedubose9107 2 жыл бұрын
Haley I’m so proud that you are sharing your relationship with God on your channel💗💗 I love this series I can’t wait to see you grow even more! Happy Easter weekend love 💐
@cassidyvoss415
@cassidyvoss415 2 жыл бұрын
i’m in a season of being single & trying to figure out how to be alone/do more stuff and this series has been so so encouraging and fun!! i look forward to it every week!
@melamoo._
@melamoo._ 2 жыл бұрын
yesterday was my freshmen orientation and it's so true when u get asked "how do you make friends" you literally dont know like it just happens. all i did was pray and hope i can make some friends and it just happens and tbh im grateful for that like it takes so much mental strength to introduce urself to someone but at the same time it kinda feels effortless because that friendship just happens in an instant
@fatima-qn2le
@fatima-qn2le 2 жыл бұрын
I CANT HALEY AND RYAN HOLDING HANDS IS LITERALLY EVERYTHING
@mj-monkey
@mj-monkey 2 жыл бұрын
this episode was so goooood. if you are reading this and feel alone, just remember to put yourself out there, even if it’s scary. tons of people feel the exact same way you do and who will love you and care about you!! you are never truly alone! thanks for all the encouragement, haley💕💕
@orsibernath
@orsibernath 2 жыл бұрын
I could just listen to you talk about anything for hours! WE NEED A PODCAST
@KaceWorner
@KaceWorner 2 жыл бұрын
She use to have one with Lilly Anne and it was so good but sadly they stoped it
@raspclaire2313
@raspclaire2313 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this series was an answer to prayer. I'm currently taking a gap semester and am back home from college where I don't have but one close friend nearby. It's hard to put myself out there knowing that I'll be back on campus with my friends in the fall, but this video has encouraged me to put myself out there. Praying everyone who reads this finds uplifting community
@Mae-fp5br
@Mae-fp5br 2 жыл бұрын
literally almost cried because i feel like im trying to mentally prepare myself for what adulting has to offer. i'm about to graduate in about a month and i've been so overwhelmed with who i should keep in my life and who i know i have to let go of. thank you for this video haley :,)
@annemiduck2548
@annemiduck2548 2 жыл бұрын
I dont know if this advice will help you but i can Tell you you will be surprised what people will stay in your life after graduation. Just take your time and try to accept that there will naturally be people you cannot stay in touch with and there are sooooo many more peoole to come into your life. So many great people you dont know yet. Wish you all the best for your future!
@carissaruth8399
@carissaruth8399 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is only a few months older than you, it is so refreshing to see someone so close to my age that I can actually relate to on so many levels. I am also recently married, and also a Christian. As someone who is pretty introverted, making new strong friendships is a struggle for me. I’m so inspired by, and loving this new series of yours :)
@justttphoebe
@justttphoebe 2 жыл бұрын
i'm actually in my 22 this year, and i've only started making an actual bond with my friends. i don't have many friends yet, but the friend I currently have makes me feel more better. i like when someone makes this type of videos bc it's very relatable, helpful for realizations and self improvements. love u haley!
@ashleyharrison7130
@ashleyharrison7130 2 жыл бұрын
loving the "in my 20s" series. everytime you post, u make my day, your so inspiring and positive. your smile warms my heart:) i can watch u all day
@cassandrawintemute8646
@cassandrawintemute8646 2 жыл бұрын
I've been really struggling with friendships lately (my best friends moved to a different country in January), and this was really encouraging. Thank you Haley!
@angelamaxine
@angelamaxine 2 жыл бұрын
i truly love this series! it’s so inspiring and comforting. It just feels like a warm hug honestly 🤍
@bellasayo4948
@bellasayo4948 2 жыл бұрын
This is honestly one of the most encouraging series on youtube.
@meganowens5836
@meganowens5836 2 жыл бұрын
this series, but this episode in general was literally stunning haley omgggg. i’m so happy that you’re finding a christian community, it’s something i continue to pray for, and now that i’m moving i’ll have the opportunity! so proud of you girl, love you🤍
@MsAblivia
@MsAblivia 2 жыл бұрын
This series is literally incredible. thank you so much for sharing all of this it truly means a lot.
@jordantapp6857
@jordantapp6857 2 жыл бұрын
It is so nice to see Haley so genuinely happy and so herself
@kashhaliwell
@kashhaliwell 2 жыл бұрын
really gonna try praying for friends that have the same interests of me in my local area because i have online friends in different countries but it’s still kinda lonely not having much friends locally. thanks haley!!💕💕
@LivLaughsandloves
@LivLaughsandloves 2 жыл бұрын
Haley, I've been only watching this channel for a few days and I can already tell that I will be watching it for years!! thanks so much for making the internet a happier place 😊
@rachelapostolico1694
@rachelapostolico1694 2 жыл бұрын
This has to be my favorite video you've ever made. It was emotional and raw and relatable. Not to mention the beautiful shots and editing and music. Loved it
@oliviaelyce2035
@oliviaelyce2035 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you’re editing this series! It’s the perfect mix of like tv and vlog! Also, ik you’re getting a lot of stuff for your kitchen to help you in cooking more, I highly recommend getting a meat thermometer! I am so worried about eating undercooked meat, the thermometer puts my mind at ease. They usually come with a guide to know what meats need to be what temperatures.
@jettwashed
@jettwashed 2 жыл бұрын
going through friendship changes is SO hard, especially when growing up 💔
@azaguma297
@azaguma297 2 жыл бұрын
I literally love this series 😭🤍 especially this episode, it is on repeat !! If God blessed you with such amazing friends I know He will for me because He is faithful 😌🎉🙌🏾💗
@rosella1066
@rosella1066 2 жыл бұрын
Dudddeee I’m in love with this series. It’s relating to my life so much rn. Thanks Haley for another good video
@lomie17
@lomie17 2 жыл бұрын
love this haley, thank u for your vulnerability. friendships outside of structured organizations (school/sports) can be hard but so worth it!!!!!
@luigi5726
@luigi5726 2 жыл бұрын
this series is really helping me change my life for the better thank you so much haley!! ♥️
@TheLizardKingReal
@TheLizardKingReal 2 жыл бұрын
Haley this is an awesome series! I hope you are enjoying your early 20s :)
@phoebelock6528
@phoebelock6528 2 жыл бұрын
loving this series so much. Feels so comforting to feel like I'm working on myself with someone else if that makes sense?? Thank you
@LaurynAmini
@LaurynAmini 2 жыл бұрын
I love how this series, that feels so weird for me to say because it’s your life 😂😂, makes me love myself and those that surround me!! I don’t know if that makes a lot of sense but I’m here for it
@AninaM.B
@AninaM.B 2 жыл бұрын
This episode was so inspiring. I absolutely love this series. I like that u interviewed some of your friends abt friendships, it was a nice addition to the vlog. Keep up the good work Haley
@AmyNatalie1
@AmyNatalie1 2 жыл бұрын
I just found you through this series and I love it. I can relate so much and it helps 😊🫶🏼
@brittneyc.7819
@brittneyc.7819 2 жыл бұрын
I have never felt more seen and not alone. I think this series is so beautiful and shows that we all don’t know what we are doing sometimes and that we all kind of fake it until we make it. I feel so frustrated in the friendship aspect at my college and it makes me want to cry to know that other people feel the same way as me and that I’m not alone in that feeling. Thank you Haley for this series❤️
@MoriahRichter
@MoriahRichter 2 жыл бұрын
I’m loving this series so much because a bunch of us are in this same boat rn and everything your posting is super relatable. Thank you!!!
@kenzielynn4549
@kenzielynn4549 2 жыл бұрын
I started praying for good community and close friends about a year ago and shortly after I met my best friend. I’m now working on building a community and this series is so encouraging to me 💗🥲
@user-mh1ym4nz7i
@user-mh1ym4nz7i 2 жыл бұрын
same! o my gosh! God is so good ! literally am making plans to take prom pics without a prom with my friends
@kenzielynn4549
@kenzielynn4549 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-mh1ym4nz7i that’s so fun!!
@user-mh1ym4nz7i
@user-mh1ym4nz7i 2 жыл бұрын
@@kenzielynn4549 yeah !!
@rmo1295
@rmo1295 2 жыл бұрын
One of the most important things in the age of 20's and all ages is the religion The truth,true way is ISLAM
@user-mh1ym4nz7i
@user-mh1ym4nz7i 2 жыл бұрын
@@rmo1295 Jesus is the way
@emmamarcantonio892
@emmamarcantonio892 2 жыл бұрын
haley this series is SO GOOD and i love that u share your faith with everyone
@hillarylorenzo2871
@hillarylorenzo2871 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve been killing these videos lately! I appreciate your honesty and insight to your prayers. It makes me feel more connected to you. :)
@isabelpetrou
@isabelpetrou 2 жыл бұрын
i’m just loving this serious, it’s so genuine it makes me so happy
@SenzuLean
@SenzuLean 2 жыл бұрын
These vlogs are so chill. Absolutely love em. Keep it up!
@joisarodas
@joisarodas 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was so encouraging to watch. I've also prayed for Christian community and it's awesome to see how God answered your prayer. Gotta keep waiting! ❤
@luvvreni
@luvvreni 2 жыл бұрын
I love Bella! I've been watching your videos since you were a freshman in high school (throwback to the tippy days) and I remember seeing Bella in your videos. I'm glad you guys are still friends!
@meganguest
@meganguest 2 жыл бұрын
such a wholesome episode 🥺🥺 thank you for your vulnerability in this series, absolutely loving this journey!
@mary.1984
@mary.1984 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, making friends is harder when you're older ( even when in college or at a job ! ) it's not as easy as when you were a kid though. ( I still know my best friend from when I was 13, I'm 37 now. )
@elizabethgunshon1241
@elizabethgunshon1241 2 жыл бұрын
I love these videos so much, honestly seeing you grow is so beautiful
@melaniaabdelmasieh6915
@melaniaabdelmasieh6915 2 жыл бұрын
I don't have many friendships as im still 15 and still have my whole future ahead of me to make more, but watching this made me realise how many beautiful friendships I have with people at the moment and made me think about each person individually. I really love you haley as you make me a better person. thank you really!!!! 🤍🤍
@ylvaoverland
@ylvaoverland 2 жыл бұрын
i love this series, please never stop
@ashleyymoss
@ashleyymoss 2 жыл бұрын
been loving this series!! so proud of you haley❤️
@joannaxsuarez
@joannaxsuarez 2 жыл бұрын
love this series! It’s so good!!
@izabelku9942
@izabelku9942 2 жыл бұрын
Haley this series has made me cry so much, I love you, and i'm so happy for you
@amelia-dk4yy
@amelia-dk4yy 2 жыл бұрын
i rlly needed this series, haley!! your vids never disappoint!!
@princessyumyum3726
@princessyumyum3726 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much hailey! They always motivate me and I relate to you so much I’m so happy for you!!🤍🤎
@fefe1362
@fefe1362 2 жыл бұрын
These videos are getting me through the last few weeks of school!💖
@omotolaniadeleke5722
@omotolaniadeleke5722 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Haley!!!! its beautiful, and I feel so much more encouraged to go out of my comfort zone
@cthynguyen
@cthynguyen 2 жыл бұрын
i love and so much needed this series!
@morganmac9719
@morganmac9719 2 жыл бұрын
i love this series so much!
@fatima-qn2le
@fatima-qn2le 2 жыл бұрын
this series is literally the best thank you for creating this ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@theresaschiller5744
@theresaschiller5744 2 жыл бұрын
haley this made me so happy tysm
@toneless1
@toneless1 2 жыл бұрын
this series is so motivating for literally anyone. Amazing series and idea!!!
@groovycaat
@groovycaat 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this series, this is so encouraging and gives me a new perspective on how I can move forward 💕
@KAyLA_K
@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын
Love these videos Haley!!😊❤️
@nataliehager9864
@nataliehager9864 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely LOVING this series. favorite episode so far!!
@nija2106
@nija2106 2 жыл бұрын
Loving this series Haley 💕 you are doing amazing
@keelyhughes7923
@keelyhughes7923 2 жыл бұрын
LOVING this series!! 🤍
@mar9560
@mar9560 2 жыл бұрын
I’m also 21, watching this series really inspired me to be more conscious of how I want to spend my 20s ❤️
@alexa-ll1cb
@alexa-ll1cb 2 жыл бұрын
i LOVE this series toooooooo, looking forward to the next episodesss. stay safe haley!
@cherrylip111
@cherrylip111 2 жыл бұрын
omggg i am so excited to watch this! also love the thumbnail!
@cristinaortegari
@cristinaortegari 2 жыл бұрын
I love the songs from the backgrounds it brings a certain vibe and it is all so well tied together!
@jenna_nickel
@jenna_nickel 2 жыл бұрын
this series is so encouraging! I relate to everything so much and find your videos so motivating!! :)
@alberta7503
@alberta7503 2 жыл бұрын
This just made my day, and encouraged me to try and actually make some new friends. Thank you for this video! This series makes my day every time an episode comes out!:)) Hope you have a greeeeaaaaat day!!:))))
@grace3731
@grace3731 2 жыл бұрын
Not technically 20 until next week haha but I needed this series so much. Been feeling like my life has had no structure but I had no idea where to begin to fix it. This series is so real and has already helped me so much
@kellylovescats
@kellylovescats 2 жыл бұрын
love this video and this series 🥺🥺
@dina6001
@dina6001 2 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful! I loved that you showed everyone’s perspective 💙
@barrowbois
@barrowbois 2 жыл бұрын
this series is very inspiring for me to make good habits and get rid of bad ones, thank you haley for inspiring me to change my way of living (for the better)
@emellyhernandez3286
@emellyhernandez3286 2 жыл бұрын
I too am praying for some Godly friends, or even one or two really great friend. THANK YOU for this video, its so hard to find friendships in your 20's. They are so important and i believe God places everyone in your life and the most perfect times. I am loving this series haley!
@MsSillymaria
@MsSillymaria 2 жыл бұрын
I have pure excitement each second of these videos!
@indianastokes2430
@indianastokes2430 2 жыл бұрын
i've been watching you for about 5 years now, and this video is my most favourite ever!
@delfinamoyanopicca
@delfinamoyanopicca 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you said that if you want to make friends you have to be uncomfortable and put in the effort but it just so happens that I hate being uncomfortable and putting effort
@evelynlopez4516
@evelynlopez4516 2 жыл бұрын
Love following you in this journey!
@rebekahwebster3396
@rebekahwebster3396 2 жыл бұрын
i really needed this! i have been struggling with making friends. and recently my best friend of 7 years just moved on and suddenly stopped talking to me. its a whole thing I'm sorting out but this has really encouraged me so thank you so much!!!!
@Ggs-t6u
@Ggs-t6u 2 жыл бұрын
I love this series and it is motivating me to go out of my comfort zone!! Thanks Haley :)))
@fatima-qn2le
@fatima-qn2le 2 жыл бұрын
completely unrelated but you have the best voice like it’s so calming
@emmatacc_
@emmatacc_ 2 жыл бұрын
I love this series so much
@Lukeyborey
@Lukeyborey 2 жыл бұрын
I watched through this entire video and was very surprised by how insightful it was. Im definitely going to apply this to my life immediately 😳 The part about High school friends often being your friend just because you both have the same common denominator that you are in school was eye opening.
@laurentrepp5233
@laurentrepp5233 2 жыл бұрын
your videos give me big happy vibes ♥
@user-uf3dv5sg6u
@user-uf3dv5sg6u 2 жыл бұрын
haley, i know you probably wont read this but i just wanted to thank you. this video is exactly what i needed rignt now. im about to enter my 20s, and im in a stage in my life where i feel like im getting further and further away from my highschool friendships, the ones ive had my entire life. i was full of anxiety, sadness and fear of never finding my people, but this video, this video showed me that everything is gonna be ok :) thank u
@someonhuman703
@someonhuman703 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so pretty I love Mary’s smile☺️
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