This discussion is a survival of the second half of grieving… Guilt, knowing what to say etc.. Just keep it real..

This was deep conversation

I see both points of the argument… but I side with c6

I'm listening to this grief segment and I can only come to one conclusion, people are just selfish, but everybody has their day, most will lose someone close to them unless it's them who dies. I've learnt to give people back the same energy they gave me. He's a really good friend, if he's there for C6 when someone close to him dies, he'll be better than me. I've also come to the conclusion that people have their own thoughts about how people are dealing with grief, that can be further from the truth, and use grief to label people with... being unhappy or dealing with mental health, these times, the person has dealt with their grief and fully moved on with their life, living in a much better and happier place. I speak this from experience. Losing my Mum, five years ago, my family moved different. A so called cousin of mine, insinuated that my Mum was a liar, just days after she randomly died from a heart attack, my Mum wasn't even here to defend herself. Just evil. That same side of family, then went on to holding their own funeral reception, in secret, without the children of my Mum's knowing. I'm having people, at my Mums funeral, come to me and tell me... 'you know your family is weird, right?' And then proceeded to tell me that half the family was missing, because they were holding their own reception. Despite the fact that her children had already planned one, which is madness. The reality is, some families don't know how to come together after a death in a family and they do the complete opposite. What really happens though, is that people show their true colours. These same people had an issue with you from the start. I'm almost certain, these same family members will blame my beliefs, in the bible, on my Mum passing away, when I came into the truth of the bible, 2 years before my Mum passed and been knowing the truth. So, some people will use grief to blame almost anything on something, even one's beliefs 😂 it's actually crazy. Anyone who actually stuck around knows that thanks to the Most High GOD, YHWH, I actually dealt with my Mum passing really well. And that's because I have GOD and the bible, which tells me I only have a certain amount of time to grieve. "Sirach 22:12-22 12. Seven days do men mourn for him that is dead; but for a fool and an ungodly man all the days of his life." I have no issues with people talking about their mum, just because mine has passed, it's not a jealousy ting round here. My advice is that you look at life's positives and you think about the things you have to look forward to in the earth, rather than wallow in self pity. My advice, when someone's grieving, invite them out, do something with them. I had a few people, who would invite me out, that helped. I'm not a phone person on the best of days, I've always preferred seeing people and talking to them in person rather than being on the phone. I also don't like seeing people in my house or theirs, if we're getting together, let's do something... dinner, a party, some type of outdoor activity, unless it's a dinner party at someone's house. Everybody's different, but that helped me. Outside of 'my condolences' all that other shit doesn't matter anyway. Invite the person out and do something fun. A comedy show, suttin. That worked for me. Those of you who are ignorant and don't know how to support those dealing with a loss, that's my advice to you.

Glasses is shallow.

I hear Dizzle we are covetousness people but Ceesix has a point we are still under priviledged around the world compared till to other races divide and conquer is real

There is blame and then there's reasons..the point is it doesn't validate the excuses.

C6 is right . People graduate and their parents send them around the world ect