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Mahdi Tidjani

Mahdi Tidjani

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@MahdiTidjani
@MahdiTidjani Жыл бұрын
Get Closer: t.me/mahditidjani
@timmy741
@timmy741 Жыл бұрын
I am too close too you
@hhefner9659
@hhefner9659 Жыл бұрын
why is he wearing eye makeup?
@TK67162
@TK67162 Жыл бұрын
I had my first baby at 18 nt second at 30 my third at 35 my last born at 43 and she a genius...
@drh6923
@drh6923 Жыл бұрын
What's her name
@126tritonave
@126tritonave Жыл бұрын
Wow...who.made you the expert? Allah can do whatever he pleases..simply review surah Maryam
@amulyaraina1926
@amulyaraina1926 Жыл бұрын
Bro has a Bachelor’s in Brain Wash.
@lia5085
@lia5085 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ily999as
@ily999as Жыл бұрын
Its facts
@futuresson148
@futuresson148 Жыл бұрын
Elborate on why you feel that way and what he said thats wrong?
@pimtool9351
@pimtool9351 Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure the science on this is well established.... Your not a science denier are you?....
@DjAVIF
@DjAVIF Жыл бұрын
This is how jihad are fooling girls in abroad,
@SM-ih3go
@SM-ih3go Жыл бұрын
He lost his brain cells in his teenage.
@skywalker4128
@skywalker4128 Жыл бұрын
Facts. He was indeed brainwashed, and he's out here brainwashing others. So let's just move onto doing our own stuff
@birbor7918
@birbor7918 Жыл бұрын
Facts heart
@daniel-8340
@daniel-8340 Жыл бұрын
She*
@perceptionist7
@perceptionist7 Жыл бұрын
@@skywalker4128 Exactly, do your own stuff. Gaming, watching porn, masturbating and making memes on the internet. Go on.
@joehaber9835
@joehaber9835 Жыл бұрын
90 percent lost at 30 .....3 percent left at 40 .......his brain is working just fine .....
@vibeit8304
@vibeit8304 Жыл бұрын
Like how her reply was still a, "no" 😂
@HDvimeo
@HDvimeo Жыл бұрын
Bro is a husband, an electrician, a lawyer and a gynecologist. Basically Johnny Sins.
@Luka-zb3qj
@Luka-zb3qj Жыл бұрын
I would love to be a Johnny sins with this chick lol and make her little Jaw knees lol
@qrrr2757
@qrrr2757 Жыл бұрын
😂
@majzerofive
@majzerofive Жыл бұрын
yet he is not completely wrong. 5s googling result: Definition of geriatric pregnancy We define advanced maternal age (formerly geriatric pregnancy) as those who are 35 years or older at their estimated delivery date. In other words, stop being an idiot and research a subject youre unfamiliar with before arguing. Im no biologist, but he meant what he said, geriatric pregnancy is basically higher risk of complications. Which he explained, and you refused to listen because youre too arrogant. Welcome to the world of retards, youre one of them).
@ferdynajjar2815
@ferdynajjar2815 Жыл бұрын
Oh shit😂😂😂
@everybodylies86
@everybodylies86 Жыл бұрын
You do not need to be a weatherman to know it is sunny outside.
@theeMask
@theeMask Жыл бұрын
This is the issue when you learn "science" from a Madrasa instead of a school!
@memematerial8589
@memematerial8589 Жыл бұрын
Prof. Maulana
@RavarsenBlogspot
@RavarsenBlogspot Жыл бұрын
At least they tell how to fly a donkey
@aravindjgd
@aravindjgd Жыл бұрын
That is why Muslim families are stronger while some other groups support their own women having casual fun.
@NewVideoTech3000
@NewVideoTech3000 Жыл бұрын
Madrassa created science
@mewopoly1414
@mewopoly1414 Жыл бұрын
Never heard of Baghdad madrasa in Abbasid caliphate
@fatimaessaid9257
@fatimaessaid9257 Жыл бұрын
I had my first baby at 29 my second at 33 and my third at 37 If Allah wills it will happen. All natural pregnancies and deliveries. Alhumduliah
@Sg190th
@Sg190th Жыл бұрын
True. My mom had me at 29 ish so it's possible
@oftheuchihaclan8325
@oftheuchihaclan8325 Жыл бұрын
Anything is possible ofcourse, I think he is just stating the fact that it becomes alot less likely after 30. Btw there are so many couples in their 20s who can't get pregnant
@mina-gf4dc
@mina-gf4dc Жыл бұрын
@@Sg190th yep mom had sister wich is 4 years old now at 34
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
This is anecdotal experience. Allah has blessed you with kids even at a later age but you're not the norm. Statistics do not lie. After 30 a women's fertility starts dropping and after 35 it's harder to conceive. It's called geriatric pregnancy due to the increased risks to both the baby and mother.
@robertluxamafreethinker
@robertluxamafreethinker Жыл бұрын
But it's not the rule, your situation is part of the exception.
@martialgaming1317
@martialgaming1317 Жыл бұрын
Bro def gained this knowledge from reels!!!💀
@bleekwater6176
@bleekwater6176 Жыл бұрын
Sure martial gaming
@bwebmasta1
@bwebmasta1 Жыл бұрын
He said nothing that is not fact, these are all well documented clinical terms, and the ages are pretty much spot on. I had this discussion with my wifes doctor back some years ago, she said if you are going to do it, do it now, like yesterday.
@martialgaming1317
@martialgaming1317 Жыл бұрын
@@bwebmasta1 study 10th class biology book u would understand everything abt menstruation!!
@bwebmasta1
@bwebmasta1 Жыл бұрын
@@martialgaming1317 I already know all about that, many years ago. What you are saying addresses nothing what he said nor I. I don't debate clinical terms, facts, or data from medical professionals. Read up on the AMA Journals.
@futuresson148
@futuresson148 Жыл бұрын
Explain what he said thats false
@TheLwinja
@TheLwinja Жыл бұрын
I am 44 and i have 3 healthy kids alhamdoulillah. I had the first one at 33 and the last one at 41 years old. But i am a different mom to my children.. I don t have the same level of energy anymore and i wish i married in my twenties and have teenagers now. The clock is a real thing at so many levels. If you have a chance to get married to the right person in your twenties please do.
@DaTiger45
@DaTiger45 Жыл бұрын
A woman hits menopause when she's in her 50s. When she's 30, she still has functioning eggs and can get pregnant well into her 40s.
@slavonijacro
@slavonijacro Жыл бұрын
Some woman get menopause in 40s
@Zaynab005
@Zaynab005 Жыл бұрын
@@slavonijacro u well said ‘SOME’ so they will know themselves more
@DaTiger45
@DaTiger45 Жыл бұрын
@@slavonijacro a woman who hits menopause in her 40s is an extremely rare case. That means there's an underlying medical issue
@slavonijacro
@slavonijacro Жыл бұрын
@@DaTiger45 not really it can be stress too Im 49 and I got in menopause 2 years ago same as my older sister in her 40s
@DaTiger45
@DaTiger45 Жыл бұрын
@@slavonijacro yes, stress is an underlying medical condition
@aleenadenn8241
@aleenadenn8241 Жыл бұрын
My sister fell pregnant Naturally at 37 and had Quadruplets. 3 boys 1 girl. Alhamdullah they are almost 5 years old now all born healthy and adored by the rest of us 🥰❤
@NoName-bt6xd
@NoName-bt6xd Жыл бұрын
The avg age of first time moms in UK is 31. Healthy women will still have pretty significant chance of getting pregnant if they're having intimacy regularly without birth control up until their early 40s. Making the number of the women's eggs as their sole fertility factor is weird cause that would meant a 5 year old girl being more fertile than an 18 year old girl. Weight, diet, exercise, stress, sleep are better factors than the number of eggs
@BooBones
@BooBones Жыл бұрын
Multiple child pregnancies are usually due to ivf especially considering her age. Its possible she just didnt tell you about it
@aleenadenn8241
@aleenadenn8241 Жыл бұрын
@@BooBones My family has 9 sets of twins, 1 set of triplets and 1 set of Quadruplets.. All Naturally Conceived Alhamdulla.
@ya-chandesu6340
@ya-chandesu6340 Жыл бұрын
​@@NoName-bt6xdAbsolutely! You can be 20 but stressed as hell and drinking 4 coffees a day, you just won't get pregnant! And don't forget men's fertility with sperm count, viability and motility, also affected by these factors you mentioned. Blaming women only for fertility is silly.
@NoName-bt6xd
@NoName-bt6xd Жыл бұрын
@@BooBones not really. I know a woman who was struggling to conceive for years and had a lot of miscarriages, but in her mid 30s, she had a successful pregnancy naturally, triplets. I mean sure IVF can give you fraternal twins but it isn't the only way and Allah is capable of everything
@eg6308
@eg6308 Жыл бұрын
Had my first child aged 38 and my second aged 42. If Allah wants to bless you with children then He will.
@ibraheemq7859
@ibraheemq7859 Ай бұрын
he said chances of pregnancy decrease after 30s if you have not been pregnant before
@Unknownmissy
@Unknownmissy Жыл бұрын
A man’s sperm vitality decreases after 25. When a man has children later (late 30s-40s) his sperm quality is lower, he is more likely to have disabled children and the chance of a miscarriage increases.
@thedrasc1465
@thedrasc1465 10 күн бұрын
I used to work at an urgent care clinic and the amount of 40 something year old men that came in hoping for viagra prescriptions was astounding. Meanwhile no woman ever came in with issues with libido or anything else. And we saw many pregnant women in that age range. For as much as men shame women into feeling bad about having children later in life, it's like it's their karma they can't even keep their wives satisfied without a prescription at that age
@honestlycosauceblends978
@honestlycosauceblends978 Жыл бұрын
Not necessarily every person is unique. I got married at 34 and had my fourth child at 45 so faith is everything
@YungPhilosopher
@YungPhilosopher Жыл бұрын
No it’s not. The exception doesn’t disprove the rule. Vast majority of women cannot get pregnant at 45. That’s like me saying it’s about faith when if you want to survive a plane crash when 99% of plane crashes end in death.
@julianjdogg
@julianjdogg Жыл бұрын
​@@YungPhilosopher Sarah had a child at 90
@ramortlamort3087
@ramortlamort3087 Жыл бұрын
95% of women i know age 35 and above cant get pregnant. Women delude themselves a lot as a way to cope. You can deny reality but cant avoid it.
@swagboss10000
@swagboss10000 Жыл бұрын
​@@julianjdogg and Jeanne lived until 122, does that mean everyone's going to live that long? No Jeanne is just an acception to the rule
@sayerkh
@sayerkh Жыл бұрын
You probably got pregnant young once atleast and either miscarried without knowing or had an abortion.
@biancabrooks9513
@biancabrooks9513 Жыл бұрын
Men trying to scare women into marriage. I had my 1st at 30 & 2nd 35 both without struggle. It can and does happen
@louisj4645
@louisj4645 Жыл бұрын
Its not scaring women😂😂😂 sheesh yall will make anything up to go against biology. Its a medical fact, your eggs are about done at a certain age. All he's saying is the odds are against you at a later age, can u get pregnant, sure!! Smh you've only heard of the success stories, but trust theres double the unsuccessful stories.
@thesniper321
@thesniper321 Жыл бұрын
My Mum had me at 40 it still doesn't change the fact that 80% of your eggs are gone at 30. For 1 woman who had children after 30 there are 3 to 5 times more who failed. So start using your brain instead of your émotions when you speak to younger génération your words can ruin lives.
@biancabrooks9513
@biancabrooks9513 Жыл бұрын
@thesniper321 Why so aggressive? Did you perhaps spring from a damaged egg? Or did you take one too many boosters? I never said it changed facts, I said It can & does happen. This is the age of information, women know eggs deplete before you exit the womb even! If that's the chance they wanna take its up to the individual. Men need to start being emotionally available/mature in order to lock a woman down, then procreate. That's why I had to leave it so late, it has to be right. These gender wars benefit no one. In this day and age you cannot scare a woman into marriage. Men have shown women for decades (via abandonment & abuse) that we can walk alone, and so now many do Anyways enough of the essay. stay blessed and stop with the boosters xxx
@willsimpson3783
@willsimpson3783 Жыл бұрын
L comment
@atoyatheariesmoon3919
@atoyatheariesmoon3919 Жыл бұрын
Had my first at 32 AND I'm a type 1 diabetic. Had an all natural pregnancy with no complications
@benatiyah
@benatiyah Жыл бұрын
Please RELAX! I got married at 35, had twins at 36 and I am expecting another baby in 4wks at 37! Don't let these people worry you ladies. Eat healthy, marry when you're ready and enjoy your husband. Stress doesn't help fertility.
@bhad
@bhad Жыл бұрын
However, developed countries like India see lots of infertility from 30s. Even though i don't support this guy, its kinda true in third world.
@ClixCFC
@ClixCFC Жыл бұрын
If zechariah had yahya when he was over the age of 70 whilst his wife wasn't able to have kids how suddenly did she have a son answer is Allah, so no matter if you cannot have kids always trust Allah and he knows whats right and whats wrong for you
@GBHanny8
@GBHanny8 Жыл бұрын
🤦
@minnamiin
@minnamiin Жыл бұрын
Exactly, get married whenever you want, people don't need to jump immediately into adulthood, kids are too much responsibility and we need time before them, otherwise life would be just a waste
@Bee_Media
@Bee_Media Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this… I was almost worried sick… I’m on my 30s
@HO-zr1gk
@HO-zr1gk Жыл бұрын
Each woman is different. My mum had my brothers at age 35 and 37.
@JamesMathison1
@JamesMathison1 Жыл бұрын
Nope he isn't too wrong. A woman's body ovaries are meant to be done with child birth around 45, beyond this is in miracle territory but the significant changes begin aroound 30 and could become significant by 35. At this stage getting pregnant without clinical help is less likely and it keeps declining very significantly every year till menopause. In a nutshell, its smart to be done with child birth before her eggs begin changing at 30, because after then you're probably going to have pregnancy issues and the older you get even the child could have development issues if the mother managed to get pregnant and carry to term. I wish life was easier, no one likes late parenthood. Its just more difficult to start early
@HO-zr1gk
@HO-zr1gk Жыл бұрын
@@JamesMathison1 Like I said each woman is different. My mum had my brothers at 35 and 37 with no clinical help and my brothers are healthy boys, all thanks to God. But I do agree it's best to have children early as bringing up children when you're in your 40s/50s is very difficult compared to 20s/30s.
@jasminechaudhry6109
@jasminechaudhry6109 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah I had my first child at 36 then my second at 38 and my third child at 41 MashAllah they are all now in their mid to late teens happy and healthy what ever Allah gives will be
@katrbudz892
@katrbudz892 Жыл бұрын
No you lie. Women having menopause cant have kids
@kojinmaster
@kojinmaster Жыл бұрын
Yeh my sister had her baby at 43 😮. Baby is small but doing good
@johningle1
@johningle1 Жыл бұрын
Exceptions are not rules.
@katrbudz892
@katrbudz892 Жыл бұрын
@@johningle1 a lot of exceptions all around. In Netherlands and Spain average age of woman having her first child is 35. So exceptions make a rule
@blueboy189
@blueboy189 Жыл бұрын
Allah doesn't exist. True story.
@mimibee409
@mimibee409 Жыл бұрын
I had my first kid at 27 and second at 30. My sister had twins at 38. My sister in law had her first kid mid thirties and her last kid at 40. The Almightys timing is perfect
@abdulazad2381
@abdulazad2381 Жыл бұрын
I impregnated my wife at the age of 13 we had son when she was 14 now she is 19 we have 3 kid and the 4th one is coming soon
@santiagokurti
@santiagokurti Жыл бұрын
​@@abdulazad2381 13???? How old were you? Why so young did her parents say anything
@abdulazad2381
@abdulazad2381 Жыл бұрын
@@santiagokurti I was 17... We asked their parents permission and the girl was also agree.. now she is very healthy happy..
@Jessicaro
@Jessicaro Жыл бұрын
@@abdulazad2381 13??? that is a child. you impregnated a child?
@sagar1992
@sagar1992 Жыл бұрын
​@jessica rose my mom was 16 when I was born. It's going really great right now. They can retire in their early 40s.
@roshan7041
@roshan7041 Жыл бұрын
If this girl believes what he said. She's gone to doom.
@minnamiin
@minnamiin Жыл бұрын
She didn't, don't worry
@ElGabazo
@ElGabazo Жыл бұрын
But he is right
@minnamiin
@minnamiin Жыл бұрын
@@ElGabazo he isn't.. 😭 a lot, and I mean A LOT of people conceive children at their 30's and 40's
@BeansPredi-ch6xk
@BeansPredi-ch6xk 2 ай бұрын
@@minnamiinStill 90% of your eggs are gone. What are you gonna do about it? But sure you’re going to be a loving mother of a child with Down Syndrome.
@l.k1992
@l.k1992 20 күн бұрын
​@BeansPredi-ch6xk if you're a muslim then you should fear Allah for speaking that way to another person. Disabilities are not jokes and you should never wish that upon any parent. I know a sister who had her first child at the age of 22 and that baby had downs syndrome. Many sisters in their early 20s are birthing children with disabilities nowadays, not necessarily downs syndrome but other disabilities
@shovanroy99
@shovanroy99 Жыл бұрын
Bro is living in his own matrix. 😅
@RollEyesDeeply
@RollEyesDeeply Жыл бұрын
What people are in denial about is that women simply are no longer interested in children and marriage like we used to because we fear abuse and being a doormat…so much that we forego the joy of motherhood and being a wife now.
@mycollections4068
@mycollections4068 Жыл бұрын
That's why many women are accepting in fear of becoming doormat are now becoming toy for playboys
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
And vice versa. What do men get from marrying "modern" women these days? We get a headache when we come home, sexless marriage, threat of divorce and if divorce happens we lose more than half our shit and our kids too. Too much of a risk, better not get married. Main reason why marriage in the west is down the shitter. Better get kids through surrogacy or something. Single father households are much better.
@leonelhernandez220
@leonelhernandez220 Жыл бұрын
They aren’t until they are 30… it’s so common that’s it has its own name… it’s called baby fever where they are obsessed with marriage and kids because their biological time is ticking. YES woman do want marriage
@Jessicaro
@Jessicaro Жыл бұрын
@@Aamirmhmd99 no reality is that statistics and studies show that men thrive in marriages and women don't. that is reality. that is why men are the once pushing for it all the time.
@Jessicaro
@Jessicaro Жыл бұрын
@@leonelhernandez220 yes they do but with the right man. women today do not want to settle anymore that is the difference.
@aqilkhan3637
@aqilkhan3637 Жыл бұрын
The logic went over her head, and she was more concerned with how she is feeling when you said that 😂
@tooraj2raj198
@tooraj2raj198 Жыл бұрын
Exactly these women live through feelings and emotions but not logic Sadly
@JamDodger-tn7mm
@JamDodger-tn7mm Жыл бұрын
Look, raising children in a poor environment is not appealing to some women
@pimiralii
@pimiralii Жыл бұрын
Yes because all he was doing was trying to make her feel bad. There’s absolutely nothing for her to gain from what he said.
@thecerebralexplorer
@thecerebralexplorer Жыл бұрын
​@Maily Doesn't matter. You gotta take what's beneficial and move on.
@pimiralii
@pimiralii Жыл бұрын
@@thecerebralexplorer what did he say that’s beneficial to her?
@pho36
@pho36 Жыл бұрын
My mum had me at 35 chill. Women are generally fine up until 35 onwards and even then most will be fine upto 40. This guys facts are like the extremes
@abdotawfikmath
@abdotawfikmath Жыл бұрын
You can see in her eyes that she did not hear a single word this man said.
@josephineiwelu9850
@josephineiwelu9850 Жыл бұрын
He is chatting FEAR. Joker
@kiiilox
@kiiilox Жыл бұрын
You can see in his eyes he enjoys wearing makeup
@iaido01
@iaido01 Жыл бұрын
Because it is probably not even true
@Jessicaro
@Jessicaro Жыл бұрын
because it is nonsens because in her mind she thinks about all her aunties, mother, grandmothers in the muslim community who have had kids way into their 40's he is trying to scare while he should know better certainly as a muslim that children are not in your hand nor the woman but in god's you can be twenty and have difficulties and 40 and pop out four kids after another.
@fridge_magnet
@fridge_magnet Жыл бұрын
Good for her in that case.
@babyshark3163
@babyshark3163 Жыл бұрын
Why is this man not cancelled yet?
@sakaaroibrahim9686
@sakaaroibrahim9686 Жыл бұрын
For what?? Cancelling for stating the fact 🤣🤣 Go and cencel the scientists who discovered this hella fact🤣🤣
@user-xn7tq6wy6z
@user-xn7tq6wy6z Жыл бұрын
@@sakaaroibrahim9686 Practice what your username preaches.
@smth_randomm
@smth_randomm Жыл бұрын
My mother had my sister when she was 30, my brother when she was 33, me when she was 35 and my younger brother when she was 38, you're telling me all of that was in "old people pregnancy" ?
@jrjoseph9213
@jrjoseph9213 Жыл бұрын
No old..but you get the point...it is always harder the older you get.
@freefromeverythingx0528
@freefromeverythingx0528 Жыл бұрын
​@@jrjoseph9213My aunt got pregnant at 40 and she's now 50 and healthy 😂
@Bankston4
@Bankston4 Жыл бұрын
I love how he only talks specifically about a woman’s fertility and not a man’s!! A man’s sperm becomes less viable in his thirties!! Male fertility kits are available, please stay humble out there and stop shaming the opposite sex!!
@iprophecy6768
@iprophecy6768 Жыл бұрын
Uh actually no that’s fallacy. You women are the fertile doomsdayers. What you just spewed is non sense. Look at Donald trump for example, he didn’t stop having kids until into his 50s .. because he didn’t have too. My father is another prime example, he was 62 when I was born. You women ABSOLUTELY are no longer fertile and ABSOLUTELY geriatric after 35. Period, amen. End of story. Any rebuttal is cope. Men age like wine 🍷, women age like milk 🥛. Been that way since the dawn of time. I’m 28, and I literally am planning to get married when I’m 40 because my sperm count is so high and my doctor told me this himself to wait to have children because my sperm will be viable well into my 60s. So you can keep coping 🚮
@justinaacorn5721
@justinaacorn5721 Жыл бұрын
They want to instill fear & desperation into women that are not interested.
@Bankston4
@Bankston4 Жыл бұрын
@@justinaacorn5721 💯Exactly!!
@justinaacorn5721
@justinaacorn5721 Жыл бұрын
@hentzarthurharmel5823 no such thing as a 60 year old girl
@HDMScorp
@HDMScorp Жыл бұрын
Tell that to my Dad. Had one at 50 😂
@misoka8020
@misoka8020 Жыл бұрын
Women don’t let a guy off the internet educate you on your body You should know these things
@ClixCFC
@ClixCFC Жыл бұрын
Allah knows your body more then you take a humble pill respectfully
@minnamiin
@minnamiin Жыл бұрын
​​​@@ClixCFC uhh allah does know our body, yes, but this guy doesn't, the age of menopause on average is like 45-55, that woman is 27, let her enjoy her life, a lot of women get pregnant when they're legit in their fifties
@ClixCFC
@ClixCFC Жыл бұрын
@@minnamiin i agree that's what im trying to saw also i think that is a girl from her profile pic idk it could be a man aswell🫠
@Hahahaha-7
@Hahahaha-7 5 ай бұрын
@@minnamiin how is staying single, no man with you and childless enjoying life especially as a Muslim woman, imagine have a 10 year old kid by 40. Fertility greatly declines by 35. Above 40 and she’s done.
@One-rr8um
@One-rr8um Ай бұрын
​@minnamiin so she will have baby when she's supposed to be almost grandma. Even at that age, parenthood is not easy and effective on children. That's more self centered than family centered thoughts. Not islamic as well. These are the women who are leftover in marriage markets and nobody wants to marry when their youth is wasted. Go ahead and enjoy.
@mayankdewli1010
@mayankdewli1010 Жыл бұрын
He lost 90 percent of his brain cells in his 20s
@MDF4072
@MDF4072 Жыл бұрын
that 90% by 30 is pure BS lol.
@treycerti1949
@treycerti1949 Жыл бұрын
It's true actually, research it.
@BeansPredi-ch6xk
@BeansPredi-ch6xk 2 ай бұрын
It’s true scientific research.
@user-il1ey2ur3x
@user-il1ey2ur3x Жыл бұрын
This man has never had anything good to say in his life. 💀
@issra4872
@issra4872 Жыл бұрын
When she refuses you saying it's "too early to think about marriage anyway" and you try to convince her
@Hahahaha-7
@Hahahaha-7 5 ай бұрын
😂
@najmussaqibmahboobi1192
@najmussaqibmahboobi1192 Жыл бұрын
I was born to my mother when she was in her 30s and my younger brother was born in her late 30s. And alhamdulillah we had a healthy childhood. I am against putting off marriage for some superficial important career but giving these exaggerated worrying traits to sisters and appealing to a certain demographics of your viewers would not help the community. May Allah swt give you Hidayat and help our sisters who are finding it hard to get right match or have children.
@somerandomguy3037
@somerandomguy3037 Жыл бұрын
I do tend to disagree with brother Mahdi but this is definitely something that needs to be said. Do people really believe all these Muslims don’t ever do anything at all with the opposite gender until their 30 and done with school and are super established in their career with a big house and 2 cars etc? Maybe you’ll say I know someone and more then likely that person is texting, or dating without your knowledge or at least they are watching haram videos to please themselves. This culture of getting married late needs to end. We shouldn’t make people rush into marriage but we should advice them to look in to it and I would say as early as possibly. Although I am no scholar and people should look to them for advice.
@najmussaqibmahboobi1192
@najmussaqibmahboobi1192 Жыл бұрын
@@somerandomguy3037 "getting involved with someone" is too much of a big thing to resolve when one has the education system which is focused on dumbing down people and delaying intellectual maturity. We are unfortunately all part of the system. I am not saying people don't get involved till they are married. Mostly people do but then to mitigate that one should have a working system where both boys and girls are married in their mid teens and they are trained to bear the reality of life, work, growth, knowledge. Just blaming someone for not being able to marry till their late 20s is childish(most of the viewers of his channel are inexperienced young people). And one thing I would like to tell muslims living in the West is that you people have to compromise on the wase of practicing of Deen if you people are not willing to do Hijrah to muslim lands especially if you don't have a family support in West. Our religion is not for everyone to make uncalled comments on from people with no expertise and similarly muslims anywhere are not for being narrowed down to stereotypes. Well one wants to marry young, okay go and find a willing potential spouse and get married. How is community keeping one from marrying? People who are "super established" won't want to marry, so how is it my headache if they fell into sin till then? They are responsible for themselves and their potential spouses are at liberty to either except or reject their proposals. One needs to move on and get over with marriage or kids and just continue doing work on one's own self in a new situation. Cannot wait for the world to fix because making Personal decisions. Whole of the kanging of these online gurus and virtue signalling personalities is based on some erroneous notion that people own anyone anything. No. Nobody owes you. I am free to marry whomever I find fit for my life situation and preferences untill I don't outrightly some violation of sacred Islamic laws. Similarly people are free to make their own decisions in life without being answerable to popular cult culture.(And to be honest mostly people in reality do the same)
@jackspark1546
@jackspark1546 Жыл бұрын
Nothing healthy about your face
@ahmedsalah5364
@ahmedsalah5364 Жыл бұрын
Exceptions are not the norms
@finnthinkin7695
@finnthinkin7695 Жыл бұрын
It's scientifically proven too.
@Riosgirl98
@Riosgirl98 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother was 45 having her last child, my friends grandmother was 49. One indigenous and one Pakistani - many healthy women have no issues getting pregnant.
@donquixote3292
@donquixote3292 Жыл бұрын
what you forget to mention is that she had her FIRST child young. He said the process must be kickstarted young. If she had tried to have her 1st child at 45, it wouldve come out disabled
@shannonpickens7695
@shannonpickens7695 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Women can have children into their 40’s but who the hell wants to do that?!? 😂 my kids wear me out!
@zimulatetoec
@zimulatetoec Жыл бұрын
If a woman is pregnant before 30, she can become pregnant more easily at 38 than a woman who wants her first child at the same age. My girlfriends mom had 3 children. Her last child born when she was 41. My girlfriend being born when her mom was 24, her brother at 32 and her sister at 41.
@re4lity176
@re4lity176 Жыл бұрын
​@@zimulatetoecgirlfriend? You mean wife
@trusted_reviews
@trusted_reviews Жыл бұрын
This is the exception to the rule.
@fatimakhalil6323
@fatimakhalil6323 Жыл бұрын
Imagine getting told by a man how your reproductive cycle works
@ChErRyaVe20pK
@ChErRyaVe20pK Жыл бұрын
"No" You cant make this shit up 😂
@Whizz2024
@Whizz2024 Жыл бұрын
This man is sus. Always going on and on about women’s age and fertility
@hotmess2766
@hotmess2766 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 he's a narcissistic to busy always trying to undermine women which is why his 2 wives divorced him. I hear he abused them too
@truending
@truending Жыл бұрын
Men who think they can shoot the gun and hit the target at any age.
@truending
@truending Жыл бұрын
@Hentz Arthur Harmel Yeah, but watch if it is your load of DNA inside your young wife. Neither every load nor every gun is the same, if you know what I mean.
@VangieGuerrero-xo1rp
@VangieGuerrero-xo1rp Жыл бұрын
Old people pregnancy statement 😂😂😂 has me rolling on the floor 🤣 with laughter.
@VangieGuerrero-xo1rp
@VangieGuerrero-xo1rp Жыл бұрын
Scare tactics 😂 She's 27!!! She can still have children in her 30s
@Aissa_gilly975
@Aissa_gilly975 Жыл бұрын
Even at 60 you can have a baby if Allah wishes it. If a woman is destined to have children then she will have children even if she’s above 30 or 40. And if a woman is not destined to have children, she can try for a baby from the age of 18 till menopause and still she doesn’t succeed. So dear Mahdi as a Muslim you shouldn’t talk like this coz the blessings of children lies in Allan’s hands not these statistics.
@jaymisk1991
@jaymisk1991 Жыл бұрын
Don't take it that way my dear! He was just telling a scientifically proven fact. I remember that even Prophet Muhammad's (PbuH) advice was there supporting early motherhood! But one thing is there to keep in mind that for everything there will be exceptions! That's it!
@Jhonsmithandy
@Jhonsmithandy Жыл бұрын
Hi honey I have a friend she has her 1 child at 35 her second child at 39 She’s fit , well dressed and beautiful . My aunty has her first child at 49 Stop telling lies to woman your not even a woman to say that .
@TheRagul90
@TheRagul90 Жыл бұрын
That's science. People do not need to be a women to tell that. And I understood that you know nothing about hormone secretions. Not all women have the same breast size.
@Jhonsmithandy
@Jhonsmithandy Жыл бұрын
@@TheRagul90 keep your brain living with the herd
@TheRagul90
@TheRagul90 Жыл бұрын
@@Jhonsmithandy keep your head brainless as always.
@rickysingh3262
@rickysingh3262 Жыл бұрын
@Angel Just ignore. He is a Muslim😂. They are not to be taken seriously.
@Jhonsmithandy
@Jhonsmithandy Жыл бұрын
@@rickysingh3262 all religious people are devil
@kellyakuhata2842
@kellyakuhata2842 Жыл бұрын
Damn shes 27, im 26 and i don't want kids till 50
@kellyakuhata2842
@kellyakuhata2842 Жыл бұрын
@@nat1381 true 🤔💭 well since I'm a man and not a woman 😂 then I'll take 40.
@nikahmadmimi3740
@nikahmadmimi3740 Жыл бұрын
bro . no woman wants to get pregnant, they are just like us, they want cute little children as her kid . you're the one responsible to make that journey pleasant for her
@user-od1fm3hs9c
@user-od1fm3hs9c Жыл бұрын
He gives me the creeps.
@bakhtawarishaq2933
@bakhtawarishaq2933 Жыл бұрын
Being endowed with kids is totally up to Allah. And its pre written. If Allah has written motherhood for a women, she can have them regardless in teens twenties thirties or evn fourties
@trusted_reviews
@trusted_reviews Жыл бұрын
So with that logic if I had an exam I should not bother revising because what grade I’ll achieve is already destined for me?! Smart.
@malaakghanem7901
@malaakghanem7901 Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana You brought up an interesting point and I don’t think you realize it. If death is pre-written and you have no control over it, then why is suicide possible? It shouldn’t be.
@anakonilevy2192
@anakonilevy2192 Жыл бұрын
Yeah being rich is pre written even if you work in a cake factory allah will give it to you, no my friend thats not how it goes. You have to put yourself in a position to be blessed.
@HoodReviews
@HoodReviews Жыл бұрын
@@malaakghanem7901 if you can't have children, your life will be limited. No options to have your own children, if you can't have children there's no future for you, therefore your lineage and thoughts die with you. Can you really call something life if it's extremely limited?
@ruthietube
@ruthietube Жыл бұрын
​@Sultana Banana yes,if you believe in islam .
@AtmanWisdom0202
@AtmanWisdom0202 Жыл бұрын
Bro studied biology in an engineering institute 😢😢
@jasjandiaye5436
@jasjandiaye5436 Жыл бұрын
My mom has 3 children she got her first child at the age of 38 so ur on something mate
@JY-fk6if
@JY-fk6if Жыл бұрын
At 35, most women have a 15% to 20% chance of getting pregnant in a given month. That could mean a 78% chance of conceiving within the year. But 35 seems to be the point where fertility for womens ovaries does decline. So what Mahdi is saying is overly exaggerated, a number of women in their 40s currently are falling pregnant, how would you explain that?
@pieface8234
@pieface8234 Жыл бұрын
Everything he says is exaggerated
@JY-fk6if
@JY-fk6if Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana he is trying to be Tate but an Aldi version
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
the likelihood of having genetic problems and unhealthy children increases with age and the likelihood of pregnancy complications increases with age. and the maternal mortality rate increases with age. (it is not much in older ages necessarily, but it is much higher than in ages between 15- 29) also the chances of conceiving decreases. and the quality of eggs decreases.
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana If Allah wills, it can happen even if the woman is 70 But we need to (الأخذ بالأسباب)
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana Yes, in our current time with all the media , still no known cases of such things So people should know what is most probable thing to happen.
@pimiralii
@pimiralii Жыл бұрын
💀💀she’s only 27 it’s extremely normal to have kids at that age and beyond, all you’re doing is discouraging her and trying to make her feel bad🤡. She still has 20 years of fertility left. My mom had me and 3 of my siblings after 30, don’t act like it’s a foreign concept.
@muhammadyawar4612
@muhammadyawar4612 Жыл бұрын
27 isnt bad but time is still running out. Obviously it's time for her to get serious if she wants children. Some women are less fertile than other so everyone case is different BUT it's a fact that you lose your fertility as you age. We think 27 isn't too old because our lifespans are longer in the modern era. But 200 years ago when the lifespan was 20 years less. It would have been a different story
@muhammadyawar4612
@muhammadyawar4612 Жыл бұрын
Marriage takes time so it would be smarter to start acting now so you can be ready by 30
@sanane66543
@sanane66543 Жыл бұрын
times are changing men have less sperm count in 2023 by about 60% compared to 10 years ago so women fertility also changes because of the processed food etc we eat just because you know 1 or 2 people who did get lucky doesnt nean the majority will
@HoodReviews
@HoodReviews Жыл бұрын
27 years old is a bit late, unless she's willing to rush things which would come off as a red flag
@HoodReviews
@HoodReviews Жыл бұрын
​@@sanane66543 men could check their testosterone levels, do women even check the amount of eggs they have left?
@FairozAfrine-jf8xg
@FairozAfrine-jf8xg Жыл бұрын
my mom had me at 36...whatever he is saying is true but it feels as if even if we don't find a good match for us we have to get married and have children with anyone... it's kinda sad... it's upto Allah what will one get..
@HaveAGoodDayFk.U
@HaveAGoodDayFk.U Жыл бұрын
When your girl keeps saying no to getting married but you're still trying to convince her.
@QueenLisa202
@QueenLisa202 Жыл бұрын
I had a baby at 42
@BhgwaTrapAwarensNusrat
@BhgwaTrapAwarensNusrat Жыл бұрын
Only 1 ?
@taniahobbs7291
@taniahobbs7291 Жыл бұрын
I conceived in my late twenties and lost the fetus then conceived again 11 years later and Alhamduillah it was successful. So it was a very long wait , having alot of patience , and making dua all the time. So it is harder to conceive as you get older
@Aissa_gilly975
@Aissa_gilly975 Жыл бұрын
Is Allah wishes for you to have children you will conceive without any problem.
@randomestchannel
@randomestchannel Жыл бұрын
Not a fetus, a baby. Are you pro choice?
@khalilrehman1153
@khalilrehman1153 Жыл бұрын
I am a doctor and I can confirm one thing beyond 35 years the chances of getting pregnant becomes is less and the chances of congenital anomalies increases.
@Hijabibti925
@Hijabibti925 Жыл бұрын
I had my children at 28...i really wish i would have had them sooner kids are so much work take advantage of ur energy when u are young.
@ClixCFC
@ClixCFC Жыл бұрын
You may have wished it but it's the plan of Allah maybe you think youd have more energy but you really wouldn't have compared to now, Allah knows when the time is right❤ im a brother
@Sibrah04
@Sibrah04 Жыл бұрын
I’m 36 I was done having kids at the age of 25 😂. I have 4 kids . The oldest 16 and the youngest 11. Alhamduilah
@Bittertruth86
@Bittertruth86 Жыл бұрын
love Israel ❤️
@hyisgisg6883
@hyisgisg6883 Жыл бұрын
Respectfully...I don't think she understood what you meant when you said "yesterday". She just said "no" unknowingly 😅
@lipsme1673
@lipsme1673 Жыл бұрын
She’s a smart woman, highly educated and speaks 4 languages. English is is just not her first language
@Biekoe
@Biekoe Жыл бұрын
@@lipsme1673 she still didnt understood
@zakback9937
@zakback9937 Жыл бұрын
​@@lipsme1673 one of those languages is Womanese
@hyisgisg6883
@hyisgisg6883 Жыл бұрын
@@lipsme1673 not about her language she looked like she spaced out for a bit or didn't pay attention, or something just clicked for good while😅
@JamDodger-tn7mm
@JamDodger-tn7mm Жыл бұрын
Or No means no and she didn’t agree that she should have had kids when she was younger
@gmshadowtraders
@gmshadowtraders Жыл бұрын
A WOMAN CANNOT USE LOGIC. THIS IS WHY THE CREATOR PUT US IN CHARGE.
@abdulkhan2310
@abdulkhan2310 Жыл бұрын
ALLAH blesses you with children ...inshallah ALLAH make it easy for the Ummah 🎉
@phenomenal8196
@phenomenal8196 Жыл бұрын
Talking advice from a man who’s had 3 wives and 2 have left him due to abuse 😅 this is the same man who couldn’t even bother visiting his wife in the hospital while she was giving birth
@PerigoBerro
@PerigoBerro Жыл бұрын
A lot of misinformation here.
@hotmess2766
@hotmess2766 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 he's a pathetic narcissist
@phenomenal8196
@phenomenal8196 Жыл бұрын
@@PerigoBerro all true. Also, this guys a complete psycho, like a snake.
@farahsheikh4709
@farahsheikh4709 Жыл бұрын
I know a couple who got married in their early twenties. Both practicing mashallah and health wise nothing wrong with either. They were blessed with a son 20 years later subhanallah. Everything is written by the Almighty.
@Aissa_gilly975
@Aissa_gilly975 Жыл бұрын
This is what I’ve been saying, it all depends on Allah not these statistics.
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
​@@Aissa_gilly975 No, Allah has given us limited free will to make our own choices. And we're accountable for our own choices. What she said above is an exception, a rare case. If u delay having kids at your prime even though there's no health issues, that's your choice. And when you're struggling to have kids at your 30s, that's the consequences of your choice. U can't blame Allah for your own bad choices.
@Healingnetworks
@Healingnetworks Жыл бұрын
Had my first baby at 37, now second at 40. When it’s your time, it’s your time.
@towwom
@towwom Жыл бұрын
he is trying the forbidden " scarizz " .
@HammerK99
@HammerK99 Жыл бұрын
“Modern Muslim woman”-not a compliment. It’s almost an oxymoron in the most unflattering of ways.
@derwini7404
@derwini7404 Жыл бұрын
Right because Muslims need to be primitive
@relaxtion.56
@relaxtion.56 Жыл бұрын
What bull I married a woman in her forties regnant twice no problem
@BhgwaTrapAwarensNusrat
@BhgwaTrapAwarensNusrat Жыл бұрын
Exception are everywhere . I know someone who deny having kid at age of 27 later she come to know she can't have a child after 29. Now she is cries cries cries and cries but doesn't accept her feministic fault.
@SohanneTheArtist
@SohanneTheArtist Жыл бұрын
Me when I bring all the science, logic and facts but my woman ends the conversation with one word.. 😅😂🤣
@hosaikarim6563
@hosaikarim6563 Жыл бұрын
To be fair a women who a sexually active before marriage and use chemical contraceptive will definitely damage their reproductive organs. I know muslim women who've easily gotten pregnant in their late 30's and in their 40's. This is because they have preserved their chastity and kept their wombs protected. Unfortunately in our modern Muslim culture it's taboo to have multiple wives. Many our our chaste sisters remain single. Only the prettiest will be hand picked while a majority of Muslim women in the Muslim world remain single and vergin till old age. This is a harsh and depressing reality of single conservative Muslim women who don't want to choose the path of harm.
@IBRA-nm9kc
@IBRA-nm9kc Жыл бұрын
Lmao u can talk like this if u are in ukraine. In muslim countries there are more men than woman. And in the world there are more men than woman. So mutliple wives rule is a selfishness
@IBRA-nm9kc
@IBRA-nm9kc Жыл бұрын
​@Fatin Iyanie lmao how unmarried woman are more important than unmarried man? Unmarried man has more sexual hungry,more survival issues thsn women. If u woman and unmarried there will be everytime anyone can protect and provide you. But if u are lone man u must do everything. And your religon dont concern about woman with valueing unmarried woman more. Because your religious guy says this words to take second wife for themselves. And its okay to say man polygamy cannot be solution. Because there are no 4x women population in the world. And i think u learning statistics from jihadis lmao. In the world 100 women to 102 man. Only women polyandry can be solution if it needed.
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
​@@anneboleyn3491 assuming men and women have the same numbers, still many men aren't ready for marriage, men have the responsibility of providing for the wife, and generally they are the ones who are proposing, but the numbers of unmarried women is a lot, and many men aren't coming and proposing to them, but polygyny can solve this, because a man who is able, can marry another woman and decrease the number of those unmarried women.
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
​​@@IBRA-nm9kc assuming men and women have the same numbers, still many men aren't ready for marriage, men have the responsibility of providing for the wife, and generally they are the ones who are proposing, (more men are not ready for marriage than women who aren't) but the numbers of unmarried women is a lot, and many men aren't coming and proposing to them, but polygyny can solve this, because a man who is able, can marry another woman and decrease the number of those unmarried women.
@xerikl
@xerikl Жыл бұрын
​@@IBRA-nm9kc be careful with your words. Saying it is selfishness when Allah permitted it is dangerous. Do you know better than our creator?
@erzebethbathory9246
@erzebethbathory9246 Жыл бұрын
Hello, just did a bit of research. women have about one to two million eggs before puberty. 300k to 500k remain after puberty. 300k to 150k left around 20’s. thirties, approximately 100k-150k eggs left. Late thirties, 1/4th of that is left. Considerable deterioration from then to menopause which is when we hit zero. Early thirties isn’t a bad time to start a family.
@P1SK3Y
@P1SK3Y Жыл бұрын
yes isn't a bad time but still not a good time tho 🧐
@biancabrooks9513
@biancabrooks9513 Жыл бұрын
I started at 30! It's a great time.
@Arthurpendragon2
@Arthurpendragon2 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad how hard they fight against reality
@Mrscarricom
@Mrscarricom Жыл бұрын
This man is far from right. He's left the building
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Жыл бұрын
How so?
@lugartan3418
@lugartan3418 Жыл бұрын
Cope with facts
@TMNmedia
@TMNmedia Жыл бұрын
Another yusra in denial
@repentance1748
@repentance1748 Жыл бұрын
@@TMNmedia😂
@cheikhniang2693
@cheikhniang2693 Жыл бұрын
Can I know why?
@Kat63875
@Kat63875 Жыл бұрын
27 is so young 💀 i’m tired of ppl making women feel bad because they didn’t get married and pump out kids at age 20. Get your education and leave the rest to Allah, His timing is always right no matter what these weirdos say.
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
No, you're accountable for your own choices. Allah has given us limited free will, u can't blame him for the bad choices u make. If u waited for so long to have kids and now u can't have, then it's on u not Allah. U willfully made that choice and now u have to live with it. It's upto u to have kids at your prime or have a geriatric pregnancy with increased risks.
@swabrianwar1020
@swabrianwar1020 Жыл бұрын
it seems you got triggered
@Nellyv1lle
@Nellyv1lle Жыл бұрын
The lady in the video isnt even in a relationship. So she would have to find a man first. Then get married and that takes time. Then try to conceive. Courting a man. Bagging him. And waiting for him to propose could take yearsss. All awhile her body clock is ticking. It is considered a high risk pregnancy to get pregnant at a later age.
@raniaqueen110
@raniaqueen110 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@PavK-rv7be
@PavK-rv7be Жыл бұрын
I know right, stop telling the truth! ☕️💀
@milarepetzky6585
@milarepetzky6585 Жыл бұрын
Take care about your eggs and let the beauty in peace 🌹🫶
@i_rachel117
@i_rachel117 Жыл бұрын
His face reminds me of every antagonist I've seen in Bollywood movies😭
@mrs.merrijaynes8042
@mrs.merrijaynes8042 Жыл бұрын
I was 31 going on 32 when I had my twins w/ the help of invitro fertilization ..my sister- who is 35 now- just had her 1st baby... I feel like this man is doing young women a real disservice... do not rush out & settle with just any man.. science is on your side . women in their 40s become pregnant all the time . don't let him scare you!
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
This is an anecdotal experience. Your your sister is blessed to have kids at such a later age when the majority of the women at that age are struggling to have even 1. Statistics don't lie, it's a fact that after 30 a women's fertility starts dropping and by 35 she's entering geriatric pregnancy territory. For every one woman who has kids at above 33, there are 1000s who can't and will be childless. It's upto each individual whether to take this risk or not, at the end of the day you're accountable for your own choices.
@Abrarhameed001
@Abrarhameed001 Жыл бұрын
The end loool.😂😂😂
@jjj-hs7tk
@jjj-hs7tk Жыл бұрын
Hello Andrew ,please hire me i need a job. I.will do anything you ask
@Abrarhameed001
@Abrarhameed001 Жыл бұрын
@@jjj-hs7tk 🙄🙄
@WiseManOfZephyria
@WiseManOfZephyria Жыл бұрын
Abu Andrew 🙀🙌
@jjj-hs7tk
@jjj-hs7tk Жыл бұрын
@Raider Trader I'm a peasant. I'm tired of being worthless in the Matrix
@angelgutierrez374
@angelgutierrez374 Жыл бұрын
To sum it up, yes ,she could still have kids well into her 30s early 40s but by 30 your chances of risks occurring increase and as we know there are exceptions to this, but we all also know that exceptions don't make the rules If a women gets pregnant at 40 her chances of having complications or giving birth to a child with deformities or mental disabilities is very high Is it possible? yes Is it recommended? No,medical professionals will have a long list of things that could go wrong as she gets older trying to conceive and give birth And the mental toll would be quite high with each failure
@abudardadawah
@abudardadawah Жыл бұрын
This is interesting, because I know of many woman who had their first child at early or mid 30s. Wonder where he got this information from as 90% is a big number
@NoName-bt6xd
@NoName-bt6xd Жыл бұрын
That's bcs avg age of first time moms is actually 31 in the UK
@NoName-bt6xd
@NoName-bt6xd Жыл бұрын
I think it's true about 90% eggs are gone. Bcs women don't produce eggs constantly like men does with sperm. Women are born with fixed amount of eggs and it decreases steadily even before puberty. But if we take the number of eggs alone as a factor of fertility that means a 1 year old girl is better than an 18 year old girl
@HoodReviews
@HoodReviews Жыл бұрын
The average 40 year old woman has about 3% or less eggs left, I'm a man and I know this, you can fact check ✅. Any man knows that if a woman suddenly wants a man at 30, it's due to desperation not love. If it is love, then why not before? If the answer is because of priority, then she should respect the men who prioritize going after the younger women
@afsahiqbal424
@afsahiqbal424 Жыл бұрын
​@Sultana Banana 90 % is exaggeration and i am a med student
@afsahiqbal424
@afsahiqbal424 Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana i am not talking about miracles i am talking about majority average of women have their first child in 31 32 yr old what does avg mean then? Also depends on your ethnicity and your life style And fertility decline after age 35 both in men and women only difference is that women reach menopause
@timmy741
@timmy741 Жыл бұрын
Definitely your right trust me ❤❤❤❤ love this guy what you say is absolutely right
@marisavaldord7065
@marisavaldord7065 Жыл бұрын
The bride of our prophet Khadija Ra married. The prophet at age of forty. And she gave birth to four children at her forties.
@raythomas5090
@raythomas5090 Жыл бұрын
There are actually some women out there that don’t want kids. Nothing wrong with that. Especially if she has plenty of nieces and nephews to spoil. Or they having a calling in life or they want to live their life doing everything. There’s nothing wrong with that
@fizzahussain6722
@fizzahussain6722 Жыл бұрын
Lol all I hear from this man is blah blah blah....these are all very " un islamic" arguments... this advice should come and only come privately from ones own doctor, and that too, purely as a medical advice.. it doesn't apply to all population..there is Allah's qadr first and foremost. Girls and women in many urban areas of Pakistan sit at their parents house waiting to get married. Their parents doing everything they can to save money for dowry etc. The world isn't all makkah and madina my friend...girls and women have barriers even if they want to get married and pregnant early...please keep these words to yourself, you aren't well meaning, you patronize women and is very condescending to women's status in society and Islam . May Allah guide you.
@burhanshah5855
@burhanshah5855 Жыл бұрын
Man her expressions went from happy to sad so quick. However, facts are better than dreams.
@blueboy189
@blueboy189 Жыл бұрын
Yes they are. Here's another fact: Allah doesn't exist. Just like the tooth fairy doesn't exist. Happy to be of assistance.
@Jessicaro
@Jessicaro Жыл бұрын
her expression went from what is he talking about to. every woman i know has had children in their 30's and 40's she is a muslim woman. in their society wo have children way up into their 40's so yeah she thinks he a fool
@hannahrachelxo2281
@hannahrachelxo2281 Жыл бұрын
This scares me to my soul. I’m 36 and want nothing more than a baby.. I pray it will still happen. I know it’s possible, but I worry for sure.
@ibraheemq7859
@ibraheemq7859 Ай бұрын
it is possible
@Yasin.510
@Yasin.510 11 ай бұрын
Prophet Muhammad SA. said: "𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲".... It's really True unfortunately. How can women not understand simple logics 😅
@hajarhajar8906
@hajarhajar8906 Жыл бұрын
Lol my mom had me when she was 40! My sister in law is 4 years older than my brother he was 32 she was 36 when he married her and he’s an incredibly high value man. He is tall good looking, very successful in his career highly educated, great character. Higher than this narcissistic piece of trash. He could get an 18 years old if he wanted to. But he’s not shallow. He chose his wife .And they have two beautiful healthy kids. He loves her and cherishes her and we love her too. She’s the best woman he could ever have because she treats him very well and she’s an outstanding mother. She’s very responsible, great communicator. Amazing problems solver. I see her like my older sister and I always seek her advice. Why would he choose a passive younger woman who cares only about Tik tok and nonsense ? 17 years of successful mariage. My other brother is also a very high value man an engineer with his own business he married his university girlfriend who is only one year younger than him. They married when she was 28 he was 29! They had all their three daughters when she was in her 30s. Perfect match. Never argued. They are always supporting eachother though good and bad times. 16 years of successful mariage. My sister got married to a heart surgeon and a university professor at the age of 34 after She finished her PhD. And they have two beautiful healthy children together. And her husband is amazing. He loves her and treats her well. Been married for 8 years. The common thing between all of these three is that they are all highly educated high value people who read a lot. Travelled a lot . They understand that reality is a complex thing. And they think beyond their nose. Thank god not everyone is stupid and bitter like this narcissist . Women in their 30s can have healthy babies. It’s completely normal. Guys like you want very young girls from 18-23 because you want to raise them. You want to control them depend on them. You do feel like taking care of them. They can accept abuse and can accept anything you give them since they have no life experience. Guys like you are not mariage material anyways. Very immature. High value people be it men or women marry the person. They check the compatibility. They look for a partner who will live with them for much longer. They don’t care about this dominance nonsense. High value couples support eachother and care for eachother. They don’t seek benefits like beauty or money. Besides who the hell in his right mind will take advice from a guy whose has a past of domestic violence? And the anger and narcissism is coming out of his eyes? Only teenage boys , or some guy who has a bad personality and wonders why women don’t want him. No it’s not because of the looks or the lack of money. It’s because women sense that there’s something wrong in your head. If we lived in a world where we all looked at our own flaws and tried to fix ourselves and be humble we wouldn’t see the likes of this guy and Andrew tate, third wave feminists and so on. Women over a certain age have enough life experience to spot the bullshit and you don’t like that. You know there’s something wrong with you but you justify it . I hope those young women understand that these guys for most part (not all ) I mean much older guys with a specific social status, are out there to abuse them.
@sakshigupta8603
@sakshigupta8603 Жыл бұрын
I think you wasted a lot of energy here. It's very clear what they look for in a woman. But that won't stop them from complaining when their desired woman is marrying them for their bank balance. Compatibility is the last thing on their checklist and then they blame the same 'youmg beautiful' woman they married when things turn stale. Lol. Anyways. Let's be thankful we're not born in a family of men like this guy here.
@carljohnson2194
@carljohnson2194 2 ай бұрын
Haha calling him a narcissist just coz you disagree with him
@carljohnson2194
@carljohnson2194 2 ай бұрын
And btw in Quran husband is dominant leader of the family
@malaakghanem7901
@malaakghanem7901 Жыл бұрын
A 30 year old woman has a 20% chance to get pregnant every month compared to a woman in her 20s which is 25-30%. The difference isn’t really that big, so you still have a good chance of conceiving.
@cherrypickingz9979
@cherrypickingz9979 Жыл бұрын
ikr but this "muslim" is extremely toxic and honestly scary in a way. our mosque community is openly discouraging our people to not listen to or follow this man as he spreads an insane amount of misinformation. (hes also referred to women as dogs and people who want to be degraded etc, hes just really creepy)
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
the likelihood of having genetic problems and unhealthy children increases with age and the likelihood of pregnancy complications increases with age. and the rate of maternal mortality rate increases with age. (it is not much in older ages necessarily, but it is much higher than in ages between 15- 29) also the chances of conceiving decreases. and the quality of eggs decreases.
@malaakghanem7901
@malaakghanem7901 Жыл бұрын
@M A I never denied that age increases the risk of health problems in babies, but the chances of genetic problems aren’t as high as people make it out to be. It’s very possible to have a healthy baby in your thirties especially with good medical care. Also, why did you put 15 in that range? 15 year old girls should not be having children. Teen pregnancy is way more dangerous than being pregnant in your thirties. Since apparently you know so much about women’s bodies, you should know that.
@malaakghanem7901
@malaakghanem7901 Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana He still called us holes, so that’s not any better. No one should be taking advice from this scumbag.
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up Жыл бұрын
@@malaakghanem7901 I made a comparison The odds of Genetic problems and mortality even if the woman is forty are generally not that high, so I would still tell women to get pregnant in that age if they can. So, although they aren't that high, they are higher compared to ages from 15-29 By the way, statistics on maternal mortality rate were done on 144 countries (the biggest research in this area till now as far as i know) in 2014, they compared maternal mortality rate in women of different age groups (15-19, 20-24, 25-29, 30-34, 35-39, above 40), and do you know what they found? They found that the lowest maternal mortality rate in more than third of these countries is for pregnant women in the age group(15-19), example of these countries (egypt). But for the majority of countries, the lowest rate was for pregnant women in the age group (20-24). If you collect all the countries together, the lowest will be in (20-24),then (25-29) and (15-19) are nearly the same, and then (30-34), and then (35-39) and then (above 40). But Generally the mortality rate for all ages isn't that high to not allow women to get pregnant, and if you add good medical care, it decreases so much. So yeah, women can handle pregnancy in (15-19) physically very easy generally speaking, the WHO for a long time put the maternal mortality rate in this age as more than what this research found, and the researchers commented that the WHO exaggerated the numbers, the WHO also put the maternal mortality rate for pregnant women under 15 years old as a certain number, but the research didn't look at the maternal mortality rate under 15, but even if you take the estimation of the WHO as true(they probably exaggerated this also), still pregnancy under 15, will not have have a higher mortality rate than above 40 according to the results in this research.
@nevermind5085
@nevermind5085 Жыл бұрын
Every hijabi girls are not religious but every religious girls are hijabi Alhamdulillah ❤ for my mother and sisters
@inarizic4945
@inarizic4945 2 ай бұрын
Fathers are to blame for pushing girls into careers. Most are in the dating scene and haram relationships citing careers and not ready to settle down. But once they hit mid 30s they are scrambling to find a man.
@Peace-ys6nt
@Peace-ys6nt Жыл бұрын
not everyone’s biological clock is the same. it’s not uncommon for women to have children over 40 years of age if they are healthy and fit my opinion is “not a leaf falls without the knowledge of Allah” therefore Allah is capable of everything you couldn’t imagine neither science could imagine. when you have tawakul in Allah nothing is impossible ❤
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife Жыл бұрын
Iam not a fertility or baby producing machine. Producing baby is not my only job I have to establish myself in the world so that I can work and live independently have friendly relationship with my husband and not that of master and slave I have brain and can decide when to have baby according to my own health and finances. In today's world of developed science we have have healthy baby at 35 or even 40. Adapt
@nabilagoode27
@nabilagoode27 Жыл бұрын
I was got married at 28 had my first boy at 31 then my daughter when I was 34 so el hamdouleh ,you wrong!
@Hamza-iq6gw
@Hamza-iq6gw Жыл бұрын
Denial is a river in egypt
@ahmadsoud
@ahmadsoud Жыл бұрын
You're wrong but you're right.
@Ballu12345
@Ballu12345 Жыл бұрын
😂
@Ballu12345
@Ballu12345 Жыл бұрын
What does this mean😂😊
@oz41R
@oz41R Жыл бұрын
Watch the full version. She’s not disagreeing with him just can’t believe it. She just another girl caught in materialist trap of the feminist ideal of hardworking, independent, partnered and not married to create a family-unit, women.
@mrfix369
@mrfix369 Жыл бұрын
Alert: Reels knowledge must be verified..... Before believing....
@mimmiekgaditse1517
@mimmiekgaditse1517 Ай бұрын
This man's eyes perfectly Express how evil he is
@SuperServentofAllah
@SuperServentofAllah Жыл бұрын
Bro. U are a good man why do u want the sin of every man looking at this woman
@nadapc930
@nadapc930 Жыл бұрын
Good men ? Bf
@Aamirmhmd99
@Aamirmhmd99 Жыл бұрын
For the greater good of society.
@ladannuri4702
@ladannuri4702 Жыл бұрын
Good man? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@fakefakefake7952
@fakefakefake7952 Жыл бұрын
Wallah I wonder if he can say all that he says to her in the presence of the a Prophet S.a.w. Would our Prophet S.a.w have approved of this guy? His comments and his moronic tactics of pushing people to feel bad so they would agree with him?? I really think Mahdi is upbringing a fleet of men who will do less, want more, and demean women for their biological value. Y'all are being brainwashed into thinking you're all kings. And you expect king treatment. When you're not kingss. You're just lucky that women are in an urgency to marry because biological clock. The biology was never an alarm in Qur'an. You see prophets having kids in old age. Khadija RA was old too. And in her life. Sayyed ur rijal. The leader of all men. The epitome of masculity, our Prophet S.A.W was deeply attached to her. Never remarried in her life. Grieved her for longer. Didn't say that he needed more kids and let's marry a young virgin because I am the Prophet I need more progeny. And you see in sunnah that women were not pushed into marrying a dude because of her biology. Whatever he's saying makes sense in a limited scope of context. And marraige is a life long thing. As per my morality. He's corrupting men into thinking they're CEOs. Marry four wives because it's a job. God. There's something really twisted about your idea of relationships. I see how he creates urgency in the mind of this woman. And sadly, he is not asking men to be men enough to cater to the pious, aware and privileged good Muslim unmarried women, without demeaning them of their self worth, into agreeing to marry an average man, because her eggs are going bad? Bruh. No.
@DarkKnight-dk3bf
@DarkKnight-dk3bf Жыл бұрын
after 32yrs woman egg rapidly decline. After 32 only 1/3 egg remain. 45yrs they hit Menopause . After 35+ chances of children with syndrome increase drastically. This is how biology. Prophet Muhammad would be disappointed on you because of your jahaliyat.
@fakefakefake7952
@fakefakefake7952 Жыл бұрын
@Sultana Banana beloved sister sultana. I am a sister too. I think we as sisters are generalized. And that's a problem. Tell me what's better? A dumb underage girl who has more stockholm syndrome than haya, or an actual practicing Muslim, w or without a degree, but mature and a WORTHY addition to a man's life? One who isn't a liability, but a friend, a counsel, a lover? I do not think delaying marriage is good. I'm not denying my biology. Had the qawwam figure been found, I'd have married. I respect the hudood of Allah and part of being a healthy female is being picky about a mate. I am solelyyyy against the manipulation that includes using my age as a bargaining chip. Naseehat and manipulation are not the same. Marraige is not something to be manipulated into. Like a business transaction. It's a serious serious thing. In pursuit of sakoon. And look for sakoon in this bond. How can sakoon come from being w a guy who keeps you on your knees and puts you in worry of other women, how I'd that sakoon? Yes it is for those who have been perverted after reading and watching perverted content and crave pervertion in marriages now, but this dominate your wife, all. Bdsm bs, and be a macho etc, that's enabling a problem? Deen protects fitrah. Not give into perversions. It's an insult to the institution of marriage how Mahdi sees us as slaves or servants in service of a man. Women marry one dude. Not four. Will Allah design a system soooooo unfair to women that they will go against their biological markers and aqal and social status and just marry for the sake of biology? There's something wrong w the system fundamentally, and no all that isn't women being educated. It's men being snowflakes too. Incompetent and rigid on top of that. I swear if Islam allowed us to marry outside our faith, these red pill bros would die single. The guy I marry will be dad to my kids. I'd want the best one. A man who cannot respect me as a human, holds grudges against me because I'm brighter or more excellent, or controls me because he's afraid of some other man stealing me away lol sounds childish. A man enough, is a man enough. His wife who loves him truly cannnnnotttt be stolen. Only women w insecure attachments, wounds pertaining to their parents, raised in poverty and weak eman cheat. Grounded women who dear God won't. And these men think caging us would save the marraige. No. Love, trust and honest communication, therapy to heal trauma and God fear saves marriages. Anyday if I run into a guy who's grounded, healing trauma, is can hear reality, though it comes from a woman? That dude is honestly worthy of being made copies of, I'm marrying him. Regardless of his ethnicity. The only marker is physical attraction and it goes both ways. He should find me attractive too. And he should get checked out by my wali's. Three bros and a dad. I swear when my guardians check out dudes that approach me, they are helllll embarrassed. The guys are weak whinny men pretending to be ameeers and kings. It'd not fun rejecting suitors. But men are being pushed into a v dark side of masculinity now in the name.of naseehat. The toxic side. No sane women of her guardians would approve of them. And I'm not spiteful. I'm genuinely sad. Not all men are kings, the way not all women are attractive. Let's stop pretending and talk to each other genuinely and come to some agreements. The extremes Are toxic
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