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@@m00nchxld8 Reed is 24 and gender-fluid. Up until last week, he identified as they/them. “At that time, I didn’t feel like a male or a female, but I was beginning to feel pigeonholed.” And so he reverted to “he/him”. - The Guardiant (Feb, 2021) “That’s when I came into the idea that being gender fluid suited me.” He adopted “they/them” pronouns, though he was flexible. “If I was doing stuff in Russia, it would be ‘she,’ ” Reed told me. “If I was doing things in Latin America, it would be ‘he.’ And in very woke America and England it would always be ‘they.’ ”- New Yorker (Sept, 2021) So, I think other ways around are okay!