Allah bless the Shaykh and those involved for educating the masses. Knowledge will always prevail.

Well said Sheikh

Assalamu Aleykum wa rahmatullah The word is Polygyny, Polygamy is something else Barakallahu fik

Brilliant. As clear as a mountain spring. Hamdoulillah.

I will let him get married again, that's his right. But i don't want to hear about the other wives, I don't even want to know what they look like. I won't stand in his way but I don't want any involvement with the other women. I think there's fair

Just imagine in 2023 greeting your wife ”assalamu alaikum” and getting that response.. alhamdulillah (5:00) Astaghfirullah. Ya Allah bless our youth with good manners and great wifes,husbands

shouldve added that women are allowed to refuse, the prophet didnt allow ali to have a second wife bcs he didnt want her daughter to be hurt but for some reason yall dont know that hadith, m'n

Asalām Alaykum Polygyny is the correct term as polygamy refers to both sexes.

But is it valid if the man isnt adhereing equal treatment? Or she fears she may disobey Allah? Because i havent heard of a woman hating polygamy except when she wasnt treated fairly

How about when you’ve gone through and experienced it realised how bad it actually can be when not done properly. Realised it’s encouraged between brothers without any real advice on doing properly . Seen your kids suffer, seen your daughter say she doesn’t want to marry salafi, seen your son say he doesn’t want to get married. Realised the salafi community will always turn a blind eye no matter who you go to. Walk around with holes in sisters clothes, your non Muslim parents the ones providing money for your kids clothes, constant poverty, depression , low Eemian. Relying on welfare using welfare money for other women in other countries , no life no hope . But no it’s the man’s right to wreck his entire families life. Sometimes it works but not sure how many men in 2023 can afford multiple housing, food, bills, education, clothes for multiple kids, but no let’s keep encouraging the poor and foolish with multiple wives and demonise women for not wanting it. I didn’t become Muslim to be voiceless and depressed.

What is the advice to those scholars and muftis who are encouraging women to take khula from their husband if they intend to do polygyny and cite evidneces such as Fatima r.a. that Ali r.a didnt do polygyny in life of fatima and cite other instance of female companions who took khula because she disliked her husband despite him beinga very righteous man and hence they cite this example and say that since the woman could fall into sin or kufr if she stays in a relationship wiht her hsuband if he takes second wife therefore it is okay for her to take khula. This kind of fallacious application of deen by certain muftis including those on Islamqa site misinforms people and encourages khula seeking woman when husbands intend to have polygamous relationship.

Muslim men continue to seek women with characteristics of the wives of the Rasul whilst they are the furthest from the Rasul (May Allah be pleased with him) himself in character. This is one of the biggest problems in Islamic marriages. It will never happen! You attract what you project.

NO NEVER!!! I can't share my husband with other women... I hate this

Polygomy is for back them when men would die from war and needed to take care of woman it’s not for mens satisfaction. And it’s a woman’s right to write in the contract he can’t get a second wife

Marrying other women seem a valid point to divorce.

His responses seem self-serving, in the qur'an a wife and daughter of prophet denied her husband the right to marry and was not seen as an unbeliever for doing so. As the qur'an states it is allowed but not required or suggested to have more than 1 wife. Meaning that type of marriage won't be right for everyone and that's okay. If all are in agreement great! But if not then tough decisions may be made such as divorce and that is not ideal but is okay. Just as the man has rights in Islam so does the woman and not sharing her husband is one of them. Simply put, Allowed does not mean mandatory therefore she's not going to hell if she decides the marriage isn't right for her anymore NOR is she being an unbeliever. UPDATE: Let me simplify my msg because the responses aren't even addressing my point: NO ONE'S RIGHTS SHOULD BE TAKEN AWAY, MEN OR WOMEN. the point of my comment was that we shouldn't say a woman is going to hell or a non-believer for wanting something that she's entitled to have. One of the purposes of Islam is restore a woman's rights not take them away....she has a right to peace in her marriage AND to be treated fairly and if polygny robs her of that peace and fairness, she has a right to leave. whether or not she's allowed to put the request in Nikah depends on your school of thought, I'm not here to discuss that...but Calling her a non believer and villifying her for the rights that ALLAH gave is not right and doesn't matter who it's coming from, it's not right....you are entitled to feel what you may and so am I.