having imposter syndrome at university

having imposter syndrome at university | story time

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5 жыл бұрын

hey guys! sorry I have been gone for song, here's a little explanation why and also an explanation of what imposter syndrome, something that all of us students feel on a regular basis.
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@UnJadedJade 5 жыл бұрын

SUCH an important topic and so relevant!! 🙈 Thank you for chatting about it (& normalising the phenomenon!). Not that you need the reminder, but VEE you are world class excellence, entirely deserving of your Oxford place! 👏✨ I'm honoured to know such an ambitious, intelligent gal! ~ also i spy that MOTIVATED Tee!! eeeek ~

@rechaelbooklicious687 5 жыл бұрын

That was really powerful,but V sometimes it isn't about being a "genius" or being "worthy" its about being u , Oxford fell in love with YOU , you deserve to be there . All your achievements are brilliant, you ARE brilliant 😘come on girl . #beyou ❤😘😘

@nejaa4527 5 жыл бұрын

"idk if it's an actual diagnosis but i've diagnosed myself" me in a nutshell omg😂

@eleanortaylor3494 5 жыл бұрын

I got a offer for Cambridge and I genuinely thought they'd made a mistake until I got the letters and the UCAS offer through a week or so later. I also asked to join an offer holder facebook group and it took a few days to be accepted and once again I felt myself thinking "they haven't accepted my joining request because the university must have made a mistake'' I relate so much to this video

@leyawonder2306 5 жыл бұрын

When you first started talking about it I was like, well that's not a syndrome everyone doubts their abilities ever once and a while, but the more you talked about it the more I felt like it's very particular and more than just doubt and that I always experience that feeling, for example in my school there's a cup given yearly to one student out of 2000, it's the biggest deal, and I won it twice, I'm the only person in the school's history to win the cup twice, now that should make me very proud but it's the very opposite, every time I think about it I imagine how the teachers who elected me to win are now regretful and think they've made a mistake, it's a horrible feeling and I never feel great about my self what ever I do

@amyhowell8872 5 жыл бұрын

Imposter syndrome isn’t an official diagnosis or a “syndrome” in the medical sense, rather an accumulation of emotions linked to success; it is similar to the way in which we use terms such as stress or low self esteem. I also have it but it isn’t the same as having a diagnosed mental health condition.

@faginnyc 5 жыл бұрын

ugh yes, compassion! I've also been felt the anxiety around posting videos and took a break because as I was walking around my campus I kept wondering what everyone thought about me lol and have been feeling imposter syndrome. Like I am always proud of my work because I do put in a lot of effort but whenever I try to start a project or I have a goal I'm like nah I don't know that much or nah I don't have the ability to do that and it was so so exhausting trying to overcome it. But this inspired me to start again.

@Reji- 5 жыл бұрын

You deserve to be in Oxford you are amazing

@HannahFrostFreespiritedwarrior 5 жыл бұрын

Such an important topic! You so deserve your place at oxford! You wouldn't have been given it otherwise. Relate so much! Don't go to a good uni but I got a place without the grades and I've spent so much time feeling like I don't belong and I'm not intelligent enough. Then every time I get a first I'm like "It was marked leniently" or "it'll just magically go down somehow to the 53 I feel like I'm worth rather than the 73 I've achieved."

@LucyDyson 5 жыл бұрын

found your videos through unjadedjade's new video and I'm obsessed girl! This is such an important topic to talk about, keep up the inspiring vids!!! lots of love xxx

@ruqiyaa 5 жыл бұрын

I will ALWAYS be entertained when watching your videos. I love how you are so open on your channel so we all understand that once you got to Oxford it was not all highs and you were not always feeling great mentally. Thank you for being you! (ok that was cringey) but I love you and keep doing what your doing xx

@nejaa4527 5 жыл бұрын

i just looked it up and i 100% have it too yikes, anyways, ur amazing and you deserve to be where you are and i'm SO proud of you!

@tarat220 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video, I get this soooo much so I needed this video 🙌🏼👏🏼👌🏼😊💕

@gracenyabereka1376 Жыл бұрын

Brilliant stuff. You have spoken to me. Thank you very much, Vee. ❤

@i.s.1134 5 жыл бұрын

thank you🙌 i feel like this all the time at university, and feel like im the only one feeling this way. glad to know im not the only one x

@i.s.1134 5 жыл бұрын

Miss Varz thank you 👑💗🌸

@estherbest 5 жыл бұрын

When you said reading the thesaurus for breakfast I laughed soo much 😂😂😂

@maryam8409 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this candid discussion. I myself have always been a good student. I did well in undergrad and my masters but I always find a way to disregard my accompalishments. I am always comparing myself to others and that is so frustrating. It is a struggle everyday :'(

@cjknight1876 5 жыл бұрын

I totally get what you mean, I'm currently in my first year of A-levels at the same school that I did my GCSEs at and to get into the sixth form you had to achieve a certain set of grades. I worked my ass off for so long and come results day when I opened my results and found out the I got in I felt as though I had cheated. So many people that I knew to be incredibly smart didn't get in, but I did. I really feel like I've cheated my way into getting in and it's really tough. Thanks for discussing such an important topic!

@neetu3230 5 жыл бұрын

We LOVE you. Full stop.

@sumayahsaadi927 5 жыл бұрын

Needed this video 🙏🏻 faxxxx

@caribbeancurls1963 5 жыл бұрын

Check up on your friends, so so SO IMPORTANT

@Reji- 5 жыл бұрын

Amazing video

@RosieCrawford 5 жыл бұрын

@ me every tutorial when someone says a word I've never heard before and I wonder how I actually got here

@nyasha2432 5 жыл бұрын

Such a relevant topic. I am an International Student in the USA and trust me. Impostor syndrome is REAL. You start feeling like there is something that you are doing wrong. You fear to even challenge the system because you feel like an OUTSIDER!! I am slowly getting over it now but it comes back even when people look at you when your random African accent surfaces hahaha

@hasos5577 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@Reji- 5 жыл бұрын

I get imposter syndrome sometimes and its not a good feeling

@sananaz3878 5 жыл бұрын

What did you get in your a levels?

@ams192 5 жыл бұрын

Bbb

@Reji- 5 жыл бұрын

Pls do a get to know viewer episode but go to scotland and wales and northern Ireland

@Reji- 5 жыл бұрын

When will you do it

@oliviamoynihan3185 5 жыл бұрын

Imposter syndrome at gcse=my life I think it's so important to talk about it because it's given me really bad anxiety recently and I can't even bring myself to put my hand up in class anymore because I'm too scared of being called a fraud if I get it wrong. Both your video and jade's video have related to me on unbelievable levels but you are worthy of being at Oxford and you deserve a great degree so so much. Thank you for helping me to see I'm not alone. xxx

@oliviamoynihan3185 5 жыл бұрын

Miss Varz thank you so much. if we all own this together I suppose it can get easier xxx