Hayden Panettiere gets candid about what she calls her ‘heartbreaking’ decision to relinquish custody of her daughter on ‘Red Table Talk.’ The ‘Nashville’ star shares a 7-year-old daughter with her ex, Wladmir Klitschko.
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@Lovelyonuoha Жыл бұрын
So sad to see child hood actors, going through the most toughest traumatic situations… Been a fan of hers since remember the Titan’s
@eachres835 Жыл бұрын
The worst thing is watching this knowing ppl made millions off of this interview just to exploit her. It’s sick because everyone involved makes money. Many ppl might relate to her but will never have the same resources as her. Sad all around but I love Hayden and I appreciate her strength: hate the networks for thinking this is going to help the ppl that actually need help that they won’t actually help.
@WhiteRabbitDreams Жыл бұрын
@@eachres835 She didn't have to do the interview if she didn't want to
@gaila.9852 Жыл бұрын
@@eachres835 You wrote that as if she was held at gunpoint and forced to do the interview. I highly doubt she would be there if she did not want to be.
@olivialovesdesign Жыл бұрын
Exactly - she chose to do this interview - maybe she considers it will assist other women and it actually made me feel better that “high-ranking” (higher than my public persona/profile I mean) public faces deal with this too. I dealt with it when I was only 20 after having a baby at 18. I’m much better now and have a beautiful relationship with my 20 year old daughter and a beautiful 2 year old daughter and due to have another baby - a boy in January.
@mistyvaughn6356 Жыл бұрын
I remember her on Guiding Light when she was Lizzie Spalding. I watched it as a kid with my grandma when I stayed out sick.
@chasepierce0919 Жыл бұрын
I was on this episode. She was so sweet. All of them were very kind and understanding about my sister's suicide. This whole episode was top tier.
@BaileyGianniniTalks Жыл бұрын
It’ll be great to see her in Scream 6. She was amazing in Scream 4.
@chasepierce0919 Жыл бұрын
@@BaileyGianniniTalks I know! I got to tell her that! Lol.
@BaileyGianniniTalks Жыл бұрын
@@chasepierce0919 Ok then, if you have her phone number or her agents’ phone number at least, then call her up. You can get a hold of her agent through IMDB Pro, but it’ll cost a little bit of money 💰. 😂
@flavs9548 Жыл бұрын
You can really see the sadness on her face and hear the knot of anxiety trapped in her voice. I hope she gets the help that she needs and fully recovers.
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
She’s an actress
@bernadettedeady4909 Жыл бұрын
@@Starlight-mp4pk so god forbid she can ever show her emotions?
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
@@bernadettedeady4909 no one is interested in her emotions. If we’re interested in anything it’s facts. She had a chance at a beautiful life, and wasn’t interested. I struggle to muster much, if any, sympathy.
@bernadettedeady4909 Жыл бұрын
@@Starlight-mp4pk trusted adults on her team were offering her pills, encouraging an addiction as early as 15. you sit behind a phone with no actual knowledge of what her life has consisted of. Does that not make you feel a bit silly?
@beatrizgh6983 Жыл бұрын
@@Starlight-mp4pk ffcggvvvvvvvvvvvv. Vvvvccc. C. Ccccccc. Ffcv. ❤ lol
@vera8656 Жыл бұрын
Having Kaya be with her father was the best decision. Hayden may not have seen it at the time, but a mother with postpartum depression and a severe alcohol addiction CAN NOT adequately take care of a baby, especially if there is another parent (who isn't struggling with those same issues) that can. Yes, it wasn't her idea and she may not have fully wanted it, but giving up custody was what was best for all involved. Hayden wasn't doing too well until recently, with her trying to get sober and being with an abusive partner (not the father of her child btw) we don't know how long she has been sober and regulated (probably with medication) so I doubt that Kaya being with her is better than her being in a safe country with people that love her taking care of her (we know Kaya isn't in the Ukraine, hasn't been for a while). Hypothetically, let's say they share custody. With Hayden's ex's situation (the political entanglements of him and his brother during a time of war) there is a chance that something could happen to him and if it did, Kaya would need her mom to be prepared for what it is to be a mother, which I don't think she would be. Because honestly, I don't think Hayden really fully grasps what it would mean to be a full-time single mother to her daughter, since she never was before. Her stepping into that role would be tremendously overwhelming and could potentially undo all her progress and push her back into addiction. It's definitely heartbreaking to think abut what she is going through, but it is what is best for the kid and even Hayden has to acknowledge that. That doesn't mean it isn't painful. (Also, I acknowledge that Kaya is probably traumatized due to her parents' situation, but I firmly believe that Hayden needed the freedom to step away to get better and if she hadn't, then Kaya's trauma would have been a million times worse) Take all of this with a grain of salt, since I'm going by only the details she and him have shared and I obviously don't know every single detail...
@meganbrumley3395 Жыл бұрын
Safe country?? uhh... 🥴 They did say she was in Ukraine, right? Or did I totally miss something lol
@vera8656 Жыл бұрын
@@meganbrumley3395 she is no longer in the Ukraine. I don't want to say where she is, because they kept it quiet for a reason, but she is definitely in a safe European country
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
Honestly what Hayden wants doesn't matter right now or possibly never
@JustLikeAFlower Жыл бұрын
@@meganbrumley3395 they moved from the Ukraine before that happened. So they could both be in their child’s life appropriately
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
@@JustLikeAFlower she can hardly be in her child’s life if she lives on a separate continent, and if the kid’s dad ever finds a stepmother for the kid and marries her Hayden will never see the kid again.
@dmvbawse4265 Жыл бұрын
She was depressed and abusing substances the father has the right to gain custody of his daughter. It’s like people would rather see the girl with the mother being not taken care of than with the father.
@althea1557 Жыл бұрын
Agree, the daughter is in a safer environment being with the father.
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
For the time being as mentioned in this video hence why she didn’t fight it which I give her props for. The father should have done it the right way though instead of resorting to false impressions and tricks which is a serious red flag for me.
@dmvbawse4265 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathannocon what did he do that was a trick or a lie? She’s trying to spin things now. If she fought she would have lost bad in court and now she’s pretending he did something wrong when in reality she made drugs a priority over her children.
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
You clearly don’t understand addiction... Yes she made mistakes, they both have which is to be expected. That doesn’t make her the villain here. She stepped up and made the right choices, which is better than how he’s current methods thus far imo. She would be in serious psychological/mental strains/pains rn after losing a huge part of her soul like under these circumstances. Which I give her props for making those hard choices like that. Stripping a mother’s rights like how he did it is a big NO NO to me. If he had been honest and told her the truth and gain custody that way, that would have been better for him and earned him some desperately needed credibility in the process. Instead, he made her believe it was short term even though he knew otherwise aka calculated deception/intended deceit. Were you even paying attention when you watched this srsly?! And FYI, given the circumstances in that part of Europe rn. Idk if that’s the best/safest place for a developing child. Not to mention that she was the one that looked after her child this whole time until these recent events. There should be grounds for visitations, custody switch, etc... (supervised or otherwise). If he truly wanted the best for their child, these things ought to be common sense at this point tbh aka act civil and mature instead of both of them taking cheap stabs at each other which how these things tends to go unfortunately. If and when she fights this to court (in due course), my money is on her winning custody *hands down* 👌🏼
@OliveCandy38 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathannocon thank you for explaining this so eloquently. I'm still so surprised with the judgey attitude people have.
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
Damn, I feel for her so bad. Hope she pulls through. My thoughts and prayers goes to a speedy recovery to recover that huge part of her soul no doubt.
@linapesz313 Жыл бұрын
You should feel sorry for the daughter...She is playing a victim...She was addicted to the drugs ....that is why he took the daughter away....Good for him to protect the baby...
@Digger-Nick Жыл бұрын
Feeling bad for the celebrity but not the people she hurt... Typical deranged sheep
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
I stand by what I said, she needed help and she’s getting it. The biological father is not perfect himself either, let alone the way he opted to acquire custody which could have been hella ugly if she chose to fight it. Instead she did the right thing (for the time being) and for that I give her mad credit.
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathannocon a judge would side with him. Anyone that puts drugs or alcohol before their kids is trash
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
Perhaps from your neck of the woods it’s like that, but dependencies is a very common thing globally and as long as the one aforementioned is being treated by a sanctioned/credible facility/personnel then there are grounds for visitation at least. Statistically, a court of law tends to lean on the biological mother more than the father despite of the mothers shortcomings. Just the fact that she didn’t fight this (for the time being at least) shows to me and no doubt many that she is making the right calls here not only for herself but the child itself until she gets at a more stable position. I’m just not a big fan on the fathers methods of obtaining temp custody here, one does it right from the get go especially if it’s your own child on the line. I truly hope they keep civil and support each other for the benefit(s) of their own child though through this ugly situation rather than taring each other as these cases tends to go unfortunately.
@rosecoloredtimes Жыл бұрын
A decade or so ago she told a magazine “I’m no Lindsay Lohan, you won’t see any rehabs or duis for me” I hope she’s learned to judge less.
@susan_d_h11 Жыл бұрын
She seems very brave opening up and showing her vulnerabilities. I hope she is able to get joint custody x
@BaileyGianniniTalks Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
It’ll never happen. Too late and far too disruptive for the kid, not to mention completely impractical given that she lives on a different continent.
@BoudicaJ Жыл бұрын
Why?
@ambirules Жыл бұрын
Wladimir did the right thing in getting custody of the child. It’s sick how she’s trying to paint him in the situation. You‘re drinking excessively, using drugs, fighting outside of bars, on top of being in an abusive relationship ....he did the right thing by removing his child from the dysfunction and trauma!!!!
@kram9076 Жыл бұрын
Didn't even know she was going through this 😪.. I just decided to stop drinking because my health totally got affected. Never been so scared in my life, addiction is a thing. I don't have kids so atleast I wasn't hurting anyone but myself in the process. Now that I think of my future I need to slow down, control my anxiety and start a fresh. Jesus is love and I trust and believe whoever is reading this will be healed if you believe you can. Don't lose hope 🙏 Amen.
@kitteekittee4010 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your beautiful comment 💙
@autumnskai6383 Жыл бұрын
Many women aren't prepared or truly ready for motherhood. So much changes mentally, emotionally and physically... The biggest sacrifice we make in life, cause we truly lose ourselves.
@cockoffgewgle4993 Жыл бұрын
Then they shouldn't choose to be Mothers. Especially single Mothers, which most do nowadays.
@angeliquebloom1241 Жыл бұрын
I wish her nothing but love ,light & happiness.. She's so cute and a good actress
@kazb4496 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t even know she went through that she’s healthy now good for her ❤ she was a good actress
@wendyburke2210 Жыл бұрын
She IS a good actress . She got herself together . Good for her !
@holodeckfour Жыл бұрын
She’s with Kaya all the time. She posts pics on her Twitter, too. The father never denied her access to her daughter. He raised her as a single dad. Yet Hayden trashing him. She is freshly broken up with her abusive boyfriend … And judging by her track record, she’ll probably go back. She was singing a different tune a couple of months ago about this custody situation. She was relieved. Now she’s sad? Make up your mind, Hayden.
@emilymcgregor8429 Жыл бұрын
I don’t really see this as trashing him? She’s allowed to be sad
@Existentialnausea Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
She can’t possibly be with Kaya “all the time”, they live on different continents. If Klitschko has a new partner (and if not then I’m sure he’ll get one eventually) the pair of them are not going to want the ex girlfriend constantly sniffing around. Out of curiosity I just took a quick look at Hayden’s Twitter account, it’s pretty boring (like Twitter generally) and the last pic of her daughter was Feb 2019 and even then it looks like an old photo. No idea what happened between them but if Klitschko ever finds a stepmother for his daughter and marries her then Hayden’s involvement in her life will be minimal. Which is her doing entirely - she should have thought about the consequences of her actions. He had no option but to do what he did when he took sole custody and moved to Ukraine - just wish I knew what he was ever doing near her in the first place (I’m sure he regrets it).
@kristen9827 Жыл бұрын
We don’t know.. I won’t judge. Also you can make a comment w respect and kindness….
@bubbacdubya8649 Жыл бұрын
Can you point out which part was “trashing him” because nothing she said here was doing that.
@smileyfacewithsunglasses7613 Жыл бұрын
I always admired her. How heartbreaking 🥺
@teresaroubal7237 Жыл бұрын
It was her fault, a child is the MOST IMPORTANT person, thing in your life..
@silverkitty2503 Жыл бұрын
strangely the father doesn't seem to realize that .....because he hasn't acted in her best interests ...the kid is going around calling random women mom ...that should tell you she is traumatised ...hayden is no angel but he sounds ...as if he lacks emotional intelligence ..and i get the impression he planned this like a chess game and used his brothers powers in ukraine to manipulate the situation ...it feels like he never loved her ..and used her body to get a kid
@Rhydumb_18 Жыл бұрын
@@silverkitty2503 wtf no the man is a good father and saw best interests of his child he saw that the mother of his child was incapable of raising their daughter and was an addict so he took full custody to protect his daughter…the courts saw this and granted him custody …the child doesn’t need a parent if the parent is useless and an addict this would cause more harm than not having one …u wouldn’t be saying te same thing if the mother was given full custody if father was an addict
@silverkitty2503 Жыл бұрын
@@Rhydumb_18 Dude ...he doesn't live in the same country with the kid and never has even before the war he never spent time with her he went all over the world leaving the kid at home. Plus in the full interview it comes out he joked on the phone that the kid was asking strange women if she could call them mama .and he laughed about it...and hayden said she displayed other signs of trauma. He is not a good father.
@emlee5905 Жыл бұрын
Her career was more important to her.She didn't have to give her child up.
@martychambers8927 Жыл бұрын
@@silverkitty2503 sound like you making every excuse what has Hayden panettiere did for the best interest of her child being an abusive relationship chose to drink and not get help for the sake of her child
@kcurtis5197 Жыл бұрын
She was in a bar brawl earlier this year, I think she should be able to see her daughter supervised. I don't think she's ready for custody kid is better off with Father.
@tinahoffmaster7243 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I went through something similar and I'm glad I'm not the only one that went through that.
@tinahoffmaster7243 Жыл бұрын
@@dontforgettoshop huh.
@fehyndana7725 Жыл бұрын
@@dontforgettoshop she was taking about post partum depression 🙄 But yeah judge something you’ll never have to experience yourself!
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@dontforgettoshop exactly. I have depression that stemmed from a string of health issues. I'm better now but never once did I wanna pop a beer or pill bottle. There's other ways to deal with mental health issues
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@dontforgettoshop I will admit I hit a low point this past September but that was cause it's been a year since I got sepsis and my doctor basically told me Sam you need to do stuff you enjoy not be the person everyone wants you to be
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@dontforgettoshop not a wanting to die low but I just started sobbing
@likmijnreet454210 ай бұрын
"the most selfless thing to do would be to work on myself" I swear, this woman has never thought of anyone but herself and she acts as if she should be praised for it.
@ericeandco Жыл бұрын
3 years before custody was taken. She’s still making excuses.
@Existentialnausea Жыл бұрын
She's now saying he manipulated her into signing her kid over, but a few months ago, she was praising him. Kinda weird.
@fehyndana7725 Жыл бұрын
She’s not saying he manipulated her, she simply stated that he made the choice for her and it wasn’t her decision. What is she supposed to say when people ask her why she decided to give up custody? Lie?
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@fehyndana7725 be honest and tell them she has an addiction to alcohol
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
She’s only human, ppl makes mistakes and from the looks of things. She’s making the right choices/decisions. If they can both remain civil about this matter, that would be the best outcome for their child imo.
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathannocon from what I gather she had 4 years to get clean before dad took custody. Kaya was born in 2014. He took custody in 2018
@jonathannocon Жыл бұрын
Addiction is not only psychological & physical, it typically is a lifetime henceforth of challenge to stay sober. Not to mention relapse, 💩 life throws at you, etc... My point is 4 years is actually a relatively short time given Hayden’s age. There’s also her immediate family who has no doubt played a huge role assisting this situation as per usual. The father can take custody by all means but he needs to make sure they are both in the child’s development in a relatively accessible distance. Preferably not exceeding international borders if he truly wants what’s best for their child. Any reputable shrink, family therapist will tell you a very similar note to just that.
@lisachristine2098 Жыл бұрын
Well it sounds like she made a selfless decision at a low point in her life when she really wanted better for her child . She wasn’t abandoning her she was trying to do what was best even if it meant giving her dad custody. God bless her and her daughter . Praying she can rebuild her relationship with her daughter soon.
@johmayo7042 Жыл бұрын
Not surprising, but also, she was not being a responsible adult and parent. The best thing she did was surrender custody.
@selenediaz5997 Жыл бұрын
Down playing the situation as if she was forced to give full custody. It's been years and still hasn't fought to get her child back, she's content but acting as if she was forced to give up all her rights. Give father's the respect and the same appreciation single mother's get. I'm tired of woman leaving their children and crying wolf, she could have worked on herself and still been involved in her child's life. Why when man dip they are dead beats and when woman leave they are some how strong for making such a tough choice ? 🧐
@bigNo13 Жыл бұрын
100% She is horrible and wants to somehow steal be the victim, when in reality the child is the only victim. And the poor ex thank God he step up and took care of his child
@se7nn1120 Жыл бұрын
Depression and addiction are two lethal combination. To oneself and to other people. Her addiction forced her to sign those papers. I've been dealing with alcoholism to cope with my depression since I became legally allowed to drink. I'd go to classes in college with liquor in my water bottle. Just abusing alcohol to the point that I feel numb. Within 3 years of drinking I was hospitalized and told that my liver was in danger of failing, among the other illnesses I've developed due to alcohol abuse and I've been on maintenance ever since. And the withdrawal was as painful as needing to drink even though I knew it's life or death for me. Now I only drink religiously on 2 occasions: my birthday and Christmas. But every time it goes down my throat I start to drink heavily again to the point that everyone would stop drinking so that I would have to stop drinking myself. She didn't leave her child, please don't say that. She signed her away because she knew, as how she is/was, she wouldn't be able to be a good mother. This is why people with addiction are committed to rehab centers, because they need to work on themselves and focus on their road to recovery. People who never experienced depression and/or addiction, I envy you. Because this shit is not easy and we deal with this every single day and it's never easy.
@redheadedfreckles2 Жыл бұрын
You want to know why??? Because women have the pain of growing a baby in the womb!! We go through something you will never understand nor comprehend. I had no father , my mother had no father now my daughter has no father! They all “ dipped” and are deadbeats. Most women stay around the number of single moms that are raising children far outweighs the number of men ! You know why because women form an actual bond with a child they carry through oxytocin. It’s highly abnormal for a mom to “ dip” . The statistics don’t lie .
@marianaagudelo8688 Жыл бұрын
You guys act like you know her or were there to witness it all? you shouldn’t judge…
@elisabeth_montgomery Жыл бұрын
I used to like her until I heard her kid was in another country with the dad and that was before she gave up custody. And why not get help but keep your rights as a parent. She just threw in the towel. No one forces you to sign those papers.
@sldavina7073 Жыл бұрын
It's a good thing to be vulnerable and speak openly about what you are going through. It allows you to heal and help others do the same. Wishing her the best and hopi g she can gain custody of her little girl at some point ❤️
@GlynisMarthinussen. Жыл бұрын
She isn’t healthy enough to have custody. You chose drugs over your child and that unfortunately is the reality she needs to get to. Drug addicts will always play victim and seek empathy from others. She has been on drugs for years. This isn’t a postpartum thing though
@di942842 Жыл бұрын
It was your choice to be a mom or to continue drinking. Vladimir decided to be the responsible parent while you chose the bottle. I sympathize with what you went through, the demons you face on a daily basis, but I think losing custody of your daughter was the best thing for your daughter. Sure, it was not the best thing for you, but it was the best thing for her.
@cecarblanco9933 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it was her choice. We always have a choice.
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@cecarblanco9933 her daughter was born in 2014. That's what? 8 years? So her daughter was put on back burner for that long
@sofiamartinez3742 Жыл бұрын
He failed her as a husband. She has expressed how he didn’t recognize her struggle for what it was: post-partum depression. He had a mentality that “she could deal with it”, and in that lack of support from her partner she relied on the only other thing she thought she could. So many men dismiss mental health in their wives as if it was something of a “choice.” It’s not something that can be turned off or fixed with a “brighter” mentality. So much easier for him to say “go fix your problems” and take their child away than to recognize he too failed her.
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@sofiamartinez3742 you said she turned to alcohol. She had a choice. Choices have consequences good or bad.
@sofiamartinez3742 Жыл бұрын
@@samg873 With no support system anyone has a higher risk of coping through substance abuse. It’s not so much of a choice when you are downing and your partner, the one person you should be able to rely on during your hardest times, dismisses you. By your logic, it was also a choice for him to ignore her depression, and the consequences are her wife turned to alcohol instead. That makes him a BAD husband, and a bad father as well because instead of even attempting to help the mother of her child he left her to drown. Everyone will bash on her but forget parenting is a two way street and he clearly failed as much as she did. Except he did so with a relatively healthy mind state while she didn’t. Such a cope out to say “she chose this.”
@packnetadaija Жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for her truly. She made the best decision for her daughter but that still doesn’t make it less sad, especially with everything going on in the Ukraine as well. I pray her and I hope she gets custody back with her daughter
@rainstorm571 Жыл бұрын
Her daughter is better off, stop making it sound like her daughter is suffering. She probably doesn’t even know her mother
@francih923 Жыл бұрын
@@rainstorm571 which makes her father a disgusting human being and a poor excuse of one
@emlee5905 Жыл бұрын
She chose to continue her career .She is nothing to be admired.
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
Far too late - it would be cruel to pull the kid away from her father to go and live in a foreign country. This woman had a chance at a perfect life and blew it.
@almadmn1995 Жыл бұрын
We don't know the full story I think there's more to it she's a petite female her ex is a large male maybe she was intimidated she needs her daughter I hope she gets her back she fucked up but I've seen others get their kids back so why shouldn't hayden????
@Maddie9185 Жыл бұрын
I hope she’s able to re established a relationship with her daughter because she did what she thought was the best for her daughter at that time.
@avabear8074 Жыл бұрын
I feel for her . This is beyond sad .
@trigremlin Жыл бұрын
Her ex is at war fighting for his homeland she's creating drama for herself.
@bernadettedeady4909 Жыл бұрын
@@trigremlin she can't have her own problems because other people have it worse? That's stupid.
@bribriannita7935 Жыл бұрын
@@bernadettedeady4909 no, the baby's father stepped up and took full custody of his child because shes In no place to care for her daughter. This man is a hero and she's now trying to paint him as a an evil man who took her child away. It's pathetic. He is an example of what it means to step up and be a responsible dad
@bernadettedeady4909 Жыл бұрын
@@bribriannita7935 how is she painting him as evil?
@bribriannita7935 Жыл бұрын
@@bernadettedeady4909 she's basically working the story as if to say he took the child away from her against her will. She singed the documents and he was right for sending the documents and seeking full custody in the first place, this woman was unfit to have a minor in her care and wasn't and still doesn't provide a safe place to rare a child. Sure she's tangled up with some other dude and a domestic abuse case now.......the father is a hero and has saved his child from witnessing substance and physical abuse... Whereas she has been involved in disaster after disaster chasing a bottle and dangerous men
@denorwhi Жыл бұрын
When you're Juliette Barnes in real life!! All women just aren't maternal and that's okay. I'm glad she was smart enough to give custody to Dad. She's probably better off just visiting because she was just out drinking and fighting with her ex. Imagine all the crap her daughter might have been through had she stayed with her. She's the same age as me and we had our babies around the same time. Please get your life together so you can see your daughter more. You can't fix the past but atleast you can form a great relationship now so she will allow you in her life as an adult
@brittneycunningham8375 Жыл бұрын
Just pointing out a double standard here but why in this situation is she deemed noble and brave for choosing to relinquish custody of her child, but when a man does it they’re deemed a deadbeat. If just looking at your child isn’t enough to straighten up your life, then she is a deadbeat in my eyes too!
@selenediaz5997 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@jennifertamez5285 Жыл бұрын
I’ve only been taught a deadbeat is a parent to abandons their child, doesn’t pay child support, and wants nothing to do with them.
@davemcg915 Жыл бұрын
A deadbeat is completely different...
@sigco1019 Жыл бұрын
Hayden didn't just leave, she signed over parental rights and she still pays child support.
@brittneycunningham8375 Жыл бұрын
@@davemcg915 How so?
@intrepidtomato Жыл бұрын
What a hard thing to go through. Addiction can be very, very hard to break. I hope she gets better but going public about it will certainly help other people get honest with themselves and take a good hard look at their choices.
@merima6184 Жыл бұрын
When you see a drunk person on the street, do you say it's so sad? Are you heartbroken? You just run away. So these comments make no sense to me.
@happystar7777 Жыл бұрын
I agree.. I strongly think people should exercise the same compassion they have toward celebrities, towards the people in their own neighborhoods. Why not? Could've been you
@Bluemoon2000x Жыл бұрын
You’re right
@w8nc82 Жыл бұрын
The fact that she's on Jadas show talking about this says a lot. Jada is the last person I'd be talking to about motherhood & family etc... in my opinion. Dont be blaming the father for anything when he actually stepped up when you couldn't. I truly hope she gets better mentally for the sake of her daughter
@w8nc82 Жыл бұрын
Everyone's perception is different
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@countessofmontecristo3849 she should have gotten help before it got to that point
@PreppyPrincess777 Жыл бұрын
The father made an excellent decision. Kudos to him
@AJ-pi9qh Жыл бұрын
What? she was the most selfless to give up her daughter because she knew she would have a better life
@SarahDIrish Жыл бұрын
I loved her in heroes and in nashville I hope she gets more healthy and successful in life
@linapesz313 Жыл бұрын
She is still delusional....shifting the blame on to him...he protected the baby from addicted mother
@tj4787 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ET . Love you Hayden you got this , life , decisions , not easy ! But you always have to put yourself first ! So she definitely did what was best for Kiya ! God Bless 🙏🏾
@selenediaz5997 Жыл бұрын
When you're a parent your child comes first.
@selenediaz5997 Жыл бұрын
When you're a parent your child comes first.
@javiruiz8365 Жыл бұрын
Not for the elite!!! They call the addiction depression!!! And all the sheep feel sorry for them because they are famous!!! Always an excuse for bad behavior and then they profit
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
@@selenediaz5997 putting yourself first is putting your child first. An unhealthy mom can't raise healthy children
@samg873 Жыл бұрын
@@beccf.s.8012 well Hayden isn't raising her child
@GGCanLove409 Жыл бұрын
How sad! I remember her from Guiding Light when she was just a little girl...no older than her daughter now.
@DraziwLestat Жыл бұрын
Amazing how people eat up her bull💩! She plays the victim to get a pass on abandoning her daughter while she’s running around on vacation with her woman beater bf! Get over yourself Hayden, grow up and take care of your daughter!
@christinagoodwin6742 Жыл бұрын
Wow you are so strong I don't have words for how u have handled this situation
@ml-kt9rj Жыл бұрын
Opinion: Most likely the father wanted the abilities to make the right choice for their little girl if things went one way or the other with her recovery and the consistent up and down battles. children need healthy consistency. I have been in a similar situation with family and there are moments with the other parent when they are in recovery that can be awkward because the child looks for that kind of security when they know things are not right. It is in the child best interest to be in a healthy and secure environment and for nothing to tamper with that.
@skyblue8622 Жыл бұрын
This whole thing is disturbing. Everyone on this clip are lost. Desperately please, don't think like these people!
@JuanaLucia1996 Жыл бұрын
Actually, I have more respect for someone to do whats best for their kids when battling mental illness drug addiction instead of dragging their kids mistreating their kids abusing etc., to do as she did and I hope she betters herself.
@alycialuke6322 Жыл бұрын
It was a year before I realized I had postpartum depression 😔 was so hard and unreal....Iooking back thinking it was just a dream. Can't say I would go as far as giving up custody....but I understand its different for everyone
@Shesawakeandyouredumb Жыл бұрын
I know Kelly Osborne is pregnant but what the hell happened to her face???!!
@susant1323 Жыл бұрын
Is that Kelly Osborne? I was wondering who that was.
@ghostface3254 Жыл бұрын
I thought it was Kirstie Alley
@jbt6007 Жыл бұрын
Very sad. Get well Hayden!
@harpergrace5846 Жыл бұрын
Once you sign over rights depending on the country that’s pretty much it
@snsn7251 Жыл бұрын
N he's a piece of work
@MM-ly3by Жыл бұрын
Not true
@dmvbawse4265 Жыл бұрын
@@snsn7251 piece of work? He’s the parent that should have the kid. He isn’t dealing with drug addiction and depression like she is. Y’all hate fathers so much lol
@kamaramlochan6871 Жыл бұрын
I hope you truly get through this 🙏
@weightycarlos Жыл бұрын
She didn’t even try to paint her ex-husband as a villain here, why are people so aggressive to her? Wtf. He took full custody of their daughter as he should. It’s just the way he revealed it to her that was so disappointing. If he had a decent conversation with her about the custody then it wouldn’t be a problem, but that doesn’t make him a villain nor did Hayden paint him one. 💀 Y’all are so dramatic.
@susansmith493 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad the child's father got custody. The right decision.
@michelecoulter9284 Жыл бұрын
What a brave and beautiful woman
@BaileyGianniniTalks Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to her. This movie is quite emotional.
@MsEnglishtea Жыл бұрын
I think what she did by giving Wladimir Klitschko custody was the right thing to do as a mother, she was not in a healthy mental space, and wouldn't be right for her daughter to be caught in the middle of what she was going through, she was also in a relationship with someone like Brian Hickerson who was arrested on domestic violence and assault charges, yeah someone you don't want your kids around either. I do wish her well in recovery if she is still on that path.
@Sarah8561 Жыл бұрын
People like her really bother me, going back to her abusive boyfriend over and over again while her daughter has no mother. If she had tried as hard with her kid as she does with her abusive toxic ex (probably boyfriend again) maybe her child wouldn’t be asking strangers to be her mommy.
@cockoffgewgle4993 Жыл бұрын
You have to be a hell of a failure at life to lose custody of your child as a woman.
@pippilotta853 Жыл бұрын
Thank god Vladimir took care of the child
@user-yy5zk6uf7x5 ай бұрын
Regardless of the reasons, being away from a child is a pain that I wouldn't wish on anyone. kisses
@bigherm70068 Жыл бұрын
She has a drug problem. I think the daughter is best with the dad.
@graphicteeconvos9491 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong girl loved her since bring it on ❤️ 🙏🏾
@kamaramlochan6871 Жыл бұрын
Ikr 🤗
@andreasmeelie1889 Жыл бұрын
I loved her since both A Bug’s Life and Bring it On!😍
@felin_de_la_nuit Жыл бұрын
I loved her since Remember The Titans
@nicholasgarrick8855 Жыл бұрын
I pray everything goes well for her health ,and future endeavors🙏🏽.
@texaslife956rodz6 Жыл бұрын
I want to hear her ex's side of the story.. i bet its not as she claims... Just sayn
@jademcqueen5474 Жыл бұрын
Wlad is a great man and great father. Jada can stfu, she didn't go to visit, she went to her dad because she couldn't look after kaya . Wlad is in no way a bad person or done wrong, she was the alcoholic, had depression and needed help, I'm happy she is looking well and working on herself, but I cannot stand these stupid red table gossips.
@Anonymous-xl9pq Жыл бұрын
Exactly. He's never been in any scandal in his long career and had a much harder life than her but never turned to drugs and alcohol. If there's one fact that's undeniable, it's that she didn't do all she could for her child. My sister was recently in a similar situation and became addicted to alcohol after her child was born. Her husband at the time warned her that he'd leave her and take the child if she didn't get her act together. She's paralyzed from the waist down and came to live with me and asked me to take her wheelchair from her and lock the doors so that she can't go out of the house to buy alcohol. That's how much she was willing to do in order to save her relationship with her husband and child. It was extremely tough for her but in the end she overcame her addiction and she and her husband got back together and they've been a happily married couple for 5 years now. If a paralyzed woman can do it, with her husband's family constantly telling her she shouldn't try to be with her husband again because and able bodied woman would be a better mom, then she sure as hell can.
@DajiaStar Жыл бұрын
I did not know she was struggling with addiction. This now answers why she does not have custody.
@cazzi6927 Жыл бұрын
I love Hayden!! She is such a sweet beautiful woman, and she just proves that if she can go thru postpartum and addiction...anyone can...u just have to get help. It's ok to get help!! There are things out of our control. And it's ok to ask for help!!
@randysuggs759111 ай бұрын
Wow as a dad that went through the same thing, that hits home hard. When my little girl was born I was going through a very rough time. I was depressed and i was trying to kick my addiction. My fiance left with my daughter and wanted full custody. I was heartbroken but i knew in the state i was in it was the best thing I could do for my little girl but i hated doing it. I knew i had to put her first regardless of what I felt and wanted. I just wanted to do right by her until I could get in a better place mentally. But damn did it hurt
@blueknight3393 Жыл бұрын
You feel sorry for her story. Until you see a TMZ video of her and her now boyfriend getting into a fight outside of a bar only 7months before her red table talk. She doesn’t say how many doctors she went only that she reached for the bottle.
@genericwhitemale909 Жыл бұрын
This is stupid. Jada The Baldie should apologize to Chris Rock.
@NealFry15 күн бұрын
I'll Always Love you Hayden Panettiere
@NealFry15 күн бұрын
You're Adorable Hayden Leslie Panettiere.
@NealFry15 күн бұрын
Hayden Leslie Panettiere, I'll Pray for you Tonight.
@heycharnay9180 Жыл бұрын
I love her she was on remember the titans and a bugs life … hope she get it together ❤😢
@Nolanoyayo Жыл бұрын
I hope her little girl will forgive her one day. She really failed her. Everyone has demons to face but when you're a parent your children need you to step up
@BaileyGianniniTalks Жыл бұрын
She was amazing in Scream 4 and I’m very proud of her acting, I also saw her in Bring it on All Or Nothing (2006)
@nextdoornikkixoxo9806 Жыл бұрын
It’s not a good thing to really say but it’s refreshing to see even celebrities go through these things . I have a lack of a better wording . I don’t enjoy seeing these things but I can relate . . I feel very sorry for her .
@migueltorres8655 Жыл бұрын
about the 1000s of men who lose there kids everyday to custody battles .also still punished with child support .of course some women lose there kids but the difference the court makes sure the mother is a unfit mother when it comes to dads,if we can't prove the mother is unfit we have to let go our kids ..
@Zoey-te6wc Жыл бұрын
Oh please I’m so sick of these so called mothers crying claiming to love their child but they chose to give them up. If you really love your child you do not want to give your child up, you want to be with your child every day and raise your child, giving your child up would never cross your mind. She’s just a dead beat mom that didn’t like motherhood.
@americalopez265 Жыл бұрын
They chose to give them up because thats what was best for them, she clearly states that she was battleing addiction that changes everything would've been more irresponsible if she didnt , and im sure she didnt just "give her up" im pretty sure shes still part of her life just not as the primary parent.
@ellebasdeo5679 Жыл бұрын
Obviously you've never suffered from PPD. You have no right to judge her cuz you never know when you could end up like that.
@MM-ly3by Жыл бұрын
You’ve never gone through addiction issues or PPD ,don’t judge
@martychambers8927 Жыл бұрын
@@MM-ly3by she needs to get better and go after custody of her child not complain to the world
@MM-ly3by Жыл бұрын
@@martychambers8927 Who’s HE?Half the people didn’t know that she went through this and she did one interview with Jada so I don’t think she “complained”to the world.All im trying to say is have some compassion!
@fkngstxr Жыл бұрын
I will always be rooting for Hayden, can’t wait to see her in scream 6!
@raqlew7021 Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s tough. I think in the middle of my postpartum spiral if I had lost my baby too, I would of just died.
@user-qf8ij7dn4h Жыл бұрын
Glad Klitschko has custody and not the woman in active addiction.
@cathy.peterson9756 Жыл бұрын
I needed to see and hear this
@nealfry2230 Жыл бұрын
If I was Hayden's Husband and with my Blue Cross and Blue Shield with my "Sweet Blue Eyes" being my Precious Parents Care Giver for Over 21 years, I'd Love to be a Guardian Angel For Time and All Eternity. " I Promise, " Neal Patrick Fry from "Heaven's Hands". "I'll Always Love you Hayden Panettiere" "I Promise".
@momwhoknowz3758 Жыл бұрын
Hindsight is 2020 as they say she should be able to maintain a healthy relationship tho
@ericjay60217 ай бұрын
Sadly shes not recovered yet. Pray for her to get the help she truly needs
@emlee5905 Жыл бұрын
She chose to still have a career over a relationship with her own child.Theres no praising this woman.
@NNNN-nh9sl Жыл бұрын
Breathe!
@FemaleDallasTexas Жыл бұрын
I wonder what abuse Hayden experienced in Hollywood.
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
She looks really really unhappy as in smiling was nearly impossible. Omg! She unfortunately will probably never regain custody. She signed the papers and I'm sure he had some important clauses in the documents that will make it nearly impossible to fight! Especially when he is at another country. Custody battles are harder when the other parent has the means for really good lawyers. These precious years she is losing of her daughter's life are devastating. But, imagine the dangers of having a baby around a mom that is constantly drinking and depressed. Plus she was in an abusive relationship. Hopefully she can find a solution for her mental and addiction issues and find peace. Everything happens for a reason and hopefully the baby is having a better life with dad.
@KeepingIt-zq5bk Жыл бұрын
Damn stop blaming other people
@javiruiz8365 Жыл бұрын
She was a bad mother!!! What can we do
@sigco1019 Жыл бұрын
Deadbeats just go to the store to buy milk and don't come back. That or they pop in and out with no responsibility whatsoever. She signed over her rights legally, she still maintains contact and still supports the child. The child probably knows why she stays with dad and understands this was better. Rather than not knowing why your parent abandoned you.
@Rhydumb_18 Жыл бұрын
Ppl really out here congratulating her for doing the bare minimum 🙄the bar for parents is too low ..it would have been different ting if she didn’t want a child and had one and wanted to give up ..but willing having a child then spiraling down into addictions not caring about ur baby …after that coming to a talk show making urself the victim while still not working on urself and trying to better urself …she should either work on herself or stay out of her daughter life …it’s worse to have a mother who there for the sake of being there but not actually involved.
@MoxieBear55 Жыл бұрын
@@Rhydumb_18 where I think you're getting it twisted is that she chose to have a child and then spiraled, by choice, into addiction. Clearly she had addiction issue before. I don't like when ppl poke fingers at mothers. Or at anyone for that matter. As if they're better. Sometimes you can only do the best you can. Who are you to judge? Hope you're perfect....oh wait....that doesn't exist.
@bribriannita7935 Жыл бұрын
@@MoxieBear55 dude she has no custody of her child and instead cradled the bottle rather than her baby. I'm going to judge and say I'm absolutely 100% a better mother than her. She isn't even a mother... She's essentially an egg donor at best. Being a mother is work and dedication. This woman is making all of this about her and playing the victim. Child is much better off with her dad.
@Censortubes Жыл бұрын
Tell us you are black without saying it.
@kcee9111 Жыл бұрын
That’s the problem - self over others
@musicfan07058 Жыл бұрын
That tells me the kid asked her dad not go back so he probably seeked sole custody she needs to rebuild her relationship with the kid over the ex
@glamrgirl08 Жыл бұрын
yeah right, she don't want custody back. girl please.... you lose custody of your OWN CHILD, you sus
@raqui174 Жыл бұрын
It was her choice she singed the paper
@ebbiemusumali8963 Жыл бұрын
Kayas father broke the cycle for her.
@Channiej93 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@eatsleepv Жыл бұрын
I just have a hard time caring about an another adults problems when children are involved. She had a major advantage compared to the average American and still flopped on being a good mother. When children are hurt by their parent(s) poor decisions, it’s hard to care.
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
Agreed! She had a chance with a man like Klitschko - privileged and fortunate beyond belief. I find it hard to feel any sympathy.
@ParadiseSleepChannel Жыл бұрын
Why would a rich girl need to work and why would she not reasearch post partum and use liquor instead of seeing a pychogist?
@angelcraig9912 Жыл бұрын
So why haven’t u got her back or tried. I suffered post partium with my daughter Abby i had drug addiction. And guess what I was going threw my dad commiting suicide and my mom died after that and I still got clean and did the best for my 3 kids. U don’t give up. That’s an excuse u didn’t want to be a mom evendently cause u would of got help from family or someone and gave temporarily custody and got ur kid back . I did do that I still was a mom I did everything fed changed I was a functional drug addict I bought clothes diapers food everything for my kids before my drugs I would be suffering sick my mom moved in help whenever I needed Her but she died and my dad and I got clean right after and I’m glad I’ve been 10 years clean
@EveryHandleIsTaken979 Жыл бұрын
With Hayden doing so well now, I hope that she can share custody and her daughter can spend time in the US with her as well instead of always having to be away overseas. She does seem like a good and loving person who went through a very hard time but there’s no indication that her daughter was ever put in such a situation where the police or even social services were forced to intervene (and I am sure her wealth and privilege and access to highly qualified nannies/childcare, housekeeping, drivers, etc had much to do with this and others wouldn’t have been in such a position). More importantly, she seems like she did the work and continues to do it and she is sober and in a good head space and just really wants to be with her daughter.
@monagracia8513 Жыл бұрын
She does not know what is like to have child. She missed hardest years and now she miss her. After she battle her depression and addiction she should not choose abusive partner. When you are mom, you have child to think about it. I had also postpartum depression. Know what I did? I am on antidepresive, works great and I am having two kids now. I did not start drinking and found partner who should not be around my kids. She is not mature for being mom. And yes better shut up and not talk about mothering skills.
@Starlight-mp4pk Жыл бұрын
She must’ve been totally disengaged if her dad was able to take a US-born toddler to go and live in Ukraine - he couldn’t have done that without Hayden’s express permission and I don’t see how he could’ve “forced” her to give it, especially as (as you point out ) she is a multimillionaire with access to all the legal advice she wants. I doubt she is that bothered about being with her daughter now either - she’d move to Europe if that was the case. This will be PR. Shared custody across two continents isn’t an option. It’s too late now in any case - too disruptive for the kid to have her biological mother swooping in and out of her life. Also, if her dad ever marries again I doubt her stepmother (who would be doing all the hard work) would put up with another woman disrupting her family unit. Hayden will never have a proper mother-daughter relationship with her daughter and it’s entirely her fault. Harsh but true.
@jroses1225 Жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking. I hope she gets custody back
@nicholusbaker2830 Жыл бұрын
Why?! The father is clearly more capable as a parent and deserves the child. Just bc she is the mother doesn't mean she is a better parent. Get over yourself
@jroses1225 Жыл бұрын
@@nicholusbaker2830 get over myself? Lol ok
@jroses1225 Жыл бұрын
@@nicholusbaker2830 she obviously wants custody back of her child. It's not up to you or anyone else if she should/could
@Channiej93 Жыл бұрын
idk what she would expect, ofcourse she's not getting it back. Not in macho culture Ukraine
@bigherm70068 Жыл бұрын
Why should she get custody back. She's the unfit parent. Is it just because she's a woman?
@BobbyMarley718 Жыл бұрын
Was it an unselfish decision or did the childs dad trick her in to it. She is a liar. This is a pr stunt.
@alishamcelroy9654 Жыл бұрын
She went from postpartum to an alcoholic for SEVEN YEARS NOW and has an excuse for all of it. Not only has her ex-husband put their daughter first but he's got the weight of the world on his shoulders literally fighting a genocide in his country and still made sure that child was safe and cared for away from the fighting...all the while this "mom" is being recorded on downtown streets during a barroom brawl that was taken outside. Disgusting that people are defending her. Lots of women deal with postpartum and depression and many other things (as well as more than one child at home while dealing with it) and still find it in them to take care of their children but they aren't out partying SEVEN YEARS LATER. Get outta here with this sh*t.
@kristen9827 Жыл бұрын
I hope for her sake and most importantly the sake of her daughter she gets well.. By the Grace of God go I….