If someone can walk out of your life, let them go. My ex-husband did this to me. I finally realized he would never change and left for good. I haven’t had this much peace in years.

Ladies, When it comes to Ghosting.. take it from me,Be 1 & done! The FIRST time needs to be THE last time 💯 Let that ghost stay gone! 🙌🏾

The second she said she was 19 and he was 27 😬

That is pure wisdom. If I had waited until I was 25 to worry about a relationship my life would be in another world. Tony knows what he is talking about.

Oh please... this man has other women he's dealing with ... that's why he's so ADD. His ghosting is him training her to accept his inconsistency and breadcrumbing. A woman his own age wouldn't accept this. That's why he's dealing with a 19 year old. He thinks she's gullible. The fact that she's now questioning all means she's not as slow as he thinks she is

An inconsistent action is a consistent answer and he’s showing you by his actions that your just a convenience to him

“It is time that we have an end to situationships.” TG

He's a Narcissist. They are charismatic. "It's a demonic seduction roller coaster web they weave". I've been there and I keep saying no, no, no. And right before I could say yes, he ghost me. God saved me from making a big mistake. I knew he was bad news, he wanted me to compromise my beliefs.

As a below 25 girl, it hurts my heart to see what girls putting up with. I thought that looks are the only thing that matter to a man, turns out no matter what you're about, if a man's heart is not in the right place, nothing matters to him.

The dating scene is torture but yet she only 19.. baby girl haven’t even experience life smh! 🤦🏽‍♀️

19 is so young. If I could turn back time, I would focus on education, developing my career, traveling, being happy, and avoiding relationships! You have so much time... no need to rush relationships and end up with heartbreak!

Oh, the little games people will play with your heart. If he's doing this now, image of you do proceed in a relationship with him.

Whenever Tony says “ gone bout your business “ it feels like home, like I’m in a place of familiarity.

When I was 19, I loved having the attn of someone much older than me. Now in my 40s, I realize how predatory it all really is...it's disgusting really...

He is emotionally unstable and a manipulator. Block him for good. And you are not ready for a real relationship. Self love university sister➡️. You are young and can have so much better. The 🎤ain't worth it.

Then Ghost HIM permanently Sis !!!

A few days every month, you deserve every day with a man who is truly interested in you

He's inconsistent with himself he can't be consistent with you because he don't know what he wants he's always changing his mind if he truly wanted you and to be with you he would prove that to you

Most of the time people have determined that you will be more work to win over than they are willing to do. As for coming back people tend to have short memories and have to re-establish why they ghosted you in the first place. I'm no dating or relationship coach, just adding my two cents.

My daughter was born in 2001! My daughter just turned 20! They are the iPhone generation. She’s fresh meat to him.

Tony, in case nobody told you today, you are amazing and your giving heart is recognized and appreciated! Your sense of humor is an awesome bonus. So many of us women associate men with pain, and your wisdom is putting women on a path of clarity and healing.. Ive been a supporter of yours for almost a year now! I am a new coach on your website.. I’m here for it all, but your business knowledge is so impressive and keeps me tuned in!! Thank you Tony!! 🙌🙏🏻

He wants to see her effort first? Sis, no! That's a con, and he knows he's emotionally controlling you. He's using that to keep you on a string, and over exerting yourself to impress him. Listen to the old folks, 60 and up! If a man really wants you, he'll be on you like white on rice!

Why do this generation want to rush being in a relationship? At 19 I didnt even like people enough to want be tied down with one person forever.

Dont feel bad Tony. At the end of the day you’re not obligated to answer anyone. It’s all appreciated!!!!! If she is still with him she’ll hear this and it’ll still help either way

If he wasn't consistent in the initial state you all lived in, he isn't going to change when you move to where he is.... I hope she stayed at home💯

Keep your self respect! Dump the clowns with crowns!

🗣️🗣️🗣️ Pheromones Tony!!!!!! And yes I came with my degrees🥴👩🏽‍🏫👩🏽‍🏫👩🏽‍🏫 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

A man that is into you does not make excuses. Remember you are the prize! Sis move on you’re 19 yrs old....Little Sis, take the world by storm and Love You♥️ Tony, Thank You for embracing your ministry. God Bless you and Your Family🌸

Hey my beautiful blessed tribe!! So happy to see everyone on here!

Thank u! The longer a woman stands still and there’s absolutely zero growth, it’s time to detach all the way. Blessings to the young lady.

As a mom I’m teaching and encouraging my daughter to be independent and focus on her own personal growth instead of focusing on boys. She’s definitely taking my advice and making positive moves for her future and I couldn’t be more proud of the woman she’s becoming ❤️

Something about a 27 year old dating a 19 year old to me. I don't approve of that alone

What great advice for young people. Wait until you’re 25 and one day to lift your head up to start dating.

I didn't have to listen to this video but I will. A guy only have one time to ghost me. I immediately block. I'm not for play play. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Pheromones :) Reppin' that degree thank the Lord!

“It look like you listen to the city girls” 😂

Thank you so much. I didn't start living right till 27 then 28. I am glad I saved myself when I did. God never left me. I was looking outside for answers was the issue.

😂😂😂😂 "was that what R.Kelly was doing" I'm done, was driving and Tony had me chokin on my Fanta with that one!

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 “that was what R Kelly was doinnn??? You guys I’m done hahahahahaha cleaning my kitchen and I had to run and look at my phone to see the facial expression!

"Chile dat gurl look like Penny Proud"...😂😂😂😂..y'all why is he like this?!?! 😫 SN: She is a very attractive woman. Dont get caught up TG..you doin' right!.😂😂

Your still a baby...you are so young. You have your whole life ahead of you. You are going to have many heartaches along your journey. Love yourself wholeheartedly and move forward with your life and accomplishments. Don't put your life on hold for any man especially at your young age. You have a lifetime ahead of you. Guard your heart 💕

I almost spit my coffee out laughing when Tony got to the science part. 😂

he knows he's hurting people. never assume they dont' know. they are gaslighting you.

How it starts is how it ends. Sis, from ya big sis he just want to keep you as an option. Get gone ❤️

Not dangalang in a jar 😂😂😂 Tony I’m cryingggggggg

" Can you talk about,Laptop Black key syndrome "🤣😂 I'm always here for the wisdom, but the hilarity of it all. I appreciate it🙏🏽☺

You are not going to trap me. I have to act like I'm blind. She try's to test me. Sounds like you passed the test Tony.😅🤣

My daughter is 19 years old and yes born in 2001. She's busy at University studying and working on her future. Why is a 19 year old dealing with all this bullshit!

Tony, Penny Proud you got me rolling 😂😂😂😂

“There is a man that will drink your dirty bath water” Well where is he?? 😂😭 He must be lost finding me😅

Some want you to excuse their bad behavior. You done already told us to close our legs. This fool dont deserve no kitty

"Date with a purpose " TG

Young women needed to hear this message. Thank you for sharing this knowledge and uplifting our young women.

Really appreciate your sacrifice of teaching us by the Holy Spirit leading you. God bless you brother. (I hurt my thumb pushing to listen so fast 🤣)

Ok Tony with the good education tonight! 😂 I hope everyone’s taking notes cuz we learning science and relationships 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I have been watching your videos from around December 2020. I’ve learnt a lot ! I’m 20 ..completing university in a couple of weeks. I will be definitely working on my 3 B’s. About this email ..there are even people at 16-18 who are dealing with this. Saw someone in the comments saying there should be a age limit of who writes to Tony. That does not make any sense. There are a lot of contributing factors as to why people may get involved in relationships at a young age ( culture, socialization ,etc) Thank you for doing what you do Mr Gaskins!

I hope & I’m working on myself as I refuse to let my child down to the point, she’s used by an overgrown predator distracting her from her destiny .I truly hope God sends this young lady a mentor, and someone who genuinely inspires & loves her. 19 is such a magical age. Knowing so many kids are Dating and accepting the bare minimum, throwing away there lives is disheartening. The older I get the more I understand my elders. They really do give us the lessons, almost a cheat sheet to life, Use it.

19 years old? 🗣STAY OFF YO BACK!

I SURE DID IT WRONG... GOD KNOWS WISH I COULD TURN THE CLOCK BACK...... PLEASE LISTEN TO TONY GASKINS..

Block his number.

I was screaming pheromones, Tony!🤣🤣🤣 I am dying laughing at how you explain your case and your deliveries. New viewer and I’m glad I found this channel.

Lemme show my degrees: PHEROMONES😎😎

He's playing you girl...

I hollered when you said that’s what R. Kelly was doing😭😭😭😭😭😭

Nineteen is still considered a teenager

Tony said "when was a 19 yr old born?" 😂😂.

He sounds like a narcissist. Ghosting, breadcrumbibg, inconsistency, and confusion is no where near a normal and healthy relationship. She is wasting her time and he is playing her. He will never change. Thhis first time he ghosted her she should have bounced and kept it moving. He isn't worth it and she deserves better. She should stop trying to paint a different picture and be more protective of her well-being. Leaving him alone will help her dodge a bullet. It sounds abusive.

Boy!! I AM HOLLERING!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

When I seee this ( ....) when I’m reading a book, I think about Tony’s hands 🤣🤣🤣 but let me tell you every exam I took, listening to tony tube in the background, I succeeded. THIS YEAR I am COLLECTING ALL THE KNOWLEDGE, u hearrrr me. Brain brand and body!

“Sent from my iphone” lmao you ain’t have to read that part

Yay, First here❤ Tony getting ready to drop that knowledge!

This is great advice for young women I've seen so many women get Side tracked. Most of my grade school class mates had children & no degrees. It's important to set the foundation then whatever comes or goes you know it's going to be okay.

Hope that situationship is over girl!!

your videos always show up right on time before I give dusty a chance again because it gets lonely when you’re focused on you. Thank you 💯

I'm so glad you touched on the essence of "reading people" it's also called the spirit of discernment, it's a natural thing. Men are 150% reading us, from physicality, intelligence, to selfworth/self esteem- also to the persona which we outwardly embody. I would never blame a woman for a man's transgressions against her loyalty or heart. But this carbon copy look, has already been solidified within the culture as "Savage" and in turn on a man's palette of misogyny it seems to inspire a -get one on you before you get over on me-. Is your look inspiring City Girl love?

I truly appreciate this video just turned 24 I wish I waited till 25 it would’ve saved me a lot of things.. but I’m inspired now best revenge is to refocus and cut all of that stuff out

"It just be smelling like outside to me" 🤣🤣😅😅😂😂😂

You are absolutely correct my daughter turned 20 last month. I tell her this all the time she in school. I don't want her focusing on a man right now like I did at her age.

Hi Tony, thank you for showing up. God bless you and your lovely family.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 yall what are we going to do with our brother Tony...that RKelly bout took me out...I was not Ready 🤣🤣

He do what u allow him too. PeriodT

Don't feel terrible..Tony she goes once a month...You can prevent her APRIL VISITED!!! Tony you might dont come when we need you, but you show up right on time😂😂

*If someone comes to sleep with you once a month they don't care about you!!!* yes!! exactly

I’m here early for a change 🍿

Hey Tonyyy!!!!! I see ya on the grind. Be blessed 👑

Tony much ♥️ even though u behind we are learning from every email💫# noApologyNeeded🙏🏾

Tony trying to find pheromones had me tickled! Not histamines! 😆

Science lesson had me 😂😂 Stay Blessed!

He's a NARCISSIST. He ghosted you, but put the blame on you = GASLIGHTING. Sis, HE'S WASTING YOUR TIME! As Tony would say: "GONE BOUTCHA BIZ! HE DOESN'T WANT YOU!

Bread crumbing ya🍞😝😂😂

Consistency!! 💪

Thank you for helping this young lady. This will hopefully change her life! Bless you Tony!

He is like my monthly 😂

Tony is preaching. Gave her advice without sugarcoating, but in the most tactful way! I manage young girls just like this at my job. Black Widow is the word. They allow social media to tell them how to date and they don't see the negative impact it'll have on their lives eventually. I'm 30 with classmates who have been there, done that and they don't have the lives they wanted.

Im astounded by all of it. This is the last letter I can take. Non- stop nonsense out there. Tony is 100% about how men size women up by their look hair/ make-up/ dress/ TV. They put you in categories instantly. The more beautiful and stylish and educated , creative and independent you look- the less they trust. I still haven't figured it out- but Im not dumbing myself down or being a plain jane for anyone--- if a Man truly loves you he will love everything you got going on. I'm peace out on these man- baby - fools. Im past baby making age so at this point. Im gonna focus 100 on myself and continue achieving goals and dreams. After this corono bs/ I'll travel the world again and enjoy my life and if someone kind and loving wants to be a good partner along they way more power to them ... if not, Im gonna go on about my business.

Yes Tony sometimes we do because emotions are everywhere during that time.

I just watched an old vid and now this one has just popped up 😁

Liked before watching, been waiting all day lol

I clicked so fast, like, "what!" 1st

I see a pattern with these...leave him period. There's many reasons to do so. It is clear when a man loves you period.