Happy Valentine's Day! Here's my list of things I love and hate about all of you ;) LOVE - you teach me new things all the time - I get to learn about your personal lives even though we've never met personally - when I meet any of you in real life we have a grea convo which affirms I've attracted my kinda people here :) - you are just as passionate about intimacy as me - you are diverse and bring perspectives I haven't thought of before HATE - what you click on is always changing! It's hard for me to maintain series because nothing seems to consistently work on this channel - the (very small) handful of you who watch my channel in hopes of seeing misery in me - you call me out on my bull shit (ok but I kinda love this too) - you still haven't listened to my audiobook even though I've give you an opporunity to listen to it for free! Seriously there are HUGE things happening with this book and you're not gonna regret getting on The Game of Desire bandwagon early oxo (plus even though it's free you're still supporting me using my Audible link - can you say win/ win?!)

If me and my future husband aren't able to do this, I don't want him! LOL

"the second i see you, i just feel my body ease" can yall stop being so damn cute?!

"You just talking, talking because she has lips"😂😂😂😂💔 love that line💔😂😂

LMAO Jared is hilarious .. so my sister and I used to live together.. she would always tell me how much she hated how happy and chirpy I was in the morning.. dancing and making breakfast... and when we finally moved into our own separate places.. the first thing she texted me was "I miss your happy energy in the morning" hahahah

Jared : I hate how hot you like the temperature of your home to be. *Shan's Canadieness intensifies*

Yall are annoyingly cute. Love how open you both are and how you genuinely enjoy each other's company. It radiates off of the both of you. I almost feel like a voyeur at times lol. Hope I find this kind of love one day ❤

3:40 “tell me more, what do you like about it” 😂😂😂

This is stetting the bar so high for my future relationships… And rightfully so. You guys are showing us what an healthy Relationship looks like: honesty, communication and so much more!

As human, our natural body smell can be really attractive to some. It may sound weird to hear someone say “They like the smell of their partner’s nether regions “ but in reality it’s the pheromones

I’m the only female in the office. I have to have a heater by me at all times. They put the heater on the igloo setting. I’m outnumbered. I’m perfectly happy in a sauna setting.

I just LOVE how blushy he still gets when y’all discuss certain topics ☺️ also love that he said strongly dislike versus hate lol

I hope to find a relationship this open and honest

Interesting . I was dying when Jared was complaining about the room temperature. He looks like he's too hot in the video 😂

Lol Shan adding her two cents with the eyeball comment .. girl! 🤣

I like how Shan brought up a partner being authentic, I wasn't this way when I met my partner, I had developed sociopathic behaviours from mental and emotional and physical abuse from my parents. I didn't have my own personality, I just adapted to whoever I was around and people knew me as the happy go lucky girl the people pleaser the perfect host etc. I had no personality and no identity. When I wasn't around anyone my eyes and face were dim even tbh even with people I look back on pictures and I had no light in my eyes they were deeply dead inside and noone except my partner EVER took the time to notice it..he saved me from ending my own life. He gave me a purpose to live and now 6 years later even though I still don't love myself I'm still learning too , I no longer people please I find my self no longer able to adapt to social setting bc I realise I don't like people lol I don't want to please people who aren't my family and don't matter to me I no longer fake my emotions or personality I'm very straight forward and honest and people know right away where I stand when it comes to them and when I am nice people know it's genuine. Having an authentic partner is so soooooo important to bother sides development I feel . Such a good topic/point

am i truly this slow that i failed to realize that the “shared” in “shared entertainment” is Shan andJared’s names combined....wow

"Just talking coz she has lips"- Jared 😂😂😂

Doing this tonight with my wife to see where we are. Amazing vid.

some science behind gender temperature preferences: muscle tissue is very metabolically active (at cellular level) and therefore gives off heat. Males generally will biologically always have more muscle tissue than females, and therefore overall body heat is slightly higher in males (lower temp in females). Which can be one reason why females usually are more comfortable than males in higher ambient temp and vice/versa.

I have the same temperature issue with my husband. I have decided to keep the house cooler than I’d prefer it so that I don’t have to deal with a sweaty husband (especially in bed) and for the sake of the environment.

Omfg Jared is so cute .. “no but.. I. No.. but.. but.” That was the cutest shit. I understand Jared’s point, I feel like driver picks so you both get a feel for what each other listens to equally when that person is driving

But Celine Dion did drop a new album and it's called Courage. Looks like you've got some new music to play on your next car ride!

I was so tense during this conversation, but it was so healthily articulated, and relatable and the honesty and transparency between you two will keep you guys thriving...I enjoyed this a lot

My man told me he loves my feminine scent and sometimes sniffs my undies and thinks of me and I thought that was so hot! Can’t wait to show him this video and talk about how much we get along and what we like/hate about one another. Watching your videos makes me laugh and smile the whole time, thank you for being so open and honest.

You’re relationship is honestly so beautiful. Like the fact that you can speak about things so freely is astonishing

your love is everything i aspire to have in the future and more 🥺🥺 i can’t get enough. it’s literally a blessings to watch.

One of my favorite conversations! Especially the I rather like someone than to love them! I felt that in my spirit. I agree that liking someone is more powerful than loving them. Thank you for sharing your conversations openly 💯❤️

I wholeheartedly love you guys. Communication, honesty,understanding,and unconditional love is all I see here . I crave this , you guy SEE each other .

you know what I love..I love how deep you two are with each other and how mature you act like 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

this channel is a huge part of me *enjoying life* 4 reaal!! inspiring honest conversations, relations and connections 🙏🏾

We really love content from you two. We always feel engaged and like the conversations are so in depth. We can tell you two genuinely understand each other and portray that to us on screen. Thanks for that & JARED...we need new music ❤️🔥

These are definitely my favorite videos, I love seeing the two of you together.

Shan I admire your openness so much! I’m so glad I found your channel you get better and better xx

I can't even get my boyfriend to have a 5 minute long conversation about ANYTHING and these beautiful people over here have a deep convo like it's the most natural thing out there

Omg This was beautiful. I wanna do this with my boo now. This was GREAT. How neither of you got defensive or spent too much time arguing over one thing on the list, that’s great. EVERY COUPLE should be able to do this and if they can’t, they got a lot to work on or they shouldn’t be a couple.

I always love you guys' chats and genuine love for one another. It's so cool. ✊🏾

Something about your relationship just makes me that much more proud of mine idk what it is, thanks for being visible and open!! ❤️

After 10 years of marriage still learning so much. Love your videos.

These types of videos with you two are just incredible. Thank you so much for this. Please do more whenever y'all have time 🙏🏽🙏🏽 y'all just talking about each other or any topic is dope

You guys are just so authentic, It would never cross my mind that any of this is played or faked to get clicks. You don’t overdo it like many other couples now days, you are just being you and I LOVE THAT ❤️

You guys are amazing. Shannon I’ve been watching your videos since I was around 19/20. I’m 27 now and I learn something from you every time you upload. You and Jared’s relationship dynamic is something I’ve always admired and you’re actually a huge part of what motivated me to leave a relationship I was in for years that wasn’t working. I struggled to figure out why it wasn’t but through watching you I managed to piece it all together and finally walked away. We just weren’t compatible and we had a very hard time communicating efficiently. Anyway I want to thank you for being kind of a guiding light in my life. I’m currently so so so happy 💖💖💖🥰🥰😘😘

Gosh I love your guys love and openness. I always wondered how couples that don't truly know each other/communicate can get along long term!

There's a no filters between them how did you guys build up this relationship? Love it.

You two make me cry (happy tears)! Thank you for your realness and for who you are both as individuals and as a unit. I am currently in my first ever healthy romantic relationship and I'd be lying if I said that watching you/your work over the past couple years isn't a huge part of the reason I've grown in this area... thank you!!! Also, I saw the Game of Desire in my local Target the other day. I live in Michigan. Woohoo!! xoxo

Loved this video, just helped me realize I am in the wrong relationship, due to the fact I dont like my partner, just love em. Thanks💜

This was inspiring as hell! My boyfriend an I are seeing each other every day ( for jobreasons) and were taking a two week break from seeing each other in our personal time. Spending time with each other is not something special anymore and we’re not grateful for the time we spend just the two of us. Soo I definitely gonna tell him about the idea, of doing 5 things of love and not liking ( i think the word hate is to hard ) after our little break is done ✌️ Im really working hard on myself and love to watch your videos regarding that topic. So I’m sending you lots of posivity and good vibes from Germany 🌞

These videos are so nice to see. I'm going to start doing these exercises with my loved ones, not just the bae. This looks like such a fun way to connect with other people.

I love how intelligent you are. You have confidence and love your honesty

A lot of great qualities in Shan, but the one that stands out the most is that she is an excellent listener. Not just a great listener but an active listener. Good eye contact, body language and actions that show interest, and she asks great follow up questions. Actually that applies to both you and Jared as well, very healthy communication between the two of you. I told my sister that I see the potential in you to be the next Oprah. Keep up the great work!

seeing the genuine love and trust between the two of you makes me questions my own relationship. I honestly can’t imagine being this raw and open with him. Shan when you made the comment of when you see Jared your body just is at ease. I don’t think me nor my boyfriend get that way with each other.

I loved this piece around liking one another. My uncle said to me once - Love is for the hard times, like is for the day to day. Liking to spend time with the person, like the weird idiosyncrasies. Genuinely liking somebody is so important and under rated 🖤

I love what you said about having crushes! I wish more people would become secure in being ok with their partners having crushes. It shouldn’t affect the relationship at all if it’s REALLY REAL

This was so cute and funny! Reminds me of what my partner and I love, but dislike about each other. So relatable. Sending much love to you both.

I love that you guys can be completely honest and not get offended with each other’s honesty

Honestly one of the cutest videos I’ve seen in a while 💕 love you two together

I wish you guys would make a video this honest about your open relationship, you guys always just touch on it so vaguely.

This was soooo goooood!!!! Opened my eyes to lots of thing I’ve actually never thought of. Such a fan of you guys 💖

What a profound statement at the end there! I love you but do I Like you??? Well said! Good to think about!

I love that the can speak on such a deep and mature level. They aren’t speaking in generic terms, it’s all so specific and deep to them. I hope I meet someone to form this kind of marriage with, stunning!

this is my favourite video you two have every made, i could not stop smiling. You're gorgeous, kind energry, jheez! what an absolute delight to watch. x

Spice adams is hilarious! Shan got that dry humor😂💗

This woman is so knowledgeable and intelligent, it’s both intimidating and admirable all at the same time.

Alright this was too freaking sweet! Y'all are a beam of light!

WHOA! Stop the train... The scent of his what? LOL - 2:48 Broh! - 3:21 And the way she crushed on that revelation - Priceless! Yeah, Jared impresses me as being very honest and real - 8:24 I'm on board with "like" being more powerful than Love as well - 14:27

I’m with you on the temperature, Shan. I kept it at 77’ when I’m just hanging out in jeans and tshirt. 🔥

This was lovely. I learnt so much! So many qualities I wish I had ✨

I thoroughly enjoyed this video Shan! Thank you for sharing, totally relatable 💕✨

Love the way you both communicate. It's always enjoyable to watch these videos of you two talking about relationship. And rest assured that the minute Enjoy your life comes at the end of any video I'm dancing like crazy 😆 (tired or not, this is my song!)

Audible got me through university! Whenever a novel was assigned I’d breeze though it on Audible.

I love your Love so much. It's beautiful, raw and real. I'm literally tearing up

Always bustin’ out quality content . Much love for you two .

I loveeee you too !!! Even in this conversation amongst you too , I learn so much about what I would love to get in my relationships! I hope I get a taste of something you two have

So freaking cute! I love how real y’all are 😩❤️

Just downloaded your book to my audible library. You go girl. Thank you for your work.

LOL I loved the awesome Segway to audible hahaha. That was so smooth!

Watching this while working and laughing and my coworkers trying to figure out what I’m laughing at!! Y’all are funny!!

Woooowww I just peeped that shared entertainment is a combination of y’all names 😲🧐😂👍🏾

I would always have the house super warm too 😂 i loved that part of the conversation

Omg this video warmed my heart. I loved it.

I’m literally melting!!! Great content!

I agree with the eye thing. I Love huge eyes! My homegirl, Whitney, has those animated Shan and Natalie Odell eyes. They're so sweet and innocent

I like ( and love) these videos with the two of you ❤️ it makes me excited to find my person.

I love your hair 😭♥️ I wish I could have a conversation like this with someone, I’m always laughing & get uncomfortable

Y'all are right about Audio Books, I started listening to books in the 90s I think. I love y'all's answers to what you love and hate. Great answers, Beautiful.

I’m obsessed. I’m obsessed. I’m obsessssssssed with this video! 🥰

Loved every minute of this haha genuinely had me cracking up lol

Trying this with my boyfriend tonight . Amazing way to open up to each other !

This was so fun! Had to laugh at the memes bit, can totally relate.

I love when you guys said happy Valentine’s Day to each other 😂

Yall sound perfectly imperfect!

That last part... I can't recall when last I genuinely liked somebody

This is aspiring. Thank you!

This is sooo funny! I guess this is what Love is! Through this video I have learned that love is literally compromising. Now I’m wondering how many ppl I have pissed off or hurt in the past due to the fact that I literally do not compromise…specifically in intimate relationships. It’s what I want when I want how I want. Sheesh!

You are rocking my world lady I have been hoping for an audio version to listen along with my print

I love love love your complicity ❤️😂

I loved this video ❤️ you guys both look amazing too

OMG! My hubby is the same with music! He acts like he's in the car by himself. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Much respect, peace!

Such a beautiful love ! Greetings from Transylvania ! ❤❤