You are most beautiful with buzzcut, braid or plaits or ponytails etc. Long tradition hair styles are not suitable and comfortable for all ladies, I appreciate your taste and decision, I think your husband or boyfriend and family members are appreciate your taste and decision, long hair maintance is very deficult, don't keep long hair again, tidy and neat and clean and short haircuts are best for women, keep this short hair style until end of your life, God bless you and your family.