Healthy Mindset on Weak Men, Modern Women, Marriage, Divorce & More

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Healthy Mindset on Weak Men, Modern Women, Marriage, Divorce & More | #38

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In Da Bridge Podcast #38, we welcome our brother Latz (Healthy Mindset). We have discussions on his upbringing which led to his shahadah, the state of men and women today, marriage and much more!
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@siduk2636 Жыл бұрын

mashallah, humble brother with a positive and healthy mindset. May Allah bless him and keep blessing him

@LewishamMosqueOfficial 8 ай бұрын

Ameen

@MrOptimisticc Жыл бұрын

No way you get brother Latz on, been a big inspiration for years❤️

@S1REAL1 Жыл бұрын

Very good interview. Know my man from back in days. Definitely living up to da name healthy mindset. 🔥💪🏾

@tailaniofficial Жыл бұрын

Really interesting and good episode, I have had to pause at 1:10:45, there is no female that is a woman at age 13/14 or around this young. Regardless of the duties or amount of responsibility she has already taken on- she is not a woman- is she responsible, adapted to her environment, skilled in the areas she will need to function as an older sister, parent etc? Yes fine, but she is not a woman. When a child of this age is then looked at and treated as a woman; being married off for instance and having to have intercourse- that is deeply traumatic for her because she is not a woman- this happened to my mum as a muslim, married off at 14 into an arranged marriage- deeply successful in every way from when she was very young, looked after her younger brother, by age 19 she took herself and my grandma to Mecca for Holy Pilgrimage, built her father and mother a house by the same year- but the trauma of being forced into a marriage and thus pregnancy at age 14 was awful- because she was a child, responsible yes- however albeit a child. The human brain completes formation in the late 20s- leave the defining for when a girl becomes a woman to the woman.

@yasinali8097 Жыл бұрын

same thing when a boys father dies or isnt around at age 14 for example he can take on the role of being man of the house and the responsibility's it brings but at the end of the day hes still a child, still a boy. a man isnt a man based on the outcome of his actions (stepping up and fulfilling roles and duties) but the process used to get to those outcomes. a teenage boy might go and hustle in these streets for money or think being a tough man means chest out and picking fights, thats why people from these backgrounds just like the guest in this mentioned say in hindsight they were just kids doing what needed to be done and after time, wisdom & experience do boys become men. those boys who step up to being a man when its needed. often men from these backgrounds suffer from ptsd and all sorts of mental health problems.

@abdurrahmanalothman4900 Жыл бұрын

Imam shafe’e saw a 21 yr grandmother fyi.

@rm7250 Жыл бұрын

Nice to see him speak mashallah .. only see his pics

@GreenDiamondBoxing 21 күн бұрын

I'm a year late watching this, but a great interview mashaAllah.

@Justice519 Жыл бұрын

My brother Latz!

@cabezitadealgodon Жыл бұрын

What the hosts says at 46:16 is sooooo true. Mashallah ❤

@cabezitadealgodon Жыл бұрын

1:08...very well said brother.

@guletizmail8349 Жыл бұрын

Mnshallah Allahuma barik bro ❤

@a.y1623 Жыл бұрын

Walah I don't know this brother but got a lot of respect and love for him. May Allah bless you.

@illuminousone 10 ай бұрын

Very wise! Great interview, Mashallah!

@cabezitadealgodon Жыл бұрын

Can ya'll interview his sister next time enshallah?

@A.Servidor Жыл бұрын

Who is she & what does she do?

@pchopper9559 Жыл бұрын

Ive clocked bare brothers in Islam are secretly divorced sooo young

@ummnailah2991 Жыл бұрын

And many of them have been divorced quite a few times.

@Bbb82744 Жыл бұрын

I've not reached the part of the vid this is mentioned. but marriage is romanticized by a lot of young brothers and sisters. they go into it with unreal expectations. then when things get tough both parties aren't able to cope an they just break up. and then others just do it to fullfill desires and break out when things get tough

@GrizzLdn Жыл бұрын

No surprise bro, Muslim's putting everything out on Social Media for the world to see... āyn, unrealistic expectations, etc. No wonder they end up divorced. This is not a shot at the brother Latz, btw. Just saying in general.

@soufel-maghribi5562 Жыл бұрын

Trying to do it halal is better than having a girlfriend

@AM-bm9rs Жыл бұрын

@@soufel-maghribi5562 thats like saying its ok for me to punch someone because its better than stabbing them

@almurabitun Жыл бұрын

The grifter talking about masculinity loool

@omarismith3655 Жыл бұрын

I swear this guy lives off Anthony Joshuas pocket money? No disrespect. But how can he lecture others when he lives off another man. Genuine question brother. Jzkllah

@siduk2636 Жыл бұрын

he's childhood friends with Joshua and is a well known P.T why put a ignorant and hateful comment and then say 'No Disrespect' Obviously you have a lack of deen

@omarismith3655 Жыл бұрын

And obviously your ass licking without the facts. He makes nothing off PT bro, I know a lot of AJ’s friends in Watford. This guy and a few others leech of Him. He’s Either in the gym or moping about on holidays. This isn’t hateful - it’s the truth. FYI I have deen, but it’s abit pointless for a guy to be talking about ‘ weak men’ and offering lectures when he himself lived off another mans pay cheque. If you had any knowledge of Islam, you’d know not to question other peoples deen. ☝🏾 Nobody asked for your input or comment.

@mssunshine1121 Жыл бұрын

Theyre best friends / brothers. How can you claim no disrespect after saying that?!

@omarismith3655 Жыл бұрын

SA - lol because you don’t leech of friends, and then come on Islamic podcasts preaching and telling men not to be weak. In Islam it tells you to earn your own money. Not scrounge of your friend who’s a millionaire.

@omarkhanwwe Жыл бұрын

What a pathetic comment. You’ve made an accusation with no evidence, without knowing anything about the brothers finances etc. He’s a well known PT with a good social media presence and makes his own money. Totally un-Islamic to say that he lives off another guys money when you have absolutely no idea about what’s going on.