Ikr? He's so polite though lol and so is Lay. Btw, love your username. My ultimate bias in EXO is Chen but Kai seems to be wrecking that these days...😻😂💕

His mom taught him well 😂

+Jennifer Chen hahahahha xD

+EXO Chen ikr? they are both like that, I love their personalities

I was frustrated, it make me love Kai a little bit more that he does too because you know Kai is not one to do a reaction but he smack the floor just because he so frustrated. His mama really does raise him right

Kai knows the feeling because he is a chicken maniac..xD hahahaha...

+qianlin123 He's not! Sehun's chicken maniac, Luhan is maniac and kai is just chicken XD

CookieYaoiness Onew and Kai understand that feeling.

Stf P omg them and shinee's leader onew would be best friends.

Lmfao honestly Kai was me asf at that moment 😂😂😂😂

I hope everything is alright

This is what exactly i am thinking

I was thinking about kyungsoo's reaction.... He would've killed them by his stare alone

I dont know why they dont snap regularly during the worst ones- Am i the only one thinking about that?

jongin looked so disgusted?? what do u mean? no he's not! HES ANGRY

I want to curse her older sister

thats true! thats why i admire Jung Chanwoo when he stood for the younger sister and constantly telling her that she is pretty

+Lizzie Crowe he's such a bias breaker>.

+Lizzie Crowe i keep on watching coz of LAY......

+Florencia Parodi ikr aissh

+Lizzie Crowe ikr

angel

+melissitavera96 she's really modest, nice, considerate and pretty tbh, i would love to be friends with her any day =)

chill out people. I don't know y but I was sooooooo jealous

He is so fluff ugh he kills me so much.

SO CUTTEEE

YES!!! How can parents discriminate between their own children, that too on the basis of looks is beyond me. I can now tell how oppressive the beauty regime must be in Korea :O That woman does not deserve such a patient child

She doesn't realize that she's creating a bully.

I hate her literally

@@tannishtha6228 True

💯💯💯

OMG HEY DIL

+Nikhila Ravi (nikkinotminaj) AYYY

Yeah I noticed that, I was like "oh man he looks pissed." And for good reason, cuz I was getting pissed at them too

godhyunjin I know right! That girl is gorgeous!

wasn't he laughing?

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Agree.they have lots of great things but their shallow thoughts on looks is unacceptable.

but the thing is, westerners are the same towards pasty fat people. every country has its beauty standards and no matter what, we will bash what we dont like. that is only human nature.

I'm going to drop kick him if we get chicken ikrrr though. People in my country did the same too. Come to think about this, everyone has their own flaws. Not everyone born to have a pale skin. Not everyone born to be skinny. It's up to us on how we look at them. We are not perfect.

I SNATCHED JHOPESCHILL So you are making excuses for irrational behaviour? Beauty standards are made and is isn't in our instincts to bash people, it's all learned behaviour. If it hurts other people than it should be stopped. Also white skin is praised in America as well so your comparison doesn't really hit the mark.

totally XD

+Helen Chiu Lay.jpg

+Rachel Kinigstein i felt like kai in that situation

Rachel Kinigstein and then there is lay who is like "wtf is wrong with that mom?!"

true

Did you stan exo now

But truthfully he's a pure and innocent baby💖

YUP! HE IS WELL-KNOWN FOR HIS LOST LOOK XD

Lol his brain is kinda sleepy-lost

damn I didn't even realise he pressed it lmao I agree tho

Thank you so much for pointing that out!

The last score was him

Thanks for pointing that out. I hadn't noticed.

HE REALLY IS SO CARING

The mom and older sister, I've never wanted to slap anyone more then those two bitches! 😡😡.

I know the older sister seemed overly arrogant with herself, the mother seems to be self concsious about the whole thing. The younger sister is a person I would love to hang out with, and she has a kind, welcoming and beautiful face and body type. Why is the family body shaming her? They're just jealous I think, shes beautiful in all ways

Yes! Would never wanna meet such looks oriented insecure people.

Yes you are right and a true and good mother would never treat her daughters differently

and what annoyed me even more was when they were like, your younger daughter is actually pretty, some men might even prefer her more than the older daughter and then the mother shook her head as in "what this trash no way" smh smh smh what kind of parent are you?

I also noticed that too....Kai was really frustrated, she don't have little bit also guilty on her face :/ how could she be called mother, the thing I hate most of Korea & Korean people are they judge people by their out looks :/

Prati UKiss Kissme It is very annoying how they tend to only care about the looks I mean that girl is beautiful I don't know what the mother was thinking urghh

exactly small daughter is beautiful but don't know what's wrong with that mother's eyes :/

Fadumo Hussien I had the same reaction as Kai but what i LOVED even more was the look Lay gave the mother!!! i started cracking up x'D

Brit Cooper I do too but it makes sense, since their family has health issues and the girl says unhealthy without restraint (8kg in a few weeks is really not that great unless you work out) but yeah feels bad

Yackelin Carrillo when is this??

@@hskdtrqsngfd5404 1:16:13 when they ask if it's a concern

Truuuuueee!!!!! I was about to comment on that. Also, during awards shows, he would always do this L symbol to thank EXO-Ls. I mean, other people might not see and appreciate that. He cares a lot, our Kai ♥

That's why Jennie dated him. Krystal too!

I agree, I find the little sister prettier as well. Plus she has a really nice body, her waist is thin but she has curves

Esmee DC Looks don't mean much if you have a shallow, shit personality.

Esmee DC i little bit understand her mother cause looks like she like to eat lots of junk food, but if mother didn't teach her healthy life, then it's mother's fault and it's really cruel to say such things to her, she can get serious trauma and later can start to starving or eat like hell.. Damn K. Will's smile and on 1:14 ;D i was dying

Esmee DC i agree too. it's sad that the mother gives no shit about her younger daughter's happiness and she's so lucky that the daughter isn't prone to depression. cancer can kill you, but depression can lead to suicide and that can take her life much quicker than terminal illness.

Thu Huong Tran You are judging them wrong because you don't know the real feeling they want to say. How could you say them rotten do you even understand what is their concern.

no i cant see it, they were just quite, where were they mad?

@@olayaromano2045 52:14 and 54:40

Yea, they looked dumbfounded and even said, she's not a celebrity. Because celebs have that pressure put upon them. The thing is, cultural standards are shaped by celebrity culture and the media now, too. It's a pervasive toxic culture.

I am mad too disgusting

To be honest according to her hight she is a little fat but its okey... not everyone has to be perfectly fit... its very important to be fit but their are people who simply can't loose fat easily, not even after trying hard... so we should keep our physical health in mind but not get sad or depressed...

12. The sister ain't a actor or a Kpop idol so why should she bother pointing out things on other people maybe she should look at herself and think before she says things. If I had to rap battle her i'd make a Diss track If you think you have perfection you're looking at the wrong reflection! If you think you're fat and not pretty ur looking at it the wrong way coz no matter what,perfection is looking at the wrong reflection, ur beautiful no matter ur size it's not the look that counts it's the thought that counts To the "pretty" sister What goes around comes around and gets at ya... U never know when it'll blow... It's better to let it go.... Being pretty isn't always the best coz in the end ur just like he rest... Ur only giving your self a test... This is a poem... But guess what, to everyone listening to u... U owe'm their loyalty.... Take the L!!!

Same! I would've totally made a goal to diss her 1000 times. What an idiot. Poor girl.

+RainbowKelly Ikr

I really feel for her. She shouldn't have to tolerate such bitches. A wonderful person like her doesn't deserve those idiots. She's beautiful. Her sister is beautiful too but I'm sure she'll grow up ugly one day and I'm sure fate has bad things stored for her because she has done some shitty things. Meanwhile, the sister known as "fat," I'm sure, will grow up unexplainably stunning for she has an amazing heart.

+Sarah Huynh Why would she make fun of her in front of other people that the poor girl might like meaning the celebrities and the fact everyone she knows gets to see... Her mum and sister are starting to mentally bully her....

Jimcrv The only problem with that is that they want to rethink the whole BMI thing. it doesn't take into consideration someone's frame, genetics and proportions. This means that BMI can not be used to measure the health of everybody, Asian people tend to have a different frame compared to western people, this means that you can only use a BMI that is specified towards those type of body shapes and frames and they wouldn't exactly be accurate when using western BMI.

Gem Miyavi Fair enough but even taking those things into account, do you consider her overweight to a point where it might be unhealthy for her?

not at all do I consider her to be unhealthy or overweight, I'm just saying that even comparing outside the BMI she would not be considered overweight anyway. most of the time doctors consider obesity to excess skin and fat, which can put a stress on your heart. I just mentioned the BMI thing as in some cases BMI puts people as overweight when physically they are not...

Gem Miyavi What I meant is that even though BMI does not take everything into consideration, it still is a streatch for her family to say such harsh things I guess we ended up saying the same thing though xD

I agree with you! The poor girl doesn't deserves any of this!!

that's what i got from it. like you should be more worried your sister's going to hate you not random strangers

Leo Muja I thought the exact same thing. And did you notice that they didn't even apologize to her for what they said. Ugh

+Lyly.B Arianator not only that, look at their blank faces as she was crying. they felt nothing, seriously nothing and i can tell this only means that the bullying will continue.

Exactly. Towards the end, the sister and mother made it seem like all they cared about was the younger sister's health and happiness. Bullshit. That change in focus only happened after the crowd strongly empathized with the complaint.

was it the one with kris chanyeol and suho?

@@prudencechan655 its chen chanyeol suho

Girllll!!! I'm here just after that video 🤣🤣🤣🤣I was kinda looking for this comment 😅😅

It's happy together

@@cookytatachimmyjeon1563 actually it was both...on hello counselor it was Kris, Suho n Chanyeol. And on happy together it was Suho, Chen n Chanyeol.

Gia Han Tong aw good for you :)

If I was the girl in the vid I would have already left the house to be honest! I don't think the mom and sister understand that these hurtful comments could lead to suicide

her mother and sister might be so mean but it's not all about her beauty and body figure.her mother & sister are just concerned to her health. They just wanted her to be healthy and eat more veggies than fattening food.

It's not that she's insecure, it's that her family are telling her that she is pathetic because of her weight and eating habits

menwoolover1 true

+menwoolover1 right! :) i think so too, i'm glad that she's still managing to feel comfortable in herself, with this much critisism she has to deal with.. and at that, from her very own family x_x

do u know the sisters insta?

I just died.

I don't think all Americans are fat, it's just that most of them are considering America is like in the top 3 of obesity

***** The point is that the little sister fits into the American view of a "healthy" body, and the older sister would be really skinny in America. If the little sister is fat, then probably more than half of people in America would be obese according to the mom and elder sister's definition of "fat".

Ying Zhenjia Heck, by the mom and the sister's standards, everyone in America would be morbidly obese

Lay's Namanana is the first EXO's solo to enter billboard charts and he's ambassador of more than 40 brands lmao. He is the only male artist who born after 90s, own 3 top luxury brands in real time. All of EXO doing well.

that's because you're probably american or something. truthfully, the girl said she understands her family is concerned about her, because they want her to eat healthy. things are not always like in the west, their culture is different, they don't act like spoiled brats and go kill themselves over stupid things like americans do. and if cancer was running through their family, the mother is true, the girl should pick a more balanced diet, otherwise it would be very dangerous. all they have to do is tone down a little bit. we can't judge them just by being bystanders. you can be thin and have an awful health, trust me.

Giri93067 You don't get cancer from eating unhealthy. No matter if she eats healthy or not, it's not going to stop her from getting cancer, it may reduce the chance, but it won't stop it. If anything, her eating unhealthy will lead to diabetes. I do live in the U.S but even if something like this is considered 'stupid' in your opinion, you don't really know how bad it's effecting her on the inside, and neither do I. I also do know that you can be thin and be unhealthy because I have a younger brother who is very thin but is more unhealthy than I am. I am actually considered healthy whenever I visit my doctor, but my brother tends to not be. The girl's mother and sister should just leave her alone because she is not even the slightest bit obese. They way they are treating her isn't something a loving family should do. They're making it seem like just because she's thicker than her sister, that she is unhealthy which is not true. I am half Korean and my father's side of the family moved over here from South Korea not too long ago, so I know that the culture is different. But not everyone is the same, some people are more sensitive than others. I am a pacifist and I believe there are more nice and better ways to handle things even if it's something as trivial as this. And I'm sure we both can agree that teenagers all around the world (even in Korea) kill themselves because of bullying. Which, is what her mother and sister are doing to her.

lovingpink345 eating unhealthy can get you cancer, cancerous cells divide tremendously fast in acid environment(in your stomach), which you get from eating pizzas and hamburgers like her(my mom died of cancer, I know a lot about it). all I'm trying to say is that both parties have faults and rights. you can't blame the mother, she wants the best for her child in her own way, she's probably so extreme because she is scared because her mother-in-law and sister-in-law both died of cancer. but I also agree that she should try another way of convincing her child. as for the bullying, let's leave it like that. I really think we are a weak generation, we exaggerate everything and see life as a mere joke, when others want to live so bad a few years more. there are cases where people do have problems. but some are just a huge call for attention.

Giri93067 I guess we all can agree that the mother should calm down in the way she's trying to help her daughter. And true, some people are really just calling for attention (I usually try to not pay any attention to them though). It's just because I don't like seeing people hurt which is why this bothered me so much. But nobody experiences life the same way and we have differnent experiences, so our opinions and how we take in situations differ. I'm pretty sure almost everyone can agree that our generation is messed up and too many people take too many things for granted. I hope my comments don't sound too harsh. I've had friends tell me that I sound like I'm mad whenever I type over the internet.

Giri93067 fwi, just to say even though this is a month old, Asia has one of the highest rate for suicides in the world. Japan is in 10th, South Korea is in 3rd, China is in 6th ect.

Sophia G ya making her show her ass..I can see a jealous sister a mile away.

Yeeeeees kaisoo 😢😭💞🐻🐧

He was adorable : )

I felt bad for him..everyone was just laughing..

I just saw the clips from a movie when he was very young and he is really really cute there ❤️

Offstage = a cute and lost sheep Onstage or when dancing anywhere = sexy beast fml

Serenitious YASSS

+anthonevel bado What girl danced to EXO's Overdosed? the one which had the concern or the MC?

On their Guerilla Date ep. watch it

anthonevel bado Okay.

Lay too. In this episode while everyone was laughing about the MC being able to keep shaking her body even though she stopped moving. You can tell Lay didn't think it was too funny because his laughter never seemed genuine and it didn't reach his eyes.

+anthonevel bado Yassss Did you see his reaction to the mum at 52:14? and throughout the 3rd concern when the camera pans to him? He's so freaking done and pissed off I swear.

ikr

+I stole Jimins jams and also he looks like taemin

+I stole Jimins jams i thought i was the only one! xD

That's exactly what I thought

His voice also sounds like him!

You are beautiful inside and out just like she is ♥ You are who you are and that's the best person to be.

When they asked the people to vote for who was prettier, I'm almost sure that the four of them voted forma the young girl

You go girl! ^^

Blue Gill Who cares about looks? I mean, we'll all get old and get wrinkels.. so in the end, the personality counts:) Sure looks may be important, but I would rather choose someone with a good ass personality over apperance, than someone with appearance and a shity personality:)

Blue Gill off course its a combination off both but people who prioritize appearance are really superficial. i once read an dutch article about a boy that only wanted to date supermodels ... He got supermodels because he wasn't ugly himself but when he took his new gf to a dinner with his parents he discovered that his Gf couldnt distinguish cities and countries ( she thought that Paris and France were two seperate countries) he was really embarassed and was like: ''do i really want pretty but empty eggshells'' or do i want someone who i can actually have intelligent conversations with me? he stopped only dating supermodels and instead started looking for someone who had a beautiful personality he is married now and thats just one example

Diede Venderbosch sometimes people are ugly gnome. I say the same, that if a guy don't like me as i am, then f**** off, i don't need such a person by my side, cause those kind of people will betray you any time.

Red Gill not all people like you, there are many normal ones

Same

Same

She's kinda cute of her reaction when jeongja said to demonstrate the cute eyes of the cat in Shrek kekekek

Exactly!!

Same!!!

I don't care realy but it's not a healthy weight

I would agree with normal, but it's definitely not healthy. But being shamed for that is unnecessary.

that's thin in my country and she would be hospitalized...

IKR. Their roles as dancers are way too heavily emphasised, even though they're good at dance. Agree with the part about Lay's gift for composing and writing lyrics though. All the songs he composed for EXO and himself are amazing

I agree the younger sister is perfectly fit, but i think the elder sister's concern is valid too since its about her constantly gaining rapid weight to a point where she becomes obese in the future.

Tenzin Wangyal I think that being a little bit overweight( from the big sister's point of view ) has little side effects on the girl's health compared to the harmful side-effects those torments and hurtful comments will have on the little sister's mental and psychological health , which will also affect and degrade her physical health ! it's essential to be mentally and psychologically healthy to maintain a good physical health status !

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

They're lucky she was nice and sweet enough to try to defend them too! I wouldn't defend my family if they said things like that to me.

Yes people think running away from home is a good option, what will you do then ?

+Nya get a job then a apartment and then a boyfriend

Kyle Martin You think getting a job is easy ? Especially if you still didn't finish your studies, also working in a coffe shop or such won't help you much with rent and paying the elecriticity, water and the internet. And what will the boyfriend help you in ?

***** If you were serious i woud've explosed lmao

The girl is the same height and weight as me. I live in America and people call me thin and say I need to eat more. I was shocked when they gave her proportions and said she needed to lose weight.

@@tosinalade853 Same! The third case was so unbelievable for me, and just made me straight up angry.

Tell me about it , when i was 10 i was taller than the kids my age , so mom always compared me to them , and then out of stress and sadness i ate to i gained weight more than enough and tell this day i can't lose the 10kg i gained 😅

Lmao I noticed it on 16:43 a second before I saw your comment.

All the pple who writes the concern and each person who leads the concern wear the same tops (I think the programme provides it.)

She should probably eat vegetables though.

+Maia Bird 😂😂😂😂

+Maia Bird aish I see you everywhere

Jessica Tang lol I guess I'm a big fan :-D

yes true.And she's still growing ,there would be more changes in her features ahead.

True

and like a human and not like a doll...AND way more *HEALTHY*

and that sister has a concerning underwight - she should go see a doctor

I don't really like the older sis Younger one was really cute

YES

Yes

same here

too! yixing is best!!

I meant me too

i wish i can go to Hello Counselor, so the guest (an actor or idol) will help me to stand 😂

same

I think the same :)

I want a boyfriend kai

He seems like he is the kinda guy that will buy you tampons and pads when you run out. A total keeper.

He also doesn't look on skin color too, thumbs up for that. Nowadays, male (esp handome male idols) tend to look at perfect korean beauty standard (pale skin, small face, skinny body). But not Kai, he's the type that looks the heart & personality. I'm 100% sure, out of the 2 sisters, he'll definitely choose the younger sister if he had to choose.

krystal is soo lucky haha. but then again kai is lucky to have her too

Srry dude if that's how you read my message but what I meant to say was that the mother shouldn't have said those rude things about her daughter, especially in public. The skinnier sister also said some things about her sister so I guess I just took some of this personally.Srry again.

I can't help being skinny. I eat like a fucking elephant but I have a metabolism on steroids.

정하루 I

This moment is the best part of the video for me as well.

정하루 no. They are helping her. Being fat is not ok. If nobody told her she would continue to be fat. But for a westerner who thinks fatness is healthy that might be hard to understand

*upon hearing* Sorry :)

Nguyen Tran Who do you think you are to tell them to shut the fuck up

+Ivana Cutiepiez he is such a kind and a nice person...i think im in love

+Ivana Cutiepiez i saw this and thought it was sooo sweet

Mariam Qureshi i knowww.i love himm

OMFG IKR. I LOVE THEIR PERSONALITY SO MUCH LUKE THEY CAN MAKE ANYONE FEEL GOOD AND POSITIVE ABOUT THEIR BODY

It's okay she got Kai and lay to take a good look at her...ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

OMG I KNOW RIGHT. The whole time I was like wtf are you saying?! You stupid omg. I wear if I was that girl, or a random audience member, I would have screamed at both of them.

Just what kind of mother and older sister are they? Gosh. *pulls all my hair out of anger*

It upset me so much too! I have a big sister that is a model, she's very beautiful, and although I'm not ugly I have always been a little fat. But despite this, she would NEVER talk to me or my other sisters like she is better than us, nor would my mom. And having relatives that died from cancer, or fat, or whatever is not an excuse for them to hurt that girl like that. My grandmother died because she had cancer, and I have some relatives that have problems related to fat, but my mother never treated me like that terrible mother treats her little daughter, and when I turned 17 or 18 I just naturally lost some weight, and now I'm not so fat anymore. And come on, do they really love her? So when do they show affection towards her, if she can't eat, or play without being called fat or ugly? Her mother actually SAID that the little girl doesn't even look like she is her daughter, and she doesn't like to show people that she is her daughter. And in the end, when they cried, it seems to me like they only were worried if people would think they are bad! I just... Argh, I just hate that sister and mother. I almost cried while looking at that poor little girl that has to put up with all that...

kero1mokona Yeah, the mother and sister are judging people by looks and everything....gosh! The girl is very kind to actually put up with both her mum and sister like that.....poor her....

She is not being rude. She did that because of time limit. Didn't you noticed that she told Kai and Lei to show a little part of their performance. Stop being too over sensitive....