"You married each other for your looks. I think that you're being punished" Exactly! ahahaha!!!

I get so annoyed with parents like that 4th grader's mum. Going to 11 academies won't benefit her as much as it will bring her problems. Does the mum really think the little girl will become a successful woman that will look back and think "i'm so glad i did all those extra-curricular activities rather than having a real childhood"??

youngja always has the best hairstyles!

You can't sacrifice childhood for the sake of education. Even a child is academically gifted nature it, but don't try to turn a normal 9 year old into something she isn't. She will just burn out and become unhappy and resentful.

I'm all for parents pushing their kids academically and wanting to set them up for success but my heart hurts for that little girl. It's just too much. If I were her mother I'd be afraid of her growing up and going absolutely wild at the first sign of freedom.

I really like that Shin Dongyeop said that there are different sexual preferences and that men can date about the third concern. Seems like South Korea is slowly changing into beeing more accepting towards different types of sexualitites and life styles.

I love Hong Jinyoung's personality, she always seem so bright, friendly and happy!

To Shin Dongyup to actually speak about a different sexual orientation and to accept it, and say that South Korea is becoming more accepting of it, it's really great and uncommon tbh. For him to say that homosexuality really does exists in South Korea where a lot of people believe that it doesn't and that it comes from western coulture, it's a big step IMO. Idk, I just felt really good hearing and seeing how they react it to it so normally :) Good job, yay !

i think the mum shouldn't have agreed to drop english, even if the kid doesn't like it she'll benefit from it. she could drop something else or just the other 2

No matter what, your child's health and happiness should be ur first priority... Forcing her to study that much at such young ages without getting enough sleep is so stupid and thoughtless.

Today with Yang Heeeun, Kim Bumsoo, Hong Jinyoung, & An Yeongmi! "My wife always says no. Why can’t I do anything? ‘Nothing Goes’. A 4th grader goes to 11 academies.It’s exhausting to do homework and go to bed late. ‘Escaping Hell’. A rookie suffering because of a superior at work.The superior is too considerate. ‘Is This Something?’ Will ‘We’re Family’ win a second time?" ☞ Tue 00:10 | Re-run: Tue 07:40 | Mon 16:10 (Seoul, UTC+9) ☞ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kN6UdaiBl6ushac.html

poor that little girl...I REALLY HATE IT WHEN IM REALLY SICK BUT MY MOM SAYS IM FAKING IT. -____________________-

That concern with that little girl omfg it was so frustrating . When her moms face came up she was exactly what i imagined her to be . I know and understand how the mom wants her daughter excel well in studies but trust me kids like that end up being ordinary , with no dreams and have a life that could easily be predicted , she'll do stuff the way it was taught but like srsly I hate machine paced education

That's crazy... My mom put me to a piano school & because of the stress I get there I have no more interest in music anymore. If the mother of that girl continues to let her learn so much and let her get stress from there, she might end up having no dreams in the future...

Honestly I think that Academies can benefit children if in the right amounts and actual subjects that they are interested in and will help them learn and improve in whatever, they enjoy. However, that mom went overboard with 11 for an 11 year old is too much and some lessons like history, politics, essay, creative maths are unbelievably unnecessary until the child gets to like year 8 in secondary school.

Doesn't that mom find it ironic that she wants her daughter to grow up to be what she wants, but then forces on her daughter classes that obviously her daughter doesn't want?? smh

She watches runningman!! I got really excited when I heard that for some reason.

I completely empathise with that 4th grader. In my country, English and Maths are the two ''basic'' academies that everybody goes to. My busiest time was 7th grade when I had to go to 7 academies throughout the week, 2-3 per day. I remember dropping half of those soon after because it was just crazy and I was 13. I can't believe what a 10 year old must feel having to go to like 7+ academies per day. The mother is excessive and in the wrong here and believe me, the child is going to be fed up much sooner than the mother thinks. What on earth is the use of politics, economy, world history etc at 10? Also, the little girl is obviously the artistic type so the mum shouldn't try to hold her back by forcing her to go down a different path.

I want VIXX on this show...really curious about Leo's opinions XDXD

I just got here because of Hong Jinyoung!

1st concern.. I would NOT like it if a guy acted all nice when we were dating but then showed his true colours as a manipulative, controlling person after marriage. I wouldn't like it if he gets to do whatever he wants all the time and I don't get to do what I want or even get a say. I could live with compromises we made together, like change a habit that he doesn't like but also I would expect him to try to change a habit I didn't like him to have, if any. It doesn't mean we have to be like 'i'll stop if you stop'. There just has to be some good reasons. So I would imagine it would be same for a guy too. He wouldn't like to be with someone who is always manipulating things to get her way and make him do and agree with what she wants. Sometimes when a concern like this comes in, the partner has a reason for doing what they do and I could then sympathise with their side of the story, but here the lady in the first concern doesn't have a reason. She just seems to like keeping him in line and in control him the way she likes. Telling him 'no, don't!' every time as if he's a dog. /shakes head / I really dislike someone with this type of mentality in a relationship.

Why do people believe married men are not gay or bisexual especially in Korea and other strict cultures?

I came back from watching this video called, "Dear Korea..." and I realised the speaker was talking about the 2nd concern. I feel so upset that the 2nd concern didnt win. I dont know how bad the winner's concern was but I think the little girl should receive more support. The mom just gave a nonchalant face throughout. I sense no embarrassment, guilt or whatsoever and it pains me to hear whatever the little girl has to say. She's only 11 and she has to live her life like that....

So lee yeongja's hairstyle was interseting I loved this episode it honestly was the best one in weeks in my opinion cause this this time I listened to every concern Shin dong yup comments about them being punished in the second concern was hilarious

I felt sorry for the girl in the second concern. Going to bed at early hours of the morning isn't healthy for a small child, I don't even think it's healthy for a teenager! I think parents should push their children to do well and achieve their goals, but too much can end up having the reverse effect, as I've seen with people I know.

I read about the 4th grader going to 11 academies a week or so ago on allkpop!

Study what you are interested in, and you will have lots of fun on the way to success. A kid who don't know anything about economics, politics, geography, history will become a successful singer if she's passionate and focuses in arts or singing. On the other hand, a kid taking 11 courses and barely have enough sleep will ended up being an ordinary worker with higher mortality.

I can totally understand the litter girl.. Oh my god... u never how exhausted it was until u been in that situation. The first concern is just so unfair. I know it kind of cute but I like it more when it fair for both side.

That poor little girl O_o!!! In my country academies (or extra classes) are only considered necessary for kids who are struggling at school. Her mom is craaaazy.

I love this drama, I like very much all actors in special the principals protagonists

Too said for a little girl who got of a lot of classes compared with her friends she the only one who got ton of work. She might got lot of stress :(

Korea is the only country i know of that has serious songs about food. It's fascinating to me for some reason lol.

Oh its yang hee eun and hong jin young!... i love them at around the world package tour... 😁

The mother in the second concern is just so annoying. How she's sitting up there and laughing about what her daughter has to say. ...

She should not cut English because it will be helpful for her daughter later on. Instead she should cut history and politics. Why would a little kid have to learn that much

I don't think she should of dropped english. Another language is hard to study on your own

11 academies?? i mean politics, speech, history?? imho you can learn those things at school just fine or from some books or internet oh but dont drop English, like it or not it's essential oh and that kid is a good speaker, she must've got it from her mom

Woah the 2nd concern was just too much for the girl to handle seriously! When I was in 4th grade, I do attend weekend classes but they're really fun and I made lots of friends there. I hope the mother doesn't make false promises and let the girl do what she wants.

The poor girl from the second concern .. Poor koreans kids .. Unfortunately she is not the only one living this kind of life .. Kids at her age should enjoy their life and play with their friends ,not studying POLITICS or something crazysubject like that .,...

This is what parents don't get my dad is korean he's exactly the same!!! He put me through so much shit growing up!! Like swimming,math,korean,mandarin,piano,ballet everything you can think of! I am now 19 and free lol at last!! I'm not gonna lie and say they didn't benefit me but things like freaking ballet didn't do a damn thing I hated it!! My heart was always in hip hop plus my social life through out high school was pretty much dead! I have never had a boyfriend never had time to have fun at all!! They should be very thankful I'm not running wild! Cause my uncle did the same thing to my older cousin and lets just say pretty much every guy knows her in college or the freaking district and she goes to every party and does drugs the whole lot!! Anyway the husband and wife are crazy like she's selfish that's not fair your husband is your equal he should be able to go out and enjoy himself and hug you and kiss you it's not gonna kill these are the Korean girls that's give the rest a bad name even tho I'm only half Korean .. Still like before marriage there always as sweet as can be then after bam!! You don't know what hit ya!! And then she's gonna run crying when her man has an affair .. Anyway I hope they work things out .. And the both make certain adjustments to their attitudes.

SK is a country with one the highest employee work hours, but is one of the lowest in productivity. Its a cultural thing to over work yourself. Its also part of the reason why they have such a high suicide rate and why people there drink so much. I feel bad for that little girl, but you see the other kids. She goes to bed at 12, but they are in bed at 11 so there's no big difference between her and them. Its funny to me how much they value people who study abroad, but they don't implement the more relaxed educational atmosphere of other countries.

Awwwww....!!!! That little girl in the second concern is soooooo cute and adorable!

the song that woman sang in the beginning........ i instantly thought of song *MY FAVORITE THINGS* from *Sound Of Music* o.o

Off topic comment.. I still miss Kim Nayoung as co-host of We Got Married. Now back to our program...

the mother of the 4th grader is a slave driver! that poor girl! the situation is way too extreme b/c her schedule is like a college student who's working too! she's only a kid!! in 4th grade I only did hw for like 1 hour or so and goofed off all day! D:

I know that asian parents have an high expectation of their children but 12 academies? I know she wan't well for her child but that way too much. Yea she is good at studying but what is the point if she has not interest and is not happy? Children should be able to play a little creativity and imagination, so what if it's normal for kids to go to academies? You want her to be normal like other kids? Not everyone is meant to be great and love studying. If she has no childhood it will effect her when she gets older. Seeing more of the Korean Culture like if you don't look or dress a certain way you are judged, you HAVE to do everything to make your senior happy or it will effect you at work and having extremely high expectations in education. These were a few things that caused people stress and depression in Japan, it used to be the highest rate in suicide now it's repeating in South Korea. It's just really sad. It's good to work hard but happiness is also important to.

BTS should be invited into this Shooow:3

Okay, it's actually true that elem. school students go to more academies more than middle/high school students because they dont know what they are good at or what they are interested to do. but seriously, they have six years to figure it out! why does she have to all that things every week? i mean, not many korean schools have band/orchestra/choir/sports teams, so they gotta do by themselves. so, going art and taekwondo academies are understandable. especially young kids need more opportunities to get closer to art/music/sports. but econ, gov, his.... she doesnt need it now.. if she are suck at it, and having 60, 50, then she needs it. but.. wow 4th grade social study is not that deep you know. 4th grade's regular school classes are done by 2:40~3:00. 6hr of extra class... ok, whatever ma'am.

The 4th grader's concern is a huge problem in Korea. It seems parents simply do not understand how children behave. What caught me the most is when her mother thought that cutting the amount of academies she goes to will somehow make her study less or not do as well in school. This is completely false. Regardless of how many academies the child goes to, if the child refuses to learn, she won't be the top of her class. It doesn't matter how many one-on-one tutors she has, all the information will go through one ear and come out the other. But obviously, this 4th grader is very responsible for her age, studying and doing all her homework even when she's so tired. Cutting academies for a student like her will make her even do better in school, as she can focus more on school activities and socialize with children her age. Being able to socialize and talk to other people is extremely important at any job, and it's not something that can be taught in academies.

Kim Bum Soo ❤❤❤

I feel bad for the husband on the first concern... I feel like there's always someone overpowering the other in a relationship. It's mostly women now. Sorry but to me, women are mostly the problem. They expect this and that, but if a man says he expected something from the woman, she'll say so you don't love me? Leave me then if you don't like me this way. That's feminism at it's finest. I think people are too focused, they think someone needs to wear the pants in the relationship.

11 academies it's really too much for a girl of her age. I can understand that the mom wants her daughter to do well and learn new things, but if she keeps pushing her like this, the child won't grow up happy. The childhood is so important in the developement of someone, doing well at school is very important but enjoying life and making new experiences is also important.

I know how that little 11 year old girl feels. Both my parents made me go to 10 when i was 11 years old.

That 3rd concern was to strange. Lighten up there boss and let your friend/employee live his own life. Kinda creepy. The little girl in the 2nd concern was so cute and smart. Mom needs to lighten up also. My god how is a kid supposed to keep up and not get totally depressed with that overwhelming schedule? Let her have some time to be a child.

I think the second concern was child abuse. The girl was much smaller than her friends. Lack of food and sleep will mess with her body. She should be getting her period soon, but I doubt that will happen. I taught that wonderful age for 30 years. 11 year old girls are awesome. All three of her friends were quite discerning. Puberty and boys will happen and then their lives get messed up. The poor girl needs to eat, sleep and have silly fun with her friends. Mother isn't thinking about her, she's thinking about other mothers. I think the girl should have an academy free year. The elderly woman guest is disgusted by the situation, and I agree with her.

A menina de 9/10 anos fazendo 11 atividades extras e eu aqui passando 5 horas na aula e reclamando ;-;

That poor girl in the second concern. I used to not come until 9, and even though it was just running, band, and drumline, I was completely worn out. Add academics to that, I'd be such a mess. My mom urged me to quit one, and her mom wants to add another? Oh my goodness

I wish the 4th grader's mum would be more concerned about her daughters mental health rather than her academic life. Yes it's important to work hard in school put not up to the point where you're loosing sleep and appetite and in the future, this girl will not thank her for all the stress and as a mother I hope she realizes this soon.

what is the point in having guests at this show when the guests do nothing?

I think all Asian parents wants their child to be ahead on the lessons but 11/12 academies are too much. I'm Asian and I'm pretty good at school (average). I am 14 yrs old now and when I was elementary, I attended an academy for math because I wanted to attend it. She shouldn't force the child to go to different academies that the child might not like.

That mum from 2nd concern is so crazy , 11 extra classes ....can someone explain how many classes people go to in Korea and why they have to go at the age of like 11 ...when everyone is playing

if the mother continues with making her go to all the 12+ academics .. when the daughter is in teens there is high chance she will rebel more . they wont have a bonding to solve the rebelling then .

What was the episode where Ahn youngmi concern?

the 1st husband lookslike jisung xD

What ep. is she talking about ? the 5th grader concern about his girlfriend

35:25 I had to pause because what in God's name is 'Creative Math'?!

What episode is the fifth grader boy worried about his girlfriend ??

What's school for if she goes to all those academies? Tbh

Can somebody please tell me the episode the little girl mentioned at the beginning?? (The boy and girlfriend one) thank youuu

The girl from the 2nd concern her eyes looks like GD

What is the tittle of the song in 50:22 ??

Both men in the last concern seem like they like each other. The one who wrote in the concern seems more feminine than the other guy by a mile! As much as I try to, I can't see him being forcefully masculine about anything. The whipped husband is also a sad case. Just go buy everything you want and tell her you're the one earning the money and you're going to spend it as you see fit. If that occasionally means pissing her off, then welcome to life. The little girl is obviously overburdened and I seriously doubt that the mother is going to let her quit anything. I feel it's more likely that she WILL sign her up for music lessons on Friday. After all, Mother already stated that she considers this workload AVERAGE which is utterly insane. It's nice to take extra classes in an area of interest.. but a 11 year old child talking politics? Get a grip!

チェ・ジウさん料理作る?クォンサンウさん料理

where's the eric nam episode tho

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I get that the parents wants what is good for their sons and daughters but it's too much for little children to learn that much . I feel really bad for the little girl. All those academics takes away her childhood life . Children should enjoy life. What will she tell her children when they asks her how was her childhood life . The parents have to think beyond the educational life . Nowadays everything is about education . The mom shouldn't push her daughter to do things she doesn't want to do .

Omg that girl of the first case got me so pissed is like only one sided all for her nothing for him I would’ve left her

Wow. Although I sympathize, I don't think it's much to complain about. Since 5th grade, I wasn't able to go to bed until around midnight, but I also had to wake up at 5:00 every morning, too. I don't think it's that big of a concern if so many people share it.

the 2nd concern with the fourth grader made me upset.... her sleeping schedule is like for a college student here in the U.S. that's the amount of sleep i get when I'm school.. the mom should cut down the daughter's academy classes, the kid should be playing outside with her friends instead of getting stuck with so much school work at such a young age

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Can anyone tell me What was the song they sang at 50:18? Thnx :)

I think +KBS World TV forgot to upload the episode before this one. I don't remember watching the ep with that daughter and father who are the current winners in this ep. Am I mistaken? O.o

At 50:17 what song is that? Reply PLZ

The mother are too much! I know it's a tough world nowadays, but pushing the child to that amount of academies? She will not be able to find her drean. She might juxt get confused. Poor little girl. If the girl just loves to study it's ok but she was pushed.

lee young ja's hair o_o

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Is the mum in the 2nd concern actually joking or what, wanting the little girl to do ANOTHER subject in the academy on top of the 11/12 she already does as well as going to school? She'll end up in hospital because of exhaustion. The little girl should've been allowed to drop more than the 3 subjects she chose tbh, if they already teach the subject - like Maths, Science etc - at school, then why do the same subject at an after school academy too?

wtf did they do to youngjas hair???

1st:The woman is controlling but the man doesn't speak out. 2nd:Adorable! Gosh I'm the opposite of that child, I wish I took up more. I hope she gets to have more fun.*smashes the concern button*. 3rd: Is the word 'No' so hard to use? Where is the woman in the 1st concern when you need her. I'm actually more sorry for the wife ^^"

Honestly saying, taking extra lessons are good, IF you are weak in the subject and you want extra knowledge willingly. But for an eleven year old child, don't you think taking 11/12 extra subjects is too much? Sure, if you're taking language lessons like English and Chinese, it would be okay, assuming you'll benefit from the future. But politics and economy? For goodness sake she's a eleven year old child. What reason would she would she even need to know about how politics are going on today? Knowledge is gotten through interest and to be honest, if you forcefully try and remember/focus on stuff you have no interest on or aren't very willing to learn, let me tell you it'll all be a waste of money. She may remember now, but in the future she won't. Just stuffing so much stuff into your brain has a limit you know. Furthermore, for kids it's too overwhelming and like you should just let them be, let them do what they want and when they are slightly older, maybe about 14/15, you can start getting extra lessons in weak/interested subjects. No hate towards Korea/Koreans but they are way too harsh towards their kids and they encourage them to be competitive and such under the most likely circumstances of wanting to be able to show off their kid, under the pretence of wanting them to have a good future. Statistics do show that children who are forced to commit to their studies at a young age are more likely to commit suicide compared to those who aren't forced to be committed. Or in the unlikely case, where the kid becomes successful, as a lawyer or an engineer or even a doctor, what's the point? He/She may not be happy and if you aren't happy, how is life worth living? And I'd like to clear up one more thing, people all around the world think that stereotypical Asians are all nerdy, smart when that's not really true. All this is just putting pressure on kids and also parents to fulfil that stereotype which to me, is just plain BS. Say if you're an American, you have to have blonde hair and blue eyes. You can't have normal brown eyes and brown hair. This type of stereotypes has caused a lot of peer pressure, in the case of wanting to change to fit in, in the fear of not being popular, cases such as binge eating, bulimia, anorexia just to fit into the stereotype given. Many people have been bullied because they aren't "normal" in the sense of the stereotype and many commit suicide too and go into depression because of such antics. So, let me say this, just because you don't fit in the stereotype given whether you're an Asian, American, European or African, doesn't mean you're abnormal

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that mom wouldn't stop laughing at her kid, so annoying

Her problems are not his. She is spoiled. I also think she has problems with self esteem due to weight gain.

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クォンサンウさんどこチェ・ジウさんについて每日買い物ついでなんまさか見た

thats to much for a 11 years old girl

Hum aap me bat ko na aap na hum samjhenge thoda sa ward ko samjhker bolte hai ok

Why does that girl have to do all those extra classes?! She should reconsider dropping English though. English get's you around the world. Not only at countries where english is the mother language but also at countries were english is the 2nd or 3rd language. If she wants to know more about history, she can just read books out of interest in her free time. So yeah if I was the parent, She'd only do English and Taekwondo. Although she said she likes to play soccer with her friends..

Too much go academy....are this not waste of money ? Just go what u likes the most for the future....

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