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Her Heart-Wrenching Stories Growing Up In 1950s Virginia

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David Hoffman

David Hoffman

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To support my efforts to create more clips please donate to me at www.patreon.com/allinaday. What can I say but my God what a magnificent person - Wise and kind and deep-and a great storyteller. She grew up at a time when Virginia closed all the public schools after the Supreme Court Brown vs. Board of Education decision. When she refers to the school she is referring to the public school she attended which was shut down for years. She is an ordinary citizen selected to tell her stories for my 1990 TV series, Making Sense of the Sixties. I never forgot her and the beautiful, thoughtful way she presents her memories. I maintain the privacy of everyone I interviewed back in 1989 and do not release any names without their permission.
#civilrights #brownvsboard #virginiahistory

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@pR1mal.
@pR1mal. 4 жыл бұрын
This woman may have never known it, but her words are teaching generations. She had a brilliant mind and a good heart.
@normbatchelor7403
@normbatchelor7403 4 жыл бұрын
How so? We are still living Separate and Unequal.
@journeyman378
@journeyman378 4 жыл бұрын
She is only dealing with the social aspect but leaving the economic aspect! #ados
@natahliasmith9533
@natahliasmith9533 4 жыл бұрын
She comes across to me as a women that has had to face such hate and adversity all her life she still triumphed with love. She had a quiet graciousness about her. I feel she would be the type of lady that would welcome you with open arms into her home...her heart for those who chose to listen. She is a beautiful treasure to all those who genuinely know her. Thank you so much for giving us the opportunity to see and listen to this beautiful soul. It truly consider this an honor ❤💪
@sunfloweryandell2743
@sunfloweryandell2743 4 жыл бұрын
What are you talking about because this is her story?
@normbatchelor7403
@normbatchelor7403 4 жыл бұрын
Where were all the so called “Good white People.”?
@shiteetah
@shiteetah 5 жыл бұрын
It’s quite evident that that sort of pain never goes away.
@rocksiirose4536
@rocksiirose4536 5 жыл бұрын
So true my experiences will never leave me. But, I have learned to suppress my feelings.
@UltimateCakeLady
@UltimateCakeLady 4 жыл бұрын
@ If you don't mind me asking...what country are you from & what country did you move to...where are you now? I suppose you already know, it's hard to move anywhere without help from someone else...even if it's just "help" from a bank to buy a car or a house.
@truthatanycost3330
@truthatanycost3330 4 жыл бұрын
@ .... you sound like you're Coocoo for Cocoa Puffs w/o the milk!!! Do you understand subjugation...& ALL that entails??? It's BRAINWASHED IDIOTS LIKE YOURSELF that need to be dealt with!!!! FOHFMF!!!!
@truthatanycost3330
@truthatanycost3330 4 жыл бұрын
@@rocksiirose4536 ....why would you suppress anything??? The MORE you sweep under the rug...the rougher it is to walk over!!!! Let it out!!! IT'S LIKE TAKING A GOOD BOWEL MOVEMENT 💩💯!!!!
@rocksiirose4536
@rocksiirose4536 4 жыл бұрын
@shiteetah so true. That part of my life is engraved in my brain. I have tried to let it go many times and then boom! Someone else does some snide remark or give me that n word look.
@johncaparulo4800
@johncaparulo4800 5 жыл бұрын
It really is infuriating to think that someone with such obvious depth and intellect could ever be denied the opportunity to contribute and participate in society. At some point, humanity has to wake up and re-evaluate our propensity to allow the worst of us to continually devour our best.
@lindareiber3097
@lindareiber3097 4 жыл бұрын
So true!
@taurussun2228
@taurussun2228 4 жыл бұрын
Well said. 🙏🏽
@ericsheffer2843
@ericsheffer2843 4 жыл бұрын
she most certainly contributed to society
@lorebay2593
@lorebay2593 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been call such a derogatory name to my face, but I have seen expressions and housing discrimination was not pleasant, but I prevailed. My sister and I have stories too of the not distant past cause 1990s is not that far off.
@debbiegamble6062
@debbiegamble6062 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing woman. Humanity at its best!
@ARKHAMxMaverick
@ARKHAMxMaverick 5 жыл бұрын
After watching several of these videos, I think the thing I like most, other than the interviewees, is that you ask a question and then shut up and just let them talk. Well done.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. David Hoffman - filmmaker
@hstteacher
@hstteacher 4 жыл бұрын
We whites who look back on the 50s with nostalgia really need to listen. Thank you for sharing.
@darlenelawson1255
@darlenelawson1255 4 жыл бұрын
So grateful to get to hear this. I live in Canada and didn’t see this but our aboriginals have been very mistreated. When I visited America I saw that it was so bad....
@vanessamccleskeyroden4349
@vanessamccleskeyroden4349 4 жыл бұрын
@@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker Thank you Mr Hoffman, for these films and all the work you put into them! I believe your films/or Documentaries are something that is now, and going to be in the future of our Country and/or World very useful for mankind. Useful as to mean that it shows exactly how things were at that time in our history. I am extremely interested in our past generations, especially how things were before, and during, and after the Civil War between the States! These stores that are told just brings tears of such sadness, and sometimes a little joy, because of the strength, and faith that alot of these people had! God Bless you, and thank you!
@journeyman378
@journeyman378 4 жыл бұрын
This is only dealing with the social aspect but leaving the economic aspect! #ados
@rebeccawoolfolk5377
@rebeccawoolfolk5377 5 жыл бұрын
This lady is so gentle and wise. She seems like the kind of person you'd like to have nearby when you're feeling down or troubled. Just soothing.
@raymondnkamugisha8887
@raymondnkamugisha8887 4 жыл бұрын
You just know, how to discern, it's what I call intrinsic value, Beautiful.
@vanessamccleskeyroden4349
@vanessamccleskeyroden4349 4 жыл бұрын
Her children were very fortunate to have such a beautiful and kind-hearted loving mother as her! ❤ May God Bless this beautiful lady!
@fran2688
@fran2688 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I yern to sit on her porch and listen to her talk all day!
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
Also holds a grudge and ungrateful of what this country has given them despite the sad circumstances back then.
@Doc_McStuffins
@Doc_McStuffins 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gemini530 what has this country given "them" back then, the descendants of people who built this country with their blood, sweat, and tears for which they were repaid with lynchings, domestic terrorism, segregation, redlining, Jim Crow, mass incarceration, environmental racism--need I go on? Are these the things for which she ought to be grateful and not hold a grudge? I see no grudge. She does not seem angry. But I am. And I do hold a grudge. And I'm right to. And who are you to act like people shouldn't be.
@msoda8516
@msoda8516 4 жыл бұрын
People who think this stuff was long ago need to understand it really wasn’t that long ago. My dad and granny told me stories that broke my heart. My great grandfather had to leave his home town because he and his brother were almost lynched.
@milagrosgranados1316
@milagrosgranados1316 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@cflo1386
@cflo1386 5 жыл бұрын
These videos are a national historic treasure. Thank you for these videos David.
@738polarbear
@738polarbear 4 жыл бұрын
Oh so you want to remember SELECTED parts of history . Shame on you.. Hundreds of thousands of white soldiers died to free you but THAT doesn't matter does it?
@thegoose2724
@thegoose2724 4 жыл бұрын
738polarbear: That is exactly what the problem is. As opposed to you just listening to the conversation and thinking with an open heart and compassion, you have chosen to go off on a tangent about what something decent someone white has done as if it's an unknown part of history. You act as if the blacks weren't very instrumental in fighting those same war to help secure there own freedoms. What white people have/has done to the blacks in this country for well over 400 years of tyranny, slavery and oppression is a conversation that you don't even want to have. So don't sit back behind your screen being a big bad keyboard warrior and cherry-pick a good deed or two that whites did on behalf of blacks, especially when your people have done so so so much wrong to the black American race. A damned good prime example of what your doing right now with your idiotic self serving comment, poor you!!!!! Out
@winnyjstew
@winnyjstew 2 жыл бұрын
@@738polarbear that wasn’t even his point. You are just projecting . that’s like me saying “man I love oranges” and here you come assuming that I hate apples, because I didn’t mention it. Wake up
@whatmatters4990
@whatmatters4990 4 жыл бұрын
This woman has a simple grace. She seems matter of fact and reflects a profound sadness. I am sure she would be a great friend. Love
@JRAHIT
@JRAHIT 2 жыл бұрын
You’re right. She was a very pleasant person to know. Ms. Hendricks.
@forgetunome
@forgetunome 4 жыл бұрын
A Beautiful woman, a beautiful soul!
@avidodd26
@avidodd26 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent work. I especially love how you don't insert yourself into the scene and keep the focus on your subject. The lack of narcissistic bullshit on a digital platform is refreshing.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Avid. I try -- and it mostly works. david Hoffman - filmmaker
@ladykay917
@ladykay917 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@tribeofnan888
@tribeofnan888 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I noticed that too. Great interviewer great interviewee.
@lzrd8460
@lzrd8460 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@consmath1400
@consmath1400 4 жыл бұрын
100% fact
@lynns4426
@lynns4426 4 жыл бұрын
The people who ask why can't you just forget about all "that" should watch this. They do not realize the toll it took on black people. Great interview. 🙏🏽❤
@dharmon8798
@dharmon8798 2 жыл бұрын
You can't forget about how you were treated just because you are Black. We've been treated wrong since day one. We are the most hated people in the world, especially in the US, and some other countries.
@morwaze
@morwaze 2 жыл бұрын
Mind you, the people who say "why can't you just get over it?"....don't have a damn thing to get over. They speak from an entitled and empowered place. They don't share our experiences, or past. They lack empathy and compassion... And wouldn't know how to survive had they gone through what we have.
@mrbusdriversir
@mrbusdriversir 2 жыл бұрын
@@morwaze Thanks. I live in a white state and I hear people saying that all the time and sometimes I wish I could tell them the same things you just said but I feel I can’t because for them we are the problem. My boss told me one day that racism never existed and that racism was only people not respecting others regardless of their race because after all white people don’t see people by their color. ☹️
@morwaze
@morwaze 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrbusdriversir bro...if they won't try to educate themselves enough to understand you... They dont deserve your mercy. I know how u feel cuz I've spared people a cursing out trying to protect them, being compassionate to their stupidity. No more. F that.
@RandaWise
@RandaWise 2 жыл бұрын
They want us to forget, but they keep doing the things to us that are hurtful. Go figure!
@Kendall42971
@Kendall42971 4 жыл бұрын
When she said "I like you where you are." That hit deep because I always tell people "I love you where you are." When I tell people that, I'm conveying that there is no need for them to be anyone else other than themselves around me. That I accept them for who and what they are in the juncture of their life's journey. Some people do not have the capacity to love or accept love and kindness so you just have to love them where they stand and leave them there😌
@crabbypatty3490
@crabbypatty3490 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🥂
@ThisDirtyWhiteBoy
@ThisDirtyWhiteBoy 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ma’am, for the importantly beautiful way you phrased your sentiment, especially the very last sentence. I don’t specifically have the words for why I needed to hear that last bit, but something in my soul appreciates the sincerity and simplicity of loving one for whom they are, where they are, AND moving on with one’s life knowing one has loved openly, without hesitation, and is therefore free to move on. It’s so cliche but if we could all love thy neighbor as thy self, there would be no room for hatred. Thus, everyone could love whomever, where ever one stood, and fear not having to retreat, nor stay still, for said love.
@Kendall42971
@Kendall42971 4 жыл бұрын
@@ThisDirtyWhiteBoy You're very welcome 💞💞💞💞💞
@karlaberry9194
@karlaberry9194 2 жыл бұрын
I love that💜🌈
@Kendall42971
@Kendall42971 2 жыл бұрын
@@karlaberry9194 💐❤
@jimmyjimmy4758
@jimmyjimmy4758 4 жыл бұрын
I born in Mississippi in 1965 , MY PARENTS WAS sharecropper I do understand her feel and pain.
@OdoItal
@OdoItal 5 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful woman. Thanks for this!
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. She is spectacular. David Hoffman-filmmaker
@sillililli01
@sillililli01 4 жыл бұрын
The words "classy lady" comes to mind in watching this beautiful woman take us on a walk with her through her life experiences in the 50s/60s. I experienced prejudice for a different reason. It was never with the other children, it was with an adult (teacher). Children get along, it's the adults that had the problems, perhaps a generational entrenchment. Thank you Mr. Hoffman, again, for keeping it real and reminding us of the injustices suffered by many at the hands of ignorance.
@blindmanricochet1122
@blindmanricochet1122 4 жыл бұрын
As a human being this sickens me. As a black man it infuriates me.
@charlesbanksbanks7532
@charlesbanksbanks7532 3 жыл бұрын
Same here bro,BELIEVE THT,HEAR IT TOO MANY TIMES,ALL SAD AND HIT THE CORE OF MY BLACKNESS
@Cloudminster
@Cloudminster 2 жыл бұрын
As a human being this also sickens me. As a white man it also infuriates me.
@MackNcD
@MackNcD Жыл бұрын
I’m not infuriated at all, I feel her compassion and wisdom. To say “it infuriates my blackness” or “whiteness” is so disoriented, it’s identifying really hard with your body, which you have got to get beyond if we’re ever going to encompass the spiritual lessons embodied here. “In all things there is good if you look for it.” Were her words. And it parallels my own spiritual teacher (who lives in a black body, his name is Mooji, if it makes any difference) and a principal he passed on to me, “You tend to find what you’re looking for.”
@alexawood1588
@alexawood1588 4 жыл бұрын
throughout my life, i’ve questioned racist people (I.E. my distant family) why they hated black people. the response was almost always “because they’re violent ‘hoodlums’” and etc. but they also hated black children, why always made me think, “how could you hate a child? they haven’t done anything. they aren’t old enough to have done anything. they’re too SMALL to have done anything. so what reason could you possibly have to hate them?” and it only dawned on me recently, talking to a relative i’ve since distance myself from, that it’s because racists don’t see POC as people. they don’t need a reason to hate this x, y, z group of people if they aren’t even people to them; if they aren’t even intelligent beings to them. i wish i could hear all of her stories, the bad AND the good; just any stories! the way she talks in this video is so incapsulating and entrancing... i can feel her pain when she talks, and i wait in limbo when she tries to find her words (as the older, more polite generation does lmao)
@travismaxwell9115
@travismaxwell9115 2 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity, what would of happen if you bought a BLACK man to the family Thanksgiving dinner???🤔
@brildidge9523
@brildidge9523 2 жыл бұрын
As the lady said, fear and ignorance was most likely at the back of the racist behaviour. If you live in a community where those on top take everything for themselves, they will find all sorts of " good reasons " for behaving as they do. It is also very difficult and maybe even dangerous to challenge the status quo as an ordinary citizen when the whole state system backs the racism. What gets me is how did the church go along with it so willingly ? This is an intelligent, dignified and well balanced woman and very wise. God bless her.
@winnyjstew
@winnyjstew 2 жыл бұрын
@@travismaxwell9115 oh that’s over wit 😂😂😂 she’d be persecuted.
@lindareiber3097
@lindareiber3097 4 жыл бұрын
I can remember when I was younger and my mother and I Would ride the bus , and the ladies Would be at the back of the bus and I would wonder why the lady would have to stand when there were plenty of seats. One day I Got up and told the lady standing to please take my seat. She smiled at me and looked away. Never looked me in the eye. My mother glared at her and called me back. Then she said something to the driver and he stopped the bus and made the lady get off. She went to get off the bus. I was horrified. I just felt like it was my fault. My mother made me feel like everything was my fault.The lady smiled at me faintly. I didn't understand any of it. I was just 6 though. I didn't understand them. I do now though....
@robcheerful
@robcheerful 4 жыл бұрын
That is so sad.
@joris5116
@joris5116 4 жыл бұрын
That must have been quite tough to go through as a child...
@janick01ify
@janick01ify 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, so the lady got in trouble because you suggested that she take your seat. That like blaming a woman for being raped because she was wearing something revealing. This is all so crazy.
@kati1017
@kati1017 4 жыл бұрын
@söder bröder what stick is up YOUR butt? 🤨
@kati1017
@kati1017 4 жыл бұрын
What a poignant experience. Would be interesting to speak with your mom about this now that you're older...
@AmericanAmy
@AmericanAmy 4 жыл бұрын
This is sad but this is true history. These are the kind of things that must be preserved not destroyed. If history is forgotten it is doomed to be repeated. What a beautiful lady, we have came far but there is work to be done. Honest conversations need to be had. We all need to be united. 🙂❤️👍🙏✌️
@lucak_art
@lucak_art 5 жыл бұрын
If only this video was shown on TV at dinner time today...
@mohamedali9495
@mohamedali9495 4 жыл бұрын
Can anonymous hack the cable stations and have this playing on every channel?
@maryhjort7318
@maryhjort7318 4 жыл бұрын
I guess it was 1963 when my brother began his studies at the US Naval Academy in Annapolis MD. At a point, there was an invitation sent out to the families of his class to come visit and see what all went on there. So we went, of course, our little group of 5 white people, to see what life was like for him there. I remember being in the city (Annapolis) shopping with my mom. We were going to enter a store, so I naturally opened the door and held it open for my mom. She went in and then I continued to hold it open because behind my mom was a woman of color who was also going to enter the store. She did not go in, but gestured to me that I should go ahead of her. She was an adult, I was a kid so to me ... she should go ahead of me and I should hold the door for her, but she would not go in. I didn’t get why, but she really wanted me to go first so finally I did. When I got inside the store ... then she came in. My mom said that this was how people of color were treated here in Maryland. They were not allowed to go first ... or be given the respect children give to adults if the child was white. I and she were shocked by this ... had never seen such a thing in the Minneapolis MN we lived in.
@-BeatsKids
@-BeatsKids 3 жыл бұрын
This shows that things were bad in the north too
@ozziewolters7818
@ozziewolters7818 2 жыл бұрын
My husband used to tell me a few stories up in the Academy, so sad that stuff like this still goes on. I get so irritated and frustrated by it all, because it happens on a daily basis.
@bvclem1960
@bvclem1960 4 жыл бұрын
Great great woman !! What a lady to have as a fellow human being ! Honest, kind, angry but not bitter ! If you can still contact her, let her know there are many admirers out here.
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
LOL, but she is angry and bitter. I bet she was cursing white people in her head.
@MsHappytoo
@MsHappytoo 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gemini530 She says she is not angry and bitter, but you say she is, how do you know? Is it because you would be and therefore she must be?
@Foxglove_fairy
@Foxglove_fairy 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gemini530 one can understand why she would be, and one cannot deny that she is entitled to feel that resentment.
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 3 жыл бұрын
@@MsHappytoo … No, it’s because that is what I see from a lot of black people of today. A lot of anger and hate and bitterness.
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 3 жыл бұрын
@@Foxglove_fairy … Guess what? Everyone resents slavery and racial discrimination just like we resent other cruelties from the past. But people move on, and they don’t dwell on it and hold eternal grudges against people of today who have nothing to do with what happened in the past.
@Arid_OasisLLC
@Arid_OasisLLC 4 жыл бұрын
Such a gentle yet raw telling of a painful era. Her NRG makes you listen intently. She’s not dramatic but you could feel really feel the depth and the honesty. This was sad and beautiful. Her strength is phenomenal. I’m so glad I watched as is usual Mr. Hoffman. Thank you to both of you.
@stephdrake2521
@stephdrake2521 4 жыл бұрын
This era was in the past but the system of white supremacy is refined. It’s still here !
@theofficialcrownoftresseso4759
@theofficialcrownoftresseso4759 4 жыл бұрын
It's still here & uglier as ever.
@deeesoirscegardner
@deeesoirscegardner 4 жыл бұрын
Wow ..whilst watching this documentary its quite evident the pain never goes away ...in north ireland 🇮🇪 we love u for your heart and honesty #blacklivesmatter ....im a white Caucasian irish women against any rasism ..god bless martin luther king .
@breeyatchful
@breeyatchful 4 жыл бұрын
thank you sister. ❤️🙏🏿
@ca6177
@ca6177 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@consmath1400
@consmath1400 4 жыл бұрын
@Android ASH That was truly uncalled for...If she did feel guilty...at least the comment showed an attempt at Change
@manasseskamau5327
@manasseskamau5327 3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing as exasperating like being hated for something you can't change.
@singingplaylist7779
@singingplaylist7779 3 жыл бұрын
Hey alright!! Good to know we have a sister in Ireland!! May God bless Ireland! 💋
@thatgirlwhousedtohavereall5549
@thatgirlwhousedtohavereall5549 4 жыл бұрын
“Where would you be here without me or I without you?” I wish so much that there was something we could do to heal this wound.
@Doc_McStuffins
@Doc_McStuffins 4 жыл бұрын
@Tube Tube are you censoring "white"?
@folumb
@folumb 4 жыл бұрын
If you are a millennial, this woman is your mother's and grandmother's age. Are you really that removed from it?
@Kay-cw7wt
@Kay-cw7wt 4 жыл бұрын
folumb it’s because they don’t talk to us about it. Black people don’t talk about trauma we just move on. So to answer your question yes we are removed until we’re reminded. It could be because black peoples would like to move on from it but racist ppl keep bringing us back
@perryegolson833
@perryegolson833 4 жыл бұрын
Kris P. Kreeme How so?
@CatloafCreative
@CatloafCreative 4 жыл бұрын
I was raised around elders. I never felt removed.
@jc.1191
@jc.1191 2 жыл бұрын
Same thing back further. Time really flies by!
@justify798
@justify798 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kay-cw7wt You can only speak for your neck of the woods. We don't have to "talk about" what is happening in real time. In the last week, a few young black men have been murdered, terrorized and found dead at the hands of these 🐽. Those like you refuse to see what is happening right in front of your faces. Start with the channels African Diaspora News, Dr. Rashad, TYT, Seiji Ito, etc...Nothing has changed except some of the tactics since they can't openly just do what they really want to do against us. Now, they use the law to their advantage.
@Werkaholik261
@Werkaholik261 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I stumbled on this clip. Now I can prove all I said as facts. Maybe someone will listen instead of denying the horrible truths we lived in our younger years. I'm 58 years old and still fighting back. The younger generation can't see it because they have been taught lies. I'm here to dispell the lies and expose the truth no matter what. Thank you for doing this.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you feel as you do. She is a beautifully articulate person and passionate about the truth she is sharing. David Hoffman-filmmaker
@Werkaholik261
@Werkaholik261 4 жыл бұрын
@@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker I'm hoping the undesirables back off and stay off my block. Those that continue to ignore have been conditioned and lulled to sleep. They beed to wake up instead of rolling over. It's not too late. There's still time.
@truthatanycost3330
@truthatanycost3330 4 жыл бұрын
@Thomayam Upright.... remember when the 'idiot box' (tv) used to go off? It's a distraction to keep the American public dumbed down from what's really going on. No shade on any ETHNIC GROUP; however, ADOS comes 1st!!!! We need to cease the 'KUMBAYA' for others, til our group comes UP!!! No regrets for the comment...
@Werkaholik261
@Werkaholik261 4 жыл бұрын
@@truthatanycost3330 Ever notice things used to target melinated people have fallen upon the Gentiles? Everytime that happens, excuses are made. 🤔
@marisutton334
@marisutton334 4 жыл бұрын
Thomayam Upright Indeed facts, whatever they try to do to us it ALWAYS back fires on them, one day they will see.
@lorimichelle320
@lorimichelle320 4 жыл бұрын
I love the softness in this dear lady. Her heart seems so pure and forgiving. The ending is beautiful where she speaks of how what she went through made her who she is and how she grew stronger. She is a wise teacher and I hope this video will be continue to be a voice heard loud and clear.
@daithifinn4059
@daithifinn4059 4 жыл бұрын
You can understand why the hurt is there .Punished for doing nothing just being a different colour.
@pamelaworley4122
@pamelaworley4122 4 жыл бұрын
Unless you've been treated as less than, unless you were seen as 1/3 human, unless you were under educated, unless while walking down the street and was forced off a sidewalk even though there was plenty of room then please don't minimize this PRECIOUS LADY's pain. I grew up in segregation and the same thing she's talking about are the same things my family went through. Our schools were substandard we got used torn books, some of the schools were falling down and the only time we saw whites were when they came to our school to monitor the teacher which was another way of saying, you'd better be teaching from the material we told you to. We didnt dare go out side of our communities because of rampant attacks on those of us who did. I'm from Muhammad's Ali's hometown. Some people still make it a big deal that he didn't want to go to Vietnam..the back story to that is when he won at the 1960 Olympics he came home and was put out of a resturant. And he finally felt the deep hatred towards our people. As a small child your parents protected you as much as they could but it came a day when me as a child experienced the deep hatred of racism. When Louisville ky decided to have busing, the whole city especially those who lived in all white communities went off. They burned buses, attacked buses as they pulled up to the schools. Phone calls threating black parents that if you put your child on that bus they may not make it home. Snipers actually his in dense areas of the expressway and shot at buses coming from the black community. When you see and live under these conditions it's hard to forget. For people who have never experienced this type of hatred before please stop the it's in the pass, because at some point you try to move along but someone either by word or deed will remind you in the most subtle way.
@embr4065
@embr4065 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know how old you are, but when bussing started in Louisville they were wanting to have equal opportunity for education for all races in the schools. Not a bad idea except kids were on busses for a long time getting from one end of Louisville to another. People bought homes in specific areas for the school system then were told their child had to ride to the other side of Louisville to attend school. There was way more to this than people not wanting integration. Integration in schools already existed before bussing started. The opposition to bussing was much less about racial integration as a parent not having a choice where their child attended school or how long they were on the bus. The whole bussing thing was a colossal failure and as you probably know is not a part of Louisville school system today.
@chamboyette853
@chamboyette853 4 жыл бұрын
Pamela Worley - Really sorry about your experience. Just one question, when you say : "Unless you've been treated as less than, unless you were seen as 1/3 human ...." are you referring to only older black people, meaning younger black people can't understand? No criticism, just a question.
@user-eu3qy8uf7f
@user-eu3qy8uf7f 4 жыл бұрын
And not so subtle as we see today.
@ggraves7321
@ggraves7321 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pamela🕊
@jamesahern9864
@jamesahern9864 3 жыл бұрын
It was never about hate, it was always about fear
@rustygribbler1380
@rustygribbler1380 5 жыл бұрын
People these days need to watch this video . I'm in tears
@chri8067
@chri8067 4 жыл бұрын
True. Unfortunately today's videos are just as telling. Still much room for improvement.
@perryegolson833
@perryegolson833 4 жыл бұрын
Dexter Christian Whenever there is policy brought forth to actually make significant changes regarding issues like segregation in housing (building more affordable developments in suburbs) investing in inner city schools, or making higher education affordable, these types of initiatives are always voted down, usually by the Republican Congress. It’s been going on for decades and decades and decades. Until this changes the systemic problem will always be there.
@YouT00ber
@YouT00ber 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks to this lady for sharing her experience! Would be nice if more people saw it
@FlyG5th
@FlyG5th 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 33 years old and I live in Charlottesville Virginia. And this saddens me deeply. All we want is to be treated equally.Nothing more,nothing less.
@moyomongoose1980
@moyomongoose1980 4 жыл бұрын
I remember a visit to my uncle, aunt and cousin's place in Hampton, Virginia back in 1964. I remember the racism that existed in Virginia that was virtually nonexistent in the rural part of our homestate of Arkansas. During that visit, our parents, with my uncle and aunt, took us kids to watch the trains coming and going in Newport News. The railroad was the Chesapeake and Ohio Railroad, trains with the blue and yellow markings...It was before the days of Amtrak. There was a westbound weekend excursion passenger train stopping to pick up passengers returning from a weekend at the beaches. It was a long train with the silver liner passenger coaches, and on the back end of the train were those old Pullman coaches that were built in the 1930s (the passenger coaches like you see in the Little Rascals movies and the Laurel and Hardy movies). As a kid, I noticed the white folks were allowed to board on the silver liner coaches, and the black folks were made to board the old Pullman coaches at the rear of the train. I asked my mom, "How come only the white people can ride the new cars, and everyone else has to ride in those pookie old fashion cars?". My mom replied, "Shut up. Do you want the white people to get mad at us?". Yup...In Virginia, that's the way it was.
@vohh7401
@vohh7401 4 жыл бұрын
This is my hometown. My Dad owned a gun because the klan marched in adjacent neighborhoods. We could not swim in the all white members pool blocks from my home. Through desegregation initiative called Freedom of Choice, we were able to attend a formally all white school, kindergarten through 3rd grade, but transportation was not provided. We little 6, 7, and 8 yo’s walked about 30 minutes to get to school. I remember a friend telling the story of a white teacher beating his head against the wall. So grateful for my Mom who taught my brother and I to respect all people and their culture.
@manasseskamau5327
@manasseskamau5327 3 жыл бұрын
And I love my Kenyan flag on your profile.
@moyomongoose1980
@moyomongoose1980 3 жыл бұрын
@@manasseskamau5327 Thank you very much.
@cake2600
@cake2600 4 жыл бұрын
all i want is to give her the biggest hug
@katejacobs5491
@katejacobs5491 4 жыл бұрын
cake I know what you mean. This beautiful woman is about my age. I am heartbroken that she had experience hate from people far inferior to her. Her dignity, beauty , command of language and poise is wonderful to behold. She is a credit to her family and her community. I feel better for having listened to her but so sad that she has had to suffer so much. She certainly holds the moral high ground. History is on her side
@marilynskrepich3238
@marilynskrepich3238 4 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@marilynskrepich3238
@marilynskrepich3238 4 жыл бұрын
I want to give her a big hug
@timbuktug3321
@timbuktug3321 4 жыл бұрын
Marilyn Skrepich me 3
@ronfrancis50
@ronfrancis50 5 жыл бұрын
You are a child of a living God that loves you..God bless you.
@bkj58
@bkj58 4 жыл бұрын
So true and God has a punishment prepared for those who have mistreated their brothers and sisters while on this planet.
@user-hj1vr1jf8m
@user-hj1vr1jf8m 4 жыл бұрын
@@bkj58 yes! God always wins
@robertcarey8294
@robertcarey8294 4 жыл бұрын
If this is true , why the fuck did this living god just sit around and do fuck all about it ? , why couldn't he make an appearance and just stop it , he was quite happy to intervene in the past !.
@Bewefau
@Bewefau 4 жыл бұрын
@@bkj58 are you on crack ? uh.... it was god who told them slavery was okay and good its full of it in that book you preach about.
@chickasawstarrmountain9747
@chickasawstarrmountain9747 4 жыл бұрын
Dont disrespect folks beliefs, that's no different than being racist,being singled out and talked down to for believing in god ,is no worse ,we are all God's children and those of us who have suffered will be rewarded with peace and strong through our faith ,I wish all yall peace and happiness in jesus christ name.
@rd4454
@rd4454 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t understand why some Americans think people of color are responsible for the conditions of this country.
@TJ-gt1zz
@TJ-gt1zz 4 жыл бұрын
@UCt6BymbdBycpSJaABL_ZhmA You mean what you decimated and stole?
@monicaw22
@monicaw22 4 жыл бұрын
@money game white people?
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
I’ll tell you why. Because the diversity experiment FAILED. Look at how racially divided our country is now. Most of the social issues of today here in the US is about race. Maybe it’s time the country evaluates the American experiment or idea of diversity and identify its failures and successes and decide on how we can move forward as a better country, or COUNTRIES.
@caroltaylor205
@caroltaylor205 4 жыл бұрын
Excuse for people's that know deep down inside that god given feeling of conscious that even being white they can't remove what god created .they ignore there conscious because they have a life time of history's of being ingrained with believe there the creators of them selfs and God is a character they believe there the spirit's that are self evolution God's so they come From history with these mindsets. They are never willing to chance there ides Thank God. All white people's are not this way.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rodagrail3231
@rodagrail3231 4 жыл бұрын
Open your eyes and watch the news!!!sorry but its the TRUTH
@TrinidadSuperman
@TrinidadSuperman 5 жыл бұрын
This videos are amazing!! Nothing like first hand experience. History is an interesting thing.
@fireinthesun2408
@fireinthesun2408 5 жыл бұрын
Could not agree more!
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
Now let’s put on an unfortunate black woman from Africa in the 1950’s and compare their experiences and see which one had a better life.
@alnazgamlakhaile6394
@alnazgamlakhaile6394 4 жыл бұрын
Alexander In the 50s Africa was British, French or Portuguese colony, and their way of life was very similar to that of African Americans
@dnr2089
@dnr2089 4 жыл бұрын
I was born (white) in England in 1958, and I remember the people from the West Indies, and from India and Pakistan were starting to come over to live. Signs would appear in shop windows and guest houses which said “No Coloureds” (mind you, the guest houses also used to say “No Irish”!), and I was very puzzled about this and would ask my parents and grandparents what it meant. I was told that house values will drop if “they” move into the area, and that they were dirty. I never believed it as a child. Prejudice is learned.
@teekolinski491
@teekolinski491 Жыл бұрын
My great aunt went to England during the Windrush days from Jamaica. My family was mixed with Irish so she was on the lighter side but she said the treatment if her peers was horrifying. Still, she ended up marrying a white man & settled in London till this day. Some of her sisters came to America (where I am) but said the racism wasnt that bad because New York was a diverse city, and As I said, my mothers side is very mixed so I think a lot of them were nearly passing. My dad side who descended from Maroons had a tougher time coming to the states, even in NYC. It was more of an unspoken racism that wasnt spoken, but felt. Now, me being raised as an upper-class, 1st gen American, i never had to experience racism or discrimination. Maybe I never noticed. I'm thankful for the older generations- that they fought for better so that we wouldn't have to live in such a society.
@wilhelmeniaferren9704
@wilhelmeniaferren9704 4 жыл бұрын
The pain may never go away but this "BS" Wil not be tolerated in the 21st Century this generation said enough is enough.
@zebmakotoko658
@zebmakotoko658 4 жыл бұрын
@Wilhelmenia Ferren This has never been tolerated by black people , but it exists and continues. Did you see a video where a white police Officer tells a white woman they only kill blacks? I guarantee he is still employed. System does not tolerate your intolerance.
@wilhelmeniaferren9704
@wilhelmeniaferren9704 4 жыл бұрын
I hear you it's just well known now by social media the internet we speaking louder and clearer. "Enough"
@zebmakotoko658
@zebmakotoko658 4 жыл бұрын
@@wilhelmeniaferren9704 one love!
@singingplaylist7779
@singingplaylist7779 3 жыл бұрын
And children led the way... They were the most courageous of us all
@jamesedwards7840
@jamesedwards7840 4 жыл бұрын
I was born in 1955 in Baltimore Maryland. I can relate to what she is talking about. I remember going to a restaurant being able to order food in the back but was not allowed to set with the whites. I remember going to the liquor store with an aunt that was told she could order but could not stay in the bar because it was for whites only. I am so glad that my children were not born at that time. I have forgiving them for what they have done to us but I cannot forget. The pain did not make me weak it made me strong.
@helenbennett5707
@helenbennett5707 4 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a white catholic Ireland. The church told us we were worthless sinners.We had opportunity and education. Anyone that was not white was highly educated and respected. 1988 i spent one year in New York. Mostly I worked as a home help. I saw my boss slap a black servers hand. I challenged him and he just sneered. He threatened to fire me because I brought the delivery ma into our kitchen to give him a glass of water during a heatwave. That was it for me, the man had walked 5 flights of stairs not allowed to use the lift. I was done . I left New York. I saw the same kind of racism in England. Now in Dublin we have a truly multicultural society but I have no doubt people experience "uglyness". This ladies dignity makes me listen, really listen. I can do my bit by forgetting about the colour of skin, respect all and challenge when I see "uglyness". Love from Dublin Ireland
@wowso4
@wowso4 4 жыл бұрын
Helen your such a kind woman, I hate racist people I wish they would learn to accept others and stop their hate the world would be a better place.
@DollyPorterfan
@DollyPorterfan 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you and your family had to endure all of this. Thank you for sharing, my sister in Christ Jesus.
@kamsavart
@kamsavart 5 жыл бұрын
I wasn't born until 1975 but the 50's and 60's have always fascinated me. I have often wished to have been around during those times but realize as a black person the freedoms I have enjoyed my whole life would've been very restricted back then. I watch videos of people growing up and reminiscing of those good times, feeling the great nostalgia of that era compared to how society is now, but also a sadness because my relatives had to live being segregated by the wonder years of white, modern families enjoying life to it's fullest while blacks had to basically live on the outskirts of the country, confined to the lowest of quality living. But I'm encouraged with places and cities where segregation didn't exist and blacks/whites lived together in harmony.
@ajahmed1793
@ajahmed1793 4 жыл бұрын
Yes,pls Google,.Bilal ibn rabah Symbol of humanity.
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
I was also born in the 70’s. I was also intrigued by how life was for the black minorities in the 50’s and 60’s. And it was sad. Then I researched how life was in Africa in the 1950’s and realized why black people chose to stay here in the US 😂😂😂 Life is not always greener on the other side. No wonder they decided to put up with racial segregation here in the US than move to a black country back then 😂😂😂 Believe me my friend, if life in Africa was better than life in the US in the 1950’s, your grandparents along with your grand uncles and grand aunts, would have left the US on the very first ship available to Africa. But they stayed here in the US. And you should be thankful that they stayed here in the US and suffer the injustices here back then. Because they see a better future for you here in the US than in Africa. Have you ever thought about it that way?
@coronaboy10
@coronaboy10 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gemini530 Firstly never tell an oppressed people how they should feel about it. Its highly condescending and offensive. Our ancestors didnt choose to come here as property.You have much to learn. Sit down and listen to their stories instead of your ignorance if you can.
@zebmakotoko658
@zebmakotoko658 4 жыл бұрын
@@coronaboy10 He is ignorant. As if people in Africa were free from lynching and oppression by the same man. He truly believes the devil can reform. Thank you for putting him in his place. It's sad at the same time.
@juliat661
@juliat661 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gemini530 you sound sooo ignorant and those smiley emojis is appalling. You have no idea what your talking about and we definitely are not your friends. Stop trying to rationalize how we should feel. I don't know what research you did but africa was a rich country economically and we didnt want to come here. Africa was wayyyyy more advanced than US. Now have you considered to do some research before you choose to speak on something you dont know?. If you want to be naive and dumb, go somewhere else with that because we ain't having that ... Period...
@hollylynnoverin6126
@hollylynnoverin6126 4 жыл бұрын
A heart wrenching soliloquy. Our small mindedness ruins this Earth for all who learn and love.
@Gemini530
@Gemini530 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what I said reading about how Africa was in the 1950’s.
@ICONDulaDaRula
@ICONDulaDaRula 4 жыл бұрын
Americans knew of these horrors all these years and never did anything about it
@lindamahrer1760
@lindamahrer1760 4 жыл бұрын
IN THE mid 50'S OR SO WAS THE BEGINNING OF WHAT WAS CALLED BLOCK BUSTING. IT CREATED HARM AND GOOD. ALSO, BEGAN THE DEMONRATS PROMISE FOR BETTER CITIES ..THEY WERE ALLOWED TO DETERIORATE. WHITE PEOPLE OUT OF FEAR OF LOSING PROPERTY VALUE FLED THE CITIES. BY 1954 WAS DESEGREGATION - PUBLIC SCHOOLS WERE OPEN AND THEN, BEGAN THE HORRORS OF BUSING THESE CHILDREN ..SOME OVER AN HOUR OR MORE. I MET MY FIRST BLACK FRIEND IN JR HIGH HOME ROOM. OUR CHAIRS SAT SIDE BY SIDE. THIS WAS A VERY NICE BOY. THERE WAS ALSO, A VERY NICE NATIVE AMERICAN GIRL. I WAS AN 11 YR OLD WHITE GIRL WHO SAT ON A CHAIR IN THE MIDDLE OF TWO CLASSMATES. WE 3 BECAME FRIENDS. THE BOY MOVED THE FOLLOWING YR. NO ONE HEARD OF OUR FRIEND AFTER HIS MOVE. THE GIRL BECAME A GOOD FRIEND AND WOULD OFTEN COME TO MY PARENTS HOME AND SPEND THE NIGHT AS YOUNG GIRLS DO. WE REMAINED VERY GOOD FRIENDS AFTER OUR MARRIAGES. I WAS NOT TAUGHT RACISM..BUT SURE LEARNED A LOT AS I GREW OLDER. IT IS SHOCKING NOW, TO THINK THAT IN THAT ERA AND SOME PLACES TODAY PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE BLACK FRIENDS JOIN THEM FOR SPECIAL OCCASIONS. AT MY HOME IN 1980s I INVITED A FRIEND AND HER CHILDREN ALONG WITH ANOTHER FRIEND HER SON AND MY CHILDREN FOR NEW YEARS EVE. WE ALL BANGED THOSE POTS AND PANS. I COULD HAVE CARED LESS WHAT THE NEIGHBORS THOUGHT. THERE WERE AND ARE WHITES AND BLACKS WHO WANTED NO PART OF KNOWING OR LEARNING TO KNOW EACH OTHER. THE YOUNG SCHOOL AGE FRIENDS WHO PARENTS ONLY ALLOWED PHONE VISITS...IT WAS A TOUGH TIME THEN. THERE WAS DANGER NOT JUST TO A CHILD WHO WOULD VISIT THEN, THERE WOULD BE RETALIATION SHUNNING AND VIOLENCE TO PROPERTY.
@tj.4079
@tj.4079 4 жыл бұрын
True, and it seems America wants to turn the clock back to these times.
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 4 жыл бұрын
@@lindamahrer1760 If you really have friends of other races, why would they have to wait for a special occasion to visit you? That is not a friendship.
@michaelheery6303
@michaelheery6303 3 жыл бұрын
USA DROPPED 2.7 MILLION TONS OF BOMBS ON NEUTRAL CAMBODIA no shame
@Hefcvgjjvsgh
@Hefcvgjjvsgh 3 жыл бұрын
Chop Tank stfu and take your caps off lock
@kingdomfor1
@kingdomfor1 4 жыл бұрын
This lady is the type of person we need in government , a compassionate lady with great life experience , just imagine how great America could be if she was president.
@halinabemben9932
@halinabemben9932 4 жыл бұрын
it breaks my heart to hear this . I was born in 1960 in Poland. The land of Catholic and white people . I can say that my country learning about the slavery make me cry . I remember reading a book about it, in translation it would be called "The little house of Uncle Tom" He was an older black man , who talk about his ordeal in the time of slavery. I read that book twice . I was crying the whole time,. I was 12 years old then. We all know, that they didn't teach us they real truth . The real truth ! They lied about our history too. The second war. My country was invaded by Hitler.My Grandfather was telling me about our ordeals , it was tearing my heart out. All the Warr s , ...... There is no sense to all of that. Pain and suffering . We get people in our governments that are about Power and Greed . We need to change that. There is more of us then them. Learning the truth is one step. IT'S TRUTH , YOU ARE SO WRITE . WHAT COLOR HAVE TO DO WITH WHO THE PERIOD IS. WHAT CRIME THEY COMMITED, THERE IS CRIMINAL IN ALL RAISES. PLEASE BE Hopeful . May God bless you and all that suffer . I am with you and I will stand with you. As a White women , I too experience rasizm . I lived in America for 20 years , and I am white. Just because I am from other country In there view I don't belong . It's the same in Canada . This is where I leave now 17 years . History the truth must be learned . Young people specially , so they don't repeat the past mistakes .
@tj.4079
@tj.4079 4 жыл бұрын
She reminds me a little bit of actress Loretta Devine
@deionsamuel9340
@deionsamuel9340 4 жыл бұрын
Thought the same thing
@CL-ms4ce
@CL-ms4ce 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss they sound so alike!
@Recluse616
@Recluse616 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@lordcron
@lordcron 5 жыл бұрын
Great footage. It takes me back to my childhood in the 1970's when Busing began and I was sent to a different school in an attempt to desegregate. I remember how different our schools were. My new school was mostly white I was one of very few Black kids. I remember how modern everything was compared to the school I came from. Now my old school had a separate Gym and Lunchroom but my new school had a Gym that transformed into a Lunchroom with tables and seats that folded out of the walls and basketball rims that folding up into the ceiling. What amazed me most was the floor. It was made of a rubber material that made it silent to walk on, silent to a fork or spoon falling on it and next to impossible so slip on! The entire school was so modern but my teachers were kinda mean....
@deelooks7223
@deelooks7223 4 жыл бұрын
My parents have similar experiences growing up in Tennessee. Being a child and having to stand in corners and not look a white person in the eye while their parents grocery shopped. They ended up treating my brother, my daughter and myself this way. They moved and raised my brother and I in California, but we didn't escape racism from white people we lived around. My parents didn't talk alot about it. It took a very long time to understand them. I had to piece it all together over time. It was rough assimilating into white society with the way things were handled.
@fran2688
@fran2688 4 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. Thank you for just letting her talk without interruption. I could listen to this lady all day!
@lrow5416
@lrow5416 4 жыл бұрын
She is so regal! I love her evenness and her inner strength. I would have been her friend. Color is such a sad excuse for power and power is such a sad way to avoid unity. She’s so right...we’re all here together. Separation is really an illusion.
@carriesee7209
@carriesee7209 4 жыл бұрын
Swimming was restricted? What were they afraid of? Wth? Oh lord if I were born black back then I’d be dead now. Thank goodness she is ok. I’d be a nutcase, I believe it.
@taoman85
@taoman85 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I wasn't born in the South. She's a little older than me. I canm grew up in NJ. My 5th grade teacher had to leave cuz of her racism towards me. I didn't find that out until my late 30's.
@ICONDulaDaRula
@ICONDulaDaRula 4 жыл бұрын
And u wonder why blacks act the way we do it's hard to be black daily police, the jobs, the neighbors, taxi drivers, bus drivers, teachers, everywhere you go it's known your black and you can't escape it
@lorebay2593
@lorebay2593 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, did not want us in the water, many stories about that topic too.
@abrahamchavis1536
@abrahamchavis1536 4 жыл бұрын
Black soldiers coming back from the war (ww2) couldn't use the g.i. bill. There are plenty of examples of america hamstringing black people.
@tamiaduell218
@tamiaduell218 4 жыл бұрын
No you wouldn’t, you would learn to just bare it like we always do and always have. It’s literally exhausting.
@JadelwenRobinson
@JadelwenRobinson 4 жыл бұрын
This was one of the most powerful interviews I’ve ever seen!!! Great historical interview💯💯💯💯
@katiaruffin4906
@katiaruffin4906 4 жыл бұрын
She is simply amazing ❤️
@bringthepayne7561
@bringthepayne7561 4 жыл бұрын
I happen to think so too❤
@itsallgoodz1
@itsallgoodz1 4 жыл бұрын
My dad grew up in Georgia in the 40's, he didn't care for white people at all, I was bused and I had a dislike for white people in general. One day I was heading to a army base in Augusta, my water pump went out in anniston Alabama and two white guys pulled up in a pickup truck with Confederate flags on the front license plate with a gun rack, I was like holey shit. Those two white dudes drove me down to the parts store and put in the water pump on a very hot day and would not take money from me. That gesture made me change my mind about white people. I learned to treat everyone individually because of that.
@AM79564
@AM79564 4 жыл бұрын
Wayne I appreciate your sharing. I am 61. Ive seen many things growing up in Mississippi.. some bad some good. Whats more painful even now is this. My son does not identify with Afrecan american or Black. His father is Samoan. You'd never know it. I pray he will come to embrace all that he is and appreciate it all.
@francismuiruri9064
@francismuiruri9064 4 жыл бұрын
This is true? I read this from Nairobi and have always thought those confederates more like racist militants.
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, that’s the most confusing and luckiest story I’ve ever read. That could’ve have easily been instant death, I don’t what went through their minds.
@comeonmaaan4288
@comeonmaaan4288 4 жыл бұрын
@@francismuiruri9064 It's confusing. The Confederate Flag became a symbol of Southern US culture as well as a symbol for racists and racist organizations. There was even a popular TV show, the Dukes of Hazard, where the main characters drove a car with the confederate flag painted on it and it had nothing to do with racism. Also, keep in mind that the number of true militants, as in those who actually commit violence for a cause, is far smaller here than in rural Kenya for example. Most of the images you see of armed "freedom fighters" or "militias" here are like boy scouts playing pretend on the weekend compared to say al Shabaab. The Ku Klux Klan hasn't murdered anyone or set off any bombs in years.
@cmapp1969
@cmapp1969 4 жыл бұрын
@Edward Copeland that is a true statement. This white guy, he always say how much he loves blacks and i don't dis believe him, due to the fact of his actions. He also has a black fiance but you can tell by the way he talks that he looks at blacks as beneath him. Like they are superior. He is living a false life. Being in power or in charge does not mean you are superior, I learned that through reading the bible. If your genes are superior, you are superior. Not your skin color, or if you used force to get to a higher position. You are still inferior in your genetics.
@heatherm8284
@heatherm8284 4 жыл бұрын
My husband's grandmother used to work at the counter at Woolworth's in Louisville. She told us the story of a young black man coming in to eat and she told him to sit at the counter. This would have been early 60's; not a popular decision in Kentucky at that time. To her it was simple: hungry customer, have a seat. And from that day forward all black customers would freely sit where they wanted at her counter!!
@ca6177
@ca6177 4 жыл бұрын
Heather M good for her, too bad there weren’t more like her around!
@melaniedavenport
@melaniedavenport 4 жыл бұрын
What a lovely woman and I'm sorry and embarrassed by what she lived through. There is no excuse.
@ca6177
@ca6177 4 жыл бұрын
Melanie Davenport No excuse!
@AM79564
@AM79564 4 жыл бұрын
Embarrassment causes one to close eyes or walk away. There were many embarrassed during those times yep they did not have the courage to stand up against bigotry and hatred towards people who were innocent . Don't be embarrassed be moved enough to do something about it while you still can. The Harvest is ripe.. right now. Be a part of a better future for us all...
@dannyoneil5058
@dannyoneil5058 4 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts but the medicine is understanding.
@1maggotbrain
@1maggotbrain 4 жыл бұрын
A Queen tells her story
@folsomanna7435
@folsomanna7435 4 жыл бұрын
As a 64 yr old white woman growing up in Salem,Oregon it was pretty much all white. Since Salem was farming l saw Mexicans and Russians, Indians only..But schools were all white. Indians went to the Indian school. Russians wore bright colored skirts. Mexicans lived in Silverton,Oregon So when I moved to California in the late 70s what a shock. My parents never said a bad word about anyone. So as a adult lm good with everyone..
@jessewallacesr1722
@jessewallacesr1722 4 жыл бұрын
Miss..im a old white Texas retired cowboy. And it truely brakes my heart to hear what you and your sisters had to go through in your earlier years...as nice a person as you seam to be ,,I do wish you lady the best
@reginagaudette4644
@reginagaudette4644 4 жыл бұрын
This woman's testimony is so rich with wisdom and understanding. I listened to every word she spoke and am all the better for having done so. May God richly bless her in this life and in the life to come.....
@stephaniebowens9958
@stephaniebowens9958 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate so well to her story......I grew up in Virginia in the 50's too.
@michellejean-baptiste
@michellejean-baptiste 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I live in Northern Virginia and unfortunately, these feelings that she describes are familiar, without the signs. We don't have to allow this to be another generations familiar feelings. It takes everyone to make this a thing of the past but the first step is acknowledging that it was and is real.
@tm13tube
@tm13tube 4 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the fifties. I wondered why, for instance, adults said blacks (not their word) were dumber than whites. I didn't believe it. Smart was in your brain, not your skin color. It didn't make sense. When I was little a young black woman kept me and cleaned. I have more memories of her than my mother including evenings and weekends. I loved her and remember smiling and feeling happy when she was around. One day I pushed a chair next to her, climbed up on it, kissed her on the cheek and said I love you. She snapped back, "Don't say that to me again." It surprised me but it didn't hurt me. I guessed correctly, it was my action could get her in trouble. She is my favorite memory from pre-school age. Her kindness and gentleness set the stage for my attitude of people of color forever.
@oshunra969
@oshunra969 4 жыл бұрын
I remembered going to the movies whereas we sat up in the balcony. I believe I was around three years old in the1960s.
@sharissewilliams7855
@sharissewilliams7855 4 жыл бұрын
I'm from the Caribbean, and I'm so happy that my parents and grandparents never had to go through any of this.
@teshiahicks2544
@teshiahicks2544 2 жыл бұрын
@@qianabluethefriendlychatterbox what part of her statement offended you so bad? She appreciates the fact that her folks didn't suffer like ours did..... I wish I could say that.
@laurendaley7981
@laurendaley7981 Жыл бұрын
as someone with carribean parents, this is a pretty insensitive comment.
@irockluculent961
@irockluculent961 4 жыл бұрын
This interview drew me in and kept me listening. It is an exceptionally tender, thoughtful, and candid interview that shines from within with humanity and wisdom.
@jennifs6868
@jennifs6868 4 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful voice! this woman should read books on tape! I always wished to have such a gentle person for a mother, and I am so sorry her story is thus.
@odessalovett1544
@odessalovett1544 4 жыл бұрын
God bless her. These interviews are AMAZING. My heart is full because as painful as this is to hear it must be heard. So many of my ancestors endured mistreatment and death for me to enjoy the life that I and my daughter now enjoy. We don't have as much as many but we are blessed and highly favored! I thank God for her testimony and the testimonies of all those who paved the way for us today. She's so kind and compassionate. I find that to be the case with many of our warriors. They have every right to spew the same bile projected onto them and yet they are God's love manifested.
@Carla47156
@Carla47156 5 жыл бұрын
The schools were closed for five years, that’s amazing
@lorebay2593
@lorebay2593 4 жыл бұрын
Suze Q ain’t that crazy mess
@pwforson
@pwforson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind comments. This is my auntie. She, along with my mom and dad, from another video are living histories. This pain is entrenched STILL in the county.
@jamiegrennell3159
@jamiegrennell3159 4 жыл бұрын
This is very sad and breaks my heart, I'm so glad I never had to see my friends treated this way. I can't imagine how she felt being a small child going through this and not understanding why they are treated less then others. To be a parent and watch your child's heart hurt and have to try and explain this evilness.
@fuzziemorris886
@fuzziemorris886 4 жыл бұрын
Observe her strength as a child to pick up and carry on after the horrific attacks. That's why we are stronger than the average person.
@jackiegoldsmith5628
@jackiegoldsmith5628 4 жыл бұрын
I was raise in Va in that time,and hearing my brothers asking them why do you let them treats you that way ,not noting if our parents spoke up some of them would not live to be there to be come parents and make grandparents of our parents.Some of the things that was done to us and our woman we would never be able to talk about,but we as a people will never for get.Jackie
@acjfiddler
@acjfiddler 4 жыл бұрын
I have been viewing a lot of videos on different views of the current protests that are going on in the United States and all over the world. I am better for watching this video and I thank you for putting it on KZfaq. This woman has given me the resolve that we will get through this and I believe as she does that we are more when we are together than when we are separate. I love this lady, I wish she was my neighbour because I would want to hug her tight - of course, when Covid is over and if she lets me because there are a lot of reasons understandably why people of colour are reticent to trust. Much love to you all and may it be a shield to all the insidious racial hatred out there and inside some people’s hearts.
@shiteetah
@shiteetah 5 жыл бұрын
David I’m writing a book at the moment which is about how growing up in an apartheid South Africa made me very different to 90% of the people I have met, seen or read about. I grew up with a white family but our Zulu “servant” was also my surrogate mother in a sense, and because of the decade age gap between I and my siblings, her children were my siblings. I spoke Zulu and Xhosa long before I could speak English. My family were horrendous racists and fully supported the apartheid system. I was arrested three times for sneaking my Zulu brother into the theater, taking him to a whites only beach and refusing to let them remove him from a whites only,park bench - all before I was 16. Based on your interests, I would love to correspond with you if you’re interested.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
Of course I am interested, and I love your story, but I don't know what I could do with it. If you want to try to make a video of you describing your story, I can advise you on how to do that. I don't know anything about books other than that I read them. David Hoffman-filmmaker
@peacelove8925
@peacelove8925 4 жыл бұрын
Hope u met up with david
@DD_MENEN
@DD_MENEN 4 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow South African here
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521 4 жыл бұрын
Another video to add to the archives.
@rmontoya90066
@rmontoya90066 4 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking! Who's watching on July 2020? Not much has changed! This evil man will pay the ultimate prize! Freedom is right around the corner!!♥️🙏♥️🙏
@dalereynolds7638
@dalereynolds7638 4 жыл бұрын
This woman is a quintessential interviewee.
@dalereynolds7638
@dalereynolds7638 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, David. I feel this interview should be shown to high school and junior high school students across the USA.
@randallmarsh2672
@randallmarsh2672 4 жыл бұрын
Im Caucasian and i want to say this to this lady...i know it wasnt myself that treated you badly...but i apologize for the people that did treat you badly...and racist people make me feel ashamed and angry to be a human...i really hope you have a great life despite being treated wrongly and unfair
@CCJJ160Channels
@CCJJ160Channels 4 жыл бұрын
My God, how exhausting this must have all been. There are so many that think black people want “more”. No, we just want the same.
@porkism78
@porkism78 4 жыл бұрын
no .... we just want to be left alone
@halinabemben9932
@halinabemben9932 4 жыл бұрын
It's hard to change someone's mind. But teaching and learning it's step forward . Those who hate , will teach others to hate. Schools must start teaching the real history . Because , if a child is thought to hate at home , then there is no hope. I was never thought to not like black people . But also I always had my own mind and my own opinion . I to experience rasizm . But not in my Country , which is Poland. I emigrated to Canada 1982. Rasizm was obvious and I am white women . Just because they think this country is theirs . Same in America . I moved there in 1994,. Got married to American man. He just dump me like I was a trash . I couldn't understand why? left a huge scar in my heart. Every job I hold , there was an issue with my identity . I dated a black man for 3 years . He told me that ,When he was growing up , there was no way he could have dated a white girl. It's unbelievable and heart breaking how much hate is in people's hearts. No respect for older people is also present . In my country Poland you would be spank. Here, in Canada or America , there is no such a thing. kids , swear at you , call you names. How we raise our children is important to me. My kids never heard a word from my mouth about hating others. Specially black people . You Love everyone , no matter what color of their skin or origin. My son is engaged to a Mexican girl. There is a bad and good in all of the people . No matter where they from.
@amapparatistkwabena
@amapparatistkwabena 4 жыл бұрын
The African American experience in the United States. This is why “African” is a part of our ethnicity. We have always been and still are “othered”. Ignoring it is what racists want to do. Never. Thanks for the upload.
@inspiredbynatureinspiredby5586
@inspiredbynatureinspiredby5586 4 жыл бұрын
@Dark Pain Simply not True. Don't allow other people to misguide you. American Caucasians and African-Americans have The Same Grandfather, Trust.
@inspiredbynatureinspiredby5586
@inspiredbynatureinspiredby5586 4 жыл бұрын
The Truth is African-American and American Caucasians have The Same Grandfather. Yes, we fight but we built this country into the wealthiest country in the world. No other Country comes close especially in Asia, Africa, Latin America, and The Middle East. Now, Northern Europe currently lives very well.
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521
@polishherowitoldpilecki5521 3 жыл бұрын
Not really , African American came about during the pan Africanist movement/ Black power movement of the 1970s to identify black people and connect them to Africa. It’s equivalent to how whites and Hispanics, Identify as German American or Mexican American. It’s not to otherize, but to personify.
@curtis8954
@curtis8954 4 жыл бұрын
why cant everyone just be nice???????? /
@snoopy_peanuts_77
@snoopy_peanuts_77 4 жыл бұрын
this isnt about "everyone" this is about white supremacy ....name the problem
@islandgardener158
@islandgardener158 4 жыл бұрын
My 6 yr old son asked me that, one day after being bullied at school. I didn’t have an answer then he’s now 34.
@Doc_McStuffins
@Doc_McStuffins 4 жыл бұрын
@@snoopy_peanuts_77 exactly
@birdyhillier6096
@birdyhillier6096 4 жыл бұрын
This is real education. I am white and was born in England in 1955. I can’t believe the difference in this lady’s childhood and mine. I have taught English to multi national preschool children.....no prejudice and mostly a willingness to help each other...so sweet to watch and proof that racism is the fault of ignorant parents..We have to actively stand up to prejudice.......it’s a constant battle not won as yet. Thank you for this video.
@Ma1nguy
@Ma1nguy 3 жыл бұрын
I was born in 1947 so I fully understand what she's saying and where she's coming from. I too, am a Black American
@paintitblack6728
@paintitblack6728 5 жыл бұрын
"You're bad ,you're bad no matter what colour you are,you know? You're good you're good , What does colour have to do with it ? You see with your eyes ,and I see with mine, you smell with your nose I smell with mine, You know? But it was that, I think that a lot of people at that time would have gone along but there were those who were stronger in the community, ah, who had that top rankin' and they say No ! And the rest were afraid to rebel. Because I know there are good brothers and sisters who of a different colour, I'm wise enough to know that." This to me is so poignant of the segment here, and goes to how she articulates the feeling of what so many thought and knew, even the prejudiced people knew deep down, pass their mob mentality of hatred. This beautiful smart & wise woman is my kind of people
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
Mine too. David Hoffman - filmmaker
@CynHicks
@CynHicks 5 жыл бұрын
This unfortunate element of human nature is largely the reason for the 1st ammendment right? We naturally don't want to fight "others" fights. When they take the platform and express their grievances it eventually gets others involved. Assuming it's a worthy cause.
@lesleylofthouse276
@lesleylofthouse276 4 жыл бұрын
Such a wise and dignified lady .I believe good and bad exists in all races .However , systemic racism and exploitation of poorer people in this modern world must always be challenged as much of it comes from the upper orders whose greed knows no bounds .We need better and fairer governance across the world .
@drewofearth6681
@drewofearth6681 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. This interview touched me deeply, something that is close to impossible. How wonderful.
@intrepidtomato
@intrepidtomato 2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful person. Thanks for these interviews. This is such a joy to watch.
@mzjuju9203
@mzjuju9203 4 жыл бұрын
Im very blessed to have found David's videos. My children and i watch these weekly. I love that he shares these with us. how professional he is, but mainly the broad topics he shows. Ty
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I would love to see a photograph of you and your children watching one of my videos. Here is the email address to my office - allinaday@aol.com. David Hoffman
@lovingatlanta
@lovingatlanta 5 жыл бұрын
💡Some people say “don’t live in the past” and/or “get over it”....I’d like to know if they’d say the same thing to any Jewish person. Be mindful that it only takes a couple of generations to pass before history is repeated if it goes forgotten. We have to make sure that historical atrocities are never repeated. 💞✌️
@cbenji07
@cbenji07 5 жыл бұрын
A couple generations? More like 1 generations if you brainwash the children.
@lovingatlanta
@lovingatlanta 4 жыл бұрын
cbenji07 - 👍Absolutely! 😔 I agree with you!💝
@lovingatlanta
@lovingatlanta 4 жыл бұрын
fresh B - 👍Exactly! 100% facts! 😔😢 💝
@vromanoff84nj
@vromanoff84nj 4 жыл бұрын
@LovingAtlanta I wish your comment was up higher for people to see because damn if that’s not the truth. The double standard is glaring.
@andromeda3163
@andromeda3163 4 жыл бұрын
Edward Copeland honestly, they can’t keep the same energy
@rachill52
@rachill52 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for sharing this! This woman is profound! Her story has enlightened me in many way! I almost choke up thanking you! Thank you!
@edisinmedicine5512
@edisinmedicine5512 4 жыл бұрын
I very greatly appreciate this content 💐
@tonyrome648
@tonyrome648 4 жыл бұрын
They like to tell you that nobody is still alive from those days, but here's proof.
@Faceplay2
@Faceplay2 3 жыл бұрын
To be fair this is like 30 years old.
@914peru
@914peru 5 жыл бұрын
I think every immigrant that comes to thi country should see this video before becomes a citizen
@MarianDouglasUngaro
@MarianDouglasUngaro 4 жыл бұрын
That would be an obvious start. But much more also should occur, and all over the Americas.
@MykeFord950
@MykeFord950 4 жыл бұрын
Too many come to this country & disrespect & hate blacks without even knowing any personally unfortunately
@ca6177
@ca6177 4 жыл бұрын
They might change their minds!
@maflewis1000
@maflewis1000 4 жыл бұрын
Every human in the US....white America is waking up from their delusions
@lovingatlanta
@lovingatlanta 5 жыл бұрын
👍I love and I appreciate this (and other first hand knowledge / experience) videos. 💞
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for noticing. David Hoffman-filmmaker
@jahguide1122
@jahguide1122 4 жыл бұрын
She moved me to tears, her gentleness and intelligence..her pain and overall her hope.
@kati1017
@kati1017 4 жыл бұрын
So much hurtfulness to fellow humans!
@vickeymurphy6141
@vickeymurphy6141 4 жыл бұрын
It's women like her who is helping me understand why my mom valued education for her children. I got my GED after mom died and she was a Georgia born female.
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