That's true, and fine when you have money. My husband of 44 years passed this April 2023. Worked for the government over 30+ years. Died before he could retire. We were married 44 years. Because I'm his spouse I got his retirement. I had to provide his certified death certificate AND our marriage license. Without that just living together for 44 years wouldn't have been enough. It also allowed me to take half of my social security and half of his, which means my social security is now higher. I'm not able to work, and for those that can, if you take social security you can only work part time. He also left me life insurance we carried, and life insurance through his government job. That wouldn't work either without a marriage license. So, I'm happy for them both and understand why they've chosen not to marry, but for most of us it just isn't practical.
@DivinelyDana10 ай бұрын
This comment should be pinned. This is so important for people to read. Marriage is more than just a “piece of paper” everyone keeps referencing. Marriage is a symbol of deep commitment and gives both partners spiritual AND legal rights.
@collennewaszaknorton221310 ай бұрын
I know there are no words of solace at a time as this while you are in the throes of grief. My condolences to you and your family over the loss of your spouse and the father of your cherubs. Prayers up to you and yours. 🙏🏻😇
@frankieandtheflowers10 ай бұрын
So sorry you lost your husband 💔
@colettejaques25599 ай бұрын
Valid point....they have money.....alot of it...average person......😮😢not
@giannadedmond24257 ай бұрын
True about the social security but untrue about life insurance, you can make anyone the beneficiary.
@apureenergyme8573 Жыл бұрын
This is real relationship. This is true love. It tested by time, not by a fancy wedding or piece of state of law paper.
@angieroberts672 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree..Antioch angie
@sunrise8015 Жыл бұрын
Nonsense
@anafernandez3679 Жыл бұрын
@@sunrise8015why?
@iamimperfectionperfected4 Жыл бұрын
Money is just paper too. So give all your paper money away.
@iamimperfectionperfected4 Жыл бұрын
@@anafernandez3679well if either is Christian the Bible says so.
@Video-wi9cv6 ай бұрын
I thought they were married this whole time. Not only are they an amazing couple but I have only heard nothing but the best at how he was the best father figure for her children. He made sure he was going to be there for them. That is amazing love to not only love your woman but to love her children fully!
@personincognito39892 ай бұрын
They were both always there for their chikdren. They moved to Vancouver and lived there for about ten years so their boys could play hockey.
@nofascists4 ай бұрын
Their lasting love is inspiring. I admire them.
@delanehoward25543 ай бұрын
DON'T 🎉 ADMIRE YOURSELF AND WHAT YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH ❤❤❤✌🏾 TRUTH ❤ HE'S HIDING SOMETHING THEY ALL ARE WITH NO PAPER OPEN RELATIONSHIP💐I MEAN OPEN 😳
@janinec..beyondmeasure2 ай бұрын
Do not admire them because they disobey the Lord do not follow in their footsteps
@dimitroulak.5295 Жыл бұрын
They seem like two genuinely happy people! Met her daughter Kate when she was a teenager. She was just as happy and sweet as her mother..
@katb.585911 ай бұрын
@@choosethewright7652she is not! Stop talking bs!
@crab219511 ай бұрын
@@choosethewright7652she’s only been married once… not sure where you got the number three. she broke off a proposal after that which only proves she was smart enough to break it off before signing a legally-binding contract lol
@SA-ey6nt11 ай бұрын
@@choosethewright7652A train wreck doing way better than you it seems
@merk956911 ай бұрын
My two daughters met Kate while she was filming a movie. They just happened to walk by and Kate spoke to them when she didn’t have to. She invited them to watch after they had a conversation. It was very positive so unlike what many people have experienced with other celebrities.
@anh780711 ай бұрын
They are sweet, but if everything was truly perfect, they'd put enough trust in one another to get married.
@reinaemgarcia4490 Жыл бұрын
They both “choose” to stay. True wisdom; true commitment, true appreciation for one another, true love.
@CS-mf5un11 ай бұрын
Isn't that true of marriage since you can divorce?
@katb.585911 ай бұрын
@@CS-mf5unno, people hold on to the relationship when they're married because they are married. Even if it would be better to leave. It's the same with staying together for the kids. That's unhealthy.
@CS-mf5un11 ай бұрын
@@katb.5859 staying together for the kids is unhealthy?
@katb.585911 ай бұрын
@@CS-mf5un is that a serious question?
@CS-mf5un11 ай бұрын
@@katb.5859 is your statement a serious one? All statistics show that children are healthier in homes with both their parents.
@barbd56075 ай бұрын
Beautiful beautiful couple. I’ve been with my husband 53 years - I can’t imagine being without my best friend.
@mikelandryjr73104 ай бұрын
But your married
@jules-marcdavis68433 ай бұрын
Truly blessed❤
@blu482 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your beautiful lengthy union. It is nice to hear about couples who marry for life and are happy. ❤
@vessagroker987 ай бұрын
I love "Overboard" so much that I watch it every year! ❤ and it's really funny to see how much Kurts' role has in common with my husband 😂😂
@victoriaromero3587 Жыл бұрын
Their relationship has lasted forever because THEY'RE BEST OF FRIENDS!!! True love is friendship on fire 🔥
@margaritakleinman5701 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, and I love your definition of true love!
@ericrivera841011 ай бұрын
I fell in love with my best friend and she cheated on me twice
@karenschuh324711 ай бұрын
WONDERFUL PEOPLE
@Alex-HHP11 ай бұрын
That's the best definition of true love I've ever seen! Advance notice, I'm using that definition from now on. Thank you 😊
@GameChanger59711 ай бұрын
They're actually swingers. So yes they chose each other but they also chose everybody else lol. Probably the real reason why they don't marry.
@Snowythegoodestboy11 ай бұрын
They're not staying together because they have to, but because they want to. ❤
@missyjo24758 ай бұрын
With the right person, there wouldn't be a divorce to worry about.
@MichelleMatthews-ei8ir7 ай бұрын
Married people who stay together for years stay together because they want to also!
@jadexx17 ай бұрын
@@MichelleMatthews-ei8irI wish that was always the case
@christymckissick92177 ай бұрын
I love this! Came here for this comment!
@christymckissick92177 ай бұрын
@@MichelleMatthews-ei8ir I agree if they find a person that works, some rush in and don’t find one that works and they feel they have to stay even if abused
@emmajohnson89097 ай бұрын
I love these two together. Their love for each other has stood the test of time. Congrats you guys. I'm waiting to see so much more of this great love. 🎉🎉🎉
@taraleepenn82747 ай бұрын
My partner and I have been together 26 years this last Christmas and have never gotten married. We don’t feel the need to have to to prove our love for each other or our commitment with marriage. But we also share everybody else’s joy when they want to get married to do those things. In our hearts we are married, and that’s all that really counts to us ❤❤❤
@judithschomer627611 ай бұрын
We've been married for 49 years & dated for 3 years before that. We would do it all again. Friendship, love, laughter, tears, commitment to each other is what it takes. It either brings you closer or drive you apart. I'm glad they remain together & are happily in love. Two couples make different choices, but both couples still in love. Sweet life.
@arnitaxavier944611 ай бұрын
I love this comment. So many are unable to see there are many paths to happiness.
@rosedragon10 ай бұрын
That's so beautiful ❤congratulations 🎊 I lost my husband in accident he was 47 4 years ago but I know if he lived we would still be going strong we were friends as well ❤️ he was beautiful. Blessings to you both ❤
@Lily_of_the_valley_7710 ай бұрын
I’ve been with my Sweetheart for 11 years and we have never been married. He chose to stay and I chose to stay.
@josephmcaleer78327 ай бұрын
I know that feeling, it's irreplaceable. 💗
@IloveJesus777j777 ай бұрын
Have faith in Jesus alone to be saved.
@briemerlot2896 Жыл бұрын
Those who think marriage is just a piece of paper don't really understand marriage. And Goldie and Kurt have had a common law marriage for the last 33 years. After 7 years you are considered married in many states. My husband and I will celebrate our 50th next year! Three children and ten grandchildren have enriched our lives beyond measure! We have been so blessed! It's what I would wish for anyone!
@bigviewsmallwindow833511 ай бұрын
I am sure Goldie had to suppress the desire on some level. Most women want the security of a marriage not just the benefits of having a partner...but Hollywood sells sin loke it's the best thing since sliced bread.
@denisereclosado212411 ай бұрын
Sorry it was big news when they got legally married few years back. Sad how people forget so easily. I watched the whole news about it.
@AFAskygoddess11 ай бұрын
Wow, what's it like to think you're smarter than everyone else? (sarcasm) We understand marriage just fine. Get off your high horse. Your husband probably cheated on you just to be around a less pompous woman for a break.
@devilstine419211 ай бұрын
There is no common law marriage in California. What works for some people may not work for others. I love that they prove that you don’t have to be married to have a stable, loving marriage with beautiful children and grandchildren. No they’ve never walked down the aisle and with no common law in California no they’re not married. To each his own but it goes to show that no you don’t need to marry to be true to one another.
@sinahazar323811 ай бұрын
WoW! Congrats on your 50 anniversary, that's amazing I hope your love for each will continue to thrive as now days relationships don't last very long. So far Hubby and I will be celebrating our 28 anniversary next year ❤❤❤
@user-gb1it8vf8z5 ай бұрын
Love them Great Actor n Actress Great loving People always n 4ever❤Godie n Kurt❤❤
@RhinehartGirls4 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for them! No judgment on their decision - they have clearly put family first for decades.
@user-fy6yl6cb3y Жыл бұрын
Kurt and Goldie are one of my favourite Hollywood's couples. They are a gorgeous couple. ❤❤❤
@juliemoore5285 Жыл бұрын
You can choose to be together and be married My husband and I have been together 50 years we were married when I was 14 he was 18 ‼️💞💕
@EdnaMcFarlane Жыл бұрын
@@juliemoore5285Heyyyyy You both are Fabulous❤❤❤Im glad to know that🤗Stay happy and healthy you guys there🎉🎉🎉
@cherylbennets343 Жыл бұрын
Love them ❤️
@paulaw418 Жыл бұрын
@@juliemoore5285for all intents and purposes they are "married"
@margaritakleinman5701 Жыл бұрын
Yes they sure are!
@jenniferl1908 Жыл бұрын
A relationship that is based on true love, friendship, real connection.
@kellynessel45976 ай бұрын
It's amazing how many people have forgotten that marriage can be sacred
@stolenjunk6 ай бұрын
Why do they need a "license"?
@antoniakoseva63996 ай бұрын
@Ehooper97 Marriage is sacred without religion being involved in it.
@sbrown89376 ай бұрын
I agree 100%@@nonamejane3590
@ThePianoPlayer936 ай бұрын
@@nonamejane3590 It's not because they want an easy way out....
@Paradigmshift57275 ай бұрын
@@nonamejane3590your point is very null and void. They didn't separate, so they both didn't opt for the easy way out. It's why you think it has to have a license biding them together for it to be sacred.
@Sali-yw1rd6 ай бұрын
That’s a marriage. Marriage isn’t only legal. This IS a marriage.
@youtubecommenter10005 ай бұрын
No it isn’t
@USA-2491 Жыл бұрын
They are so fortunate to find each other after all these years they remain together❤️❤️❤️
@natalieleske838211 ай бұрын
Just maintain that same attitude while married and there won't be a divorce. I think when people get married they feel this enormous pressure to not fail that they sabotage themselves. I've been with my husband for 11 years and I can understand because everyone in my family from my grandmother to Aunts and Uncles and my parents and my cousins are all divorced. I'm the youngest and am the only one who has made it work so far. And that's because my husband is my bestfriend. I talk to him about everything and when these apprehensions about marriage come up I don't plan my exit I discuss with him my fear and we resolve it together one day at a time.
@mariahtissera319410 ай бұрын
Well said! Thank you for sharing!
@sugarfreeXcandy10 ай бұрын
Yes, I agree with you. People who get divorced are often the ones who dont respect, or even hate their significant other in some way. Always making jokes about hating the married life etc. From the beginning! Ive seen it happen. My husband is my best friend as well and we treat each other with respect
@natalieleske838210 ай бұрын
@@sugarfreeXcandy such a blessing to see people out there with this mindset. I hope you stay together forever.
@arleneh.110710 ай бұрын
I’d like to give people a break. People are human! people are a work in progress. It takes years for one to understand them selves much less understand what they want or what they need from another. Finding the right person right away, maybe sheer luck , maybe it was destiny, maybe it was pre-planned. That we are all on our journey and everyone is doing the best they can.
@evelyneconstant648310 ай бұрын
@@sugarfreeXcandysi vous avez la chance d'avoir pu garder votre couple ,vous n'avez pas le droit de dénigrer les autres pour autant, sans savoir leur histoire!voyez-vous, je me suis séparée après 11ans de mariage non pas parce que je n'aimais plus mon mari car je l'aimais toujours ce qui a été d'autant plus dur et a mis 8ans pour le divorce!il avait perdu son emploi après 4ans de mariage et a sombré dans l'alcool de plus en plus!il dépensait son petit chômage dans l'alcool ,j'étais seule a travailler tous les jours même wkend pour assumer tout même notre petite fille et j'ai dépéri de plus en plus d'épuisement physique et moral, je ne pesais plus que 48kg pour 1m68 ce fut 1décision de vie ou de mort, car sous avis médical car je dépérissais trop! Il a fallu des années pour me reconstruire et retrouver la santé !je n'ai pas fais cela de gaiety de coeur ,mais je n'avais plus le choix pour être là pour ma fille !il est décédé en 2020 du covid à 64ans à l'aube de sa pension et il m'avait demandé pardon à sa mort ,chose que j'avais fait depuis longtemps, sachant que nous passions les fêtes encore ensemble en famille avec enfants et petits-enfants, car il a tjrs regretté !nous n'avons jamais refait notre vie ,quel gachi pour l'alcool et il n'avais plus jamais travaillé depuis ,je n'aurais pas su entretenir 1homme toute vie sachant qu'aujourd'hui je vais sur mes 64ans et travaille encore depuis 45ans !le regret que j'ai eu c'est de vouloir encore 1enfant que je n'aurais jamais eu avec autre, mais ça m'a manqué !moi ,j'ai eu quelqu'un dans ma vie 16ans mais je n'aurais jamais su vivre avec cet homme ,mon ex lui est resté seul ,il a tjrs regretté et m'a aimé jusqu'à son dernier jour !on a pas toujours ce qu'on veut mais ce qu'on peut!
@cd6537 ай бұрын
My favorite couple... both are beautiful inside and out.
@williammeeker76264 ай бұрын
Been married 41 years to the love of my life ! What a wonderful life I have been living . Two beautiful daughters and a great dog!! Marriage is a give and take you know a two way street bumps along the way but I would not change anything . So blessed for all that I have!!
@JoanneRVG Жыл бұрын
Kurt and Goldie and my favorite Hollywood couples! They are still in love…❤️❤️
@kimiT180011 ай бұрын
I love them in “Overboard” Goldie seems like such a lovely woman
@naimaboukhouf9 ай бұрын
If they are happy together like that it's theirs business!!!!
@kimiT18009 ай бұрын
@@naimaboukhouf “Overboard “ is a movie they were in together…
@snowblo18 ай бұрын
I've never seen that one. I will look for it. I love Goldie
@kimiT18008 ай бұрын
It’s so funny, you definitely should!
@lisabaker90368 ай бұрын
I love them in O B too. They probably had alot of laughs making that movie. My husband said that Kurt probably loved some of the scenes like dunking her in the wash tub!😅
@kathleenseamans4 ай бұрын
They keep playing “Overboard” on TV lately. It’s the cutest Goldie and Kurt movie ever. ♥️
@OG-GenX0658 ай бұрын
If it’s not broken, don’t fix it. I love the way they love each other.
@joytoyouandme459311 ай бұрын
Breaking up after years together unmarried isn’t really much different than breaking up after being married. In both cases material belongings and feelings come into play.
@gingerhalo12311 ай бұрын
Yeah idk what they thought they were doing with that statement😂
@jaysgotjokesofficial11 ай бұрын
Not paying millions on attorneys and court cost for one. Tf.
@sinovuyobudaza716711 ай бұрын
Lol you don't buy anything together when you're not married, you come with what you have and you leave with what you brought in. It's not rocket science. I've been in a long term relationship. We didn't buy anything together.
@sinovuyobudaza716711 ай бұрын
@@jaysgotjokesofficial exactly 😂
@aintnotroublebigenough11 ай бұрын
Same thoughts
@JusticeOuinn420 Жыл бұрын
They have a beautiful relationship. My Mommy and Daddy have been married since Mommy was 18 and I believe my Daddy was 20 or 21 and my Mommy is 80 and my Daddy passed away in 2022. Every year we celebrate another year they have been married because in my eyes, they didn't get divorced. I love you both so much Rest In Peace Daddy❤❤❤❤❤
@johndean472711 ай бұрын
didn’t princess leia say no ones ever really gone.
@asamicat832311 ай бұрын
I don't understand, they divorced? A death loss isn't like a divorce
@SuperNashum11 ай бұрын
That was a different generation that doesn’t exist nowadays anymore
@funsizedi8811 ай бұрын
That is so amazing and wonderful. I'm sorry for the loss of your father. My husband and I met when we were older, but we are the first marriage/only children for us. So, while we were 25 and 38 when we met, one day I plan on being 80 and 93!
@zerjiozerjio11 ай бұрын
You mean that in your eyes they’re still married despite his death?
@kuroe-chan51906 ай бұрын
This is one of that times where this worked for them and it shouldn’t change. They are the best
@wahwahworld-hr8to7 ай бұрын
Same here 25 years boyfriend n girlfriend, raised 7 children and going strong 👍😁👌
@sherry5667 Жыл бұрын
I love it! They choose to stay together every day. That’s more romantic than a wedding!
@ginamcdonald7854 Жыл бұрын
Adultery???
@desertrose351111 ай бұрын
1 You don’t need a wedding to be married. 2 that is what a married couple is supposed to do, they choose to love and to cherish each other every day
@thatsauce8826 ай бұрын
@@ginamcdonald7854adultery is when someone cheats in a marriage. They are girlfriend and boyfriend.
@ginamcdonald78546 ай бұрын
@thatsauce882 I didn’t say they were committing adultery! Someone made that comment and I questioned the comment “adultery???”. I’m well aware of the definition of adultery!!!!
@thatsauce8826 ай бұрын
@@ginamcdonald7854 okay. I didn't see the comment your were commenting.
@SD-nh5yr Жыл бұрын
They are still in love, you can just tell ❤❤❤❤
@vk888647 ай бұрын
I love these two. I feel you don’t need a wedding or a piece of paper to prove how committed you are to someone you love. Love is Love ❤️
@tsdbhg7 ай бұрын
Anyone telling you that you should get married has no clue what they are talking about. Don't feel pressured by societal norms. Its your life. Live it the way you want.
@carolynnorman4996 Жыл бұрын
No theirs is a true commitment of love, honor, loyalty and respect.♥️
@sweden21511 ай бұрын
The way those two look at each other says it all. True love, admiration and respect.
@lindafroehlich36124 ай бұрын
They are truly one of my favorite Hollywood couples. It works for them. It isn't for everyone, but they are happy and enjoying their lives. Blessings to them both-🌺
@sarahswanger9797 ай бұрын
This implies that if they were married there’s a fear of divorce and that when people are married they don’t have a choice to stay together… it’s NONSENSE!!! It’s because Goldie has been married twice before and she didn’t want another divorce. We constantly choose every single day! I’ve been married for over 22 years and it’s been a beautiful wild ride. If I didn’t have my actual marriage it would’ve been so much easier to walk away.
@ocsweetputube Жыл бұрын
They're priceless & share their endless & eternal love together!! So special!!
@lldemeo46 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love Kurt and Goldie …true love right there ❤️
@tessiesalinas80116 ай бұрын
In a hospital bed, i ask an elderly lovely couple, the secret to a long marriage. Who been married 48 yrs. Very sweet lady, caring for his ill husband, once said to me that the secret to keeping a marriage is Communication, patience, and tolerance. Lots of communication. No texting, misunderstandings can arise. The Communication and patience came from the husband, and the wife mension tolerance. Because she had to tolerate a lot of his bad habits. When we run out of these we run out for a divorce. We stop trying. Because its easier not to deal with it, than deal with it. Zero tolerance, zero communication and with zero patience. Whoever Tolerates you the most is the person who cares and loves you the most.
@EDITS-767 ай бұрын
They're actually so adorable, been together 40 years and still going strong. That's Love❤️
@oswaldoreyes9066 Жыл бұрын
They have been a beautiful couple forever, so they are basically married.
@margaritakleinman5701 Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@lizadivine3785 Жыл бұрын
They were and remain ADORABLE
@Louloupetals7 ай бұрын
They got it down!! This is a genuine relationship built on love, loyalty and respect.
@VampireQueenBrittany6 ай бұрын
Very true, divorcing costs $$$. They're pretty smart! And if not being married works the best for them that's great! ❤
@gaylebrady2678 Жыл бұрын
There couldn't be two more deserving people of true love and real happiness❣️
@fadedglory104511 ай бұрын
Everyone “deserves” true love and real happiness. Your statement is strange.
@nancydemoss294510 ай бұрын
They have always been a beautiful and inspirational couple. ❤️
@machellecron57863 ай бұрын
I’ve been married once before. Now I believe that when two people are together for many years and not married, it shows a true testament for their love for each other. A divorce takes so much paperwork and trouble to complete so people decide not to do it and stay together for the wrong reasons. Those two definitely hold true love for each other. 💞
@essenceocean5956 ай бұрын
Everyone’s arguing that they have true love because at any time they can walk away but they’re also saying “at any point in time if someone better comes along I might leave you for them.” One could argue that they’re constantly not choosing each other because they’re not committing. A marriage represents a bond. A promise. That means something. I heard a lot about not wanting more divorces. It sounds like she’s scared of marriage because she doesn’t think they’ll last. So she’s avoiding the divorce by avoiding the marriage. That doesn’t sound like true love. True love would be willing to commit. We all know this.
@oolala534 ай бұрын
Because she doesn’t think it will last?
@bigbrutal_01794 ай бұрын
Easiest answer is…it’s not necessary. Marriage as defined by law is an economic commitment / legal union and why do either of these individuals need that? If i’m wrong, please show me a law that regulates feelings…which is what likely got them into the relationship.
@mat70834 ай бұрын
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@nowanatall4 ай бұрын
Except that people walk out of marriages all the time so....
@KerryHopkins4 ай бұрын
They are committed to
@crybebebunny Жыл бұрын
I personally think that a paper is just a technically that allows one to help the other be the one deciding health issues. The need of having a stable, respectful relationship and the will to choose one another dose not change nor the commitment if there is a particular paper. My partner and I got married to celebrate our LOVE and Commitment to each other, plus it gave each other respectful rights under the law.
@monarene4411 ай бұрын
The only thing though, is that even if married, if one or the other had debilitating health issues, the courts could step in and appoint a guardian or a conservator. Guardian takes all. Everything.
@crybebebunny11 ай бұрын
@@monarene44 That is so sad. I truly don't understand that or why. I know that my husband would appoint my oldest daughter. She is not his blood daughter, but he trust her judgment.
@monarene4411 ай бұрын
@@crybebebunny I agree it’s sad and one of life’s sad ironies. It’s important to have estate planning papers in place: will, durable power of attorney, health care surrogate, and advanced directives. This all by itself can prevent minimize the risk of a guardian taking over.
@crybebebunny11 ай бұрын
@@monarene44 Thank you for sharing your wonderful knowledge❣️
@CS-mf5un11 ай бұрын
@@monarene44that's not really true. A guardian cannot rob a spouse of their marriage rights.
@lisaduke9836 Жыл бұрын
Adorable couple. So lucky to have found each other. ♥️🌹
@valoriesalzman91168 ай бұрын
We've been married for 40 yrs and we feel the same you do unmarried. Blesses to you both! ❣️
@jeandoll257 ай бұрын
Some people act like marriage is a curse. They can still separate after all these years. Most are probably speaking from marriage failure experience. Actual marriage is a beautiful thing and not just a piece of paper. It’s sacred and has true meaning. Who’s to say neither of them wanted marriage. Maybe one of them chose to settle because the other one didn’t want it and it was just easier that way
@lilyblu457711 ай бұрын
They've always looked like such a loving couple. Happy for both of them. :)
@marsargoxmiso1695 Жыл бұрын
One of the most beautiful couples in Hollywood and the longest lasting relationship I’ve ever seen you can tell that they love and respect eachother so much.
@staciroberson83088 ай бұрын
I like what she said, "chose to stay" It makes sense. 2 ppl choose each other & stay together bc they chose to. When a piece of paper says u have to it takes away your freedom of & limits your choices in life to grow.
@Mouseluv803 ай бұрын
Nobody needs a piece of paper to defy your Love, if y'all truly love each other y'all stay together with or without paper, the fact y'all did and it's been 40 years is amazing 💕💕 congratulations 💐💐
@lotstodo Жыл бұрын
They are great together. I remember her saying something like, sure, I'll take a ring, but a wedding isn't necessary. And they have great kids.
@Ciclopea211 ай бұрын
This relationship is so real that Kurt is like a father to Goldie's daughter Kate, she gushes about her dad Kurt, i love their commitment to each other and their extended families.
@christinemalloy-brooks75407 ай бұрын
So get married and don't get a divorce. Not getting married doesn't prevent a split up or save you money or tragedy.
@s.e.e4556 ай бұрын
But why would you live with that fear-filled mindset, “I’m prepared for a future divorce or split, even though we’ve been with each other for years and enjoy each others company and promise to stay together?” Marriage is more than just a fancy wedding or piece of paper, it’s a strong contract, a sign of trust, making promises not just to your spouse, but to their family. If you can’t trust a persons written agreement, then you aren’t fully trusting their verbal agreements, either. There is always an escape route, but no true boundaries in the relationship. Marriage sets clear expectations that can’t be forgotten.
@bluebuddy46422 Жыл бұрын
love these two together ,they just fit
@NanaGagie Жыл бұрын
50 years for us ❤❤❤
@dodiegemignani7347 Жыл бұрын
I loved them in "OVER BOARD" It was so Hilarious!!!❤ Laughter is so Healthy for all of us!😊
@tp714710 ай бұрын
Love these two. Live your life how you want not what others expect. Go Goldie and Kurt ❤
@VickieLee-xt4jw8 ай бұрын
I love these two as Mr and Mrs claus, and they should continue and make a couple more shows.
@jerrylattimore92323 ай бұрын
2 OF MY FAVORITE STARS. KURT FOR "THE THING" GOLDIE FOR BEING GOLDIE.
@angieroberts672 Жыл бұрын
Right on Kurt Russell & Goldie Hawn.. it's all about loving each other and enjoying life together..I'm happy for both of you..I was with my daughter's father for 30yrs..but some people have it some people don't..Antioch angie
@barbararippert1184 Жыл бұрын
Divorces hurt children the same as when the couple part after years of marriage.
@darnells.155811 ай бұрын
Yeah,and car wrecks hurt your insurance premiums after years of driving but you still get your license to drive!
@barbararippert118411 ай бұрын
Not sure what that means 🎉
@tianamarie98911 ай бұрын
Did you mean to use marriage at the end? It would make more sense if you said "after years of a relationship"
@SassyST7 ай бұрын
I did a double take at the photo of Kurt and his first wife at their wedding. Looked like Elvis and Priscilla at first! Love Kurt and Goldie. Match made in Heaven!
@honeysucklerose1345 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. Quickly scrolled through the comments to see if anyone else noticed.
@JohnDyer-jc9xc7 ай бұрын
I feel no couple should ever feel pressured into getting married! I for one witnessed and endured the separation of my parents at a young age, it left a mark in my life, Questioned by an elementary school teacher as ,"Well Bear, do you ever see your self getting married?". While many other classmates replied with an over joyous, "Yes!" I replied no! I did not devulge my reasoning, but, I am sure the hard time I was put through while my parents separated made an impact, eventually my parents were persuaded, by another family member to keep the family together it always made me feel like that marriage was not for me. I would date many girls, but one day I fell for a girl I cared for deeply, we dated, eventually wed, but, our relationship or marriage was cursed it seemed, she was a divorce already marrying a guy who she would later divorce due to emotional and physical abuse. We worked through all her mental and physical fears about men although we were married for 15 wonderful years and did many wonderful things together, But, eventually my drinking, and womanizing brought an end to that marriage it just goes to show that some were not meant to marry.
@IreneJLyles10 ай бұрын
I loved Overboard 🤣🤣🤣 he named her "Annie". They look happy ❤
@millieparker7723 ай бұрын
Yea Love That Movie too 😂😂 They do belong together ❤❤
@sagittariusa4855 Жыл бұрын
Goldie is the cutest girl from that time. I love them both, my childhood movie heroes ❤❤❤❤❤
@trueinthekitchen7 ай бұрын
Reminds me so much of my mom and “step-dad” aka her boyfriend of 10 years and counting. They got together at age 55 after each being married to their exes for 25 years. They don’t live together (not until they’re too old to be apart safely) and they won’t be getting married. I think that kind of love is so sweet and genuine.
@austinperkins19869 ай бұрын
Hope springs eternal. Thankyou both for loving each other so wonderfully that HOPE flowed out and smacked us in the HEART!
@Rafaela201907 Жыл бұрын
In a marriage you can also choose to stay...
@trobinson8911 ай бұрын
Thank you! I was looking for the comment. That part made no sense to me. Marriage doesn't stop or hinder you from "choosing" to stay together.
@PixieLovesItAll11 ай бұрын
But there are legal, cultural, and often religious ramifications to marriage, overlooking that is purposefully avoiding the point of her statement. The only thing tethering them together is their commitment to their relationship, which holds weight in itself.
@ivahihopeful11 ай бұрын
The whole thing was answering the question “why to not get divorced” not “why not get married.”
@vanessamccarthy780711 ай бұрын
As someone who has also chosen not to get married, I think theres a comfort and a sense of added security that you are together because you are both actively choosing it on a daily basis rather than possible insecurity that either party is staying only out of duty, feeling trapped, financial security etc. Getting married with the view that if it doesn't work out you can get divorced (which many hold) seems to negate the statement of commitment that marriage should bring. However I do believe that all relationships, married or not, require daily work.
@jasminepetal397211 ай бұрын
So ? They seem pretty committed to each other so who cares if theyre married or not
@dawnlovedobermans Жыл бұрын
Even if you weren’t married and split, it’d STILL hurt the kids! This reason sounds more like a reason to not marry AND not have kids!
@danadavis833311 ай бұрын
They've been married before so there's no point to getting married
@EmyN11 ай бұрын
No, divorce can exacerbate the split
@helvaxh834811 ай бұрын
I get what you’re saying and you’re not wrong but I think her point was about the divorce process itself. She mentioned how divorce makes people hate their spouse even more than how they felt before they filed. These things can get nasty. And people may do and say things they wouldn’t originally have. Kids typically get caught in the crossfire of this. When there’s less of a process, less to lose, less uncomfortable court proceedings, less to stir up animosity; cooler heads tend to prevail and there’s more cooperation and that can go a long way toward making the separation easier on kids. It’s not for all situations, of course. It depends on the people involved.
@pussydestroyer6928511 ай бұрын
Sure but it will cost WAYY less money and the split can be quicker and seamless than divorce which can literally take years to settle
@pocasanchez11 ай бұрын
@helvaxh8348 exactly. I've been w my partner for 20 years, never married, but we did split for a year after having kids. Bc we didnt have to divorce, it was very easy and the kids hardly noticed, other than having less stressed parents. Obviously we were both able to remain civil, sane, rational etc which is a big deal regardless of marriage but I honestly think that if we had married and divorced, we wouldn't have ever gotten back together bc it would have been so traumatic, expensive, stressful, scary, life-altering etc. Bc we never married(we were engaged at one point though), we were able to drift apart and then drift back together peacefully and naturally w no court, 3rd party, fighting, financial loss etc. We even bought a property w 2 houses on it so that we could live separately but raise kids together. Eventually we got back together, he moved in w us and his grandma moved into his small house lol
@jmedakwon6 ай бұрын
Kurt gave her a ring. She liked the ring but didn't comment further. Glad they are having a pleasant life together & know how to make each other laugh.🎉
@julierobinson81738 ай бұрын
Yes I like the fact that they stayed together because of them and not because of money, or legal papers ❤
@romasheryl2931 Жыл бұрын
Best decision ever , a piece of paper is not love it’s a contract .
@waterfrontlynnie Жыл бұрын
Verbal or written, they still have a contract with each other.
@brontiq11 ай бұрын
I'd say the reason they never got married is slightly less romantic than what they tell to the world.... But it's their choice and I can only respect and admire they lasted for this long. Not so common these days, especially for celebs
@simplymarilyn529511 ай бұрын
True love is not a contract......it's a decision ♡
@peggyclause88478 ай бұрын
Marriage is a way to protect each other.
@omnipotentwiz51017 ай бұрын
@@peggyclause8847protect each other from what exactly? If you need that protection you should not be getting married. Marriage is a business contract that has no place in true love.
@lycan64557 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@IloveJesus777j777 ай бұрын
Have faith in Jesus alone to be saved.
@morganadams29007 ай бұрын
It IS a decision, every single day, married or not ❤
@andrewk-majordochomerepair60145 ай бұрын
Their chemistry was undeniable in Overboard; still a super fun Rom-Com
@JMac73957 ай бұрын
The joke is kinda on them. There are 14 states in the US that recognize Common Law Marriage. So, depending on what state these two have been sharing a home together, they would technically be considered a married couple for 40+ years.
@r.sanders84486 ай бұрын
Nope... and NOPE. 🙄 Only •SIX• States now currently legally recognize and enforce Common Law marriages for the past two decades, at least.... all other U.S. States and Territories •DO NOT• .... so 'Common Law" marriage nor however long that ppl have already lived in cohabitation out-of-legal-wedlock doesn't mean Jack Squat to •any• U.S. court system OR to any Government Office in the case of any potential future claims for a deceased partners assets or government/legal benefits if you don't happen to live in one of the only six States that ●DOES● still recognize and enforce all of the legal requirements for a Common Law marriage to apply. And since these two particular people that this video and topic of discussion is about to begin with... have lived in the State of California, (which DOES NOT recognize nor uphold Common Law marriage), literally for decades BEFORE they even met each other and have also lived in that State ever since afterwards, too ---- then a 'Common Law' marriage between them nor anything else regarding such is even remotely relevant nor applies here in this particular situation and context for you or anyone else to even bother trying to bring a buncha "Common Law" marriage BS in to any discussion about these two particular people as if it would, or even •could•, ever even actually possibly ●MATTER OR APPLY● to their relationship in the first flippin place. 🤷♂️🤣🤣🤣
@allthingswavy6420 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Love is a choice.
@shevawnprather7162 Жыл бұрын
Cutest couple! Both great actors and happy they found each other! 🙏❤️
@lesjoe32405 ай бұрын
So true. My hubby and I never walked down the isle of matrimony. He and I were together since I was 18 and he was 25. He passed away August 18, 2020 at 10:05 a.m. in my arms. And I will never love anyone else... because we have an EVER LASTING LOVE ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@spacecoffee73237 ай бұрын
I know tons of couples their age that never married for similar reasons! I find it beautiful.
@chingmondano3801 Жыл бұрын
Both are in love truly,handsome and beautiful. Happy holywood couple ..❤❤
@user-dj2im9we3g11 ай бұрын
These two actually know what love is...true commitment...passion... putting all they have in their relationship...examples. Love them both and they are both such great actors
@judycolson60473 ай бұрын
They are married biblically as that’s where it starts (consummation/commitment). The courts can’t marry anyone realistically. They just give you a “certified” document. The institution of marriage began in the Bible. I applaud Goldie and Kurt on the longevity of their “marriage” and commitment. They’re smart.
@heatherwilson34112 ай бұрын
She looks so much better now then she did back then! She looks great!
@Elaine8492 Жыл бұрын
If it ain't broke...❤
@ceeejay9112 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@rachael7060 Жыл бұрын
Yup!!!❤
@darnells.155811 ай бұрын
It's not going to be broke because it was never manufactured! They never got married! It's called a broken marriage,not a broken relationship.
@ceeejay911211 ай бұрын
@@darnells.1558 you obviously don't understand the saying "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" ffs
@Abigail_Wyatt11 ай бұрын
@@ceeejay9112they’re probably some 13 year old trying to sound older or interesting in anyway possible. Let them learn the hard way like everyone else.
@klynmichellesaintspetersan6487 Жыл бұрын
From Disney,to escape from New York,to Goldie 😅not to shabby ❤ bless you both ❤. In a word so messed up. I love them🎉😊
@jhood7589 ай бұрын
As many years that they’ve been together they basically have a common law marriage. They have one child together. An raised (step)children together. Had they decided to break up there still would have been legalities. Especially when their son was young.
@satinesupernova5776 ай бұрын
For the same reason, I stand with them. And they proved it. They made it. So, yess I am with them. Hope their r/s will last forever❤️
@barbaradefaria5604 Жыл бұрын
Stunning couple...wishing them many more happy years together ❤️
@thoquach7609 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful & fortunate couple.❤
@lauriehare90047 ай бұрын
My all time favorite couple. I've always loved them together. They are a true inspiration! ❤
@KimChi-wz7mk4 ай бұрын
Imagine living everyday with someone who isn't fully committed to you and keeps the door open so she / he can easily leave.... sounds beautiful.